The Annoyed Adult

In this episode, Howard Kam tackles three burning questions that perfectly capture the chaos of modern adolescence and adulthood. First, he goes off on why saying “excuse me” and “thank you” has somehow become advanced-level etiquette, and why parents need to stop acting shocked when their manners-less kids behave exactly like them. Then he dives into the age-old bathroom-hotbox crisis in high schools—why it’s not new, why it’s not most kids, and why addiction and escapism deserve more than finger-wagging. Finally, Howard unloads on Amazon Prime and the cult-like devotion to two-day shipping that drains wallets, feeds impulse buying, and fills closets with crap nobody needs. Sarcastic, brutally honest, and filled with tough love, this episode is a three-round rant for anyone trying to navigate kids, classrooms, and consumerism without losing their last shred of sanity.

This episode swings through three real-life panic buttons: a high school senior terrified they’re not cut out to be an English teacher, a teacher in November already mentally on fire and ready to throw a desk, and an adult trying to figure out how the hell you actually build new friendships after ditching the toxic circus. We dig into whether teaching is actually worth it or if it’s just masochism with a retirement plan, why classroom management collapses when you’re running on fumes, and why the “boring” quiet of healthy friendships feels uncomfortable at first because chaos was your comfort food. It’s blunt, it’s messy, and it’s the kind of honesty you don’t get in faculty PD — because faculty PD would absolutely have a meltdown if you said any of this out loud.

A short episode where a student gives a nonsense "I can't study" response. Here is what I did.

In this episode of The Annoyed Adult, Howard tackles three burning (and sometimes stinky) questions. First, should you warn parents your kid is in your class, or just teach like a pro and let them figure it out? Then, the absolute insanity of a principal banning staff from taking a dump in the office bathroom—yes, really. Finally, a young adult wants to escape Dad’s full-blown NSA-level phone tracking. Spoiler: if it’s free, your privacy isn’t.

In this episode of The Annoyed Adult, we’re serving up a triple-decker sandwich of hard truths: first, a 20-year-old wants to get married without ever having paid a utility bill—adorable. Then, a listener's friend with a drug habit comes asking for two grand like it’s a GoFundMe for bad choices. And finally, a high school senior with ADHD and undiagnosed dyslexia asks for actual help—and blows half the adult population out of the water with their self-awareness.It’s marriage, addiction, and neurodivergence—served hot, no sugar, no BS.

In this episode of The Annoyed Adult Podcast, Howard Kam dives headfirst into the hormonal hot tub of teenage glow-ups, attention span genocide, and emotionally intelligent parenting (without turning into a Hallmark card). From a former fat kid turned Greek god trying to decode hot girl intentions, to students whose brains have been rewired by Minecraft parkour clips, to a dad trying to support his maybe-gay son without triggering an emotional SWAT response—this one’s got it all. Buckle up. Shit’s relatable.

In this unfiltered episode of The Annoyed Adult, Howard Kam rips into three modern disasters: first, the delusional parents turning childhood into a performance review with back-to-back extracurriculars like they’re raising a LinkedIn influencer. Next up, it’s open season on pseudoscience — healing crystals, magnetic wristbands, aura cleanses, and all the overpriced snake oil you slap on your body because some wellness influencer with a "blocked root chakra" said it vibes with your energy.And finally, we get real about the woman engaged to a grown man who gets blackout drunk and pisses on the floor. You’re not being dramatic — you’re being the only sane person in the room. If he can’t aim, he shouldn’t be picking out wedding rings.

In this episode, we tackle five real-life dilemmas with zero sugarcoating and a heavy dose of tough love. From refusing to fund a friend’s sketchy coffee startup to dealing with an unmotivated, Roblox-addicted 20-year-old nephew, we explore where personal responsibility, boundaries, and blunt honesty collide. We also unpack why strangers might give you the stink eye (hint: it's probably not hygiene), how to break out of a rut when life feels stagnant, and end with a fiery rant on the ridiculous resurgence of flat Earth beliefs.

Ever feel like you're surrounded by absurdities and just want to scream? Welcome to "The Annoyed Adult," the podcast that fearlessly tackles life's most frustrating dilemmas. Join your host, Howard Kim, as he dishes out no-holds-barred opinions on everything from incompetent parenting and the necessity of homework to navigating family drama and moving on from past relationships. If you're looking for raw, honest takes and a healthy dose of tough love, then buckle up—because it's time to get annoyed, and maybe even a little enlightened.

Your favorite teacher podcast is officially back after a brief (and eventful!) hiatus! In this June 2025 Q&A, we're tackling real-world teacher problems submitted by you. Get ready for a frank discussion on those "niche" issues like battling a noisy weightlifting class above you and the baffling inefficiency of old-school prom payments. We also dive into handling spousal jealousy over summer break, the shocking reality of 7th graders struggling with basic math, and how to stay active when "couch rot" threatens your summer. Plus, a pep talk for aspiring teachers worried about job hunting!

Life's a buffet, but which side are you on? Indulge in the chocolate fountain of pleasure or embrace the stoic bowl of self-discipline? Join us as we explore the age-old philosophies of hedonism and stoicism, dissecting their modern-day relevance and helping you find the perfect balance in your life. Expect laughs, insights, and maybe even a philosophical crisis or two.

Why do parents disrespect teachers? What is currently being done about it? What does Howard Kam do in his classroom that's different?

In this episode students talk trash about other students and teachers!

Thanks to the Kiana and Chance for allowing me to be on your podcast 2 Girls, 1 Boy. You can find their show here https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/2-girls-1-boy. We're talking parenting styles from different generations.

In this episode host Howard Kam explores the stark contrasts between affluent and rundown neighborhoods, analyzing the impact of resources, education, and social structures on community well-being. He delves into the concept of the "youth bulge," where a large population of young people in struggling areas contributes to social issues like crime and gang violence. Howard also stresses the importance of education, financial management, and the value of various educational paths, sharing personal anecdotes and observations from his teaching experience. Join Howard as he unpacks the complexities of community dynamics and offers insights into building a better future.

Entitled student that blames everyone else for his problems and a kid that blocks the gym equipment.

Howard and Taylor discuss the differences between Korea, Japan, and the U.S. education system. Along the way we talk shit about other people.

Ever wonder why teens insist on wearing sweaters in the blazing sun? Us too! In this hilariously bewildered episode of The Annoyed Adult, we dive into the perplexing world of teenage fashion choices. Join us as we sweat it out trying to understand the logic behind this trend. But that’s not all! We’ll also tackle the daily nightmare of traffic jams – because nothing says "fun" like being stuck in a car for hours on end, right? Speaking of being stuck, have you heard about elevated rail? It’s the supposed solution to our commuting woes, but is it really the magic bullet we’ve been promised? Spoiler alert: maybe not. And just when you thought we couldn’t get any more annoyed, we’ll vent our frustrations about planned obsolescence. Why does our tech seem to age faster than a carton of milk? From phones that die right after the warranty expires to gadgets that give up the ghost when you need them most, we’ve got a bone to pick with the tech industry. So grab your favorite summer sweater, hop on the traffic train, and prepare to laugh (and maybe cry a little) as we navigate the hilarity and headaches of modern life. This episode promises to be a wild ride – and hopefully, you won't need to replace your podcast app halfway through!

In this bittersweet episode, The Annoyed Adult sits down with some of his amazing graduating seniors, the very same group he's guided for the past four years. We'll reminisce about favorite memories from freshman year jitters to senior year triumphs. We'll hear from students about their lives and their plans for the future. Laughter, maybe a few tears, and a whole lot of heart will fill this episode as we celebrate the incredible journey of the Class of 2024.

Grab a drink (and maybe some earplugs for the easily offended) and pull up a chair as Howard Kam and his crew gather around the table. This week, it's a free-for-all as they unleash a barrage of off-color jokes, relive the horrors of bad high school presentations, dissect the wild world of esports, and dive deep into some questionable human behaviors. Be warned: this episode is raw, uncensored, and guaranteed to have you laughing 'til you snort (or cringe, depending on your sensibilities). Buckle up for some unfiltered fun with The Annoyed Adult

In this eye-opening episode of "The Annoyed Adult," host Howard Kam delves into the contentious topic of tipping culture in America and its alarming parallels to modern-day wage slavery. From its origins in feudal Europe to its prevalence in post-Civil War America, tipping has evolved into a customary practice that perpetuates inequality and exploitation within the service industry. Drawing on research from experts such as Saru Jayaraman and the Economic Policy Institute, Howard Kam explores how tipping became a means for employers to evade fair wages, particularly for marginalized groups such as recently freed slaves. Despite strides in labor rights, tipped workers continue to face disproportionately high rates of poverty and instability due to low base wages and income variability. Through compelling analysis and thought-provoking insights, this episode sheds light on the systemic injustices embedded within tipping culture and the urgent need for reform. Howard Kam emphasizes the importance of education, awareness, and advocacy in challenging the status quo and building a more equitable society where all workers are treated with dignity and respect. Tune in to "The Annoyed Adult" as we unpack the complexities of tipping culture and explore pathways towards meaningful change.

In this episode I cover questions of "Is being a substitute worth it?", "How do I remember all the kids names", "Do teachers do anything about self-harm scars?", "School wide discipline", "Burnout", and "Are other professionals as emotionally involved as teachers?"

Have you ever wondered what goes through a high school teacher's mind? Well, hold on tight because Howard Kam, the tell-it-like-it-is educator, dives headfirst into student and teacher dilemmas straight from Reddit! This is part one of an unfiltered, thought-provoking journey where Howard tackles real questions about homework struggles, classroom dynamics, and everything in between. Be prepared for his signature brand of brutal honesty - it might sting a bit, but you'll learn a whole lot.

Featuring Julia Shintaku from the Top 10 Podcast. We delve into the world of teenage etiquette or the lack thereof. Join Julia and I on a candid exploration of manners, or the apparent absence of them, among today's youth.

Ever wonder what it's like to have an AI as your cohost? Join me as I team up with ChatGPT, the cutting-edge chatbot. Are we living in an episode of Black Mirror, or is this the dawn of a new era of collaborative content creation? Tune in and find out!

Transitioning from high school to the "real world" is a daunting leap for anyone, but for students with special needs, the chasm can feel like a canyon. Often, academic standards and standardized tests overshadow crucial life skills like budgeting, finding housing, or securing employment. Is our educational system failing to equip these students with the practical tools they need to thrive beyond the classroom walls? Join us as we explore the challenges and potential solutions for preparing special needs students for a life beyond graduation bells, because leaving them unprepared isn't just a gap in their education, it's a gap in our social fabric. Tune in and let's bridge the divide, together.

In this episode, join our favorite teacher and annoyed adult, Howard Kam, and his two students, Piper and Will, as they embark on a hilarious journey through the ups and downs of distance learning. From the joys of attending class in pajamas to the struggles of finding a quiet spot when your neighbor decides to yell out the window, this trio spills the virtual beans on it all.

Tina and Howard dive into the humorous and often cringe-worthy world of drinking and our not-so-stellar decision-making skills. With plenty of witty anecdotes and personal experiences, they share hilarious tales of their own misadventures and explore the science behind how alcohol can impair judgment. From epic party fails to unforgettable nights out, this episode is a rollercoaster of laughter and self-reflection, offering a lighthearted yet insightful look at the intersection of inebriation and poor choices. Tune in for a side-splitting journey through the ups and downs of one too many cocktails, as the hosts navigate the fine line between hilarity and regret.

Some students are not the brightest bulbs in the box. Three teachers share their experiences of students asking oddball questions and Howard's phone call about classroom swearing. Also, this show is probably the most times he's said "What!?" on a podcast.

Two teachers have drama.

Quick Take I hate people with fake service animals. Why can't these people leave their pets at home and what laws are they breaking?

QUICK TAKE - I delve into the fragrant world of smelly teenagers who refuse to wear deodorant. Whether you're a concerned parent, a baffled teacher, or a fellow teen just trying to survive the olfactory onslaught, we've got you covered. Tune in to uncover the secrets of teenage odors and discover effective strategies for tackling this aromatic challenge head-on!"

Are you a problem for others? Can you clearly identify who the problem kids are? Also, how does an ancient Greek philosophy come into play?

Join us as we explore the thorny issue of students caught in a web of lies and deception. Who is to blame? Is it the students, the teachers, or the parents? We'll dig deep into the topic of grit and explore how it can help students overcome obstacles and take ownership of their actions.

Matt Damon, Elon Musk, the Kardashians, and Kanye West. What are they all have in common? Their jobs are to entertain us, but instead, they shit all over us. Send us your questions via email. [email protected]

In this episode, Howard & Tina provide commentary on questions via Twitter and Reddit. They cover concerts, music, Tower records, Boomer parents, college textbooks, AM radio, and what it was like waiting forever to get a song on tape.  If you would like a question answered on the show, email [email protected] or message them on Twitter @theannoyedadult.

My annoyance with Gen-Z and, of course, Costco.

Why I find people that take Costco samples annoying. Also my problem with fake motivational speakers.

In this episode, Tina and I talk about people that dribble the gas pump, the uselessness of receipts and people that take to long in the bathroom.

Rejoined by the energetic Tina Hunt, In part 3 of "The Worst Co-Worker Ever", we learn what happens to him after he leaves our school and what we hope happens to him. Will this be the end? Who knows.

An episode inspired by something I overheard. I discuss the causes of bordem and some not-so-complicated ideas to breakout of the rut that are easy to do. 

My student is practicing her podcast, but this being the Annoyed Adult Podcast, she also talks about an annoying neighbor who just doesn't get along with others. Find her podcast JUDGEMENT TIME on Spotify.

I'm annoyed with streaming media services. Why are there so many of them? Are they worth it? Also, I share my plan of how I will teach students why downloadable content sucks.

Confidence, the senior prom, criticism, and the unconfident people that annoy me.

Finally! The Worst Person I Ever Worked With episode is out. This is part 1 of 2. 

Tina and I talk about entitlement and the annoying entitled a-holes around us.

Tina and I battle over if tipping for takeout food is a thing.

Tina and I revisit some good times, talk trash, and get deep about Mental Health.

Mark Kauanui and I talk about the end of the year, how we feel about working with this years students, and how I dug myself in a hole that Mark gets me out of.