Saved & Single

If you’re a Christian single over 40 who has been divorced and wondering if you’re truly ready to date again… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with licensed counselor and relationship expert Debra Fileta to talk about healing after divorce, why so many people repeat unhealthy relationship patterns, and how to know if you’re actually ready to start dating again.We break down the truth about shame in the church, how trauma impacts who you’re attracted to, and why you may be choosing what’s familiar instead of what’s healthy. Debra also explains why dating should be a season of investigation, not intimacy, and what it really looks like to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.We also talk about navigating dating with children, when to introduce your kids to someone new, red flags to watch for, and how to approach dating with wisdom instead of fear.If you’ve ever asked yourself:Am I really healed… or just ready for companionship?Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?How do I date again without repeating my past?This conversation will challenge you, equip you, and help you move forward with clarity.

If you’ve ever felt like you keep meeting the same man just in a different body, this episode will open your eyes.In Episode 12 of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Identity Coach Anabell Ingleton to break down why your dating patterns aren’t random. From subconscious beliefs to past experiences, they unpack how your internal world influences who you attract and why many Christian singles over 40 feel stuck in the same cycle.This conversation dives into identity, emotional healing, and the “mirror effect” in dating. You’ll learn why focusing on what you don’t want keeps showing up, how past relationships can quietly influence your choices, and what it actually takes to start attracting something different.If you’re navigating dating after divorce, long-term singleness, or repeated relationship patterns, this episode will give you clarity, language, and a new way to approach love.Download the Mirror Effect GuideDownload the "Wife Ready" ExerciseFollow Anabell on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/anabell.ingleton

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship, afraid to leave, or unsure how you would rebuild your life… this episode is for you.In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Precy Lawson, who shares her powerful story of marriage, abuse, forgiveness, and ultimately making the decision to leave and start over after 40.After 14 years in a relationship that turned increasingly unstable and unsafe, everything came to a head one night that changed her life forever. What followed was a journey of faith, courage, and rebuilding from the ground up.This conversation dives into:• Why women stay longer than they should• The emotional and mental weight of leaving• Forgiveness and faith in the middle of pain• Rebuilding your life after 40• Trusting God when everything feels uncertainIf you’ve ever asked:“Why am I still here?”“Can I really start over?”“Will I be okay on my own?”This episode will speak to you.Subscribe to Saved & Single for real conversations about faith, healing, dating, and life after 40.

Have you ever thought someone was sent by God… but deep down something felt off?In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, we have a real and honest conversation about ignoring red flags, trying to “save” a man, and dating or marrying someone who doesn’t share your faith. You’ll hear a powerful story of marrying someone you didn’t truly love, entering relationships outside of God’s will, and the lessons learned through pain, growth, and faith.We talk about being unequally yoked, father wounds, and why many women feel called to fix men instead of choosing alignment.If you’re single, divorced, or navigating dating over 40 as a Christian, this episode will give you wisdom, clarity, and encouragement.

In this episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, Jasmine sits down with Ty Haggan, who spent decades single, believing God for marriage while watching everyone around her move on with life.After years of waiting, healing, and wrestling with disappointment, she reached a breaking point and wrote in her journal: “I am done.”Just hours later, she met the man who would become her husband.Ty shares her journey through long-term singleness, navigating faith, dealing with loneliness, healing from past relationships, and learning how to truly trust God with her desire for marriage.This conversation is for Christian singles over 40 who are wondering if it will ever happen for them or questioning whether God still has marriage in their future.If you’ve ever felt like you’ve done everything “right” and are still waiting, this episode will encourage you to keep believing while also doing the inner work required to receive what you’ve been praying for.

We hear “marriage is hard”… but what does that actually mean?In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Angela, who has been married for 28 years, to break down what marriage really looks like behind the scenes, beyond the wedding, beyond the romance.They talk about communication, compromise, respect, and the real work it takes to build a lasting relationship.If you’re single, divorced, or widowed and desire marriage, this episode will challenge you to look at what you need to develop now before the relationship ever begins.This conversation will help you prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship instead of just hoping for one.

In Episode 7 of Saved & Single, Jasmine breaks down what Christian singles should actually be doing while trusting God for a spouse. Following her conversation with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman, she shares personal insights on long-term singleness, hope deferred, emotional healing, and why many believers feel stuck in the waiting season.This episode explores the balance between faith and action, and what it really looks like to partner with God instead of passively waiting. Jasmine discusses non-negotiables vs. preferences, the importance of community, doing the inner work, and how to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship.If you’re a Christian single over 40 navigating dating, healing, and the desire for marriage, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical next steps._______Saved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose.If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you.Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way.Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

In Episode 6 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman of Last Year Single to talk about one of the most common messages Christian singles hear:"Just wait on God."But what happens when waiting turns into years of singleness?Jackie shares why many Christian men and women stay stuck in long-term singleness, how the church sometimes creates shame around dating, and why faith and action must work together when pursuing marriage.In this conversation, we discuss:• Why so many Christians stay single longer than they expected• What it really means to trust God while dating• The importance of community and intentional relationships• How to identify non-negotiables in dating• Where Christian singles can actually meet potential partners• Why waiting passively may not be the answerThis episode is packed with practical wisdom for Christian singles who want to pursue marriage without compromising their faith.📖 Jackie’s Book💍 Last Year Single Program📸 InstagramFollow Jackie on IGSaved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose.If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you.Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way.Follow us on Instagram:@savedandsinglepod

In Episode 5 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with BZ “The Voice” Cullins, our first male guest, to talk about Christian dating from a man’s perspective after divorce. BZ shares his testimony, lessons from marriage, and how his faith shapes the way he approaches relationships today. We discuss what “God first” really looks like, why many men don’t approach women anymore, how a Christian man develops spiritual leadership, and why abstinence matters in dating. If you’re navigating singleness, dating, and faith after 40, this conversation offers honest insight into what Christian men are thinking and what it takes to build a relationship that honors God.Saved & Single is the podcast for Christian men and women 40+ navigating dating, divorce, celibacy, and relationships while putting Jesus first.

What happens when you give your life to Jesus… but you’ve been living like you’re married for 18 years? In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her best friend, Yarelli, to talk about celibacy, abstinence, and learning to honor God in real life, especially when you live with your partner. Yarelli shares how her daughter’s cancer journey led her to Christ, how Scripture convicted her, and the uncomfortable conversation that changed everything: “We can’t keep doing this.” This is a raw conversation for Christian singles over 40 navigating dating, desire, boundaries, and obedience. If you’ve ever wondered how to “do it God’s way” without shame, this episode is for you.

Divorce changes more than your relationship status; it can shake your confidence, your faith, and your sense of identity.In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her mother, Pastor Sandy Mays, for a raw and deeply honest conversation about marrying out of fear, ignoring red flags, standing in faith for years, and eventually choosing to move forward when the marriage didn’t heal. Pastor Sandy shares how prayer, Scripture, and time with God didn’t just sustain her; they rebuilt her from the inside out.This episode is for anyone who didn’t expect to be single again and is learning how to grieve the loss of a marriage while trusting God with what comes next. If you’re navigating divorce, heartbreak, or the quiet fear that your best days are behind you, this conversation will remind you that healing is possible and your life is not over.Click here to download Pastor Sandy's prayers for emotional healing after divorce .

In this powerful episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Tammie Carter Jenson to talk honestly about marriage, divorce, infidelity, and healing, even inside the church.Dr. Tammie shares her real-life journey through two painful marriages, public divorce, betrayal, and the emotional toll of trying to do things “the right way” while quietly suffering. We discuss the stigma surrounding divorce in Christian spaces, why infidelity is more common than people admit, and how discernment matters just as much as faith.This episode is for men and women over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or single and trying to trust God again after heartbreak. It’s a conversation about surrender, healing, and what it looks like to rebuild your life and your faith without shame.If you’ve ever wondered whether God can redeem your story, this episode will meet you right where you are.

Welcome to the Saved & Single Podcast, the show for the grown & sexy Christians navigating singleness, dating, and the desire for marriage in a way that honors God.In this first episode, I’m setting the foundation for what this podcast is really about: real-life singleness after 30, 40, 50+,not teeny-bopper dating advice, and not advice from people who haven’t dated in 20 years.We’re talking about the real thoughts many of us carry:“Did God forget about me?”“Will I be alone forever?”“Is singleness a curse… or is God doing something in me?”I share my own story and the truth I had to learn the hard way: your life does not begin when you meet “the one.” You are complete, separate, and whole right now, and God has a plan for your life today, not just “someday.”Before you go, here are your 3 takeaways for the week:Detox from the lie that being single means you’re behind or less than.Lean into your spiritual growth (even if it’s just 5 minutes a day).Live like your life has already started because it has.🎧 Subscribe, share this with a single friend (or your single parent!), and follow us on Instagram: @savedandsinglepod.