The Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast

Send us Fan MailWhat is the autonomic nervous system—and why does it matter so much for stress, anxiety, and overall wellbeing?In this episode, Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals break down the autonomic nervous system in a clear, practical way—exploring how the sympathetic (fight-or-flight) and parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) systems work together to support homeostasis.If you’ve ever felt stuck in stress, overwhelmed, or unable to “switch off,” this conversation will help you understand why. Rather than seeing stress as the problem, Ruth and Tom reframe the sympathetic nervous system as a protective ally—and explain what happens when it dominates the system.You’ll learn:How the autonomic nervous system regulates stress and recoveryWhy “balance” isn’t the goal—dynamic homeostasis isWhat keeps the body stuck in fight-or-flightHow the brain and body work together to restore regulationThis episode offers a new way to understand your nervous system—so you can move from chronic stress into greater resilience, stability, and wellbeing.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWhat if the brain isn’t just an organ—but the context for everything we experience?In this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals explore the mystery of the brain, moving beyond a purely scientific lens into something more expansive. Together, they challenge the common assumption that the mind and brain are the same—and instead suggest that the mind is just one function of a much larger system.They unpack what happens when we stop trying to solve problems through the mind alone and begin engaging the brain itself—through interoception, homeostasis, and the practices behind AHA. From real-life examples to deeper philosophical questions, this conversation opens up a different way of understanding consciousness, identity, and human potential.This episode doesn’t aim to give definitive answers. Instead, it invites curiosity—and a shift in perspective.Because the real question might not be how your brain works… but what your brain actually is.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWhat if the brain isn’t just in your head?In this episode, we take a 30,000-foot view of the brain and challenge one of the most common assumptions in modern neuroscience. Exploring the enteric nervous system—often called the “second brain”—we uncover why it may actually be the first, and what it means to understand the brain as a whole, integrated system throughout the body.From interoception and the vagus nerve to the role of internal “conversation” within our bodies, this episode reveals how health is not driven by isolated parts, but by connection. When that connection breaks down, dysfunction follows. When it’s restored, the system can regulate, heal, and thrive.This conversation offers a powerful reframe of how we understand the brain, the body, and what it really means to experience well-being in a complex, connected system.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWhat is actually happening in the brain when we feel calm, overwhelmed, reactive, or grounded?In this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson step back for a 30,000-foot view of the brain—a simple but powerful overview of the neuroscience behind how we process stress, trauma, and wellness.Rather than approaching the brain as something mysterious or overly technical, Tom breaks down its core structures using clear, accessible analogies—including the brain as a baseball mitt with a ball inside—to explain how different parts of the brain work together to help us survive, adapt, and thrive.Together they explore:Why the brain is fundamentally your ally, designed for your well-beingThe role of the prefrontal cortex in executive function, anticipation, decision-making, and problem-solvingHow the limbic system, including the hippocampus and amygdala, stores experiences and evaluates signals of reward or threatWhy your brain remembers everything you’ve ever experienced—even when you can’t consciously recall itHow the autonomic nervous system carries signals from the brain throughout the bodyWhat happens when the brain shifts into sympathetic (fight/flight) or parasympathetic (rest and restore) statesWhy past experiences and trauma can shape how the brain interprets present situationsThe conversation highlights a key insight:Understanding the brain doesn’t require becoming a neuroscientist—but having a basic map of how it works can dramatically improve how we respond to stress, relationships, and everyday challenges.Next episode we look at why the brain is actually three parts and how the original part of the brain lives in your gut.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this timely and deeply practical episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom and Ruth explore what it means to live in a world saturated with distressing information — from global conflict to cultural upheaval to deeply personal stories of abuse and loss.We are not just observers anymore. Through constant news cycles and social media exposure, we are often participants in vicarious trauma — absorbing pain that is not directly ours, yet deeply affects our nervous systems.In this conversation, we unpack:What vicarious trauma actually is — and how it differs from everyday stressWhy some stories trigger us more than othersThe difference between sympathetic responses (stress, anxiety, anger, depression) and parasympathetic processingHow collective events like COVID may have shifted our baseline stress levelsThe surprising neuroscience insight: pain is not the enemy — it’s a homeostatic signalHow to move from reactive fight-or-flight to restorative regulationWe explore a powerful reframing:Pain functions much like thirst or hunger. It is not something to suppress, but something to respond to wisely. When processed through the parasympathetic nervous system, pain becomes productive — guiding us toward restoration rather than reactivity.This episode is especially for:Parents navigating hard conversations with their childrenLeaders and caregivers carrying collective weightAnyone feeling overwhelmed, anxious, angry, or numb in today’s climateTherapists, coaches, and helpers managing emotional proximity to others’ traumaIf you’ve felt “off,” on edge, or emotionally flooded after scrolling headlines — this conversation will help you understand why.And more importantly, it will help you return to center.Because the goal isn’t shutting down pain.It’s learning how to process it in a way that restores homeostasis — in body, mind, and spirit.Take a breath.Let’s activate regulation together.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore how the brain thinks independently of the conscious mind—and how this capacity supports healing, clarity, and thriving.Building on their previous conversation, they examine the difference between mind-based problem solving and brain-based wisdom, introducing the concept of cognitive homeostasis. The discussion unpacks why the mind often loops in fear, trauma, and overanalysis, while the brain integrates information holistically and delivers insight through spontaneous “aha” moments.You’ll learn:What cognitive homeostasis is and how it differs from somatic homeostasisWhy the brain generates involuntary insights, memories, and realizationsHow trauma and stress disrupt the brain–mind partnershipWhy “thinking harder” often blocks healing and problem-solvingHow Autonomic Homeostasis Activation (AHA) facilitates access to the brain’s wisdomThis episode is especially relevant for anyone experiencing chronic stress, trauma patterns, health anxiety, or feeling stuck despite trying to “figure things out.”Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWhat if the breakthrough you’re looking for isn’t found by thinking harder—but by listening differently?In this episode, Ruth Lorensson and Thomas Pals continue their exploration of the wisdom of the brain, introducing the concept of cognitive homeostasis—how the brain independently problem-solves and offers insight beyond the mind’s habitual loops.They unpack aha moments, involuntary thoughts, and sudden clarity as signs of the brain cutting through trauma-informed, fear-based thinking to guide us from survival to thriving. The conversation also introduces how Autonomic Homeostasis Activation (AHA) can intentionally create the conditions for these insights to emerge.Key TakeawaysYour brain is already thinking—even when your mind feels stuckOverthinking can block the brain’s natural problem-solving capacitySudden insights are often signs of cognitive homeostasisHealing and clarity emerge when the mind learns to listenYou can intentionally create space for the brain’s wisdom to surfaceSupport the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailSeason 4 begins with a foundational conversation on the wisdom of the brain and how it shapes problem solving, emotional regulation, and personal growth. Ruth and Tom explore the crucial difference between the mind and the brain, and why stress, trauma, and learned patterns can distort our thinking.Introducing AHA Problem Solving, this episode shows how calming the nervous system allows the brain’s natural intelligence to generate clarity, insight, and genuine “aha” moments—especially around health anxiety, relationships, and life decisions. The discussion also touches on neuroscience, homeostasis, and what artificial intelligence reveals about human cognition under stress.Key Takeaways:• The brain and mind are not the same• Stress impairs decision-making• The brain holds innate wisdom• Regulation restores claritySupport the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this illuminating episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the rarely discussed—but profoundly important—final stage of Maslow’s thinking: transcendence.Most people know Maslow for the “hierarchy of needs” pyramid, but as Tom reveals, Maslow never created a pyramid at all. And he certainly never stopped at self-actualization. At the end of his career, Maslow emphasized something deeper: a movement beyond the self into a state of connection, meaning, creativity, and belonging.Together, Tom and Ruth unpack:Why Maslow’s hierarchy was never meant to be a pyramidHow transcendence connects “me” to “we” and restores our sense of belongingWhy love, awe, creativity, and community are essential components of wellnessHow “us and them” thinking blocks transcendence and fragments our humanityWhy every organism in nature thrives through interdependence—and what humans can relearn from thatA practical way to check if your needs are being met or if you’re stuck in fight-or-flightTranscendence isn’t mystical or unreachable. It’s the human experience of rising above survival, reconnecting to the larger web of life, and rediscovering the joy of being part of something bigger.If you’re seeking deeper meaning, grounded wisdom, and a more holistic understanding of what it means to thrive, this episode offers a powerful and refreshing perspective.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this special birthday episode, Tom and Ruth explore what it really means to thrive as a whole human being. Building on their series about the fundamentals of wellness and Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, they dive into the top of the hierarchy—self-actualization—and why it’s never just about “me.”Together they unpack how homeostasis—that dynamic state of balance in body, mind, and spirit—is both personal and collective. Drawing on insights from neuroscience, somatic practice, and ecology, Tom explains how true wellness emerges when our physiological, emotional, and relational needs are met within connection—not isolation.From the wisdom of Kurt Goldstein and Abraham Maslow to the biology of “many little lives” within us, this conversation reframes self-actualization as thriving through interconnectedness.💫 Highlights:Why wellness is homeostasis—and what that looks like in everyday lifeHow the me-we perspective transforms the way we pursue growthThe hidden sixth layer of Maslow’s hierarchy—transcendencePractical steps for activating the body’s natural capacity to restore balanceJoin Ruth and Tom as they celebrate wisdom, connection, and the lifelong journey from surviving to thriving.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson continue their exploration of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs through the lens of wellness and trauma-informed wholeness. Focusing on esteem, they unpack what it truly means to “appraise” value—both in ourselves and in others—and how unmet needs and trauma can distort our perception of worth and significance.Through rich conversation and powerful metaphors—like Tom’s image of humans as uncut diamonds—they reveal how esteem isn’t about hierarchy or status, but about mutual recognition of inherent worth. Together, they examine how physiological, safety, and belonging needs act as catalysts for healthy esteem, and how unmet needs can keep us stuck in cycles of comparison, defensiveness, or exclusion.Listeners will come away with deeper insight into:The roots of esteem as appraisal rather than judgmentHow trauma and unmet needs shape our ability to value ourselves and othersThe difference between worth, significance, and accomplishmentHow to move from sympathetic fight-or-flight into parasympathetic homeostasisPractical reflection prompts for fostering self-worth and mutual significanceJoin Ruth and Tom as they guide listeners toward restoring homeostasis of esteem, a crucial step in the broader journey toward self-actualization and holistic wellness.🎧 Listen now and rediscover your worth as an uncut diamond in a world learning to see again.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the profound connection between change, homeostasis, and wellness. They unpack why change isn’t something to resist but to embrace—because homeostasis itself is change, the constant dynamic adjustment that keeps us alive and well.Drawing on neuroscience, Tom explains how the brain perceives change through the amygdala, either as a threat (activating the sympathetic fight-or-flight response) or as an opportunity (activating the parasympathetic rest-recover-digest state). Together, Tom and Ruth explore how our perception of change determines our experience of it—whether we spiral into anxiety and frustration or move toward growth, restoration, and resilience.Listeners will learn the difference between wanting change and wanting to change, and how cultivating a mindset of beneficial anticipation—seeing change as life-giving—creates space for healing, adaptability, and sustainable wellness.💡 Key Themes:Homeostasis as a living, dynamic processThe neurobiology of change and emotional regulationHow perception shapes our stress or peace responseThe power of beneficial anticipation over negative anticipationWhy embracing change is central to true wellness✨ “Change is not the enemy of wellness—it’s the evidence of life.”🔗 Learn more at autonomichealing.org or connect with Tom at innerworkings.org.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson continue their Fundamentals of Wellness series with a deep dive into the third level of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs: love and belonging. Together they explore the universal ache for connection, community, and healing felt across society today and ask an essential question: what kind of love and belonging truly nurtures wellness and mental health?Drawing a distinction between the “tsunami of stress” and “rational intimacy,” Tom and Ruth unpack how certain relationships, communities, and affiliations may appear loving and inclusive, yet actually perpetuate stress, trauma, insecurity, and disconnection. In contrast, they describe how authentic love and belonging cultivates safety, security, contentment, and mutual growth — the true foundation for self-actualization, resilience, and wholeness.Listeners will learn how to recognize the signs of false belonging, how to choose pathways that foster genuine wellness, relational health, and homeostasis, and why this choice is central to becoming our truest, healthiest selves.If you’ve ever wondered whether the spaces you belong to are building you up or holding you back, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and practical insights for personal growth and sustainable wellness.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this thought-provoking episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Ruth Lorensson and Thomas Pals welcome back Scott Turner, renowned physiologist and expert on homeostasis, cognition, and superorganisms, for a deep dive into the science and mystery behind Autonomic Homeostasis Activation (AHA).Together, they explore the fascinating intersection of interoception, homeostasis, and the autonomic nervous system, unpacking how AHA may help reframe conditions like PTSD, anxiety, depression, Crohn’s disease, and autoimmune disorders. Scott shares insights from his research on termite colonies, superorganisms, and the many little lives within the body, showing how persistent homeostatic states—whether healthy or unhealthy—can be shifted through new conversations at the cellular and cognitive level.Listeners will discover:What AHA (Autonomic Homeostasis Activation) really is and how it works.Why combining homeostasis activation with interoceptive awareness produces powerful outcomes.How disease and wellness can be understood as conversations within the body.Parallels between biological cognition, consciousness, and collective intelligence.Why anecdotal evidence and case studies are vital in exploring emerging therapies.This conversation bridges science, wellness, and biomimicry, offering a hopeful lens on healing, resilience, and the neurobiological roots of human thriving.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this thought-provoking conversation, Ruth Lorensson and Thomas Pals welcome back Scott Turner, author of Purpose and Desire, to explore the fascinating intersections of niche construction theory, homeostasis, and human wellness. Together, they unpack how living systems—down to the cellular level—act with agency, intentionally shaping and being shaped by their environments.From Walter Cannon’s classic definition of homeostasis to Aristotle’s ideas on purposefulness, the discussion bridges evolutionary biology, biophysics, and wellness science. Scott Turner explains why adaptation is more than mechanistic feedback loops—it’s about purposeful striving at every level, from microbiomes to ecosystems. The trio dives deep into the “many little lives” metaphor, revealing how cellular conversations influence our overall health, vitality, and resilience—and how disruption in those conversations can lead to illness, cancer, and even addiction.Key topics include:The agency of living systems and its role in adaptation and wellnessHow niche construction theory challenges modern DarwinismWhy homeostasis is misunderstood and how it truly operatesThe parallels between ecosystem health and human healthThe role of interoception in restoring balance and fostering well-beingWhether you’re a wellness professional, leader, or simply curious about the science of thriving, this episode offers a fresh lens on what it means to be well—and how to consciously participate in the adaptive conversations that sustain life.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailInteroception, homeostasis, and the autonomic nervous system are at the heart of this conversation on trauma healing and body-based wellness—drawing inspiration from Scott Turner’s groundbreaking book, Purpose and Desire.In this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, hosts Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals explore the shift from traditional mechanistic models of the human body to a living systems approach—where homeostasis is understood not just as a function, but as the body’s deepest purpose.Tom shares how Turner's work helped crystallize the core concepts behind AHA, especially the healing power of interoception—the internal sense that allows us to listen to the body rather than control it. Ruth recounts the story of how they connected with Scott and why his perspective has become foundational to understanding what true wellness really is.Tune in for a story-rich, science-grounded episode that challenges the machine metaphor of the body—and invites us to see ourselves as intelligent, self-regulating systems capable of healing from within.Key Topics:How Scott Turner’s book Purpose and Desire shaped the origins of AHAThe difference between mechanistic and living systems models of the bodyWhy homeostasis is more than balance—it’s the body’s deepest intelligenceThe role of interoception in healing from trauma and chronic stressHow curiosity, observation, and conversation drive true transformationJoin Ruth and Tom as they lay the groundwork for the next two episodes with Scott Turner—and reveal why changing how we see the body might be the first step in helping it heal.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailInteroception, homeostasis, and the autonomic nervous system come together in this powerful episode to help you understand why you may not feel safe—even when there's no actual danger. Hosts Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals unpack how trauma, chronic stress, and learned woundings can keep your internal nervous system misaligned—and what science shows us about re-creating safety from within.What You'll Discover:The disconnect between perceived threat and actual safety—driven by trauma, not current reality.How interoception and homeostatic regulation support the restoration of nervous system balance.Practical tools rooted in somatic healing, stress recovery, and self-regulation.How listening to the body—and not overthinking it—can transform your relationship with safety and well-being.Why This Episode Matters:Feeling unsafe when everything seems fine can be confusing and unsettling. This episode frames it through a living systems lens, showing why self-regulation is key to recovering emotional resilience and achieving whole-person wellness.Tune In For:A grounded, support‑based conversation blending neuroscience, somatic awareness, and real-life stories to guide you back to alignment, safety, and greater emotional freedom.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailInteroception, homeostasis, and the autonomic nervous system unite in this episode to explore the concept of Brain-fulness—a mindful, embodied practice for restoring balance, healing from stress, and cultivating whole-person wellness. Hosts Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals dive deep into practical applications of neuroscience to foster self-regulation, emotional resilience, and mind‑body‑spirit integration.What You'll Learn:The meaning of Brainfulness: mindfully tuning into interoceptive cues to support homeostasisScience-based ways to regulate the autonomic nervous system and recover from trauma or chronic stressHow the body, brain, and spirit interact through living systems theoryTools for cultivating self-regulation, resilience, and embodied emotional well-beingWhy It Matters:In a world where many of us operate on autopilot, Brainfulness offers a path back to living systems alignment—an approach where your body’s natural intelligence leads the way to wholeness and healing.🔔 Tune in for an inspiring, science-grounded exploration of Brainfulness, interoception, and nervous system balance. Let this episode empower you to integrate wellness in body, mind, and spirit.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailInteroception, homeostasis, and the autonomic nervous system frame this insightful exploration of the Five P’s of Wellness—an intuitive framework to determine what truly supports or hinders your well-being. Hosts Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals map practical applications of the Five P’s (Purpose, Presence, Practice, Processing, and Play) into the neuroscience of somatic healing, trauma recovery, and holistic wellness.What You’ll Discover:The core of each “P”, and how it shapes nervous system regulation—purpose clarifies direction, presence anchors you in awareness, practice stabilizes patterns, processing unlocks healing, and play reclaims joy.How interoceptive awareness allows you to tune into what each P is doing in your system.Science-based tools for promoting homeostasis, self-regulation, and whole-body wellness.Why It Matters:The Five P’s provide a simple but powerful map to assess and adjust your routines, habits, and mindset—from a living systems perspective. By listening to your body’s signals (via interoception) and fostering balance through each P, you cultivate resilience, clarity, and integrated wellness.🎧 Tune in for a grounded, story-rich conversation that helps you differentiate what’s beneficial versus what’s detrimental—so your autonomy and well-being shine through.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailPersonal wellness does not happen in isolation. In this Fundamentals of Wellness episode, Tom and Ruth examine how health is shaped by both individual habits and our shared environment.Using the recent Fort Collins mall incident as a case study, they address:Vicarious trauma – why events you only hear about can still activate your stress response.Me-We homeostasis – the science of co-regulation and how supportive communities shift us from fight-or-flight to rest-and-recovery.Chronos vs. Kairos – understanding linear time versus “the opportune moment” to steer your well-being in a healthier direction.The power of “AND” – moving from anxious “yeah, but …” thinking to productive “yes, and …” mindsets that open space for healing.You’ll learn practical ways to notice sympathetic surges, create collective resilience rituals, and make time work for—rather than against—your health.Listen in to turn moments of strain into pathways toward shared strength.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this eye‑opening installment of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson peel back the layers of a sense most of us never knew we had—interoception, the brain’s moment‑to‑moment read‑out of everything happening inside the body. Moving beyond Aristotle’s famous “five senses,” Tom explains why modern neuroscience recognizes at least 21 human senses and argues that interoception is the one that lets us feel all the others.Together they explore:Pain as a homeostatic emotion – drawing on A.D. (Bud) Craig’s groundbreaking work to show how pain isn’t just a warning siren but a built‑in motivation to heal, rest, and restore balance.The sympathetic vs. parasympathetic nervous systems, and how our mind‑jerk reactions can flip pain from a helpful signal into runaway anxiety, anger, or depression.Real‑life stories—from Ruth’s post‑spine‑surgery recovery to lived battles with hypochondria—illustrating how re‑interpreting internal sensations can turn distress into a path toward wellness.Practical tips for “letting the brain inform the mind”: noticing bodily cues without judgment, shifting from threat mode to curiosity, and partnering with the body’s natural drive toward equilibrium.Whether you’re a clinician, a bio‑hacker, or simply tired of being ruled by aches, twitches, and racing thoughts, this conversation will change how you feel about…well, how you feel. Tune in and discover how activating interoception can unlock true mind‑body‑spirit homeostasis.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this enlightening episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson dive deep into the fascinating world of bodily healing and homeostasis. Challenging conventional wisdom about wellness, they explore the counterintuitive concept of "not scratching the itch" - both literally and metaphorically.Discover why those uncomfortable sensations like itching, pain, and fever might actually be your body's intelligent healing mechanisms at work. Learn how our typical responses to discomfort often disrupt natural healing processes and what it truly means to work with - not against - our body's innate wisdom.Through engaging discussions and practical insights, Tom and Ruth reveal how understanding homeostasis can transform our approach to physical and emotional wellness. Whether you're dealing with physical recovery, emotional healing, or simply seeking a more holistic understanding of your body's capabilities, this episode offers profound perspectives on natural healing.Key Takeaways:Understanding homeostatic pruningWhy discomfort isn't always a bad signHow to support your body's natural healing processesInsights into working with, not against, your body's intelligenceJoin us for an eye-opening conversation that will change how you think about health, healing, and your body's remarkable capabilities.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIs achieving balance really the key to wellness? Or have we misunderstood homeostasis all along? In this eye-opening episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson dive deep into the science of homeostasis and uncover why true wellness isn’t about achieving perfect equilibrium—it’s about thriving in dynamic disequilibrium.They break down the history of homeostasis, from Walter Cannon’s groundbreaking research to modern-day misunderstandings that could be holding us back in our pursuit of health and resilience. Learn how your body naturally adapts to constant change, why chasing "balance" can be counterproductive, and how embracing the natural fluctuations of life can lead to greater well-being in mind, body, and spirit.Join the conversation as we challenge conventional wellness wisdom and explore how to work with change, rather than against it.🎧 Tune in now to shift your perspective on what it truly means to be well!Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Homeostasis Activation Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the true essence of wellness—what it means, where it comes from, and how to cultivate it in daily life. They dive into the origins of the word well, linking it to ancient water sources and the fundamental human need for nourishment, both physically and emotionally.Through rich conversation and insightful reflections, they outline five key elements of wellness: love, self-awareness, self-acceptance, significance, and intention. These pillars form the foundation for holistic well-being and personal transformation. They also discuss how wellness coaching helps individuals draw from their inner well—unlocking the deep reserves of well-being that already exist within.Join Tom and Ruth as they challenge listeners to embrace wellness as an essential part of life, not just an afterthought. Whether you’re on a personal journey of healing or seeking deeper meaning, this episode is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and practical insights to guide you forward.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailJoin Tom Pals and co-host Ruth Lorensson as they explore the often-overlooked ways our brains naturally work to restore balance—body, mind, and spirit. Learn why discomforts like itching, pain, and even unexpected emotional responses aren’t always signs of illness, but can be signals of a deeper healing process. Discover practical insights into how our brains orchestrate homeostasis, and why redefining “symptoms” can help us live with greater ease and confidence. If you’re ready to trust your body’s inherent wisdom and embrace a more holistic path to wellness, this conversation is for you.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the AHA Podcast, Ruth Lorensson and Thomas Pals introduce the groundbreaking concept of brain-informed wellness as part of their new series, The Fundamentals of Wellness. As the new year begins, many of us look to reset and embrace healthier habits, but what if the key to wellness isn’t about adding more to your plate, but about tapping into the innate wisdom of your brain?Join Ruth and Tom as they discuss the difference between traditional wellness approaches like mindfulness and the AHA process, which focuses on activating your brain's natural ability to restore homeostasis and guide your body, mind, and spirit toward optimal well-being.You'll also learn about interoception—your "sixth sense" for understanding your body—and hear real-life examples of how engaging the brain as a coach can uncover profound solutions to challenges in health and daily life.Whether you're new to the AHA process or looking to deepen your understanding, this episode is the perfect starting point for exploring a revolutionary approach to wellness.Key Takeaways:The difference between mindfulness and brain-informed wellness.What interoception is and why it’s critical to your well-being.How the brain's innate wisdom can transform your approach to health and problem-solving.Get ready to rethink wellness and start your journey to a more balanced and intentional 2025!#WellnessJourney #BrainInformedWellness #AHAProcess #Mindfulness #Interoception #HolisticHealth #Homeostasis #WellnessPodcast #BrainHealth #NewYearNewYou #IntentionalLiving #MindBodySpirit #Neuroscience #SelfCareRevolutionSupport the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailReady to dive into wellness? 🌱 Join hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson as they kick off an exciting new season, The Fundamentals of Wellness, a fresh exploration of what it means to thrive in body, mind, and spirit.In this debut episode, Tom shares his transformative journey from trauma survivor to psychotherapist, and now certified wellness coach. He reveals how he integrates cutting-edge autonomic homeostasis activation (AHA) with a holistic coaching approach to support well-being. Ruth reflects on her impactful work with Love Bristol and her current focus on leadership coaching, offering insights into how wellness fuels both personal growth and organizational success. Together, they explore the foundational principles of wellness, the critical link between our environment and overall well-being, and the importance of embracing proactive wellness in today’s fast-paced world.🔥 What to Expect in This Episode:The shift from The ABCs of Thriving to The Fundamentals of Wellness.How the "triple bottom line of wellness" (body, mind, spirit) creates balance and resilience.The transformative power of wellness coaching, backed by Tom’s personal and professional expertise.Ruth’s insights into wellness leadership and how environment shapes success.A sneak peek at upcoming episodes, packed with actionable tips and inspiration.💡 Discover how wellness is more than the absence of illness—it’s your pathway to thriving.👉 Subscribe now to dive into this season's practical strategies and inspiring stories to help you build a vibrant, balanced life.🎧 Start listening today and take the first step toward your wellness transformation!#WellnessPodcast #HolisticHealth #WellnessJourney #CoachingForSuccess #LeadershipWellnessSupport the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan Mail🎄 AHA Podcast Christmas Special: Light, Love, and Life 🎄As the Christmas season unfolds, Ruth and Tom delve into the heart and soul of what makes this time of year truly special. From cherished traditions and the joy of Christmas lights to the deeper meaning of connection, they explore what truly lights up this time of year.Hear heartwarming stories—from Tom's magical visit to the Denver Zoo Lights with his granddaughter to Ruth's moving experience singing carols in Fort Collins. Together, they unpack the "Three L's" of Christmas: Light, Love and Life.Whether you’re navigating the highs or lows of the season, this episode reminds us of the universal gift of Christmas—a time to reflect, connect, and find hope in the midst of it all.🎧 Tune in to discover how embracing the light, love, and life of Christmas can prepare us for the new year.Merry Christmas from Ruth and Tom! 🎁✨Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this momentous finale of the "ABCs of Thriving" series, Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the vibrant power of zest—both as a metaphor and a mindset. Unpacking its roots in citrus and its neurobiological impact, they discuss how zest can refresh, balance, and enhance life, even in challenging seasons. From small choices like savoring a quiet moment to big adventures like climbing a 14er, this episode inspires you to add zest to your life, making the unpalatable palatable and the palatable extraordinary.Celebrate this journey through the ABCs with us and get ready for what’s next. Let’s thrive together! 🌟Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the profound concept of yielding as an essential element of thriving. They delve into the multiple facets of yielding—from the idea of giving way to receive something of value, to the interconnectedness of human relationships and community. Through insightful stories about navigating traffic, the symbolism of the sunflower, and reflections on personal wellness, Tom and Ruth highlight how yielding can lead to holistic growth and balance in mind, body, and spirit. Join them for a thoughtful conversation on embracing both the challenges and blessings that come with learning to yield and why it's vital for personal and collective well-being.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the transformative concept of xenophilia—"the love of strangers"—and how embracing this mindset fosters resilience and connection in a world where change and movement are constant. Together, they unpack the contrasts between xenophobia and xenophilia, illuminating how a hospitality mindset toward strangers can enrich our lives, strengthen our communities, and move us from survival mode to thriving. With personal stories, insights into human nature, and an inspiring call to embrace the humanity in each of us, this episode offers a fresh take on building a truly connected, thriving world.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson continue their journey through the ABCs of Thriving, focusing on the letter "W" for Wisdom. They delve into how wisdom is essential for thriving in life, influencing everything from our health to our decision-making. Tom and Ruth explore the neurobiology behind wisdom, discussing the role of the prefrontal cortex, the limbic system, and the enteric nervous system in creating balanced, insightful decision-making. They also explain the distinction between intelligence, common sense, and wisdom, emphasizing how wisdom balances immediate needs with long-term perspectives to achieve holistic well-being. Tune in to discover how wisdom plays a foundational role in both individual and collective thriving, and learn practical insights for accessing your brain’s wisdom for a more fulfilling life.4oSupport the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the concept of Verity—a transcendent form of truth that goes beyond mere facts. As part of their ongoing series on the ABCs of Thriving, they unpack how embracing Verity can help individuals align their minds, bodies, and spirits to truly thrive. Tom and Ruth discuss the distinction between truth and Verity, how our minds can distort the truth, and the importance of pairing truth with love to experience genuine growth and freedom. Tune in for a conversation that dives deep into the impact of truth on personal and relational well-being.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals explore the profound power of "understanding"—both intrapersonal and interpersonal—in fostering a thriving life. As part of their ongoing ABCs of Thriving series, they break down the letter "U," focusing on how understanding impacts personal growth, relationships, and empathy.Tom and Ruth discuss three key facets of understanding: knowledge, empathy, and agreements. They emphasize how gaining knowledge (knowing stuff), showing empathy (caring about stuff), and creating informal agreements (doing stuff) are essential for holistic healing and personal fulfillment. Whether it's navigating workplace dynamics, managing relationships, or learning about oneself, they highlight the importance of accurate information and meaningful connections in creating a thriving environment.Tune in for an engaging conversation filled with insights on how understanding can propel both individuals and communities toward greater emotional, mental, and relational health.Join the journey to thrive!Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, Tom and Ruth discuss the common habit of letting past traumas and experiences dictate our present and future, often keeping us stuck in survival mode. They offer practical insights on how to shift from this mindset to one that embraces the present moment and uses it as a foundation for thriving. Join them as they unpack the significance of living in the "now" and how this simple yet powerful shift can transform your life. Whether you're new to the series or have been following along, this episode will inspire you to make "time to thrive" your new mantra.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of "The ABCs of Thriving," Tom and Ruth dive deep into the letter S, exploring the ancient Greek concept of "Psyche". Psyche goes beyond just the mind—it's the essence of being, encompassing body, mind, and spirit. Tom and Ruth discuss the importance of sustaining Psyche for true thriving, emphasizing the balance between support and relief. They explore how to sustain our well-being in a world filled with pressures and distractions and share practical ways to foster holistic health. Whether you're familiar with their work or just tuning in, this conversation will inspire you to focus on sustaining your Psyche for a life that thrives, not just survives. Tune in next time as they continue the series with the letter T!Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

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Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the profound connection between calm and questing as they dive into the letter "Q" in their ABCs of Thriving series. They examine the concept of quiescence—a state of calm and rest—and how it can be a foundation for embarking on life's quests. Discover the importance of a centering practice, the role of the autonomic nervous system, and the interplay between rest and purposeful action. Tune in to learn how to thrive from a place of well-being and balance, and uncover the deeper meaning behind quiet questing.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Ruth Lorensson and Tom Pals delve into the concept of being "poised for possibilities" during stressful situations. They discuss holistic approaches to managing stress and trauma that foster empowerment and growth. Ruth opens up about a personal experience of feeling overwhelmed, yet discovering new opportunities through self-reflection and maintaining poise. Tom offers a neuroscientific perspective on stress responses and highlights the benefits of rational thinking. Together, they emphasize the importance of shifting one's perspective from seeing obstacles to engaging in creative problem-solving and embracing possibilities for positive change, even amidst unexpected challenges or setbacks.Join Ruth and Tom as they unpack practical strategies for maintaining composure and balance, making the most of life's unforeseen events.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWhat if embracing change could transform your life from mere survival to thriving? Join us in this episode as we uncover the transformative power of being open to change.We begin by exploring the profound implications of the word "open" and how it contrasts with the rigidity of being "closed." Openness invites curiosity, receptivity, and a willingness to question the status quo. Using real-life examples like seasonal shifts and parenting during long summer vacations, we illustrate how adaptability is not just a survival skill but a catalyst for personal growth.Next, we dive into the concept of homeostasis, often misunderstood as a static state of equilibrium. Instead, we reveal homeostasis as a dynamic process of constant adjustment, much like the precarious balance of a Jenga game. This metaphor helps us understand how small changes can disturb our perceived equilibrium, triggering survival instincts. By redefining homeostasis as a state of persistent, dynamic disequilibrium, we emphasize that embracing change isn't just about coping—it's about thriving.We also dissect the nature of first-order and second-order changes, highlighting the difference between incremental adjustments and transformational shifts. Through engaging discussions, we advocate for diagnosing underlying issues rather than just addressing symptoms, particularly in areas like health and well-being. We conclude by exploring how second-order change can lead to profound transformations, empowering us to tackle personal, organizational, and global challenges with bold, systemic solutions.Tune in to this enlightening episode to discover how being open to change can be the key to unlocking your full potential.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to the Autonomic Healing Podcast with Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson! In this captivating episode from our series "The ABCs of Thriving," we dive into the concept of "nominal functioning." What does it mean to keep things nominal, and how can this lead to thriving rather than just surviving?Tom shares his childhood fascination with space exploration and how the term "nominal" from NASA's space missions inspired him. We explore how maintaining a nominal trajectory, much like spacecraft, ensures optimal functioning and thriving in our lives.Join us as we discuss practical strategies to recognize and stay within your own nominal space. Discover how paying attention to emotions, assessing their health, and incorporating mindful breathing can guide you back to a balanced and thriving state.Listen in to learn how to navigate life's challenges and keep your journey on the right trajectory. Whether you're dealing with stress, trauma, or simply seeking to live more authentically, this episode offers valuable insights and tools for holistic healing.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Tom and Ruth delve into the concept of "Many Little Lives" and its profound implications for individual and collective thriving. They explore the origins of this idea, dating back to Theodore de Bordeaux in the mid-1700s, who used the metaphor of many little lives to describe homeostasis in organisms.Drawing parallels from nature, Tom and Ruth discuss how every organism, whether it's insect colonies or the cells in the human body, is composed of many little lives working together for mutual accommodation and negotiation. They emphasize the importance of recognizing the interconnectedness and significance of each individual within the collective whole.The conversation extends beyond the biological realm to encompass human societies, nations, and the global community. Tom and Ruth highlight the urgent need for negotiation and mutual accommodation on both individual and societal levels to achieve collective well-being and thriving. They reflect on the challenges posed by tribalism, lack of empathy, and the prevailing narratives of power and hierarchy.Throughout the episode, Tom and Ruth encourage listeners to shift their perspectives and embrace the paradigm of many little lives. They emphasize the empowering potential of recognizing the value of every individual and working together towards collective flourishing. As they conclude, they challenge listeners to embody this paradigm in their daily lives and contribute to creating a world where every little life matters.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Tom and Ruth delve into the profound topic of love, exploring its role in both surviving and thriving. They dissect the concept of love as a strong attraction and attachment, examining how it can either contribute to thriving or become co-opted into survival mode.Throughout the discussion, Tom and Ruth emphasize the importance of aligning love with giving life. They challenge listeners to reflect on what they truly love and how they prioritize their time and resources. The conversation highlights the distinction between love that gives life and love that merely serves survival instincts, such as the love of money or possessions.As the discussion unfolds, Tom and Ruth offer practical insights and exercises for listeners to evaluate their own relationships and choices. They encourage listeners to embrace a present-focused, legacy-building approach to love—one that transcends immediate gratification and leaves a positive impact for generations to come.Join Tom and Ruth as they navigate the complexities of love, guiding listeners toward a deeper understanding of how to cultivate thriving relationships and live authentically.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailJoin hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson on the Autonomic Healing Podcast as they explore the profound impact of kindness in managing stress and trauma. In this episode, Tom and Ruth delve into how acts of kindness alleviate burdens, foster connections, and trigger shifts from stress to well-being. Through personal anecdotes and psychological insights, they highlight kindness as a simple yet potent tool for self-care and healing. Tune in to discover how embracing kindness can lead to transformative changes in both individuals and communities.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson explore the concept of joy beyond mere happiness, delving into its connection to well-being, gifting, and grace. Drawing from personal and professional experiences, they discuss how joy can be found amidst suffering and challenge listeners to seek joy in the gifts they give and receive. Emphasizing the importance of understanding joy within the journey of life, Tom and Ruth offer practical advice for cultivating joy and invite listeners to embrace the ABCs of thriving.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Tom and Ruth delve into the importance of inviting intimacy as they explore the ABCs of thriving. They discuss how trust, autonomy, initiative, industry, identity, and empowerment form the foundational layers leading to healthy intimacy. Drawing insights from developmental psychologist Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development, they highlight the significance of each stage in shaping one's ability to form intimate connections.Tom and Ruth emphasize the role of empowerment in fostering intimacy, enabling individuals to commit to relationships and make personal sacrifices for their well-being. They reflect on their personal experiences and share practical strategies for overcoming barriers to intimacy, such as mistrust, doubt, guilt, and inferiority.Throughout the conversation, they underscore the transformative power of rational intimacy, where individuals feel empowered to be themselves, share openly, and mutually support others. They invite listeners to explore their own journey towards intimacy and offer guidance on navigating challenges and embracing joy in the process.Join Tom and Ruth as they invite you to embark on a journey of self-discovery and relational fulfillment, where inviting intimacy becomes a pathway to holistic healing and thriving in mind, body, and spirit.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Tom and Ruth delve deep into the concept of hope and its transformative power in managing stress and trauma. They explore the difference between wishful thinking and genuine hope, emphasizing how hope is not just a passive desire for things to be different but an active, rational anticipation of positive outcomes.Drawing on scientific research and personal insights, Tom and Ruth discuss the physiological and psychological effects of hope, highlighting its connection to the parasympathetic nervous system and its role in promoting resilience and well-being. They reveal how cultivating a mindset of hope can shift our perspective from survival to thriving, enabling us to navigate challenges with optimism and resilience.Through engaging dialogue and practical insights, Tom and Ruth empower listeners to embrace hope as a choice and a pathway to a more fulfilling life. Join them as they explore the profound impact of hope on the mind, body, and spirit, and discover how activating hope can lead to authentic, thriving living.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Tom and Ruth navigate through the nuances of generosity, emphasizing its connection to kindness, compassion, and thriving mentality. Drawing from philosophical insights and personal anecdotes, they unravel the hidden beauty inherent in acts of generosity, highlighting its cryptic nature that transcends mere selflessness. They delve into the significance of integrity and virtue, underscoring how generosity fosters a sense of well-being, purpose, and deeper connections with others and oneself.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Autonomic Healing Podcast, hosts Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson dive into the topic of forgiveness, specifically exploring the concept of "forgive fearlessly." The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding forgiveness as giving, rooted in the ancient Greek term "charismi," which means to give something. They shed light on the physiological aspects of forgiveness, highlighting the role of the sympathetic nervous system and the stress response triggered by harm or offense.Tom and Ruth explore the connection between forgiveness and thriving, emphasizing that forgiveness is not just about survival but a key element in leading a fulfilled life. They discuss the physical and mental health benefits supported by research, highlighting the positive relationship between forgiveness and personal well-being.The episode touches on the challenges individuals face in forgiving fearlessly, delving into the complex emotions and fears associated with offenses. They encourage listeners to explore the root of their fears and acknowledge the physical impact of holding onto unforgiveness.As the episode concludes, the hosts leave listeners with a hopeful message, emphasizing the potential for personal and collective transformation through the practice of forgiving fearlessly. They invite listeners to consider forgiveness as a gift to oneself and others, fostering a thriving existence.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to the Autonomic Healing Podcast with Tom Pals and Ruth Lorensson. In this episode, Tom and Ruth dive into the ABCs of thriving, focusing on the letter E—Energize Empathy. They explore the crucial difference between sympathy and empathy, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotions and maintaining healthy boundaries.Tom introduces the concept of "with" and "in," highlighting the significance of distinguishing between feeling with someone and feeling into or in their emotions. The discussion unfolds as they share examples of when sympathy is appropriate and beneficial, such as during shared experiences like loss or celebration.The term "energize empathy" becomes a central theme, signifying the intentional act of giving energy to empathy. The conversation expands to how empathy can be applied in various relationships, preventing the pitfalls of sympathy and fostering healthier emotional connections.Support the showThanks for listening!You can follow us onFacebook Instagram Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Check out the Autonomic Healing Website & InnerWorkings WebsiteEmail Tom [email protected] Ruth [email protected] usWe appreciate you!