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Rules and Tools

If you're looking to grow in your faith - you have questions, such as: What is Spiritual Warfare? What does it look like in real-time? Is there anything that I can do? Why am I feeling disconnected when I pray? We want to equip you with the Rules & Tools found in the Bible to live confidently in your identity in Christ while enjoying every good conversation on these hard topics. Discuss with us what it means to live as a child of the most High, bought by love, and to truly represent the King in our everyday life.

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    Ep 100 | The Daily Disciplines That Keep Us Close to God with Steve Prince

    After a two-month break, the Rules & Tools Podcast is back!In this episode, Jay sits down with Steve for a practical conversation about what it actually looks like to follow God in everyday life. Steve shares the number one rule he lives by, along with other principles that have shaped the way he approaches faith, obedience, relationships, and daily life. They talk about the disciplines that help us stay connected to God, why Christian community matters, and what to do when you don't have a strong Christ-centered community around you. They also unpack the difference between serving God and actually obeying Him, and why our identity has to be secure in Christ rather than built around our own story or accomplishments.Steve also shares some of his favorite commonly misquoted Bible verses and explains why getting Scripture right matters. The conversation closes with a simple but challenging reminder: love that is never expressed isn't really love. We're excited to be back after some time away and hope this episode encourages you to keep pursuing God, walking in obedience, and living out your faith in the everyday moments of life.Thanks for being here and supporting the Rules & Tools Podcast!(0:00) The #1 Rule Steve Lives By(3:05) God Is God and I’m Not — Steve’s Other Rules for Life(6:56) Daily Disciplines for Staying Connected to God(9:59) Building a Consistent Walk With God(14:03) Finding Christ-Centered Community(19:49) Your Story Is Not About You — Finding Your Identity in Christ(25:26) Service vs. Obedience — Finding the Balance(31:30) Why We Should Do What God Tells Us(39:00) Steve’s Favorite Misquoted Bible Verses(45:22) Unexpressed Love Isn’t Love(51:25) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 99 | The First Freedom Appointment: Keith's Story

    What happens when buried memories begin to surface, and your entire understanding of your past starts to change?In this episode, Dean Vander Mey sits down with Keith to revisit a story deeply connected to the origins of Set Free Ministries. Keith shares how he first found the help he desperately needed, what led to the very first Freedom Appointment, and how that experience became part of the foundation for the ministry that now serves people around the world. They discuss recovered memories, trauma, military conditioning, identity, and the difficult process of making sense of experiences that once seemed impossible to explain. Thank you for watching and supporting Set Free Ministries.(0:00) Introducing Keith & the Origins of Set Free Ministries(1:56) Desperate for Answers and Searching for Help(3:25) When the Memories Started Returning(4:55) Remembering the People Who "Were Never There"(6:04) Opening Pandora's Box(8:15) Understanding Trauma and Memory(10:25) How We Were Chosen for Special Operations(14:22) The Process of Building a Military Identity(18:24) How Ministry Was Born Out of Suffering(22:17) The Ongoing Challenges Keith Faces Today(26:33) A Stranger Confirmed My Story(30:43) Where Sin Increased, Grace Increased More2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 98 | Breaking Cycles of Bondage in Uganda with Francis Ssenyonjo

    What happens when children are given more than an education—they are given hope, discipleship, and a foundation rooted in Christ? In this special episode, Dean sits down with Francis Ssenyonjo, Director of Set Free Ministries East Africa, to discuss the incredible work God is doing in Uganda through Christian education, child sponsorship, discipleship, and vocational training. Francis shares the challenges many children face, including poverty, abuse, and the absence of strong parental figures, while also highlighting the remarkable transformation taking place through the ministry's schools. With hundreds of teachers discipling thousands of students, lives are being changed, cycles of bondage are being broken, and young people are discovering their identity in Christ. The conversation explores the importance of education for young girls, the impact of vocational training, the success of students on national exams, and inspiring stories of former students who are now serving their communities in meaningful ways. As Francis prepares for retirement, he also shares reflections, encouragement, and a heartfelt blessing for the future of the ministry.Thank you for supporting Set Free Ministries and helping bring hope, education, and the love of Christ to children and families around the world.(0:00) Meet Francis Ssenyonjo, Director of East Africa(1:20) What God Is Doing in Uganda Today(5:20) The Hidden Reality Facing Many Children(7:04) 250 Teachers Discipling Thousands of Students(9:57) Revival Can Happen Anywhere(13:09) The Importance of Fathers and Mentors(15:46) Why Education Changes a Girl's Future(17:58) The Life-Changing Impact of Vocational Training(21:12) Excellence in Education: National Exam Results(25:40) From Sponsored Student to Medical Professional(28:12) Finding Identity in Christ(30:08) Francis' Final Blessing and Encouragement2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 97 | Part 4 The Final Warning: Be Ready for Christ’s Return | Jamie Walden & Joshua Collins

    In the final part of this powerful conversation, Jay sits down again with Jamie Walden and Joshua Collins to talk about spiritual readiness, courage, healing, and what it means to follow Christ in a dark and broken world.The discussion moves beyond exposing evil and focuses on how believers are called to respond to it. Jamie shares the heart behind raising awareness for missing and exploited children, the importance of stewarding our minds and bodies, and why Christians must prepare spiritually before the battle ever arrives. Together, they discuss fear, distraction, end-times conversations, cultural compromise, and the danger of settling for a shallow faith that only seeks comfort instead of transformation. Joshua also shares more of his testimony, including surviving severe abuse, finding healing through Christ, and how freedom ministry changed his life. The conversation ends with encouragement for survivors, a call to endurance, and a reminder that no one is too broken for God's healing power.This final episode is ultimately about hope, perseverance, spiritual maturity, and being prepared to stand firm in Christ no matter what comes. Thank you for following this four-part series with us. We pray these conversations point people toward truth, healing, and freedom.(0:00) Episode Intro(0:40) Why Jamie Has Dreadlocks(1:53) Raising Awareness for Missing & Exploited Children(4:04) Understanding the Broken System(6:29) Three Ways Christians Respond to Evil(7:55) Fear Keeps Many Christians Silent(9:18) Answering the Call to Fight for Others(11:05) Stewarding Your Mind, Body, and Spirit(14:27) Knowing God Deeply Instead of Superficially(16:12) Why War Made Me Feel Most Alive(20:29) Training Before the Battle Comes(32:44) King Jesus Over End-Times Speculation(40:24) Christians Who Only Want “Fire Insurance”(43:48) Jamie’s Advice to Prepare for Christ’s Return(51:22) Joshua’s Advice to Prepare for Christ’s Return(55:56) Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?(1:00:00) The Lord Is Sifting His People(1:05:33) Final Thoughts(1:06:32) Why I Shouldn’t Be Alive Today(1:09:59) If God Can Heal Me, He Can Heal You(1:11:42) Finding Purpose Through Deep Brokenness(1:13:20) This Conversation Was Made for You(1:13:58) How to Connect With Set Free Ministries(1:15:38) A Freedom Appointment Changed My Life(1:16:24) A Message to Ritual Abuse Survivors(1:19:19) Why We Offer Ministry for Free2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 96 | Part 3 The Mark of the Beast: A Test of the Heart | Jamie Walden & Joshua Collins

    In Part 3 of our conversation, Jay continues with Jamie Walden and Joshua Collins as the discussion turns toward the deeper spiritual battle of the heart, suffering, trust, and enduring faith.Joshua shares thoughts on the testing of the heart, the mark of the beast, and how allegiance is ultimately tied to worship and desire. Jamie and Jay discuss spiritual distraction and pray through an attack from the enemy mid-recording! The conversation goes on to explore the controversy between losing faith and abandoning it, and how believers are called to share in both the world's suffering and the glory of Christ. Joshua shares what it was like revealing his story in Bible study, and the group discusses why the Church must be willing to address painful realities while remaining grounded in hope and truth.Part 4 is coming soon.(0:00) Intro(0:33) Testing of the Heart & the Mark of the Beast(3:22) Spiritual Distraction and Prayer in the Moment(8:10) Tests Reveal Where You Put Your Trust(11:00) The Mark of the Beast and the Heart’s Desire(17:24) Losing Faith vs Abandoning Faith(20:12) Unified in Suffering and the Glory of Christ(27:13) Helping Survivors Heal From Childhood Sexual Abuse(28:33) Lumping God and Human Sin Together(30:34) Joshua Opens Up About SRA in Bible Study(33:39) Why Jamie Talks About Hard Truths in Church(37:53) How Much Should We Learn About Darkness?(45:52) Loving the Least of These as Warriors for Christ(46:52) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 95 | The Call to Go All In for Christ

    In this episode, Jay Fettig sits down with Steve Prince to discuss discipleship, identity, and what it truly means to follow Christ with full devotion.Steve, director of the Warriors Branch at Set Free and a longtime mentor to Jay, shares his story of 20 years serving in the U.S. Army followed by 15 years of walking alongside men in their spiritual growth. Together, Jay and Steve reflect on how discipleship has shaped their lives—both through direct mentorship and through the lasting impact of teaching, books, and lived example. This conversation explores the call to be “Fully Dedicated Followers of Christ,” what it looks like to invest in others, and the four pillars of a godly life rooted in the gospel. If you’ve ever wondered what real discipleship looks like in everyday life—and why it matters now more than ever—this episode will challenge and encourage you.2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 94 | Part 2 Surviving Ritual Abuse: Hidden in Plain Sight | Jamie Walden & Joshua Collins

    In Part 2, Joshua Collins shares more of his personal testimony of surviving ritual abuse and the spiritual battles that followed. He opens up about recovering memories of abuse, dealing with night terrors, and how Christ met him in the lowest moments of his life. He shares how understanding Jesus as the true substitute for suffering began to bring healing and freedom. The conversation also explores the spiritual realities behind occultism, why survivors are beginning to speak out today, and how believers must learn to view these issues through a biblical lens.Jamie Walden provides insight into the broader spiritual battle happening in the world today, discussing deception, the counterfeit nature of occult practices, and the importance of discernment within the Church. Together, they emphasize the hope of the gospel, the justice of God, and the call for believers to stand.Part 3 of this conversation is coming next week.(0:00) Episode Intro(0:43) Why Jamie & Joshua Are Sharing This Together(2:50) Sexual Immorality in the Bible(7:30) Deviancy vs Power-Basing(9:30) Recovering Memories of Abuse(12:02) God Met Me at My Lowest(15:24) Dealing with Night Terrors(19:02) Jesus as the Substitute for My Abuse(22:20) The Justice of God and the Vengeance of the Lord(24:31) Why Abuse Victims Are Coming Forward Today(25:38) When the Church Would Not Help(27:45) Finding Set Free Ministries(29:16) Demonic Oppression and Physical Bondage(32:50) What Satanic Rituals Look Like for Children(35:40) Occultism Counterfeits Jesus and the Bible(38:06) “Occultists Wear Suits” — Power and Influence(41:45) The Spiritual Pyramid of Occultism(46:30) My Family and the Lodge(47:43) Hidden Symbolism in Major Churches(49:35) Devotion to Demons Through Love of the World(53:39) Infiltration of Satanism at High Levels(55:30) A Biblical Lens on the Times We Are In(57:16) Masks and Fear in Rituals and Culture(1:01:18) The Mark of the Beast and Cultural Conditioning(1:04:15) Hidden Elements in the Founding of America(1:08:14) Epstein Files and Divination Claims(1:13:00) Abuse for Divination in My Family(1:14:13) Are We in the End Times?(1:18:35) God’s Call for Even the Wicked to Repent(1:20:30) Part 3 Coming Next2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 93 | Why Survivors of Ritual Abuse Stay Silent with Jamie Walden & Joshua Collins

    Some stories are difficult to hear—but necessary to confront if we want to understand the reality of evil and the hope of redemption.In this episode, Jay is joined by Jamie Walden and Joshua Collins for a sobering conversation about spiritual warfare, justice, and the reality of satanic ritual abuse. Joshua courageously shares part of his story of experiencing satanic ritualistic abuse as a child and explains why many survivors never speak about what happened to them. The conversation explores trauma-based mind control, the long-term effects of severe trauma, and why these topics are often misunderstood or dismissed.Jamie Walden also shares about his mission for justice and why Christians must take both spiritual warfare and human suffering seriously. Together they discuss how these realities connect to broader cultural conversations, including the Epstein files, and what believers need to understand about the reality of Satanism and spiritual darkness in the world.This episode is not meant to sensationalize evil, but to expose darkness, pursue truth, and point people toward the freedom and healing that Christ offers.Chapters: (0:00) Episode Intro(1:31) Jamie Walden & Joshua Collins(2:40) Joshua Collins Shares His Childhood Story (SRA)(6:55) Why Survivors of Ritual Abuse Often Stay Silent(9:15) Trauma-Based Mind Control Explained(14:50) How This Connects to the Epstein Files(17:25) What Christians Need to Understand About Satanism(20:15) Jamie Walden’s Mission for Justice(25:40) Jamie Walden’s Take on the Epstein Files(27:25) Why We Are Sharing This Conversation Today2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 92 | Spiritual Warfare in the Church with Dean Vander Mey

    This is a repost of one of our most important and challenging conversations—because the questions it raises are still being asked, and the Church still needs honest, biblical clarity on spiritual warfare. In this episode, Jay sits down with Dean Vander Mey for a raw, grounded, and deeply biblical conversation about demonization, repentance, and spiritual oppression—topics that are often avoided or misunderstood in modern Christianity. Together, they unpack what Scripture actually teaches about spiritual darkness, the reality of the demonic, and how the enemy still works in the lives of believers today.Dean shares powerful firsthand stories from ministry, including encounters in Africa and with families involved in witchcraft, revealing how access is gained, how deception operates, and how the gospel calls believers to stand in truth and freedom. The conversation also addresses one of the most important tensions in spiritual care: discerning the difference between mental health struggles and spiritual oppression, and why both require wisdom, humility, and compassion. If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about deliverance, oppression, or spiritual warfare, this conversation will challenge and strengthen your faith.***CHAPTERS*** (0:00) Episode Preview (0:41) Podcast Intro (1:06) Picking back up on Deliverance from Evil Spirits / Oppression (2:34) 2 Kingdoms in a War(5:09) Christians Are Not Prepared(6:44) Demons in the Bible and Today(8:48) The Demonized Man in Africa(11:08) A Family of Witch Doctors - Little Susie(13:49) Can Christians be Demonized?(16:34) How Does the Enemy Get Access to Christians?(19:41) The Message of the Gospel: Repentance(21:25) Why Don't They Teach Spiritual Warfare?(23:19) The Man Who Wanted to Commit Suicide(25:44) Spiritual Oppression or Mental Illness?(26:15) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 91 | Where Freedom From Shame Begins with Chad Schreur

    In this episode, we sit down with Chad Schreur from Every Man a Warrior for a powerful conversation about freedom, discipleship, and spiritual growth. Chad shares his personal experience going through a freedom appointment, how he overcame shame using practical biblical tools, and why getting into the Word completely changed his life. We talk about what Every Man a Warrior stands for, what success really looks like in God’s eyes, and why personal quiet time with God is essential for lasting transformation. This conversation also explores the importance of relationships over religion, building consistent spiritual habits, and learning from the men who have gone before us. This episode is for anyone who wants more than surface-level faith. If you’re hungry for real discipleship, spiritual discipline, and a deeper walk with God, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and equip you to take your next step forward.Every Man A Warrior Website: https://everymanawarrior.com/Buy the Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Every-Man-Warrior-Lonnie-Berger/dp/1612911358Chapters:(0:00) Episode preview(0:44) Meet our guest Chad Schreur from Every Man a Warrior(3:35) Chad’s experience going through a freedom appointment(7:54) Overcoming shame with the ABCs(10:09) Getting into the Word changed everything(12:37) What Every Man a Warrior stands for(15:15) What success means to God(19:38) Why personal quiet time with God matters(22:57) Can you walk through the book alone(25:52) How long the course takes and building a new weekly habit(28:20) Relationships over religion(29:49) How and where to get involved with Every Man a Warrior(31:16) The fire starter analogy(34:40) Following the men who have gone before us(36:19) What resources are available(39:25) The one thing Chad wishes someone would have told him(41:41) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 90 | Wise Counsel Who Are You Letting Speak Into Your Life?

    What does wise counsel actually look like in real life? Who speaks into your life when things are hard and who speaks into your life when things are good?In this episode, we talk about the difference between consuming information and being truly discipled, how to recognize when your heart is ready to receive counsel, and why mentorship rooted in humility, not control, is essential for growth. This conversation is for anyone who feels overwhelmed, unsure who to listen to, or hungry for real spiritual guidance instead of surface-level motivation. We talk about stress after salvation, forgetting God when life gets comfortable, repentance, and why God must always remain our first and greatest counselor. If you are looking for direction, clarity, or wisdom in this season, this episode will meet you where you are and point you back to the One who leads best.Chapters:(0:00) Episode preview(2:14) Introduction to guest and topic Wise Counsel(4:04) Living one day ahead in faith(6:49) Receiving wise counsel while walking through cancer(9:20) Who counsels you after you are set free(11:38) Consuming information vs being discipled(12:52) Mentoring with the wrong motivation meeting people where they are(16:22) God met me in a Starbucks(19:10) How to know when your heart is ready to receive(21:42) Childlike faith in business and life(25:00) Stress and worry after being saved(27:02) How to find a mentor(29:42) God is our best mentor(32:20) Forgetting to go back to God when things are good(34:27) Repenting when we make other things our god(36:19) How often to meet with a mentor and the fighting diamond(40:22) Instructions for the person seeking counsel(41:58) Closing 2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep | 89 Freedom Ministry Explained What to Expect and Why It Matters

    What really happens in a freedom appointment? Is it intense, emotional, awkward, or life changing?In this episode, we sit down with Vicki Barrens and Pearl Huizenga, leaders in freedom ministry, to talk honestly about what freedom appointments are and what they are not. We address common fears, misconceptions, and questions people often have before stepping into freedom, especially the fear of being judged or not knowing what to expect.This conversation is for anyone who feels nervous about a freedom appointment, struggles with fear of God instead of seeing Him as a loving Father, wants healing but is unsure when or how to step out in faith, or needs encouragement to renew their mind and walk in their identity as a child of God.Freedom is not about chasing a spiritual high. It is about truth, identity, and learning how to walk forward unburdened. Whether you are curious, hesitant, or ready to take the next step, this episode is meant to encourage and meet you right where you are.Chapters:(0:00) Episode preview: What a freedom appointment really is(0:29) Meet our gues,t Vicki Barren,s freedom ministry leader(3:22) Meet our guest Pearl Huizenga, freedom ministry leader(6:13) You do not have to be afraid of God(8:07) Why do they give so much time to the Freedom Ministry(9:52) We do not judge you for what it looks like if you are nervous(12:30) Freedom is not a spiritual high(15:40) Common misconceptions about a freedom appointment(18:56) How the team prepares their hearts not judge others(25:54) How we pray over and prepare the room(27:44) Understanding your identity as a child of Go(29:20) Renewing your mind after past pain(32:00) Encouragement for anyone afraid to step out in faith(35:00) When is the right time to get free(36:37) Closing thoughts and encouragement2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 88 | How the Enemy Uses Fear to Neutralize Believers with Jamie Walden

    In this episode of the Rules & Tools Podcast, Jay Fettig welcomes back Jamie Walden, author of Omega Dynamics, for a sobering and timely conversation on fear. Together, they explore how fear operates as the primary currency of spiritual warfare, from the fall of Adam to modern culture, and why fear is ultimately rooted in unbelief that God is truly good. Jamie draws on his background in the military and ministry to unpack how fear manifests as pride, self-preservation, and fear of man, and how a shallow gospel often leaves believers vulnerable to bondage. Jay and Jamie share personal testimonies, discuss fear within marriage and leadership, and point listeners back to the freedom found in trusting God’s love and placing our fear rightly in the Lord alone. This episode reminds us that the good fight of faith is choosing belief, trust, and identity in Christ over fear.Chapters:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:50) Welcome Back Jamie Walden + Today’s Topic: Fear(2:54) Jamie’s Book Omega Dynamics — Fear Is Currency(6:44) Macro View of Fear Responses(9:47) Fear Rooted in the Fall of Adam(11:41) The Modern Fear of Validation(14:12) Everything Is Centered Around Fear(15:05) How Do We Overcome Fear?(17:40) The Fear of Man Brings a Snare(20:13) Fear Rooted in Unbelief That God Is Good(23:27) Why the Gospel Has Become Shallow(25:05) Cowardice and Self-Preservation(27:22) The Sad Truth About Fear(30:10) Offending God vs. Fearing God(32:33) Believing You Are Truly Loved(34:37) Reserving Fear for the Lord Alone(39:56) The Lord Is With Us(42:40) Joshua, the Prophets, and Fear in Scripture(45:00) Jamie’s Perspective on the Days We’re In(47:00) Your Testimony Is Your Witness(48:52) Why People Are Fearful Without a Savior(50:38) The Desire to Be Like God(54:16) How Fear Manifests as Pride and Arrogance(55:05) Stealing God’s Glory for Ourselves(59:10) Pride as the Root — and What Fuels It(1:01:48) Belief, Trust, and the Battle for the Mind(1:03:29) Fear Within Marriage(1:07:04) How the Enemy Uses Zeal to Create Burden(1:09:57) Standing on God’s Promises to Fight the Good Fight(1:13:29) How the Fear of Man Has Impacted Jamie(1:16:23) Jay’s Biggest Fear: Fear of Failure(1:18:18) What Set Free Ministries Offers for Free(1:21:32) Closing Thoughts2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 87 | We’ve Misunderstood Love with Dylan Rodriguez

    What does love really mean? Is it just a feeling, or is it something deeper—something rooted in truth, action, and sacrifice? In this reposted conversation from our archives, we revisit a powerful and timely discussion with Dylan Rodriguez that challenges the way love is commonly understood today.So many of us are searching for love to fill a void, often placing that weight on other people and expecting them to satisfy needs only God was meant to fulfill. When we do that, love becomes conditional, manipulative, and ultimately disappointing. Scripture paints a very different picture. The Bible tells us that God is love, and in passages like 1 Corinthians, we see that real love is patient, truthful, selfless, and willing to act—even when it’s uncomfortable.In this episode, we unpack what love is and what it is not, the difference between loving and manipulating, and why confronting others in truth can actually be an expression of love. We also explore how our Heavenly Father sees us and how understanding His love transforms the way we love others. Though this episode was originally recorded earlier, its message remains just as relevant today as we continue to navigate relationships, faith, and truth in a culture that often confuses love with emotion alone.Chapters: (0:00) Episode Preview(0:36) Podcast Intro(1:02) What Is Love—And What It Isn’t(2:32) Love vs. Manipulation(3:21) When We Make People Our God(6:02) Love as an Opportunity to Serve Your Spouse(7:46) The “Love Chapter” Explained(9:54) Loving With Action and Truth(12:05) Can Love Be Painful?(14:44) Confronting a Brother in Love(17:20) Truth, Accountability, and Responsibility(20:01) How Our Heavenly Father Sees Us(22:30) ClosingSign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 86 | Listening to the Promptings of the Holy Spirit with Kyle Pierpont

    In this episode of the Rules & Tools Podcast, we sit down with Kyle Pierpont to talk about what it really looks like to live a Holy Spirit–led life. From learning how to hear God’s promptings to walking in obedience even when it feels uncomfortable, Kyle shares powerful stories from his family, childhood, and ministry experiences. We discuss why God designed us to live in community and team, how hurt and fear can cause us to hold back, and what it means to stop quenching the Holy Spirit. Through stories of praying for strangers, unexpected ministry moments (yes—even in Taco Bell), and learning humility, this conversation invites believers to move beyond passive faith and into active surrender. If you’ve ever wondered why hearing God feels difficult, how to discern the Spirit’s voice, or what it truly means to give God the wheel, this episode will encourage you to take the next step in following Jesus wholeheartedly.Chapters:(0:44) Welcome Kyle Pierpont(1:52) Kyle’s Family and Background(3:37) Why We’re Meant to Be Part of a Team(4:38) Learning to Hear the Prompting of the Holy Spirit(6:04) Kyle’s Dad: A Story of Obedience to the Spirit(7:48) Dreams and Promptings in Scripture(8:22) Praying for Someone in Public(10:16) Why We Struggle to Hear the Holy Spirit(12:26) Ministry in a Taco Bell(14:40) Holding Back Because of Hurt(16:49) Hearing the Spirit of God for the First Time(19:56) Living a Holy Spirit Lifestyle(23:30) What It Means to Follow Jesus(25:44) A Childhood Backpacking Trip That Shaped Faith(28:44) Truly Giving God the Wheel(32:05) Walking in Humility(34:19) Jesus’ Sacrifice vs. the Goal of Our Lives(37:05) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 85 | Worship as a Way of Life: Parenting, Obedience, and Surrender

    Worship is more than music—it’s a life fully surrendered to God. In Part 2 of this conversation, we explore what it means to worship the Lord with our whole hearts through obedience, parenting, stewardship, and trust. We talk about seeking God beyond just His blessings, laying down our own plans, and learning to desire His will above our own. This episode is an encouragement to move past surface-level faith and step into wholehearted devotion to the Lord in every area of life.Chapters:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:38) Worship Is More Than Singing(1:31) Parenting as an Act of Worship(4:15) Seeking God With Your Whole Heart(6:43) Time, Talent, Treasure — Dying to Self(8:30) God’s Laws and Principles(10:48) Holding Onto Our Own Hopes(14:50) Wanting God’s Answer vs His Blessing(16:33) Praying for Discernment(19:19) Why We Started This Podcast(20:43) How to Wholeheartedly Seek the Lord(24:50) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 84 | Closer to God: Breaking Down Spiritual Barriers

    In this episode, we welcome you to our new building and dive into a powerful discussion on deepening your relationship with God. Bonnie shares how the Lord speaks through study, the importance of removing barriers between us and Him, and how even when we think we’re “doing nothing wrong,” there are ways our hearts can be distracted from intimacy with God.We explore speaking to God as a loving Father, understanding that our breath and every gift we have comes from Him, and how we can cultivate worship that flows from gratitude rather than obligation. From reflecting on King David’s wife to realizing our role as stewards of God’s gifts, this episode is full of encouragement to embolden your day and strengthen your walk with Him. If you’re seeking a closer connection with God, practical ways to remove spiritual barriers, and daily inspiration, this episode is for you.Chapters:(0:00) Welcome to Our New Building(0:59) Jeremiah 29:13 — Hearing God Through Scripture(2:26) Removing Barriers to God Through Freedom(4:55) When We Think We’re “Doing Nothing Wrong”(7:28) Praying to God as a Loving Father(11:10) Religion vs Relationship With God(12:12) Understanding God as “Papa”(13:33) Love God, Love People — The Gospel Made Simple(16:48) Every Breath Is a Gift From God(19:30) Withholding Worship — King David’s Wife(20:44) Stewarding What God Has Given Us(22:50) Encouragement to Walk Boldly With God2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 83 | 6/7 Trend Exposed Part 2: Renounce Deception & Reclaim Your Worship

    In Part 2 of our deep dive into the 6/7 phenomenon, we go further into the spiritual dynamics behind the movement and explore how culture, media, and subtle deception can influence worship without us even realizing it. This episode examines how music videos and viral trends can become vehicles for spiritual manipulation, the difference between sorcery and divination, and the power at work in the demonic realm.Joshua Collins and Jay Fettig unpack how mass consent, subtle participation, and hidden symbolism operate spiritually, and they provide guidance on how believers can renounce involvement, reclaim authority, and understand God’s sovereignty over all evil. We also discuss whether we are living in tribulation times, the importance of discernment, and how to remain faithful in praise even amidst suffering. This episode challenges listeners to recognize the spiritual battle around them, step back to identify the enemy, and embrace their commission before Christ’s return. If you’ve felt unsettled by the 6/7 trend or wondered how to walk in spiritual authority in a culture filled with deception, this conversation is for you.CHAPTERS:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:25) How Music Videos Are Made Spiritual(2:30) How to Renounce Participation in the Movement(5:10) Why Subtle Deceit Is More Dangerous(6:53) Power in the Demonic Realm(8:25) Movements as Part of Satanic Ritual(9:35) Sorcery vs. Divination(13:50) God’s Sovereignty, Justice & Human Free Will(17:13) Are We in the Tribulation Right Now?(20:00) The Most Important Thing to Know to Push Back(23:10) Identifying the Enemy(24:16) How Consent & Permission Work Spiritually(26:35) Mass Consent(27:34) The Occult Message Behind the Movement(32:18) Our Commission Before Jesus’ Imminent Return(34:00) Praise in the Midst of Suffering(35:55) Closing2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 82 | The 6/7 Trend Exposed: Spiritual Warfare Hidden in Plain Sight with Joshua Collins

    The “6/7 phenomenon” has taken over culture, music, and social media, but what if there’s more going on beneath the surface? In this episode, we break down the symbolism, numbers, imagery, and messages driving the 6/7 trend and ask a serious question: is this simply art and entertainment, or something far more spiritual? We explore why numbers and sacred geometry matter, why symbols are so powerful, and why messages tied to worship are often hidden rather than spoken outright. From a scene-by-scene analysis of the viral video behind the trend to the meaning embedded in the lyrics, we examine how people can unknowingly participate in something they don’t fully understand. This conversation tackles uncomfortable but necessary questions about worship, influence, and discernment in modern culture. Is this just gangster rap—or does it reflect a deeper satanic ideology aimed at shaping hearts and minds through symbols and repetition? If you’ve seen the 6/7 trend and felt something wasn’t right, this episode will help you understand why discernment matters more than ever.Chapters:(0:00) The 6/7 Phenomenon(1:45) Why Numbers, Math & Sacred Geometry Matter(3:30) Why This Is a Spiritual Attack(6:44) Why These Specific Numbers(10:12) Unintentional Worship: How Innocent Participation Works(13:36) Satan’s Goal: Worship(14:58) The Video Behind the Trend(17:24) Scene-by-Scene Breakdown of the Imagery(21:10) The Meaning Behind the Lyrics(25:40) Why the Message Is Hidden in Symbols(28:00) Gangster Rap or Satanic Ideology?2780 44th St SW, Suite 100,Wyoming, Mi 49519 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 81 (Part 2) | Why Most Christians Never Find Freedom | Jamie Walden

    In Part 2 of our conversation with Jamie Walden, we dig into the heart of repentance, freedom, humility, and what it really means to find our identity in Christ. Jamie shares why he wrote his book as “an evangelist to the church,” calling believers back to a life rooted in truth, not performance, emotion, or cultural Christianity.We talk about why repentance is often misunderstood, why so many people never experience real freedom, and how humility is the lost posture the Church desperately needs to recover. Jamie shares his experience with Freedom Ministry, the importance of confronting the beliefs underlying our behavior, and the ongoing invitation from God to walk in righteousness, justice, and a sound mind.We also discuss the dangers of the American-Dream gospel, what it means to live as people who "don’t belong to the world," and how magnifying Christ reframes everything about our daily lives, identity, and spiritual battles.(0:00) Episode Preview(1:11) Why Jamie Wrote His Book: “Omega Dynamics”(4:25) Repentance Without Condemnation(8:44) Why We Struggle to Repent(10:30) Why Most People Won’t Receive Freedom(12:04) Why Humility Must Return to the Church(14:06) Jamie’s Experience with Freedom Ministry(16:35) Believe Your Identity in Christ(19:11) Going Deeper Than Sin: Behavior Flows From Belief(20:53) The Core Message: Magnify Christ, Righteousness &Justice(23:45) How to Crush the American-Dream Gospel(26:57) We Don’t Belong to the World(28:20) Why We Can Have a Sound Mind(29:00) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 80 | Biblical Masculinity & End-Times Deception — Jamie Walden

    In today's conversation, Jamie Walden joins Jay Fettig to confront one of the most urgent issues facing the modern Church: the collapse of biblical manhood and the drift away from God’s Word. Jamie shares his burden for restoring husbands, fathers, and leaders to their God-given roles—and why true, Christ-centered patriarchy is essential for rebuilding families and strengthening the Body of Christ.They dive into the breakdown of biblical language, the Western misunderstanding of “love,” the spirit of Laodicea influencing today’s churches, and the growing delusion Scripture warns will mark the last days. Jamie opens up about how to wake up loved ones, how to test whether someone is truly in the faith, and why our fear responses reveal the actual condition of our walk with God. This episode is a wake-up call to return to obedience, holiness, and right relationship with the Lord.Who Is Jamie Walden?Jamie Walden brings a rare depth of experience to conversations about faith, spiritual warfare, and cultural collapse. He is an author, speaker, and content creator with a background that spans nearly every realm of service and leadership. Jamie served as a Sergeant in the Marine Corps Infantry, completed a degree in History and Law Enforcement, and went on to work in the U.S. Marshals and federal law enforcement, as well as time on the streets as a police officer.He has served as a paramedic in tactical EMS, a firefighter, SWAT team member, and part of technical rescue and hazmat teams. In 2014, he deployed to Iraq, later became a missionary, launched a small construction business, and has been featured on broadcast and network TV, podcasts, and media worldwide.Today, Jamie lives in Colorado, where he helped plant a church and operates a faith-based family resilience camp, equipping families to walk in spiritual strength and biblical identity in a collapsing culture.Chapters:(0:00) Episode Intro(0:42) Welcome Jamie Walden(4:12) A Burden for Men: Husbands, Fathers, and Biblical Patriarchy(7:43) How Language Is Being Reduced(10:08) Why Biblical Language Matters(12:20) The West’s Misunderstanding of Love(13:35) The Laodicean Church & “I Never Knew You”(15:53) God’s Invitation Back to Right Relationship(19:45) How Do We Wake Up Loved Ones?(22:52) Testing Our Fear Response(28:10) The Bottom Line: How to Know Someone Is in the Faith(29:40) Ignorant vs. Delusional Faith(33:35) The Rise of Seeker-Friendly Churches(36:45) The Millennial Reign & Are We Near the End?700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 79 | Which Road Are You On? Believing vs Obeying

    In Part 2 of our conversation with Dean Vander Mey, we dive deeper into the state of the Church, the rise of syncretism, and the urgency of returning to the only true way to God. Dean shares powerful insights into why the Kingdom of God is exploding around the world—even as America faces record-high divorce rates, confusion, and spiritual compromise.We talk about what it actually looks like to live supernaturally in Christ, why giving Jesus even 10% of your time will change your entire walk, and the difference between believing in God and obeying God. Dean exposes cultural darkness, unpacks Harvard’s slide into “knowledge without wisdom."If you’ve never heard about a Freedom Appointment, this episode explains how it can break chains you didn’t even know you were carrying. And, as always, we return to Jesus—the One who refuses to throw stones, and calls us to walk in the same mercy and truth.Chapters:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:19) Syncretism & the Only Way to God(2:40) The Kingdom Is Exploding—Bible Sales Rising(4:00) Living Supernaturally in Christ(6:01) America’s Sky-High Divorce Rates(7:08) Giving Jesus 10% of Your Time(9:45) Believing vs. Obeying(13:10) Harvard: Knowledge Without Wisdom(14:15) Exposing Darkness(15:17) Unintentional Sin — Dean’s Childhood Story(16:37) How a Freedom Appointment Helps(17:44) Jesus Doesn’t Throw Stones(19:53) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 78 | Why the Next Generation Is Calling Out the Church

    Are we willing to face the truth about what’s happening in our nation and in the Church? In this important conversation, Dean Vander Mey and Jay Fettig join us to talk honestly about the spiritual crisis unfolding in America — and the hope God is still offering.We dig into why the next generation is calling out hypocrisy, how the Church drifted into compromise, and what it really means to stand against evil in a culture that celebrates it. Dean shares the painful story of his childhood church closing due to darkness, and why believers must understand the reality of the two kingdoms at war. We also confront the uncomfortable topics no one wants to touch: the spiritual reality behind Halloween, the rise of pornography in schools, and why so many Christians remain spiritually powerless — disconnected from the Word of God. But this episode isn’t just a warning; it’s a call to hope, courage, and holiness. God is raising up a generation who refuses to bow.If you’re ready to wake up, stand firm, and start living as a true disciple in dark days, this conversation is for you.Chapters:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:26) How Are We Doing in the USA?(3:10) How Did We Get Here?(5:16) America’s Spiritual Bankruptcy(7:33) Hypocrisy in the Church(8:45) Dean’s Childhood Church Closed(10:20) Two Kingdoms at War(12:11) The First Group Thrown Into the Lake of Fire(13:53) Hope for the Youth(16:30) Why Jesus Hates Halloween(18:12) What Really Happens on Halloween(20:00) Syncretism in the Church(21:35) Pornography in Schools(23:29) Lack of Bible Reading — The Real Issue(24:38) Sheep vs. Goats700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 77 | Faith That Sees the Unseen: Miracles, Healing, and the Battle for Our Minds (Part 2)

    New episode (Part 2) with Mark Warren!From witnessing miracles to learning how to discern the supernatural through God’s Word — this conversation dives deep into what real faith looks like in a world fighting for our attention. Mark and Jay talk about spiritual exercises for a sound mind, miracles that strengthened their faith, and how to stay grounded in Truth when the world pulls us toward distraction.Link to The Road Ministries: https://www.theroadmap.org/Chapters:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:30) Getting lost in the experience of the Gifts of the Spirit, healing and deliverance(3:09) Believing without seeing(5:20) I witnessed a miracle — never-ending oil(8:02) How to understand the supernatural — Bible as our grid(11:15) Looking for the good, seeing how the Father sees us(12:45) Truth does not negotiate with sin(13:46) We are eternal beings being filtered through time — you are not the center of the universe(15:40) My friend was diagnosed with cancer, his faith has shined through — today he has no cancer(18:07) Satan is after your memory(19:20) Spiritual exercises for a sound mind(20:11) Is social media hell? A call to get off social media(21:33) What does your faith cause you to live differently?(25:20) A story about Mark’s sons — acting like men broke their hearts(28:00) Closing thoughts(28:56) How to get in contact with Set Free 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 76 | When Faith Becomes Real, Scripture Becomes a Love Letter

    In this episode, Jay sits down with Mark Warren, leader of The Road Ministries, for a robust conversation on faith, transformation, and God’s calling. Mark shares his turning point—how a conversation with a gym member led him to encounter God's love and change the lens through which he viewed everything, including Scripture. What once felt like a hammer became a love letter from a Father who redeems and restores. They also talk about the call to heal the Church, what it means to live holy and purposeful lives, and how to make sure your faith is placed in the right thing.Link to The Road Ministries: https://www.theroadmap.org/Chapters: (0:00) Episode Preview(0:50) Mark Warren, Leader of The Road Ministries(2:00) Call to Heal Our Church – SEU Worship(4:30) What Is Faith? Why Mark Does What He Does(8:00) Mark’s Turning Point: From Gym Member to God’s Mission(12:15) My Lens Changed – Scripture Is a Love Letter, Not a Hammer(16:15) If I Ever Got a Tattoo, It Would Say “HOLY HOLY HOLY”(16:50) “I Don’t Want to Sit Around in Heaven”(19:09) God Meets Me When I’m Driving(20:30) God’s Perfect Plan for the End(22:39) Standing Before God and Giving an Account(23:55) What Happened When I Placed My Faith in the Wrong Thing (Part 2 Coming Soon!)700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 75 | Mental Health or Spiritual Oppression? Biblical Perspective with Mike Schill and Karl Payne

    This conversation is especially significant as it was recorded just a week before Mike’s passing, following his impactful message at a recent conference. Dean sits down with Karl Payne and Mike Schill to explore the intersection of faith, mental health, and spiritual authority. Mike shares why he wrote Putting God Back into Counseling and gives practical insights on applying God’s Word to mental health challenges and spiritual oppression. They discuss how the occult can influence a generation through technology, the importance of applying a Biblical worldview to counseling, and why hidden sin and victim mentality are at the root of many struggles today. Listen to this episode for guidance on standing in Christ, living free, and applying truth over cultural lies.Chapters:(0:00) Opening Prayer with Guests: Karl Payne & Mike Schill(0:58) Occult World Accessing a Generation Through the Cell Phone(2:47) Why Mike Schill Wrote: Putting God Back into Counseling(6:33) Biblical Worldview vs. All of Man’s Education and Answers(8:21) Why You Should Start Writing in Your Bible(9:38) Losing Friends for Being a Christian(11:12) Jesus and the Devil(14:06) The Mental Health Field Today(17:30) Applying God’s Word to Diagnoses for Healing Spiritual Issues(18:52) Hidden Sin: The Real Problem(21:10) Victim Mentality in the West Leading to Suicide(23:50) Scriptures About Our Authority Over Spiritual Oppression(26:28) As Long as We Associate with Christ, We Are Safe(28:40) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 74 | No More Toxic Empathy. It’s Time to Heal Our Land

    What does it really mean to be set apart?In this episode, we explore the hope of salvation, the power of renewal, and the call for believers to rise up and destroy darkness. From the prophecy in the Garden of Eden to the blood of atonement, this message reminds us that true faith requires action, holiness, and friendship with Jesus.Chapters:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:37) Healing for Our Land(1:46) Jesus’ Last Words — The Only One Who Can Take Away Sin(2:40) The Prophecy of Jesus in the Garden of Eden(4:25) The Night Before Passover(5:09) True Faith Requires Action(6:50) Hope for Our Future(7:54) What Is a Pharisee Today?(9:35) Keeping God’s Commandments(13:47) Unkinking the Hoses of Living Water(17:15) Shedding Blood for Atonement(19:04) We Are Eternal Beings — Where Will You Spend Eternity?(21:33) Accepting the Gift of Salvation(24:04) The Importance of Renewing Your Mind(27:03) Jesus Christ, Our Friend(29:17) Why the World Hates Christians(34:01) The Call to Be Set Apart and Holy(36:06) Toxic Empathy(39:56) A Call to the Men in the Church: Rise Up and Destroy Darkness(42:43) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 73 | Back to Black Hawk Down, Mark Hollis’ Mission of Redemption

    Can God redeem even the darkest moments of your story? Mark Hollis, a Black Hawk Down veteran, shares how God turned his trauma into testimony and led him to bring the gospel to Malaysia. In this powerful episode, Mark and Jay sit down to talk about his firsthand experience in battle, the 30-year mystery of his missing trucks, and how obedience to God’s call brought healing and purpose. They also unpack how Scripture counters temptation, what true freedom looks like, and what Mark hopes to do with Jesus in Heaven. A story of courage, redemption, and walking in full surrender to God’s calling—whether in war or in everyday life.Warriors Battle: https://warriorssetfree.org/battle/CHAPTERS:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:43) How I Met Mark Hollis(2:00) Mark’s Testimony(5:33) God Called Me Back to Malaysia(7:38) Sharing the Gospel with Muslims in Malaysia(10:33) Why Malaysia? How Mark Got Stationed There(14:00) Black Hawk Down: The Untold Story(16:40) Searching for My Two Missing Trucks — 30 Years Later(19:50) My Team’s Casualties(23:00) What It Was Like the Night of Black Hawk Down(27:40) How Mark’s Story Freed Jay from a Lifelong Weight(32:35) Am I Doing What the Lord Asked Me to Do?(35:28) The Mount of Temptation: Using Scripture to Counter the Lie(38:28) The Bible Recap with Tara-Leigh Cobble(41:29) What Mark Wants to Do with Jesus in Heaven(44:40) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 72 | One Truth, One God: Kimbra Ponquerne’s Journey to Healing & Unity

    This week, we’re joined by Kimbra Ponquerne, who shares her powerful story of brokenness, healing, and freedom in Christ. From the early days of marriage to leading women’s encounters today, Kimbra walks us through the lessons God has taught her about unity, forgiveness, and the importance of setting intentional time with Him. We cover the struggles of misplaced trust, the pain of unforgiveness, and the lies women often believe about themselves—and how God’s truth sets us free. You’ll hear about the call to love our neighbors faithfully, what it means to run the race with endurance, and the impact of women’s encounters like Reflect in helping women discover who God says they are. This is a vulnerable, hope-filled conversation for anyone seeking freedom, faithfulness, and a deeper walk with God.CHAPTERS:(0:00) Episode Preview(0:40) Podcast Intro(1:05) If I Had Known This at Year 2 of Marriage(3:38) What is the Road to Unity Marriage Encounter?(6:17) Motivation to Help Women(8:49) Reflect Women’s Encounter: Speaking God’s Truth(11:55) Losing Trust in God After Trauma(14:10) How Unforgiveness Leads to Sin(15:27) One Truth vs. “My Truth” Culture(18:55) If Today Was Your Last Day, Did You Love Your Neighbor?(20:19) Running the Race with Faithfulness & Freedom(25:13) God’s Call to Lead a Women’s Encounter(30:03) My Experience with Fasting and Hearing God(31:57) The Importance of Intentional Time with God(33:35) ClosingLink to The Road Map Events: https://www.theroadmap.org/marriage700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 71 | Why You Can’t Kill a Christian

    In this episode, we dive into the dangers of lukewarm Christianity and the urgent call to bold faith. From Charlie Kirk’s example of courage, to Job’s endurance through suffering, to the importance of repentance, we explore why believers can’t afford to compromise truth in today’s culture. We’ll talk about prayer being pushed out of schools, why the world can’t kill the eternal hope of a Christian, and how God is calling us back to His Word. The challenge is clear: stop being lazy, open your Bible, and go make disciples.(0:00) Episode Preview(0:50) Podcast Intro(1:15) Lukewarm Christianity(2:37) You Can’t Kill a Christian(4:20) Doing the Right Thing in the Face of Fear(6:12) The Gift of Human Reasoning & When We Took Prayer Out of Schools(8:26) Getting Back to the Truth — Charlie Kirk(9:11) The Example of Job(10:15) Was Charlie Kirk's Death a Political Assassination?(11:51) Why Knowing the Truth Matters(13:12) Stop Being Lazy & Open the Word(14:32) Go Make Disciples(16:03) One Takeaway — Repent(17:20) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 70 | Bold Like Charlie: Standing Firm in a Fading Culture

    What does it really cost to follow Jesus in today’s world? In this powerful episode, we reflect on the life and legacy of Charlie Kirk, exploring his boldness, self-control, and unwavering commitment to the truth—even in the face of danger. We’ll talk about what it means to mourn like Jesus, to stand strong when culture pushes back, and to step forward in courage when the easy path would be silence. If you’ve felt the call to be bold but wrestled with fear, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to live with conviction.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(0:50) Podcast Intro(1:14) The Life & Legacy of Charlie Kirk(3:26) Mourning Like Jesus (Lazarus)(3:39) Don’t Shrink Back(7:02) Charlie Knew the Risks(8:06) Charlie’s Self-Control(9:05) My Favorite Charlie Debate Moment(11:36) Why We Can’t Be “Nice” Anymore(12:42) “Lord, What Do I Do With This?”(14:30) The Cost of Following Christ Today700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 69 | How to Destroy Sin and Walk in Freedom with Steve Prince

    In this episode, hosts Steve Prince and Jay Fettig unpack the story of the 10 lepers in Luke 17 and what it means for us today. From gratitude and obedience to practical steps for overcoming sin, this conversation is packed with encouragement and challenge. Steve shares his “elevator pitch” to a new believer, the importance of choosing direction over perfection, and why sometimes you need to clear house—literally—to walk in freedom. You’ll also hear powerful insights on obedience, readiness, and the daily call to shine for Christ. Whether you’re new to faith or looking to grow deeper, this episode will equip you to take the next step toward real change.CHAPTERS(0:00) Meet Your Hosts: Steve Prince & Jay Fettig(0:43) The Story of the Ten Lepers(4:43) Living Out Luke 17 Today(7:10) Steve’s Elevator Pitch to a New Believer(9:30) Join Steve’s Online Bible Study(10:32) “Shine Up Before You Show Up”(13:36) Choosing Direction Over Perfection(16:58) Breaking the Power of Sin(20:09) Clearing the Alcohol Out of My House(22:11) Be Ready When the Phone Rings(23:55) Are You Ready to Change?(26:20) Lessons on Obedience from the Military(28:00) Closing Thoughts700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 68 | Beyond the Scoreboard: Coaching with Purpose with Josh Ingram

    What happens when winning stops being the most important thing? In this episode, coach Josh Ingram shares his powerful journey of transformation—from chasing victory on the field to leading with integrity, faith, and purpose. We talk about the call to coaching, the temptation to make football an idol, and the lessons learned through adversity. Josh opens up about praying with his players, witnessing through sports, and learning how to worship and honor God both on and off the field.Whether you’re an athlete, a coach, or simply someone navigating your calling, this conversation will encourage you to keep your eyes on Christ and remember what truly matters.***CHAPTERS*** (0:00) Meet Today’s Guest: Josh Ingram(1:00) The Call to Become a Coach(3:49) My Transformation as a Coach(5:57) From Winning at All Costs to Teaching Integrity(7:54) Taking Every Opportunity to Witness(9:42) The Power of Prayer Before Games(11:02) When Football Became an Idol(12:41) Learning to Worship and Honor God Through Sports(15:10) Fighting Through Adversity with Justice and Faith(17:30) Closing Thoughts700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 67 | Authenticity, Leadership, and Faith in the Workplace with Beth Fisher

    In today’s episode, we explore what it means to live authentically—in business, in faith, and in life. From wearing a mask in the corporate world to fighting comparison and imposter syndrome, this conversation challenges leaders to embrace their true identity and walk with purpose. You’ll hear practical advice for new business leaders, the power of forgiving yourself, and how to “fail forward” without losing sight of who God made you to be. Beth also shares her personal journey of battling cancer, rediscovering who God is, and holding on to an eternal mindset in the middle of life’s toughest seasons. Whether you’re in the boardroom, starting out in leadership, or simply seeking to align your faith with your everyday work, this episode will encourage you to lead with authenticity and live with Kingdom focus.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(1:35) Podcast Intro(2:00) Wearing a Mask in Corporate (5:10) What Do You Believe? TEAM MINDSET(8:10) Advice For New Business Leaders(10:00) Don't Lose Your Authentic Self (12:33) You are NOT STUCK! Forgive Yourself(15:20) The Lesson my Highschool Reunion taught me (19:13) Eternal Mindset in Business(21:13) The Comparison Game (22:14) Failing Forward(24:42) Beth's Fight against Cancer(27:09) I had to relearn who God was(30:54) Having Purpose (33:05) Black Diamond Identity (35:35) CEO Imposter Syndrome (38:20) When is Jesus Coming Back?(39:03) Closing 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 66 | Healing from Childhood Trauma with Paula Jauch

    Paula Jauch’s story begins with a childhood shaped by violence, bullying, and loss—and moves through years of survival, struggle, and searching for a way out. In this conversation, she shares the turning points that helped her heal, break free from generational patterns, and step into unexpected roles as a writer and prison ministry leader. It’s a raw and honest look at trauma, faith, and what it really takes to rebuild a life.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(1:28) Podcast Intro (1:52) Today's Guest: Paula Jauch(3:36) Dissociation (4:21) Paula's Childhood, dealing with Bullies(6:06) My Father was Shot at 7/11(8:39) My First Boyfriend (10:34) My High-School Education (13:00) My First Job 14:10 My First Time in Church(17:55) I Tried to Take My Life (20:54) My Second Job with Gang Members (24:00) How I Began to Heal (26:42) Breaking Generational Sins(31:42) My Journey Learning to Read(32:56) My Current Husband(35:33) My Father's Death (37:48) God's Call to Write a Book (39:07) God's Call to Prison Ministry (44:21) Inmates' Reaction to my Book (47:52) Full Circle Moments (48:00) Why I share my Story(50:55) Why We Need To Renew Your Mind(55:59) Operating out of Fear in Parenting (58:52) My Deepest Wound(1:00:52) Paula's Books & Resources 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 65 | How Often Should You Pray? Building a Real Relationship with the Father

    What does a deep, daily relationship with God really look like? In this heartfelt episode, Shane Humphrey returns to share how simple, intentional time with the Lord transforms everything—from your morning routine to the way you face life’s hardest challenges. We talk about the power of a prayer closet, the steps to start a real conversation with God, and how to recognize when He’s inviting you to spend time with Him. Shane opens up about his relationship with his earthly father, how it shaped his view of God, and why trusting God in tough seasons is key to victory. From the urgency of repentance to the beauty of child-like faith, this episode will inspire you to examine your own heart for unbelief, reject negotiation with sin, and take one practical step toward more intimacy with the Father today.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview (0:54) Podcast Intro(1:18) Welcome Back: Shane Humphrey(2:46) How Do You Start Your Day? Shanes Morning Routine(4:38) Is a Prayer Closet a hack for Intimacy with God? (5:34) Steps to Talk with God (6:46) When God wants to spend time with you(7:21) Jesus' example of a relationship with God (8:29) How do we know that God is a good father? Shane's relationship with his father (10:12) Where we spend our time shapes how we look (11:10) How to Trust God when it gets tough (13:33) God's Masterplan for Victory (15:58) The time to repent is NOW (18:15) What Relationship with the Father looks like (20:14) Child-like Faith: Innocence vs Dependancy (23:29) Examining myself for Unbelief (25:00) Men who display the Fruits of the Spirit (27:17) Do You Negotiate with Sin?(29:22) Full Circle Moment (30:57) 1 Step to Spend More Time with God (34:19) Closing 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 64 | Where Do Our Thoughts Come From? With Bill Lewinski

    Are your thoughts really your own? In this powerful episode, Bill Lewinski and Jay Fettig dive into one of the most important and overlooked questions in the Christian life: Where do our thoughts come from—and how can we know which ones to trust? We explore how to recognize the source of your thoughts, identify false beliefs, and discern between the voice of God and the lies of the enemy. You'll learn two key questions to expose the "false truths" you're believing, how Satan targets your identity, and what it really means to take your thoughts captive. With practical tools, biblical wisdom, and personal stories—including how Walking Free changed Bill's life—this conversation will equip you to break free from negative thinking patterns and stand strong in your true identity. Whether you're battling self-doubt, wrestling with fear, or just trying to hear God's voice more clearly, this episode is for you.***CHAPTERS***0:00 Episode Preview0:42 Podcast Intro 1:07 Why is this topic important? Topic: How do we knowwhere our thoughts come from? 3:15 Are our thoughts our own? 4:47 2 Questions to find the False Truth you're believing? 7:21 Discerning what the Devil is saying vs what God is saying9:02 The Reality behind Letting Go11:50 The Word of God as our Sword13:50 How do you know if your thoughts are from God?16:03 Satan attacks our identity 17:00 How to "take your thoughts captive" 18:30 God Equips the Called20:19 How to Overcome Negative Thinking Habits 21:30 How Walking Free changed my life22:30 Closing Thoughts 23:20 Our Challenge to you!700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 63 | In the World, Not of It with Steve Prince

    What does the Bible really mean when it talks about “the world”? In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the difference between “the earth” and “the world” from a biblical standpoint. From understanding what Scripture says about loving the world to what it means to gain the whole world but lose your soul, this episode will challenge how you think about your daily life, priorities, and purpose. Steve shares personal reflections on eternal investments, living out your faith in the business world, and the real ROI of seeking God’s Kingdom first. We also discuss the tension of being in the world but not of it, how to boldly share the gospel, and the importance of spiritual restoration before mission. Whether you’re a Christian navigating your calling or someone curious about what the Bible says about culture, purpose, and eternity, this episode will encourage and equip you to live with Kingdom focus in a worldly age.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(1:00) Podcast Intro (1:25) This Week's Topic: The World (3:03) What God Calls "The Earth" vs "The World"(5:00) Where "The World" is mentioned in Scriptures(6:58) Don't Love the Stuff of this World(8:42) What you talk about says a lot about you(9:52) Christian Businessmen (10:39) Steve's response to: "Gain the Whole World, but Forfeit their Soul"(14:03) Eternal Investments(16:47) ROI on "Seek First the Kingdom"(19:02) Steve's Bonus Round in Life (20:14) Friend of the World = Enemy of God(21:59) Sharing the Gospel with unbelievers is an act of Love(26:33) Different Gifts of the Spirit: Street Ministry(28:34) Excuses to not share the Gospel(30:27) Be IN the World but not OF the world (32:1)4 We need to be Restored to go back out into the World(35:15) Closing Thoughts (36:30) Signing Out 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 62 | Repentance, Authority, and the Fight for Freedom

    What is true repentance, and why is it so critical in our battle against darkness? In this powerful episode, Jay sits down with Dean Vander Mey to talk about repentance as a key part of our relationship with God. They explore difficult but important topics, including satanic ritual abuse, dissociation, and spiritual warfare, and how repentance plays a central role in healing and spiritual breakthrough. As they unpack the authority God gives His people, they also discuss the dangers of biblical ignorance and the rise of lukewarm Christianity in the end times. Through real-life ministry insight and biblical truth, this conversation points listeners back to the basics of faith and the power of walking in daily repentance. Dean also shares the FISH discipleship model, a helpful tool for anyone seeking to grow deeper in their walk with God. If you're hungry for more of God, and ready to take your faith seriously in a world filled with spiritual confusion, this episode will encourage and challenge you.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview (0:32) Podcast Intro(0:58) Dissociation - Dealing with Satanic Ritual Abuse (4:41) Authority over the Spiritual Realm(6:27) God's Promise to His Army (7:31) Repentance and God's Glory(9:36) Basics of Repentance and Relationships (11:32) Biblical Ignorance(12:00) FISH Discipleship Model(16:30) End Times - Lukewarm Christians(19:00) Wrapping up(20:20) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 61 | Can a Christian Be Demonized? With Dean Vander Mey

    Can a Christian be demonized? This question has many opinions and one that deserves an honest, biblical conversation. In this episode, Jay sits down with Dean Vander Mey for a real and eye-opening discussion about demonization and repentance, both topics that don't get talked about enough in the Church. They are both crucial parts of spiritual warfare, but are often overlooked. They dig into what it means to face the reality of demons and spiritual darkness, and how these things still affect believers today. Dean shares powerful stories from his ministry, including a demonized man in Africa and a family of witch doctors, showing how the enemy gains access and how the gospel calls us to stand firm. They also explore how to tell the difference between mental health struggles and spiritual oppression. This eye-opening and challenging episode will stir your faith and remind you what it means to follow Jesus in the middle of a spiritual battle. Thanks, as always, for watching and supporting the Ministry! ***CHAPTERS*** (0:00) Episode Preview (0:41) Podcast Intro (1:06) Picking back up on Deliverance from Evil Spirits / Oppression (2:34) 2 Kingdoms in a War(5:09) Christians Are Not Prepared(6:44) Demons in the Bible and Today(8:48) The Demonized Man in Africa(11:08) A Family of Witch Doctors - Little Susie(13:49) Can Christians be Demonized?(16:34) How Does the Enemy Get Access to Christians?(19:41) The Message of the Gospel: Repentance(21:25) Why Don't They Teach Spiritual Warfare?(23:19) The Man Who Wanted to Commit Suicide(25:44) Spiritual Oppression or Mental Illness?(26:15) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 60 | I Found the Spiritual Freedom You’re Looking For

    Are you tired of feeling trapped and seeking spiritual freedom? In this video, we dive into the 7 Steps to Freedom at Set Free Ministries, a biblical approach to breaking free from the chains that hold you back. From identifying counterfeit freedom and idolatry, to overcoming self-protective vows and deception, we'll explore the path to true liberation. You'll learn how to replace bitterness with forgiveness, rebellion with submission, and pride with humility. Discover how to shatter the bonds of bondage and walk in freedom. If you're ready for a life change and personal revival, this video is for you. Join us as we explore the Freedom Manual and take the first steps towards a life of spiritual freedom today!***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(0:51) Intro (1:15) 7 Steps to Freedom at Set Free Ministries (2:09) Freedom Appointment Disclaimers(2:27) Biblical Basis of a Freedom Appointment(6:00) Set Free's Freedom Manual (6:18) Step 1 - Counterfeit vs. Real (7:45) Idolatry (8:45) Self-Protective Vows (10:00) Step 2 - Truth vs. Deception(12:33) Step 3 - Bitterness vs. Forgiveness(15:49) Step 4 - Rebellion vs. Submission(17:50) Step 5 - Pride vs. Humility (20:00) Step 6 - Bondage vs. Freedom (22:00) Who should do a Freedom Appointment(23:02) Step 7 - Generation Sin(24:15) After Effects(25:10) REPENT! (26:02) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 59 | A Man After God's Own Heart

    In this message, we delve into the life of King David, a man after God's own heart. What made him so special in God's eyes? Was it his bravery in battle or his skill with a sling? No, it was his humility to say "I was wrong" and his willingness to repent when he failed. David's attributes, such as his passion for worship and his desire for a deeper relationship with God, set him apart as a true leader. In a world where information about God is abundant, David's heart cry was for a real and personal connection with his Creator. In this episode, we also talk about what it means to have a "God-given opportunity" and how easily they can be misinterpreted. So, the question remains, why is David called a man after God's own heart? Is this message for you? Take a journey with us as we explore the life of King David and discover the key to having a heart that beats in rhythm with God's.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview (0:35) Intro (1:01) A Man After God's Own Heart: King David (3:55) "God Given Opportunity"(6:40) King David's Attributes(8:00) Why is David Called a Man After God's Own Heart?(9:53) Humility to say "I was wrong"(11:43) Repentance(13:19) Information VS Relationship with God (15:49) Was This Message for You? 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 58 | Truth In a World Addicted To Comfort

    Join Jay and Joshua on the Rules & Tools Podcast as they dive into the Exodus journey and how it relates to our modern lives. Joshua shares his personal struggles with eating disorders and how the simplicity of the gospel set him free. They discuss how our phones can be our Babylon, and how we often prioritize appearances over true meaning. Jay and Joshua explore the importance of wrestling with scripture and overcoming "Go with the flow" mentality. This thought-provoking conversation is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their faith and break free from the slavery of comfort. With a dash of humor and bloopers, this episode is a call to all denominations to come back to The Simplicity of the Gospel.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(1:01) Intro (1:26) Foreshadowing in the Bible(2:47) Caring About Appearances(3:52) The Exodus Journey (4:49) Going With The Flow (6:11) Slavery was Comfortable (7:47) A Call to All Denominations (8:27) Set Free Showed Me Love in Action (9:53) You Can't Live Without the Bible(11:06) Joshua Shares about His Eating Disorder(12:07) This World is on Hospice (13:04) The Lesson of Exodus (14:22) Our Phones Are Our Babylon (15:19) Oblivion In Modern Times (17:14) Wrestling with Scripture(18:37) Joshua's Wife's Devotion (20:41) The Simplicity of the Gospel (21:06) Closing (21:28) Bloopers700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 57 | The Fruit of the Spirit with Bonnie Scheltema

    Bonnie's Testimony: https://youtu.be/gTjk3up8noISign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomJoin Bonnie Scheltema on Episode 57 as she shares her powerful testimony of transformation. Jay Fettig dives into Bonnie's Experience at Set Free, where she recounts the effects of her Freedom Appointment and how it transformed her marriage. Today, Bonnie is a volunteer at Set Free guiding women to the same Freedom in Christ that she found! She opens up about her past struggles, including a porn addiction and self-harm. Her life has been completely transformed - "Who I was before vs who I am now is totally different, the scales came off my eyes!" She shares her personal message to listeners about implementing ALL of the Fruits of the Spirit, but emphasizing the importance of patience and love in our walk with God. If you're struggling to find freedom, Bonnie's story is a reminder that you can't do this on your own, but with with loving brothers & sisters in Christ and the Holy Spirit, you can turn your struggles into "fruit juice". Learn what to expect when you sign up for a Freedom Appointment and be inspired to live a life that reflects the Fruit of the Spirit, as described in Galatians 5.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview(1:03) Intro (1:28) Bonnie's Freedom Experience(3:52) Bonnie's Childhood(4:33) I Thought I Knew God(5:39) Effects of a Freedom Appointment(6:07) My Marriage Was Transformed(7:16) We Are Attracted to Change (8:00) Drawn to Serve where I Found Freedom(8:41) What Are The Fruits of the Spirit (9:18) Galatians 5 (9:54) I had a Porn Addiction as a Woman (10:49) Average Person's Normal Cycle(11:31) Who I Was Before(12:06) Who I Am Now(13:15) Paul's Call Out of Slavery to Sin (14:22) "I Could Never Do It On My Own"(15:30) When I Came To My End(16:40) "I Just Want A Redo"(18:14) What Do The Fruits of the Spirit Mean To You Today?(19:03) LOVE (20:00) JOY(22:34) PATIENCE(25:20) KINDNESS & GOODNESS(27:08) FAITHFULNESS(30:44) "The Scales Came Off My Eyes"(32:53) You Can't Pick One Fruit(34:19) SELF-CONTROL(35:51) When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Fruit Juice(38:00) You Can't Do This On Your Own(38:50) Telling My Grandma My Story(40:53) Bonnie's Personal Message to Listeners(43:16) Why We Do This With Two Brothers or Sisters?(44:43) Bonnie's Experience with Therapy and Bitterness(46:49) The Moment My Life Changed Forever(48:33) What To Expect When You Sign Up A Freedom Appointment(49:48) Closing 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Web: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 56 | What Is THE FEAR OF GOD? Daniel Bergsma

    In this episode, Jay Fettig is joined by special guest Daniel Bergsma as they delve into the concept of the fear of God. Defining what it means to fear the Lord, they explore the difference between holy fear and unhealthy fear, and how our reverence for God is just the starting point. Bergsma shares his insights on how our casual attitude towards God can lead to spiritual death, and why we should STOP celebrating sin. The conversation also touches on the magnificence of the gospel and how our fear of God should outweigh our fear of man. Daniel also shares his own fear test, and how it has impacted his faith. Join the conversation to learn more about the fear of God and how it should shape our relationship with Him.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Daniel Bergsma - Intro (2:06) Rules & Tools Intro(2:30) The Fear of The Lord - Defining Fear (4:10) Is Fear Always Bad? (4:50) Holy Fear vs Unhealthy Fear (6:07) Bible Verses on Fear (7:55) We Avoid Things We Are Afraid Of (8:58) God's Holiness Keeps Us Separate(10:46) Protection from our Father (11:08) Jay's Definition of Fear of The Lord (13:00) Separation from The Lord's Presence(13:53) Reverence Is Just The Starting Point(15:00) John Bevere's Definition of Holy Fear (17:41) Fear of God VS. Fear of Man? (19:19) Daniel's Call to Focus on God (21:00) Jay's Perspective - All Things Are A Form of Worship(22:28) Having A Casual Attitude in The Presence of The Lord(25:10) "Jesus & Coffee" Mugs (26:00) STOP Celebrating Sin!(27:00) God's Glory is Dangerous to Man (28:50) Magnificence of The Gospel (30:23) YOUR Value to God (30:46) Being Casual = Spiritually DEAD(32:26) The Danger of Tolerating Sin(33:00) God's Precious Word (35:06) Daniel Bergsma's Fear Test(36:00) ClosingSet Free Ministries 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 55 | Is Deliverance A Part Of Freedom Ministry?

    Is Deliverance Ministry talked about anywhere in the Bible? What is the Difference Between Deliverance & Freedom? These are just a few of the questions that Jay Fettig and Dean VanderMey tackled in this thought-provoking conversation. We will dive into the importance of having a biblical worldview and how it relates to spiritual strongholds, dealing with manifestations, and determining whether symptoms of depression are really signs of spiritual oppression. They also explore how drugs and alcohol can give spiritual permission to evil spirits, and how living in a war zone requires spiritual authority over evil spirits. Drawing analogies from the story of King David, a tormented man who found freedom, Dean and Jay share their insights on the importance of Freedom Ministry, which is practiced at At Set Free Ministries. Don't miss this powerful and informative discussion that sheds light on the ignorance in the USA Church and the importance of exercising free will in our spiritual lives.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Intro (0:24) Dean Vander Mey(0:54) Biblical World View (2:26) What is the Difference Between Deliverance & Freedom(2:57) Power Encounters in the Bible - What is Power Basing? (3:43) What is Deliverance Ministry?(4:18) Fly Problem Analogy (5:03) Reality of Spiritual Warfare - Strongholds(6:35) How to Deal with Manifestation(7:32) Depression; Mental Illness or Spiritual Oppression?(8:51) What happens when we Drink Alcohol or Drugs?(9:49) Two Bucket Analogy (11:23) A Tormented Man, King David (11:55) Discipline from the Demonic Realm(13:21) Freedom Ministry (14:14) Envy Rots Your Bones (14:50) Ignorance in the USA Church(15:59) Kingdom Law (17:08) Free Will(17:46) Reality - Living in a War Zone(18:23) Stand up for your Community (19:22) We should be Grace & Truth(19:57) Your Spiritual Authority over Evil Spirits(22:40) Don't be a Coward(23:08) Closing700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 54 | The Simplicity Of The Gospel

    In this episode, Jay Fettig sits down with returning guest Joshua Collins to discuss the simplicity of the Gospel. They delve into the Hebrew definition of love and its connection to the second greatest commandment, highlighting the distinction between worldly love, which can be manipulative, and God's unconditional love. The conversation explores how we respond to God's love, and how we can practically implement it in our daily lives. They also touch on the idea of being set apart and how our actions can transform the world, referencing the story of Paul in the Bible and the concept of being grafted in and born again. They challenge the idea that we often get caught up in rule-following, and instead, encourage viewers to ask themselves if people see Jesus through their actions. This thought-provoking episode will inspire you to re-examine your relationship with God and how you can live out His love in a practical way.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Intro (0:55) Joshua Collins (1:28) Is the Gospel Simple?(2:48) Hebrew Definition of Love(4:12) How do we respond to God's Love (4:53) The Second Greatest Commandment(6:11) Worldly Love = Manipulation(7:27) Joshua's Perspective of the Lost (8:43) Old Testament vs New Testament Jesus (9:57) Putting the Gospel into Practice (10:59) 100,000 Jesus' Radically Transforming the World(11:46) The Different Gospel We were Warned About(12:49) What it Means To be Set Apart(15:21) Blame the Egyptians(16:58) Mankind's Rebellion towards God (18:50) How to be a Better Rule-Follower than a Jew(21:30) Hard and Fast Rules on Love (22:28) How Does Jesus Love?(23:19) Jay Is Willing To Die For This? (24:40) How do People See Jesus Through Us? (25:55) Are Beards Unholy?(26:52) The Story of Paul (29:10) The Point of Being Grafted In (31:25) #1 Takeaway(33:12) Closing 700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 53 | The Power of Song: From Grammy Winner to Prison Worship Leader

    Join Wayburn Dean and host Jay as they delve into the transformative power of song, from Grammy-winning heights to the unexpected depths of prison ministry. With 35 years of singing experience, Wayburn shares his first prison encounter, where he witnessed something he'd never seen before - authentic and spiritual worship that transcended the prison walls. But what is the real purpose of music? Is it to evoke a feeling or to play to the audience of One? Jay reflects on the albums he used to listen to growing up and how not all music today is of God. He also tackles tough questions, like which Psalms are invalid because of David's sins, and how to lose the Spirit of God. Through his story, Wayburn Dean illustrates the dangers of pride and the importance of seeking a genuine connection with God, even in the darkest of places. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that will challenge your perspective on music, worship, and the true calling of prison ministry.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Intro (0:58) Who is Wayburn Dean? (2:13) The Real Purpose of Music (2:43) How My Prison Ministry Started(3:27) My First Prison Experience(4:29) Our Calling In Prison Ministry (6:22) Most People Don't Know This About Prison (7:06) Prison is not ALWAYS BAD(8:40) My Life Philosophy (9:05) In 35 yrs of Singing, I'd Never Seen This Before(10:35) Why is Song SO Powerful?(12:17) Created to Worship(12:54) Authentic, True, and Spiritual Worship (14:20) Are We Seeking a Feeling?(15:31) The Issue behind it all: Pride (17:08) We Don't Do Well In Surrender(19:35) Jay before Ministry(20:19) King David Casts out the Evil Spirit(21:48) Playing to the Audience of ONE(23:14) Glory through our Dependence (24:08) The Albums I Used to Listen To (25:09) Why is there Pride? (26:39) What Makes Good Worship Music?(28:10) Ambassadors of Life and Godliness (28:54) Not ALL Music is of God (30:18) Jay's Confession of Pride(30:58) Music Videos (31:28) Brokenness is in All of Us (32:55) Which Psalms are Invalid because of David's Sins?(35:44) How to Lose the Spirit of God (36:47) Nobody Had Ever Told Me This (37:59) God's Purpose For All of Us(39:06) Closing Thoughts: Fortunate to be a Servant(40:03) Motivation - Operate In Your Gift (40:46) Closing Thank You700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 52 | The Paradox of God’s Plan

    Join Jay Fettig and guest Steve Vander Molen on this episode of The Rules & Tools Podcast as they seek to understand God's plan and share a remarkable story of faith and loss. Steve takes us back to 2024, when his family embarked on a 1,000-mile snowmobile trip in Northern Canada. The dramatic turn of events at mile 26 changed everything. Jay and Steve dive into the heart-wrenching experience of when Steve's cousin died for 18 minutes, and how they reacted to the situation. Steve shares his initial desire for God to spare his life, but how God's plan was different from his own. They explore how this experience ultimately led to Steve's cousin's best friend coming to faith and how it relates to God's plan in Scripture. This inspiring conversation highlights the difference between our hope and God's ways, and how, in some situations, we may never understand God's plan until we reach heaven. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on trusting in God's sovereignty and finding purpose in trials.*** CHAPTERS ***(0:00) Intro (0:40) Steve Vander Molen - USA Director(1:40) The 1,000 Mile Snowmobile Trip(2:38) What Happened at Mile 26?(4:07) The First Thing That Went Through My Mind(4:52) The Hardest 2 Hours Ever(5:50) How We Reacted to the Situation(6:41) He Died for 18 Minutes(7:24) Imagine The God of Heaven(8:09) I Believed That God Was Going To Spare His Life(9:06) God's Presence in the Hospital 9:28 What Do You think I Should Do? (10:22) The Hardest Decision We Had To Make (11:05) Why Go Through All This? (11:44) The Real Miracle (12:31) My Desire was Different than God's (13:17) How We Healed Together(13:40) My Cousin's Best Friend Got Saved because of His Death(14:21) God's Plan in Scriptures(15:06) My Hope VS. God's Ways(15:50) Can I Trust Yaweh with My Life?(16:40) My Conclusion Of The Whole Situation(16:58) The Freedom Appointment (17:22) The Forgiveness Step 3 - I was Angry with God (17:59) Things We Will Not Understand Until We Get to Heaven (18:39) God's Will For Your Life (20:03) Don't Drown the Pain!(20:33) How to Keep an Eternal Perspective (21:15) Closing Analogy - A Child With Cancer(22:20) Is This YOU? (23:20) Closing Set Free Ministries700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, MI 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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    Ep 51 | The Impostor Test: Is Fear Leading Your Faith?

    In this video, we're discussing the importance of discernment in our walk with Christ. How can we spot an impostor, and what are the signs of someone who diminishes the power of Jesus? We'll explore how Thomas's doubt was addressed by Jesus, and how this relates to the concept that "greater is the one who has not seen yet believes." We'll also examine the common misconception that archeology "proves the Bible is true," why this would make archeology the ultimate truth, and why this line of thinking can be problematic. Have you disrespected the sovereignty of God Almighty in your life? We'll discuss the importance of honoring God's authority and why inviting Him to come in is not a biblical concept. Finally, we'll also be discussing the divisions in the church and how this affects our witness to the world. We hope you enjoy this message! Link to Karl Payne's Book, Spiritual Warfare on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Warfare-Christians-Demonization-Deliverance/dp/0981752829/ref=asc_df_0981752829?mcid=c6d2ed5c090433d68ce4ac2ad821b82a&hvocijid=4702382885457087411-0981752829-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=721245378154&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4702382885457087411&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9189268&hvtargid=pla-2281435177378&psc=1***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Intro (0:25) How to Spot an Impostor: Christ vs Anti-Christ(1:28) Jesus Diminishes Thomas's Doubt (3:31) Greater is the one not Seeing who will Believe(4:30) Archeology Doesn't Prove that the Bible is True(5:55) Have you Disrespected the Sovereignty of God Almighty?(6:25) Inviting the Holy Spirit to come in is NOT Biblical(8:32) "I have never shared this on any podcast!"(8:54) Cessationism is NOT supported by Scriptures(9:59) What Scripture Clearly says! (10:24) Charismatic vs Non-charismatic Churches(11:12) Divisions in the Church (13:17) Christians are being Martyred in the 21st Century(13:49) Ghana Pastor Describes Western Churches(15:00) You Need to Get These 3 Things Right! (16:40) Why You Need To Be Discipling(18:06) The Solution To Wide & Shallow Churches (19:06) "In my heart I believe" Opinion vs The Word of God(19:54) Is Fear A Worthy Motivator for Christians? (22:06) Do Not Live By Cliches(23:39) Is There A Healthy Fear? (24:30) The #1 Door for Christians to Get Involved With Demons (25:31) Is it Ok to give a 3-year-old a Knife? (27:21) Common Sense vs Being Motivated by Fear (29:19) Closing(30:00) Karl Payne Referral to Set Free700 36th St SE, Suite 108,Grand Rapids, Mi 49548 (616) 726-5400Sign up for a Freedom Appointment: setfreemin.org/freedomWeb: SetFreeMin.orgFacebook: facebook.com/setfreeusaDonate at: https://www.setfreemin.org/giveEmail: [email protected]

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If you're looking to grow in your faith - you have questions, such as: What is Spiritual Warfare? What does it look like in real-time? Is there anything that I can do? Why am I feeling disconnected when I pray? We want to equip you with the Rules & Tools found in the Bible to live confidently in your identity in Christ while enjoying every good conversation on these hard topics. Discuss with us what it means to live as a child of the most High, bought by love, and to truly represent the King in our everyday life.

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