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Perfectly Broken
by Dani Stedman
Just like the Japanese art of kinsugi, we're not trying to hide the cracks of our broken past, but rather highlight those struggles with gold. I will be vulnerable, real and raw with y'all as we figure out how we can turn the damaged pottery of our lives into stunning works of art that are even more beautiful than we ever thought possible. I am your host, Dani Stedman. We're talking spirituality, health and fitness, eating disorders, trauma, and how to find peace and harmony in life. I'll share my story and insights, as well as invite some powerful guests to join the show so we can learn.
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The Hidden Gift Inside Life's Hardest Seasons (A Near-Death Survivor's Story) with Randy Lovelace
In this deeply grounding conversation, I sit down with shamanic practitioner Randy Lovelace to explore what it really means to trust the unseen, heal old wounds, and find safety within yourself. From near-death experiences and ancestral guidance to balancing the divine masculine and feminine, this episode is a reminder that even life's hardest seasons can become sacred invitations to grow. If you've been walking through your ownfire, this conversation will help you soften, surrender, and remember that you're never walking alone.What you'll hear:Near-Death Experiences: Randy shares how two near-death experiences transformed the way he views life, death, and the spiritual realm.Walking Through the Fire: We explore how life's greatest challenges often become our biggest catalysts for healing and transformation.Trusting Intuition: Randy explains how learning to trust his inner knowing changed the entire direction of his life.Signs From Spirit: We talk about recognizing the subtle ways Spirit, nature, and synchronicities guide us every day.Divine Masculine & Feminine: Randy opens up about embracing both strength and softness to become a more grounded, authentic man.Holding Space Instead of Fixing: We discuss why the greatest act of love is often allowing someone to walk through their own healing.Healing Childhood Trauma: Randy vulnerably shares the story that kept him hiding his gifts for decades—and how he finally released it.Giving From Overflow: We explore why you should never give from your cup, only from what overflows it.Living Authentically: Randy reminds us that becoming your truest self is one of the greatest gifts you can offer the world.✨ If this conversation spoke to your heart and you're ready to reconnect with yourself through somatic breathwork, coaching, energy work, intuitive guidance, retreats, and healing experiences, I'd be honored to support your journey. Explore the links below to learn more.Join the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (October 24-27, 2026)Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Randy:www.randylovelace.netFacebook: Randy LovelaceRandy Lovelace - Shamanic PractitionerLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast[email protected]
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Monthly Practice Drop: 3-Minute Mind-Heart Coherence Activation
Feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in your head?In this month's embodiment practice, I'm guiding you through a simple 3-minute Heart-Brain Coherence meditation designed to help regulate your nervous system, reduce stress, and reconnect with the wisdom of your heart.This is a practice I return to again and again before difficult conversations, important decisions, or anytime I need to come back to calm, clarity, and compassion.✨ I invite you to try this practice for 30 days and notice what changes—in your energy, relationships, mindset, and the way you move through life.If this episode supported you, I'd be so grateful if you left a rating and review or shared it with someone who could use a moment to breathe today.If you're ready to take this work deeper, explore my somatic coaching, breathwork experiences, retreats, and healing community at www.danistedman.com, where we move beyond mindset and into lasting transformation through nervous system regulation, embodiment, and deep inner healing.Join the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (October 24-27, 2026)Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast[email protected]
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If Life Feels Like a Blur Right Now, Listen to This - The Collective Shift and the Real Reason Life Feels So WTF Lately
Have you been feeling like life is one big blur lately? Like you're moving through deep emotions but somehow feeling less attached to the stories that used to define you? So many of us are feeling this, so you aren’t alone. We're processing deep emotions, releasing old patterns, and learning howto surrender in ways we've never had to before.In this short solo episode, I share a powerful perspective that bridges spirituality, trauma healing, nervous system regulation, and personal transformation. Drawing from my own EMDR therapy journey and the energetic shifts so many of us are experiencing, I explore why feeling disconnected from old stories isn't a sign that something is wrong—it's often a sign that deeper healing is taking place.If you've been feeling overwhelmed, emotionally raw, uncertain, or like you're somewhere between who you were and who you're becoming, this episode is for you.What you'll hear:Collective Healing & Spiritual Awakening: Many people are experiencing profound emotional and energetic shifts right now.How Trauma Impacts the Nervous System: Trauma can shape our reactions long after the original experience has passed.Why Life Feels Like a Blur During Healing: The space between releasing the old and embodying the new can feel disorienting.Detaching From Your Story Without Bypassing Your Pain: Healing allows us to feel our emotions without becoming trapped in them.The Science Behind Emotional Triggers: Understanding how the brain processes trauma can create more self-compassion.Nervous System Regulation Creates Freedom: Regulation gives us the ability to choose our responses instead of reacting from old wounds.Feminine Rage, Healthy Masculine Aggression & Personal Power: Reconnecting with our truth often requires reclaiming parts of ourselves we've suppressed.Moving From Victimhood to Empowerment: Healing begins when we recognize that we have choice in how we move forward.The Role of Surrender in Personal Growth: Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is trust the process.You Are Not Broken: Your healing journey is not evidence of your flaws—it's evidence of your humanity.If this episode resonated with you and you're ready for deeper support in your healing journey, I'd love to walk alongside you. Through somatic coaching, breathwork, intuitive guidance, retreats, and transformational healing experiences, I help beautiful souls reconnect with themselves, regulate theirnervous systems, and step into their most authentic lives.Connect with me below to learn more about working together. 💛Join the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (October 24-27, 2026)Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast[email protected]
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How to Know If You're Being Called to Ayahuasca - The Signs You May Be Missing
For years, I heard people talk about being "called to Ayahuasca," and honestly, I didn't get it. I thought it sounded mysterious, confusing, and maybe even a little woo-woo. In this episode, I share my personal journey from skepticism and curiosity to experiencing a deep soul-level calling that ultimately led me to sit with this sacred plant medicine. I dive into what it actually means to be called to Ayahuasca, how to discern between curiosity, escapism, and intuition, why the medicine often begins working long before ceremony, and how learning to trust your body's wisdom can transform every area of your life. Whether you're curious about Ayahuasca, navigating a major life transition, or learning to listen more deeply to yourself, this episode will help you understand what it feels like when your soul is inviting you into something bigger.What you'll hear:The Calling: The calling is usually a quiet knowing, not a dramatic moment.Curiosity: Repeated curiosity can be one of the first signs that something deeper is unfolding.Life Transitions: Life transitions often create the space for a calling to become louder.Body Wisdom: Your body frequently knows the answer before your mind does.Preparation: The medicine often begins working long before you drink it.Emotional Healing: Old emotions, patterns, and wounds may surface as part of the preparation.Somatic Work: Somatic work can help you better hear and trust your intuition.Remembering: Healing is not about fixing yourself—it's about remembering who you are.Self-Trust: The most important thing is learning to trust your own inner wisdom.Divine Timing: Divine timing cannot be forced, but it can be honored.Download Your Free EFT Tapping Guide HereFeeling a deeper calling in your life and wanting support trusting your body’s wisdom? Dani offers somatic coaching and breathwork to help you regulate your nervous system, reconnect with your intuition, and lean into your next chapter with more clarity and self-trust.Join the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (October 24-27, 2026)Early bird discount - $500 off through June 24thSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast[email protected] in checking our Rythmia? Learn more about the world-leader Ayahuasca retreat center here ** and please give them my name as your referral (Dani Stedman) if you do join because I would LOVE to get a credit towards my own return visit - I have no intention of going anywhere other than Rythmia, so I would really appreciate your help manifesting a free trip back ;)Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional. The information provided is based on personal experience and publicly available information. Please consult a healthcare provider before making any decisions regarding your health or participation in this program.
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The Initiation Nobody Prepares You For - Why Your Life Falls Apart Before It Comes Together with Alyssa Stefanson
In this deeply soul-led conversation, I sit down with Somatic practitioner, mentor, and host of Body Wisdom Rising, Alyssa Stefanson. Together, we explore the transformative power of surrender, nervous system healing, shadow work, spirituality, and what it truly means to trust the unfolding of your path. Alyssa shares her journey from addiction, abuse, and rock bottom moments to building a thriving purpose-driven business, while reminding us that our greatest breakthroughs often come through our deepest initiations. If you've ever felt stuck, lost, or in the void between who you were and who you're becoming, this episode is for you.What you'll hear:The Gift of Rock Bottom: Rock bottom can become the catalyst that awakens your soul.Shadow Work Changes Everything: Healing begins when you're willing to face the parts of yourself you've avoided.The Body Holds the Story: Understanding your trauma isn't the same as releasing it.Triggers Are Teachers: What activates you often points directly toward your next layer of healing.The Void Has a Purpose: The space between endings and beginnings is where transformation unfolds.The Body Is a Spiritual Gateway: The deeper you inhabit your body, the deeper you connect to your intuition.Identity Must Die Before It Evolves: The next version of you requires releasing who you've been.Quantum Leaps Are Built Daily: Big transformations are created through thousands of small choices.Integrity Creates Lasting Impact: True success is built on alignment, not shortcuts.Follow the Breadcrumbs: The smallest pull of curiosity may be guiding you toward your next chapter.Vulnerability Evolves: Growth isn't about sharing everything—it's about honoring what's sacred.Join Soulfully Seen – Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower (nervous system focused), my 8-week/ self-paced online programFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Alyssa:@wildfemininerisePodcast: Body Wisdom RisingExplore Alyssa's Work Here• The Awaken Experience Costa Rica retreat, January 2027,co-facilitated with Dr. Jesse Hanson• In Service 6-month 1:1 mentorship for healers, practitioners& coaches building a thriving soul-led business • The Calling-A 9-month initiation into you soul’sassignment starting in September Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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I Had a Breakup, a Spiritual Awakening, and a Repressed Memory Surface... All in 30 Days - How Losing Everything I Clung To Set Me Free
In this deeply personal life update, I share the profound shifts that unfolded over the past month— from consciously ending a beautiful relationship to uncovering a decades-old repressed memory, completing a 72-hour fast, and moving through a powerful spiritual awakening. Through heartbreak, healing, somatic work, and radical surrender, I've learned what it means to trust life's unfolding, reconnect with my inner child, and find freedom on the other side of letting go. If you're navigating a season of uncertainty, grief, healing, or transformation, this episode is a reminder that there is medicine in every experience and that your greatest rebirth may be waiting on the other side of surrender.What you'll hear:Conscious Uncoupling: Some relationships are meant to be catalysts at this time to transform us, not always to last forever. I share how ending a relationship became one of my greatest lessons in love and surrender.The Breakup Ritual: Closure becomes healing when approached with intention and love. Healing heartbreak doesn't have to come from anger; it can come from gratitude and release.Reconnecting with My Inner Child Again: I learned that true healing begins when I become the safety, love, and validation I once needed.Repressed Memories & Recovery: The body only reveals what you're finally ready to heal. A buried childhood memory resurfaced and changed how I understand my entire journey.Somatics in Real Time: Feeling emotions fully is what allows them to move through. You have to reveal it, feel it, to heal it. I share how breathwork and body-based healing helped me process intense emotions without becoming overwhelmed.The 72-Hour Fast & Spiritual Awakening: Sometimes the deepest clarity comes through profound stillness. What started as a water fast became one of the most transformative experiences of my life.Alchemizing Pain into Purpose: Your deepest wounds can become the doorway to your greatest gifts. The very things that once broke me are becoming the source of my power, purpose, and deepest self-love.Collective Transformation: The chaos we all feel around us in the world is inviting deeper inner alignment.Rebirth Requires Release: Every new chapter begins with letting something go. Sometimes the life we're meant for can only emerge after we're willing to let go of what no longer aligns.If this episode resonated with you, please follow, rate, review, and share it with someone who’s ready to stop clinging to what's no longer meant for them and reconnect with the Truth and power within.And if you’re feeling called to take this work deeper, I offer somatic coaching, breathwork, nervous system healing, intuitive guidance, and transformational spaces designed to help you feel safe, seen, and fully connected to yourself again. Connect with me through the links below.Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcastInterested in checking our Rythmia? Learn more about the world-leader Ayahuasca retreat center here ** and please give them my name as your referral (Dani Stedman) if you do join because I would LOVE to get a credit towards my own return visit - I have no intention of going anywhere other than Rythmia, so I would really appreciate your help manifesting a free trip back ;)
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Monthly Practice Drop: The 4 Questions That Reveal Your Deepest Patterns (And How to Break Them)
In this monthly embodiment practice episode of the Perfectly Broken Podcast, I share the powerful self-inquiry process inspired by my ayahuasca integration work and somatic healing practices.Inside this episode, you’ll explore:The 3 transformational intentions used in ayahuasca ceremonies How triggers reveal unresolved nervous system patterns The 4 somatic reflection questions I use daily How childhood conditioning shapes relationships, self-worth, and emotional safety The difference between survival patterns and your authentic truth How to begin healing through body-based awareness and nervous system regulation This episode is an invitation to slow down, turn inward, and reconnect with the version of you beneath the conditioning, fear, and protective patterns.If you’ve been feeling activated, disconnected, stuck in repeating cycles, or craving deeper self-understanding, this practice will help you begin exploring the root of what’s really asking to be seen and healed.✨ Mentioned in this episode:My Ayahuasca Journey episodes Somatic healing + nervous system regulation practices Inner child healing + subconscious pattern work If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and share it with someone who’s ready to break old patterns and reconnect with themselves.And if you’re feeling called to take this work deeper, I offer somatic coaching, breathwork, nervous system healing, intuitive guidance, and transformational spaces designed to help you feel safe, seen, and fully connected to yourself again. Connect with me through the links below.Interested in checking our Rythmia? Learn more about the world-leader Ayahuasca retreat center here ** and please give them my name as your referral (Dani Stedman) if you do join because I would LOVE to get a credit towards my own return visit - I have no intention of going anywhere other than Rythmia, so I would really appreciate your help manifesting a free trip back ;)Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcastDisclaimer: I am not a medical professional. The information provided is based on personal experience and publicly available information. Please consult a healthcare provider before making any decisions regarding your health or participation in this program.
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Miscarriage, Sexual Shame & the Conversation About Intimacy Most Women Were Never Allowed to Have with Leola (“Talk Tantra To Me”)
This episode is a deep, vulnerable, and powerful conversation about sexuality, tantra, intimacy, nervous system healing, relationships, miscarriage, devotion, and what it truly means to feel turned on by life. I sit down with renowned tantra teacher and best-selling author, Leola (“Talk Tantra To Me”) to unpack sexual shame, somatic healing, feminine energy, sacred partnership, and the transformational power of pleasure. Together, we explore how healing intimacy isn’t just about the bedroom — it’s about reclaiming safety in your body, deepening your connection to yourself, and learning how to fully receive life.What you'll hear:Healing Sexual Shame: Most of us inherited fear-based conditioning around sex and intimacy.Tantra Beyond the Stereotypes: Tantra is about liberation, presence, and feeling fully alive.Somatics & the Body: Sexual shame often lives in the nervous system and the hips.Turned On by Life: Pleasure is not just sexual; it’s a way of experiencing life deeply.Feminine Energy & Receiving: Softness and embodiment create magnetic relationships.Sacred Partnership: Devotion changes the way we love and relate to our partners.Inviting the Masculine to Rise: Inspiration creates connection more than criticism ever will.Repair After Rupture: Healthy relationships are built through honesty and reconnection.Miscarriage & Grief: Loss deserves space, softness, and emotional truth.Heart-Womb Healing: Trauma can create disconnection within the body that needs compassion.Emotional Safety in Relationships: Feeling held matters more than having the “right” words.Pleasure as Medicine: Small moments of pleasure can regulate the nervous system and transform your life.If this episode moved you, share it with someone who needs this conversation and tag @DaniStedman and @TalkTantraToMe on social media.Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Leola:@talktantratomePodcast: Talk Tantra To Mewww.talktantratome.comBook: Sacred Sex Ed - purchase hereLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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The Answers You’re Searching For Already Exist - A Live Akashic Records Reading Proves It with Anna Bolender
Access Your Free Akashic Records Reading Guide HereIn this deeply intimate and unfiltered episode, I invite you behind the scenes of a live Akashic Records reading with myfriend Anna Bolender, which she invited me to do to share on her own podcast, Radiant You. Together, we explore what it actually looks like to access your soul’s blueprint in real time—diving into patterns, purpose, relationships, and the energetics shaping your life. This conversation is raw, expansive, and a powerful reminder that the clarity you’re seeking already lives within you—you just need the space (and sometimes the support) to access it.What you'll hear:Soul Blueprint Activation: This episode gives you a real-time experience of what an Akashic Records reading actually feels like.Your Answers Already Exist: The guidance isn’t external—it’s a deeper access point to what your soul already knows.Bridging Science & Spirituality: We explore the Akashic Records through an energetic and quantum lens, making the “woo” feel grounded.Patterns Come to the Surface: Repeated relationship and life patterns are revealed with clarity and compassion.Purpose Is Felt, Not Forced: Your purpose isn’t something you chase—it unfolds as you embody your truth.Clarity vs. Prediction: This work isn’t about telling the future—it’s about empowering your choices in the present.You Are Supported: Your spirit team, your energy, your path—it’s all working in your favor, even when you can’t see it yet.Schedule a Session with Me Here (*Find the Akashic Records + Spirit Team only option in the Contact Me below)Join the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Anna:@annaalexbeePodcast: RADIANT YOUwww.annabolender.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Ayahuasca Took My Control… And Taught Me What Surrender Really Means
In this deeply personal episode, I share what true surrender has looked like in my life since my ayahuasca experience—and how it’s completely transformed the way I move through chaos, heartbreak, and the unknown. Instead of gripping for control, I’ve learned to soften, trust, and stay grounded in my body, even when everything feels like it’s falling apart. This episode is about releasing the illusion of control, not taking things personally, and stepping into a new level of peace, power, and emotional capacity—no matter what life throws your way.What you'll hear:Surrender Isn’t Weakness — It’s Power: Letting go is not giving up; it’s choosing courage over control. Control Is an Illusion: Trying to control outcomes only creates tension, anxiety, and disconnection. Peace Comes From the Present Moment: You can’t find peace in the past or future—only in the now. Triggers Are Invitations to Heal: Every emotional reaction is a doorway into deeper self-awareness. Not Everything Is About You: Other people’s actions reflect their wounds, not your worth. Pain Is Expansion, Not Punishment: What breaks you open is often what elevates you.Emotional Capacity Is Built Through Feeling: The more you allow your lows, the more you can hold your highs. Your Nervous System Drives Your Experience: Safety isn’t found in control—it’s created within your body.Detachment Creates Freedom: Releasing attachment to outcomes allows life to flow. Surrender Creates Real Peace: Less overthinking, better sleep, and deeper trust in life. Interested in checking our Rythmia? Learn more about the world-leader Ayahuasca retreat center here ** and please give them my name as your referral (Dani Stedman) if you do join because I would LOVE to get a credit towards my own return visit - I have no intention of going anywhere other than Rythmia, so I would really appreciate your help manifesting a free trip back ;)Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcastDisclaimer: I am not a medical professional. The information provided is based on personal experience and publicly available information. Please consult a healthcare provider before making any decisions regarding your health or participation in this program.
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I Didn’t Realize ‘Being in Control’ Was Holding Me Back in Love… Until This Relationship with Anna Bolender
In this episode, I had the honor of being interviewed by my dear friend and fellow Somatic Embodiment leader, Anna Bolender, on her podcast Radiant You. This was such a special conversation because it’s the first time you’ll hear me on the other side of the mic—being held, witnessed, and guided by Anna’s intuition. We dive into my current relationship, the lessons it’s bringing up, and the real-time growth happening behind the scenes. From healing patterns around control and perfectionism to embodying feminine energy, surrender, and vulnerability—this conversation is raw, honest, and full of truth that might just mirror your own journey. Together, we explored parts of my story I haven’t fully shared before, allowing the conversation to unfold exactly as it was meant to for the collective.What you’ll hear:From survival to self-trust: I share my journey through trauma, eating disorders, and what it truly took to feel safe in my body again Breaking the “good girl” identity: We unpack perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the unconscious patterns that keep women stuckSurrender in real life (not just a buzzword): What it actually means to let go of control while still taking aligned actionMasculine vs. feminine energy in practice: How to move from burnout and force into balance, flow, and grounded structureLove, polarity, and conscious relationships: What it looks like to create safety, attraction, and depth through vulnerability and embodiment Softening into trust: How releasing control and honoring divine timing can open you to more ease, joy, and alignment than you imaginedSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Anna:@annaalexbeePodcast: RADIANT YOUwww.annabolender.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Monthly Practice Drop: Feel Closer Instantly - My Favorite 5-Minute Connection Ritual
What if deep connection didn’t require hours of processing… but just a few intentional minutes a day?In this month’s practice drop, I’m sharing a simple yet powerfulrelationship ritual that has transformed the way I experience intimacy, communication, and emotional safety—both in romantic relationships and beyond.This practice blends structure with vulnerability, giving you a grounded way to connect without overthinking what to say or how to say it.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:5-minute daily connection practice to build intimacy and trust How to create safe, consistent emotional connection (without it turning into conflict) The difference between surface-level communication and being truly seen + felt A simple framework you can use with a partner, friend, or family member Whether you’re looking to deepen a relationship, rebuild connection, or simply feel more supported in your life… this is something you can start today.✨ Share this episode with someone you want to feel closer to—and try it together.Mentioned in this episode:Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer (“Mama Gina”)If you want to take this work deeper…This is just the surface of what’s possible when you learn how to feel safe in your body, express your truth, and create deeply connected relationships.Inside my world, we go beyond mindset and into somatic healing, nervous system regulation, and embodied vulnerability—so connection doesn’t feel forced… it becomes who you are.Everything starts here: your relationship with yourself.Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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The 4 Stages of Love No One Talks About (But Everyone Goes Through)
In this episode of Perfectly Broken, I break down the truth about relationships that no one really teaches us—how they evolve, why they trigger us, and what it actually takes to create secure, lasting love. From the types of relationships we experience to the four stages every relationship moves through, this conversation invites you to shift from blaming your partner to understanding yourself. If you’ve ever felt like your relationship is “breaking,” this episode will help you see that you might actually be right on track for deeper connection, healing, and growth.What you'll hear:Mirror Relationships: The ones that trigger you the most are the ones showing you your deepest woundsDifferentiation Stage (Power Struggle): When love gets real, your nervous system starts to panicPatterns vs. Reality: Not everything you feel is truth… sometimes it’s your past speakingDepth Seeker vs. Stabilizer: One processes emotions together, the other alone… and neither is wrongRepair & Growth: Real love is built through conflict, communication, and conscious repair Healing in Relationship: You don’t need to be “fully healed” to be loved… you heal through loveSecure Love: Safety replaces anxiety, and conflict no longer threatens the connectionSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Why You’re Still Stuck (Even Though You’re Doing the Work) with Anna Bolender
In this episode of Perfectly Broken, I sit down with Anna Bolender, a Somatic Embodiment & Intuitive Life Coach, to explore the deeper layers of healing, self-trust, and what it really means to come home to yourself. This conversation moves beyond surface-level personal development and into the body—where true transformation happens. We talk about perfectionism, nervous system regulation, relationships as mirrors, and the shift from constantly “fixing yourself” to living, integrating, and embodying your truth. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your healing journey or like you’re doing all the work but not seeing change—this episode will land deeply.What you'll hear:Healing vs. Fixing: Healing isn’t about fixing yourself, it’s about integration, curiosity, and self-compassionPerfectionism Patterns: The inner critic is often rooted in tying your worth to achievement Safety First: You can only shift patterns when your nervous system feels safe Expanded Awareness: Deep work (like plant medicine) brings awareness you can’t ignore or unseeProcrastination Truth: Avoidance is usually fear of failure or not feeling “enough”Relationships as Mirrors: Your patterns in love reveal where you’re abandoning yourselfComing Home to Yourself: The goal isn’t perfection, it’s returning to yourself fasterPower of Curiosity: Curiosity shifts you out of self-judgment and into transformationFeeling called to go deeper into this work?✨ Join me for Emerge: A Day of Reset—a nervous system healing day retreat in the Houston area on Saturday, April 25th. This is your space to slow down, reconnect to your body, and learn tools to regulate, release, and come back home to yourself. Open to everyone.Learn more + Save your spot herewww.danistedman.comJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherConnect with Anna:@annaalexbeePodcast: RADIANT YOUwww.annabolender.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Stop Calling It Trauma - It’s Actually a Safety Response
In this episode of Perfectly Broken, I share a powerful reframe that shifted everything for me—moving away from labeling myself as “traumatized” and instead understanding my patterns as safety responses. I break down what trauma actually is (and isn’t), how it lives in the body, and why your nervous system is always trying to protect you—not sabotage you. This conversation is an invitation to soften, get curious, and begin healing through somatic awareness, nervous system regulation, and self-compassion.What you’ll hear:Trauma Redefined: Trauma isn’t what happened—it’s what the body holds onto when there wasn’t the capacity to process it Safety Over Shame: Reactions aren’t flaws—they’re safety responses designed to protectStress Responses: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn are automatic protection patterns—not conscious choices Healing Truth: Healing isn’t about reliving the past—it’s about creating safety in the present moment Somatic Healing: Healing happens through the body—not just through thinking or understandingFeeling called to go deeper into this work?✨ Join me for Emerge: A Day of Reset—a nervous system healing day retreat in the Houston area on Saturday, April 25th. This is your space to slow down, reconnect to your body, and learn tools to regulate, release, and come back home to yourself. Open to everyone.Learn more + Save your spot hereSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Blended with Love - Building a Family That Feels Whole with Ricky Patel - Pt. 2
Welcome back to part 2 of my episode with the incredibly insightful Ricky Patel.*Make sure to go back to the previous episode to check out part 1 to get all caught up!In this episode, we dive deep into the challenges and joys of creating a harmonious blended family. Ricky shares his personal experience navigating dating, introducing new partners to children, and building a family where everyone feels included and loved. From methodically guiding his daughters through meeting his now-wife to creating meaningful bonds with all children involved, this episode offers practical insights, heartfelt lessons, and wisdom for anyone blending families or seeking deeper connection in relationships.What you'll hear:Introducing New Partners Thoughtfully: Ricky shares how he carefully introduced his wife to his children over time, allowing the kids to guide the process so they felt secure and included rather than replaced.Building Harmony Step by Step: Through staged outings, quality one-on-one time, and intentional planning, Ricky shows how small, deliberate steps can create lasting trust and closeness.Choosing the Right Partner: Ricky stresses that a loving, compatible partner is the cornerstone of a happy blended family, as the relationship between parents shapes the family’s overall harmony.Modeling Unconditional Love: By showing respect, kindness, and patience to both his children and partner, Ricky demonstrates how embodying unconditional love teaches children how to love and be loved.Living a Soul-Filled Life: Beyond family logistics, he reflects on embracing life fully, prioritizing meaningful experiences, connection, and moments that nourish the soul.Healing and Growth Opportunities: Ricky highlights the power of retreats, breathwork, and self-healing, showing that nurturing your own wellbeing strengthens the entire family dynamic.Feeling called to go deeper into this work?✨ Join me for Emerge: A Day of Reset—a nervous system healing day retreat in the Houston area on Saturday, April 25th. This is your space to slow down, reconnect to your body, and learn tools to regulate, release, and come back home to yourself. Open to everyone.Learn more + Save your spot hereSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Ricky:@miamaesp | @healthy.lawyerRicky Patel FacebookLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Monthly Practice Drop: Body Scan Meditation for Nervous System Regulation
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected from your body?This 7-minute guided body scan meditation is a simple but powerful practice to help you regulate your nervous system, feel safe in your body, and come back to the present moment.When practiced consistently, this tool can help you:reduce anxiety and emotional reactivityreconnect with your body and intuitionfeel more grounded, calm, and in controlshow up more fully in your relationshipsTry this practice 3–4 times per week and notice how your body—and your life—begins to shift.⚠️ Do not listen while driving or doing anything that requires your full attention.Feeling called to go deeper into this work?✨ Join me for Emerge: A Day of Reset—a nervous system healing day retreat in the Houston area on Saturday, April 25th. This is your space to slow down, reconnect to your body, and learn tools to regulate, release, and come back home to yourself. Open to everyone.Learn more + Save your spot hereSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Marriage, Family, and Giving Back - A Blueprint for Impact with Ricky Patel - Pt. 1
In this deeply moving episode, I sit down with Ricky Patel—lawyer, philanthropist, spiritual guide (whether he'd call himself that or not, I'm owning it for him haha), and one of the most grounding presences I’ve ever encountered. We met at Rythmia during an ayahuasca journey, where Ricky naturally became a pillar of safety and wisdom for an entire community of participants. From changing laws around sexual assault to feeding over a million children, Ricky shares how spirituality, service, love, and intentional relationships guide every part of his life. This conversation is about redefining success, giving back beyond money, and what it truly means to live in alignment with mind, body, and soul.What you'll hear:Resilience & Growth: How Ricky’s journey from being born to refugee parents to moving to the United States shaped his independence, curiosity, and drive to create impact.Redefining Giving: Why giving back isn’t about money—it’s about presence, attention, and using your time to uplift others in small and significant ways.Love & Partnership: How he and his wife Evelyn intentionally nurture their marriage, prioritize each other, and create a deep, soul-aligned connection that supports their family.Blended Families & Patience: The strategies and mindset Ricky uses to build healthy, harmonious relationships in complex family systems, emphasizing patience, communication, and trust.Spiritual Growth & Self-Mastery: Lessons from ayahuasca, meditation, and curiosity that have guided him to live authentically, act intentionally, and continually grow.✨ This episode is a reminder that true impact comes from alignment, presence, and the love and care we offer to the world and the people closest to us.Feeling called to go deeper into this work?✨ Join me for Emerge: A Day of Reset—a nervous system healing day retreat in the Houston area on Saturday, April 25th. This is your space to slow down, reconnect to your body, and learn tools to regulate, release, and come back home to yourself. Open to everyone.Learn more + Save your spot hereSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Ricky:@miamaesp | @healthy.lawyerRicky Patel FacebookLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Ayahuasca Changed My Life (But Not How You Think)
In this deeply personal Season 4 opener, I share a raw and powerful introduction to my ayahuasca journey—offering a grounded, honest perspective on the medicine, the transformation it sparked, and the ongoing integration into my real life. Rather than romanticizing the experience, I open up about the beauty and the brutality, and how this work has reshaped the way I move through grief, relationships, and uncertainty. This episode is an invitation to soften, surrender, and trust life’s unfolding—even when it doesn’t make sense.What you'll hear:Understanding Ayahuasca: What ayahuasca truly is (to me) as a sacred plant medicine, and how it supports deep inner healing rather than acting as a quick fix.The Call to the Medicine: My personal journey of being called to ayahuasca and how life prepared me for it in ways I didn’t fully see at the time.The Reality of the Experience: The raw truth of the journey—emotional purging, physical intensity, and the profound breakthroughs that came through it.Integration is Everything: Why the real transformation has happened after the ceremonies, and how I continue to embody the lessons in my everyday life.The Core Lesson – Surrender: What it has looked like for me to release control, soften resistance, and trust the unfolding of my life.Interested in checking our Rythmia? Learn more about the world-leader Ayahuasca retreat center here ** and please give them my name as your referral (Dani Stedman) if you do join because I would LOVE to get a credit towards my own return visit - I have no intention of going anywhere other than Rythmia, so I would really appreciate your help manifesting a free trip back ;)Feeling called to go deeper into this work?✨ Join me for Emerge: A Day of Reset—a nervous system healing day retreat in the Houston area on Saturday, April 25th. This is your space to slow down, reconnect to your body, and learn tools to regulate, release, and come back home to yourself. Open to everyone.Learn more + Save your spot hereSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcastDisclaimer: I am not a medical professional. The information provided is based on personal experience and publicly available information. Please consult a healthcare provider before making any decisions regarding your health or participation in this program.
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Fun, Big Announcement: Stop Just Listening - Start Transforming
Season 4 of Perfectly Broken is officially here—and this year, it’s all about you. I’m shifting the energy to focus on what the collective truly needs, and starting this season, on the first of every month, I’ll be dropping a special practice-based episode. From breathwork and mind–heart coherence activations to rituals, meditations, and whatever feels most alive in the moment, these episodes will give you something tangible to actually implement—not just listen to.Because real transformation happens when we do the work. When we feel, process, release, and choose to show up from our hearts instead of our wounding. Stay tuned next week for a powerful episode on my experience with Ayahuasca—and get ready for a season of deeper embodiment, collective healing, and becoming 1% more aligned each day.If you're ready to dive right in today, here's a copy of my Free EFT Tapping Guide for you to learn this tool and be able to implement it yourself.Get Your Free EFT Tapping Guide HereSchedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereLock in the Early Bird Discount for the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (Coming to the Houston Area October 24-27, 2026)Emerge: A Day of Reset (Day Retreat Coming to the Houston Area April 25th - open to all beautiful souls, not just women). Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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We're Back! Perfectly Broken Season 4 - Less Fluff, More Truth, Fully Alive
Welcome to Perfectly Broken Season 4! I’m your host, Dani Stedman, and this season is all about real, unfiltered growth, embodiment, and stepping fully into your power. No fluff—just messy, transformative conversations about life, love, your body, and your inner wisdom. Whether you’re here to reflect, laugh, or level up, you’re in the right place. Hit follow, share with someone who needs it, and come along for the ride—let’s show up fully, together.Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereLock in the Early Bird Discount for the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (Coming to the Houston Area October 24-27, 2026)Emerge: A Day of Reset (Day Retreat Coming to the Houston Area April 25th - open to all beautiful souls, not just women). Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Soulfully Seen - Choosing Yourself and the Path to Lasting Change with Heather Gardner
In this powerful season finale, I sit down with Heather Gardner — a devoted mom of five, chiropractic grad student, and courageous cycle breaker — for a deeply heart-opening conversation about taking your power back, healing generational wounds, and discovering the magic that unfolds when you choose yourself. Heather vulnerably shares how her transformation deepened after attending the Soulfully Seen Women’s Retreat, where she moved through fears of judgment and found sisterhood, safety, and soulful connection.Together, we explore how practices like Somatic breathwork, swamping, and journaling helped her release stored trauma, embody self-compassion, and integrate mindfulness into daily life — reminding us that healing isn’t just a moment, it’s a sacred choice we make over and over again.What you’ll hear:The Catalyst for Change: What sparked Heather’s decision to stop waiting for a “new year” or the “perfect time,” and how starting her healing journey now transformed every area of her life.The Cycle Breaker’s Path: How being the “black sheep” of her family became Heather’s superpower, as she chose to end generations of emotional immaturity and create a new legacy of love, safety, and emotional availability for her children.Small Steps, Big Shifts: The difference between trying to change everything at once and creating lasting transformation through small, consistent habits rooted in self-awareness and grace.The Power of Presence: Heather’s vulnerable reflection on attending her first retreat, what it taught her about slowing down, surrendering control, and remembering what peace feels like in her body.Feeling to Heal: We dive into the importance of allowing ourselves — and our children — to feel emotions fully without judgment, and how doing so opens the door to emotional intelligence and true peace.Healing the Sister Wound: Heather shares how she moved beyond the fear of gossip, judgment, and competition to experience genuine connection and safety with other women.Even though we’re officially wrapping up Season 3 of the Perfectly Broken Podcast, the journey doesn’t end here. I’m still taking on new clients, and there are so many ways to work with me. If you’re ready to deepen your healing and come home to your truest self, check out the links below or connect with me directly to explore what’s calling you next.And because I don’t believe in gatekeeping spiritual wisdom, I created a FREE Akashic Records Reading Guide for you, full of journaling prompts and example questions to help you dive deeper. ****Grab it HERE****Schedule a Session with Me HereJoin the Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership HereLock in the Early Bird Discount for the Soulfully Seen Women's Retreat (Coming to the Houston Area October 24-27, 2026)Emerge: A Day of Reset (Day Retreat Coming to the Houston Area April 25th - open to all beautiful souls, not just women). Email me "EMERGE" to learn more and reserve your spotFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Heather:Chronicles of the Chaos CoordinatorHeather GardnerLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Your Book of Life - Understanding the Power of the Akashic Records
In this deeply supportive episode, I’m diving deep into the Akashic Records—one of the most transformative tools I’ve found on my healing journey. From personal breakthroughs to client stories that blew me away, I’m breaking down what the Records are, why they matter, and how you can begin working with them yourself.What you'll hear:What the Akashic Records are and how they act as your soul’s energetic library across lifetimes.Why they’re so powerful for healing, clarity, and understanding your soul contracts, patterns, and purpose.The benefits of a reading—from uncovering root causes of trauma to finding your voice, confidence, and direction.How to access them yourself (and why working with a trained reader can cut through doubt and bring deeper clarity).What questions you can ask to explore timelines, past lives, your purpose, and guidance from your spirit team.Client breakthroughs—from chronic pain healing, to saving marriages, to releasing lifelong patterns.And because I don’t believe in gatekeeping spiritual wisdom, I created a FREE Akashic Records Reading Guide for you, full of journaling prompts and example questions to help you dive deeper. ****Grab it HERE****Schedule your Akashic Records Reading HereFill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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The Health Class We All Deserve - Cycles, Sexuality, & Reclaiming Pleasure with Autumn Paone
This is without a doubt my most vulnerable episode of the Perfectly Broken Podcast yet—one that’s packed with wisdom, raw truth, and powerful normalization of the things women have been conditioned to feel shame around. I sit down with Autumn Paone, co-host of The Health Class She Deserves podcast and a passionate advocate for women’s health, to dive deep into the realities of chronic pain, invisible illness, cycle syncing, and the dismissive nature of Western medicine. Together, we unpack the cultural conditioning that shapes how women view their bodies and sexuality—everything from purity culture to porn-driven beauty standards—and explore how nervous system regulation, body awareness, and reconnecting with pleasure can transform not just health, but confidence and self-love. Whether you’re a woman seeking to reclaim your body and your voice or a man wanting to better understand and support the women in your life, this conversation is an eye-opening invitation to question old narratives and step into empowerment.What you'll hear:The Reality of Invisible Illness: We talk about the stigma of “dynamic illnesses,” where pain isn’t visible or constant, yet deeply impacts daily life, and how this lack of visibility often leads to dismissal.Beyond the Pill: Autumn and I share our experiences of being prescribed birth control as a quick fix, and why masking symptoms doesn’t get to the root of women’s health struggles.Nervous System & Hormones: How chronic stress and dysregulation can throw off hormonal balance, leading to PMS, cycle irregularities, and other health issues.Cycle Syncing Simplified: Why syncing with your cycle doesn’t need to feel like another fad diet, and how to use it as a tool for awareness rather than rigid rules.Body Shame & Disconnection: The deep shame many women feel around their genitals, and how cultural conditioning and lack of language keep us disconnected from our sexuality.The Problem with Youth Obsession: Why many beauty and sexual norms are rooted in the sexualization of young girls, and how this deeply ingrained issue influences attraction, porn culture, and shame around natural bodies.Reclaiming Pleasure: Practical steps for exploring self-pleasure without vibrators or visual aids, turning it into a spiritual practice that helps you learn your body and guide a partner with confidence.Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Autumn:@autumnnmariee@thehealthclassshedeserves@girlinpain SubstackLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Intuition, Alignment, and the Courage to Trust Yourself with Kasey Wichael
In this powerful episode, Kasey Wichael — a somatic breathwork facilitator, Reiki master, and intuitive guide — shares her journey of awakening to her spiritual gifts, what happened when she tried to suppress them, and surrendering to the guidance of her intuition and spirit team. We explore how ignoring our inner knowing can lead to anxiety, depression, and struggle— and how stepping into alignment can completely shift our lives.What you'll hear:The Power of Vulnerability: How opening up about insecurities can lead to deeper connection and healing.Healing Through Rock Bottom: Why heartbreak and pain can become the doorway to transformation and self-discovery.Awakening Intuition: How healing ourselves opens the door to intuitive gifts and deeper spiritual connection.Sisterhood Over Competition: The reminder that we each bring our own unique magic, and there’s more than enough to go around.Connection with Spirit: The role of meditation and guides in helping you receive clarity and support when you feel lost.Trusting Intuitive Hits: A real-time example of following inner nudges and the freedom that comes when you listen.Self-Trust as a Superpower: Why your deepest answers are always within, and how to build confidence in listening to them.Fill out the Contact Me to Work Togetherwww.danistedman.comConnect with Kasey:@kaseyactivatesLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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The Many Variations of Sexual Assault & How the Body Holds Trauma
In this powerful episode, we open up a conversation about sexual assault—how it can show up in ways that aren’t always obvious, how it lives in the body, and how we can begin to heal. Through compassionate storytelling and somatic awareness, this episode offers validation, education, and tools to help survivors reconnect with their bodies and reclaim their power.What you'll hear:Clarity & Awareness: A clear definition of sexual assault and an exploration of the many forms it can take, helping to expand awareness beyond the most obvious situations.The Hidden Layers: A look at the less recognized experiences of assault, including energetic violations, coercion, and moments where silence or freezing is mistaken for consent.Breaking the Cycle: An honest discussion about childhood abuse and generational trauma, and how unspoken wounds often ripple through families until someone chooses to break the silence.Men & Masculinity: Recognizing the unique stigma men face around sexual assault, and the importance of creating space for them to process and share their experiences without shame.The Body Remembers: How unresolved trauma shows up in the body through tension, numbness, health struggles, sleep issues, and nervous system dysregulation.Pathways to Healing: Practical tools like somatic practices, breathwork, mindfulness, voice work, and safe rituals that support the process of reclaiming safety and embodiment.Gentle Self-Inquiry: Reflection practices and journal prompts designed to help survivors connect with their body’s wisdom and bring hidden experiences into the light.Reclaiming Power: A message of empowerment, reminding listeners that healing is possible, safety can be rebuilt, and survivors can transform pain into strength and resilience.Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Rituals & Ceremonies - Creating Sacred Space in Everyday Life
In this episode, we dive into one of my favorite topics: rituals and ceremonies — what they are, how they’ve changed my life, and how you can begin incorporating them into your daily rhythm. From my first cacao ceremony to full moon releases, I share how intentional practices can shift your energy, regulate your nervous system, and reconnect you to your higher self. You’ll walk away with practical tools to create sacred moments in your everyday life, and I’ll also give you a behind-the-scenes peek at the powerful rituals we’ll experience together at my upcoming Soulfully Seen Retreat (coming to the Houston area September 7-10th).What you'll hear:Understanding Rituals vs. Ceremonies: The difference between a ritual — a simple, intentional practice — and a ceremony — a larger, sacred container that holds multiple rituals — and how to bring more intentionality into daily life.Rituals as Nervous System Reset: How small, consistent rituals can regulate the nervous system, reduce stress, and anchor attention in the present moment, creating a sense of safety and grounding.Practical Rituals to Start Today: Simple practices that can be woven into everyday life, such as mindful beverages, journaling, or breathwork, to cultivate presence, intentionality, and energy shifts.A Peek Into Retreat Ceremonies: A look at transformational group rituals and ceremonies, including full moon release, cord cutting, cacao ceremony, sound bowls with Reiki, and somatic breathwork, designed to help participants reconnect with their authentic, aligned selves.Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Activating Your Inner Healer - Ancient Wisdom & Modern Science with Dr. Nelson Valena
In this extremely informative episode, I’m joined by Dr. Nelson Valena, co-founder of the Golden Hill Retreat Center in Coldspring, TX — the stunning location for my upcoming Soulfully Seen Retreat. Dr. Valena shares his journey from a career in traditional medicine to becoming a bridge betweenWestern medical expertise and ancient healing practices. After a personal health crisis turned his world upside down, he found a deeper calling in creating a sanctuary for holistic transformation. Together, we explore what it means to truly heal — mind, body, and spirit.What you'll hear:When the Healer Becomes the Patient: His personal experience with a life-altering stroke, and how it forced him to re-examine his health, purpose, and the way he practiced medicine.Bridging Two Worlds: Why Dr. Valena is passionate about blending the strengths of Western medical science with the wisdom of ancient healing modalities.The Science of Spirit: How spirituality and science can not only coexist but actually enhance each other in the journey toward wholeness.Energy & The Biofield: An introduction to the biofield, the energy field that surrounds us, and how it influences our nervous system, endocrine system, and overall health.The Nervous System as the Bridge: How regulating thenervous system creates the common ground between allopathic medicine and energy-based healing modalities.Stress, Disease, & Disconnection: Understanding how chronic fight-or-flight states lead to inflammation, autoimmune issues, and other chronic health conditions.Alignment as Medicine: Why being out of alignment withyour true path can cause physical and emotional suffering, and how real healing requires addressing the psychospiritual.Activating the Inner Healer: The Golden Hill mission to guide people in removing inner blocks, reclaiming self-trust, and stepping fully into their healing power.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Nelson at Golden Hill Retreat Center:Facebook: Golden Hill Retreatwww.goldenhillretreat.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Reprogram Your Mind for Abundance While You Sleep
Fall asleep in the energy of “already having” your desires.In this guided bedtime manifestation, I’ll help you ease into your body, slow your breath, and release the tension of the day so you can fall asleep peacefully. As you listen, you’ll plant powerful seeds of abundance and opportunities into your subconscious mind — the part of you that shapes your reality while you sleep.Listen nightly to:Attract financial and lifestyle abundanceExpand your capacity to receiveRemove limiting beliefs around worthiness and wealthThis episode pairs beautifully with my earlier podcast on the science of manifestation and subconscious reprogramming — linked in the show notes for you to revisit the “why” behind this practice anytime.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Reprogram Your Mind for Love & Self-Acceptance While You Sleep
Drift off to sleep wrapped in the vibration of love — for yourself and for the life you’re creating.In this guided bedtime manifestation, I’ll help you ease into your body, slow your breath, and release the tension of the day so you can fall asleep peacefully. As you listen, you’ll plant powerful seeds of self-love and receiving love from others into your subconscious mind — the part of you that shapes your reality while you sleep.Listen nightly to:Strengthen your self-love and self-worthCall in soul-aligned relationshipsHeal old patterns around love and connectionThis episode pairs beautifully with my earlier podcast on the science of manifestation and subconscious reprogramming — linked in the show notes for you to revisit the “why” behind this practice anytime.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Reprogram Your Mind for Peace While You Sleep
Drift into deep rest while reprogramming your subconscious for inner peace.In this guided bedtime manifestation, I’ll help you ease into your body, slow your breath, and release the tension of the day so you can fall asleep peacefully. As you listen, you’ll plant powerful seeds of calm and stability into your subconscious mind — the part of you that shapes your reality while you sleep.Listen nightly to:Quiet racing thoughts before bedRelease stored tension and anxietyWake up feeling lighter and more centeredThis episode pairs beautifully with my earlier podcast on the science of manifestation and subconscious reprogramming — linked in the show notes for you to revisit the “why” behind this practice anytime.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Nervous System 101 - How to Spot Dysregulation & Practical Tools That Work
Have you ever had a moment where you felt like you were losing it— but brushed it off as just being “off” that day? In this episode, I’m sharing a story that might sound all too familiar: a moment when my nervous system hijacked me, and I didn’t even realize it. What I once saw as an embarrassing overreaction, I now understand was my body crying out for regulation. This episode is here to help you recognize the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs of nervous system dysregulation, so you can stop shaming yourself and start supporting yourself. You’ll also walk away with practical tools to bring your body back into balance and a deeper understanding of how to choose the right practices for what you need in the moment.What you'll hear:Understanding Your Nervous System Basics: Learn the three primary nervous system states (fight/flight, freeze/collapse, and ventral vagal regulation), and how they’re constantly shifting in your daily life.Spotting Sneaky Signs of Dysregulation: It’s not always obvious when you’re dysregulated. You’ll discover subtle symptoms— like overworking, mindless scrolling, and emotional numbness— that may be signaling your nervous system is stuck in survival mode.Choosing the Right Regulation Tools for YOU: Not every calming practice works in every moment. I’ll teach you how to “match the tool to the state,” so you can feel empowered to regulate effectively whether you’re anxious, checked out, or anywhere in between.Why Somatic Breathwork Can Rewire Your Stress Patterns: Understand how Somatic Breathwork (done correctly) can guide your body through cycles of activation and relaxation, helping you build true resilience—not just temporary calm.The Power of Being Seen & Held in Sacred Sisterhood: Healing isn’t a solo journey. We discuss why in-person retreats create transformational shifts that books, podcasts, and online courses often can’t—and how this sisterhood work is essential to nervous system healing.An Invitation to the Soulfully Seen Women’s Retreat (Sept 7-10): If you’re ready to release what's holding you back and finally feel safe, connected, and seen in your authenticity, this retreat is your chance. We’ll blend Somatic Breathwork, mindful movement, nervous system regulation, sacred rituals, and deep sisterhood to transform your inner world.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Mom Guilt, Comparison Culture, and Coming Back to Yourself with Laura Kistner - Pt. 2
Welcome back to part 2 of my episode with the incredibly powerful, embodied Laura Kistner.*Make sure to go back to the previous episode to check out part 1 to get all caught up!In this episode, I continue my deep conversation with Laura Kistner, to dive deep into the realities of motherhood, self-worth, comparison, and healing. Laura opens up about the pressure to be the “perfect mom,” the shame-fueled culture of comparison, and the transformative power of vulnerability. We explore how doing the inner work not only reshapes our relationship with ourselves but also transforms the way we parent and show up in the world. Whether you're a mom or not, Laura's journey of reclaiming her confidence, owning her gifts, and choosing joy will inspire you to stop comparing and start getting curious.What you'll hear:Mom Guilt & Comparison Culture: How motherhood is steeped in judgment and societal pressure— and how we can start freeing ourselves from it.The Power of Vulnerability: Why opening up creates connection and belonging— and how it breaks the illusion of perfection.Inner Growth for Outer Joy: How doing the work on yourself ripples into every area of life, especially parenting.Owning Your Gifts: Laura shares how she went from self-doubt to confidently holding space as a life coach and HypnoBreathwork facilitator.Following What Lights You Up: Why it's never too late to try something new, and how passion leads to purpose.From Rock Bottom to Radiance: Laura’s inspiring transformation and a message of hope for anyone who feels stuck or unworthy.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Laura:@laurakistnerLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Cracked Open by Motherhood - Journey Through Infertility, Identity, & Healing with Laura Kistner - Pt. 1
In this beautifully supportive episode, I sit down with returning guest Laura Kistner— a woman I deeply admire and look up to as a maternal archetype in my life, right up there with my own mom. We dive into her journey through infertility, motherhood, identity, and healing. Laura vulnerably shares her four-year battle to become a mom, how it cracked her wide open, and what she’s learned about chasing joy from the inside out. Whether you’re a parent or not, this episode holds deep wisdom for anyone navigating the path of purpose, self-love, and choosing themselves again and again.What you'll hear:Infertility & Inner Growth: Laura’s path through infertility helped her realize how deeply she wanted to be a mother— and how important it was to stop blaming her body.Joy vs. Happiness: Achieving milestones (motherhood, marriage, career) brought external happiness, but true fulfillment came from discovering inner joy and self-worth.Motherhood as a Catalyst: Becoming a mom pushed Laura into deep inner work, not just for herself— but so her daughter could learn self-love through example, not instruction.Letting Go of the Martyr Mentality: Early motherhood brought burnout, and Laura had to learn that self-care isn’t selfish— it’s essential.Redefining Readiness: You’re never fully “ready,” and sometimes the calling (motherhood, purpose, healing) is the very thing that prepares you.Hope for the Journey: For those struggling with infertility or feeling behind in life— Laura’s message is clear: You are not broken, and you are not alone.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Laura:@laurakistnerLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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When Healthy Becomes Harmful - Healing from Orthorexia
In this deeply personal solo episode, I’m getting super vulnerable about something that so many people in the wellness industry silently struggle with— orthorexia. It’s an obsession with eating “clean” or “healthy” that starts with good intentions but can quickly spiral into anxiety, isolation, and fear around food. I know this all too well because I lived it. And the truth is, it’s everywhere— in fitness spaces, spiritual circles, and even among those who seem to have it all together. If you’ve ever felt like your wellness habits might be running the show instead of supporting your life, this episode is for you.Free Masterclass: Becoming a Magnet for Soul-Aligned FriendsWhat you’ll hear:Understanding Orthorexia: A deep dive into what orthorexia really is, why it’s so overlooked, and how it often hides behind the mask of wellness.Wellness Culture Wake-Up Call: How diet trends, fitness challenges, and even spiritual communities can unintentionally glorify disordered behavior.Red Flags & Patterns to Look Out For: Subtle signs that your “healthy habits” might actually be rooted in fear, control, or anxiety.The High Cost of Control: The emotional, mental, and social consequences of living in fear of food—and what I lost in the name of being “healthy.”Nervous System & Food Fears: Why true healing requires nervous system regulation and learning how to feel safe in your body again.Reflection Prompts for Awareness: Guided journal questions to help you explore your own relationship with food, control, and self-trust.Freedom on the Other Side: What it actually feels like to live without constant food fear—and how joyful, intuitive living is 100% possible.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Life as a Canvas - Redefining Strength, Divine Expression, & the Power of Stillness with Jude Rosemond
In this powerful and heart-centered episode, I sit down with Jude Rosemond— a Caribbean-born artist, bodybuilder, holistic wellness coach, and living kidney donor— for a deeply moving conversation about transformation, embodiment, and the sacred balance within us all. We explore the meaning of divine masculine energy, the evolution of the fitness and wellness industries, and the radical act of healing our relationship with our bodies, our stories, and our sense of self. Through personal stories, ancient wisdom, and energetic insights, this episode invites you to honor the sacred pause, reconnect with your inner cycles, and remember the strength that comes from stillness, surrender, and soul-level alignment. It’s a rich tapestry of art, healing, and heart-led truth— perfect for anyone on the path of remembering who they are.Free Masterclass: Becoming a Magnet for Soul-Aligned FriendsWhat you’ll hear:Life as a Living Canvas: Art is everywhere— and we’re all artists co-creating the lives we want through our choices, stories, and willingness to shift perspective.Stillness as Expansion: The power of stillness as a tool for recalibration, reflection, and receiving divine guidance.Living Kidney Donation: Jude’s deeply personal journey of donating a kidney to his mother and how it redefined his relationship with his body, identity, and purpose.A New Era of Leadership: Society is shifting from glorifying hustle and intellect to honoring heart-centered leaders who lead with empathy, vulnerability, and love.Redefining the Masculine: Honoring the sacred masculine, integrating softness with strength, and moving from stoicism and ego to emotional intelligence, spirituality, and embodied leadership.The Sacred Dance of Masculine and Feminine Just like the sun and moon, masculine and feminine energies each have distinct yet equally vital roles— and when balanced, they create harmony within us and in the world around us.Your Life is a Sacred Story: Every chapter of your life holds beauty and meaning— whether you're on page 1 or chapter 13, there is wisdom in your evolution, and hope for what’s to come.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Jude:@meditatewithjude | @quantumclassicjudeLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Authenticity After Hours - Finding Soul-Aligned Friends and Embracing Vulnerability
This week’s unconventional episode is a raw, unfiltered, late-night conversation I recorded at 3:30am during a retreat with my roommate and soul-aligned friend. We dove deep into what it really means to be seen in your full authenticity— even when you’re unsure, exhausted, and messy. We talked about the discomfort of vulnerability, the beauty of soul-aligned friendships, and the power of peeling back our protective layers to show up as our true selves. This honest, heart-centered exchange is a real-life glimpse into the emotional resilience, nervous system regulation, and deep inner workthat’s at the foundation of my Soulfully Seen group program.Join Soulfully Seen – Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower, my 8-week self-paced programWhat you’ll hear:Friend vs. Soul-Aligned Friend: Defining relationships that nourish your soul, not just fill your time.Safety in Vulnerability: Why being your authentic self often doesn’t feel safe, and what you can do to change that from the inside out.Healing vs. Trauma Bonding: Learning to connect through shared emotions, not shared wounding.Authenticity on Hard Days: What it looks like to show up as yourself— even when you’re in pain.Guarded vs. Grounded: The subtle but powerful difference between protecting your energy and walling off your authenticity to open-hearted presence that creates real connection and healing.The Sister Wound Runs Deep: Understanding how past betrayals from other women can keep us from showing up vulnerably.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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The Business of Being - Trusting the Universe While Building Your Dream with Juhina Farooki
In this heartfelt and honest episode, I’m joined by Juhina Farooki, a registered dietician and co-founder of Aura Holistic and Metaphysical Wellness Center. What started as a passion for food and healing through functional nutrition evolved into a powerful spiritual awakening and the birth of a center that merges mind, body, and spirit. Juhina shares her personal story of healing childhood trauma, discovering her soul’s purpose, and finding alignment in entrepreneurship.Note: Soulfully Seen – Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower, my 8-week online group program has an updated launch date of July 10th. Email me at [email protected] if you’re interested in a partial scholarship.Join Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower What you’ll hear:The Truth About “Healthy” Foods: Why some so-called health foods like beans and seed oils might be contributing to inflammation and gut issues.Entrepreneurship is a Spiritual Journey: It's humbling, rewarding, and deeply transformative when guided by faith and trust in the universe.Boundaries are Essential: Protecting your energy and mental health isn’t optional when your business becomes your baby.Surrender is the Secret: Learning to let go of control allows you to flow with life instead of resisting it.The Woo is Real: Energy healing only works if you’re open to it, but when you are, the shifts can be profound.Life Has More Meaning Than We Think: Exploring past lives, soul contracts, and subconscious healing opens you to deeper peace and purpose.Join the in-person Somatic Breathwork w/ energy work + reiki on June 28thConnect with Juhina at Aura Holistic:@auraholisticwellness_tx | www.auraholistictx.comJoin Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Vulnerability in Action - Small Acts, Big Courage
In this episode, I'm showing up exactly as I am— raw, real,and in recovery.After a challenging surgery, I was forced to pause, rest, and truly practice what I preach about honoring the body’s wisdom. Instead of a regular episode, I’m sharing the incredibly honest, unscripted talk I gave on the final night of the Soulfully Seen Vulnerability Summit— no notes, no makeup, just me being fully human. This episode is an invitation to reflect on your own relationship with vulnerability, authenticity, and self-trust.Note: Soulfully Seen – Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower, my 8-week online group program has an updated launch date of July 10th. Email me at [email protected] if you’re interested in a partial scholarship.Join Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower What you’ll hear:Honoring Your Body’s Timing: You’ll be reminded that it's okay to pause, rest, and listen when your body asks for more care than your plans allow.Vulnerability in Real Life: You'll see how letting go of perfection and showing up as you are can be the most powerful way to connect.Body Shame and Reclamation: You’ll be encouraged to reflect on your relationship with your body and begin releasing shame you were never meant to carry.Trust & Safety: Vulnerability isn’t about oversharing—it’s about choosing who has earned the right to hear your story.Myth-Busting: We unpack common myths like “vulnerability is weakness” or “I have to do this healing alone”— and why they’re keeping you stuck.Emotional Reactions: If your emotions are coming out as road rage, irritability, or shutting down, you’re not broken— your nervous system is asking for support.Healing Through Play: Reconnect with your inner child and remember the power of laughter, movement, and imagination as medicine.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Wired for Love - How Attachment Styles Shape Our Relationships
In this episode, we dive deep into attachment styles,nervous system regulation, and how understanding both can help us show up more vulnerably and authentically in our relationships. When we understand our attachment patterns and the way our nervous system operates, we gain access to choice, healing, and self-compassion. Whether you lean anxious, avoidant, disorganized, or secure, this conversation is your permission slip to stop thinking you’re broken — and start recognizing how your body has been trying to protect you all along.Join Soulfully Seen – Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower, my 8-week self-paced programWhat you'll hear:Understanding Attachment Styles: Discover how anxious, avoidant, secure, and disorganized attachment styles form — and how they quietly shape your relationships and responses.Why Nervous System Regulation Changes Everything: Learn how your nervous system drives your emotional reactions and how regulation gives you the power to respond instead of react.The Impact of Generational Trauma: Explore how the patterns you carry may not be yours alone — and how healing your nervous system can help break generational cycles.How Small Triggers Activate Old Wounds: Hear a powerful example of how a simple text can ignite deep nervous system responses — and how awareness can change your entire experience.You’re Not Broken — You’re Wired for Protection: Be reminded that your reactions are not failures. They’re signs of a brilliant system that learned to protect you — and now, you get to choose a new way.This episode is just a teaser of what we’ll be diving into inside Soulfully Seen – Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower, my online group program launching June 19th. If you're ready to regulate your nervous system, understand your patterns, and show up more fully in your relationships — this is your invitation.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Chasing Curiosity - Remembering the Wisdom of Your Inner Child with Chelsea Holden
In this soul-stirring episode, I’m joined by the radiant Chelsea Holden — Quantum Coaching Academy sister, embodiment leader, and Human Design guide — for a deeply inspiring conversation about sobriety, self-discovery, and soul alignment. From her courageous journey of transformation to her playful reconnection with the inner child, Chelsea shares how curiosity became her compass and Human Design her map for living authentically. Together, we explore what it means to break free from old identities, reclaim joy through presence, and use self-awareness as a tool for empowerment. This episode is a permission slip to remember who you are, trust your intuitive nudges, and lead with your soul.What you'll hear:Sobriety as a Catalyst: Her decision to quit alcohol in 2019 led to a massive transformation, opening the door to personal development, emotional awareness, and deeper purpose.Curiosity as a Superpower: Chelsea emphasizes the role curiosity has played in her life—letting it lead her into growth, creativity, and reinvention.Rewriting Your Story: Chelsea reminds us that we are theauthors of our lives—and we get to write (and rewrite) each chapter as we grow.The Wisdom of Your Inner Child: Your inner child isn’t just younger— younger you was actually wiser in many ways, arriving in this world with clarity before societal conditioning took over.Healing Through Self-Remembrance: By honoring who you were before the world told you who to be, you begin the process of healing old wounds and returning to your authentic essence.Human Design as Permission: Understanding your Human Design gives you a personal permission slip to follow joy, rest, and alignment rather than hustle and burnout.Join Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower (starting June 19th)Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Chelsea:@thechelseaholden | www.chelseaholden.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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WTF Is Breathwork? - Breaking It All Down
In this episode, I share the replay of my online masterclass,WTF Is Breathwork, where we dive deep into the often confusing world of breathwork. Whether you'refeeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck, this episode offers both education and personal insight into how breathwork can help you regulate your nervous system, release emotional weight, and reconnect with your inner peace. I break down how to choose the right breathwork modality for you, explain the signs of nervous system dysregulation— from chronic anxiety to poor sleep— and explore the science behind chest vs. belly breathing and the benefits of nose breathing. I also open up about my own healing journey and how breathwork helped me through deep loss, burnout, and breakdowns, ultimately transforming my life. If you’re ready to come home to your body, build emotional resilience, and live from a more regulated, responsive place, this one’s for you.Plus, I invite you to the upcoming FREE online Soulfully Seen Vulnerability Summit from June 2-6th, where we’ll go even deeper into healing and connection.Register for The Soulfully Seen Vulnerability Summit (June 2-6th)What you'll hear:The Science of Safety: Learn how your nervous system functions and why you might be stuck in survival mode, even when your life appears “fine” on the outside.Identifying the Symptoms: Explore signs your nervous system may be dysregulated — like overthinking, emotional reactivity, numbness, people-pleasing, or chronic fatigue.Practical, Powerful, and Free: Breathwork is accessible to everyone — no fancy tools or expensive treatments required. Just your breath, and a willingness to show up.Breath Awareness: Most people unknowingly breathe into their chest (aka, stress breathing), which keeps the body in a defensive state. Shifting to belly breathing sends a signal of safety and helps calm your entire system.Nervous System Reset: Mouth breathing, especially during sleep, overstimulates the body and disrupts rest. Nose breathing filters, warms, and balances the breath, promoting deeper sleep, clearer thinking, and emotional regulation.Embodied Practice in Real Time: Experience a guided round of box breathing during the episode to notice how just a few intentional breaths can shift your inner state.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Awakening the Sacred Masculine - A New Way Forward for Men with Brodie Simmons
Join Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower (starting June 19th)In this episode, I sit down with Brodie Simmons — a counselor, former teen rebel, and passionate advocate for men’s emotional healing — who shares his incredible journey from selling drugs and getting into fights to healing and purpose. Brodie opens up about growing up in a suppressive environment, finding the one counselor who truly saw him, and how that experience inspired his path into mental health and advocacy for emotional expression, especially in men. We dive into societal conditioning, toxic masculinity, addiction as a coping mechanism, and the power of vulnerability in emotional healing.What you’ll hear:The Turning Point: Brodie shares how a deeply human connection with one counselor during his teenage years shifted his entire trajectory and opened his heart to growth and healing.Breaking the Masculinity Mold: We unpack the cultural conditioning that teaches men to suppress sadness and vulnerability— and how Brodie has learned to challenge and unravel those beliefs. We explore the outdated concept of the "alpha male" and explore what true leadership and strength look like— rooted in compassion, respect, and honor.The Hidden Cost of Suppression: Brodie reveals how even moments of joy and gratitude were once muted in his life due to emotional repression, and how reclaiming those feelings has expanded his capacity for connection and celebration.When Life Forces You to Feel: Brodie reflects on how unexpected life events and isolation during COVID cracked him open and forced him to confront patterns he had long ignored.Safe Spaces for Men: He shares the importance of having a sacred space where men can drop the societal mask and be truly seen, supported, and held without judgment— like the Mankind Project.Balancing Inner Masculine and Feminine Energies: Together, we discuss how integrating both masculine structure and feminine flow leads to embodiment, connection, and harmony in life and relationships.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Brodie:@lifetogetherwithbrodie | www.brodiesimmonscounseling.comLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Taking Your Power Back After Abuse (and How To Do Your Own Cord Cutting)
In this powerful and deeply personal episode, I share my journey of reclaiming my power after years of carrying the weight of childhood abuse. I open up about what led me to finally confront my abuser, the physical toll unprocessed trauma took on my body, and the role that Somatic Breathwork played in helping me release stored pain and connect with my inner child. If you’ve ever felt stuck, disconnected from yourself, or unsure how to move forward after trauma— this episode offers guidance, tools, and hope to support you through your own healing journey.What you’ll hear:Breaking the Cycle of Trauma: Understand how unresolved abuse can manifest as self-sabotage, toxic patterns, or chronic emotional struggles— and how it continues to steal our power until we choose to reclaim it.Confronting Your Abuser with Empowered Truth: How to use your voice to confront the person who hurt you, not from blame or rage, but from a grounded place of healing, clarity, and compassion.The Role of the Body in Healing: Learn why trauma lives in the body and how symptoms like sickness, fatigue, or anxiety may actually be signals of stuck emotional pain that needs to be released.The Three-Letter Process to Move Through Emotions: I guide you through a transformative writing exercise: first expressing the raw truth, then taking personal responsibility, and finally arriving at forgiveness and gratitude.From Powerlessness to Empowerment: Explore how owning your story, feeling the hard stuff, and choosing to no longer wait for others to validate your pain can lead to true liberation and self-leadership.Energetic Release Through Cord Cutting: I share my personal cord-cutting ritual, including visualization and symbolism, to help release toxic emotional ties while still honoring any love or connection that may remain.Owning Your Voice Without Expectation: You can't control their response— and you don't need to. The power is in the release, not the reaction.Stay Rooted in Your Truth: Keep the focus on your experience. Don’t try to change them or make them see. Your healing isn't dependent on their readiness to receive it.Radical Forgiveness WorksheetJoin Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Gender Beyond the Binary - A Call for Inclusion with Nic Caron
In this episode, we dive into a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about inclusive language, creating safe healing spaces, and exploring gender identity with non-binary guest Nic Caron. Together, we explore the importance of using correct pronouns, the experience of being misgendered, and how somatic practices are helping Nic reconnect with their nervous system. This episode is a beautiful reminder of our shared humanity and the importance of choosing love over division.What you’ll hear:The Power of Being Seen: We explore the deep emotional impact of being misgendered and the importance of using correct pronouns.Language Matters: We discuss the importance of using terms like “transgender person” instead of “transgenders,” emphasizing how language can either humanize or dehumanize.A Spiritual Perspective on Balance: We reflect on the idea that non-binary and trans individuals may be here to teach us about spiritual harmony— challenging outdated gender roles and guiding us toward a more balanced, authentic way of being.Choosing Love Over Division: At a time when political and social divides are growing, this episode serves as a reminder that we all have a role in protecting the rights of others and creating a more compassionate, inclusive world.Being Seen is the First Step to Healing: When we areacknowledged for who we truly are— without needing to fit into a box— we create the foundation for deep healing and authenticity.Curiosity Over Conformity: If something feels off withinyou, it’s okay to get curious. You don’t need to have it all figured out to start exploring your identity or your truth.You're Allowed to Change Your Mind: Whether it's pronouns, style, or even how you identify, you’re allowed to experiment and evolve. That freedom is a fundamental part of discovering who you really are.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Connect with Nic:@nicole3cLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Cycle Breaker - The Pain, Power, and Purpose of Ending Generational Trauma
In this episode, we dive into the weight and honor of being a cycle breaker and healing generational trauma. I unpack how unhealed trauma not only attracts more of the same pain but can also manifest as physical disease when left unprocessed. I explore how trauma, family secrets, and emotional suppression get passed down until someone is brave enough to stop the cycle. I share how somatic healing, self-awareness, and radical compassion can help us re-pattern our nervous systems and rewrite the story— not just for ourselves, but for future and past generations.Disclaimer: This episode does touch upon my childhood sexual assault. Please listen at your own discretion.What you'll hear:Logic vs. Emotion: Why simply knowing something happened isn’t the same as being ready to feel it— and how emotional processing unfolds on its own sacred timeline.The Path to Healing: What it really means to reveal, feel, and heal— and why this process can’t be rushed, forced, or bypassed.The Black Sheep Role: Why being the cycle breaker in a family is both isolating and deeply courageous— and how disruption is often the first step toward liberation.The Science of Trauma: A look at how trauma is passed down not just emotionally, but biologically through epigenetics— and how your body might be living out stress patterns that aren’t even yours.Patterns Repeat Until We Heal: Unhealed trauma becomes an energetic magnet, pulling in similar experiences until we recognize and choose differently.The Cost of Silence: Family secrets fester in the dark, causing repeated dysfunction through generations because no one dares to speak the truth.Your Purpose is Sacred: Being chosen to break cycles isn’t easy—but it’s an honor. You’re not alone, and you were made for this mission.This episode is a heart-led invitation to do the deep, uncomfortable work — with compassion, curiosity, and celebration for every small win along the way.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Fill out the Contact Me to Work TogetherSoulfully Seen Women's Retreat (September 7-10, 2025)Let’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Whispers of the Soul - Meeting Yourself in the Silence with Allie Schlener
In this powerful episode of the Perfectly Broken Podcast, I sit down with the nurturing and wise Allie Schlener — an intuitive healer, spiritual life coach, and special soul who’s been part of my journey through my spiritual awakening. Allie shares her raw and transformative story of cultivating a beautiful relationship with her body and intuition, losing and reclaiming her voice, and the near-death experience that awakened her connection to spirit. We explore the beauty in duality, the purpose in pain, and the deep truth that healing is not linear — but sacred.What you'll hear:The Power of Presence: How one grounded, loving soul can make you feel instantly safe — and why that matters in healing.Healing Through Extremes: Why swinging from one end of the spectrum to the other is sometimes necessary to find your authentic middle.The Voice Within: Reclaiming your voice after years of silencing it — and how true expression comes from integrity, not performance.Science Meets Spirit: Merging her love for anatomy and psychology with spiritual awareness to bridge the gap between mind, body, and soul.Cultivating Intuition as a Relationship: Intuition isn’t something to master; it’s something to build trust with, like a shy friend who opens up with time, patience, and love.Letting Go of the Ego to Hear the Soul: Practicing the role of the witness (vs. reacting from ego) creates space for your higher self to step forward with clarity and calm.The Sacred Practice of Silence: Silence isn’t just about not speaking — it’s about not consuming. It's a return to self, a spiritual detox, and a way to hear what’s really underneath the noise.Embodiment Over Escapism: Spiritual practices shouldn’t be a way to avoid hard conversations—they should prepare us to show up for them.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Discount Code: "OPENHOUSE"*Can be redeemed anytime through AprilJoin the Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower WaitlistConnect with Allie:@alliealigns | Reiki Master Program | Reiki I & II TrainingLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Going Inward - Where the Real Healing Begins
In this episode, I dive into a recent mushroom journey— not to focus on the trip itself, but the deep inner process that unfolded. It’s a powerful reminder that healing doesn’t always look how we expect it to. Sometimes, the medicine comes in the form of presence, trust, and letting go of the need to force it. This episode is an invitation to stop obsessing over your healing and remember that you are allowed to just be.What you'll hear:Let Go of Expectations: Healing won’t always look the way you imagined— and that’s okay.Surrender Control: True transformation happens when you stop trying to force the process.Inner Child Trust: Your inner child knows the way— can you give them the space to lead?Presence Over Perfection: Constantly chasing healing can pull you out of the present moment.You Already Know: The answers you seek are already within— you just have to listen.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Discount Code: "OPENHOUSE"*Can be redeemed anytime through AprilJoin the Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower WaitlistLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Rewiring for Abundance - Manifestation, Money, & Nervous System Work with Alana Stelly
In this episode, I sit down with Alana Stelly, a Licensed MentalHealth Therapist turned Manifestation Coach to explore the power of mindset, manifestation, and nervous system regulation. Our conversation stemmed from a unique moment— when Alana unfollowed me on social media, and instead of taking it personally, I leaned into curiosity. What followed was a profound discussion about self-empowerment, vulnerability, and the intersection of manifestation and healing.What you'll hear:Manifesting Abundance: The mindset shifts that helped her attract $60,000 to clear debt.The Science of Manifestation: Why nervous system regulation is the missing link to making dreams a reality.Energetic Protection: Protecting our energy by being intentional about who we connect with, setting boundaries, and limiting overstimulation to preserve energy.Empath Overload: Learning to distinguish between our emotions and what we absorb from others.Body Awareness: Tuning into physical sensations to determine if a relationship is aligned.Self-Awareness & Vulnerability: You must get vulnerable with yourself to understand your true desires beyond societal or familial expectations.Tune in for a deep, insightful, and inspiring conversation on stepping into your power and creating a life aligned with your highest self.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Discount Code: "OPENHOUSE"*Can be redeemed anytime through AprilJoin the Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower WaitlistConnect with Alana:@myconfidenceacademyLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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Act As If - Becoming the Version of You That Has It All (How I Healed My Eating Disorder Overnight Through Embodiment)
In this episode, we dive deep into the power of embodiment— how stepping into the energy of your desired reality is the key to actually creating it. Instead of staying stuck in a cycle of wanting and lack, we explore how to align your actions, thoughts, and behaviors with the version of you that already has the life you desire.What you'll hear:Manifestation requires embodiment: It’s not enough to affirm or visualize; you must act as if you are already that version of yourself. Expanding into possibility: Exposure to expanders— people who embody the life you want— can help shift your beliefs.Release lack energy: If you’re constantly wanting, you’re reinforcing that you don’t have it— shift into feeling like it’s already yours. Daily alignment: Your habits, mindset, and energy should reflect the reality you desire, not just your morning routine. Integrity with yourself: True transformation happens behind closed doors— stay accountable even when no one is watching.Tune in to learn how to step into your next-level self and embody the life you truly desire.Join Perfectly Broken: Path to Power Membership Discount Code: "OPENHOUSE"*Can be redeemed anytime through AprilJoin the Soulfully Seen - Turning Vulnerability into Your Superpower WaitlistLet’s Connect@danistedman | @theperfectlybrokenpodcast
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Just like the Japanese art of kinsugi, we're not trying to hide the cracks of our broken past, but rather highlight those struggles with gold. I will be vulnerable, real and raw with y'all as we figure out how we can turn the damaged pottery of our lives into stunning works of art that are even more beautiful than we ever thought possible. I am your host, Dani Stedman. We're talking spirituality, health and fitness, eating disorders, trauma, and how to find peace and harmony in life. I'll share my story and insights, as well as invite some powerful guests to join the show so we can learn.
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