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Paris in NYC
by Paris in NYC
Welcome to Paris in NYC! You guessed it I’m Paris born and raised in the heart of the big apple. I’m a basic NYC girl that’s trying to find love in a hookup culture! Travel with me through my dating adventures as I work on myself to grow and become better!
Episodes
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Obsessed or In Love? The Truth About Limerence
What if the love you couldn’t let go of… wasn’t love at all? In this episode of Paris in NYC, we’re diving deep into limerence — the intense, obsessive emotional state that feels like love but is often rooted in fantasy, anxiety, and emotional dependency. From late-night overthinking to craving...
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Why you keep getting breadcrumbs (and accepting them)
Why does modern dating feel so confusing… and so unfulfilling? In this episode I break down breadcrumbing — the pattern of giving just enough attention to keep someone interested without ever building something real — and how it connects to the bare minimum in relationships. Because the truth is,...
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If she pulls back, here is why
Hola! So this episode is mostly for the men. You ever been dating a woman and everything seems to be going great and all of a sudden she starts to shift and pull back her energy? In this episode, we go deeper than surface-level dating advice and unpack what’s really happening when a woman becomes...
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Age Gap Dating: Power, Perception and the Truth
Age gap dating is everywhere — but the rules aren’t the same for men and women. When a man dates younger, he’s “established.” When a woman dates younger, she’s judged. In this episode of Paris in NYC, we break down the psychology, power dynamics, cultural double standards, and real-life realities...
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Chosen or Convenient?
Hola! In this episode of Paris in NYC, I break down the emotional and behavioral gap between attention and intention. Because being liked feels good — but being valued feels secure. And too many women are confusing chemistry with commitment, access with investment, and consistency with real...
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Paris After Dark
Hola, Strong women don’t break down in public — they hold it together. They show up. They handle it. They survive it. But at night, when the world goes quiet, the weight of always being “the strong one” finally settles in. In this episode, Paris unpacks why strong women cry in the dark — the...
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Get in your bag
Hola! In this episode Paris talks about financial confidence and the importance of being able to stand on your own two feet without relying on others. She goes over some tips on what you can do to manage your finances, and of course there is a dating story involved. Follow my Instagram and Tik…
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What’s normal?
Hola, Welcome to the 4th season of Paris in NYC! In this episode, Paris breaks down the assumptions we’ve all been sold about what “normal” is supposed to look like. From relationships and healing to independence and self-worth, this is an emotional, honest conversation about unlearning survival...
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Rompiendo el ciclo
Hola! Bienvenidos a Paris en Nueva York. Este es mi primero episodio en español. Hablo de mi última visita a mi tierra, Santo Domingo en la Republica Dominicana y como me sentí en llegar a mi país después de tanto años. También habló de cómo me sentí en ver tantas mujeres bella y joven con…
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Let that shit go!
Hola! Welcome to episode 3 of season 3. In this episode, I talk about different things that you can do to get over a breakup and let that shit go! In episode 2 of season 1 called “Healing” I spoke about the journey I went on to get over my ex. But that approach may not work for everyone. So this…
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Fix your crown QUEEN 🤍
Hola! Welcome to Episode 2 of Season 3. In this episode, I deliver a powerful and unfiltered message to women about reclaiming their confidence and femininity. I emphasize that many women have forgotten their worth, often prioritizing others while neglecting themselves. Through tough love, I...
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How to raise your CONFIDENCE
Hola! Welcome to Episode 1 of Season 3 of Paris in NYC! I actually wrote this episode back in late November, but I didn’t get to release it until now because life happens! I decided to save it for the New Year. In this episode, I start off by sharing a personal story about a midlife crisis I...
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Time will tell
Hola! Welcome to episode 10 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I talk about a new approach that I started to live by this summer which was following my heart regardless of what that meant. It lead me to a new relationship with someone that really showed a lot of effort until he didn’t. It was a...
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The Audacity
Hola! Welcome to episode 9 of Paris in NYC! I am accompanied by my lovely sister (Ig: @holasoymel_). We dive into multiple stories of our past of when people we were either dating or involved with did things to us or put us in situations that left us speechless. Like how did this person had the...
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The Dating Olympics
Hola! Welcome to episode 8 of Paris in NYC! Summer 2024 just started and The Dating Olympics have started, may the best man win. In this episode I explain what the Dating Olympics is to me and what I have learned so far from the few dates I have been on in the last few weeks. Make sure to…
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Breaking the cycle
Hola, Welcome to the 7th episode of Paris in NYC! This episode is about my travels to my homeland the Dominican Republic- specifically Santo Domingo which is the first time that I visit in 26 years! I talk about the struggles that I experienced as a first generation immigrant in the United States...
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Traveling is more than just for pleasure
Hola, Welcome to the 6th episode of Paris in NYC! In this episode I give you some insight of why traveling is so important for me and I divulge on the advice that I received from Larry and his friends, whom I met on a ferry ride to Saint Barts. Everyone talks about the red flags that you should...
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11/05/1984
Hola! Welcome to the 5th episode of season 2 of Paris in NYC! 2024 is a big year for me as I turn 40 years old in November! While most people feel negatively about this milestone in their life, I feel excited and can’t wait to see what blessings life has in store for me this year! The key to...
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Darling it’s better on the other side- Domestic Violence Awareness
Hola! Welcome to episode 4 of season 2! I recorded this episode over two months ago but I was so scared and nervous to release it because it is very personal to me. However, domestic violence is something that I have experienced too many times in my life and I wanted to bring light to a subject...
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The Night Life- After the lights come on
Hola! Welcome to episode 3 of season 2! I have bartended on and off for the last 10 years in NYC, and I’m always fascinated by how everyone always wants to date the DJ, the bartenders, the bottle girls along with everyone else that makes the nightlife successful. However, dating is so hard when…
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You broke us, You broke me
Hola! Welcome to Episode 2 of Paris in NYC! February 17 was my one year Breakaversary! It’s been exactly one year since I broke up with my ex. In episode 2 of season 1, I walked you through the beginning of my healing journey, and for the last 6 months, I never even thought of him. However, the…
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Dating After the Papers
Hola! Welcome to the first episode of Season 2 of Paris in NYC! I am so honored to be starting another season. Thank you to everyone that has supported me, listened, and shared! I never imagined that I would have a podcast and never ever that I would commit to it the way I have. I feel very…
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Sex, toys, and everything nice ;)
Hola! Welcome to episode 13 of Paris in NYC! In this episode we raise the heat in the studio, the fire alarms almost went off with all the smoke from this fire conversation. I am accompanied by Aceite (Ig: @aceiteee__) from Brooklyn and Drew (Ig: @fbo_lifestyle) from Freeport and we talk about…
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05/19/2001
Hola! Welcome to episode 12 of Paris in NYC! This episode was really hard for me to record, I was really sick and had lost my voice and kept messing up and having to re record every 30 seconds. I was also just very emotional because the person I spoke about in this episode was someone that was…
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It starts with YOU
Hola! Welcome to episode 11 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by Jose Cruz (Ig: @_therealmozo), an advocate for mental health and the neighborhood love dealer from Brooklyn, NY. In this episode, Jose shares insights, personal stories, motivation, and highlights the importance of...
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Starry Night
Hola! When I first started my podcast, someone told me that people hardly make it to episode 10. Well, I guess I can now say that I have an established podcast since this is my 10th episode!!! I also just turned 39 years old on November 5th! In this episode I open up about the emotions that had...
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F*boys and Situationships
Hola! Welcome to episode 9 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by a good friend of mine, Hikari (Ig: @hikari.meraki). We talk about what a F*boy is, what is considered a situationship, and share some of our own stories. This episode is filled with a lot of laughter and insight on…
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Transparency
Hola! Welcome to episode 8 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am joined by my best friend, Mr. Mercado. In the evolving landscape of modern day dating, we delve into the complex world of relationships from a man's perspective. I incorporate questions that my instagram followers had for him, and…
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Cat Calling
Hola! Welcome to episode 7 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I talk about the harassment that women go through from as early as their teenage years and have to learn to live with as it follows them through different stages of their growth. I also talk about an experience I had in which I ended up...
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Love From Within
Hola! Welcome to the 6th episode of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by two friends, Denzel and Marci. We dive into what dating and relationships is like in the LGBTQ community. Listen as they share some stories that will leave you with your mouth open, as well as make you take back...
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Unrequited Love
Hola! Welcome to the 5th episode of Paris in NYC! Every one has loved someone that did not love them back. I was devastated when I first realized the cruel reality of the world that not every love story will end in a happily ever after, and that modern day dating was closer to what Carrie,...
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Summer Love and Travel Romance
Hola! Welcome back to the 4th episode of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by my dear friend Gee. Listen to us as we share our stories of our summer love and the various romantic experiences we have encountered in our travels. Make sure to subscribe, share with your friends and…
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Caught
Hola! Welcome back to the third episode of Paris in NYC! In this episode I will walk you through a few scenarios in which my ex's as well as my friends' ex's were caught cheating. These aren't your usual cliche cheating stories, they are a bit more interesting. I finish the episode with a few…
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Healing
Hola! Welcome back to the second episode of Paris In NYC! Where as the first episode was light and sweet, this one is much deeper. I will walk you through my struggle of self awareness in knowing that I needed to change, and the steps I took to free myself from the captivity of my own choices to...
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Welcome to Paris in NYC!
Hola! Welcome to the first episode of Paris in NYC- an authentic podcast brought to you by me, Paris! I am a basic NYC girl trying to find love in a hookup culture. If you have followed me on instagram (@_parisinnyc_) then you would have already heard some of my wild dating stories. In this...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Paris in NYC! You guessed it I’m Paris born and raised in the heart of the big apple. I’m a basic NYC girl that’s trying to find love in a hookup culture! Travel with me through my dating adventures as I work on myself to grow and become better!
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