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Pirate Monk Podcast
by Nate Larkin
A (mostly) weekly podcast produced by members of the Samson Society
Episodes
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537 | A New Kind of Accountability | Donggun Kim
Nate and Aaron talk with engineer Donggun Kim about building Swarn. Donggun helps answer how do you help someone change without flooding them with shame or unnecessary detail. He discusses a privacy-conscious content filter that alerts an accountability partner with just enough information to…
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536 | Why Facts Don’t Heal | Dr.David Pendergrass
On this episode:Nate and Aaron talk about Aaron representing Samson at the AACCC then widen into general discussion about counseling, community, and why some good things can become substitutes for deeper relationships. They talk to Dr. David Pendergrass. David shares that many men are taught from...
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535 | Gospel Identity, Shame, and Learning to Be Loved | John Lynch
John Lynch joins Nate and Aaron on the Pirate Monk Podcast to talk about the gospel identity that has shaped his life, ministry, and recovery. The conversation moves from his recent bike trip in Spain to the deeper spiritual work of moving from shame and striving toward being loved by God as you...
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534 | Truth on The Inward Parts | Mike Snapp
On this episode: Nate gives info on the Samson Summit. Aaron talks to Michael. Aaron talks story work with Mike Snapp. Michael shares his history with his dad, step-dad, military, flying planes, porn, affairs, wives, girlfriends, recovery, and helping her heal. Mike shares how Samson Society was…
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533 | Understanding Generational Trauma | Dr. Marial Buqué
On this episode: Just Aaron and Mariel. Aaron interviews Dr. Mariel Buqué. Dr. Buqué is a psychologist, trauma-care specialist, creator of the Generational Trauma Therapy Method, podcaster, and author of Break the Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma. She explains how family…
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532 | Being present with others | Josh Bales
In this episode, Aaron Porter and Josh Bales discuss the importance of authentic community, the role of music and ministry, and the personal growth that comes from shared experiences among men. They explore how vulnerability and presence can transform relationships and spiritual journeys. Oct...
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531 |Recovery Beyond Willpower | Liz Stanley
On this episode: Nate and Aaron reflect on their recent men’s gathering in Birmingham. Men arrived without expectation, and opened up and shared. Nate and Aaron welcome Elizabeth Stanley for a thoughtful conversation about trauma, nervous system regulation, and emotional resilience. Drawing from...
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530 | Support for Both Spouses | Therapy Brothers,
Brannon and Tyler Patrick On this episode: Nate goes straight to the interview because Aaron has the food poisoning. Nate talks to Brannon and Tyler Patrick. Brannon and Tyler are brothers who are therapists, hosts of a call-in podcast called Therapy Brothers, and lead community retreats to help...
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529 | Managing Leadership Anxiety | Steve Cuss
On this episode: Nate updates on Allie. Aaron is glad to have a co-host. And they reflect on the importance of a listening ear over preaching. This week A.I. makes the notes and sucks at punctuation and conversational language. (Also, the normal notes guy gets sassy, see below.) How do you like…
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528 | Bringing Unity in Marriage | Pesa Shayo
On this episode: Nate does promotions. Aaron flies solo. This week: Aaron has a wonderful conversation with Pesa Shayo. Pesa and his wife Whitney Shayo help couples find unity in the most tested areas of marriage. Pesa shares how both members in a couple can be right and also work together. He...
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527 | The Mind-Body Connection in Healing | Dr Arielle Schwartz
This week: Aaron talks to Dr Arielle Schwartz. Dr Arielle Schwartz is a psychologist’s teacher, author, blogger, and also leads courses and retreats. She shares her story of childhood complex PTSD. Complex PTSD is defined too. Discussing the different types of therapy practices that have helped…
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526 | The Foundation of Marriage | Casey Caston
The Foundation of Marriage with Casey Caston This week: Nate and Aaron talk Ireland. Aaron is 50! And, if you’ve read it, share your thoughts on the Silas book here. Nate and Aaron talk to Casey Caston. Casey talks about how he slept on the couch the night he got married. This began his studies...
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525 | Breaking Free from Pornography Addiction | Troy Dircks
In this episode Aaron sails the Pirate Monk ship alone. Aaron talks to Troy Dircks. Troy is an author who wrote: Elite Mindset: Breaking Free from Pornography Addiction: Rewrite your brain, Reclaim your Life. Troy shares his journey to grow and heal from sexual abuse at six and later pornography...
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524 | Recovery Through the Body and Attachment Principles | Nina Pick
This week, Aaron hosts solo. Aarons talks with Nina Pick. Nina is a somatic healing practitioner and integrative counselor, Neuro Affective Touch practitioner, group facilitator, and author. She shares her story of recovery since 2009. Nina explains how engaging the body accesses a deeper level…
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523 | A Journey Through Grace and Recovery | Nate Larkin
In this episode, Nate Larkin and Ken Romero explore the themes of vulnerability, grace, and the transformative power of connection through personal stories and biblical insights. Whether you're facing your own struggles or seeking encouragement to connect more deeply with others, this…
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522 | The Road to Church Through the Therapist Office| | Matthew LaPine
This week, Aaron has been thinking about building others up. Nate and Aaron talk to Matthew LaPine. Matthew is from Nebraska where he is the director of equipping, a father, husband, podcaster, and author. He teaches how growth happens through the eyes of the gardener versus the programer.…
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521| Digital Addiction | Jay Kim
Aaron joins us from England. He talks to a couple of Samson guys on a journey. Nate and Aarons talk to Jay Kim. Jay is not a politician. He is a preacher, podcaster, author, board member, and good at answering questions on the spot. Jay’s story includes overcoming digital addiction. He…
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520 | Growing in Wisdom | Giff Lasta
In this episode Nate and Aaron talk to Giff Lasta. Giff is an author, coach, and founder of Reforged Marriage. He shares the story of his recovery from porn addiction, his 90-day sexual fast, and finding his “frame.” Giff shares the importance of having other men speak into your life, especially…
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519 | Discovering God’s Love in All Circumstances | Wayne Jacobsen
In this episode Aaron talks to Wayne Jacobsen. Wayne is an author and speaker. He has written many books, including co-author of The Shack. Today he talks about Love. Wayne compares the similarities of the weight-loss industry and churches. Can you be self-justice like you can be self-righteous?...
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518 | The Toxic War on Masculinity | Dr. Nancy Pearcey
In this episode Nate and Aaron talk to professor Nancy Pearcey. Nancy is an author, professor, and scholar. She studies and writes about faith, science, and culture. Her newest book is The Toxic War on Masculinity. She tells her story of abuse and feminism on her journey to Christianity. She…
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517 | Men Don’t Need Therapy | JIm Cress
On the episode this week: Nate is in his bedroom. Aaron isn’t driving his Prius to England. Nate and Aaron also talk about The Brutal Truth retreat in Jupiter FL. Nate talks to returning guest and friend Jim Cress. Jim is many kinds of therapists, leads intensives, author, and podcaster. Jim...
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516 | Sympathy for Pharisees | Chris Sicks
On the episode this week: Nate talks about a guys stash. Aaron was discovered. Nate and Aaron talk with guest Chris Sicks. Chris is a pastor at One Voice Fellowship in Virginia, where they translate the sermon into over 18 languages. He is also the founder and president of For the Nations DC…
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515 | Adult Friendship | Mark Greene
This episode is an encore presentation so you might hear some familiar words however they are still impactful. On the episode: Nate knows the feeling. Aaron mocks a magician and wears two pants. Nate and Aaron talk with guest Mark Greene. Mark is a Texas native living in Manhattan, NY, who has...
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514 | Core Needs Around Human Connection| Dr. Kelly Flanagan
On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron talk about post Mother's day and grandmas as moms too. Nate and Aaron talk with guest Dr. Kelly Flanagan. Kelly is a husband, father, speaker, coach, clinical psychologist, and author. Kelly talks about nine ways your heart closes and how to reopen it, and...
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513 | Grace is Exciting | David Zahl
On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron discuss the Silas book, available on the membership part of the app (only $7.95). Nate and Aaron talk with guest David Zahl. David is a husband, father, author, theologian, pastor, and podcaster. He comes from a family with alcoholism and addiction. David...
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512 | Hard Times and Transitions | Granger Smith
On the episode this week: Nate is hungry. Aaron steers us back. Nate and Aaron talk with guest Granger Smith. Granger has a bookshelf with a ladder and throws guitars with his kids. He came from a good home with lots of support and still had bad things happen and made bad choices. Granger shares...
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511 | What is a Church and Pastor| Nathan Apffel
On the episode this week: Nate is home and Aaron went to Helen back. They also give some updates on the Samson app and website. Nate and Aaron talk with guest Nathan Apffel. Nathan (Nate) grew up where faith was a source of both comfort and questioning, raised in a religious community. Nate began...
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510 | Making the Room Safe for Women in Recovery | Crystal Renaud Day
On the episode this week: Nate is optimistic and Aaron got a ransom note and may have gotten married. Nate and Aaron talk to returning guest Crystal Renaud Day. Crystal is an author, counselor, coach, podcaster, and also leads intensives. She went to school for street cred! Crystal discusses the...
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509 | Navigating Leadership in Recovery | Todd Eakes
On the episode this week: Aaron wears underwear. Aaron talks to guest Todd Eakes. Todd is a fellow pirate monk from Colorado. He shares his journey of getting caught with a prostitute, then to celebrate recovery, SLAA 12-step meetings, and Samson Society. Todd shares how he was adopted as an...
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508 | What is Enmeshment ? | Dr. Ken Adams
On the episode this week: Aaron sounds oddly familiar. Aaron talks to guest Dr. Ken Adams. As the expert, Ken answers the age old question: “what is Enmeshment?”. Do you have challenges with control, identity, long term commitment, working too much, affairs, eating disorders, and more? You aren’t...
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507 | The Need for Friction and Dangers of AI | Michael Leahy
On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron argue about sportsketball. Aaron plans some OJ trickery. Nate gives Allie updates. And 50 free books, listen until the end. Nate and Aaron talk to returning guest Michael Leahy. Michael brings his expertise to the topic of AI. By listening to this podcast,...
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506 | I know you didn't want to | Cat Etherington
On the episode this week: Nate asks Aaron questions. Aaron reads recipes and annoys people in public. Nate and Aaron talk to returning guest Cat Etherington. Cat is a podcaster, writer, wife, mom, and works for Naked Truth. Naked Truth is focused on opening eyes and freeing lives from the…
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505 | Dad Tired | Jerrad Lopes
On the episode this week: Aaron might be wearing a woman's sweater, and he’s ok with that. Aaron talks to Jerrad Lopes. Jerrad is former clergy, a podcaster, dad, husband, author, and much more. He likes the weight of a blanket nearly to suffocation. Jerrad talks about his “first crisis” where he...
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504 | Chaos to Order| Brandon Syler
Chaos to Order with Brandon Syler On the episode this week: Aaron hosts solo and sounds really really similar to last week. Aaron talks to Brandon Syler. Brandon is from Charolette where he has a wife, 3 kids, and 12 inches of snow. He shares how he was a “human doing,” going to school, getting...
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503 | Gender Roles and Loving Your Neighbor | Sheila Gregoire
On the episode this week: Aaron hosts solo and speaks of the tongue with his tongue. Aaron also updates on Nates wife’s cancer. Nate and Aaron talk to Sheila Ray Gregoire. Sheila is a therapist, podcaster, author, researcher, and more. This week we discuss orgasms in church, sex drives, gender...
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502 | Rebuke The Wise and They Will Be Wiser | Ben Bennett
Rebuke The Wise and They Will Be Wiser with Ben Bennett On the episode this week: Aaron doesn’t feel different. Nate leaves late and feels shades of covid. Nate and Aaron talk to returning guest Ben Bennett. Ben updates on Resolution ministries and how it continues to grow, helping others find…
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501| Is This Actually Happening? | Dr. Robb Kelly
On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron offer assistance on planning your own retreats and considering firing up the 48 hours of frankness. Reach out to Aaron here for guidance. Nate and Aaron talk to Robb Kelly. Robb is a Texan, you can tell from his accent. Robb leads us in box breathing to…
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500 | 500th Episode | Nate, Aaron, Mark, David
For the 500th episode, Nate and Aaron sit down and talk with two men who were at the first Samson Society meeting in Franklin, went to the first 48 Hours of frankness, and travelled to California for the first large Samson event at the church where Aaron was a pastor. This episode makes everyone...
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499 | Desire | Jay Stringer
On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron update on the video portion of the podcast. And Aaron gives up plaid for a shirt with a story. Nate and Aaron talk to Jay Stringer. Jay joins the 4 timers club, the current most frequent guest! Jay wrote a new book entitled: Desire: The Longings Inside Us...
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498 | High Sensing People (HSP) | Mike Vaughn
On the episode this week: Nate had a no pants meeting and Aaron pimps the new app. Also, you can come to new comer meetings, again. Nate and Aaron talk to Mike Vaughn. Mike is a counselor and works for Bethesda Workshops. Bethesda is a non profit in Nashville, TN that has intensives for sex…
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497 | Sobriety isn’t Healing | Tim Stein
On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron give updates on the new video podcast on YouTube, Instagram, and the new Samson website. Nate and Aaron talk to Tim Stein. Tim is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in sex addiction, partner betrayal, and trauma treatment. Tim is a...
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496 | Better Statistics from Pure Desire | Nick Stumbo
On the episode this week: Nate is reeling and Aaron is back from DFW and thinking about carrying a bat. Aaron also uses his sports expertise to make comparisons between t-ball and recovery discipline. Nate talks about upcoming video podcasts. Nate and Aaron talk to Nick Stumbo. Nick shares Pure...
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| 495 | Understanding Each Other’s Pain | Reese Crane
This week, Nate and Aaron give tips and tricks for using the new app for local meetings and meetups. Aaron shares his distrust of AI blowing smoke up your @$$. Nate shares the slippery slope of AI affirmation and it compares to the Silas asking real tough questions. Nate and Aaron talk to…
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| 494 | Helping College Men Recover | Jordan Castille
On this episode: Aarons voice sounds a little deeper and more radio like. Wait just a minute, that’s Nate and Ken, not Aaron. Ken talks about the t-shirt that Jesus autographed. This week, Nate and Jordan Castill have a talk. Jordan is from College Station, TX. He is a husband, father and C-SAT...
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| 493 | Lasting Freedom | Drew Boa
On this episode: Nate and Aaron record the last episode (of 2025). Do you mourn and weep for yourself or others on Christmas? Is this Christmas different? Also, Christmas mafia and underground crimes rings.This week, Nate and Aaron interview returning guest Drew Boa. Drew has written a new book...
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492 | Should you do what you love for work | Josh Bales
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are like Johnny Carson and Ed McMahon. Nate looks forward to these. Aaron updates on the app.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Josh Bales. Josh is a Chattanooga, TN native living in Orlando, FL. He is a husband, father, musician, priest, therapist and an ADHDer....
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491 | The Secret to Recovery Success | Troy Snyder
On this episode: Aaron has a tall bed and drinks water at night. Nate appreciates easy night pees. And what is a “pirate pastry”? This week, Nate and Aaron interview Troy Snyder. Troy is an LPC with 25+ years experience, specializing in sex addiction, anger management, men's issues, and also the...
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490 | Hardwired for Intimacy | Erin Minoz
On this episode: Aaron talks about decimation, how the church kills its own, and the need to have a clear path to restoration. Nate gives examples of grace, healing, and forgiveness. Sharing how grace triumphs over judgement. The NEW Samson App is out (see links below)! This week, Nate and Aaron...
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489 | God’s Empathy for You | Bill and Kristi Gaultiere
On this episode: Aaron makes a sports joke! Nate talks to his first sponsor. They also discuss funny t-shirts, stickers, and Kevin-Kevin! The NEW Samson App is out (see links below)!This week, Nate and Aaron interview Bill and Kristi Gaultiere. Bill is a psychologist and ordained pastor and…
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488 | Loss or Not with Amber Smith | Amber Smith
On this episode: Aaron is not in the mood to be here. Nate feels guilt for his callousness. Both share their struggles with change, loss, and grief. The NEW Samson App is out (see links below)!This week, Nate and Aaron interview Amber Smith. Amber is an unexpected writer/author, speaker, wife…
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