Sholom Bayis and important life topics

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #51. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; A Deeper Look at Shalom; Hashem's Desire That His Creation Be Expressed by His Name Shalom, Especially the Marriage Relationship; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #50. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 10. Part 5. - Understanding the evil inclination:; A Story: It's Never Too Late! An Important Story That Took Place With Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz That Is a Fundamental Concept Pertaining to Marital Sexual Intimacy; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #43. Treat Others With Honor and Respect; Be Careful Not to Harm Others; Pray for Others; Bless Others (Even if They Are Unaware); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #42. Perek 5; Seven Differences Between One Who Has Bitachon ({}) and One Who Doesn't Pertaining to Earning a Living. 6. A Baal Bitachon (בעל ביטחון) Is Beloved by People and Doesn't Fear Them, Knowing That His Well-Being and What Happens to Him Is All From Hashem, Not From a Person; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #103. Verbal Abuse Stemming From Jealousy; Working on Your Bitachon to Remove This Middah; Using Your Heart and Mouth to Love Others and Using Words to Spread Goodness and Kindness to Others; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #49. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 10. Part 4. - Understanding the evil inclination:; finding the healthy middle path in overall life and intimate married life; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #48. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 10. Part 3. - Understanding the evil inclination:; deeper look at chedvah; dynamics of healthy and unhealthy imagination; real needs of the body can be used for proper intimacy, which strengths a couple's unity; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #42. Moderation in Need for Others: The Way You Behave Towards Others Will Affect Their Behaviors Towards You. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #41. Perek 5; Seven Differences Between One Who Has Bitachon ({}) and One Who Doesn't Pertaining to Earning a Living. 5. A Baal Bitachon (בעל ביטחון) Engages in the World to Prepare for Olam Haba (עולם הבא) and Serving Hashem Every Moment. Even When Being Involved in the Mundane, He Uses His Time Wisely, and Everything He Does Connects Him with Hashem. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

mentally seeing yourself taking action; focus on what you can, not on what you can't; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #47. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 10. Part 2. - Understanding the evil inclination:; Yetzer Hora (יצר הרע) Used Wisely Becomes an 'Honorary General' Leading a Couple to the State of Spiritual Happiness Called Chedva (חדוה); Intimacy Incorporates Physical Desire, Emotional Connection, and Spiritual Oneness in a Healthy Balance; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #41. Friends Are Valuable for Happiness; Daven for Healthy True Friend; Hashem Wants True Friendships of Love Between His Children; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #46. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 10. Part 1. - Understanding the evil inclination:; Steipler's Words on How Frequent Marital Intimacy Promotes Emotional Healing; The 'Very Good' Aspect of the Evil Inclination; Maharal's Words 'There Is Nothing Evil at All in the Union Between a Man and His Wife'; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #40. Perek 5; Seven Differences Between One Who Has Bitachon ({}) and One Who Doesn't Pertaining to Earning a Living. 4. A Baal Bitachon (בעל בטחון) Recognizes His Wealth and Money Is Not His, You Are a Trustee to Use Hashem's Money Wisely; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #102. How the Victim of Abuse Becomes Conditioned to Accept the Abuse and What They Tell Themselves to Rationalize the Abuser's Behaviors; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #45. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 8. - Individuality and Intimacy:; Healthy Mindset in Marital Intimacy Creates Peace of Mind and Good Physical and Emotional Health; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #44. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 7. - Individuality and Intimacy:; Exclusive Love Towards One's Wife; Joint Responsibility of Both Husband and Wife Together; Often Wife Is Unaware of a Husband's Normal Challenges in This Area, and He Needs to Overcome His Embarrassment, and She to Overcome Feeling Uncomfortable with the Normal Healthy Sexual Desires That Husbands Have; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #40. A Person with High Ideals May Be Prone to Negative Feelings About Themselves; Improving Yourself; Building Confidence in Your Children, Students, and Friends; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #39. Perek 5; Seven Differences Between One Who Has Bitachon ({}) and One Who Doesn't Pertaining to Earning a Living. 3. A Baal Bitachon (בעל בטחון) Does the Needed Hishtadlus (השתדלות) but Not Relying on It, but Relies on Hashem (השם) (Locks His Door at Night but Not Relying on the Lock, Because the Lock Isn't Protecting You, It's Hashem). Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Overcoming Our Resistance to Self-Awareness. Getting in Touch with Feelings Even When It's Painful in Order to Grow. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #43. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 6. - Individuality and Intimacy:; How the Proper Use of This Fourth Intention Saved a Young Husband. Regarding the Actions of Yitzchok Avinu and Rava Pertaining to This. The Ultimate Kedushas HaBris (קדושת הברית) of a Married Yid Is Not Abstaining but Engaging in Unifying with One's Wife. https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #42. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 5. - Individuality and Intimacy:; When Feeling the Desire, One Husband Abstains from Being with His Wife, the Other Husband Is Intimate with Her; Which One Is on a Higher Level? https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #39. Don't Allow Another Person's Evaluation Affect Your Self-Esteem. Don't Compare Yourself to Others. Don't Allow Mistakes to Rob You of Your Self-Worth. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #38. Perek 5; Seven Differences Between One Who Has Bitachon ({}) and One Who Doesn't Pertaining to Earning a Living. 1. A Baal Bitachon ({}) Thanks Hashem ({}) Whether Things Are Going Well Now or Not. 2. A Baal Bitachon (בעל בטחון) Is Always Tranquil and Calm. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #101. The Anger Addict.This Verbal Abuser Will Not Apologize Because He or She Needs the Abuse as a Fix to Feel the High of the Relief of Tension After Exploding as Well as the Fix to Feel That Power of Dominance. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #41. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 4. - Individuality and Intimacy:; The Husband's Reshus (רשות). Often It's Healthy for a Husband to Initiate When He Has a Sexual Urge.Healthy for a Wife to Accept Her Husband's Overtures and Then This Reshus (רשות) Is Elevated to Be a Mitzvah (מצוה). https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #38. Realizing Your Value Is Not Arrogance.Inappropriate Humility Is a Fault.Wealth Is Not a Valid Criteria for Self-Worth. Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #40. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 3. - Individuality and Intimacy:; A Deeper Look at the Woman's Initiation; A Deeper Look at Tzurah (צורה) & Chomer (חומר), Which Explains the Natural and Holy Yearning of a Wife to Unite with Her Husband. https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

learning from role models; you can learn from other people and still be your authentic self; the excellent tool of inspiring yourself by talking to the mirror; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #39. (NOT 578 as mentioned); teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 2. - Individuality and Intimacy:; the wife's reshus; communication of very clear hints; main mitzvah of onah is when a wife expresses her interest for marital intimacy to her husband; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #38. (NOT 578 as mentioned); teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 9. Part 1. - Individuality and Intimacy:; the proper use of the realm of "reshus"; intimacy calls upon a couple to accept the responsibility of using their good judgment; Rav Shneur's important words on the importance of using our "daas" in the area of intimacy; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #37. overcome inferior feelings by changing your attitude; temper life dreams with healthy realism; the beauty and talent of a housewife; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #37. Perek 4; enjoying this world but not being intoxicated by it; love people and connect with them but balance that with your internal Avodas Hashem; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Power of words series #100. positive word power; be aware and sensitive to spiritual dangers such as onoas devorim in order to correct it; to count to 10 or wait 15 minutes before reacting to an upsetting situation; to daven for Daas; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #37. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 8. Part 6. - The Art of Harmony:; fulfilling needs; communication; it's ok to ask; quirks and sensitivity; working together; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #36. (not 485 as mentioned); teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 8. Part 5. - The Art of Harmony:; dealing with spouse's shortcomings; its all from Hashem; love covers sins; love despite faults; amazing story from the Steipler; what couples perceive as gehinnom is actually their Gan Eden; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #36. only a person who inwardly feels good about oneself can truly love another person; confidence in oneself strengthens your confidence in others, giving them emotional strength and healing; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #36. Perek 4; bitachon relating to reward; why there is very little mention of Olam Habah in the Torah; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

dealing with problems along the way; relapse versus growth; not to get discouraged with slips you experience along the way; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #35. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 8. Part 4. - The Art of Harmony:; example of an unlikely couple helped based on the the Stiepler's powerful words; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #34. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 8. Part 3. - The Art of Harmony:; why not compromise; accepting the "extended" parts of yourself that you see in your spouse; shana rishona revisited; the Stiepler's powerful words "You must know that any couple that stood under the chuppah has a chazaka that it was for the best EVEN in this world. If it doesn't seem like that is the case, LOOK AGAIN"; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #35. realizing ones self worth; believing in oneself; know our value; inferior feeling will result in negative behaviors; taking pride in our Avos; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Bitachon #35. Perek 4; Bitachon relating to mitzvos that help others; having the right mindset; avoiding publicity and selfishness; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

more categories of verbal abuse:; 1. verbal abuse disguised as jokes; 2. blocking and diverting; 3. accusing and blaming; 4. judging and criticizing; 5. trivializing; 6. undermining; 7. threatening; 8. name-calling; 9. pretending to forget; 10. ordering; 11. denial; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #33. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 8. Part 2. - The Art of Harmony:; bad advice and 4 basic mistakes mentors give couples that face very normal personality differences; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #32. teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 8. Part 1. - The Art of Harmony:; healthy perspective on differences; Hashem unifies the opposites which are husband and wife; embracing differences; avoiding "innocent" divorce; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Life Transforming Advice #34. joy through growth; for not transgressing, when trying to do good; the calmness even when thinking about leaving this world; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

Balak (בָּלָק); always seeing the zechus in klall Yisroel; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.