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So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?
by Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger
We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out. Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little. Which brings us to the title. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up). It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves: When do I speak up? Let go? Start over? Try something new? Stop caring what everyone else thinks? Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop int
Episodes
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Heidi Skolnik: What No One Tells You About GLP-1s
GLP-1s are everywhere—but are we talking enough about what happens to our nutrition, muscle, and strength while we’re taking them? We had such a great conversation with nutritionist and exercise physiologist Heidi Skolnik, author of the new book Your GLP-1 Game Plan: What Your Doctor Didn’t Tell...
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The Marvelous Mrs. Mahjong: More Than a Game
In this episode, we sit down with Stephanie Brink, better known on Instagram as The Marvelous Mrs. Mahjong, to talk about how a game that has been around for generations became the foundation for a thriving business and community. Stephanie shares how she turned her love of Mahjong into a career...
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So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? Conversation with Christine Morrison
We sat down with Christine Morrison, author of Clothes Minded, for a conversation about fashion, identity, aging and reinvention—and the stories our clothes tell about who we are and who we’ve been. We talk about how our relationship with style changes as we get older, the memories we attach to...
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We Went Live: How Do We Live a Full Life With Fewer Regrets?
We did something a little different this week—we went Live on Instagram with one big question on our minds: How do we live a full life with as few regrets as possible? That took us in all sorts of directions. We talked about staying curious and continuing to try new things, what we think we're...
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Dr. Kristen Lo Sicco: Why Is My Hair Thinning? The Truth About Hair Loss
Hair loss is something so many of us experience, but we don’t always know what’s actually causing it, or what we can do about it. In this episode, we sit down with board-certified dermatologist and alopecia expert Dr. Kristen Lo Sicco to get the real scoop on thinning hair, hair loss and what...
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The Pink Pill: Challenging the Double Standards in Women’s Sexual Desire
What if some of the things women have been told to simply accept aren’t actually “normal” at all? In this episode, we’re talking with entrepreneur and women’s health advocate Cindy Eckert about the double standards that have shaped women’s healthcare for generations, from sexual health and...
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Lisa Jacobs: Decluttering and Creating Space for the Life You're Living Now
What if we stopped holding onto things that no longer serve us? This week, we're talking to professional organizer and founder of Imagine It Done, Lisa Jacobs, about why decluttering is about so much more than cleaning out a closet. Together, we'll explore why it's so hard to let go of our stuff,...
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Pamela Redmond: Aging, Body Image, & Self-Acceptance
How does your relationship with your body change over a lifetime? This week, we're joined by bestselling author, entrepreneur, and creator of the acclaimed one-woman show Old Woman Naked, Pamela Redmond. Pamela shares how writing and performing this deeply personal show about her body transformed...
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Dr. Nicole Tyer: Are GLPs More Than Just For Weight Loss?
GLP-1 medications have become one of the biggest conversations in health...but are they really just weight loss drugs, or could they be something much bigger? This week, we sit down with double board-certified physician Dr. Nicole Tyer to separate the headlines from the science. Together, we...
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Dr. Ellen Gendler: The Truth About Skincare
What actually works for healthy, youthful skin, and what's just expensive marketing? Expert dermatologist Dr. Ellen Gendler is here to answer your biggest skincare questions, from the FDA's newest sunscreen ingredient and building an effective routine to retinoids, vitamin C, peptides, fillers…
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Kerry Burnight: Rethinking Aging with More Joy and Less Pressure
What if aging isn't about trying to stay young, but about learning how to live well through every stage of life? This week, we sit down with renowned gerontologist and bestselling author Dr. Kerry Burnight to talk about the difference between lifespan, healthspan, and what she calls "joy…
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Shelley Zallis: The Power of Community
What if the key to feeling more confident, connected, and fulfilled isn't doing more, but finding your people? This week, we sit down with entrepreneur and Female Quotient founder Shelley Zallis to talk about the extraordinary power of women gathering together. From building community in business...
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Monica Corcoran: Women Are "Quietly Quitting" Their Marriages
In this episode, we sit down with journalist and author Monica Corcoran to discuss the conversation sparked by her viral article about women who are quietly leaving their marriages without actually getting divorced. What begins as a conversation about marriage quickly expands into a thoughtful…
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Is It Ever Too Late for Therapy?
We've all had that moment: something's weighing on you, you can't quite unpack it alone, and your friends have heard enough. So... is it time to call a therapist? This week, we're getting into something a lot of us have quietly wondered about—whether therapy still has a place later in life. Not...
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Paulina Porizkova: Finding Love Again After Loss
This week, we're joined by supermodel, author, and actress Paulina Porizkova and her fiancé, Emmy-nominated television writer and producer Jeff Greenstein, for a heartfelt conversation about finding love later in life. Paulina opens up about the grief, uncertainty, and reinvention that followed...
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Nate Berkus: Make Your Home Reflect Who You Are Now
This week, we sit down with iconic interior designer and author, Nate Berkus, for an honest conversation about what makes a home meaningful, why good design is so much more than trends, and how our spaces evolve as we do. From letting go of the things we no longer need to creating rooms that...
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Putting My Phone Down and Being Present
This week, we’re talking about something we all swear everyone else is worse at… but secretly know we’re guilty of too: our relationship with our phones. From scrolling at dinner to checking texts mid-conversation, we unpack how technology is quietly shaping our relationships, attention, sleep,...
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Wendy Finerman (Producer, The Devil Wears Prada): Trust Yourself
We are so excited to be kicking off Season 2! In this episode, we sit down with legendary producer Wendy Finerman--the producer behind iconic films like Forrest Gump and The Devil Wears Prada--for a conversation about trusting your instincts, staying true to your perspective, and learning how to...
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What Would We Tell Our Younger Selves? With Our Daughters, Jenna and Jackie
Today we have an extra special episode as our season 1 finale... Instead of asking, “So when do I...?” we’re asking something a little deeper: What would we have told our younger selves? We’re talking about all the things we wish we knew sooner, like trusting our gut, worrying a little less…
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Dr. Deborah Blacker: Brain Health and Alzheimer's
Alzheimer’s is something so many people are affected by, yet so few truly understand until it touches their own life. In today’s episode, we’re breaking it all down—what it is, how it progresses, and answering the questions so many people have but don’t always know how to ask. We also talk about...
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Sound Bite 12: How a Little Act of Kindness Made Someone's Dream Come True
What if a simple conversation with a stranger could change someone’s life? In this mini episode, we share the story of a chance encounter on a flight: what started as someone just deciding to remove their AirPods to chat ended with a man fulfilling his life-long dream inspired by Frank Sinatra.…
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Marci and Lynn: Dating After 50 and Opening Your Heart Again
Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again? We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their...
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Sound Bite 11: Keeping Up (Even When It's Hard)
Are you keeping up with technology? Or quietly opting out of it? In this mini episode, we get honest about what happens when the digital world starts to feel overwhelming, and why avoiding it might be doing more harm than we realize. From struggling with tools like Excel to navigating platforms...
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Bobbi Brown: Embracing Beauty Without Chasing Youth and Feeling Beautiful As You Are
At what point do we stop trying to look younger and start trying to look like ourselves? In this episode, we’re joined by Bobbi Brown—legendary makeup artist, founder of multiple beauty brands, and the force behind Jones Road—who changed the industry by championing natural, real beauty long…
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Sound Bite 10: Having A Lonely Day? Here’s What I Did
When your schedule suddenly clears and it feels a little off, it can breed a quiet kind of loneliness we often don't talk about. In this mini episode, we reflect on how a simple, unplanned weekend became a reminder of how powerful small moments of connection can be. From quick errands to brief...
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Barbara Corday: Telling My Best Friend I Have Alzheimer's
What happens when one of life’s hardest questions becomes real? In this deeply personal and courageous episode, we sit down with our dear friend, Barbara Corday, and her husband Roger to talk about something so many of us fear but rarely know how to face: an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. Together, we...
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Sound Bite 9: A Little Thank You Goes a Long Way
Is basic etiquette...gone? In today's mini, we’re unpacking the lost art of saying thank you, from handwritten notes to quick texts, and why even the smallest acknowledgement can mean everything. Somewhere along the way, appreciation has started to feel optional in our society... and we’re not so...
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Stacy London: Style, Visibility & Dressing for Who I am Now
What happens when your closet is full, but you still feel like you have nothing to wear? Maybe some of the clothes in your closet no longer feel aligned with who you are, and that's okay. As we age, our bodies change, our lives change, and our style has to change with us. In this episode, we sit...
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Sound Bite 8: And Suddenly... I'm 76?!
At what point does saying your age start to feel hard to say out loud? Today, we’re getting real about aging, the quiet ways people treat you differently, and why that number can feel so much bigger than it actually is. In this mini episode, we’re talking about the quiet reality of aging—how the...
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Sara Kenney: The Loneliness Epidemic
Loneliness is something so many of us feel, yet so few of us talk about. In this episode, we open up about the quiet, complicated reality of loneliness. It can show up, even in full and busy, love-filled lives, and it’s often tied to life transitions, disconnection, and the technology-filled…
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Sound Bite 7: The “Sorry” Habit We Need to Break
Why do women apologize for everything, even when there’s nothing to be sorry for? In this mini episode, we'll chat about the habit of over-apologizing, deflecting compliments, and shrinking ourselves in everyday moments, whether it's on the golf course or at a lunch with friends. We hope this...
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Steph Wagner: Taking Control of My Financial Well-being
As women, why do we often shy away from talking about money? In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of financial literacy with Steph Wagner, the author of Fly: A Woman's Guide to Financial Freedom and Building a Life You Love and the National Director of Women & Wealth at Northern Trust.…
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Sound Bite 6: You Look Like a Grandma
In today’s Sound Bite, we’re sharing a funny (and surprisingly meaningful) moment about being told, “you look like a grandma.” What started as a candid comment from a four-year-old has turned into a conversation about aging, identity, and learning to embrace exactly where you are in life. Because...
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Dr. Kathleen Jordan: GLP-1 and Medicated Weightloss
It seems like everyone is talking about GLP-1 medications and weight loss these days—but why is there still so much stigma around using them? Why do we, as women, feel ashamed for turning to medical tools to support our health as we age? What even is a GLP-1? How does it affect our bodies? In...
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Sound Bite 5: Old Man's Breakfast Club
We believe that to age well, you need to have a strong community--and that's not just something women should strive to create. In today's Sound Bite, we're chatting about our husbands' new "Old Man's Breakfast Club" and the importance of having spaces for honest conversations with your true...
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Dr. Michele Koo: All Things Plastic Surgery
As we age, it can feel like everywhere you turn someone is talking about Botox, fillers, or plastic surgery. But how do you know when a procedure might actually make sense—and when it might not? Today, we’re talking all things plastic surgery with board-certified plastic surgeon, Dr. Michele Koo....
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Sound Bite 4: Regret
Looking back on our lives, there are so many different paths we could have taken at different points in time. Is it normal to feel a twang of regret about our past decisions as we age? How do we prevent having 'should've, could've, and would've' feelings? This podcast is proudly sponsored by...
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The Intricacies of Female Friendship: Why Does It Still Feel Like Junior High School?
Welcome back to another episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? Today, we’re doing a deep dive into the intricacies of female friendships. Do friendships get easier as we age? Do we really not care what other people think about us? It turns out, there’s actually a biological reason that…
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Sound Bite 3: Just Say Yes!
It's my daughter's 35th birthday, and she is celebrating by taking a quick trip to Paris for the weekend. It might sound crazy to go visit another continent for only a weekend, but it got us thinking... why not? At any age, sometimes you just have to say yes! This podcast is proudly sponsored by...
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Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz: When Do I Start Taking Hormones?
It seems like everybody is talking about taking hormones these days. Is there a right time to start? Should all women entering menopause even take hormones? Today, we’re sitting down with an expert on hormones, Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, to answer all our questions. Dr. Suzanne is not only a...
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Sound Bite 2: A Little Reminder to Proofread Your Texts
We hope today's mini episode reminds you that it's normal for your adult children to mock you (lovingly) and to proofread your text messages a bit more carefully... This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20"…
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Ali Wentworth: Using Humor to Cope with Tough Times
Everyone says laughter is the best medicine… But is it really better than botox for us aging women? Today, we’re talking all about using humor to deal with tough times with Ali Wentworth. You might know Ali from her appearances on In Living Color or The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, or you may have...
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Sound Bite 1: How do you really feel about aging?
In this mini episode, we're being honest about how we are feeling about aging. Of course, aging is a privilege, but as the number grows, our perspective of time starts to shift a little bit. So if you're suddenly feeling the same way, you're not alone. Tune in for a small tidbit on how we can we...
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So When Do I… Start Something New?
Welcome to the first episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?, a place for women to feel connected as we navigate new stages of life. Today, we're reflecting on moments where we felt inspired to start something new, whether it’s a creative hobby, sport, or entrepreneurial endeavor—just like...
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So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? And Other Questions Girlfriends Ponder…
Welcome to So When Do I Take My Clothes Off, a podcast where we talk about love, confidence, reinventing yourself at any age and all the questions that start with “So when do I…?” When do I take hormones? When do I stop obsessing about my weight? When do I finally kick my grown adult kids off the...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out.
Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little.
Which brings us to the title.
So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up).
It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves:
When do I speak up?
Let go?
Start over?
Try something new?
Stop caring what everyone else thinks?
Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop int
HOSTED BY
Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger
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