On Tha Mic with M and T

Send us Fan MailThe Nolan Wells case is dominating headlines right now — and it's exposing a much bigger problem than one bad actor. In this episode of On the Mic with the M, we start with the disturbing details of the Nolan Wells case and what they mean for how you protect and prepare your kids in a world full of danger signals that adults miss.But the same integrity gap that let this happen is the same gap wrecking modern dating and relationships. We go deep on the 4% man standard, the real financial expectations in today's dating market, dating with kids in the picture, the bad boy trap, and what it actually takes to hold a marriage together for 30+ years — no filters, no shortcuts.Chapters: 0:00 Protecting Kids in a Dangerous World 4:15 Peer Pressure and Peer Awareness 8:30 Raising Leaders vs Followers 12:50 Lessons from the Nolan Wells Case 17:10 Equipping Your Child's Toolbox 21:45 The Role of Integrity in Success 25:30 Secrets to a 30 Year Marriage 29:45 Dating Standards and Presentation 33:50 The Bonnet Debate and Public Etiquette 38:15 The 4 Percent Man and Financial Reality 42:30 The Truth About Expensive Dates 46:50 Navigating Dating with Children 51:10 Avoiding the Bad Boy Trap 55:20 What Do You Bring to the Table 57:00 Celebrating 45k SubscribersSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailWelcome back to On The Mic with the M & T 🎙️Today’s episode gets REAL.We’re breaking down the harsh truth about modern dating — from transactional relationships 💰 to lack of accountability, deception, and why men and women keep pointing fingers instead of fixing themselves.Is dating really broken… or are people just making bad choices?In this episode, we talk about: Why dating feels like a “jungle” today The rise of transactional relationships Who’s really responsible — men or women?  Why accountability is missing in modern relationships  The difference between boys, men, and grown men How social media is distorting reality 📱  Why discipline, purpose, and self-awareness matter This is not sugar-coated. This is real talk.If you’re tired of the games, confusion, and chaos in dating… this conversation is for you.💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments: Is dating broken… or are people the problem?Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailIn this raw, unfiltered conversation, we break down one of the most controversial topics in modern relationships: single motherhood, absent fathers, and the cultural blame game that’s destroying families.Sparked by a viral clip labeling women as “single moms” versus “difficult women,” this episode dives deep into the real reasons families break down — broken boundaries, unresolved resentment, poor leadership, and emotional immaturity on both sides.We talk about:Why respect is non-negotiable in co-parentingHow men abandoning responsibility creates generational damageWhy women’s anger doesn’t come from nowhereThe emotional, psychological, and social cost paid by childrenHow sexual irresponsibility fuels STD surges and community breakdownWhy saying “I don’t need a man” or “I don’t need a woman” is a lieThis episode isn’t about blaming men or women — it’s about accountability, discipline, and raising children who don’t end up broken by adult mistakes.If you care about family, community, and the next generation — this conversation is necessary.🎧 Listen. Reflect. Share.CHAPTER BREAKDOWN:01:00 – “Single Moms” vs “Difficult Women” ExplainedReacting to the viral clip and defining the controversy.04:30 – Men Leaving During Pregnancy & Emotional FalloutWhy abandonment creates rage, trauma, and long-term damage.08:30 – What Single Motherhood Really MeansWhy support ≠ not being a single mother.11:30 – Why Struggle Is Wrongly Attached to Single MomsChallenging stereotypes across communities.14:20 – Children Are the Real VictimsHow adult resentment damages kids permanently.17:00 – Co-Parenting Without Respect Is a LieWhy disrespect kills cooperation.20:00 – Boundaries, Responsibility, and Time RespectWhy “I’ll call you whenever” is toxic.23:00 – Men Avoiding Courts, Child Support & AccountabilityHard truths about manipulation and weak leadership.27:00 – Why Sleeping With Your Child’s Mother After Breakups Is DangerousFalse hope, confusion, and emotional sabotage.31:00 – The Role of Fathers in Raising Strong BoysWhy absence creates emotional and social dysfunction.36:00 – When Fathers Try to Return Too LateWhy grown children don’t forgive abandonment.41:30 – STD Surges & Sexual IrresponsibilityHow reckless behavior becomes a public health crisis.46:00 – The Lie of “There’s a Pill for Everything”Why prevention, discipline, and boundaries still matter.49:30 – Parenting, Crime, and ConsequencesWhy bad parenting leads to irreversible outcomes.55:00 – Men & Women Need Each OtherThe core message: partnership, not warfare.59:30 – Final Message to Parents & the CommunityA call for maturity, accountability, and leadership.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscover why modern dating is completely broken 💔 in this raw, unfiltered episode of "On the Mic w/M & T." From superficial social media-driven dating to the myths surrounding gender roles, we tackle the harsh realities of today's relationship landscape. Join the candid conversation on the good, the bad, and the ugly of dating in the modern world—touching on emotional intelligence, healing, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're navigating the dating game or trying to better understand love and connection, this episode offers valuable insights, real talk, and a call to grow beyond the chaos. Hit play and dive into the truth behind the trends.#datingstruggles #onlinedating #datinggame #datingtrends #datingissuesCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:15 - The Dating Game Issues02:30 - Men Being Taken Advantage Of05:00 - The Games in Relationships07:30 - The Hurt People Carry12:41 - Healing Together vs Alone17:35 - Men Taught to Suck It Up21:37 - Men Beyond Financial Roles24:35 - Raising Young Men Today26:50 - Understanding Yourself28:55 - The Masks We Wear33:10 - Emotional Intelligence & Control40:00 - Caution with Quick Relationships41:37 - Stopping the Love Search43:19 - Living for More Fulfillment48:49 - Imperfect Relationships Exist49:35 - Importance of Self-Love50:00 - Thank You for 35K Subscribers50:17 - Like, Comment, SubscribeSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailHey there, friends!I’m thrilled to share some juicy insights from our latest episode of On the Mic with The M and T. This week, we dove into the nitty-gritty of marriage, especially when it’s lived under the public eye. Here’s a sneak peek of what we covered:Key Takeaways:Public vs. Private: We debated the fine line between sharing personal struggles and keeping certain aspects of marriage private. Is honesty always the best policy?High-Profile Pressures: We discussed the unique challenges faced by women married to celebrities and athletes. The scrutiny is real, and it’s intense!Communication is Key: We emphasized the importance of having those deep, honest conversations with your partner rather than airing grievances publicly.Protect Your Empire: Your family and personal life are precious. Be mindful of what you share and with whom.Financial Realities: Sometimes, it’s not just marriage or kids holding you back—it could be a lack of money or discipline. Let’s count our blessings and move forward!Regret and Reflection: We reflected on how public comments can be misunderstood and the importance of having a good support system to navigate the fallout.Discretion and Boundaries: Not everyone is invested in your happiness. Keep some conversations private to maintain peace and protect your relationship.Curiosities and Lessons:Margarita Mondays: We joked about how some discussions are best reserved for close friends over drinks rather than public platforms.Teatime vs. Locker Room Talk: We compared private conversations among women to men’s locker room talk—share just enough without revealing too much.The Power of Words: Your words are powerful. Use them wisely to avoid unintended damage.This episode is packed with candid, humorous, and heartfelt discussions that you won’t want to miss. Whether you’re married, single, or somewhere in between, there’s something here for everyone.Call to Action:Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and take care of yourselves. Protecting your personal life and relationships is a vital part of self-care and happiness.Tune in to On the Mic with The M and T for more real talk and valuable insights. I can’t wait to hear what you think!Warmly,The MSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailStop blaming others and take control of your life—accountability is the key to lasting change. In this episode of "On the Mic with DM and T," we dive into the importance of taking ownership of your decisions and actions in relationships, finances, and personal growth. From navigating modern dating and marriage dynamics to adapting in a world of economic uncertainty and AI-driven changes, this conversation sheds light on how to stop making excuses and start making progress. Hear candid discussions about protecting your worth, building meaningful connections, and fostering resilience in challenging times.Are you ready to take responsibility and level up in every area of your life? Tune in for real talk, practical insights, and strategies to help you stop pointing fingers and start making empowered moves. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop your thoughts in the comments below—let's grow together!#selfimprovement #communicationskills #psychology #selfdevelopment #relationshipadviceCHAPTERS:00:00 - Is Marriage Even Worth It Anymore01:58 - Protecting Your Assets03:18 - The Foolishness of Not Protecting Your Assets04:35 - The Importance of Protecting Your Assets05:55 - The Emotional Side of Protecting Your Assets10:41 - Tyrese and His Wife11:39 - Influences on Your Relationship12:51 - The Love Left After the Theft14:22 - What You Don't See in a Healthy Relationship19:40 - How Did We Get Here22:49 - Men Need to Slow Down31:50 - Motivate Him to Get More37:00 - AI is Here and It's Not Going Anywhere40:40 - Job Market Challenges43:00 - Impact on Black Women46:13 - Effects of Government Assistance49:24 - Stop Blaming Others51:57 - College vs. Marriage56:46 - Start Your Own Business57:50 - Job Creation Challenges58:40 - Acceptable Salary Range01:01:10 - Accountability01:02:10 - OUTROSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailModern dating is broken, and this video explores why men and women struggle to connect in today’s world. From unrealistic expectations and financial pressures to a decline in emotional intelligence and leadership, we talk about the challenges destroying modern relationships. Are gender roles outdated? Why are we stuck in a cycle of blame and mistrust? And how do we rebuild healthy connections in a world that overvalues transactions over teamwork?Join us as we unpack these issues with humor, raw honesty, and personal stories, offering insights into what it takes to build meaningful partnerships. Whether you’re frustrated with the dating scene or searching for ways to improve your approach, this video has something for you. Let's navigate the chaos of modern relationships together. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real conversations. Share your thoughts in the comments—how do you think we can fix modern dating?#ships #jayshetty #creativewriting #dynamics #relationshipCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:25 - Men and Gold Diggers05:51 - Wife Duties vs Girlfriend Duties11:28 - Pursuing the Right Woman14:56 - Emotional vs Logical Thinking18:50 - Stop Making Poor Choices22:10 - Self-Control in Relationships25:40 - Understanding Retainer Fees28:10 - Leadership in Relationships32:20 - Importance of Emotional Intelligence37:49 - Analyzing Your Last Relationship43:10 - Building a Healthy Relationship45:48 - Men and Communication49:48 - Trust Issues Among Men54:20 - Rules of the Relationship Game57:05 - Understanding Deception01:01:50 - Privacy and Trust: Partner's Phone01:08:20 - Final ThoughtsSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailWhy are young men struggling today? 😔 In this eye-opening video, we dive into the challenges young men face in today’s world—rising mental health struggles, loneliness, education gaps, stagnant job opportunities, and societal pressures. From alarming statistics on depression and suicide rates to the economic hurdles and lack of male-focused resources, we break down why so many young men feel left behind. But it doesn’t stop there—we explore actionable steps to find purpose, build skills, and create a brighter future. If you’re ready to understand and tackle these issues, this is a must-watch. Join the conversation and let’s work towards solutions together! 💪CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:22 - Mental Health Awareness01:17 - Employment Opportunities02:26 - Social Connections04:00 - Big Picture Perspective05:51 - College Education Insights07:11 - Immediate Needs Assessment13:42 - Education and Boys' Learning Styles16:53 - The Education System Overview20:33 - Value of a College Degree22:28 - Exploring Different Paths24:47 - Mental Health Challenges27:10 - Benefits of Trade Schools29:55 - Financial Discipline Strategies36:55 - Role of Encyclopedias38:41 - Engaging Today's Children41:32 - Supporting Men's Development46:19 - Women's Increased Responsibilities49:20 - Importance of Teaching51:10 - Parenting: Married vs Unmarried55:00 - Men's Hygiene Awareness56:10 - Impact of Low Aspirations57:48 - Backlash of "Be a Man" Culture59:10 - Necessary Changes Ahead01:01:15 - Who Will Address the Issues01:06:20 - Importance of Self-Improvement01:12:32 - Personal Responsibility in Life01:13:20 - Celebrating 20,000 Subscribers01:13:40 - OutroSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailAre 95% of homes missing a crucial code of conduct? 🏠 This thought-provoking discussion dives into the erosion of household values, accountability, and discipline in today’s society. From generational gaps to the decline in instilling respect, manners, and personal responsibility in children, we explore how this cultural shift is impacting families and communities. We talk about the importance of teaching kids key life principles, the role of parents as active guides, and why a strong foundation in morals and standards is vital. Don’t miss this deep dive into a topic that affects us all—let’s talk about what’s missing and how we can fix it. Join the conversation and help restore what matters most.CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:40 - Code of Conduct in Relationships02:30 - Cassie and Diddy Relationship Insights05:20 - Easy Access to Sex Culture11:33 - Building a Solid Foundation17:04 - Importance of Father Figures22:44 - The Blind Leading the Blind in Society25:48 - Defining What You’re Looking For27:30 - Impact of Past Trauma31:03 - Importance of Accountability34:40 - Challenges of Accountability39:54 - Temptation in Modern Life42:55 - Marriage Perspectives for the Poor and Elderly43:50 - Recognizing Foolish Behavior49:28 - Purpose of Marriage51:14 - Paul Pierce's Influence55:53 - GPY: Usage and Importance58:55 - Lack of Teaching Essential Principles1:00:13 - Consequences of Our Actions1:05:30 - Keeping It Real in Conversations1:07:45 - Critique of Young Adult Behavior1:08:40 - Risks of Sending Nude Photos1:13:20 - Understanding Revenge Porn1:16:50 - Selling Self-Worth in Relationships1:18:23 - Understanding the Real Deal1:20:18 - Creating Your Own Rules1:23:00 - Final Thoughts and ReflectionsSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailModern dating is a whole new game—are we playing it wrong? In this episode, we dive into "The Harsh Truth About Modern Dating 💔" and explore how relationships have shifted over generations. From structured dating traditions to today’s swipe culture, we break down the dynamics of love, commitment and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. With heated discussions on family influences, personal accountability, and the importance of setting boundaries, we’re unpacking what it means to navigate the dating world in 2025. How can we avoid common pitfalls and build genuine connections in a world full of distractions? Hear real talk, raw insights, and practical advice to improve your dating life. If you’ve ever questioned modern relationship norms or wondered how to approach love differently, this one’s for you. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more honest conversations on life, growth, and relationships. Let’s keep building together! Peace and blessings.#podcast #moderndating #highvaluewoman #redpill #relationshipinsights #selfworthCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:40 - Group Dating Dynamics02:40 - Nostalgia in Dating05:55 - Wisdom of Parents08:40 - Insights from Elders10:17 - Men's Preferences in Women17:00 - Ignoring Parental Advice20:00 - Partner Qualities to Consider23:20 - The Chicken Wing Lady Story26:40 - Signs of Infidelity28:50 - Storytime: Dating with Kids30:20 - Knowing When to End Things33:45 - Developing Personal Preferences38:00 - Understanding Women's Desires39:50 - Older Women and Younger Men Relationships43:20 - Marriage Behaviors vs. Dating45:30 - Defining Casual Dating49:43 - Men's Spending Habits in Dating51:18 - Roles of Husbands55:00 - Men's Dating Strategies55:40 - Joint Accounts in Relationships57:55 - Understanding Breaks in Relationships1:03:05 - Pre-Breakup Considerations1:09:27 - Duration of Dating Before Commitment1:12:12 - Challenges of Casual Dating1:15:20 - Accountability for Women1:17:30 - Accountability for Men1:24:34 - Closing RemarksPlease subscribe to our channel and hit the bell icon to stay updated with our latest content wherever you listen to podcasts.SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCASTS: https://www.youtube.com/@overcome2becomeTHINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW==========================You can reach out to us on the following:Merch: https://overcometoobecome.myspreadshop.com/Website: overcometoobecome.comEmail: [email protected]: http://www.instagram.com/overcometoobecomeAudio Podcast website for On tha Mic w/M & T: https://onthamicwithmandt.buzzsprout.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/overcome2becomeAudio Podcast website for Overcome 2 Become Presents:https://overcome2becomepresents.buzzsprout.comSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailCan America be smart again? Join us as we explore the challenges facing modern times and how we, as a society, can reclaim critical thinking, personal responsibility, and old-school common sense. From jaw-dropping legislation like the "Conception Begins at Erection Act" to the evolving dynamics of parenting, accountability, and societal pressures, this episode dives deep into the frustrations and solutions for a smarter, more united America. We tackle everything from wild laws and over-the-top Uber encounters to the importance of role models, emotional intelligence, and navigating life’s responsibilities. With humor, honesty, and real talk, we examine how adulting has gone off track and what it takes to revive values that truly matter. If you're ready to laugh, learn, and rethink how we approach modern-day issues, this is the conversation for you. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more unfiltered discussions. Let’s grow smarter, together.#americacriticalthinking #rolemodelsforyouth #commonsensesolutions #socialcommentarypodcast #mentalhealthCHAPTERS:00:00 - Can America Be Smart Again02:19 - Conception Begins at Erection Act11:05 - Final Thoughts19:08 - Child Support22:19 - Understanding Child Support Spending24:26 - Emotional Intelligence Explained28:28 - The Importance of Emotional Intelligence32:03 - Parents Turning Kids Over to the State33:43 - Women Should Give Kids to Men35:45 - Women and Parenting Statistics37:10 - Women Are Biologically Designed to Nurture44:10 - The Importance of Co-Parenting49:20 - Society's Impact on Childhood51:40 - Uber Driver Controversy: Overweight Girl55:00 - Why You Shouldn’t Order A Small Uber58:20 - Common Sense in Everyday Life1:01:40 - Final Thoughts1:02:51 - True Role Models in Society1:06:29 - Identifying Your Role Model1:10:44 - Your Core Role Models1:13:17 - Be Careful Who You Look Up To1:14:37 - Final ThoughtsSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailFix your mental health in 2025 and face the hard truths you’ve been avoiding. This video gets real about what it takes to prioritize your mental well-being, cut toxic relationships, and get your finances in order. Stop making excuses and start taking control of your life—because the habits, mindset, and decisions you carry into this new year will shape your future.We discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, setting boundaries, and taking actionable steps to improve your mental health. Learn why men often struggle to open up, how poor choices keep us stuck, and why being honest with yourself is the first step to growth. Plus, we dive into the critical need to re-evaluate your relationships and finances—because a truly healthy life means balancing all aspects, not just one.Are you ready to take charge of your mental health, relationships, and money in 2025? Let’s make next year your best year yet. Hit like, subscribe, and don’t forget to tap the bell for more unfiltered advice and real talk that will transform your life.#journalingformentalhealth #selfimprovement #budgeting #financialliteracy #burnoutpreventionCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:35 - Mental Health Awareness07:32 - Unprotected Sex Risks12:27 - Insights from a Hairstylist14:57 - Life Coach vs Life Advisor Explained19:11 - Women's Mental Health Perspectives22:54 - Evaluating Your Relationships28:30 - Setting Healthy Boundaries32:40 - Elderly Wisdom on Needs33:18 - Allowing Behavior in Relationships35:39 - Parenting Sons Effectively38:59 - Breaking Free from Maternal Obligations48:20 - Understanding Money Management50:00 - Navigating Student Loans51:07 - Financial Planning Basics51:41 - Effective Budgeting Strategies52:33 - Benefits of Auto Pay54:47 - Final Thoughts and TakeawaysSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailModern men face critical challenges that demand immediate change. In this powerful discussion, we reveal the harsh realities about relationships, family dynamics, and personal responsibility that many men need to hear. From shocking statistics about marriage rates to the real cost of raising children, we're breaking down why "leveling up" isn't just an option – it's essential for survival.Discover why traditional approaches to success aren't working anymore and learn what it really takes to build wealth, maintain healthy relationships, and create generational success. We explore how changing economic landscapes, technology, and social dynamics are forcing men to adapt or get left behind.This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles the uncomfortable truths about personal development, financial responsibility, and the critical importance of obtaining real skills in today's competitive world. Whether you're struggling with career choices, relationship challenges, or finding your path forward, this discussion provides the wake-up call you need.Join us as we break down the essential steps modern men must take to secure their future, protect their families, and build lasting success. This isn't just about survival – it's about thriving in a world that's changing faster than ever before.Subscribe, hit the notification bell, and join our community of men committed to growth and success.#selfimprovement #redpill #moderndatinglife #blackfamilydynamics #mgtowCHAPTERS:00:00 - The War on the Black Family01:25 - The Black Marriage Rate03:51 - Income by Race06:42 - Average Income for Black Men and Women07:52 - Poverty Rate for Black Children08:04 - Dropout Rate for Black Boys09:58 - Societal Restraints and Rising Above It12:49 - How the World Has Changed16:09 - When to Intervene in Kids' Relationships21:56 - Sowing into Our Children24:07 - Importance of Marriage25:45 - Analyzing the Cost of Dating30:10 - Giving Too Much Too Soon31:51 - Importance of a Father's Presence36:56 - Father’s Presence in a Child’s Life44:57 - Get a DNA Test49:29 - Don’t Look52:53 - Importance of Job Training56:20 - The Next Set of Millionaires59:43 - Investing in Yourself01:02:45 - Get a Skill01:07:10 - Disrespect is Keeping Us Down01:08:52 - Marriage is More Than Love01:10:35 - Look at Tyrese’s Wife01:12:58 - Who It Really Affects01:14:55 - OutroSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailUncover the unseen cost of broken relationships in this thought-provoking discussion. We dive into how social media platforms influence perceptions and expectations in modern relationships, exploring the impact of accountability, self-worth, and societal norms. Discover the importance of personal growth and self-improvement in overcoming relationship challenges, with a focus on the roles of men and women in fostering healthier dynamics. Are you ready to confront the reality of broken relationships and their hidden costs? Join us as we unravel personal stories, share valuable insights, and offer guidance on building a more fulfilling life. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell for more enlightening content.#focusonthefamily #modelingsuccessforyourkids #selfimprovement #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawarenessCHAPTERS:00:00 - Why are women so broken01:46 - Financial stability without a woman04:24 - Men and self-worth tied to money06:34 - Joblessness and self-esteem08:59 - Men's emotional distance explained13:06 - Understanding Postpartum Depression20:33 - Making a positive change22:10 - Importance of Authenticity24:53 - Parenting and honesty issues26:36 - Reasons for having children33:05 - Men's accountability in relationships34:20 - Understanding child support38:30 - Co-parenting dynamics40:31 - Common excuses men make43:15 - Guiding a man towards growth46:54 - Choosing the right partners48:55 - The 6-6-6 Rule Explained53:18 - The 4% Rule in dating56:40 - The men you desire may not reciprocate59:45 - Societal pressures on attraction1:05:47 - Historical dating practices1:09:50 - Suggestions for single individuals1:13:00 - Readiness before dating1:13:30 - Building a solid relationship1:15:00 - Reasons men avoid commitment1:17:08 - OutroSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailIn Hollywood, integrity is non-negotiable. Dive into a raw and unfiltered conversation about the industry's dark side, where power dynamics and moral dilemmas often overshadow talent and ambition. This video unpacks the recent controversies surrounding figures like Puff Daddy, exploring the high stakes of maintaining integrity in an industry where fame and fortune are tantalizingly dangled as rewards. With candid discussions on the pressures and choices faced by those in the spotlight, this video challenges viewers to consider the personal cost of success. From the manipulation of young talent to the systemic issues perpetuating these cycles, it's a thought-provoking look at Hollywood's cultural and ethical challenges. Join us for this eye-opening discussion, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more insights.CHAPTERS:00:00 - The Price of Fame11:17 - The Shirley Temple Effect14:49 - Corruption in Powerful Positions16:55 - Supporting Future Generations19:30 - The 50 Foot Bed22:00 - The Black Market26:10 - Choosing Cheaper Options28:40 - Importance of Access32:30 - Puff Daddy's Family Dynamics39:45 - CEO Accountability After Arrests43:15 - Impact of Stage Parents46:29 - Parental Involvement in Entertainment47:55 - The Silence of Amanda Bynes51:38 - Behind the Scenes in Hollywood54:14 - Lack of Support Systems56:16 - Consequences of Growing Up in Fame58:55 - Exploring Conspiracy Theories1:00:29 - Importance of Integrity1:02:47 - Like, Comment, & SubscribeSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan Mail🔥 The SHOCKING Hygiene Habits Men MUST Change! 🔥 Are your cleanliness standards up to par? In this eye-opening discussion, we dive deep into the surprising hygiene practices that men need to rethink RIGHT NOW. From the importance of daily bathing to the necessity of proper grooming, we're calling out the routines that might just be holding you back. Discover why standards start at home and how they impact your personal and social life. Join us as we challenge outdated habits, expose the real consequences of poor hygiene, and reveal the secrets to presenting your best self. Don't miss out on these life-changing insights — your future self will thank you! CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:22 - Standards06:37 - How to Tell Your Man He Needs to Wash14:56 - Sheer Clothing Fashion Tips17:40 - Dating Older Women18:50 - Moms and Relationships28:14 - Physical Health Tips31:31 - FDA and Your Health Concerns33:00 - Importance of Diet and Nutrition38:00 - Importance of Mental Health46:10 - Lack of Accountability in Relationships49:15 - Stop Trying to Change Your Partner51:37 - You Can’t Change a Man59:28 - Men Aren’t What You Think1:05:10 - Happy Anniversary1:05:42 - Thank You for the Love1:06:09 - We Live This Everyday1:07:09 - OutroPlease subscribe to our channel and hit the bell icon to stay updated with our latest content wherever you listen to podcasts.SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCASTS: @OVERCOMETOOBECOMESupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDive into the heated debate on Kenya's controversial divorce ban: is it a move to protect men or an oppressive measure against women? In this eye-opening discussion, we explore the new law, the Prime Minister’s bold statements, and the implications for marriages in Kenya. Are prenuptial agreements and paternity tests really the answer to saving marriages, or are they just stoking the fires of gender inequality? Join us as we dissect the statistics showing that 80% of divorces are initiated by women and question if men are deliberately pushing their spouses to file for divorce. We'll also reflect on real-life stories and the emotional toll of these decisions. This video raises critical questions about the balance of power in relationships, societal expectations, and the true meaning of marriage.Don't miss out on this controversial and thought-provoking discussion. Like, subscribe, and hit the bell button for more deep dives into the issues that matter most. Share your thoughts in the comments below – we want to hear from you!Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussing domestic violence statistics and the pitfalls of abusive relationships, On tha Mic w/M & T delve into current high-profile cases and personal anecdotes to illustrate the complexities and choices involved. They explore the psychological impacts of abuse, the influence of societal norms, and the importance of self-awareness and support systems. Practical advice is offered for those trapped in abusive situations, emphasizing the need for self-empowerment and the availability of resources. This episode is an eye-opening conversation on the realities of domestic violence, its pervasive nature, and the challenging journey toward recovery and resilience.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailHave you ever caught a glimpse of the financial tightrope that teachers walk every day? Prepare to have your eyes opened as we peel back the curtain on the lives of educators, particularly those who turn to platforms like OnlyFans to supplement their incomes. As we navigate the uncomfortable intersection of private side hustles and public personas, we discuss the societal expectations that both confine and define the roles of teachers. The conversation traverses the rocky terrain of systemic educational funding failures, public discomfort, and the implications of educators' after-hours activities on their professional standing.This episode isn't just an exploration of the financial struggles within the education system; it's a deep dive into the tumultuous waters of modern relationships and the role of social media. We shine a light on the controversial topic of fidelity, societal reactions to unexpected revelations, and the accountability that married men have when engaging with content creators on platforms like OnlyFans. From the impact on marriages to the societal lens that magnifies every move teachers make, we dissect the complex dynamics at play. We also consider whether the traditional roles of men and women in relationships are shifting under the weight of new expectations.To round off our discussion, we tackle the emotionally charged topics of fatherhood, co-parenting, and blended family dynamics. We confront stereotypes, highlight the importance of a father's presence, and discuss the balance between financial provision and active parenting. With personal anecdotes and insights, we unpack the nuances of discipline within step-families and the essential communication needed to navigate the intricacies of co-parenting. Tune in for an episode that promises to challenge preconceptions, spark dialogue, and offer a fresh perspective on the responsibilities that define our most intimate relationships.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself at a family dinner where your uncle arrives with his new girlfriend who's suspiciously close to your age? It's a scenario that raises eyebrows and a multitude of questions, which we tackle head-on in our latest episode. Join us as we dissect the controversial topic of age in relationships, from the double standards faced by older women dating younger men to the stigmas of older men with much younger women. We'll share intimate family stories that reveal the potential for strife when age-gap relationships clash with societal norms, and discuss whether love truly knows no age—or if there's reason to be wary.Navigating the choppy waters of age-gap relationships isn't without its perils, as I can personally attest from a friend's experience that was more a cautionary tale than a fairytale. This episode isn't just about the drama, though; it's an eye-opening discussion about cultural and generational divides, the relatability factor in partnerships with wide age differences, and the sometimes-harsh realities of dating across life stages. We're pulling no punches as we draw from the world of sports and entertainment to paint a vivid picture of how varying years can translate to contrasting experiences and expectations.Ever wondered if that well-dressed individual at the bar is out of your league or simply playing it down to avoid unwanted advances? Our conversation veers into the complexities of dating for plus-size women, the psychology behind accepting less than you deserve, and the importance of body language in the art of attraction. We share tips on how to better signal your interest across the room with just a look, and muse on how wealth and attire play into the dynamics of attraction. Prepare to have your perspectives challenged and to walk away with a newfound understanding of the dating world's intricate dance.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailEver find yourself in a relationship that feels slightly off, but you can't quite pinpoint why? That's where our latest episode comes into play, offering an invaluable lens to identify the red flags in relationships that too often go unnoticed. We dissect everything from the subtle invasion of controlling behaviors to the crackling tension of unresolved issues. With each story and insight shared, we arm you with the knowledge to recognize problems and the tools to address them before they escalate.Setting boundaries and demanding respect aren't just buzzwords; they're your armor in the dating world. This episode isn't afraid to confront the uncomfortable truths about what respect really looks like and why it's non-negotiable. Listen as we pull back the curtain on the dynamics of control and trust, revealing how maintaining individuality is paramount and why communication is your best weapon in nurturing a healthy partnership. Relationships are a two-way street, and we're here to guide you through the give-and-take with practical advice and real-life examples.Wrapping up, we don't just leave you with a list of what to watch out for; we offer a path forward. From understanding how to navigate the murky waters of relationship dynamics to recognizing the importance of self-care and introspection, we dive into the essentials of personal growth. As we raise a toast to you, our loyal listeners, for helping us reach a new milestone on our YouTube channel, we also extend a heartfelt invitation to join us in this journey of self-discovery and relationship empowerment. Cheers to stronger, wiser connections.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailPrepare to navigate the oft-ignored yet critical crossroads where love meets pragmatism. Our latest episode peels back layers on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, showcasing Jeannie Mai's divorce to highlight asset protection as a savvy move—not a trust issue. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on the why and how of legal safeguards before marriage, offering a fresh perspective on preparing for life's what-ifs while deeply in love.In the wake of a global health crisis, the conversation shifts to underline the vital importance of frank dialogues on finances, health emergencies, and caregiving. We dissect the emotional labor involved and its impact on partnerships, unmasking the gendered expectations that can burden relationships. By sharing stories of adversity and resilience, we underscore the need for empathy and growth when life throws a curveball at love and commitment. Wrapping up, we confront the unavoidable adult responsibilities with both humor and sincerity, discussing the messy outcomes of passing without a will and the significance of expressing final wishes. We examine the seductive traps of the funeral industry and emphasize the necessity of life insurance and clear communication in a marriage. This episode isn't just a conversation; it's an essential guide for couples intent on fostering maturity and foresight in their union.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailHave you ever considered the lasting impact of the relationships you build along your professional path? Reflect with us on the transformative power of supporting each other in the workplace, beyond mere ladder-climbing. The conversation this episode is enriched with the wisdom of Katt Williams, diving into the ethics of career growth and the intricate dance of maintaining one's integrity while navigating office politics. It's a candid look at the balance between hard work and strategic relationship-building that anyone from a fresh-faced intern to a seasoned executive can appreciate.Then, we shift gears to the tender topic of family dynamics, especially as our loved ones grow older. Stories of connection and estrangement stir the heart, revealing the poignant truth about our future as determined by our past actions. How do you handle introducing a partner to a family member with less-than-enlightened views, or the challenge of familial expectations when they clash with personal values? These narratives pull at the threads of family fabric, examining how to maintain individuality and peace amid potential discord.Wrapping up, we shed light on the education system's shortcomings and the importance of holistic, hands-on learning that gears our children toward both success and fulfillment. And to inspire, we share a powerful tale of a man's journey from survival on the streets to a purpose-driven life, all while underscoring the quiet, potent beauty of helping others without the expectation of recognition. Join us for a heartfelt exploration of life’s complexities, where growth and kindness aren't just goals—they're the very essence of our shared human experience.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailAre you ready to shatter the misconceptions surrounding relationships and gender roles? This episode is a no-holds-barred exploration into the realities and complexities of love and partnership, where we urge our listeners to resist the impulsive leap into commitments and take the time to truly understand their significant other. We delve into the potential pitfalls of rushing into relationships and navigate the often challenging emotional landscape that relationships bring. Switching gears, we address the bread-and-butter topic of single motherhood, shedding light on the feelings of resentment and scorn these brave women often face. We take a deep dive into the impacts on children raised in single-parent homes, and discuss how factors like financial stability and education can influence the success of single mothers. Furthermore, we don't shy away from sensitive subjects like DNA testing and the societal stigma it carries, underscoring the importance of open communication and honesty to prevent future complications.Finally, we emphasize the significance of integrity and stability in relationships, going beyond superficial attractions like sex and money. This comprehensive discussion aims to empower you with the knowledge and insights needed to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. So, whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, this episode will provide you the tools to navigate the tricky landscape of love and relationships. Remember to like, subscribe, and hit the bell to stay updated on future episodes!Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailGot a crazy aunt, a nosy uncle, or that one cousin who just can't seem to get along with anyone else at the dinner table? As we dive into the holiday season, our episode today is all about navigating the murky waters of family dynamics and emerging victorious on the other side! We'll confess a few of our own personal holiday horror stories, some cringe-worthy, some funny and some that ended up teaching us valuable lessons. We promise - by the end of this episode, you'll be armed with all the strategies you need to handle even the most challenging family members without losing your cool.It's not just about managing the people, though. From kid-friendly conversation to the choice of background music, there are a lot of unwritten rules that can make or break a holiday gathering. We'll discuss how to keep the atmosphere light and enjoyable, while avoiding unnecessary drama. And yes, that includes tips on masking your horror when the menu is revealed, and your favorite dish is nowhere to be seen! If you've ever felt like you needed a survival guide for navigating holiday feasts, this episode is for you.And if you're on the brink of meeting your partner's family for the first time, we've got your back. From the right attire to the perfect conversation starters, we cover everything you need to know to make a great impression. We even share some of our own faux-pas, so you can learn from our mistakes and breeze through this nerve-wracking experience. Trust us, you'll soon be the new favorite in the family - or at least, you won't be the talk of the next family gathering for all the wrong reasons! Get ready for a hearty dose of holiday wisdom with a side of laughter, as we take on the madness of the festive season together.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailEver wondered how to navigate the intricacies of morality in your everyday life, and why it's essential to instill such values at home? Curious about the power of words and the often underestimated impact they can have on our relationships? Get ready for a deep exploration into these topics and more. We'll be scrutinizing moral compasses, respect for all regardless of their professional roles, and the common misbelief that morality is tethered to religious practices. Men, get ready to take notes and learn how to be better supporters of children in every conceivable way.Words hold immense power. They can build bridges or burn them. In this enlightening discussion, we will dissect the influence of words in relationships and how, without mindfulness, they may cause long-term harm that apologies may not soothe. We'll also uncover the strength of delivering impactful messages without resorting to swearing. Furthermore, we expand on the balance of compromise within moral boundaries, bringing into focus a case of a woman supporting her partner despite his neglectful actions towards his child.Expect a profound examination of unsettling societal issues, such as young girls' attraction to older men and the manipulative maneuvers that may ensue. We also spotlight the pivotal role of leadership, the courage required to go against the crowd, and the importance of nurturing relationships for personal growth. As we wind down, we emphasize the role of a moral compass in navigating life's challenges, shedding light on the necessity of instilling values in our children, and maintaining these principles ourselves. This conversation promises to be thought-provoking, offering valuable insights into morality's impact on various aspects of our lives. Prepare to be enlightened.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDid you know that the secret to a successful relationship is about much more than just physical attraction? In this candid discourse, we plunge into the importance of deeper connections and how the beauty of personality, interests, and values outlast mere looks. This episode is a roadmap to the complexities of relationships, a lighthouse guiding you through the stormy seas.Ever heard of the 80-20 rule in relationships, or struggled with balance in time spent on gaming and other needs of your partner? As we uncover these issues, we elucidate the criticality of open communication about long-term goals and realistic compromises, right down to contentious topics like reallocating budgeting from leisure to essentials. We don't shy from addressing tricky matters such as outside interference in relationships or addressing a partner's gaming habits, providing you with insights to ensure it doesn't affect your relationship negatively.Finally, we don't leave you hanging about handling criticism constructively. The conversation concludes with tips on effective communication to ensure a fulfilling relationship. So, buckle up as we explore these realms that can either make or break relationships. Our episode promises a deep dive into maintaining and navigating the challenges in relationships; it's all about understanding, balance, and effective communication. Tune in and let's navigate this intricate maze together.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailWould you stay in a relationship like Jada Pinkett Smith's? We invite you to join us in our fiery discussion on public figures and the intimacies of their relationships, using the example of Jada Pinkett Smith to illustrate the complexities of sharing one's personal experiences so publicly. We examine the pitfalls and consequences, especially for men, of such an open approach and the often resulting frustration and hesitance towards commitment and marriage. We don't shy away from analyzing relationship dynamics and expectations set by both partners, using Jada's situation as a prime example. It's a potent discourse on the tension between men's expectations versus women's reality, the concept of 'eating bullshit' in relationships leading to resentment, and the significance of moving on from past relationships. We also tackle the sensitive topic of prolonged separations in marriages, their implications, and how external factors can influence decision-making in relationships. Our episode concludes on the vital role of honest and compassionate communication in relationships. We delve into the challenges faced when entering a marriage for protection or dealing with a partner who is ill or an addict. We stress the importance of maturity, trust, and the ability to leave the past behind in order to heal and progress. This is a must-listen episode for anyone seeking a raw, honest look at relationship dynamics!Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailWhat if love, as you know it, isn't about finding the perfect one but about navigating a complex terrain of emotions? This episode takes you on a journey through the landscape of relationships, focusing on the often overlooked importance of vulnerability, risk-taking, and clear communication. Join us as we explore the difficulties and the beauty of putting your cards on the table in the game of love.Ever pondered how our expectations can turn into relationship pitfalls, or how our upbringing and self-worth perceptions can shape our love life? We delve into these matters, shedding light on the impact of self-esteem, healing, and life experiences on relationships. You'll hear us assessing societal norms, parenting influence, and the intriguing transition from the nerdy kid to a successful adult. This enlightening discussion also navigates the intersection of parenting and dating, emphasizing the importance of balance and respect. We underline how children can be influenced by the dating life of their parents and why it is crucial to set boundaries and expectations. From understanding self-worth to building a strong friendship before a romantic union, this episode promises an insightful reflection on love, parenting, and moving on. Join us for a deep dive into the complexity and beauty of relationships.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailEver thought about how hard truth like prenuptial agreements can actually protect, not doom your relationship? Or wondered why communication and understanding power dynamics can make or break a bond? Join us as we unfold these subjects with raw honesty. We delve into the necessity of prenuptial agreements, especially when there's an uneven net worth between partners. Rather than viewing it as a negative foreshadowing element, we argue that it can be seen as a smart, respectful way to protect oneself financially. Stepping beyond the financial aspects, we also dissect the intricate facets of relationships. From tackling gender dynamics to overcoming communication hurdles, we unearth the importance of understanding your needs and conveying them effectively in your relationship. Our discussions also hover over some of the harsh realities of dating, especially the contrasting experiences of men and women. We bring to light the predicaments faced by older individuals in finding romance and how self-discovery and friendship can pave the way.In our candid conversation, we also explore how the physicality of a person can shape our relationships and why it shouldn't dictate our worth. A relationship is not just about the present, but also about recognizing the potential in your partner. It's not just about sailing through smooth times but also about tackling life's unexpected challenges with maturity. Join us in this insightful exploration of love, relationships, and everything that lies in-between.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailHow well do you understand the implications of setting boundaries in relationships? What about the complexity of divorce and settlements, or the often misunderstood topic of prenuptial agreements? Join us as we navigate through these tough topics sparked by the buzz surrounding Steve Harvey's rumored $200 million divorce settlement.We kick off the conversation by dissecting the Harvey's potential divorce and why Marjorie is allegedly asking for such a hefty settlement. From there, we pivot to a larger discussion on the role of prenups in safeguarding personal freedom. We argue against the notion that they are one-sided and designed to disadvantage less affluent partners. Instead, we advocate for a mutual understanding, where both parties stand to gain. The spotlight then turns to boundaries; their importance in maintaining healthy personal and professional relationships, and what to do when they're overstepped.As the conversation rolls on, we share insights on how to handle transitions in relationships, how to learn from past breakups, and the significance of self-reflection in personal growth. We underline the need for honesty and respect, and the importance of setting a trend among your group of friends. As we wrap up, we leave you with a thought-provoking perspective on the significance of taking time out for self-improvement after a breakup. Ready to join the conversation? Hit subscribe and let's dive in!Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when disrespect and misunderstanding spark a violent encounter in an ordinary Alabama boat dock? This episode illuminates the shocking incident and the broader societal issues it reflects. We investigate how a lack of mutual respect can escalate to violence, further highlighting the need for understanding and acknowledging the rights of others, irrespective of race, gender, or lifestyle. The conversation doesn't stop there. We delve into parenting, financial independence, and their intersection. We spotlight the nuances of father-son relationships, the impact of intentional parenting, and the complexities of considering having a child. As we dissect the pressures of societal norms, we draw attention to the significant roles men play in society and the importance of recognizing and appreciating their efforts.Lastly, we grapple with the emotional rollercoaster of relationships as we sift through topics like abortion, social pressure, and personal choice. We advocate for open conversations and the necessity of taking accountability for our actions while emphasizing the importance of individual responsibility in parenting dynamics. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of critical social issues that deeply impact our day-to-day lives. Join us on this journey of discovery and understanding.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailEver wondered how honesty plays a pivotal role in transgender relationships? This episode takes you on a profound journey to explore the complexities faced by transgender individuals in forming bonds, particularly with heterosexual men, in a world where misunderstanding and societal constructs often impede acceptance and love. We take a comprehensive look at the unique challenges faced by trans individuals in navigating the world of love, relationships, and societal norms.Switching gears, we venture into the gaming world, examining the intertwined issues of identity and harassment that are often prevalent in this industry. We dissect how societal norms around gender roles impact transgender individuals and the importance of understanding and open communication. Our conversation also illuminates the influence of societal constructs on age and gender, and how environmental factors can influence perceptions and interactions involving transgender individuals. In our final segment, we place the spotlight on the crucial role of parents in supporting their children, particularly LGBTQ+ youth, through open communication and understanding. We delve into the effects of societal expectations on the mental well-being of transgender individuals and discuss the critical importance of honesty and acceptance. We emphasize that the creation of a safe and supportive environment for children, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, is indeed a collective responsibility. Tune in to unravel these threads of conversation, as we strive to foster greater acceptance, understanding, and empathy in society.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailOn this episode, we discuss the risky behaviors that people engage in, which not only endanger themselves but also others. We address the Carlee Russell incident and its consequence on potential future victims of violence. Additionally, we raise awareness on the sex trafficking industry, highlighting the tricks and hotels used in this multi-billion dollar global trade, including the United States. Join us for these and other topics on this episode of "On tha Mic w/M&T".Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailThis is the 2nd Special Edition Podcast from the "Overcome Too Become Network", which does the "On tha Mic w/M & T" podcast. This podcast is called: How'd We Get Here" podcast where we deal with the issues of the day and bring on " Professionals" that will help explain the facts and solutions to the problems that we are discussing in a very informative and easy-to-understand way so that it gives you a good starting point in order to solve your problems.Anxiety and depression are two of the most common mental health disorders that affect millions of people worldwide. Both conditions can be debilitating and affect a person's ability to function in their daily life. Anxiety is characterized by excessive worry, fear, and nervousness, while depression is characterized by feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and loss of interest in activities that were once enjoyable.The good news is that there are many effective treatments for anxiety and depression. Therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes can all help manage symptoms and improve quality of life. It's important to seek help from a healthcare professional if you or someone you know is struggling with these conditions.In addition to traditional treatments, there are also many natural remedies that can help alleviate symptoms of anxiety and depression. Exercise, mindfulness meditation, and a healthy diet have all been shown to be effective in reducing stress and improving mood.Remember, it's okay to seek help for mental health issues. You are not alone, and there are many resources available to help you manage your symptoms and improve your overall well-being. Don't hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional or a trusted friend or family member for support.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we are talking about the different levels of the dating game and knowing what they are, and making different decisions. When it comes to dating, there are many "levels" to the game. Some people prefer to start off with casual dating, getting to know someone in a low-pressure setting. Others may want to jump right into a serious relationship. Regardless of where you are in the dating game, it's important to communicate your intentions and be clear with your partner about what you're looking for. It's also important to take things at a pace that feels comfortable for both parties. Remember, there's no right or wrong way to approach dating - as long as you're honest and respectful, you're on the right track.We are also talking about other aspects of dating and learning about yourself to make the best choices in a mate.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we celebrate our 1st year of the podcast and thank everyone who's supported us on this journey.  We are talking about how insatiable Men and Women are in today's world and what can be done to change the mindset, and we talk about other topics also.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we talk about various topics regarding relationships, jobs, dating, and other things and how you have to sacrifice in order to get to your goals. You can see the entire podcast by clicking below:HTTP://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/@OVERCOMETOOBECOMESupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailTHIS DISCUSSION IS ABOUT GROWTH, AND CHANGE IS DIFFICULT BUT NECESSARY IN ORDER TO REACH YOUR PERSONAL GOALS. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT NUMEROUS TOPICS REGARDING  GROWTH, CHANGE, WOMEN, MEN, AND THE LACK OF TRAINING FOR THE JOURNEY. WE ALSO TALK ABOUT THE MINDSET THAT PEOPLE HAVE AND WHAT THEY NEED TO DO  IN ORDER TO CHANGE.YOU CAN LOOK AT THE VIDEO PODCAST AT:HTTP: //WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/@OVERCOMETOOBECOMESupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion about people being Accountable for their actions in today's society. Between half-ass raising kids, bad relationships, and horrible self-awareness, we as a society are suffering from these actions. We are having a real discussion about we got to do better and be better.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion about how Today's Society and Educational Systems are failing our Boys in the early stages of their development.  This causes a long-term effect both financially and educationally for the young boys and, in turn, causes problems when it comes to those same young boys becoming the head of the household and taking care of their families in the future.The educational systems need to totally revamped and we are talking about what we need to do as parents to help the boys not falling those the cracks in Life.You can also see the Video podcasts at:http://www.youtube.com/@overcometoobecomeSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDISCUSSION ABOUT PEOPLE MAKING DUMB DECISIONS WHEN THEY ARE MAKING GOOD OR GREAT MONEY. WE WILL TALK ABOUT JAH MORANT AND HIS SITUATION AND OTHERS, AND WE WILL TALK ABOUT SOLUTIONS TO AVOID THIS SITUATION. WE SPENT EXTRA TIME ON THIS TOPIC BECAUSE ITS AN IMPORTANT CONVERSATION TO HAVE. WE ALSO TALK ABOUT FINANCIAL CLEANSING AND FINANCIAL DISCIPLINE.YOU CAN ALSO SEE THE VIDEO PODCAST ON THE YOUTUBE CHANNEL:HTTP://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/@OVERCOMETOOBECOMESupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailThis episode is talking about how Common Sense aint that damn Common anymore in today's society. We talk about varies topics of no common sense when it comes to Parenthood, Spiritual guidance, establishing foundations for yourself when it comes to finances, self-care, buying power and the real power you have what it comes to purchasing.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion about how Women will sacrifice their Kids for a Man and/or the Money or both. A very frank discussion on this subject and talking about the reasons that this happens more than anyone wants to talk about.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan Mail(THIS PODCAST IS NOT TO REPLACE GOING TO SEEK MEDICAL ADVICE & ATTENTION , PLEASE CONTACT A PROFESSIONAL WHEN DEALING WITH A MEDICAL ISSUE LIKE THIS)This episode will talk about the very difficult subject of Suicide. We will talk about the myths about it, the truths about it and solutions and help for individuals who are going through this very tough and life-altering issue.We will talk about the disturbing numbers in regards to this subject and what we as a Society needs to do in order handle this tragic subject.This is an exclusive episode of a new Podcast that's starting in 2023 called "HowD We Get Here",Episode 1Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion about Families and what has changed over the years and why we should be doing better.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion about Are Black Single Mothers destroying the Black Community and turning their Sons into Weak Men? We have this discussion  about the reality and the myth of Single Black Mothers and the real reasons why we have a problem in the Black Community as a whole.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion of Surviving Pregnancies and looking at the topic from the Woman and Man's point of view. A very real discussion on things that everybody needs to understand when going thru this life changing event. You can also see the video on our Youtube channel. http://www.youtube.com/@overcometoobecomeSupport the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion on Dating Black Women in the 21st Century. The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of this complex relationship. This is just the beginning discussion of a topic that we will be tacking this year. Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion

Send us Fan MailDiscussion is about establishing boundaries in your Relationships early so you dont run into problems later on.Support the showGo  to  http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube ChannelFollow  M  at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on InstagramEmail us at [email protected] for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion