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That Based Dating Podcast
by Brittanie Pope
A show where your favorite former boss babe feminist deconstructs and reconstructs the meaning of life, relationships, male/female dynamics and politics.
Episodes
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Can Astrology be Based?
This week on the podcast, we're diving into the zodiac and asking: why are so many of your dating app matches into astrology? Is there more to it than sun signs and memes? Where did this fascination start—and does it really have a place in modern dating? Is it at odds with Christian morals? Our...
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Unhinged + Bumbling around
Dating apps don't have to feel like an endless scroll of awkward bios and bad selfies. In this episode, we're talking all about how to create a Hinge or Bumble profile that actually feels like you—and draws in the kind of energy (and people) you're really looking for. We'll walk through photo…
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Porn starves connection
Porn Starves Connection In this episode, we confront a cultural elephant in the room: pornography. "Porn Starves Connection" dives deep into how porn consumption can erode authentic relationships, numb emotional intimacy, and rewire the brain's reward systems. We explore the science behind…
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Stop FAILING at dating apps
In this episode, Brittanie of that based babe dives into the biggest mistakes people make on dating apps—and how to give yourself a no BS good profile. Are you concealing too much or overselling yourself? We break down why finding the right balance is key. Plus, we discuss how many people forget...
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Marrying a Trophy Wife w/ The Patriot Barbie
On this episode, Brittanie sits down with Lindsey, the Patriot Barbie for a no-nonsense chat about love, liberty, and second chances. They dive into why premarital counseling is the ultimate relationship check-in, how picking a woman of character over a pretty face saves you from a lifetime of...
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That Based Fiancé
As a break from dating content, our host Brittanie, sits down with her fiancé Chris to spill all the details on how they first met. From the first spark (that took time to get) to the moment they knew it was real, they're giving you the unfiltered story—complete with laughs, surprises, and maybe...
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So you're in the "friend-zone" huh?
Welcome back to the podcast that breaks down the harsh truths about modern dating from a no-nonsense, based perspective. If you've ever found yourself stuck as the "nice guy" while she chases after someone else, this is the show for you. We dive deep into why men (and rarely women too!) end up in...
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That Based Dating Hot Takes
In this explosive episode, we dive deep into the world of Britt's spicy dating beliefs, breaking down the harsh truths, uncomfortable realities, and controversial hot takes shaping modern relationships. Are traditional gender roles making a comeback? Is dating truly a rigged game? And is the red...
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11 RFK Jr gives a speech + we forget about Harris and Trump giving theirs
Today's show provides a recap of the leading candidates in the upcoming election, including independent RFK Je. We are highlighting their speeches and latest campaign developments, focusing on the significant news of Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s recent endorsement. We examine how it could shift the...
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10 Walz This Way, Unburdened by Bears That Have Been + Evolving Masculinity
On today's podcast, Chris and Brittanie deep dive into a variety of timely current event topics. The episode begins with a quick analysis of Kamala Harris's vice-presidential pick, Tim Walz (who they've never heard mentioned before this week) and exploring the political impact on the current...
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09 Biden's probably dead + Secret Service Conspiracies
On this episode, Chris offers a bold prediction about President Biden's untimely departure from this world - even though the powers that be seem to be concealing some bomb shell information on that front. He and Brittanie discuss a recent secret service gaffe that has everyone talking about the...
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08 The Anti War Deep Dive + Chris' Crush on Tulsi
In this episode, we dive into Chris and Brittanie's evolving feelings about war and how their experiences led them to become passionate anti-war voices. Through their stories, we'll see how real-life events can change beliefs and perspectives. Whether They chat about history, peace movements, the...
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07 Trump got Shot + Navigating Modern Dating
In our latest episode, we tackle the shocking news of Donald Trump being shot. We share our immediate reactions and those we we've seen from political leaders, media outlets, and the general public. Transitioning from the heavy topic of political violence, we shift gears to a more personal and...
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06 Biden's Declining Health: The State of the Presidential Nomination
Biden's Declining Health: The State of the Presidential Nomination On this episode, we get into the recent medical emergency surrounding President Joe Biden. With mounting concerns about his health and questions about his cognitive state, and let's be honest - there's no more questions as to if...
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05 Debate Breakdown (including RFK Jr!)
New Season!! Episode 2 – Breaking Down the Debate In this episode, Chris and Brittanie get into the latest presidential debate, dissecting key moments, senile performances, and not-so-surprising frustrations. They also spotlight independent candidate Robert F. Kennedy Jr., exploring why he's...
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04 The Covid Regime + Chris Joins the Pod!
Help me welcome my favorite man and most of all my beloved Chris to the podcast! We get to hear about his candid account of Covid on this episode plus we explore the emotional and psychological impacts of facing a "global pandemic" in isolation, miles away from family and friends after a break…
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03 Masculinity with Peter and John Pt 1
On this episode we deep dive into what it means to be a masculine man and how that has changes in the past few decades -- and how it differs between the United States and abroad. Check out Peter's Podcast Conservatish on Apple Podcasts Find him on IG Peter_Feliciano
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01 Dating Woes
Join us on the topic of dating, male female relationships, and health masculine and feminine living!
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044 Safisfizers and Maximizers
Often in life, we are challenged to avoid making mistakes, to not own up to our mistakes if we make them, and certainly we lean on our reputation for forgiveness in the unavoidable wake of being mistaken. It seems like the crushing weight of not choosing the right partner, early on, weighs heavy…
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043 Masculinity Overload
Relationship dynamics in the 21st-century are difficult to navigate. While fragile and soy-fed men and women continue to fill up the dating pool until it reeks of toxic waste, many humans are still trying to sort through what to expect from their counterparts. On today's show I talk about the...
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042 Barbie in Review
On today's show I address the plotless dystopian movie Barbie that I unfortunately paid to see. While assuming the film would be a nostalgic and probably left leaning film about pink and feminism- I was quickly surprised to find no plot line and a lot of misandrist mocking of men and…
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041 Almost Christian
On today's show, I discuss my history growing up in a Baptist church, and how that molded my religious views. While my intellectual knowledge of Christian theology is not some thing I happily ditch, I also can't claim to be someone who wants to label "Christian". I have developed virtue, not by...
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040 Rejection is Redirection
On today's show I explain my feelings around "losing" relationships and how it has always looked like providence in hindsight. Like many of us, I have felt the incredible stress that comes with feeling rejected - that deep abandonment wound that pops back up from childhood or losing a partner…
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039 Thief of Joy
On today's show, I explore how comparison, even to our hopes and dreams or fears can steal the joy of being. Whether it's being in a relationship with an ideal, instead of the person in front of us, or it's longing to feel like an upgrade from someone's ex - it's easy to get lost in comparison.…
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038 Misogyny
On today's show, I confront facts and misinformation surrounding the word misogyny. While this word was once used only to denigrate the worst of opinions held against women - it is now a catch all term that includes an attack on behaviors that just a few decades back were considered highly…
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037 Gold Digger, The Misnomer
I'm going straight for the jugular on today's show - while I look at the term "gold digger" and where it gets a basis. Are beautiful women really looking for a luxurious lifestyle? While many men look at the highest status guys and think they are attracting "gold diggers" (and that may be the…
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036 V is for Voluntary
I've finally made a political episode- vaguely! Ha! On today's show, I explain the evolution of my beliefs. While I started as a very conservative Republican, I found my way to all out communism for a couple weeks, and then the rubber band went back to normal, and I found liberty amongst the...
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035 Self Medicating
On this episode, I chat about my feelings around self medicating -- a vague but necessary subject. Each of us knows what our unhealthiest self turns to and it becomes bad for us when we confuse the self medicating to be self serving. Regardless if it's porn, alcohol, cigarettes, cannabis, social...
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034 Skeptical Government Skeptic
Happy Memorial Day - and we've got a doozy of an episode where I unravel my inherent skepticism of even my own world view! While, I've been a proud Anarchist/Voluntaryist for a while, I've run into a lot of folks who seem to miss the importance of respecting individuals and not institutions. That...
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033 Female Friendships
Dedicated to my own Best Friend Today's episode is a reminder to all women how important it is to have female friendships. Not only is it more satisfying to live each day full of feminine energy, love, and folks who truly relate to your lived experience -- it is an essential practice to being in...
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032 Maturity Gaps
On today's show I attempt to flesh through the problem with dating very young, barely legal women. My target age group is 18-20 but I suppose those are not firm numbers and there are definite exceptions to my rule. However, as a group- I feel It is best that men in their thirties avoid taking the...
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031 Attention as Currency
On this episode, I address a common misconception among folks in the "red pill" community. While evolutionary biology does dictate so much of male and female behavior the generalization that only women see attention as currency is a pretty big miss. On the whole, all humans need attention and all...
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030 The Cost of "NO"
On today's show, I cover a topic that's one of the most important to date. The power of saying yes, to opportunity, and the cost of saying no to growth. Many of us wrestle with feelings of inadequacy and lack. Often that lack creates a cycle in which we box ourselves out of new opportunities. As...
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029 Internet Personas
On today's show, I discussed the importance of not to miss categorizing, or miss characterizing someone based on their Internet persona. While it's fun to get to know someone on the Internet that you would never have the chance to meet in real life, we all have to be careful not to confuse that...
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028 The Origin Story
On today's show I make it weird for folks who don't know me, since my back story is a wild one. I've decided to share it with as much transparency as feasible for a twenty minute show. We start at my family history, describe the abuse and poverty that gripped my past, and work forward into my…
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027 Yoga
On today's show I discuss the deep spiritual impact yoga has had since approaching it is a holistic wellness practice. While functional movement and exercise have always been on my radar, the deep meditative practice of yoga is new to my life post marriage. Connecting to God in this new way and…
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026 Feminine and Soft
On today's show I explore what is meant by some of the language around attraction. This subject has felt elusive to me for many years, but I've been looking inward at what sides of me are "feminine and soft" and what parts have generated the most attraction. While many women project their own…
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025 Male vs Female Abuse
On this episode, I bring my best friend on the pod to discuss a topic we both have experience in to varying degrees. Abuse is a huge problem in relationships, according to self reporting and vital statistics, but it is scary to think that people may not truly understand when they are abusing just...
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024 Internet Clout
Welcome back to the show! On today's episode I discuss the problems I've faced recently around my "public presence" and how I've chosen to deal with folks who criticize me. Whether it's in real life, or it's on the Internet, it's always best to take anything. Someone is saying with a grain of…
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023 Courage to Belong
On this episode, I discuss the amount of courage it takes to be open about your desire for love and belonging. While many folks get stuck in same cycle as I was stuck in for much of my life - being afraid to let go of what's not serving you and attaching out of scarcity or lacking the…
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022 Conservative Again?
On today's show, we go back through the annals of my political disposition. While my initial politics and social preferences were conservative to please my conservative Christian family, I quickly gained a tremendous amount of respect for the liberal views held by my public school teachers. After...
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020 Boss Babe Dropout
In a world where women can do everything that men can do, I decided to explore whether they should... While I have always considered myself to be an egalitarian feminist- I believe that women should have all of the same rights under the law that men do - I can't help but wonder how our western...
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019 Gut Health and Healing
On today's episode I talk about why many of us did not get the best start for optimal gut health and how gut health can still be accomplished. While many folks turn to fad diets, juicing, smoothies, pills, and wraps-- it's important to see how health can be achieved through knowledge and…
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018 What is a Good Woman?
Despite my longing for a good man and my recent break up- I've often found myself wanting. Where men know what a good woman is intuitively- many women are not set up with proper expectations for themselves. On today's episode I dive into what the Internet, the Bible, and my anecdotal experiences...
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017 Break-ups and Wisdom
Break-ups are hard and on today's show I tell you the inner workings of my most recent break ups. There is always wisdom to gain and rejection is certainly redirection. Being a human is messy and it is worse if we refuse to take accountability for the things we mess up or overlook. I hope you...
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016 Do Women Know what They Want?
The age old question - Do women know what they want? Can you ask a woman for a rubric on how to woo her and then follow it like a law book? The rules of attraction are complicated and there is stiff competition to win in the sexual and mating marketplace. So - what do we want? The answer is…
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014 Growing into Present Awareness
On today's episode we talk about what it means to be truly present. Although many of us think we are alive and living our lives in our bodies- it is harder than we think to not disassociate and live internally. While our minds are always trying to guide us inside for criticism and introspection…
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013 Gun violence and Extreme ideologies
On today's episode I discuss the devastating news out of Nashville and try to make sense of what's causing such tragedies to occur. While both sides of the political spectrum claim "not it" in terms of personal responsibility- it seems the most reasonable answer to this is connection and fixing…
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012 Fertility Awareness
On today's episode, we get a nitty-gritty on a subject that really pertains to the experience of a woman who is in her fertile phase of life. Fertility awareness, method, and the overall return to more natural family planning solutions is a big passion of mine! I want to see more women become…
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