Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone With An Addiction

When Words Cut Deep: Separating the Person From the Addiction Harsh words spoken during addiction can linger long after sobriety begins. In this episode, Andrea explores impulse dysregulation, emotional erosion, and how to understand addiction without tolerating disrespect. In This Episode: Addiction’s impact on impulse control • Emotional harm and self-worth • Explaining behavior vs excusing it • Protecting your dignity with boundaries 💛 Continue the Journey Visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Explore Andrea’s books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X Including: • Saving You Is Killing Me • Tainted Love • Saving Me: One Day at a Time 💛 About Andrea Andrea Seydel holds a Master’s in Happiness Studies and formal training in Positive Psychology. As an author and advocate for those loving someone with addiction, she blends science, lived experience, self-compassion, courage, and community — helping you reclaim yourself without shame.

Stories of Strength & Resilience Today's episode features one of the courageous contributors from our collective book, When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective. Every chapter in this book tells a true story. These are stories of loving someone with an addiction, navigating heartbreak, holding onto hope, setting boundaries, finding courage, and discovering that healing is possible. Some contributors chose to share their full names. Others chose to remain anonymous or use a pseudonym. No matter how they chose to tell their story, every voice in this collection is real, honest, and offered with the hope that someone else will feel a little less alone. We are deeply grateful to every contributor for their bravery, vulnerability, and willingness to share their lived experience. Your stories are helping break the silence surrounding addiction and reminding others that healing begins when we realize we are not walking this journey alone. 📚 Order Your Copy When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective Available now in paperback and digital editions wherever books are sold. Search the full title on Amazon or use the link in the show notes. 💛 Share Your Story Has this episode stirred something in your heart? If you have a story that could encourage, comfort, or inspire someone else who is loving a person with an addiction, I would love to hear from you. We are already beginning to gather stories for future volumes of the SYKM Collective, and your voice could become the hope someone else is searching for. Please email me at: [email protected] Subject Line: Share My Story – SYKM Collective 🌿 Help Spread Hope If this episode touched your heart, please consider sharing it with someone who may need it. You can also help by: Recommending the book to your support group. Donating a copy to your local library. Gifting one to a therapist, recovery coach, doctor's office, or treatment centre. Sharing this podcast with someone who feels alone. One story has the power to change a life. Thank you for listening and for being part of the Saving You Is Killing Me community. Remember… Your story matters. Your healing matters. And together, we're reminding the world that no one has to walk this journey alone. Sending hugs, Andrea Seydel  

The Push-Pull Pattern: Why Addiction Creates Emotional Highs and Lows Why does it feel so intense? This episode explains intermittent reinforcement, dopamine spikes, and the psychological magnetism of chaos. Andrea explores why instability can feel addictive — and how to step off the roller coaster. In This Episode: Dopamine cycles and emotional volatility • Why chaos can feel like connection • The psychology of push-pull dynamics • Choosing consistency over intensity 💛 Continue the Journey 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X 💛 About Andrea With advanced training in happiness studies and resilience, Andrea offers grounded support for navigating addiction relationships.

Stories of Strength & Resilience Today's episode features one of the courageous contributors from our collective book, When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective. Every chapter in this book tells a true story. These are stories of loving someone with an addiction, navigating heartbreak, holding onto hope, setting boundaries, finding courage, and discovering that healing is possible. Some contributors chose to share their full names. Others chose to remain anonymous or use a pseudonym. No matter how they chose to tell their story, every voice in this collection is real, honest, and offered with the hope that someone else will feel a little less alone. We are deeply grateful to every contributor for their bravery, vulnerability, and willingness to share their lived experience. Your stories are helping break the silence surrounding addiction and reminding others that healing begins when we realize we are not walking this journey alone. 📚 Order Your Copy When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective Available now in paperback and digital editions wherever books are sold. Search the full title on Amazon or use the link in the show notes. 💛 Share Your Story Has this episode stirred something in your heart? If you have a story that could encourage, comfort, or inspire someone else who is loving a person with an addiction, I would love to hear from you. We are already beginning to gather stories for future volumes of the SYKM Collective, and your voice could become the hope someone else is searching for. Please email me at: [email protected] Subject Line: Share My Story – SYKM Collective 🌿 Help Spread Hope If this episode touched your heart, please consider sharing it with someone who may need it. You can also help by: Recommending the book to your support group. Donating a copy to your local library. Gifting one to a therapist, recovery coach, doctor's office, or treatment centre. Sharing this podcast with someone who feels alone. One story has the power to change a life. Thank you for listening and for being part of the Saving You Is Killing Me community. Remember… Your story matters. Your healing matters. And together, we're reminding the world that no one has to walk this journey alone. Sending hugs, Andrea Seydel  

Self-Care Is Not Selfish: A Lifeline When You Love Someone with an Addiction Today is International Self-Care Day, and we're talking about why self-care isn't selfish—it's essential, especially when you love someone with an addiction. In this episode, I explore what self-care really means through the lens of positive psychology, happiness studies, and my HAPPY Framework. Together, we'll look at practical ways to care for your health, protect your energy, strengthen your relationships, reconnect with your purpose, and remember that your life matters too. If you've been pouring all of your time and energy into someone else's addiction, this episode is your gentle reminder to begin pouring some of that love back into yourself. In This Episode: Why self-care becomes a lifeline The Four C's: Self-Compassion, Self-Care, Courage & Community Self-care through the HAPPY Framework Simple ways to prioritize your own well-being 📚 Featured Resource When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective Available wherever books are sold. If this episode encouraged you, please share it with someone who may need it. Remember... Your story matters. Your healing matters. And together, we're reminding the world that no one has to walk this journey alone. Sending hugs, Andrea Seydel

Today is launch day! I am beyond excited to celebrate the release of our newest book: When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective. Today also happens to be International Self-Care Day, and I truly couldn't imagine a more meaningful day to release this book. In this special episode, I share why self-care is so much more than bubble baths and spa days—especially when you love someone with an addiction. Self-care becomes the courageous decision to stop abandoning yourself while trying to save someone else. Drawing from the science of positive psychology, happiness studies, and the heart of the Saving You Is Killing Me community, we explore why healing begins with four essential practices: ✨ Self-Compassion ✨ Self-Care ✨ Courage ✨ Community These Four C's have become the foundation of healing within our SYKM community and are woven throughout every chapter of this remarkable collection. This book features the courageous stories of twenty-seven contributors who chose vulnerability over silence. Their stories remind us that while every journey is unique, none of us has to walk it alone. A heartfelt thank you to every contributor who trusted us with your stories. Your honesty, courage, and generosity will help readers around the world feel seen, understood, and hopeful. I'm also deeply grateful to Mike O'Riley, founder of The Art of Recovery Magazine, for writing such a meaningful foreword. Mike's personal experience with addiction and loss beautifully reminds us that while addiction changes lives, hope and healing are always possible. How You Can Help If this book speaks to you, I'd love your help in spreading hope. ❤️ Share it with someone you love. 📚 Donate a copy to your local library. 🏥 Gift one to a counsellor, therapist, doctor's office, recovery coach, or treatment centre. 👥 Recommend it to your support group. Sometimes one story is all it takes to remind someone they are not alone. Order Your Copy When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective Available now in paperback and digital editions wherever books are sold. (Search the full title on Amazon or use the link in the show notes.) In This Episode Why we intentionally launched on International Self-Care Day What self-care really means when you love someone with an addiction The Four C's of healing: Self-Compassion, Self-Care, Courage, and Community The science behind resilience, well-being, and hope Celebrating the twenty-seven courageous contributors How you can help bring this book into the hands of someone who needs it If this episode touched your heart, please consider sharing it. Every conversation helps break the silence surrounding addiction and reminds someone that healing is possible. Thank you for celebrating this launch with us. Sending hugs, Andrea Seydel

Tainted Love (Part 3): Reclaiming Your Power No Matter What You Decide When you’ve been living in a relationship impacted by addiction, the decision to stay or leave can feel overwhelming. But underneath that question is something even more important: “How do I not lose myself in this?” This episode explores a powerful shift — moving from focusing on the decision itself to focusing on who you become while making it. Addiction relationships often create something known as identity fusion, where your sense of self becomes deeply tied to managing someone else’s behavior. You may find yourself becoming the fixer, the rescuer, the stabilizer — slowly losing connection with your own needs, values, and identity. Reclaiming your power means gently separating yourself from that dynamic. It means remembering something essential: You are not the outcome. You are not the relapse. You are not the chaos. You are a whole person outside of this relationship. This episode also introduces the concept of post-traumatic growth — the idea that through consciously processing difficult experiences, people can emerge with stronger boundaries, clearer values, and deeper self-trust. Not because the experience was easy. But because they faced it honestly. This is where true empowerment begins. Not in choosing perfectly — but in choosing yourself in the process. Whether you stay. Whether you leave. Whether you take space. You can reclaim your power in any direction. If this resonates, this is the heart of Andrea’s book: 👉 Tainted Love: Stay or Go? Navigating Tough Relationship Decisions in Addiction A guide to help you walk this path with strength, clarity, and self-compassion — without losing who you are along the way. Continue the Journey 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Explore Andrea’s books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X About Andrea Andrea Seydel holds a Master’s in Happiness Studies and integrates positive psychology, resilience science, and lived experience to support individuals navigating addiction relationships. Her work is rooted in helping you reclaim your identity and rebuild your life through Self-Compassion, Self-Care, Community, and Courage.  

Tainted Love (Part 2): Stay or Go? The Psychology Behind Impossible Decisions Few decisions feel heavier than this one: “Do I stay… or do I go?” When addiction is part of a relationship, this question rarely has a simple answer. It becomes layered with hope, fear, history, love, and uncertainty — all at once. This episode explores why this decision can feel so paralyzing and emotionally overwhelming. From a psychological perspective, many people find themselves caught in patterns like trauma bonding, where emotional highs and lows become intertwined, making it difficult to step away even when things are painful. At the same time, the brain is trying to protect you. It searches for certainty. It tries to predict outcomes. It wants to avoid regret. And so the question becomes bigger and heavier with time. But here’s where a powerful shift begins: The decision is not about choosing perfectly. It’s about choosing in alignment with who you are now. This episode helps you move away from the pressure of finding the “right” answer and toward a deeper understanding of your values, your needs, and your emotional truth. Because clarity doesn’t come from overthinking. It comes from reconnecting with yourself. If you’ve been stuck in the mental loop of stay or go, this episode will help you begin stepping out of that cycle and into a place of grounded decision-making. And if this resonates, this is exactly what Andrea explores in depth in: 👉 Tainted Love: Stay or Go? Navigating Tough Relationship Decisions in Addiction A compassionate and practical guide for navigating one of the most difficult decisions you may ever face. Continue the Journey 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Explore Andrea’s books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X About Andrea Andrea Seydel is an author, speaker, and advocate who combines her Master’s in Happiness Studies, positive psychology training, and lived experience to support those navigating addiction relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals make aligned decisions rooted in clarity, courage, and self-trust.

The pre-order is officially here! I am beyond excited to announce the release of our newest book: When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective. This book has truly been a labour of love. Twenty-seven courageous individuals from the Saving You Is Killing Me (SYKM) community came together to share their deeply personal stories of loving someone with an addiction. These are stories of heartbreak, hope, courage, resilience, healing, and the incredible strength it takes to keep moving forward. In this episode, I share the story behind the book—why I felt called to create this collective, how it came together, and why I believe these stories have the power to help countless others realize they are not alone. If you have ever loved someone with an addiction, this book was written for you. Inside these pages you'll discover that while every story is unique, so many of the emotions are shared. The confusion. The fear. The hope. The grief. The walking on eggshells. The longing to rescue someone you love. Most importantly, you'll discover that even when love is not enough to save someone else, it can become the beginning of saving yourself. A heartfelt thank you to every contributor who trusted us with their story. Your courage will make a difference in the lives of readers around the world. I'm also deeply grateful to Mike O'Riley, founder of The Art of Recovery Magazine, for writing such a meaningful foreword and helping set the tone for this important collection. The official paperback launch is July 24 – International Self-Care Day. If you're listening before then, you can pre-order the digital edition today. If you're listening after July 24, both the paperback and digital editions are available wherever books are sold. 📚 Order Your Copy When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective Available wherever books are sold. In This Episode Why I created When Love Is Not Enough The story behind the SYKM Collective Why twenty-seven brave individuals chose to share their stories The meaning behind the title How stories create connection, hope, and healing Why this book is for anyone who has loved someone with an addiction If this episode resonates with you, please consider sharing it with someone who may need it. Together, we can help more people feel seen, supported, and a little less alone. Sending hugs, Andrea Seydel  

Tainted Love (Part 1): When Addiction Warps the Relationship You Once Knew At some point, many people find themselves quietly asking a question they never thought they would have to ask: “What happened to us?” What once felt stable, connected, and loving slowly begins to shift. The person you knew is still there… but something feels off. Conversations feel different. Energy feels different. The relationship begins to feel unpredictable in a way that is hard to explain. This episode explores what happens when addiction slowly warps the emotional foundation of a relationship, creating what Andrea calls tainted love. It’s not that love disappears — it’s that it becomes entangled with chaos, inconsistency, and emotional instability. Psychologically, this often involves patterns like intermittent reinforcement, where moments of connection are mixed unpredictably with moments of hurt, confusion, or distance. This creates a powerful emotional pull, making it difficult to step back even when things no longer feel healthy. Over time, this dynamic can distort your sense of what is normal. You may begin adjusting, accommodating, and trying to hold onto the version of the relationship that once existed. But here’s the truth that begins to emerge: When love becomes unpredictable, it also becomes confusing. And confusion is often the first sign that something deeper has shifted. This episode invites you to begin seeing that shift clearly — not with judgment, but with awareness. If this resonates, this is the exact dynamic explored more deeply in: 👉 Tainted Love: Stay or Go? Navigating Tough Relationship Decisions in Addiction A powerful guide for understanding when love has changed — and how to begin navigating what comes next. 💛 Continue the Journey 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Explore Andrea’s books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X 💛 About Andrea Andrea Seydel holds a Master’s in Happiness Studies and is trained in Positive Psychology and resilience science. Through both lived experience and professional training, she supports individuals navigating the emotional complexity of loving someone with addiction — helping them reconnect with themselves through Self-Compassion, Self-Care, Community, and Courage.

When Sobriety Doesn’t Bring Them Back: Why the Relationship Still Feels Different Many partners expect sobriety to restore connection. But what happens when substances stop, and emotional distance remains? In this episode, Andrea explores dopamine depletion, early recovery brain healing, emotional flatness (anhedonia), and the difference between sobriety and relational repair. If you’re wondering, “They’re sober… so why does it still feel off?” — this episode offers insight and grounding. In This Episode: What happens to the brain in early sobriety • Why emotional intimacy may not immediately return • The difference between behavioral sobriety and emotional repair • Attachment patterns resurfacing • How to evaluate your relationship with clarity 💛 Continue the Journey Resources and support: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X 💛 About Andrea Andrea integrates positive psychology science and lived experience to help you reclaim yourself without guilt or confusion.

How Do You Let Them Go? When Love and Fear Are Entangled Letting go isn’t just emotional — it can feel physical. Your chest tightens. You panic when you see overdose news. You feel responsible for keeping them safe. In this episode, Andrea explains attachment activation, hypervigilance, and the fear-responsibility loop that makes stepping back feel impossible. When love and fear become intertwined, your nervous system can interpret separation as danger. This conversation helps you separate love from obligation and clarity from panic. In This Episode: Why your nervous system reacts so intensely • Attachment trauma and separation anxiety in adults • The fear-responsibility loop • Hypervigilance and scanning for danger • How to make decisions from steadiness instead of fear 💛 Continue the Journey Visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com Explore Andrea’s books: 👉 https://www.amazon.com/stores/Andrea-Seydel/author/B076PQLS1X Including: • Saving You Is Killing Me • Tainted Love • Saving Me: One Day at a Time 💛 About Andrea Andrea Seydel holds a Master’s in Happiness Studies and formal training in Positive Psychology. Through lived experience and evidence-based insight, she helps individuals move from survival mode into clarity, strength, and self-trust.

When “Perfect” Turns Into Chaos: Trauma Bonds, Relapse & Emotional Whiplash When a relationship that once felt safe and loving suddenly spirals after relapse, the emotional whiplash can leave you questioning everything — including yourself. In this episode, Andrea explores trauma bonding, intermittent reinforcement, and why intensity can feel like intimacy. You’ll learn why relapse destabilizes attachment, how dopamine cycles distort connection, and how your nervous system can become hooked on unpredictability. If you’ve ever thought, “How did something that felt so perfect turn into this?” — this episode will help you understand what’s happening psychologically and emotionally. In This Episode: What trauma bonding really is • How intermittent reinforcement keeps you attached • Why relapse creates emotional instability • The difference between intensity and intimacy • How to begin calming your nervous system

The Wild Edge of Sorrow (Part 2): Ritual, Release & Reclaiming Yourself After Loss In Part 2, Andrea shifts from understanding grief to integrating it. This episode focuses on ritual, meaning-making, boundaries, and rebuilding identity after addiction-related loss. You’ll learn: How to create simple release rituals What meaning-making really looks like How to identify what you’re no longer available for How to reclaim your identity with small, steady steps This episode highlights Self-Care and Courage as foundations for rebuilding. To explore Andrea’s book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction and additional tools, visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

The Wild Edge of Sorrow (Part 1): Understanding Grief When Addiction Changes Someone You Love When addiction alters your relationship, grief follows — even if no one recognizes it. In Part 1 of this two-part series inspired by grief psychology, Andrea explores disenfranchised grief, ambiguous loss, and attachment rupture. You’ll learn: Why your grief may feel invisible The layered losses addiction creates How to name what you’re truly grieving Why grief needs witnessing, not fixing This episode weaves Self-Compassion and Community into the grieving process. Find deeper support in Andrea’s book at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Why Do I Feel Physically Sick? The Body’s Response to Lies, Chaos & Emotional Shock If you’ve experienced nausea, chest tightness, insomnia, or exhaustion while loving someone with addiction, this episode explains why. Andrea breaks down hypervigilance, somatic symptoms, fight-flight-freeze responses, and nervous system dysregulation in accessible language. You’ll learn: How chronic instability impacts the body Why emotional shock becomes physical symptoms Practical nervous system regulation tools How to respond to stress without blaming yourself This episode emphasizes Self-Compassion as a pathway back to physical stability. For more resources and structured guidance, visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

They're a Different Person Now: Grieving the Partner Who Disappeared Addiction can slowly change someone’s personality, priorities, and emotional availability — leaving you grieving someone who is still physically present. In this episode, Andrea discusses ambiguous loss, attachment disruption, and how to process grief without suppressing it. You’ll learn: What ambiguous loss is Why grief feels confusing when the person is still alive How to stop chasing temporary “good days” Simple grief rituals that help stabilize your heart This episode centers on Self-Care and Courage as you learn to grieve honestly and protect your emotional energy. Discover Andrea’s book and healing resources at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

The Secret Is Eating Me Alive: Living With Addiction No One Else Knows About When no one else knows what’s happening in your home, isolation can quietly become overwhelming. In this episode, Andrea explores the emotional and physiological cost of secrecy, including shame, chronic stress activation, and self-silencing. She explains the difference between privacy and secrecy — and how safe connection restores clarity. You’ll learn: Why secrets activate your nervous system How shame grows in silence The importance of one safe “reality mirror” How to gently break isolation without oversharing This conversation weaves in Self-Compassion and Community as antidotes to silent suffering. For more guidance and support tools, visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

I Feel Stuck and Trapped: When You Love Them But You’re Confused Long-term relationships impacted by addiction can slowly erode emotional connection. You may still love them — but no longer feel in love. In this episode, Andrea discusses emotional numbness, learned helplessness, chronic stress, and the experience of feeling trapped in a relationship that once felt safe. You’ll learn: Why emotional shutdown happens after prolonged stress The psychological toll of secrecy and isolation How to shift from “forever decisions” to “next right steps” Ways to rebuild Community and regain your sense of self This episode highlights Self-Compassion and Community as essential stabilizers when you feel stuck. Find additional support and Andrea’s book at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Gutsy Grief: Turning Loss Into Self-Discovery Grief doesn’t always look like loss through death. For those who love someone struggling with addiction, grief can show up in quieter, more complicated ways — grieving the person who is still here but not fully present, grieving broken trust, lost time, and the life you thought you would have. In this deeply honest and meaningful conversation, Andrea is joined by John Jeff Hutter, author of Gutsy Grief: Turning Loss Into Self-Discovery. Together, they explore the reality that grief is not linear, not tidy, and not something to “get over.” Instead, grief can be something we learn to walk with — and even something that invites us into deeper self-discovery. John Jeff brings both lived experience and academic insight through his Master’s in Happiness Studies, sharing a grounded and compassionate perspective on what it means to navigate loss and rebuild yourself in the aftermath. This episode is especially meaningful for anyone who: Loves someone with an addiction Feels the ongoing grief of “losing” someone who is still alive Is navigating emotional exhaustion, confusion, or heartbreak Is ready to move from survival toward healing and self-reconnection In This Episode, We Explore: Why grief doesn’t follow stages, timelines, or predictable patterns The concept of grieving someone who is still alive Letting go of guilt around your grief The emotional toll of repeated losses in addiction How to hold both hope and heartbreak at the same time Reclaiming your identity after losing yourself in someone else’s struggle What it means to have agency in the aftermath of loss Turning grief into a path of self-discovery and growth A Message for You If you’re listening and feeling the weight of loving someone with an addiction, please know this: Your grief is real. Your experience matters. And you are allowed to take care of yourself, too. Get the Book You can find Gutsy Grief: Turning Loss Into Self-Discovery by John Jeff Hutter wherever books are sold. This is more than a book — it’s a companion for anyone learning how to live with loss and still move forward with intention and strength. Stay Connected with Andrea Explore more support, resources, and conversations at: https://linktr.ee/Andreaseydel www.savingyouiskillingme.com

When Addiction Crosses Boundaries: Betrayal, Shock & Protection Sometimes addiction escalates into secret sexual behavior, pornography use, online chat groups, or other boundary-crossing actions that leave you in shock. This episode addresses betrayal trauma, emotional shock, and the physiological impact of discovering hidden sexual behavior. Andrea discusses why your body reacts so strongly, how to prioritize safety, and how to protect yourself and your children when trust is broken. You’ll learn: What betrayal trauma is and why it feels overwhelming Why your nervous system may feel physically shaken How to shift from relationship panic to safety stabilization Practical first steps to protect your emotional and physical well-being This conversation centers on Courage and Self-Care — especially when your role shifts from partner to protector. For deeper tools and support, explore Andrea’s book and resources at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

When They Say It’s Not a Problem: Mood Swings, Denial & the Damage of Gaslighting When you see the mood swings, the secrecy, the behavioral shifts — but they insist nothing is wrong — it can leave you questioning your sanity. In this episode, Andrea explores the psychological impact of addiction-related denial, including gaslighting, hypervigilance, cognitive dissonance, and the toll it takes on your nervous system. If you’ve been feeling anxious, physically unwell, or unsure of your own perception, this conversation will help you reclaim clarity and emotional stability. You’ll learn: Why denial destabilizes your nervous system How gaslighting slowly erodes self-trust The difference between arguing reality and responding to impact Practical ways to ground yourself and set emotional boundaries This episode is rooted in Self-Compassion and Courage — two of the core pillars of healing when loving someone with addiction. If this resonates, Andrea’s book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction offers deeper support and structured guidance. Learn more and access resources at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Love, Loss & Letting Go: When the Person You Knew Disappears Addiction can slowly transform someone you love into a version you no longer recognize. In this episode, Andrea discusses ambiguous loss, grief, trauma attachment, and the heartbreak of loving someone who feels emotionally gone. You’ll learn: What ambiguous loss really means Why letting go feels so complicated How trauma bonds keep hope alive Practical steps to reclaim your emotional stability This episode weaves Self-Care and Courage into the process of release and self-respect. Explore Andrea’s book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction and access additional support at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Am I Overreacting? When Addiction in Parenthood Feels Like a Moral Dilemma When addiction enters the home, especially with children present, you may question your instincts. In this episode, Andrea addresses gaslighting, parental hypervigilance, and the internal conflict between protection and partnership. You’ll learn: Why your protective instinct is biologically wired How minimization distorts perception The psychological toll of unpredictability in parenting How to define non-negotiables without escalating conflict This episode highlights Self-Compassion and Community as stabilizing forces. Learn more about protecting your peace while parenting through addiction at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Breaking the Guilt Loop: Saying No Without Shame When your addicted loved one asks for money, favors, or help and you say no guilt can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Andrea explores trauma bonds, guilt conditioning, and why saying no can feel like betrayal even when it’s healthy. You’ll learn: Why guilt doesn’t always mean you’re wrong How trauma bonding reinforces over-responsibility The difference between compassion and rescue How to set boundaries without spiraling into shame This episode emphasizes Self-Compassion and Courage as you break old patterns and reclaim your autonomy. Find deeper support and Andrea’s book at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Turn Pain into Purpose: A Special Invitation to Join Our Collective Book This is a special episode — a personal invitation. If you’ve ever loved someone with an addiction, you already understand the complexity, the heartbreak, and the strength it takes to keep going. This episode is an invitation to be part of something deeply meaningful. We are creating a powerful collective book: When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction This will be a professionally published collection of real, honest stories from people who have loved someone with an addiction and are ready to share their experience — not perfectly, but truthfully. This book is about: • The reality of loving someone through addiction • The emotional toll and internal struggle • The moments that shift everything • The journey of reclaiming yourself • And the message you would share with someone still in it 💛 This is a mission-driven project. There is no contributor fee. Publishing is fully supported through Live Life Happy Publishing. 📚 We are looking for 24–30 contributors. 🗓 Key Dates: • Application Deadline: May 1, 2026 • Chapter Submission: May 15, 2026 • Final Edits Complete: June 1, 2026 • Book Launch: July 24 (International Self-Care Day) You do not need to be a writer. You just need to be willing to share your story. If your heart is feeling even a small nudge… follow it. 👉 Apply and learn more here: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1uV9qoYYdQJparWNC5gVHywUOYV0TcfrK?usp=drive_link Your story could be the one that helps someone else feel less alone.

When Letting Go Feels Impossible: Support Through Abandonment Pain When a parent leaves, physically or emotionally, children feel it deeply. And so do you. In this episode, Andrea discusses attachment insecurity, separation anxiety, and how children process abandonment when addiction disrupts family stability. You’ll learn: Why children’s nervous systems respond strongly to unpredictability How to create emotional safety through consistency The power of co-regulation Simple ways to rebuild stability at home This episode weaves Self-Care and Community into parenting through instability. For additional support and resources, visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Comfort vs. Chaos: When You’re Exhausted by the Lies and Enabling At some point, exhaustion replaces argument. You may feel completely worn down by excuses, blame shifting, and denial. In this episode, Andrea explores emotional fatigue, enabling patterns, and what happens when you reach the end of your rope. You’ll learn: Why chronic chaos creates nervous system burnout How enabling can develop unconsciously The difference between compassion and self-abandonment How to reclaim your power without escalating conflict This episode centers on Self-Compassion and Courage — especially when you’re done carrying the emotional weight. Find tools, support, and Andrea’s book at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

After the Truth Comes Out: How to Rebuild Trust When Honesty Finally Arrives When someone finally admits they have a problem, relief and resentment can collide. In this episode, Andrea discusses what happens psychologically when the truth surfaces after months or years of secrecy. Even when your partner seeks treatment, your nervous system may still feel guarded. You’ll learn: Why trust doesn’t automatically return after honesty The impact of chronic lying on attachment How trauma bonding complicates reconciliation Steps to rebuild safety slowly and intentionally This episode weaves Self-Care and Community into the rebuilding process. To learn more about protecting yourself while loving someone in recovery, visit: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

Faith, Boundaries & Inner Peace: Loving with Strength, Not Suffering When loving someone with addiction, boundaries can feel like rejection — but they’re often the beginning of peace. In this episode, Andrea explores how to love deeply without losing yourself. Whether your strength comes from spirituality, personal conviction, or inner clarity, boundaries protect what matters most — especially your children and your mental health. You’ll learn: Why boundaries are an act of self-respect How guilt can mask healthy limits The difference between control and protection How to love without absorbing chaos This episode highlights Self-Compassion and Courage as essential tools for loving with strength rather than suffering. Find more guidance and structured support at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

When Detox Isn’t Enough: Rebuilding Peace After Broken Promises Detox can feel hopeful. Treatment can feel promising. But what happens when you’re still left rebuilding after years of broken promises? In this episode, Andrea explores the emotional aftermath of relapse cycles, shattered trust, and the psychological impact of repeated hope followed by disappointment. Even when your loved one enters detox, you may still feel exhausted, guarded, or unsure how to move forward. You’ll learn: Why broken promises create attachment trauma How relapse cycles affect your nervous system The difference between hope and self-protection Practical ways to rebuild your internal peace This episode centers on Courage and Self-Care — especially when you realize detox alone doesn’t heal the damage left behind. For deeper support, explore Andrea’s book Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction and additional resources at: 👉 www.savingyouiskillingme.com

I Want to Help… But I'm Done Being the Hero The Helper-Hero Burnout Cycle & How to Step Out of It Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Is It Allergies… or Addiction?— When You Start to Notice the Signs Before They Say a Word Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

I Don’t Know What’s Real Anymore How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Emotional Chaos Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

 When Life Breaks You: Overcoming Life’s Toughest Setbacks with Andy Campbell Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Letting Go of Your Best Friend — When Grief Feels Unbearable Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Loving Them Is Hurting Me How to Set Boundaries Without Losing Your Heart Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.  

How Do I Let Go When I Still Love Them? The Grief of Releasing Someone You Never Stopped Caring About Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.  

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

Supporting you through addiction's shadows Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me Podcast is a powerful podcast, book, and community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. ✨ NEW: Friday Love & Lift (Live!) Every Friday at 12 PM ET, Andrea goes live on the podcast to offer real-time support inspired by your stories and questions from the community. 💛 No cameras. No pressure. Just safe, gentle support. 👉 Listen live or catch the replay at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com 👉 Post your questions anonymously in the Facebook group or message Andrea here If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Andrea and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. 🎧 Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. 📘 Grab your copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction. 🧘‍♀️ Explore more at SavingYouIsKillingMe.com, AndreaSeydel.com, and LiveLifeHappyPublishing.com.

209: Healing Through Setbacks- A Self-Compassionate Approach to Addiction’s Impact Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast is a powerful Podcast, Book and Community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Seydel and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. Don't let someone else's addiction control your life any longer. Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. For more information, check out the following resources: www.savingyouiskillingme.com, www.andreaseydel.com, and www.livelifepublishing.com. Grab Your Copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Here!   

208: Feel Good Again- Embracing Positivity When Addiction Drains You Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast is a powerful Podcast, Book and Community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Seydel and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. Don't let someone else's addiction control your life any longer. Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. For more information, check out the following resources: www.savingyouiskillingme.com, www.andreaseydel.com, and www.livelifepublishing.com. Grab Your Copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Here!   

207: See Yourself Clearly- Reclaiming Your Worth When Their Addiction Shakes You Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast is a powerful Podcast, Book and Community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Seydel and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. Don't let someone else's addiction control your life any longer. Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. For more information, check out the following resources: www.savingyouiskillingme.com, www.andreaseydel.com, and www.livelifepublishing.com. Grab Your Copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Here!   

206: From Powerless to Powerful- Reclaiming Your Strength and Control Supporting you through addiction's shadows with books, podcasts, courses, retreats and more. Feel empowered, regain happiness, and know you're not alone in our supportive community. 👉 Start Your Journey: Explore Our Resources Now Are you tired of feeling powerless in a relationship with someone struggling with addiction? Join the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast and take back your power with insights from positive psychology practitioner and author Andrea Seydel. Learn the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being, and gain the support and community you need to reclaim your life. Don't let addiction control your life any longer. Tune in now and start your journey toward regaining your power. The Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Podcast is a powerful Podcast, Book and Community resource for anyone struggling with loving someone with an addiction. Hosted by author and positive psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel, this podcast focuses on taking back your power, the science of human flourishing, resilience, and well-being. Through her personal experiences and extensive knowledge, Seydel shares insights on regaining your power, self-healing, and fostering an empowering way of life. She discusses the impact of trauma and how to navigate the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction. If you're looking for support and community, the Saving You Is Killing Me website and support group are valuable resources. Join Seydel and others on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. Don't let someone else's addiction control your life any longer. Start taking back your power today with the Saving You Is Killing Me podcast. For more information, check out the following resources: www.savingyouiskillingme.com, www.andreaseydel.com, and www.livelifepublishing.com. Grab Your Copy of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction Here!