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PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK™

We are here to create a supportive community of prostate cancer survivors. A place where we can discuss the real-life coping methods from the perspective of Shay and El, a real-life married couple who will take us inside of the relationship that lives on the inside of a prostate cancer diagnosis.

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    Why Do Black Men Have Medical Mistrust?

    Why do some Black men distrust the medical system, and how can that affect decisions about prostate cancer screening and care? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay are joined by Josef Ben Levi, EdD, a scholar whose work explores African and African American history, culture, and philosophy. As a prostate cancer survivor, he brings both academic perspective and personal experience to a conversation about why some Black men may feel distrust or fear when dealing with the medical system.Ben Levi discusses the historical and cultural factors that can contribute to medical mistrust among Black men, along with the hesitation some men may feel around screening, early detection, and healthcare decisions. His perspective helps connect the broader history of mistrust with the very personal reality of navigating a prostate cancer diagnosis.This episode looks beyond the medical side of prostate cancer to examine how history, culture, trust, and lived experience can shape the way Black men approach their health. It is a conversation about understanding those concerns, encouraging awareness, and helping men feel more informed and confident when making decisions about their care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Medicare vs. Medicare Advantage for Cancer Patients

    What should you know about Medicare vs. Medicare Advantage when facing cancer? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay welcome back Joanna Doran, a cancer rights attorney, author, and advocate with more than 30 years of experience helping people understand the practical and legal issues that can accompany a cancer diagnosis.Joanna discusses important differences patients and caregivers should understand when evaluating Medicare and Medicare Advantage, including coverage, costs, access to providers, and navigating insurance decisions. She also explains why understanding your health insurance can become especially important when specialized care, ongoing appointments, and additional services are involved.As co-founder and CEO of Triage Cancer, a national nonprofit providing free educational resources to people affected by cancer and their caregivers, Joanna helps make complicated insurance topics easier to understand. This conversation provides practical information for anyone trying to make more informed decisions about healthcare coverage and cancer care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Couples Deal With Intimacy After Prostate Cancer Treatment (Part 2)

    How can couples rebuild intimacy after prostate cancer treatment? In Part 2 of this conversation on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay continue their discussion with Antonio Aguilar-Diaz, PhD, exploring how changes following treatment can affect intimacy, emotional connection, and the relationship between partners.Aguilar-Diaz discusses the challenges men may experience as physical changes collide with long-held ideas about masculinity, confidence, and identity. He also explores how fear, frustration, and silence can create distance between partners when these difficult subjects are left unspoken.This conversation focuses on helping couples move toward honest communication, emotional closeness, understanding, and renewed connection. For couples navigating changes in intimacy after prostate cancer, this episode offers perspective on facing those challenges together rather than allowing them to create greater distance.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Why I Decided to Have Penile Implant Surgery (Part 3)

    Why would someone consider penile implant surgery after prostate cancer treatment? In the final installment of this 3 Part series on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, Dell and Vonn continue sharing their journey, focusing on the treatment-related changes that affected intimacy and influenced Dell’s decision to pursue a penile implant.Dell discusses the thought process behind his decision, the concerns he had, and why he felt surgery was the right next step for him. Vonn also shares her perspective as his partner, highlighting the importance of honest communication and making decisions together when prostate cancer affects a couple’s intimate relationship.By speaking openly about a subject many men are uncomfortable discussing, Dell and Vonn offer a real couple’s perspective on erectile dysfunction, recovery, and intimacy after prostate cancer treatment. This episode may help men and their partners better understand why someone might consider a penile implant and prepare for conversations with their medical team.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Androgen Deprivation Therapy Side Effects Were The Worst Part Of My Prostate Cancer Treatment (Part 2)

    How can androgen deprivation therapy side effects affect life during and after prostate cancer treatment? In Part 2 of this conversation on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay continue their discussion with Dell and Vonn about why ADT was the most difficult part of Dell’s treatment experience.Dell shares his perspective on the physical and emotional changes associated with hormone therapy, while Vonn discusses the experience from a partner’s point of view. Together, they reflect on how treatment affected daily life, confidence, intimacy, communication, and their relationship as a couple.By openly sharing their journey, Dell and Vonn help bring attention to the challenges that are not always discussed before prostate cancer treatment begins. This episode offers encouragement and a real-life couple’s perspective for men and partners navigating ADT, recovery, and life after treatment.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer Diagnosis: Why I Chose Radiation Instead of Surgery (Part 1)

    Why would someone choose radiation therapy instead of surgery after a prostate cancer diagnosis? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay welcome Dell, a prostate cancer survivor, and his partner, Vonn, as they share their personal experience navigating treatment decisions following his early detection in 2024.Dell and Vonn discuss the factors that influenced their decision to pursue radiation treatment and the importance of understanding all available options when facing a prostate cancer diagnosis. They offer an honest look at the conversations, emotions, and considerations that helped guide their journey.Committed to breaking the stigma surrounding prostate cancer recovery and intimacy, Dell and Vonn openly share their story to help educate and encourage others. This episode is a reminder that every patient's journey is unique and that informed, individualized treatment decisions matter.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: Are You Considering Getting A Penile Implant?

    Are you considering a penile implant after prostate cancer treatment? In Part 2 of this conversation on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay continue their discussion with Dr. Tsambarlis, a board-certified urologist at Northwestern Medicine and a leader in the Sexual Medicine Society of North America, to explore one of the most effective treatment options for erectile dysfunction following prostate cancer treatment.Dr. Tsambarlis explains who may be a candidate for a penile implant, how the procedure works, and what men can realistically expect before and after surgery. He addresses common concerns surrounding penile implants, including satisfaction rates, functionality, recovery, and the misconceptions that often prevent men from considering this option.If erectile dysfunction has impacted your quality of life or intimacy after prostate cancer treatment, this episode provides valuable insight into whether a penile implant may be an appropriate solution. Men and their partners will gain a better understanding of the available options and what life can look like after treatment.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: Experiencing Erectile Dysfunction?

    Experiencing erectile dysfunction after prostate cancer treatment? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay are joined by Dr. Tsambarlis, a board-certified urologist at Northwestern Medicine and a leader in the Sexual Medicine Society of North America, to discuss one of the most personal challenges men can face after prostate cancer surgery or radiation.Dr. Tsambarlis explains why erectile dysfunction can occur after treatment and explores the options available to help men recover sexual function and intimacy. From penile rehabilitation and erectile dysfunction treatments to advanced therapies and surgical solutions, he breaks down the tools that may be considered based on each patient’s needs and recovery.This conversation helps men and their partners better understand erection recovery after prostatectomy, sexual health after radiation, and what steps may be available when erectile function does not return as expected. If you are navigating intimacy or erectile dysfunction after prostate cancer treatment, this episode offers clear guidance, practical insight, and a more open conversation about moving forward.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Diagnosed With Cancer? Will Your Health Insurance Cover Your Diagnosis?

    Will your health insurance cover your cancer diagnosis and treatment? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay welcome back Joanna Doran, a distinguished cancer rights attorney, author, and advocate with more than 30 years of experience helping patients and families navigate the challenges that can come with a cancer diagnosis.Joanna discusses common insurance questions facing cancer patients, including understanding coverage, accessing care, appealing insurance decisions, and knowing your rights throughout the treatment process. She shares practical information designed to help patients and caregivers make informed decisions and avoid costly surprises.As co-founder and CEO of Triage Cancer, a national nonprofit organization providing free education and resources to individuals impacted by cancer, Joanna continues to empower patients with the knowledge they need to advocate for themselves. This episode offers valuable guidance for anyone seeking to better understand the intersection of cancer care and health insurance.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: The Latest Treatments, Clinical Trials and The Use Of AI

    What are the latest treatments, clinical trials, and emerging technologies shaping the future of prostate cancer care? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay are joined by Dr. Karine Tawagi, a specialist in the Division of Hematology and Oncology at UI Health, to discuss advances in prostate cancer treatment and research.Dr. Tawagi shares insights into the evolving landscape of prostate cancer care, including new treatment approaches, the role of clinical trials, and how innovations such as artificial intelligence may help improve patient outcomes. She also discusses ongoing research efforts aimed at minimizing treatment side effects while delivering effective, personalized care.With a focus on patient-centered medicine, Dr. Tawagi explains how treatment decisions are tailored to each individual's unique situation, goals, and preferences. This episode offers valuable information for patients, caregivers, and families looking to better understand the future of prostate cancer care and the opportunities available through clinical research.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: My Experience After Having A Prostatectomy

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay welcome back Rob Jackson to discuss his experience after undergoing a prostatectomy and the lessons he has learned during recovery. After previously sharing his journey from active surveillance to surgery, Rob returns to provide an honest update on life after treatment.Rob discusses the physical and emotional challenges that can follow prostate cancer surgery, including adjusting to a new normal and maintaining a positive outlook throughout the recovery process. He shares practical insights about staying active, focusing on overall wellness, and navigating the changes that can come with treatment.Now living with an undetectable PSA, Rob continues to advocate for early screening, informed decision-making, and individualized approaches to prostate cancer care. His story offers encouragement and perspective for men and families navigating life after prostate cancer treatment.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    From 5 Years on Active Surveillance to Having A Prostatectomy

    What happens when active surveillance is no longer the right option? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay welcome Rob Jackson, a prostate cancer survivor who spent five years on active surveillance before ultimately deciding to undergo a prostatectomy.Rob shares his personal experience navigating the uncertainty of monitoring his cancer over time, the factors that influenced his treatment decision, and the lessons he learned throughout the process. He discusses the importance of staying informed, working closely with your medical team, and choosing a treatment path that aligns with your individual situation and goals.Now living with an undetectable PSA, Rob remains a strong advocate for early screening, personalized treatment decisions, and post-operative support. His story offers encouragement and practical insight for men and families facing similar choices on their prostate cancer journey.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: Considering Active Surveillance?

    Considering active surveillance for prostate cancer? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay are joined by Dr. Adam Murphy, Associate Professor of Urology and Preventive Medicine at Northwestern Medicine, to discuss how active surveillance works and which patients may be good candidates for this approach.Dr. Murphy explains how doctors monitor prostate cancer over time using tools such as PSA testing, imaging, biomarkers, and biopsies. He also discusses the importance of balancing treatment decisions with quality of life and why some men may safely delay treatment while remaining under close observation.With expertise in prostate cancer biomarkers, imaging tools, and men’s health, Dr. Murphy provides valuable insight into the decision-making process surrounding active surveillance. This episode helps patients and families better understand their options and feel more informed when discussing next steps with their medical team.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Losing A Loved One To Cancer? Palliative Care vs. Hospice Care (Part 2)

    What happens emotionally when a loved one is nearing the end of life with cancer? In Part 2 of this powerful conversation on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay continue their discussion with Doctor Janet Abrahm, professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School, about grief, hope, palliative care, hospice care, and the emotional realities families face during difficult moments.Drawing from personal experiences involving the loss of family members to cancer, this episode explores how infections like pneumonia, flu, and COVID can severely impact patients already weakened by cancer. Doctor Abrahm also discusses the importance of communication, explaining how doctors can continue to offer hope while honestly preparing families for serious outcomes. The conversation also highlights the emotional toll cancer can have on physicians themselves, the role of palliative care in improving quality of life, and why early supportive care may even help patients live longer. This episode offers thoughtful insight for patients, caregivers, and families navigating some of the most difficult parts of the cancer journey.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Palliative Care vs. Hospice Care (Part 1)

    What is the difference between palliative care and hospice care? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay are joined by Doctor Abrahm, a professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School, to help break down two areas of care that are often misunderstood.Board certified in multiple medical specialties, Doctor Abrahm has authored more than 130 scholarly publications, including the fourth edition of the Comprehensive Guide to Supportive and Palliative Care for Cancer Patients. Her work has focused on improving symptom management and quality of life for cancer patients through better clinical decision support systems and patient-centered care.In this conversation, Doctor Abrahm explains the goals of palliative care, how it differs from hospice care, and why these services can play an important role throughout a cancer journey. This episode offers practical insight for patients, caregivers, and families looking to better understand supportive care and informed decision-making.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    27 Year Journey with Metastatic Prostate Cancer

    What does it take to live with metastatic prostate cancer long term? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay welcome Clarence Williamson, a long-time survivor and dedicated advocate, who shares his powerful journey living with the disease.Diagnosed at 53, Clarence reflects on the challenges he has faced and the mindset that has helped him continue moving forward. As co-founder of the Man to Man support group and an active member of national advocacy organizations, he has spent years raising awareness and supporting other men navigating prostate cancer.This conversation highlights the importance of early detection, PSA testing, and community support, while offering encouragement to those facing their own diagnosis. Clarence’s story is a reminder that with the right mindset and support, it is possible to keep moving forward and live with purpose.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Couples Deal With Intimacy After Prostate Cancer Treatment

    Struggling with intimacy after prostate cancer treatment? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay are joined by Antonio Aguilar-Diaz, PhD, a psychologist who focuses on how prostate cancer impacts not just the patient, but the relationship as a whole.Aguilar-Diaz explores the emotional challenges men face as they navigate the biological changes from treatment alongside deeply ingrained beliefs about masculinity and identity. He explains how these internal struggles can affect connection, communication, and intimacy within a relationship.This conversation provides practical insight for both patients and partners, helping couples move away from fear and silence toward honest communication, emotional connection, and renewed closeness. If you are working to rebuild intimacy and strengthen your relationship after treatment, this episode offers guidance to help you move forward together.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: Biopsy and Active Surveillance

    Concerned about a prostate cancer biopsy or considering active surveillance? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay sit down with Dr. Matthew Ferroni, a urologist at Mercy Urology Center, to break down what men need to know when making these critical decisions.Dr. Ferroni explains what to expect during a prostate biopsy, how results are interpreted, and how doctors determine whether active surveillance is an appropriate option. He walks through how monitoring works over time and why some men may safely delay treatment while staying closely observed.With a focus on clarity and real-world application, this conversation helps men and their families better understand the decision-making process, reduce uncertainty, and feel more confident navigating the next steps. If you are facing testing or evaluating your options, this episode provides straightforward insight to help guide you forward.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Restoring Your Bladder Control After Prostate Cancer Surgery (Part 2)

    Struggling with bladder control after prostate cancer surgery? In Part 2 of this conversation on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay continue their discussion with Heather Moky, a physical therapist at University of Illinois Health, focusing on realistic expectations, recovery timelines, and what progress actually looks like.Heather explains why recovery varies from person to person and what men can expect in the first few weeks after surgery, including how long leakage may last and when improvements typically begin. She also breaks down how pelvic floor therapy improves coordination, strength, and control, along with simple techniques like preparing before coughing or sneezing to reduce leakage. The conversation also covers how to find the right pelvic floor physical therapist, the role of caregivers in supporting recovery, and when tools or devices may be helpful. Heather shares practical guidance for both patients and partners, emphasizing that progress takes time, consistency, and the right support system. If you are working to regain control and improve quality of life, this episode provides clear and realistic direction to help you move forward.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Restoring Your Bladder Control After Prostate Cancer Surgery (Part 1)

    Struggling with bladder control after prostate cancer surgery or dealing with urinary incontinence after prostatectomy? In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, El and Shay speak with Heather Moky, a physical therapist at University of Illinois Health, about how men can regain control through pelvic floor therapy and rehabilitation.With over 24 years of experience in pelvic health, Heather explains why bladder control issues happen after prostate surgery and what men can expect during recovery. She breaks down pelvic floor exercises, therapy techniques, and practical steps that can help improve bladder control, strengthen the pelvic floor, and even support sexual function and erections after treatment.Heather has also taught and presented for organizations such as the International Continence Society and the University of Chicago. If you are experiencing leakage, urgency, or loss of control, this episode offers clear, actionable guidance to help you move forward. Share this with someone who needs it.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer Treatment: Support Through A Team Approach

    In this mini-episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay are joined by Dr. Matthew Ferroni and Dr. Michael Marquardt of Mercy Urology Center in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Together, they discuss the importance of a team-based approach in prostate cancer treatment.Dr. Ferroni and Dr. Marquardt highlight how urology and radiation oncology work hand-in-hand with other specialties—including genetics, nutrition, physical therapy, and mental health—to provide patients with comprehensive care. Their insights emphasize how collaboration not only guides men through treatment options like surgery and radiation, but also ensures ongoing support for long-term wellness and survivorship.Tune in for a focused conversation on how a multidisciplinary team can make a lasting difference in the journey through prostate cancer care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: Making The Decision - Surgery vs. Radiation

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay welcome two distinguished physicians from Mercy Urology Center in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Dr. Matthew Ferroni, a leading urologist specializing in minimally invasive and robotic surgery, and Dr. Michael Marquardt, a radiation oncologist treating prostate, lung, and other cancers, share their expertise on treatment decisions for localized prostate cancer.Together, Dr. Ferroni and Dr. Marquardt explain the similarities and key differences between radical prostatectomy (surgery) and radiation therapy—two options that offer comparable cure rates but vary in side effects, recovery, and suitability for each patient.This conversation provides essential insights to help men and their families make informed choices, highlighting the importance of early detection and a multidisciplinary approach to prostate cancer care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Three Cancer Diagnoses - Why I Participate In Clinical Trials

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, we welcome back Ralph Jones, who shares more of his personal journey with prostate cancer and beyond. Having faced multiple cancer diagnoses, Ralph speaks candidly about the challenges of living with cancer and the strength it takes to keep moving forward.Ralph explains why he chooses to participate in clinical trials and how research has played a life-saving role in his story. From his prostate cancer diagnosis with a PSA score of 600 to other battles he has endured, he highlights the importance of access to trials and how they can change outcomes for patients.As the C.E.O. of Youth Development Systems Inc., Ralph is not only a leader in education but also a strong voice for cancer awareness and advocacy. His story is a powerful reminder of resilience, the importance of hope, and the role of research in improving cancer care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer Symptoms and PSA Screening

    September is Prostate Cancer Awareness Month, and early detection saves lives. In this video, El — a prostate cancer survivor — and his wife Shay share their story and introduce Dr. Adam Murphy of Northwestern Medicine, who explains the warning signs and risk factors men need to know.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer My 600 PSA Score - My Advice to Men

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, we hear the powerful story of Ralph Jones, who was diagnosed with prostate cancer with a staggering PSA score of 600. Under the care of UI Health in Chicago, Ralph entered clinical trials that helped bring his PSA levels down to nearly zero. His journey highlights the seriousness of prostate cancer, the importance of medical research, and the resilience needed to face such a diagnosis.Beyond his cancer experience, Ralph is the C.E.O. of Youth Development Systems Inc., where he focuses on improving academic performance through online chess and STEM training. With decades of experience in finance, system design, teaching, and programming, Ralph brings both professional and personal insight into the conversation.In this episode, Ralph shares the lessons he learned through his prostate cancer journey and the advice he offers to other men about prioritizing their health. His message underscores the importance of PSA testing, early action, and staying informed to take charge of one’s well-being.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Metastatic Prostate Cancer: Surviving and Thriving

    Join us for another impactful episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as we welcome back Clarence Williamson from Memphis, TN. Clarence is a longtime prostate cancer survivor and tireless advocate who shares how maintaining a positive mindset has been vital in his fight against the disease.As the co-founder of the Memphis-based support group Man2Man, Clarence has dedicated his life to raising awareness and helping others navigate their prostate cancer journey. Diagnosed at 54, he highlights the life-saving importance of early detection and proactive health measures.In this episode, Clarence also discusses his work with organizations such as ZERO Prostate Cancer and The PROMISE Registry, underscoring the critical role of PSA testing and community support. His story is a powerful reminder that hope, resilience, and advocacy can make a real difference in living with prostate cancer.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Radiation Treatment for Prostate Cancer

    Join us on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as we sit down with Dr. Deville, Associate Professor in the Department of Radiation Oncology and Molecular Radiation Sciences at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. He also serves as the Medical Director of the Johns Hopkins Proton Therapy Center and the Clinical Director and Chair of Sibley Radiation Oncology.In this episode, Dr. Deville breaks down the latest advancements in radiation oncology for prostate cancer treatment, from cutting-edge proton therapy to modern precision-based methods designed to better target tumors while minimizing side effects. With more than 170 peer-reviewed publications and a career dedicated to advancing cancer care, he provides a clear look into how radiation therapy is evolving to improve patient outcomes.Beyond the science, Dr. Deville also highlights his passion for Health Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion (HEDI), sharing his role on the ASTRO Council on HEDI and his recent election to the ASTRO Board of Directors.Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the future of prostate cancer treatment and how these innovations—and Dr. Deville’s leadership—are shaping a more effective and equitable approach to care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer – How It Affected Our Marriage

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, Shannon and Tony Mekeel return to share the deeper story of how prostate cancer shaped their marriage. With Tony now in remission, the couple reflects on the emotional highs and lows that came with his diagnosis, treatment, and recovery.They open up about the challenges they faced in intimacy, communication, and daily life, and how these experiences tested — and ultimately strengthened — their bond. Their conversation offers a candid look at the impact of cancer on both partners in a relationship.Through honesty, humor, and mutual support, Shannon and Tony show that even in the most difficult seasons, love and resilience can prevail. This is a heartfelt discussion for couples navigating life during and after prostate cancer.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer - Our Experience With Androgen Deprivation Therapy

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay sit down with Shannon and Tony Mekeel, a couple navigating the emotional and physical challenges of prostate cancer. Diagnosed in December 2022 with a PSA of 26, Tony’s journey began with urgency—and brought with it the life-altering decisions many families face.Tony and Shannon open up about choosing brachytherapy radiation and androgen deprivation therapy (ADT)—a form of hormone treatment that impacts not just the patient, but the relationship as a whole. They candidly share how these treatments affected their intimacy, communication, and day-to-day lives as a couple.Shannon, now a published author, discusses her decision to leave her job to support Tony and document their experience. Together, they offer raw, honest insights into what it really means to support your partner through prostate cancer—from diagnosis to treatment and everything in between.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer – Understanding Active Surveillance (Part 2)

    In Part 2 of our conversation with Dr. Adam B. Murphy, we continue exploring the realities of Active Surveillance as a prostate cancer strategy. This follow-up episode dives deeper into the nuances of monitoring, patient lifestyle factors, and when a shift to active treatment may be necessary.Dr. Murphy brings a wealth of expertise as an Associate Professor of Urology and Preventive Medicine at Northwestern Medicine. He continues to address key health disparities in prostate cancer, emphasizing the importance of tailored care for African American, Hispanic, and HIV-positive men, along with the role of biomarkers in disease progression.This episode offers essential insight for men currently on or considering active surveillance, as well as for their families and caregivers. We break down myths, answer common concerns, and empower listeners to stay proactive and informed.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer – Understanding Active Surveillance (Part 1)

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, Dr. Adam B. Murphy returns to explain the concept of Active Surveillance—a prostate cancer management option focused on close monitoring instead of immediate treatment. It’s a path chosen by many men with low-risk prostate cancer, offering a way to avoid unnecessary procedures while staying safe and informed.Dr. Murphy is an Associate Professor of Urology and Preventive Medicine at Northwestern Medicine and also serves at Northwestern University and the Jesse Brown VA Hospital. His research focuses on health disparities in prostate cancer, examining the roles of vitamin D deficiency, genetics, and biomarkers, particularly among African American, Hispanic, and HIV-positive men.Join us as we explore who active surveillance is best suited for, how it’s monitored, and what men need to know when deciding whether it’s the right approach for them. This episode helps bring clarity to a complex option in the fight against prostate cancer.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer – Healthy Nutrition and a Healthy Lifestyle

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay are joined by Angela Dennison, a Registered Dietitian (RD) and Licensed Dietitian Nutritionist (LDN) who serves as Nutrition Manager at Wellness House. Wellness House is a holistic support organization dedicated to helping cancer patients and their families improve their physical and emotional well-being.Angela shares her insights on how nutrition and lifestyle choices can play a supportive role alongside medical treatment for prostate cancer. From managing side effects to maintaining strength and energy, she explains how a thoughtful approach to diet can empower individuals during their cancer journey.Tune in as we discuss practical tips, common misconceptions, and the important connection between healthy nutrition, lifestyle habits, and prostate cancer care. This episode offers guidance and encouragement for those seeking to improve their overall wellness while navigating a prostate cancer diagnosis.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer Research and Clinical Trials – What You Should Know (Part 2)

    Join us on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as Dr. Donald Vander Griend returns to continue our discussion on prostate cancer research and clinical trials. In this episode, Dr. Vander Griend dives deeper into the advancements being made in prostate cancer research, what current clinical trials are focusing on, and how these studies are paving the way for new prevention and treatment options.As an Associate Professor in the Department of Pathology and Associate Director for Shared Resource at the UI Cancer Center, Dr. Vander Griend brings decades of expertise and a personal passion for prostate cancer research. He explains how clinical trials are structured, what patients can expect when participating, and the importance of research in improving outcomes for men diagnosed with prostate cancer.Tune in to gain a greater understanding of the role of clinical research in fighting prostate cancer and learn how these efforts are making a real difference in the lives of patients and their families.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer Research and Clinical Trials – What You Should Know (Part 1)

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay are joined by Dr. Donald Vander Griend, an Associate Professor in the Department of Pathology and Associate Director for Shared Resource at the UI Cancer Center. Growing up in Grand Rapids, Michigan, Dr. Vander Griend has a deeply personal connection to his research, as both his father and father-in-law are prostate cancer survivors.Dr. Vander Griend earned his PhD in Cancer Biology from the University of Chicago and completed his research fellowship at Johns Hopkins University in the Departments of Urology and Oncology. His career is devoted entirely to prostate cancer research, utilizing cutting-edge technology and science to discover new ways to prevent and treat the disease.In this episode, Dr. Vander Griend shares his expertise on how clinical trials work, their role in advancing prostate cancer treatment, and what patients should consider when exploring research participation. Tune in to gain valuable insights into the science driving the future of prostate cancer care and how clinical research can make a difference in the lives of patients and their families.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer; Marriage, Faith, Intimacy, Therapy and Diet

    Join us on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as David and Kathie Houchens share their powerful story of navigating life and marriage in the shadow of prostate cancer. In this episode, we dive deep into how their relationship has adapted to meet the challenges brought on by the disease.The Houchens discuss the critical role of maintaining intimacy and sustaining faith through their journey. They open up about the importance of both emotional and physical therapy in managing the effects of prostate cancer on their daily lives. Additionally, they emphasize how a thoughtful approach to diet has played a part in supporting David’s health.Tune in as David and Kathie provide essential insights for couples dealing with similar challenges, highlighting the importance of communication, shared support, and a holistic approach to health. Their experiences offer valuable lessons on love, resilience, and the power of partnership in facing life’s toughest battles.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: Understanding PSA Screening, Robotic Prostatectomy Surgery and Side Effects

    Join us on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as Dr. Shilajit D. Kundu shares his expert insights into key aspects of prostate cancer management. As an Associate Professor at the Department of Urology at Northwestern Medicine, Dr. Kundu specializes in the latest diagnostic and treatment techniques, including PSA screening and robotic prostatectomy surgery.In this episode, Dr. Kundu explains the critical role of PSA screening in early detection and how it can guide treatment decisions. He also delves into the advanced surgical procedure of robotic prostatectomy, discussing its effectiveness, precision, and potential side effects. This surgical approach offers promising outcomes for prostate cancer patients, including reduced recovery time and minimized surgical risks.Tune in as we explore these important topics with Dr. Kundu, offering insights that are vital for anyone affected by prostate cancer or involved in their care. This discussion will help listeners better understand the complexities of prostate cancer treatments and what to expect during the recovery process.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer, Brachytherapy, Gleason Score and Active Surveillance

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, Dr. John McGill joins hosts El and Shay to delve into advanced prostate cancer treatment options and diagnostic measures. Dr. McGill, an experienced urologist specializing in robotic surgery at Phoebe Urology in Albany, Georgia, brings his expertise in discussing the intricacies of Brachytherapy, understanding Gleason Scores, and the role of Active Surveillance in managing prostate cancer.Dr. McGill explains how Brachytherapy offers a precise, targeted treatment for prostate cancer, detailing its benefits and suitability for different stages of the disease. He also breaks down the Gleason Score system, which helps in assessing the aggressiveness of prostate cancer and deciding the appropriate treatment pathways. The discussion extends to Active Surveillance, an approach for managing low-risk prostate cancer that involves careful monitoring rather than immediate treatment.Join us as Dr. McGill provides valuable insights into these critical aspects of prostate cancer care, helping patients and families make informed decisions about their treatment options. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of prostate cancer treatments and diagnostic practices.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer Stay Encouraged You Can WIN!

    Join us for another uplifting episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as we welcome back Simon T. Bailey, an award-winning keynote speaker known for his powerful insights on resilience and personal empowerment. In this follow-up episode, Simon shares more on maintaining positivity and finding strength during the prostate cancer journey.Building on his previous discussion, Simon delves deeper into strategies for staying encouraged and resilient when facing health challenges. His message focuses on the power of positive thinking and the belief that you can overcome and win against prostate cancer.Tune in as Simon provides actionable advice and motivational tactics that anyone dealing with prostate cancer can apply to bolster their spirit and enhance their path to recovery.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer, Divorce, Radiation Treatment, Faith and Intimacy

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, we welcome Simon, an award-winning keynote speaker known for inspiring resilience and purpose in challenging circumstances. Simon shares insights from his personal journey, which includes overcoming a difficult divorce and battling prostate cancer.Simon teaches how to harness strengths and rebound stronger from setbacks, drawing from his own experiences. Having started his career with the Disney Institute, he has influenced over 2,400 organizations in 54 countries, with clients such as American Express, Deloitte, Visa, Signet Jewelers, and Taco Bell.In this episode, Simon delves into how he managed radiation treatment, sustained his faith, and navigated intimacy issues during his cancer journey, offering valuable perspectives for anyone facing similar challenges. Join us to hear how resilience can forge a path to a fulfilling life.For more information on Simon’s books and motivational speaking engagements, visit our guest speakers page on our website.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer and Radiation Oncology

    Join us on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as we welcome Dr. Deville, an Associate Professor in the Department of Radiation Oncology and Molecular Radiation Sciences at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. Serving as the Medical Director of the Johns Hopkins Proton Therapy Center and Clinical Director and Chair of Sibley Radiation Oncology, Dr. Deville is an expert in the field of radiation oncology, specializing in prostate cancer.In this episode, Dr. Deville focuses on discussing various radiation oncology techniques and their applications in treating prostate cancer. He shares his expertise on modern radiation methods, including proton therapy, aimed at improving tumor targeting and reducing treatment toxicity. With over 170 peer-reviewed publications and leadership roles that enhance the practice of radiation oncology, Dr. Deville offers valuable insights into the cutting-edge treatments that are changing the landscape of prostate cancer care.Dr. Deville also emphasizes his commitment to Health Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion (HEDI) in radiation oncology, detailing his work with the American Society for Radiation Oncology’s (ASTRO) Council on HEDI and his recent election to the ASTRO Board of Directors. Tune in to understand the latest in radiation treatment options and how they are tailored to optimize outcomes for prostate cancer patients.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Supporting Your Husband Through A Prostate Cancer Diagnosis

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay sit down with David and Kathie Houchens to explore the profound impact of prostate cancer on a marriage. Twenty years after David's initial diagnosis, the Houchens delve into how they have navigated the challenges and changes brought on by this life-altering condition.Kathie provides a unique perspective as a wife, sharing how their relationship has adapted and how they maintained hope and positivity throughout the years. This episode offers a deep look into the strength and resilience a couple can muster in the face of adversity, providing valuable insights for others in similar situations.Tune in for an inspiring story of love, partnership, and perseverance, highlighting the crucial role of support and understanding in overcoming the trials of prostate cancer.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer and A Whole Food Plant-Based Diet

    In this episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, we welcome Dr. Christine Jovanovic, an Assistant Professor at the University of Illinois Cancer Research Center and a faculty member at the Institute of Minority Health Research. Dr. Jovanovic holds a PhD and MPH, with extensive expertise in public health and a special focus on whole food plant-based diets.Dr. Jovanovic is committed to reducing health disparities in prostate cancer, especially among Black men. She introduces her new study, which explores the benefits of a whole food plant-based diet for men diagnosed with localized prostate cancer. The study aims to develop behavioral strategies that encourage communities to actively engage in their health management while improving overall wellness.Join us as Dr. Jovanovic discusses her approach to empowering patients through diet and her upcoming research designed to assess how dietary changes can support men with prostate cancer. This episode is a deep dive into how diet can play a crucial role in cancer care and prevention.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Breast Cancer, Prostate Cancer Know Your Rights

    In this special episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, as we observe Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we are joined by Joanna Duran, a distinguished cancer rights attorney. Joanna, co-founder and CEO of Triage Cancer Center, shares invaluable insights on the legal rights and protections for individuals diagnosed with both breast and prostate cancer.Drawing from her 30 years of experience in cancer advocacy, Joanna discusses the critical aspects of navigating the healthcare system and how informed patients can make empowered decisions regarding their treatment. This episode emphasizes the importance of understanding your rights in managing both breast and prostate cancer, offering resources and advice to help patients and their families advocate effectively for their care.Tune in to learn about your legal protections and how to access the support and resources you need during your cancer journey, making this a vital listen for anyone touched by these diseases.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer, Prostate Health and PSA Screening

    Join us on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as we welcome back Dr. Adam Murphy, a Distinguished Professor of Health Equity Research in Urology and Preventive Medicine at Northwestern Medicine in Chicago. In this episode, Dr. Murphy underscores the critical importance of PSA screening for early detection of prostate cancer, a key factor in enhancing survival rates and improving treatment outcomes.During our discussion, Dr. Murphy shares valuable strategies to boost awareness among men about the risks associated with prostate cancer and the indispensable benefits of regular PSA testing. The conversation highlights how consistent screening practices can profoundly influence the management and prognosis of prostate cancer.Tune in to learn about the essential role of PSA screening in early detection and the proactive measures men can take to manage their health effectively. Dr. Murphy provides practical advice and insights to help men stay informed and engaged in preventing and combating this widespread disease.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer, Breast Cancer Know Your Cancer Rights

    In this crucial episode of our podcast, we welcome Joanna Duran, a dedicated cancer rights attorney, author, and speaker, who is also the co-founder and CEO of Triage Cancer Center, a national non-profit dedicated to providing free education on practical and legal issues impacting cancer patients and their caregivers.Joanna Duran, a UCLA alumnus with a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science and a Juris Doctor from Loyola Law School, Los Angeles, has devoted 30 years to advocating for individuals with cancer. Her work is driven by a vision of a world where everyone affected by cancer has access to the essential information and resources needed to navigate their journey effectively.In this episode, Attorney Duran discusses the specific legal rights and protections for individuals diagnosed with prostate and breast cancer. She emphasizes the importance of being informed about your rights to make empowered decisions regarding treatment and care, ensuring that patients can focus their energy on recovery rather than navigating legal complexities.Join us to gain insightful knowledge about your rights as a cancer patient or caregiver, and learn how to access the resources that can support you through your cancer journey.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer, Gleason Score, Active Surveillance and Surgery

    Join us in a detailed discussion with Dr. John McGill, a leading urologist specializing in robotic surgery at Phoebe Urology in Albany, Georgia. Trained at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine and further refined at the Cleveland Clinic and Case Medical Center, Dr. McGill brings over 15 years of experience in urology, particularly in kidney stone removal.In this episode, Dr. McGill dives into important prostate cancer topics such as the Gleason Score, active surveillance strategies, and surgical interventions. His expertise illuminates the pathways for managing prostate cancer, focusing on both innovative surgical techniques and conservative management approaches.Beyond his clinical work, Dr. McGill is a fervent advocate for prostate cancer education and awareness. He chairs the R. Frank Jones Urological Society’s Community Prostate Health Fair in collaboration with the American Medical Association, bringing vital prostate health resources and free PSA screenings to underserved communities. This commitment underscores his dedication to addressing health disparities and enhancing community health through informed access to medical services.Tune in to gain valuable insights from a seasoned urologist committed to advancing prostate cancer care and advocacy within the community.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer, Your Relationship and Trust In Your Doctor

    Join us as we welcome Dr. John McGill, a seasoned urologist specializing in robotic surgery at Phoebe Urology in Albany, Georgia. With extensive training from Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine and years of experience at prestigious institutions like the Cleveland Clinic and Case Medical Center, Dr. McGill brings over 15 years of expertise in urinary conditions, including kidney stone removal.Beyond his clinical role, Dr. McGill is passionately involved in prostate cancer advocacy. He serves as the chair of the R. Frank Jones Urological Society’s Community Prostate Health Fair, collaborating with the American Medical Association to host events that offer vital resources to communities. These include access to healthcare professionals, free PSA screenings, and connections to research institutions and hospitals.Today, Dr. McGill joins us to discuss how establishing trust with your doctor can enhance treatment outcomes and to share insights on navigating the healthcare system effectively. Tune in to learn more about managing prostate cancer and the importance of informed medical partnerships in improving health disparities.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Prostate Cancer: What You Should Know - Screening, Symptoms, Surgery

    Join hosts El and Shay on PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as they sit down with Dr. Shilajit D. Kundu to explore the science behind prostate cancer. This episode provides an in-depth look at the prostate's function and how recent technological advancements have enhanced diagnosis and treatment outcomes.Dr. Kundu emphasizes the critical role of PSA testing in guiding treatment decisions and highlights how these innovations contribute to improved recovery rates for those diagnosed. The discussion extends to the impact of new technologies on the management of prostate cancer, offering hope and valuable insights.Tune in for an educational session that not only enhances your understanding of prostate cancer's biology and treatment but also shares the latest developments in the field, making this a must-listen for anyone interested in the ongoing advancements in prostate cancer care.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    Most Frequently Asked Questions Intimacy After Prostate Cancer

    In this special episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK, hosts El and Shay delve into the most frequently asked questions about intimacy after prostate cancer treatment. They are joined by experts Dr. Adam Murphy from Northwestern Medicine in Chicago, Dr. Kitson Francis, a family consult counselor from Huntsville, Alabama, and Dr. Jeffrey Albaugh, a Urology Clinical Nurse Specialist and Director of Sexual Health at NorthShore University Health System, who is also a certified sexuality counselor.The discussion focuses on the challenges and strategies related to maintaining intimate relationships post-diagnosis. The panel explores both the emotional and physical impacts on intimacy and offers advice on navigating these complex issues.Tune in for expert insights and practical advice aimed at helping individuals and couples improve their intimate lives after prostate cancer, providing understanding, support, and guidance for reclaiming intimacy.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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    26-Year Prostate Cancer Survivor On The Importance of A Positive Attitude

    Join us for another uplifting episode of PROSTATE CANCER: REAL TALK as we welcome back Clarence Williamson from Memphis, TN. Clarence, a 26-year prostate cancer survivor and a passionate advocate, returns to share further insights on his journey and the critical importance of a positive mindset in battling this disease.As the co-founder of the Memphis-based support group Man2Man, Clarence has devoted his life to spreading awareness and supporting others facing prostate cancer. He recounts his personal experience with early detection and treatment, which began with his diagnosis at age 54, demonstrating the life-extending benefits of proactive health measures.In this episode, Clarence discusses his ongoing advocacy work with organizations like ZERO Prostate Cancer and The PROMISE Registry, emphasizing the pivotal role of PSA testing and early intervention. His story is a powerful testament to the impact of positivity and community support in overcoming the challenges of prostate cancer.Tune in to hear more about Clarence’s empowering journey and the valuable lessons he shares on maintaining hope and resilience through the fight against prostate cancer.www.prostatecancerrealtalk.com

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We are here to create a supportive community of prostate cancer survivors. A place where we can discuss the real-life coping methods from the perspective of Shay and El, a real-life married couple who will take us inside of the relationship that lives on the inside of a prostate cancer diagnosis.

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