Tea Time with Shayleigh and Amber

  WHEN RESISTANCE IS ACTUALLY TRYING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING What happens when your first instinct is to burn the whole thing down... and then you realize the thing you want to leave might not actually be the problem? This episode starts with some good old-fashioned transparency about our own friendship, business partnership, and what Shayleigh lovingly refers to as her annual “season of resistance.” This year, it almost took out the Tea House. What started as “I don't want to do this anymore” turned into a much bigger conversation about disconnection, assumptions, overwhelm, perfectionism, fear of being too much, fear of not being enough, and the patterns we carry from one relationship straight into another without even realizing we're doing it. Amber realized she had been making herself smaller because she was afraid her ideas, creativity, and “too-muchness” would push Shayleigh away. Shayleigh realized she was feeling the distance, interpreting it as rejection, and responding with her own familiar pattern: maybe I should just leave. Neither one of them was actually asking the other what was happening. Once they finally did, something shifted. Instead of ending the relationship, they found the connection underneath the resistance. And almost immediately, creativity started moving again. IN THIS EPISODE: → What happens when we assume what someone else needs instead of asking them → The difference between genuinely being done and wanting to escape the discomfort of something that needs to be talked about → Amber's pattern of shrinking herself when she's afraid she's becoming “too much” → Shayleigh's pattern of feeling like what she's giving is never enough → Perfectionism, overwhelm, rejection, disconnection and the stories we create around them → Why friendships deserve some of the same communication and repair we expect in romantic relationships → What happens when you stop trying to solve the surface problem and get curious about what's underneath it → Why the Tea House has become less about having our shit together and more about having a place where we can human out loud with people who aren't going to judge us And apparently repairing our work marriage was all we needed to get creative again, because it led directly into two new experiences we're incredibly excited about. RIDING YOUR LEGACY September 16-24, 2026 Our September online experience is an eight-day journey into your name, your story, the family and life you came into, the lessons you've lived, and what you want to consciously carry forward. It's an invitation to look at the possibility that maybe your life isn't just a collection of random experiences. What happens when you begin looking at what you've lived through the lens of what it has shaped, taught and revealed about you? Tea House members receive Riding Your Legacy FREE as part of their membership. Join Riding Your Legacy:https://www.amberlydic.com/offers/Y9qo8JaV/checkout BEYOND HORSEMANSHIP October 15-18, 2026Aptos, California This is where Amber and Shayleigh's worlds come together in person. Beyond Horsemanship is an intimate horse-and-human experience combining animal communication, nervous-system-first horsemanship, relationship, real-time feedback from the horses, and the opportunity to explore what's actually happening between horse and human rather than simply trying to “fix” behavior. You'll have the opportunity to work with your horse while Shayleigh communicates what they're experiencing and Amber helps translate that information into what is happening physically, behaviorally and relationally in real time. This isn't about getting your horse to perform perfectly in four days. It's about leaving with more clarity, more connection, and a different way of seeing and listening to the horse standing in front of you. Learn more:https://www.amberlydic.com/beyond-horsemanship-10-26 COME INTO THE TEA HOUSE If these are the kinds of conversations you've been craving, this is exactly what we created the Tea House for. It's horses. It's humans. It's relationships. It's nervous systems. It's spirituality. It's learning. It's questioning what we think we know. Sometimes it's deep as hell, sometimes we're laughing until we can't breathe, and usually it's some combination of all of it. And yes, our Nuts get Riding Your Legacy included with their membership. Join Shayleigh & Amber's Tea House:https://www.amberlydic.com/membership GO A LITTLE DEEPER → Where are you assuming what someone needs instead of actually asking them? → When you feel disconnected or rejected, what is your automatic response: move closer, get smaller, get louder, shut down, or leave? → Is there somewhere in your life where “I don't want this anymore” might actually mean “I don't know how to do this the way we're doing it now”? → Where have you made yourself smaller because you were afraid your enthusiasm, needs, ideas, emotions, or presence were too much? → Where are you demanding more from yourself because some part of you believes what you're already giving isn't enough? → What old story are you still telling about yourself, another person, or even your horse that may no longer be true? → What could become possible if you stopped trying to decide who is right and became curious about what each nervous system is actually protecting? TIMESTAMPS → 02:39 Good old-fashioned transparency and the “season of resistance”→ 03:34 “I don't want to do the Tea House anymore”→ 05:43 When the math isn't mathing→ 06:28 Relationship patterns showing up inside friendship→ 07:10 Amber's fear of being “too much”→ 08:16 Shayleigh recognizes her rejection and escape pattern→ 09:31 Stop assuming what the other person needs→ 10:53 Overgiving, reciprocity and holding everything together→ 12:04 Why the Tea House community is different→ 14:10 Shayleigh's “I'm not doing enough” pattern→ 15:24 Repair creates creativity→ 15:45 Introducing Riding Your Legacy→ 16:41 Tea House members get the experience included→ 18:10 Introducing Beyond Horsemanship→ 19:09 Abundance, inspiration, intuition and following the signs→ 20:47 A reading, a horse in spirit and some very specific synchronicities→ 22:33 The wreath tattoo that showed up at the airport→ 23:02 Washington, giant trees and wondering where home might be→ 26:21 Marmots, Yellowstone and the creatures we apparently need in our lives→ 28:55 Yellowstone, wildlife and exploring→ 32:53 Summer, transition and animals leaving their bodies→ 33:56 Getting stuck in old stories about our animals→ 35:01 Biggie, expectations and bringing an agenda to our horses→ 36:40 Bodies doing what bodies do→ 37:04 An abandoned house, a questionable watch and refusing someone else's story about its energy→ 38:28 Honesty, joy, laughter and closing out the episode

Mind Your Own Business Tea Time with Shayleigh & Amber Some of the biggest drains on our energy aren't the obvious ones. They're the conversations we keep replaying in our heads. The decisions that aren't ours to make. The urge to fix, control, rescue, predict, or protect everyone around us. In this episode, we wander through intuition, timelines, spirituality, law of attraction, aging dogs, fear, codependency, and why "mind your own business" might be one of the deepest healing practices there is. Along the way, we explore something most of us do without realizing it. We leave our own lives to manage someone else's. Whether that's giving unsolicited advice, carrying responsibility that isn't ours, or trying to predict every possible outcome before making a decision, it all pulls us away from the only place we actually have influence. Our own lives. This conversation also dives into trusting yourself when there isn't a perfect answer, navigating difficult decisions with aging animals, allowing emotions without making them mean something is wrong, and remembering that this human experience is temporary. Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is stop trying to escape life and actually live it. In this episode we explore Why feeling "behind" creates unnecessary resistance. Is intuition really intuition... or something else? The difference between inner knowing and attachment to an outcome. Why uncertainty doesn't mean you're doing it wrong. Learning to ask better questions instead of demanding immediate answers. The surprising lesson about minding your own business. How giving advice can sometimes become a way of avoiding our own work. The beauty of staying present inside your human experience instead of constantly searching for something bigger. Why every emotion has a purpose. Making impossible decisions for the animals we love. Fear, guilt, responsibility, and learning to trust yourself. Why everything, including the hard seasons, is temporary. Questions to reflect on → Where am I spending energy trying to manage someone else's life instead of my own? → Is this actually my responsibility, or am I trying to control uncertainty? → What would happen if I stopped fighting this season and simply let myself be in it? → When I say I'm following my intuition, am I listening... or am I attached to an outcome? → What part of my life am I trying to rush through because I believe I'm behind? → Where am I searching for magic outside myself instead of noticing what's already here? → What decision am I trying to force before I actually feel clear? → How would my relationships change if I truly minded my own business? → What emotions have I been trying to avoid instead of allowing? → If everything is temporary, what would I enjoy more today? Favorite takeaway "Sometimes the most freeing thing you can do is stop trying to control everyone else's experience... and come home to your own." Join the Tea House If these conversations feel like home, we'd love to have you inside the Tea House where we continue these discussions with live Tea Parties, deeper conversations, workshops, and a community of people asking better questions together. Membership: https://www.amberlydic.com/membership Timestamps → 00:00 Welcome, feeling behind, and life's timelines → 04:43 Is intuition actually information from another timeline? → 12:00 Stop escaping your human experience → 17:00 Everything is temporary → 20:30 Law of attraction, creating your experience, and resistance → 27:20 Making difficult decisions for aging animals → 33:30 Fear, guilt, and learning to trust yourself → 42:00 What does it actually mean to mind your own business? → 48:50 Final thoughts and takeaways

# Episode 93: If You Only Knew Have you ever caught yourself saying... *"If I only knew then what I know now..."* Whether it's a horse, a relationship, or a major life decision, hindsight has a way of making us believe we would have chosen differently. But what if the lesson wasn't a mistake? What if it was exactly what you came here to learn? In this episode, Amber and Shayleigh explore why we spend so much time trying to avoid discomfort, only to discover that our greatest growth often comes from the very experiences we would have tried to escape. The conversation weaves through horse ownership, nervous system regulation, preparation, behavior, and the surprising ways our animals become our greatest teachers. If you've ever questioned your horse, your choices, or yourself, this conversation will challenge you to see all three through a completely different lens. In This Episode **00:00** If you knew then what you know now, would you still choose the same horse? **01:15** Why we judge breeds, colors, health risks, and "perfect" horses before we ever know the individual. **03:00** Amber shares why clients almost always end up choosing the horse they were emotionally drawn to, even when logic says otherwise. **04:30** Smarty's story. The horse who completely changed Amber's plans and taught her the lesson she actually needed instead of the one she wanted. **08:45** Are we really choosing horses... or are we choosing the lessons they bring? **11:30** Why every horse comes with challenges, regardless of breed or background. **14:00** Familiar pain versus unfamiliar possibility, and how the brain often chooses what feels predictable. **18:00** Herd attachment isn't bad behavior. It's normal horse behavior. **21:30** Why preparing for a show isn't the same as preparing your horse's nervous system. **23:00** The difference between desensitizing a horse and building nervous system capacity. **24:30** Amber explains how small, manageable moments of stress followed by regulation build confidence instead of fear. **27:30** Prediction errors, dopamine, curiosity, and why positive experiences gradually overwrite fear responses. **31:00** Everyday experiences we rarely prepare horses for, from the farrier to injections, standing tied, and being separated from friends. **33:00** Why backing off at the right moment does **not** reinforce fear. **34:00** The subtle signs of shutdown most people completely miss. **35:30** Compliance isn't the same thing as relaxation. **38:00** Why every horse needs something different during a pause. **41:00** What lead ropes, pressure, and restraint may actually represent from the horse's perspective. **45:00** Supporting your horse's instincts instead of fighting against them. **50:00** Practical ways to recognize thresholds, increase confidence, and become a more regulated partner. Questions to Go Deeper About Your Horse * Does my horse tend to freeze, flee, fight, fawn, or become curious when they're unsure? * Am I asking my horse to perform... or preparing them to feel safe enough to perform? * What situations consistently push my horse close to their threshold? * What signs tell me my horse is becoming overwhelmed before their behavior changes? * Where could I slow down just enough for my horse to process instead of simply comply? About Yourself * Where in my own life have I said, "If I only knew then what I know now"? * Would I actually choose differently... or would I choose the same lesson because it helped shape who I am today? * Am I trying to avoid discomfort, or build my own capacity to move through it? * Where do I become so focused on the outcome that I stop noticing what's happening in the present moment? * What would change if I became just as curious about myself as I am about my horse? Nutmeg's Take Dear Nuts, Apparently humans spend a whole lot of time trying to avoid hard lessons. Then they accidentally buy the exact horse that delivers every single one. Funny how that works. This episode reminded me that confidence isn't built by never feeling stressed. It's built by learning that you can feel something uncomfortable... and come back down the other side. Maybe that's true for horses. Maybe it's true for us, too. So this week, practice the pause. Notice your horse before you react. Notice yourself before you react. Turns out the biggest breakthroughs don't usually happen because someone pushed harder. They happen because someone slowed down enough to listen. Love, Nutmeg 🐿️ Favorite Quotes * "Your job isn't just to prepare your horse for the task. It's to prepare their nervous system for the experience." * "Confidence isn't created by avoiding stress. It's created by learning how to recover from it." * "Compliance and relaxation are not the same thing." * "Sometimes the horse you thought wasn't right for you ends up teaching you exactly what you needed to learn." * "The pause isn't giving up. The pause is often where learning begins."

Do Animals Have Names for Us? Animal Communication, Horse Psychology & The Energy Behind Names Have you ever wondered if your horse has a name for you? Do animals think about us the same way we think about them? In this Tea Time conversation, Amber and Shayleigh explore the fascinating world of animal communication, horse psychology, identity, energy, and the deeper meaning behind names. What started as a simple question quickly turned into a discussion about how animals perceive humans, whether names matter in the animal world, and why horses may be responding to far more than the words we use. Together they unpack the relationship between names, labels, energy, intention, identity, horse behavior, and the powerful ways horses experience us beyond language. In This Episode → Do animals have names for their humans? → How horses and animals may perceive people through energy rather than words → Animal communication and receiving messages through feelings, visuals, and knowing → Why humans are attached to names, labels, and identity → The connection between names and personal identity → Spirit guides, energetic roles, and the concept of naming in non-physical realms → Why some horses seem deeply connected to their names while others collect endless nicknames → Horse behavior, awareness, and how horses constantly read human emotions → The role of intention versus words in horse training → Why vocal cues often help humans more than horses → Situational awareness and how horses assess safety in their environment → The energetic relationship between horses and humans → How nicknames evolve as relationships deepen → Why animals may experience us as a feeling rather than a fixed identity Key Takeaways Horses and animals may not experience humans through names the way we do. Instead, they may connect with our energy, emotions, intentions, and the unique feeling of our relationship. This conversation explores the possibility that names are a human tool for creating certainty and identity, while animals operate from a more fluid awareness of the present moment. Whether you're interested in animal communication, horse behavior, personal growth, spirituality, nervous system awareness, or creating a deeper connection with your horse, this episode offers thought-provoking perspectives that challenge the way we think about relationships across species. Questions to Explore → If your horse could describe you without using your name, what would they say? → What energy are you bringing into the barn each day? → How much of your identity is attached to labels, titles, and roles? → Do your animals respond more to your words or your intention? → What would change if you experienced yourself beyond the name you've been given? Resources Mentioned → Tea House Membership: https://www.amberlydic.com/membership → Grief as a Doorway Webinar: https://www.guided-voice.com/event-details/grief-as-a-doorway → Chris Irwin's presentation on the science of feel, body language, and horse-human communication : https://youtu.be/NVgMRUFKppY?si=hBvZgVe5i6B0WHqC About Tea Time with Shayleigh & Amber Tea Time is a podcast exploring the horse-human relationship through practical horsemanship, animal communication, nervous system awareness, personal growth, spirituality, healing, and connection. Through candid conversations, Amber and Shayleigh bridge science, intuition, and lived experience to help horse owners deepen their understanding of themselves, their horses, and the relationships that shape both. #HorseHumanRelationship #AnimalCommunication #HorseBehavior #HorsePsychology #EquineLearning #HorseTraining #EquineConnection #ConsciousHorsemanship #HorseOwnership #HorsePodcast #AnimalCommunicationPodcast #HorseHealing #EquineWellness #NervousSystemRegulation #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualityAndHorses #TeaTimePodcast #HorsePeople #EquestrianLife #RelationshipWithYourHorse

 Year of the Horse or Year of the Whale? Flow, creative energy, and what happens when you stop suppressing yourself In this episode, Amber and Shayleigh wander through a really honest conversation about creativity, nervous system patterns, flow, self-suppression, and what it looks like to actually pay attention to how life feels. What starts as a playful conversation about whether 2026 is the Year of the Horse or the unofficial Year of the Whaleturns into something deeper. They explore the pressure people put on themselves to be more powerful, more productive, more “on it,” and how sometimes what actually creates movement is not pushing harder, but allowing more flow. They talk about creative energy, the cost of suppressing what wants to come through, the way life gets heavier when we ignore the small practices that make us feel like ourselves, and how easy it is to get pulled into chaos, negativity, and collective stress if we are not intentional. This episode also gives a behind-the-scenes look at what is unfolding for Shayleigh creatively right now through art, symbols, and light language, along with how that energy is beginning to shape Elevate, their new small-group container. And for Tea House members, there is a special announcement at the end. In this episode, we talk about: Why “Year of the Whale” became the vibe for 2026 The difference between force and flow Tiny practices that shift your whole energy What happens when you stay committed to how you feel How creative suppression can show up as fatigue Why creativity is not just painting or drawing The importance of finding your version of art How nervous systems get pulled back into old patterns Support, accountability, and why it is hard to shift alone A deeper look at what is unfolding inside Elevate A scholarship opportunity for one Tea House member   Resources Mentioned Elevate Program https://www.amberlydic.com/elevate2026 Tea House Membership https://www.amberlydic.com/membership Tea House Scholarship Details Tea House members can check the Facebook group and email for details on how to apply.

Episode Summary This episode starts with Shayleigh naming something that a lot of people quietly live in, asking for answers and then doubting their intuition the second the answer feels too hard to hold. She talks about what happens when you are told not to intervene, when you are not the right messenger for someone, and why some truths are not meant to be delivered by you. Amber and Shayleigh pull that thread into a bigger conversation about the fantasy of “leveling up,” the idea that growth means life gets easier, cleaner, and more certain. They talk about how empowering people is not about giving them the answer, it is about helping them find their own. The second half goes deep into desperation. Shayleigh shares a healing experience that took her back into the womb, where she suddenly felt desperation as a real embodied state, not an idea. Amber shares her own relationship with desperation, shaped early by loss, and how that has created a strange gift, being able to be with someone’s intensity without getting pulled under by it. Then, in divine comedic timing, the thunderstorm takes Amber out mid-call and Shayleigh wraps it up solo. Quick Takeaways ↠ Do not ask questions you are not ready to hear the answer to ↠ Sometimes “I can’t intervene” is the most honest guidance ↠ Empowerment is not dependency, it is internal leadership ↠ Your questions shape what your brain goes looking for ↠ Desperation can feel like a victim state, until it becomes a bridge to empathy ↠ Growth does not mean ease forever, it means capacity   Questions Intuition and truth ↠ What question am I asking right now that I am secretly hoping has a certain answer? ↠ If my intuition gave me the honest answer, what part of me would feel threatened by it? ↠ Do I actually not trust my intuition, or do I not want to carry what it is showing me? Empowerment versus dependency ↠ Where do I want someone else to be the authority so I do not have to be? ↠ What do I keep outsourcing that is actually my responsibility to choose? ↠ If I stopped asking for answers and started asking better questions, what would I ask instead? Leveling up myths ↠ Where did I learn the idea that growth means life should get easier? ↠ If growth is capacity, not comfort, what would capacity look like in my life right now? ↠ What would it mean to be in the middle of a transition without needing it to make sense yet? Desperation and nervous system ↠ What does desperation feel like in my body, if I tell the truth? ↠ Do I judge desperation in others because I do not understand it, or because I am afraid of it? ↠ When I feel desperate, what do I think I need someone else to take from me? Relationship patterns ↠ What energy do I experience as invasive, and why? ↠ Where do I ask someone to change my life, without realizing I am asking? ↠ What agreement could I make with one person in my life to help me catch my negative loops? Practical Integration ↠ Pick one repeating question you ask when you are spiraling (like “What is wrong with me?”) ↠ Rewrite it into a question that creates power (example: “What is my nervous system asking for right now?”) ↠ Ask it daily for a week, and notice what your brain starts feeding you instead Nutmeg’s Corner Nutmeg would like to remind you, lovingly, that if you ask the universe for the truth and then get mad when it answers, that is a you problem, not a universe problem. Stay curious, not dramatic. Or at least be funny if you are going to be dramatic. Nutmeg’s Corner Nutmeg would like to remind you, lovingly, that if you ask the universe for the truth and then get mad when it answers, that is a you problem, not a universe problem. Stay curious, not dramatic. Or at least be funny if you are going to be dramatic.  

Amber opens the episode in full awkward honesty, and somehow it works perfectly for what we are talking about. This episode is about desire, but not the surface level kind. We are talking about the space desire is born from, the space where your needs get met, and how sometimes that space looks like… nothing. Less input. Less talking. Less touching. Less trying. For you and for your horse. We go into how “doing less” can feel like abandonment or rejection if your nervous system is wired for connection to look like constant engagement. That shows up when your horse walks away, when a person needs space, or when you feel guilty for needing quiet. We talk about attachment patterns, anxious energy, and how “need need need” can unintentionally create pressure that makes the other side want to back up. We also talk about the other side of it, where we shrink down so much that we disappear, and the horse or the relationship starts poking at you because it is trying to call you back into your own power. There’s a whole thread around overstimulation that starts with a microphone issue and turns into a real conversation about how one tiny thing can hijack attention, in humans and horses. We connect that to the freeze response, compliance, and how often we don’t ask for what we need in the moment. We also talk about how the story we are carrying changes what our horse can do with us. If you believe you are imposing, your ask lands like guilt. If you believe you are allowed to want what you want, your ask lands like clarity. We end by tying it into Manifesting Magic, and the idea that under every complaint is a desire, and learning to go underneath the complaint is one of the biggest ways to shift your life, your relationships, and what your animal can co create with you. Link for membership where you skip the line and get Manifesting Magic for FREE https://www.amberlydic.com/membership Or here is the link for the waitlist https://www.amberlydic.com/manifest-magic-2026-waitlist ⸻ Questions to Go Deeper • Where do I confuse “more input” with “more love”? • What does “space” feel like in my body? Relief, panic, guilt, freedom, something else? • When my horse walks away, what story do I tell myself immediately? • Where in my life do I shrink down so I can be liked, so I can be easy, so I do not rock the boat? • Where in my life do I get “softer” when what is actually needed is clarity? • If I could ask for what I need in real time, what would I say first, in one sentence? • Where am I worried about being perceived as needy, intense, or too much, and how is that blocking connection? • Is my horse showing me overstimulation, or are they calling me into more presence and personal power? • What is one desire underneath a complaint I have right now (with my horse or with a person)? • What would it look like to speak that desire without blaming anyone for it? ⸻ Share, Rate, and Review If you’re listening or watching and this episode hit, please share it with someone who needs this conversation. And if you feel like giving us some love, rate and review the podcast wherever you listen or watch. It helps more people find the Tea House. ⸻ Time Stamps 00:00:05 Intro, awkward opener, and why we are talking about desire 00:00:26 Desire, needs being met, and when “doing less” is actually more 00:01:29 Attachment patterns, anxious energy, and space feeling like rejection 00:04:07 The microphone moment, overstimulation, and how tiny things hijack focus 00:06:11 Freeze, not asking for what you need, and how this shows up with horses 00:08:05 External expression vs internalization, and why some horses “hold it” then explode 00:09:19 Interrupting in real time, people pleasing, and learning to name what you need 00:11:43 Fear of compliance, intensity of focus, and “take your eyes off me” 00:14:06 How intention impacts animals, distance communication, and energetic pressure 00:16:33 Softness vs shrinking, and when a horse is calling up more from you 00:19:11 Women, conditioning, diminishing, and the belief that we cannot have what we want 00:22:12 The edge, overstimulation vs disappearing in the relationship 00:25:09 Humans make stories, and learning to disassemble them 00:26:20 Desire clarity, why you want what you want, and how beliefs affect the ask 00:35:23 Under every complaint is a desire, and using complaints for good 00:37:01 Manifesting Magic invite, animals as guides, and choosing one co creator 00:38:27 Rate, review, links, and membership includes Manifesting Magic

The Truth Under the Treats This episode is the moment you realize you and your horse have been signaling the truth long before anything big happened. We get into thresholds, why humans override themselves, and how horses expose the exact point we disconnect from our own body even when we think we are being kind or rewarding. We talk about→ the rise before the reaction→ how the body whispers long before it yells→ the tension you think you are hiding that your horse reads instantly→ how treats cannot cover pressure your body never resolved→ when intention gets scrambled and the horse responds to the truth instead of the behavior→ micro expressions that shift everything→ what real safety feels like when you stop performing and start sensing Offerings MentionedThe Winter JourneyA free December somatic hypnosis experience to help you move from snake energy into horse energy so your system can soften and actually receive. https://www.amberlydic.com/winter-journey-2025 The Centered Human with ShayleighHer membership for intuitive communication, emotional regulation, and learning the language your animals already speak. https://www.guided-voice.com/pricing-plans/list Time Stamps0:00 Opening2:15 What thresholds really feel like7:40 The early signals we skip12:05 When treats hide tension18:20 When your horse says no before you do23:50 Micro expression work31:10 Old conditioning that shows up in the barn40:00 What safety actually feels like47:30 Somatic truth telling55:20 Close Questions to Explore→ Where do you leave yourself first?→ When does your body whisper before it yells?→ What changes in your horse when you soften?→ What threshold are you pretending you cannot see?→ What truth wants to come out when you finally slow down?

🌿 Episode: Devotion, Boundaries, and Spirit with Jeanette Loftus Hart This week, we’re joined by our beloved Tea House member, Jeanette. Jeanette shares her journey with animal communication, energy work, Branson the Mustang, and what it means to honor herself with the same devotion she gives to others. This conversation is tender, raw, and full of reminders about the magic of community, boundaries, and listening to the quiet whispers of spirit. ⏱ Time-Stamped Show Notes [00:01:14] Meet Jeanette: a “walking heart” and long-time Tea House member. [00:02:23] The first session with Shayleigh—when a lost heart horse showed up. [00:04:01] Early dreams that came true and the moment Jeanette stepped into helping people. [00:05:21] Amber’s unexpected initiation into connecting with people in spirit. [00:08:58] What helped Jeanette finally stop suppressing her gifts. [00:10:57] The Tractor Supply parking lot story—sharing a message that changed someone’s whole day. [00:14:29] Branson the Mustang, his pigeon friends, and how he became Jeanette’s spiritual partner. [00:21:02] Oyster the cat as an emotional support guide in Branson’s training journey. [00:22:12] Choosing devotion to self: the coffee ritual, journaling, and shadow work. [00:28:46] Why meditation feels so hard, and how it opens the door to deeper connection. [00:29:39] Boundaries, worthiness, and learning to receive. [00:33:01] Giving, receiving, and how it mirrors what we experience with our horses. [00:34:01] Amber’s story about accidentally shutting down her partner’s gift. [00:38:06] Calling in confidence and manifesting success for Jeanette’s first live event. 🌱 Reflection & Integration Questions When was the last time you gave to your animals (or others) in a way you haven’t yet given to yourself? What does devotion to yourself look like right now—five minutes, an hour, a daily ritual? How does your horse (or another animal in your life) show you boundaries, consent, or the power of “no”? Where in your life do you struggle to receive—and what would open up if you allowed it? If your animals could choose their environment the way Branson chose to never be shut in, what would shift for you? ✨ Join us inside the Tea House Membership for more conversations, weekly lives, book clubs, and a safe space to explore your own journey. We’d love to welcome you. 👉 Click here https://www.amberlydic.com/membership to join the Tea House

Transitions come in all shapes and sizes. From sending a child to college, to shifting into new roles with our horses, to navigating relationships, Amber and Shayleigh unpack the beauty and the challenge of change. This episode dives into the preparation, language, and mindset that can help us move forward instead of clinging to the past. They also weave in practical tools like breathwork, meditation, and grounding exercises to support both humans and animals during times of change. Time-Stamped Show Notes [00:05:28] Shayleigh validates the rollercoaster of feelings during transition—tired, hungry, happy, sad—it’s all real and all welcome. [00:06:01] Amber shares about dropping her son at college, and how preparing her kids and her horses to thrive “without her” has been a lifelong theme. [00:09:12] Preparing training horses for high-pressure barns—how to equip them to stay balanced and advocate for themselves even when the environment shifts. [00:10:15] Shayleigh reframes transition language: you’re not going back, you’re going forward with new awareness. [00:12:06] Amber talks about stepping back into horse training, not as who she was, but as who she is now. [00:13:18] The power of conscious language—choosing words like “I choose” instead of “I want.” [00:15:08] Breath and neutrality as anchors in transition. Amber shares her month-long struggle with recalibration and the tools that helped her. [00:16:02] Shayleigh opens up about channeling, animal sensitivity, and “light being” animals born to support Earth. [00:18:29] How language shapes mindset—examples from Conscious Language: The Logos of Now. [00:20:52] Getting specific about what you want—why vague desires like “I want to be happy” aren’t enough. [00:22:13] Parking “luck,” resistance, and how attachment changes outcomes. [00:25:35] Do we really want control over everything, or is contrast and struggle part of what makes life meaningful? [00:27:47] Relationship transitions—routine vs reintegration when partners return home. [00:30:01] Animals and transitions: how they experience separation and reunion. [00:33:38] Tools for animals: using color, visuals, and energetic cords to support connection during absence. [00:35:23] Amber’s top tip: breathe into your back body, advocate for 5 minutes, and choose your response. [00:35:47] Shayleigh’s grounding tool: the 5-4-3-2-1 presence practice, and a reminder that meditating helps your animals too. [00:37:16] Closing reflections—don’t freak out, just breathe and move forward with presence. Reflective Questions What transitions are you currently moving through, and how are you preparing yourself (and your animals) for them? Do you tend to frame change as “going back” or “moving forward”? How might shifting your language change your perspective? What practices help you stay grounded and present when life “slaps you across the face”? How might your animals be showing you their own experience of transitions, separation, or reunion? If you got specific about what “better” or “happy” looks like for you, what details would you write down? ✨ Want more conversations like this? Join us inside the Tea House Membership, where we go deeper through weekly lives, Tea Talks, book club, and community support. 👉 Join the Tea House here https://www.amberlydic.com/membership

🌿 Member Spotlight: Niki Brixius – Choose Your Hard Episode Summary: In this first-ever Tea House member spotlight, we sit down with Niki Brixius to hear her deeply personal and powerful journey through horses, healing, and hard choices. From autoimmune illness and awkward conversations to spiritual awakenings and mounted shooting competitions, Niki’s story is a reminder that “choosing your hard” is not about pain, it’s about power. Her horses (especially Two Spot and Lady) shaped her in ways she never could have predicted, and through every twist in her journey, she’s become a guide for others learning to trust themselves and their animals more deeply. 🧠 Raw. Soulful. Practical. This episode is a love letter to the ones who’ve been told they're “too much” or “not enough.” 📝 Show Notes Welcome & Intention of the Member Spotlight series — Highlighting real stories from the Tea House community and why they matter. (00:00–01:00) Niki's career path and communication growth — From retail awkwardness to financial mentoring and how that shaped her horse world. (01:00–04:00) How her horse journey began at age 6 — Pestering her mom, spiritual pull, and discovering early that horses were not just a phase. (04:00–06:00) Jubilee, Jj, and Lady — The horses that taught her about resilience, failure, emotional bonding, and somatic memory. (06:00–11:00) Amber and Shayleigh share their first-horse stories — Tree branches, barefoot rides, and bratty teenage phases that led to bucking and breakthroughs. (11:00–16:00) The transformation with 2 Spot — From colt-starting to health crises, confidence loss, and intuitive rebuilding. (16:00–25:00) Letting your horse choose to stay or go — A conversation on consent, soul contracts, and honoring freedom in the horse-human relationship. (25:00–31:00) The blurry lines between respect, leadership, and pushiness — Redefining “respect” and “leadership” from domination to partnership. (31:00–34:00) The shift into intuitive horsemanship — Feeling her way, discovering Warwick Schiller and Amy Skinner, and rethinking what it means to “read a horse.” (34:00–40:00) Healing through bodywork and energy awareness — Moving from “doing to” the horse into “being with,” and honoring how horses like to be touched. (40:00–46:00) The pinky injury, bucking fall, and recovery arc — How one tendon injury became a portal to self-trust, spiritual resilience, and deeper empathy. (46:00–51:00) Diving into mounted shooting — Overcoming fear, finding a welcoming community, and finally saying yes to something just for her. (51:00–55:00) Message from her herd: “Choose your hard” — And how that phrase has echoed through every moment of Niki’s transformation. (55:00–58:00) What she wishes someone told her as a kid — “I believe you. You’re not crazy.” How spiritual suppression shaped her early life and how reclaiming it changed everything. (58:00–End) 🌰 Go Deeper: Reflection Prompts Who was your "Lady" or "Two Spot"? What did they awaken in you? In what ways have you been told you're “too much” or “not enough”? How are you reclaiming that story now? When did you last override your gut with your horse? What might have happened if you trusted it? Are you giving your animals the choice to stay — or are you assuming they must? What does it mean for you to “choose your hard” right now? 🐿️ Nutmeg’s Note: Hey nuts, your stories matter. Your weirdness is your wisdom. And your horses are probably whispering “I told you so” right now. Go hug them. Then go do the brave thing anyway. 🎧 Listen & Subscribe Be sure to follow the Tea Time podcast so you never miss an episode! Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio. Want to be part of these conversations and share space with incredible humans like Niki? 🫖 Join The Tea House>> https://www.amberlydic.com/membership The Tea House is where horsewomen (and horse-humans) like you gather for guidance, growth, and grounded spiritual support. We’d love to welcome you.

Why Hard Conversations Are So Hard... A real, tender look at emotional regulation, fear of conflict, and how our horses mirror what we avoid Episode Summary In today’s episode, Amber and Shayleigh unpack why hard conversations feel so difficult—and why most of us avoid them. Whether it’s fear of conflict, fear of abandonment, fear of being misunderstood, or simply the fear of being “too much,” this episode opens the door to examine what’s really going on in our nervous systems when truth wants to come forward. They explore how early conditioning trains us to suppress, shrink, or freeze during moments of tension and how this plays out in our relationships—with humans and with horses. We talk about how internalized fear gets mirrored back through our animals, how unspoken truths affect the energy between us, and what it takes to move from shutdown to presence. Amber shares insight from her hypnosis studies, while Shayleigh reflects on ancestral patterns and intuitive communication. There’s plenty of laughter, deep questions, and some unexpected turns into dreamwork This episode isn’t a to-do list for having better conversations—it’s an invitation to feel what your body does before words even come out of your mouth. To explore how you can listen to your inner signals without abandoning yourself or others. And to remember that hard conversations are often sacred initiations into deeper truth. Reflection Questions What physical sensations arise when you're about to say something difficult? How did your early environment teach you to handle conflict—or not? Where do you tend to go: freeze, fawn, defend, distract, disappear? What conversations are you currently avoiding, and why? How do your horses respond to your emotional honesty versus your emotional suppression? If you loved this episode… 🌟 Rate and review the podcast Your words help others find this work and deepen the conversation 📣 Share this episode Send it to a friend who’s been holding their truth too tightly ✨ Follow the show So you never miss these deep and necessary conversations Come Deeper With Us 🌀 Webinar: Judgment — A Path to Presence Explore the link between internal judgment, emotional projection, and relational breakdown—especially with your horse https://www.amberlydic.com/judgment_webinar 🍵 The Tea House Membership A monthly community space with live meditations, deep-dive calls, and behind-the-scenes magic https://www.amberlydic.com/membership Timestamps 00:00 – Why we’re talking about hard conversations 03:00 – What your body does before you speak 07:30 – Fear of being misunderstood or abandoned 11:15 – Horses feel it all: what we say and don’t say 14:50 – Emotional patterns and nervous system reactions 18:40 – Early conditioning and conflict response 23:30 – Ancestral fears and intuitive communication 32:00 – Internalized fear and the identity of “too much” 35:40 – What happens when you stop performing and start feeling 41:00 – Tools to get present before the conversation even starts 45:20 – Inviting softness, self-trust, and curiosity

Fear Is Not the Enemy A deep dive into fear, identity, and nervous system healing with Shayleigh and Amber What This Episode Is Really About This conversation is a love letter to fear. Not the kind that keeps you paralyzed, but the kind that has something to teach you if you’re willing to listen. Fear isn’t just a symptom. It’s a story.A signal.A survival map from your past.A portal into the next version of you. We explore how fear shows up in the body, becomes an identity, and plays out in your relationships—especially with your horse. You’ll hear about subconscious beliefs, somatic healing, hypnosis myths, and the power of processing what was never processed. You’ll also hear how something as simple as naming the fear can change everything. And yes, there’s some fun detours: Dolores Cannon, alien downloads, AI shame, and book hoarding. Naturally. Reflection Questions What fear have you carried for so long it feels like part of your identity? Where does fear live in your body? What belief has fear been trying to protect? What would happen if you let fear move instead of holding it back? What virtues might be hiding inside that fear? If this episode moved you... Rate and review the podcastYour feedback helps this community grow and keeps these conversations going. Share it with a friendEspecially the one who's been quietly carrying fear like it's normal. Follow usSo you never miss another episode. We’re just getting started. Join Us 🧠 The Fear to freedom Webinar – June 26Live process, horse-human connection, subconscious shifts, and somatic release.Info here! 🍵 Tea House MembershipMonthly meditations, live calls, and real community support.Membership Details Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to Fear Week02:00 – How fear shows up in the body05:30 – Human Design and fear patterns08:45 – Chronic fear and nervous system wear10:50 – Naming what fear is really saying13:15 – The virtues of fear16:50 – Somatic processing and sensation20:00 – Fear as identity and safety23:30 – Subconscious patterns and hypnosis27:00 – Amber’s story about fear of being useful33:00 – Unprocessed fear and frozen states36:00 – Cultural shifts and alien tangents40:00 – Horses and fear reflections43:00 – What to expect in the webinar

Show Notes: In this episode, Shayleigh and Amber dive into the swirling topic of perspective...what it means to want to be understood, why it feels so hard (especially in human relationships), and how deeply tied our identities are to being seen in a certain way. They explore: The hilarious (and eye-opening) glasses analogy Shayleigh’s been playing with Why it's so easy to hold space for horses and so freaking hard with humans The slippery slope between wanting connection and needing validation How responsibility for others’ feelings gets tangled in our own enoughness And the real truth: people can’t fully see you, but maybe that’s not the point anyway Amber shares what it’s like navigating partnership while standing firm in her truth, and they both riff on what makes conscious relationships beautiful and hard AF. They also bring it back to the horse-human connection...how horses have non-negotiables too, and how betrayal shows up in subtle but powerful ways in both human and horse dynamics. Stick around till the end for a sneak peek at their upcoming webinar on betrayal (happening May 30) and why it's about to rock some spiritual socks. Episode Recap: 💭 The Big Question: Are we actually seeking understanding from others—or just looking for connection and validation? 💡 Key Takeaways: True perspective-sharing means honoring your own "glasses" while letting others wear theirs. Social media often becomes a battleground of identities rather than a space for dialogue. When someone misunderstands you, it can feel like a threat to your identity—and that’s deeply human. Horses hold mirrors to our inner loops, including the places where we haven’t yet healed our betrayal stories. Conscious relationships (with humans or horses) require accountability, self-awareness, and the courage to stay when it's easier to run. 📅 Upcoming Event: ✨ The Virtue Hunt Series kicks off with a Free Webinar on Betrayal – May 30 Amber and Shayleigh will unpack how betrayal can be your greatest teacher—and how it shows up in our bodies, relationships, and even with our horses. More info coming soon. Follow them on socials or check the show notes for the sign-up link when it’s live.

🎙 Episode 82: Thresholds, Tantrums, and Trust: Why Your Horse (and You) Might Be Ready to Blow Hosts: Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans Replay available for: Betrayal & Boundaries: ~41 minutes 💥 Summary Ever feel like you’re holding it together until you absolutely can’t anymore? Same. And guess what? So does your horse. In this episode, we talk about what happens when horses (and humans) are pushed past their thresholds. From bolting and bucking to internal shutdowns, we unpack the signs of overwhelm and why they’re often ignored until it’s too late. We dig into the difference between intention and impact, the sneaky ways conditional love shows up in training, and why liberty work is basically relationship therapy with hooves. There are rants, laughs, a few truth bombs, and some personal stories about being kicked, grounded, and having your bedroom door removed. You’ll never look at a round pen the same way again. 🕰 Timestamps and Talking Points 00:00 – Why do we wait until something breaks to listen? 01:00 – Horses are screaming, and we’re still riding 02:15 – Good intentions can still have damaging impact 04:00 – Horse culture and the ride-through-it mindset 06:00 – Nervous system 101: regulation, resilience, reality 08:30 – Antifragility and helping horses carry unbalanced riders 10:00 – When trying to stay out of the horse’s way makes things worse 13:40 – Conditional love and performance-based connection 15:15 – What happens when horses aren't allowed to express 18:20 – Movement as medicine, and doing it safely 20:00 – Boundaries first, then expression 24:30 – You can only know your horse as deeply as you know yourself 26:00 – Feeling your horse's emotions vs. your own 30:00 – Liberty work and the stories it brings up 33:00 – Childhood wounds, compliance, and halters as control 36:00 – Somatic shaking, screaming, and horse-approved releases 38:00 – Functional freeze, slow starts, and titrating intensity 40:00 – Final reminder: you are not entitled to your horse’s body or being 🤔 Questions for You Which version of your horse feels the safest to you? Why? Have you ever mistaken obedience for willingness? Do you allow your horse to express big energy, or do you shut it down? What stories do you carry into the barn from your past? What would change if you could hold your discomfort without fear? 📣 Like this episode? Then show us some love. Screenshot it, share it to your stories, tag us, or send it to someone who’s still trying to “ride it out.” Every follow, like, and review helps other horse-humans find their way to conversations like this one. And hey, if this brought stuff up for you, our Betrayal & Boundaries webinar replay is live. It’s packed with insights, a beautiful workbook, and a process to help you move through those sticky places where self-betrayal shows up. 👉 https://www.amberlydic.com/Betrayal_to_Breakthrough_Replay

In this episode, Amber and Shayleigh explore the layered world of human and horse communication, especially in the context of competitive riding. They unpack what’s really driving riders’ choices, often genuine care rather than control, and how that intention can get lost in translation. The conversation expands into the messiness of communication itself, including how personal beliefs shape the way we interpret text-based conversations. They also touch on the skepticism around animal communication and why choosing someone who aligns with your energy and expectations matters more than the method. “Perspectives” — join us as we dive into the value of different perspectives, questioning the validity of beliefs, viewpoints, and reviews. Plus, we share a fun quick recap about our trip with the mustangs of Salt River, AZ. Trailer loading video: https://www.amberlydic.com/trailer_trouble_live_feed_replay Betrayal Webinar: https://www.amberlydic.com/Betrayal_to_Breakthrough

In this episode, we dive into the deep (and sometimes surprising) connections between our mindset, health, and personal growth. Amber introduces her “Mirror in the Stall” program, a 14-step journey that explores self-connection and how our relationships—especially with horses—reflect back to us. We break down the P.A.U.S.E process and why personal perception plays such a huge role in our well-being. Shayleigh shares insights from her own health journey, exploring the connection between beliefs, mindset, and physical well-being through the lens of Germanic New Medicine. We unpack how unresolved emotional patterns can manifest in the body and why shifting our internal stories can create real change. This conversation is all about self-discovery, breaking old thought patterns, and stepping into a more connected, intentional way of living. Grab your coffee (or tea), get comfy, and let’s dive in! Click here for the pause workshop February 27th (recording available) https://www.amberlydic.com/offers/VV8vVFhB To join us on our Mustang Retreat please visit:  https://www.amberlydic.com/awakening-with-the-salt-river

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Today we talk with Natalia Graf, the CEO of a multimillion dollar equestrian brand, horse woman, advocate, and friend. Tune in as we talk about abundance, empowering other women, and the horses who uplift us! Natalia IG @nataliaornatascha Sync IG @syncequestrian Syncequestrian.com Sync-academy.com

Podcast Notes: In Honor of Nutmeg – National Squirrel Day Special   1. Disrespect & Releasing Responsibility:  • We discussed Mel Robbins’ “Let Them” theory, exploring how stepping back and allowing others to navigate their own experiences can be an act of respect rather than interference.  • How feeling like we’re helping someone might actually slow down the lessons they’re meant to learn.  2. Perspectives on Taking Power Back:  • A nuanced look at the phrase “taking power back” and why it resonates differently for people based on their individual experiences and perspectives.  3. Signs, Synchronicity, and Pivotal Moments:  • Shared experiences of moments that feel like déjà vu but are distinct—a deep knowing that a particular moment is pivotal in someone’s journey.  • How these moments often happen in helping professions or even casual conversations when deep connections are being made.  4. Manifesting Magic Workshop:  • Happening now! If you’re catching this in real time, it’s not too late to join. The live workshop is on January 29th, but you’ll receive access to a portal with resources before the live session, so there’s plenty of time to dive in.  • https://www.amberlydic.com/manifestingmagic2025  5. Upcoming Mustang Retreat – “Sitting with Salt River”:  • This retreat is scheduled for April, and it’s going to be a transformative experience.  https://www.amberlydic.com/awakening-with-the-salt-river  6. Membership Updates:  • Just completed our second Tea Talk in our membership!  • This exclusive series dives deep into specific topics; our first one on trailering is available to the public. https://www.amberlydic.com/pl/2148615466  This episode was a beautiful mix of honoring our mascot Nutmeg and diving into profound topics about connection, respect, and growth. Whether you’re joining us for the Manifesting Magic Workshop, the Mustang retreat, or just enjoying our membership, we’re so grateful to have you in this space with us.

New Year, New Magic In this special New Year’s episode, Shayleigh Evans and Amber Lydic come together to celebrate the start of 2025 with inspiring conversations about resolutions, manifestations, and the exciting plans ahead. We dive deep into the essence of manifesting—exploring how it’s less about asking and more about aligning your energy with your intentions. Why are you asking for what you want? How does understanding your “why” impact your ability to receive? Shayleigh and Amber unpack these powerful concepts to help you step into your most aligned year yet. We also share personal goals, expansion plans for 2025, and updates on our Manifesting Magic program. This $97 program has already created life-changing results for participants, with members still celebrating and sharing their successes from last year. Here’s the best part: members of our Shayleigh and Amber’s Teahouse get Manifesting Magic as a complimentary gift with their $33 monthly membership. Plus, Teahouse members enjoy exclusive benefits like early access to online and in person events, join live Tea Talks, Monthly live Q & A support calls, private Facebook group, meditation library and so much more. Tune in for an inspiring start to your year filled with manifestation tips, community updates, and a look into the magic we’re creating together in 2025! Free copy of  ➡️ TEA Talk: Horse Trailering ⬅️ For more information: • Manifesting Magic: amberlydic.com/manifestingmagic2025  Shayleigh and Amber’s Teahouse: https://www.amberlydic.com/membership  Please like, share and leave a review if you are enjoying the POD! It's so appreciated! 

Taglines, Tea Houses, and Tapping into Connection In this lively episode, Shayleigh Evans and Amber Lydic dive into an eclectic mix of topics—from brainstorming a new podcast tagline to fostering connection and compassion in the equine world (and beyond!). First up, they tackle the challenge of finding a tagline that truly captures the heart of the show’s evolving themes. (Spoiler alert: it’s harder than it sounds!) Along the way, they make a heartfelt plea for listeners to share their favorite episodes, spreading the love and connection even further. Next, the conversation takes a thoughtful turn as they explore the complexities of the racing industry’s treatment of horses. Shayleigh and Amber advocate for a balanced view—one that honors the resilience and achievements of these incredible animals while holding space for the need for healing and empathy. It’s all about creating a compassionate approach that doesn’t get bogged down in negativity. But the insights don’t stop at horses! They also delve into the emotional energy of all living beings, weaving in lessons learned from nurturing plants and connecting with the natural world. Who knew your fiddle-leaf fig could have so much to teach you? Finally, the duo shifts gears to discuss exciting updates for the podcast community. From a listener contest to a brand-new membership program (hello, tea house gatherings and retreats!), they’re laying the groundwork for a year filled with connection and growth. Whether you’re here for the soulful musings, practical insights, or just a good laugh, this episode has it all. What You’ll Learn: • How Shayleigh and Amber are reimagining the podcast tagline to reflect broader themes. • A nuanced take on empathy in the racing industry and animal care. • The surprising connections between plant care and emotional energy. • All the exciting updates coming to the podcast community in the year ahead! Don’t Miss: • Their playful banter about tagline fails. • Inspiring plans for workshops, retreats, and monthly tea house meetings. • Tips on creating space for compassion and connection in your own life. Links & Resources: www.amberlydic.com Got a tagline idea? Or maybe you just want to say hi? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, and don’t forget to tell a friend about the podcast. Together, we’re building a community where connection thrives.

Kara Daniels, founder of Deep Root Connections, helps people cultivate meaningful relationships with the Earth, animals, and their own spirits through an earth-based philosophy. Rooted in the belief that Earth, nature, and spirit are interconnected, Kara empowers individuals to connect deeply with themselves, their companions, and the natural world. Her mission is to blend ancient ways of communion with modern times, creating harmony between the physical and mystical. She also fosters a supportive community for shared learning and connection. Learn more at Deep Root Connections. https://www.deeprootconnections.com/about

Join Shayleigh and Amber as they dive into Shayleigh’s recent meditation bender and chat about a variety of other topics they can’t quite remember—whether it’s good or bad, you’ll have to decide! Plus, don’t miss the reminder that there are still online live feed and recording tickets available for the Art of Equine Alchemy event happening October 18-20, 2024 https://www.amberlydic.com/the-art-of-equine-alchemy-event If you like this episode, please share it and rate us on whatever app you are listening to!!

Join us for a thought provoking conversation with author Kelly Wendorf where we talk about her version of the great awakening through her experiences with indigenous peoples from around the world, empowering women, the powerful healing connections that horses bring us, and so much more!  https://www.equusinspired.com/

As per normal we are following the inspired action and the convo goes everywhere- BUT if you know us those are usually the best ones! The Art of Equine Alchemy Event info: Event Info and Tickets here Inner Vision Workshop: Online Workshop info here! ❤️Shamber

We are so thrilled to have had the opportunity to to chat with Equine Physiotherapist, Yasmin Stuart. This conversation is filled with food for thought about mind, body, and spirit. What lies beyond just fixing the body? Listen in to hear our thoughts!

Join us for our second episode of our limited series Straight From the Horses Mouth! This time we talk about transitions, transformation, releasing attachment, and the wisdom we receive from a young filly and the collective! Still 2 spots left for “Remember” a retreat in Aptos Ca: https://www.amberlydic.com/Remember Tickets for “The Art of Equine Alchemy” https://www.amberlydic.com/The-Art-of-Equine-Alchemy

Join us as we kick off our limited series of conversations with horses! In this episode we interview a mare who has some deeper lessons for her person, and also for the collective. Then of course, Shayleigh and Amber run away with the conversation and talk about the effects of education on our kids and our animals, pain in animals as it relates to emotions, and more! Join Tea House Membership: https://www.amberlydic.com/membership

Join us for a typical Shayleigh and Amber conversation where we bounce around from topics like sacred geometry, self-care, events we are hosting this summer, self-worth, and a bunch of other fun topics! https://www.amberlydic.com/Remember

Join us as we chat with Equine Scientist and Holistic Horsemanship guide as we dive into the nuances of horse language, energetics, how our emotions and energy affect our horses and more! Steffi is releasing a few offerings in May which can be found here: Find Steffi www.scienceforsoundness.com Book a private session: https://calendly.com/scienceforsoundness Membership: https://scienceforsoundness.thinkific...

The podcast explored various themes, starting with the significant impact of sunlight on mental health for both humans and animals, underscoring the challenges of living in areas with limited sunlight. Celeste Lazaris shared her personal journey of relocating from Washington to Oregon, highlighting feelings of stagnation in Washington and the positive changes in their well-being after the move. They also discussed overcoming health challenges like a broken leg and a blood clot, expressing gratitude for the supportive environment. The conversation then delved into personal growth, manifesting desires, and the importance of creating a safe and receptive environment in relationships, particularly in the human-horse dynamic. The participants emphasized the need to move away from traditional subservient training methods towards building relationships based on mutual understanding and respect. Insights were shared on equine communication, biomechanics in horse rehabilitation, and the evolving nature of the horse-human relationship. Celeste shared historical perspectives on horses' roles in society and the shifting dynamics in breeding and reliance. The speakers also touched on vulnerability, trust-building, and the value of difficult experiences in fostering personal growth and deeper connections. Overall, the podcast showcased a journey of personal evolution, resilience in overcoming challenges, and the transformative power of mindful relationships with oneself, others, and animals. Join Celeste Lazaris, Shayleigh Evans, Tara Davis, Amber Lydic & Katherine Lowry at are Elements of Connection Experience Applications close April 19th https://www.amberlydic.com/EOCSummer2024

Application for Elements of Connection Aptos Ca https://www.amberlydic.com/EOCSummer2024  1. Avocado and Solar Eclipse Discussion • Shayleigh and Amber reflect on their recent three-hour boundaries workshop, discussing the impact it had on them. They also share personal stories about avocados, likening them to relationships, and mention the ongoing solar eclipses happening on March 25th, 2024. 2. Spring, Nature, and Energetic Hygiene • Shayleigh and Amber share their observations about the arrival of spring, the influence of nature on energy, and the significance of maintaining energetic hygiene. They discuss the impact of being attuned to one’s body and surroundings, and the need to recognize and address shifts in energy levels for overall well-being. • Energy and fatigue 3. Discovery of Rocco’s Brother • Shayleigh and Amber excitedly share the story of how they stumbled upon a dog that looks exactly like Amber’s dog Rocco, only to find out that it is Rocco’s brother. Amber recounts the story of how she acquired Rocco and his brother, and they discuss the possibility of Rocco meeting his litter mate, Harvey. They speculate on Rocco’s potential reaction to meeting his brother and share their thoughts on Rocco’s personality. 4. Reuniting Family Members and Setting Boundaries • Shayleigh and Amber share their observations of Mustangs reuniting with family members and the different reactions they’ve witnessed. They also delve into the significance of setting boundaries, recounting personal experiences and discussing the impact of being willing to enforce boundaries. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and committing to boundaries to create a harmonious dynamic. • Reuniting with family members • Boundaries and their impact 5. Mercury Retrograde and Elements of Connection • Amber Lydic shares her excitement for the upcoming Mercury Retrograde and encourages others to stay productive and creative during this time. She also promotes the Elements of Connection event in Aptos, California, and invites applications for it, providing details about the dates and location. • Mercury Retrograde and its impact    

https://www.amberlydic.com/Barnboundaries - The meeting featured Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans introducing themselves and their backgrounds, highlighting their interest in discussing barn boundaries. - Amber emphasized themes of belonging, safety, and deservingness without needing to earn it, sharing personal stories about boundary struggles in relationships and the profound messages conveyed by animals. - Shayleigh shared experiences with negative mentors and lessons learned from horses about setting boundaries. - The speakers discussed the importance of understanding and setting boundaries for personal empowerment and relationship dynamics. - They emphasized respecting personal and equine boundaries, promoting self-awareness and open-heartedness, and drawing parallels between human and equine behavior. - The conversation also touched on understanding energy and emotional core wounds in human-horse interactions, advocating for a holistic approach to horse care. - Shayleigh elaborated on different core wounds horses may experience, highlighting how they mirror human emotions and behaviors and can improve communication and relationships with horses. - The meeting included practical exercises for participants to articulate boundaries and receive real-time feedback. - Despite internet connectivity issues, the speakers continued sharing valuable insights and engaging in discussions, creating a humorous moment that highlighted technology's impact on virtual meetings. If you are ready you join us for the DEEP DIVE on March 23rd you have until March 20th at midnight!

Click here to join the free conversation and community! The conversation, led by Amber Lydic and Shayleigh, focused on the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-respect. Rochelle Stanley, a medical intuitive, shared her journey from people-pleasing to establishing healthy boundaries. Discussions highlighted the emotional, psychological, and physical impact of boundary-setting, emphasizing the need for self-empowerment and addressing unexpressed emotions. Childhood conditioning and societal influences on boundary-setting were also explored, along with personal reflections and an invitation to a forthcoming video series on boundaries in a private Facebook group. Overall, the meeting provided a transformative space for participants to reflect on their experiences and the importance of boundary-setting in personal growth and relationships.

Click here to join the Barn Boundaries Conversation Exploring Boundaries and Childhood ConditioningIn this episode, we delve into the multifaceted topic of boundaries and their connection to childhood conditioning and how it has played a role in the horse industry. Our conversation begins by examining the profound impact that childhood experiences have on individuals' ability to establish and maintain boundaries throughout their lives. We explore how early conditioning shapes our understanding of boundaries and influences our relationships and interactions.The discussion highlights the importance of addressing boundaries from an early age to foster healthy development and relationships. We emphasize the need for parents, caregivers, and educators to support children in understanding and respecting personal boundaries.Our conversation sheds light on how societal labels and expectations can profoundly impact individuals' self-image and their ability to assert their boundaries. We stress the importance of acknowledging and respecting diverse experiences when it comes to navigating boundaries and identity.Towards the end of the meeting, we announce an upcoming free video series and live call on boundaries within a private Facebook group. We invite listeners to join the conversation and share their insights and experiences. Additionally, we touch on personal reflections shared during the meeting, highlighting the transformative power of therapy and self-reflection in navigating boundaries and personal growth.Join us as we navigate the complex terrain of boundaries, childhood conditioning, and personal growth, and discover how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships with yourselves, people around you and your horse of course!!*Key Points:*- Childhood conditioning profoundly impacts individuals' ability to set boundaries.- Early education on boundaries is crucial for healthy development and relationships.- Join our upcoming free video series and live call on boundaries in our private Facebook group.- Personal reflections underscore the transformative nature of therapy and self-reflection in navigating boundaries and personal growth.

The podcast episode delved into an open conversation about boundaries, aiming to invite people into a free-flowing dialogue. Amber and Shayleigh highlighted the importance of reclaiming personal power and embracing responsibility for choices and emotions. They encouraged the community to dive deeper into the topic, offering upcoming sessions and thought-provoking questions to spark introspection and understanding. Shayleigh vulnerably shared her experience of accidentally injuring her horse, Fern, during hoof trimming, expressing feelings of guilt and devastation. Drawing parallels, Amber connected the concept of the half halt in horse training to managing thoughts and emotions. They engaged in a profound discussion about the impact of boundaries and accountability on personal and professional lives, emphasizing the significance of self-respect in fostering a safe and successful environment. The meeting concluded with a reflection on the importance of respecting boundaries and space, using Biggie the horse as an example. Amber and Shayleigh stressed the necessity of mutual respect and understanding to cultivate a safe and balanced environment, drawing comparisons between human relationships and interactions with horses. They also previewed an upcoming Facebook group discussion and workshop on boundary implications in life, highlighting the free resources available to participants. Ending on a light note, they expressed the ongoing nature of the boundary conversation and the plethora of topics awaiting exploration in future episodes. You are invited to click the link below!! Join the Barn Boundaries Conversation!!

Shayleigh and Amber kick off the podcast by welcoming Denise Byron, an intuitive mentor, who shares her journey of nurturing intuitive gifts and establishing her unique practice. Denise highlights the significance of aligning mind, body, and spirit and introduces Sensuous Wisdom, her practice enabling women to access power, compassion, love, and wisdom. The conversation delves into finding resonant connections and the empowering role of free will and choice in healing. Denise Elizabeth Byron recounts her exploration of life force and sexual energy through a transformative class. She eventually becomes a teacher of the tantric dance of the sacred feminine, culminating in the founding of Sensuous Wisdom. This embodiment practice involves movement, breath, and a deep connection with the divine feminine and the senses. Shayleigh shares her personal journey towards self-acceptance, and Denise contributes by discussing her experiences with motherhood and the unique perspective of past lives. Denise and Shayleigh explore the importance of balancing feminine and masculine energies, emphasizing the individualized nature of this equilibrium. They touch upon the cultural suppression of femininity and the necessity of personal balance. Amber and Denise discuss receptivity and vulnerability as crucial components in trauma healing, highlighting the need for safe environments and the challenges associated with self-worth and protection. Denise also introduces her belief in reincarnation beyond Earth and the profound challenges of life on our planet. Amber and Denise reflect on their personal growth journeys, emphasizing the struggles of embracing authenticity and conquering fear. They discuss the vital role of intuition and values in relationships and the radical nature of authentic expression in a world sometimes hostile to uniqueness. Denise expresses her admiration for Amber's courage and authenticity, offering a vision of empowerment and self-discovery grounded in bodily wisdom and intuition. They also touch on the transformative potential of Pluto's movement into Aquarius and its collective impact.

In this episode, Shayleigh and Amber candidly share their profound experiences with plant medicine, delving into how these journeys transformed their perspectives on life and deepened their connections with their horses. They explore the interconnectedness of existence and the insights gained into relationships, touching on the complexities of perception and free will within them. The conversation extends to the emotional terrain of personal growth and the weight of responsibility towards animals, drawing parallels between shedding old beliefs and the transformative nature of life and death. They emphasize the importance of self-discovery and the role of mentors in empowering individuals to harness their own healing abilities. **Chapters & Topics:** 1. **Personal Experiences with Plant Medicine:** Shayleigh and Amber recount their individual journeys with plant medicine, highlighting its profound impact on consciousness and perception, especially in their relationships with their horses. 2. **Insights from a Transformative Experience:** Reflecting on a transformative experience, Shayleigh underscores the importance of affirming desires and confronting fears, leading to a deeper understanding of life's vastness and loss. 3. **Discussion on Free Will and Decision Making:** Delving into the complexities of free will in relationships, they explore the dynamics of asking someone to stay despite their freedom to leave, drawing parallels between human and animal behavior. 4. **Reflections on Emotional Growth and Loss:** Shayleigh shares her insights on mourning the emotional aspects of personal growth, paralleling it to a death, while Amber relates this to the responsibility felt towards animals and the lessons they bring. 5. **Exploring Free Will and Healing Work:** Shayleigh emphasizes the importance of individuals asking their own questions in healing sessions and integrating their own medicine, sharing her journey of expanding her capacity for miracles. 6. **Discussion on Physical and Energetic Healing:** Amber discusses her health challenges and highlights the significance of addressing both physical and energetic aspects of healing, while Shayleigh expresses interest in exploring the link between emotions and physical health. 7. **Exploring Instant Healing and Resistance:** Shayleigh discusses her resistance towards instant healing, prompting a conversation about skepticism and setting boundaries to prevent energy drainage. 8. **Membership Benefits and Upcoming Events:** Shayleigh and Amber showcase the advantages of joining their membership, including early access to events and offerings, along with introducing the Barn Boundaries program aimed at practicing boundaries in various life domains. Membership details ⬇️ https://www.amberlydic.com/membership Barn Boundaries wait list ⬇️ https://www.amberlydic.com/barn-boundaries

In this podcast episode, the hosts engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with some of the authors of "Unlocking the Wisdom of Horses Within You." Lina PettersdotterDanielle ScepanovicMelanie EbersoleNica QuinnElsie Redford Some of the  authors shared their profound personal journeys with horses, revealing how these majestic animals acted as catalysts for unlocking deep truths within themselves. One of the central themes explored was the significance of vulnerability and authenticity in storytelling. The authors passionately articulated how these qualities can bridge the gap of human isolation, offering solace in the shared human experience. The group emphasized the power of authenticity in nurturing connections and kindling empathy among people. The podcast delved into the authors' individual experiences with their equine companions, recounting how these animals provided invaluable support during challenging times. The concept of the universe sending signs, often interpreted as messages from loved ones, was a captivating topic of discussion. The conversation underscored the profound emotional bonds that humans can forge with their animals and stressed the importance of cherishing these relationships. The group shared heartwarming anecdotes about the transformative impact of their book, both on themselves and others. They also tackled the idea of recognizing horses as unique individuals on their own journeys, emphasizing the responsibility of humans to respect ethical boundaries and not objectify these majestic creatures as mere mirrors or tools for personal growth. In essence, the podcast emphasized the immense value of vulnerability and authenticity in fostering connections and empathy. The authors' personal narratives illustrated how horses can serve as guides to self-discovery. The responsibility of acknowledging horses as distinct beings and respecting ethical boundaries was highlighted. Additionally, the podcast explored the potency of storytelling and the profound influence of a book in connecting with others. Click here to Learn more about Shayleigh & Amber’s Tea House the monthly membership.

In this thought-provoking podcast, the Amber and Shayleigh base their conversation of off a Tea House members herd being intern  delve into retirement, self-care, and horse care. They emphasize the importance of self-reflection, mindfulness, and the impact of self-sacrificing beliefs in the context of caring for horses. The conversation explores the dynamics between horse and owner, touching on the willingness of horses to please at their own expense and urging a deeper examination.  *Chapters & Topics:*  1. *Redefining Retirement and Caretaking Horses* - Amber and Shayleigh challenge traditional notions of retirement, advocating for living life to the fullest at any age. - Discussion on the responsibility of animal caretakers and the need for self-reflection. 2. *Nurturing Personal Well-being* - Shayleigh reflects on personal well-being, sharing a Theta Healing experience and emphasizing the importance of self-care. 3. *Self-Care and Boundaries in Horse Care* - Exploration of horse owners prioritizing their needs over their horses', discussing self-sacrifice and the impact of mothering energy. 4. *Perspectives on Blanketing Horses* - Insights on horses' preferences for blanketing, respecting choices and instincts. - Amber's decision to stop blanketing her horses and unique behaviors during rainy weather. 5. *Lessons from Animal Communication* - Amber reflects on experiences with animals, emphasizing acceptance and understanding of their independent nature. - Shayleigh discusses ethical considerations of rehoming animals and the importance of living in the present moment. 6. *Roxy's Background and Training* - In-depth account of Roxy's history as a lesson horse, trained to FEI pony level in dressage. - Roxy's role as a schoolmaster for Elsie and Lucy rather than part of a formal lesson program. 7. *Insights on Retirement and Redefining Purpose* - Delving into retirement for horses, emphasizing the value of lessons and growth from older or retired horses. - Stressing careful consideration and avoiding assumptions when retiring horses. 8. *Lessons Learned from Horse Care* - Elsie discusses transitioning horses to a more natural lifestyle. - Shayleigh emphasizes recognizing individual preferences and needs in horses. 9. *Personal Growth and Accountability* - Stephanie's struggle to connect with Sonny on a deeper level. - Discussion on accountability partners and unique dynamics in relationships with horses. 10. *Insights on Vision and Acceptance* - Shayleigh's personal vision journey and its connection to accepting others without judgment. - Practice of acceptance in daily activities, such as walking dogs. 11. *Reflections on Personal Growth and Awareness* - Insights on personal growth, self-awareness, and accepting others without judgment. - Encouragement to celebrate moments of realization and embrace the continuous learning process. 12. *Discussion on Horses and Their Messages* - Insights on the messages conveyed by horses, understanding their needs and energy. - Discussion on the guilt associated with rehoming animals and the importance of being present in the current moment. Click here to Learn more about Shayleigh & Amber’s Tea House the monthly membership.

Shayleigh and Amber kick off the podcast by introducing Rochelle Stanley, a medical intuitive, and delve into her transformative journey towards becoming a healer. Rochelle's initial resistance to this path and her eventual embrace of it are explored, highlighting her study of Theta healing and her evolution into a medical intuitive. The conversation also touches on the role of past lives in the healing process and the profound impact of raising conscious and aware children. **Insights on Medical Intuitiveness and Animal Communication ** Rochelle Stanley shares her expertise on medical intuitiveness and her unique ability to communicate with animals. She explains how she utilizes her intuitive gifts to identify health issues in both humans and animals, viewing the body as a spectrum of light with distinct colors. Rochelle emphasizes the importance of respecting individuals' free will and practicing patience as they navigate their own paths, offering guidance like breadcrumbs towards their desired outcomes. Additionally, she delves into the profound connection between emotions and the physical body, shedding light on how belief systems shape our lived experiences. **Exploring Emotional Attachments to Pets ** The group delves into the deep emotional bonds people share with their pets and the potential overwhelm it can bring. They discuss the weight of taking on excessive responsibility and the pressure it places on individuals to provide the "right" answers, often leading to a shutdown of psychic senses. The importance of maintaining curiosity about emotions and not succumbing to overwhelm is also explored. **Personal Experiences and Emotional Management ** The conversation takes a personal turn as the group shares their own experiences with pets and how they've learned to navigate their emotions in challenging situations. They also delve into the various services and courses offered by Rochelle for those interested in exploring her work further. Tune in to this enlightening episode as Rochelle Stanley and the hosts explore the realms of medical intuitiveness, animal communication, emotional connections, and self-discovery. To learn more about Rochelle please visit : https://www.rochellestanley.com/courses-list Click here to Learn more about Shayleigh & Amber’s Tea House the monthly membership.

In this podcast episode, a diverse array of topics took center stage. Shayleigh shared the story of her chicken's health woes, linking it to a sense of unappreciationThe discomfort and disbelief expressed by Amber set the stage for Shayleigh's promise to provide an update on the chicken's situation in the next episode. The conversation seamlessly transitioned into exploring inflammatory responses in the body, reframing them as a natural healing process. Emphasizing gratitude during discomfort and illness, they underscored the importance of thanking the body for its wellness even before recovery. Manifestation became a focal point, with Amber advocating for shedding old belief systems to make room for new experiences. Shayleigh echoed this sentiment, stressing the continual need for awareness and gratitude for the body's wellness, not just during illness but also in times of well-being. Conscious communication took the spotlight, emphasizing the elimination of filler words and speaking with intention. They candidly shared experiences and challenges in refining their speech, recognizing the impact of manifesting energy at the year's outset on setting the tone for upcoming episodes. The unique dynamics between humans and cats were also explored, shedding light on the complexities of coexisting with these enigmatic creatures. Personal stories about feral cats highlighted the challenges of domestication, the influence of naming and attachment, and the emotional intricacies of forming connections with these animals. The discussion provided a nuanced exploration of the intricate relationships between humans and cats. Sign up with this link for manifesting magic for Monday night at midnight to use the coupon codeMANIFESTINGMAGIC Manifesting Magic in 2024 Click here to Learn more about Shayleigh & Amber’s Tea House the monthly membership.

In this podcast episode, Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans explore various aspects of personal growth and development. They touch on upcoming events like Amber's Winter Wisdom Journey and the Magic Adventure, discussing the importance of breaking limiting beliefs for successful manifestation. The duo shares personal stories, including Amber's horse anxiety struggles and Shayleigh's shift from an animal communicator label to Mystic and Life Coach. T hey cover their successful partnership, future plans, and even discuss a unique product called the Vibes Up Squishy. Chapters include Manifestation and Belief Systems, Program and Event Updates, Vibes Up Squishy, Life Updates and Labels, Trailer Troubles, Overcoming Belief Systems and Co-Creation, End of Year Reflections and Future Plans, and Discussing Boundaries and Clearing Negative Energy. Manifesting Magic progam ⬇️ https://www.amberlydic.com/manifestingmagicin2024 Link for VIP (Very Intentional Person)Club starting February:⬇️ https://www.amberlydic.com/vip-application Winter Wisdom Journeylink: ⬇️ https://www.amberlydic.com/offers/H36FpRCz 1. *Manifestation and Belief Systems:* Emphasizing the importance of recognizing and clearing limiting beliefs for successful manifestation. 2. *Program and Event Updates:* Updates on VIP membership, tea tour, inner vision workshop, 21-day vision quest, and the Elements of Connection horse workshop. 3. *Vibes Up Squishy:* Exploring a product that raises vibrations, shared stories of its benefits, and a recommendation to include a link in meeting notes. 4. *Life Updates and Labels:* Sharing personal stories, including Shayleigh's donkey Clyde, changing labels to Mystic and Life Coach, and Amber's manifestation of a horse trailer. 5. *Trailer Troubles:* Discussing Amber's experience with her horse's trailer anxiety, trying different trailers, and finding a suitable solution. 6. *Overcoming Belief Systems and Co-Creation:* Amber's journey in manifesting a trailer, trusting co-creation, and learning to receive support without feeling inadequate. 7. *End of Year Reflections and Future Plans:* Reflecting on their successful partnership, overcoming commitment issues, planning a live tour, and expressing gratitude to supporters. 8. *Discussing Boundaries and Clearing Negative Energy:* Delving into a client's struggle with boundaries and negative energy, describing a session's resolution, and emphasizing the importance of taking action. This episode covers a wide array of topics, providing valuable insights into personal growth, manifestation, and the dynamic partnership between Amber Lydic and Shayleigh Evans Click here to Learn more about Shayleigh & Amber’s Tea House the monthly membership.