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Taboo Talk Not Safe For Brunch
by Not Safe for Brunch
Welcome to Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch! In this podcast, we’re here to bring sex, insight, and real-world education to the table—unapologetically. Think of it as having those important, unfiltered brunch conversations with your closest friends, about sex, relationships, and everything in between.With over 55 years experience combined in the intimacy industry helping individuals and couples focusing on breaking down barriers, reducing shame, and empowering people to embrace their desires and relationships with confidence.
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Emotional Cheating: Is It Worse Than Sex?
Send us Fan MailIs emotional cheating actually cheating... or is it just friendship?This week we're diving into one of the biggest relationship debates: emotional vs. physical cheating. Where's the line? Why do emotional affairs hurt so much? And are we quietly replacing our partners with someone else without even realizing it?We talk about secrecy, texting, emotional intimacy, social media, trust, and why the answer isn't nearly as black and white as most people think.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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The One Muscle Every Man Should Be Training
Send us Fan MailMost men never think about their pelvic floor... until something starts going wrong.In this NSFB Quicky, Coralie explains why these overlooked muscles affect bladder control, core strength, pelvic pain, and even erectile function. Plus, she shares one surprisingly simple exercise you can start doing today.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 81 - Are Women's Dating Standards Really Too High? ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Send us Fan MailAre women asking for too much... or are we finally asking for the right things?In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're talking about dating standards, emotional maturity, the infamous "bare minimum," younger men, mental load, and why more women are choosing peace over settling.Plus, we play a game of Bare Minimum or True Partnership? You might start scoring your own relationship.👇 Let us know... what's one dating standard you'll never lower?Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 80 - Bigger Isn't Always Better: What Really Matters in Bed
Send us Fan MailDoes size really matter?It's one of the most common questions people ask, but the answer is a lot more complicated than a simple yes or no. In this episode, we're talking about penis size, girth versus length, the impact of arousal, how porn has shaped expectations, and what actually creates great sex.Spoiler alert: connection, communication, confidence, and paying attention to your partner matter a lot more than most people think.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 79 - Less Sex, More Loneliness? The Truth About the Sex Recession
Send us Fan MailOne in three young men reported having no sex in the past year, and overall sexual activity has been declining for decades. But is this really about sex... or is it about stress, loneliness, dating fatigue, and a lack of connection?In this episode, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the growing "sex recession," why people are having less sex, and what it says about modern relationships.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 78 - Pegging, Shame, and Why We're Still Afraid to Talk About It
Send us Fan MailPegging is one of the most misunderstood topics in sexual wellness. In this episode, we're breaking down the myths, the stigma, how to bring it up with a partner, beginner tips, and why pegging has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation.Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just here for the conversation, we're diving into it all without the shame.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 77 - NSFB Quickie - Creating Space for Pleasure
Send us Fan MailWelcome to the very first NSFB Quickie!A few months ago we sent a chellenge out to our listens of having 200 orgasms this year. Now that the first quarter is over, Vicki is checking in and sharing an important reminder: pleasure isn't about keeping score. It's about making space for joy, connection, and feeling good in your own body.How's your year going so far?Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 76 - Sex Toys, Relationships, and the Fear Nobody Talks About
Send us Fan MailAre sex toys replacing partners, or are they helping couples build stronger, more satisfying relationships?In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we tackle one of the biggest myths about sex toys and intimacy. We discuss why some people feel threatened by toys, how they can actually improve communication and connection, and when they might be masking deeper relationship issues.Whether you're curious about bringing toys into the bedroom, worried about how your partner might react, or simply wondering if toys help or hurt relationships, this conversation is for you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 75 - How the Internet Is Teaching Boys to Hate Women
Send us Fan MailThis week we’re diving headfirst into the world of the manosphere after watching Netflix’s Inside the Manosphere documentary with Louis Theroux and honestly… we have thoughts.From Andrew Tate and red pill culture to incels, pickup artists, and algorithm-driven radicalization, we unpack how online spaces are targeting young boys with messaging disguised as “self-improvement.” We talk about why this content is so effective, how social media algorithms fuel it, and why so many women instantly recognize the rhetoric when they see it.We also get real about what parents, partners, and even friends can do when someone they care about starts slipping into these toxic online spaces. This conversation isn’t about attacking men. It’s about recognizing manipulation, protecting young people, and creating healthier conversations around masculinity, relationships, and identity.Because this isn’t just internet drama anymore. It’s shaping real relationships, real beliefs, and an entire generation in real time.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 74 - We’ve Been Masturbating Wrong for Decades
Send us Fan MailShop CanadaShop USAMost of us figured out masturbation before we even understood our own bodies… and then never talked about it again.In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe For Brunch, we’re getting honest about masturbation, shame, midlife pleasure, body changes, stress relief, partner communication, and why so many women were never actually taught how to explore what feels good.We talk about: ✨ Why masturbation still feels “taboo” ✨ The shame many women grew up with ✨ Why your body changes over time ✨ How self-pleasure can improve intimacy ✨ Stress relief, nervous system regulation, and orgasms ✨ Why communication with partners matters ✨ Why pleasure is NOT selfishPlus… yes, we talk about the Womanizer 😆👇 Tell us in the comments: What’s something nobody taught you about pleasure or your body?Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 73 - The Pink Pill vs. The Blue Pill: Why Women Had to Fight for Desire
Send us Fan MailTake the HSDD quiz: https://addyi.com/quiz/There’s a pill designed to help increase women’s sexual desire… and most people barely know it exists.This week on Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the story behind Addyi, often called “the pink pill,” and why its journey looked nothing like Viagra’s.We break down what HSDD actually is, how Addyi works differently from Viagra, the shocking approval process, and the double standards surrounding women’s sexual health. We also get real about antidepressants, libido loss, hormone therapy fear-mongering, and why women’s desire is still treated differently in medicine.This episode is funny, frustrating, eye-opening, and honestly? A little rage-inducing in the best way.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 72 - Why Sex Isn’t Just “Male or Female”
Send us Fan MailWe’re tackling a topic that gets people heated online—but we’re leaving the comment section energy out of it.In this episode, we break down what intersex actually means, why sex isn’t as simple as “male or female,” and how biology is way more complex than what most of us were taught growing up.We’re keeping it real, science-based, and easy to understand—because this conversation doesn’t need more confusion… it needs clarity.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 71 - Are Blue Balls Real? Sex Myths We Need to Unlearn
Send us Fan MailWhat if most of what you learned about sex growing up was wrong?In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe For Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the biggest sex myths many of us were taught through school, movies, magazines, religion, locker room talk, and pure misinformation.From the truth about “blue balls” to why painful sex is not something you should just accept, we’re breaking down outdated beliefs and replacing them with honest, empowering conversation.We also talk about poor sex education, pleasure gaps, men’s libido myths, women’s orgasms, masturbation shame, and why learning about sex often starts way later in life than it should.Because no... good sex is not supposed to be confusing, painful, or based on myths.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 70 - Can You Recycle Sex Toys? The Frustrating Truth
Send us Fan MailWhat happens when your vibrator dies? Toss it in the garbage? Hide it in a drawer forever? Try to recycle it and hope nobody makes eye contact? For this Earth Day episode, we tackle a surprisingly frustrating question: how do you responsibly recycle sex toys? We dug into lithium batteries, e-waste programs, provincial differences across Canada, stigma, safety concerns, and why consumers are being asked to solve a problem manufacturers and systems haven’t caught up with yet. This episode is funny, honest, and way more important than it sounds. Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 69 - Does the Green Stuff Help Sex… or Hurt It?
Send us Fan MailCan a little relaxation help your love life… or ruin the mood completely?In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re diving into the plant everyone whispers about and asking the real questions. Can it help arousal, lower stress, improve connection, and make intimacy better? Or can it leave you distracted, dry, anxious, or asleep before anything starts?We’re talking dosage, strains, midlife libido, perimenopause, communication, and why no product or substance can fix relationship problems.If you’ve ever been curious, cautious, or wondering why so many women are experimenting with it now, this episode is for you. Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 68 - Moving In Without an Agreement? Big Mistake
Send us Fan MailFREE Digital Download: Prenup/Cohab Agreement ChecklistNothing kills the vibe faster than “we should talk about a prenup”… or does it?In this episode, we’re breaking down prenups and cohabitation agreements without the drama. Because let’s be real—love is great, but clarity is better.We’re talking about: What prenups and cohab agreements actually are Why they’re not a “breakup plan” The biggest myths that keep people avoiding them Real-life situations where NOT having one goes sideways And how to have the conversation without ruining your relationship Because being grownups in love sometimes means choosing paperwork over pretending vibes are legally binding.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 67 - The Pressure to Perform is Killing Your Sex Life
Send us Fan MailHave you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly started overthinking everything?Am I taking too long? Do I look okay? Am I doing this right?Just like that… you’re out of the moment and stuck in your head.In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking about the pressure to perform in the bedroom, where it comes from, how it affects your body, and how to actually enjoy intimacy again.Because sex isn’t supposed to feel like an audition… it’s supposed to feel like connection.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 66 - Why 69 Sounds Sexy… But Rarely Delivers
Send us Fan MailLet’s talk about 69… and why it might not be all it’s hyped up to be. It’s one of the most talked about positions out there, but when you actually break it down, the reality doesn’t always match the fantasy. In this episode, we’re getting real about why 69 looks great in theory but can fall apart in practice, from awkward angles to multitasking struggles and everything in between. If you’ve ever tried it and thought “what is happening right now”… this episode is for you. Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 65 - Spring Mating Season… But Humans Are Opting Out
Send us Fan MailSpring is known as mating season in the animal world… but humans seem to be doing the opposite.In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we zoom out and talk about the big picture of sex, relationships, and reproduction. For most of human history, sex wasn’t optional. It was survival.Now? Birth control, financial independence, and social change have rewritten the rules.So why are birth rates dropping? Why are more people opting out of relationships or kids? And why does that make some parts of society panic?We dig into the biology, history, economics, and power dynamics behind what might be the biggest shift in human mating behavior in 250,000 years.This conversation goes deeper than dating apps. It’s about survival, equality, and choice.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 64 - From Petting Parties to Netflix and Chill: How Sex Slang Changed Through the Decades
Send us Fan MailSex hasn’t changed much over the decades… but the words we use to talk about it definitely have.In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we take a hilarious and honest look at the evolving language of intimacy. From old school phrases like “making whoopee” and “going steady” to modern terms like “Netflix and Chill,” “situationship,” and “sneaky link,” every generation seems to invent new slang to say the same thing.Why do we keep changing the language? Is it about privacy, culture, or just avoiding awkward conversations?Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the history, the humor, and the confusion behind the words people use to talk about sex.And trust us… some of these terms might make you feel old.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 63 - Pleasure Should Be Chosen, Not Expected
Send us Fan Mail15% OFF all Lubricants & Enhancements March 2 - 9 2026 Shop USA | Shop CanadaThere are a lot of unofficial holidays out there. Some are harmless. Some are funny. And then there’s Steak and BJ Day.Is it playful? Is it sexist? Is it just a joke? Or does it quietly reinforce one-sided expectations about sex and pleasure?In this episode, we unpack where this “holiday” came from, why it makes some people uncomfortable, and what it reveals about communication, consent, fantasy vs reality, and performative intimacy.Because desire doesn’t magically switch on when the calendar says so.And pleasure works best when it’s chosen, not expected.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 62 - From Head to Butt to Bed: Sexual Hygiene 101
Send us Fan MailSex is supposed to be fun, not stressful, awkward, or uncomfortable because no one taught you the basics.In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we’re breaking down sexual hygiene from head to butt to bed. No shame. No fear-mongering. Just real, practical conversations about cleanliness, comfort, confidence, toys, lube, oral, anal, kink, and everything in between.Whether you’re new to sex, deep into midlife changes, exploring new play, or just want better sex with fewer infections, this episode is for you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 61 - Best Sex Positions for Real Bodies (no icepacks required)
Send us Fan MailShop USA Position Aids: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/collections/foreplay-more-usShop Canadian Position Aids: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/collections/foreplay-moreIf sex feels uncomfortable, overly complicated, or more like a workout than pleasure… it might be the position.In this episode, we break down supportive, realistic sex positions designed for real bodies. No acrobatics. No performance pressure. Just angles, stability, connection, and actual pleasure.We cover comfort-based positions, angle-focused positions, and intimacy-centered positions that make orgasms easier and strain less likely.Because stable beats flashy. Every time.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 60 - Valentine’s Day Is Just Marketing (And We’re Over It)
Send us Fan MailValentine’s Day is sold as the ultimate test of love, but let’s be honest, it’s mostly a marketing calendar wrapped in roses and guilt.In this episode, we break down where Valentine’s Day actually came from, how it became a billion-dollar industry, and why so many people feel pressured, disappointed, or straight-up uncomfortable when February 14th rolls around.We talk performative romance, overpriced expectations, social media pressure, and why consistent love beats one grand gesture every time. Whether you’re partnered, single, or happily ignoring the whole thing, this one’s for you.No Hallmark fluff. No guilt spending. Just real talk.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 59 - Being Seen Is Foreplay: Rethinking Valentine’s Day
Send us Fan MailValentine’s Day isn’t the problem, the pressure is.In this episode, we break down why Valentine’s Day feels so loaded, what people actually want from it (hint: it’s not expensive gifts), and how small gestures create real connection in long-term relationships.We talk about acknowledgment, emotional intimacy, micro-gestures, expectations, and why being seen might be the most underrated form of foreplay. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this is a no-pressure, no-performance take on making Valentine’s Day actually feel good.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 58 - What Heated Rivalry Gets Right About Gay Men in Professional Sports
Send us Fan MailWhat happens when honesty becomes a career risk?This conversation dives into why so many gay men in professional sports remain closeted—and why the issue has nothing to do with masculinity, toughness, or talent. Using the cultural impact of Heated Rivalry as a lens, we unpack visibility, power, locker-room culture, emotional safety, and what actually happens when athletes come out while still playing.From real statistics to real-world examples, this episode explores why being “the first” still carries so much weight—and why stories like this matter far beyond fiction.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 57 - Double Standards in the Bedroom: Who Made These Rules, Anyway?
Send us Fan MailEver been told you’re asking for too much in the bedroom?This episode was sparked entirely by listener comments, and wow, did they expose some deep-rooted double standards around sex, pleasure, emotional labor, and communication.We’re breaking down: • Why having standards isn’t entitlement • The emotional labor women carry into the bedroom • Why “just communicate” isn’t that simple • The truth about sex toys, shame, and masculinity • How performance pressure hurts everyoneIf you’ve ever felt judged for how you show up sexually, this episode is for you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 56 - Stop Treating Anal Like a Stunt and Start Treating It Like a Skill
Send us Fan MailMost people treat anal like a bucket-list stunt.Try it once, decide forever, never revisit it.That’s the problem.In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we break down why anal play isn’t about bravery or pressure, it’s about skill, anatomy, communication, and going slow enough for your body to actually enjoy it.We cover: • Why your first attempt doesn’t mean anything • How different bodies experience anal stimulation • What actually makes it pleasurable (and what makes it painful) • Beginner to advanced toy progression • Pegging, prostate play, and safety that actually mattersNo fear tactics. No shame. No nonsense.🎧 Let’s make anal make sense.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 55 - 200 Orgasms a Year: Turning Pleasure Into a Legit Wellness Practice
Send us Fan MailDownload your Orgasm TrackerShop Woman Lust USA: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/pjur-woman-lust-orgasm-gel-15-ml-pj-14022-01Shop Lelo Pleasure Serum Canada: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/pleasure-enhancing-serumWhat if orgasms were one of the most powerful wellness tools you’re not using enough?In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we break down the science behind orgasms, stress relief, nervous system regulation, and why pleasure is not extra, it’s essential.We’re talking hormone cocktails, pelvic floor health, immune support, myth-busting, and introducing our boldest idea yet: the 200 Orgasm Challenge for 2026.Solo or partnered. Fun and factual. Zero shame.Welcome to pleasure on purpose.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 54 - Hallmark Lies and Five-Minute Orgasms
Send us Fan MailThe holidays are loud, exhausting, and wildly unsexy… or are they? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we dive into real listener questions about holiday quickies, exhaustion, zero privacy, and why social media makes everyone feel broken. Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just tired.We talk delegation, scheduling sex, five-minute escapes, realistic expectations, and how connection doesn’t disappear just because the house is full. If you’re surviving December and wondering where intimacy went, this episode is for you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 53 - If Your Sex Life Had a Performance Review, Would It Pass?
Send us Fan MailGrab our FREE Sex Audit Digital Downloadhttps://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/relationship-intimacy-audit-free-downloadForget vision boards. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re doing a year-end sex audit. What turned us on, what shut things down, what surprised us, and what we are absolutely leaving behind.We talk about saying no without guilt, libido changes, obligation sex, menopause realities, unexpected turn-ons, and why communication matters more than frequency. Whether you’re partnered or single, this is a real-talk reset for your intimacy heading into the new year.Grab your cocoa, your vibrator, or both. Let’s debrief.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 52 - The Holidays Are Killing Your Sex Life
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking holiday stress, family dynamics, money tension, mental load, and how all of it impacts intimacy. From hosting and traveling to childhood bedrooms to mismatched libidos and unrealistic expectations, we’re keeping it honest, funny, and very real.If you’re hiding from your family in the bathroom right now, we see you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 51 - How Dominance & Submission Build Deeper Intimacy (And Hotter Sex)
Send us Fan MailToday we’re diving into the psychology of dominance and submission — why people crave giving up control, taking control, or switching between the two. We’re breaking down the science, the fantasies, the communication, and how to explore power play safely and confidently. If you’ve ever wondered why anticipation hits so hard, why confident dominance is an art, or why so many people fantasize about surrender, this one’s for you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 50 - Dating Apps Exposed: What People Are Really Experiencing in 2025
Send us Fan MailFrom generational differences to queer vs straight dating culture to why men and women are having wildly different experiences, we break down what’s actually happening behind the swipe, and what the numbers say about who’s really finding connection.If you’ve ever deleted a dating app only to re-download it two weeks later… this episode was made for you.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 49 - 10 Naughty-but-Nice Gifts for a Way Hotter Holiday
Send us Fan MailDownload our Holiday Guides: Canadian Holiday GuideAmerican Holiday GuideSign up for our newsletterGet ready for our steamy holiday gift guide packed with the best couples toys, solo treats, massage must-haves, and sensual stocking stuffers. We’re breaking down how to gift intimacy without the awkwardness, plus our top picks to heat up your holidays. Think travel-friendly wands, prostate toys, clitoral suction, massage candles, and pleasure serums that make the season… merry. Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 48 - Is Growing a Mustache Cheaper Than Therapy?
Send us Fan MailIt’s that time of year, Movember is back, and it’s not just about growing facial hair. In this Tabbo Talk Not Safe for Brunch episode, we’re diving into the real conversations that matter: men’s mental health, physical wellness, and the power of speaking openly.We’re sharing stories, laughs, and a few mustache jokes while highlighting the impact of Project 11, a Canadian initiative helping young people learn how to talk about mental health early.Because it’s not about toughing it out, it’s about checking in, showing up, and starting the conversation.Links Mentioned: 🔗 movember.com 🔗 projecteleven.caSupport the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 47 - Natural Libido Boosters: Snake Oil or Science?
Send us Fan MailAre “natural libido boosters” the real deal, or just another marketing scam? In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we dig into the truth behind all those so-called desire enhancers: green tea, ginseng, maca root, chili peppers, yoga, sleep, and more.We talk placebo effects, body confidence, and how connection (and laughter) might be your best turn-on yet.💋 No filters. No shame. Just the real talk on what fuels desire and what’s total BS.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 46 - Bedroom Blunders: The Dangers of Rough Sex
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into a listener's nightmare scenario: accidentally injuring a partner's penis during sex. They break down why such injuries happen, how porn sets unrealistic expectations, and which positions are riskiest. The hosts offer practical strategies for maintaining fun, creative, and safe sex lives, emphasizing the importance of communication and proper use of lube. They also address listener questions about condoms and risky sexual moves, making it clear that pleasure should never come at the cost of safety.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 45 - Friends with Benefits Isn’t Just for the Young
Send us Fan MailIt’s not just a twenty-something thing anymore. In this NSFB episode, we break down how friends with benefits evolves through your 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s — from messy feelings to fierce independence.☕ Let’s talk blurred lines, clear boundaries, rediscovering pleasure, and why women over 50 are rewriting the rulebook.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 44 - Passive Aggressive Relationshiping: Why the Silent Treatment Isn’t Sexy
Send us Fan MailGrab your free guide: Fine. Isn’t Fine. — The Passive Aggressive Translator Welcome to another episode of Taboo Talks Not Safe for Brunch! Today, Coralie, Amber, and Vicki delve into the ins and outs of passive-aggressive behaviors in relationships and their impact on intimacy and connection. From giving the silent treatment to using sarcasm, the hosts share personal anecdotes and data-backed insights to highlight the importance of direct communication in fostering healthier relationships. Tune in for an unapologetically honest conversation about the complexities of intimacy, relationship dynamics, and self-discovery.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 43 - Real Talk on Breast Cancer: Sex, Scars & Self-Love After Treatment
Send us Fan MailOctober means Breast Cancer Awareness Month, but we’re not here for fluffy slogans and pink ribbons only. In this episode, we’re checking our boobs (literally), busting myths, and having the real, raw, and intimate conversations that often get left out. From mental health to body changes, pleasure, and communication — we’re diving deep into what survivorship actually looks like.If you’re a survivor, supporting someone, or just here to learn, this is a conversation worth pulling up a chair for.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 42 - Managing ADHD's Impact on Sex: Real Conversations and Solutions
Send us Fan MailGrab your FREE download: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/adhd-desire-reset-worksheet In this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into the challenges of maintaining intimacy when you have ADHD. As part of ADHD Awareness Month, they discuss how executive dysfunction, mental load, and neurodivergence impact romantic relationships. Whether you're navigating a new diagnosis or looking to understand your loved one better, tune in for unfiltered, real-world insights that break taboos and bust myths around ADHD and sex.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 41 - Shower Sex: Steamy Fantasy vs Slippery Reality
Send us Fan MailShop shower friendly mentions!Movies make shower sex look like the ultimate steamy hookup, but is it really that sexy, or just slippery and dangerous? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Vicki, and Coralie break down the fantasy vs. reality of shower sex, how to avoid common fails (and ER trips), and ways to actually make it work (including solo play, waterproof toys, and silicone lube).We’re serving up the laughs, cautionary tales, and practical tips, so you can decide for yourself: hot or not?Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more unfiltered convos on sex, intimacy, and everything in between.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 40 - From Rage to Radiance: How Your Cycle Shapes Desire, Energy & Connection
Send us Fan MailGet your free Cyclel Tracker: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/cycle-tracker-digital-downloadEver feel like your sex drive, mood, and energy are on a rollercoaster? Spoiler: it’s not random, it’s your cycle. In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack how each phase of your cycle impacts intimacy, connection, and confidence. From cramps and cravings to ovulation glow and PMS snark, nothing’s off the table.Whether you’re menstruating, in perimenopause, or post-menopausal, this convo will help you see your body (and your partner’s reactions) in a whole new light.Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with a friend who needs to hear this!Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 39 - Prostate Play Unplugged: More Than Just the Male G-Spot
Send us Fan MailFree Digital Download - Backstage PassShop Prostate StimulatorsIn this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into the mysteries of the prostate, often referred to as the male G-spot. They discuss its location, function, and role in both health and pleasure. The conversation tackles the stigma surrounding prostate play, especially in cis male communities, emphasizing its benefits for sexual health, erectile dysfunction, and overall well-being. The hosts also explore various tools and techniques for prostate stimulation, from beginner-friendly massagers to more advanced options. They highlight the importance of open communication with partners and healthcare professionals and advocate for breaking down societal taboos to promote happier, healthier lives. Join the conversation and learn why prostate care is an essential part of self-care.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 38 - Responsive Desire: The Hidden Truth About Women's Libido
Send us Fan MailSpontaneous desire might get all the attention, but responsive desire—where arousal occurs after stimulation or connection—is much more common, especially among women. Join hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki on Taboo Talks Not Safe For Brunch as they dive deep into responsive desire, debunk myths, and offer real-world advice on how understanding this type of desire can improve your sex life and relationships. Learn about the importance of communication, creating connection, and balancing different desire styles without frustration or shame. Tune in for candid conversations, research insights, and practical tips for a more fulfilling intimate life.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 37 - Libido in Menopause: Is It Even Possible?
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Taboo Talks, Not Safe for Brunch, hosts Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive into the complexities of perimenopause and menopause, discussing its impact on hormones, mindset, and sex drive. They break down common misconceptions, provide practical tips on managing symptoms like vaginal dryness, and emphasize the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships during this transition. Whether sharing personal anecdotes or citing expert advice, the discussion aims to empower women to reclaim their pleasure and navigate this life phase with confidence. Tune in for a refreshingly candid conversation on breaking taboos and celebrating midlife sexuality.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 36 - The Breakup Blueprint — When Letting Go Is Loving Right
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we delve into the complexities of breakups, challenging the notion that someone always has to be the villain. We explore the various types of breakups—loud, quiet, overdue, and unexpected—and discuss the crucial role boundaries play in the post-breakup period. Amber, Coralie, and Vicki share their personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery, emotional growth, and setting clear boundaries to facilitate healing. Join us for a candid conversation about love, relationships, and why moving on doesn't always mean failure.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 35 - Breaking the Silence: The Gaps and Needs in Sex Education
Send us Fan MailIn this eye-opening episode of Taboo Talks, Coralie, Amber, and Vicki dive deep into the shortcomings of traditional sex education. They share personal experiences and discuss the lack of comprehensive sex education that left many confused, shamed, and unprepared for real-world sexual experiences. Topics include the widespread focus on fear over pleasure, the exclusion of LGBTQ+ relationships, the critical need for conversations on consent, and the making of well-informed sexual decisions. The trio also advocates for proper sex ed training for educators and the importance of eliminating shame from discussions about sex, pleasure, and relationships. Grab your drink of choice and join the conversation that blends real-world education with unapologetic honesty and sass.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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Episode: 34 - Beyond the G-Spot: Five Hot Zones Worth Exploring
Send us Fan MailJoin Coralie, Amber, and Vicki as they demystify the often overlooked pleasure spots: the G spot, C spot, P spot, A spot, and U spot. In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, the hosts delve into the anatomy of these hidden gems, reveal what people commonly get wrong about them, and discuss why they can significantly enhance sexual experiences. With insights rooted in real-world experience and a touch of sass, this conversation aims to break down taboos and provide unapologetic education on sexual pleasure. From the misconceptions about the clitoral network to the potential of prostate stimulation, discover how to leverage these pleasure zones for a more fulfilling intimate life.Support the showConnect with us!Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: [email protected] us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunchYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch! In this podcast, we’re here to bring sex, insight, and real-world education to the table—unapologetically. Think of it as having those important, unfiltered brunch conversations with your closest friends, about sex, relationships, and everything in between.With over 55 years experience combined in the intimacy industry helping individuals and couples focusing on breaking down barriers, reducing shame, and empowering people to embrace their desires and relationships with confidence.
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