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Pmosecrets
by BeDefined
Sharing words that bless and edify. 🙏
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Managing Relationships: Acknowledging other ministry gifts
Today's podcast is a very much-needed conversation. I look around the body of Christ and I see a lot of anomalies. Some have miss interpreted their roles and rather than cover, guide and counsel they want to control and dictate. I know there are Elizabeth- Mary covenant relationships. Women who...
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Managing Relationships (Submission)
The Bible's prescription for a successful marriage is clear. Husbands Love your wives, wives submit to your own husbands. Women who have the unique grace to be influential in ministry, the corporate world or in the marketplace, need to learn submission through the Holy Spirit not rob themselves…
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Managing Relationship: Submission
Sadly, we have found ourselves in a generation where submission has been modernized. Many don't even want to hear the word submit. Immediately their guards are let up! They become defensive. Because of erroneous teaching on the subject, some have decided to throw away the baby with the bath…
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Managing Relationships: Dealing with Offenses
Offence is a cancerous plague attacking the body of Christ. We undermine its power to stand in the way of our progress and prosperity. John the Baptist was offended by Jesus. David's brothers were offended by his boldness and inquisitiveness. Joseph's brothers were offended by him because they...
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Managing relationships: "Mamarization" of things
Sadly, relationships nowadays have become very superficial. Some want to identify with the big names and shots just because of how it makes them look. It's just for thr gram. We call people mama and papa and yet they cant correct or rebuke us. We hop from one person to the other as it pleases us...
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Managing Relationships : Submitting to Authority
Hello Beautiful! This is so dear to my heart. See a lot of young people make the mistake of just running off on half revelation. Some feel because they now have a voice and a following they don't need anyone guiding or counselling them. Their ego has gotten in the way and they don't even realize...
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Managing Relationships: Diary of a pastor's wife.
Welcome to March 💃💃. I am excited to be doing this with you this month. This March I will be looking at Managing relationships. Relationship is a currency more powerful than money. Many times money has failed and relationship has made a way. Managing the relationships God brings on our journey…
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Be the Wife!
Whoever said you must be the women's ministry leader simply because you are the pastor's wife. Too many women feel frustrated in roles they don't have grace for. Many have left their post like Queen Vashti and concerned themselves with duties they have no business with. The Pressure to be…
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Dairy of a pastor's wife: Do i have my assignment?
I get asked this question a lot. Pastor's wives are perceived as women whose life purpose is to serve the purpose of their husbands. In this podcast, I tried to enlighten us and possibly change this narrative. Everyone who shows up on the earth has a unique assignment. That you got married to a...
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Offended and Anointed?
Too many wounded people in the church. Many hurting by something someone did to them either unknowingly or unknowingly. Many have left the church or are in the process of disengaging because of unaddressed offences. I pray for healing and restoration.
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Dairy of a pastor's wife: Now that i am a pastor's wife
Regardless of the role/office, it is such a unique privilege to be able to serve the purpose of God. But I believe the devil is trying so hard to stand in the way of helping many embrace the blessedness that comes with this unique responsibility. Being a pastor's wife if at all should enhance…
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Help! I did not marry a pastor: Diary of a pastor's Wife
Welcome to February!! To all my dear sisters who feel robbed because the man they married was a young committed brother who just loves the Lord but at the same time has a job or a career they are pursuing. Suddenly says he has a calling to pastoring. How? When? Such women begin to feel pressured...
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Diary of a pastor's wife: Who is giving you labels?
Do not try and fit into a box God did not put you in. To truly fulfil your assignment you need to be truly Free. Understanding that your true freedom does not come from being accepted by people but from being accepted by God. Do not fall victim to the trap of comparison. No one is the standard....
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Embracing your Uniqueness.
NO ONE is like you! Let that sink in. Think about it. Let it become a revelation to you. You were uniquely created and formed by God for a specific assignment that has your name tag and your thumbprint. That means no matter how many pastor's wives there are, no one can carry out your assignment…
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Diary of a pastor's wife Episode 2: Her Identity
This January I will be speaking to your identity! Who are you? Is your life purpose defined solely by the office you occupy? Is there more to you? Did you know understanding your identity as first defined by God will help you fulfil your role as a pastor's wife? Did you even know that there are...
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Diary of a Pastor's Wife: He's got you!
Welcome to 2023 and welcome to the first episode od Diary of a Pastor's wife. I am excited to be going on this self-discovery, purpose redefining and assignment-establishing journey with you. The office you occupy is a unique one that God only graces you to fill and function in. So come along....
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Lesson 39: leadership is servanthood
If you are not ready to serve then don't aspire to be a leader.
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Lesson 38: Don't limit God, your assignment is way bigger than you.
It's not just about you. You are a part of something much more bigger than you.
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Lesson 37: God does not speak English. He speaks spirit.
You need to train your spirit man to be able to decode how God speaks. You can limit Him to a language.
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Lesson 36: you attract those you are graced to lead.
The people that navigate towards you are those you have grace for. Be sensitive
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Lesson 35: God does not use untested vessel
Before you stand before Goliath, He will first test you with the lion and the bear Before you go naming Eve. He will test you with the animals..
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Lesson 34: your experience cannot be seperated from how you lead.
It is important to own your story. Embrace your journey. It is unique to you.
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Lesson 33: Rejection comes with the territory
You cannot get everybody to like you because you are not sent to all. Some will accept your assignment in their lives and some will reject it. It doesn't mean you have failed.
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Lesson 32: you often don't qualify before you are chosen.
God does not call the qualified. He qualifies the called.
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Lesson 31: Leadership is a privilege not an entitlement
To lead is to serve. Leadership is responsibility. It's not about how brilliant or better than others.
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Lesson 30: Each child is unique
It is our duty as parents to train up A child the way he SHOULD go. To do that the responsibility is on us to know the way the child is meant to go.
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Lesson. 29: Sex is a joker card in marriage
One of the key enabler of great marriage is great sex and its greatest enhancer is Great communication. Sex should be enjoyed within the confines of the marriage bed undefiled.
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Lesson 28: The grass is greener on the other side because someone took time to take care of it.
Marriage requires hardwork and deliberate commitment.
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Lesson 27: sometimes love is expressed as pain
Don't waste your pain, love can also be expressed as no. Jesus loved Lazarus he started back 2 days and the end of the day it was for his glory.
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Lesson 26: To love is to Give!
There is no love without giving. Love is sacrificial it thinks not of self but of others. You will give of your time, resource, skills and money.
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Lesson 25: Marriage is God"s power plan.His grand agenda.
Marriage was instituted by God not just for multiplication but to carry out His assignment.
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Lesson 24: love and faith are just two sides of the same coin
Faith works through love. We all need a measure of faith to stay in love.
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Lesson 23: Love is an action word.
In love we make compromises, sacrifices, we adapt, we make changes to accommodate our spouses differences. It's not just about spending money. It's about doing what it truly means to love.
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Lesson 22: you can only let someone love you to the extent to which you love yourself.
You cannot give what you do not have. Find yourself, love yourself, acknowdge yourself then you can appreciate when someone loves you and you won't feel drained when you love someone.
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Lesson 21: Love is NOT a feeling, it is a decison.
You decide to love someone based on an informed knowledge of your life together. Not based on just how you feel. Feelings are very unstable.
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Lesson 20:My wealth is not defined by my material possession but by my circle of influence.
Your life does not consist of the abundance of the things that you possess. Relationship is a currency.
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Lesson 19: The Blessing of the Lord is NOT anything physical or material. He is a person
The blessing of the Lord makes rich and HE adds no sorrow. Prov: 10: 22 Don't mistake THE blessing for blessings.
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Lesson 18: Value every level of relationship
The currency of life is relationship. No one is designed to be an island. We are social beings and God designed us to interact. Appreciate everyone God brings your way regardless.
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Lesson 17: Everything starts with a seed.
Understanding the power of a seed. Inside every seed is the potential for a BIG mighty tree. Do not despise the days of small begining.
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Lesson 16: Believing the best of everyone regardless of background and opportunity.
Life shouldn't always be about what I can get. It should be be with a pure heart believing the best in everyone God brings our way. You Never know!
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Day 15: Prioritize those who make you a priority.
Don't give your precious time to time wasters and those who are parasitic in nature. Not every one should be given priority. Your life. Wisdom requires that you pay attention to those who value you, your contributions, your time and your person.
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Day 14: Never judge a book by it's cover. There are pages and chapters, get reading!
We are in a generations where everything is superficial. We don't invest time in know something before we make our conclusions. Remember, assumption is that lowest level of Knowledge. Don't be a victim.
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Lesson. 13: Friendship is a powerful tool in fulfilling purpose.
God sends people our way as friends. Some are there for the long haul and some are seasonal and in phases. Understanding the importance of each will guide your heart and mind.
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Day 12: there are often no 2nd and 3rd chances. Grab your one chance!
We often feel we will get many chances in life. Sometimes you are only presented with one window of opportunity, one life changing chance. What do you do? How prepared are you to embrace that opportunity?
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Day 11: Separation is a master stroke in the hand of God for promotion and advancement
Sometimes God using separation as a tool to get us on track His will and purpose. It is not always easy or comfortable but trust God that He is working it all for your good.
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Day 10: God is the God of the starts, stops, commas, turns, u-turns and slow downs.
Our journey with God is never linear. There will be interjections along the way. But God in His sovereign nature was everything all planned out and makes sure everything works out together for our good. You just have to trust Him.
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Day 9: There are No coincidences with God, only God-incidences.
God has a way of connecting the dots. He ensures you are at the right place, at the right time with the right person. He works behind the scene to ensure that His word does not fall to the ground void.
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Day 8: Trust in the lord through it all.
Trust God in the good and bad. Trust Him when it is clear and when you don't have all the answers. Trust Him in and out of season.
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Day 7: to be under authority is paving the way for someone to be under your authority
Submitting to authority is like sowing seeds for the future. You can only give what you have.
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Day 6 The Family is a tool in God's hand.
Since we did not have an input in determining which family we came through, it was all within God's infinite wisdom. Then we need to trust Him that He determined what was best for us regardless of the imperfections and lack thereof.
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