"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour

Send a textTurning points often arrive when we least expect them. As I celebrate my 36th birthday this week, I found myself at a crossroads with this podcast - something I've poured my heart into creating for nearly 200 episodes.The realization hit me like a lightning bolt: I've never given any single creative pursuit 100% of my focus and energy. My music, my performances, my writing – all have been competing for attention while I juggle multiple commitments. This podcast, as much as I love it, has sometimes pushed other dreams to the background. The interviews, writing, editing, marketing, and financial investment have consumed energy that could be directed toward completing my album and discovering my true purpose.This isn't a full goodbye, but rather a necessary pause. I'm stepping back to create space for deeper focus, to see what happens when I finally give my music the undivided attention it deserves. The song "Special" I've written reflects this journey – the lifelong desire to create something unique and meaningful, while battling the self-doubt and imagined criticism that lives in my head.What I've learned through this podcast is priceless. The genuine connections, the vulnerable moments, the creative surprises that emerge during conversation – these experiences have shown me what's possible when you commit to creating something authentic. Now I'm taking that knowledge and applying it to the next chapter.If you've been part of this journey – whether as a listener, guest, or supporter – thank you from the bottom of my heart. The podcast will remain available, and I may occasionally return with updates. But for now, I'm clearing away distractions and giving myself permission to pursue one dream with everything I have.Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "This Little Light Of Love" DEMO by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textWhat happens when two performers step back from the relentless grind of the entertainment industry to ask: "Why am I doing this?" This conversation with Abby Vatterot traces our parallel journeys from theater school through Chicago, LA, and back to our Midwest roots, revealing how our creative purposes have evolved along the way.Remember when success meant constant performing, networking every night, and pushing yourself to exhaustion? We certainly do. Abby and I candidly discuss how we've shifted from that mentality to something more sustainable and authentic. "My why has definitely evolved," Abby shares. "Lately, my why is literally have fun." This refreshing perspective comes after years of pursuing entertainment careers across multiple cities, only to discover unexpected opportunities back home.We dive deep into the misleading narratives we received in theater school that left us unprepared for industry realities. The idealized notion that success requires abandoning the Midwest for coastal cities gets thoroughly debunked as we share our experiences finding meaningful work in St. Louis and beyond. One particularly humorous revelation: being taught to wear formal attire to auditions only to discover professionals showing up in jeans!Perhaps the most powerful thread running through our conversation is the journey toward self-compassion. "I don't talk about myself like that anymore," I admit when discussing how I've stopped being harshly self-critical about my career pace. Similarly, Abby describes finding joy in activities completely unrelated to performance – a balance neither of us prioritized in our younger years.Whether you're a creative professional questioning your path or simply interested in how priorities evolve with age and experience, this episode offers honest insights about finding purpose beyond achievement. As we conclude, Abby perfectly captures our shared realization: "You're going up in the right direction." Sometimes, that acknowledgment is exactly what we need to hear.Opening quote: Bob MoawadOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "You Belong to Me" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Abby Vatterott at Davenports Piano Bar in Chicago IL.Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textEveryone's talking about the little things you sayHow I could be the one and where we're gonna stayFunny how we could be on the same damn pageWhen All of these things I heard was never said to meLinked, By nature and SpiritBody and mindUnexplainable chemistry How did we dream that our love would never bloomWhy would we curse ourselves into unnecessary gloomMaybe the universe was supposed to intervene Give us visions of this love we would eventually needShow us the way and say the right thingsSpeak through our friends and drown out the chao that life bringsThrilled on my end, lets connect these dots BabyStop with the plots and fill up my timeslotswill the universe help me speak the right wordsWill my chance be limitlesssay what I wantdumb foolishnesshard to missfinish with a kisscheers to a couple of beautiful years in blissMaybe it's just like thisHi, wanna get a coffeePoem by. Dom L'AmourProduced by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamYou can support the show by clicking the link at the bottom of the episode description. Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.com.Support the show

Send a textEver wondered what musicians do when they're freed from the constraints of playing songs exactly as recorded? Step into the electric atmosphere of Atl's JB Jazz Jam with host Dom L’Amour as he pulls back the curtain on this monthly musical playground.The wedding band singer who must perform "Fly Me to the Moon" exactly like Sinatra night after night finally gets to break the mold, experiment, and create something uniquely his own. This episode captures the raw energy, spontaneity, and pure joy that erupts when talented musicians gather to play without boundaries or expectations.Through a series of live recordings from the jam sessions, listeners experience stunning reinterpretations of classics like "Killing Me Softly," "Summertime," and "I've Got You Under My Skin." Each performance showcases not just technical skill but the conversational nature of jazz—musicians responding to each other in real-time, creating something that could only happen in that specific moment with those specific players.Beyond the music itself, JB (the namesake of the jam) delivers a powerful mini-lecture on the African American origins of virtually all American musical forms—illustrating how spirituals born in slavery evolved into blues, jazz, gospel, and eventually rock and roll. This historical context reminds us that these jam sessions aren't merely entertainment but part of a profound cultural tradition with deep historical significance.The episode concludes with something special—a preview of Dom's upcoming album featuring an original composition called "I Will Keep My Smile," a song about self-empowerment and choosing positivity even during life's challenges. It's a fitting conclusion that shows how artists honor tradition while creating new works that speak to contemporary experiences.Join us for this musical journey and discover why these creative spaces are so vital for artists. Subscribe now, share with friends who appreciate good music, and visit domlamour.com to learn more about Dom's diverse musical projects.Featuring:Dom L’Amour on vocals, Bovell on vocals, Johnathan Blanchard aka JB on vocals, Leslie Jones on sax, Scott Box on Sax, Madiac Max on Keys, Zach Smith on Drums, Britton Wright on bass, Born Foster on trumpet , Jerry on GuitarOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys and from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamKilling Me Softly by Charles Fox with lyrics by Norman Gimbel and covered by Dom L’Amour with Leslie Jones on Sax.Wade in The Water A spiritual covered by Johnathan (JB) Blanchard.Summertime from the musical “Porgy and Bess” music by George Gershwin and The lyrics are by DuBose Heyward. Covered by Dom L’Amour with Jerry on guitar.So What by Miles Davis Covered by Born Foster.Nature Boy written by eden ahbez as a tribute to Bill Pester. Covered by Bovell.Girl From Impanema by music by Antônio Carlos Jobim and Portuguese lyrics by Vinícius de Moraes, with English lyrics written later by Norman Gimbel. covered by DomSupport the show

Send a textThe unexpected peace that comes with slowing down sits at the heart of this deeply personal episode. Dom opens up about his mental journey navigating the end of wedding season—traditionally a time when performance gaps left him anxious and frustrated. But something's different this year.Through candid reflection, Dom shares how organizing his life last year and embracing discipline this year created a foundation for accepting where he is right now. "I feel like for a long time I allowed the unknown to dictate my whole day-to-day," he reveals, describing how he would obsess over opportunities not coming his way or compare himself to other performers seemingly achieving more. The breakthrough came when he realized everyone's path is different, and external validation couldn't provide what internal acceptance could.This shift allowed Dom to find profound joy in simple pleasures—hosting friends for dinner, catching an impromptu jazz jam without feeling compelled to record everything for social media, appreciating the home he's created that truly reflects who he is. He talks about challenging the performer's instinct to constantly hustle and instead embracing moments of genuine connection and creativity without agenda.Perhaps most powerful is Dom's realization that adulthood isn't about reaching some magical stage where everything makes sense. "When you start to realize that the world is not really changing, it's always going to be the same," he says, acknowledging that human dynamics remain consistent across all life phases. This perspective has freed him to stop waiting for some future state of arrival and instead embrace his journey exactly as it unfolds.Connect with Dom on Instagram @dom_lamour for more insights, music recommendations, or just to continue the conversation about finding peace in a world that rarely slows down.Support the show

Send a textGarden wisdom, friendship, and life's little surprises bloom in this delightful conversation between Dom L'Amour and his dear friend Mattie Jo "MJ" Graham. What begins with a quirky gardening tip about lime pellets for award-winning eggplants quickly blossoms into a wide-ranging exploration of how we connect to our food, our heritage, and each other.MJ, once known as "Big Booty Judy" during her Buffalo Wild Wings days, has transformed into "Gardening Judy" with an elaborate front yard garden that's become the talk of Cape Girardeau, Missouri. Her raised beds, archways, and chicken coop represent more than just a hobby—they're a reclamation of heritage and a statement about sustainable living. Meanwhile, Dom shares how continuing his grandmother's garden after her passing became both a tribute and a personal revolution in how he thinks about food.The pair trade gardening hacks and mishaps with equal enthusiasm—from MJ's ingenious in-garden vermicomposting system to hilariously failed attempts at deterring wildlife with various types of urine (yes, really). Their conversation reveals how gardening creates unexpected connections: between chickens and Japanese beetles, between seasonal growing and superior flavor, between past generations and present moments. When MJ confesses to crocheting a special gift inspired by Dom's wedding song, we witness how the seeds of friendship continue to flourish even as their lives take different paths.Beyond the soil and seeds, this episode digs into deeper questions about modern convenience versus meaningful effort. Why does a sun-warmed tomato taste so much better than store-bought? What happens when we slow down to mill our own flour or make pasta by hand? Why are we so quick to accept convenience over quality? As Dom and MJ riff on everything from whale vomit in cologne to yoga benefits, their genuine affection and comfortable banter remind us that the best relationships, like the best gardens, thrive with a mixture of care, laughter, and occasional surprises.Ready to plant some new ideas in your life? Hit subscribe and join the conversation about how reconnecting with our food might just help us reconnect with ourselves and each other.Opening quote: Alice Morse Earle, 1851-1911, American historian and author of Old Time Gardens, Newly Set ForthOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "This Guys in Love With You" Covered by Dom L'Amour and The Andrews at Lemon in Chicago.Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textWhat happens when a professional musician suddenly can't play? In this deeply reflective conversation, saxophonist Scott Box joins Dom Lamore to explore the unexpected journey of his recent hand injury and the profound questions it's raised about identity, purpose, and faith.Scott shares his raw emotional response to being sidelined from performing – the initial depression, the frustration of everyday tasks taking twice as long, and the struggle to find meaning in forced stillness. Yet within this challenge, new perspectives emerge: "Praise God, it gave me an appreciation for having two working limbs... Maybe I need to sit down for a minute and just relax. I've spent more time with my wife already. That's a beautiful thing."The conversation flows naturally into exploring the demanding lifestyle of professional musicians – late nights, weekend work, and the physical toll of performance. Both men discuss how they prepare their bodies and minds for shows, revealing the athletic discipline required behind the scenes of creative work. Their candid exchange about wedding band dynamics highlights the crucial importance of camaraderie: "That's one of the best hangs in a band that I've ever had. Ever."Perhaps most compelling is Scott's reflection on his conversion to Islam and the tension it created with his musical career. He thoughtfully questions whether music truly serves a spiritual purpose or merely provides entertainment and dopamine rushes. "We talk about how music brings people together," Scott observes, "but how does it bring people together? Because people coming together is still not a concrete concept." This leads to a fascinating examination of what makes something genuinely spiritual – the practical application rather than just the feeling it provides.As the discussion deepens, both men share their evolving sense of purpose. For Scott, it's increasingly centered around family relationships rather than career achievements. For Dom, it's about creating opportunities that showcase other artists' talents. Their honest exploration of life's big questions offers listeners a rare window into the inner landscape of working artists wrestling with meaning, authenticity, and intentionality.Ready to think more deeply about your own purpose and how you engage with the world? Subscribe now, share with friends, and join the conversation about what really matters beyond the noise of everyday life.Support the show

Send a text"Song bird singing in the night. Hoping that the lyrics will make everything right. People are cheering, people are moving. Everyone is surrounded by the song birds light.Song bird does this three times a week. Always excited but ends the night weak. Tired body, tired voice, tire of the normal life outside. Outside is the truth, but the stage is just a phase. No one could make that a living, god willing you meet the right person. Song bird talks about this all the time, and thinks about the stage. Afraid that their dream is a joke.Song bird continues to sing in the night, Never sure if this career is rightsad but happy, down but up. Trying to keep faith in this constant battle.Songbird yearns for folks who understands, and jumps from bar to bar for Mics.tears on their cheek, usually after doing something that makes them feel like the best person in the worldWhy is this the way songbird is? How are you This way? What drove you to this cliff?Songbird lives a different life, Has to stop comparing what other people like. Works at Night, 30 no kids, gig after gig, retiring just means you Quit. Poor Thing, Lost and confused, Innocent like Bella Baxter.Songbird sings, Songbird crys, Songbird loves, songbird flys, Songbird Stops, Songbird goes again. When Will Song bird become a star, Maybe Now, Maybe never. Its possible they are a Star, but we just cant see it. Another state of mind could lift us all away. Bliss is achievable.songbird I believe in you. The things you do are beautiful. Never live by another peoples rule. You are the Star, A unique, Talented, Confident, Inspiring, Marvelous Jewel."Have you ever felt like you're pouring your heart into something beautiful that the world just isn't seeing? This raw, emotional exploration follows Songbird, a performer caught between the magic of creative expression and the harsh realities of making art in a world that demands practicality.Songbird takes the stage three times weekly, transforming venues with their voice while privately battling exhaustion and doubt. "Outside is the truth, but the stage is just a phase. No one can make that a living," echoes the refrain they've heard countless times. We witness the emotional whiplash of being simultaneously elevated by performance and deflated by society's dismissal of artistic pursuits as merely a stepping stone to something more "legitimate."At 30, Songbird exists outside conventional timelines—working nights, moving from gig to gig, and navigating a path that friends and family struggle to understand. The tears that follow performances reveal the complex emotional landscape artists inhabit: feeling simultaneously like "the best person in the world" while questioning if they're merely chasing an impossible dream. Yet through this uncertainty comes a profound realization that transcends traditional measures of success: "They are a star, we just can't see it." Perhaps true artistry isn't about external validation but recognizing the unique light you already bring to the world. If you've ever felt misunderstood in your passion or questioned your creative path, this episode will remind you that your worth isn't defined by recognition but by the courage to share your gifts authentically.Poem by. Dom L'Amour. Produced by Dom L'Amour. Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99. Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys and from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team.You can support the show by clicking the link at the bottom of the episode description. Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me onSupport the show

Send a text"Will you go away with meI never thought about the simple thingsSmiling in sync , feeling the windI want to do this again and again Will you go away with meMy curiousity is loudly pleadingWondering do you see what I seeCan you see you and meEvery day is another daySeeing folks just past my wayBut today I stop and turn to youMy truthGreen grass will change it's shape Blue skys can turn to greyLove is hard and not for playYet, I'll be willing to sayWill you go away with me?"Poem by. Dom L'AmourProduced by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamYou can support the show by clicking the link at the bottom of the episode description. Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.com.Support the show

Send a text"My favorite part of a camp fire is when the wood begins to glowIt's things like this that I think about more each day that I grow olderThe calm, the crackle. The smell, the smile on my face. It's magical. When I was younger I didn't look out the window and see. I saw a bunch of nothing. Now I see the trees, the sky, the water, the life that's happening in front of me.I enjoy just how rare it is to see and hear how beautiful those things are.Our society is stuck in boxes, digital hell holes, that never needs water because those trees are fake. Those pictures are stages, those comments are AI.We live in a world thats on the edge of World War 3, and I feel like we are pulled away from the simple things even more today. We can't have a thought without just pulling our phone out. I wonder what 8 oz's is in Cups. Siri, what's 8 oz's in Cups? And its there. You don't call your mother for that answer anymore, You don't reach out to your grandmother who loves to feel needed. We are stuck. I feel So stuck constantly. Will anything change, will the world slow down again like it did in 2020. Will I be able to smell the roses, and drive down topanga canyon in Los Angeles and See the ocean without any smog? Will we be able to go anywhere in the world and not be judged because We come from a country that's not respected anymore. When will the fire glow when will there be peace in my mindWhen will I believe in humanityWhen will the people around me see what I seeHow is it just me. Why is it just me. I crave that calm, that crackle, that wonderful smell of a magical camp fire"Remember when you last sat by a campfire, mesmerized by glowing embers, breathing in that distinctive smoky scent? This reflective journey explores how such simple pleasures become more meaningful as we age, when our perception shifts from seeing "a bunch of nothing" to noticing the trees, sky, water - the life unfolding before our eyes.Against the backdrop of a world teetering on global conflict, we've become increasingly disconnected from these authentic experiences. We've traded meaningful human interactions for digital conveniences - asking Siri questions we once directed to our mothers or grandmothers who valued feeling needed. Our society has become confined to "digital hell holes" filled with staged photos and artificial engagement, pulling us further away from genuine connection with our surroundings and each other.This deeply personal monologue questions when things might change: Will we experience another global pause like 2020 that allowed nature to briefly reclaim its spaces? Will we drive down scenic routes without smog obscuring the view? When will peace of mind return, and when will humanity collectively recognize what we've lost? The narrator craves the calm, the crackle, the magical essence of a campfire - essentially longing for a return to presence and authenticity in an increasingly disconnected world. Take a moment away from your screen today to notice something real around you - what simple beauty have you been missing?Poem by. Dom L'AmourProduced by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamYou can support the show by clicking the link at the bottom of the episode description. Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.com.Support the show

Send a text"Time. 6/27/24 12:49pm. Location Poem was written. Sharpsburg GA. Home, Saint LouisDoesn’t matter where I live in the world!Chicago. My home is saint louis.Los Angeles. My home in saint LouisNo matter where I visit in the worldNassau. My home is Saint LouisDublin. My home is saint louis. It doesn’t matter.Will you support the Atlanta braves? If the cardinals aren’t playing…maybe You must love living in a town with a football team. You live the falcons right.My football team play in the UFL and their name is the battle hawks.I am saint louis Missouri, through and through. I am toasted ravioli. I am imos pizza. I am bread co. My first date was at a pasta house. I got married in forest parkmy order is a Half order of shrimp fried rice, a shrimp Saint Paul sandwich, a peach vess with some egg rolls. EVERY SINGLE TIME FOLKS.Good and bad, saint Louis has my heart. I love a cardinals game, but I also want to see ball park village stop enforcing strange dress codes like “No jerseys, athletic shorts, sagging pants or shorts, or bandanas”. We know who you are talking about. And also the venue is 15 steps away from Baseball heaven…BUSCH STATDIUM. I love Nelly, Jayson Tatum, David freeze and Stan the manI can smell the food trucks in tower grove park sitting in my house right now.I hear the music at the botanical gardens. I can feel the fans blowing during intermission at the Muny. I see the kids rolling down Art hill.I remember falling asleep on the floor at saints during the lock ins. Wearing baby blue Air Force ones with a baby blue Micheal Jordan North Carolina jersey on and a pair of gah-bows.I can taste the donuts from pharaohs donuts. I can taste the beer at schlafys. I can taste my grandmothers greens. I’m wearing a STL HAT here, there and everywhere. I don’t own a hat with another city on it. People have Seen my hometown pride in magome, tsumago, Kyoto and hakone.How can I be me without my city.I hear miles Davis in Mexico, I see Black Lives Matter in Ireland. I know that Ferguson is 12 miles from downtown STL.I believe that I’m a force of nature, because of my city. You don’t scare me. You don’t know what I’ve seen, but also the love that I share comes from the people, the music, the food, the community that raised me.My white Air Force ones with the gum bottoms if you know you know, but to most it isn’t a dead give away. The way I say therr slips out from time to time. My favorite quarterback is Kurt Warner. May not say you much. My closet has 38 items that say either STL, Saint Louis, Kirkwood, or the wood. But you can’t get into my closet. My father played baseball with Nelly back in the day, my grandfather use to bodyguard for Ike and Tina on the east side, I was on the cover of Louie magazine in high school, OH what high school did I go to you ask? Kirkwood class of 07! I have an 30 pack of Bud select in my refrigerator downstairs here in Georgia right now. All these things but what you truly need to see is this.I’m a young black man, raised by a single mother on the south side of STL. I’m not rich, I’m not a monster success. Where I’m from, I knew people who never left the city. I knew people who were murdered, I knew the difference between fireworks and guns as a child. But I’m alive. I’m married, working on a family. College grad, and proud of my hometown. I am a visual representation of saint louis. The city comes in different colors, shapes and sizes. But it’s Strong.Loving.Smart.Hard.Old.Beautiful.Ugly.Troubling.Confusing.Inspiring. Growing.Big.A wee bit racist.Yet progressive.Historic.Conservative. Free. I mean everything. The zoo, Support the show

Send a textHave you ever wondered if our hyper-connected world is actually making us more disconnected from what truly matters? In this profoundly human conversation, host Dom L'Amour sits down with musician Jacob Zengerling to explore the spaces between digital noise and genuine human connection.The pair navigate through deceptively simple questions with far-reaching implications: Why do we cling to arbitrary New Year's resolutions when ancient civilizations followed natural cycles? How have corporations created endless consumption loops that benefit few while harming many? And most importantly, how might focusing on our personal growth create ripple effects that transform communities?"The more that we can get our own personal selves to a life that we want, we set that example for the world," Jacob reflects, offering a perspective that shifts responsibility from external systems to internal development. This becomes the conversation's throughline as they examine everything from minimum wage stagnation to the beauty of locally-sourced economies they've witnessed abroad.What emerges is a thoughtful examination of modern living that doesn't shy away from difficult truths. Dom and Jacob acknowledge the challenges of navigating social interactions, misreading signals, and responding to negativity with compassion rather than confrontation. "Hurt people hurt people," Jacob notes, suggesting our response to hostility might best be understanding rather than escalation.The conversation takes unexpected turns into practical wisdom, from Jacob's fascinating discovery of traditional incense ceremonies that profoundly regulate the nervous system to Dom's reflections on finding musical community. Their exchange culminates in Jacob's powerful affirmation that "we are safe and supported in more ways than we could possibly understand" – a perspective that offers comfort in uncertain times.Whether you're questioning your relationship with consumer culture, seeking deeper connections, or simply looking for permission to prioritize self-work, this episode provides both comforting validation and gentle challenges to conventional thinking. Listen now and join the conversation about creating meaning in a distracted world.Opening quote by Jim RohnOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol.1 and Vol. 2 by Mad KeysFeatured song is "Baby You" From the album "Sweet Dreams" by Dom L'Amour Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textWhen happiness breaks through anxiety, do you grab it with both hands? That precious moment of joy becomes something to savor, especially when the mind constantly works against you. In this soulful conversation, Shane Murphy opens up about the internal battle between finding creative fulfillment and maintaining financial security.Shane's journey from self-described loner to partner reveals how love transforms perspective. "Everything is so much freer and I feel so much more confident and supported," he shares, describing how his relationship with Erica provides a foundation that makes pursuing creative passions less daunting. The genuine warmth between these two friends—who first bonded performing as the Bee Gees in a musical revue—creates space for vulnerable admissions about career fears and artistic dreams.The heart of their discussion explores that universal struggle many artists face: how do you honor your soul's calling while paying the bills? Shane's anxiety about leaving his finance job to pursue music fully resonates with anyone who's felt trapped between security and passion. Meanwhile, Dom shares practical approaches to organizing creative pursuits, suggesting that accomplishing just three career-focused tasks daily builds momentum without overwhelming.Their conversation weaves through mindfulness practices, overcoming self-doubt, and finding joy in focused activities from painting miniatures to practicing scales. The most poignant moments come when they acknowledge how easily we talk ourselves out of opportunities before even trying. "Just email them," Shane realizes about potential collaborators. "People want nobody comes to this show to see you mess up."Listen for their spontaneous, soul-stirring rendition of Sam Cooke's "Bring It On Home To Me"—a perfect demonstration of the talent and connection that makes this friendship special. Whether you're wrestling with anxiety, balancing practicality with dreams, or simply seeking more intentional joy, this episode offers both comfort and gentle challenge to take that first small step forward.Guest: Shane Murphy AKA @theshanemurphyOpening quote: Roy T. BennettOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "This Guys in love with you" Covered by Dom L'Amour and The Andrews at Lemon Bar in Chicago.Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Featured song : "Bring it on home to me" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Shane MurphyPlease subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a text"When kids draw to you, they see your heart." This simple but profound observation sets the tone for a rich conversation between Dom L’Amour and his best friend Chris Bates about what truly matters in our relationships with family, work, and ourselves.The episode begins with Chris sharing his unexpected joy in working from home while raising his daughter Jaide. Rather than feeling the guilt that many parents experience when balancing careers and childcare, he's discovered a rhythm that allows him to be present throughout the day. "I've been able to create a routine where I don't have to overcompensate for time with my child, because I'm around her all day," Chris explains, challenging conventional notions about work-life separation.This leads to a fascinating exploration of how our relationship with work fundamentally misaligns with human needs. With eight hours for work and eight for sleep, we're left scrambling to fit everything else into the remaining time. Is it any wonder that Chris and Dom have come to value random weekdays off more than traditional weekends? The freedom from crowds, the better service at restaurants, and the peace of enjoying experiences rather than just enduring them makes a compelling case for rethinking how we structure our time.Perhaps the most thought-provoking segment emerges when the conversation shifts to family dynamics and boundary-setting. "Are you intertwining family with love? Because family and love are two different things," Chris observes, cutting through the obligatory nature of many family relationships. As we age and recognize patterns in how people treat us, the line between who deserves our time and energy naturally shifts, regardless of blood ties. This isn't about abandoning family but about establishing mutual respect within these relationships.The episode closes with Chris reflecting on the pure joy of being "Uncle Chris" to his nieces and nephew. The genuine connection he feels when children choose to love him speaks to something we all crave – authentic relationships based on who we truly are rather than what we provide or represent.Whether you're reassessing your work situation, navigating complex family dynamics, or simply trying to find more joy in everyday moments, this conversation offers both wisdom and permission to create boundaries that honor your authentic self. Listen now and join Dom and Chris in exploring what it means to be truly present in all aspects of life.Opening quote: Christine MorganOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "This Guys in love with you" Covered by Dom L'Amour and The Andrews at Lemon Bar in Chicago.Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textTake a seat and get ready to test your knowledge alongside Dom and Bates as they face off in an electrifying game of Black Jeopardy on this special episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast. What starts with a simple rock-paper-scissors showdown quickly evolves into a riveting battle of wits across five categories: Black TV shows, music, pop culture, Black history, and movie quotes.The chemistry between Dom and Bates drives this episode, as they navigate questions ranging from identifying Rosa Parks' Montgomery bus boycott to recalling the iconic "Go home, Roger" catchphrase from Sister, Sister. Listen as they confidently answer some questions ("King Kong ain't got shit on me" from Training Day) while hilariously struggling with others (the names of the four women on Living Single). Their competitive banter creates moments of genuine hilarity, especially when they digress into an impromptu discussion about the contrasting approaches of Booker T. Washington and W.E.B. Du Bois.Beyond the entertainment value, this episode serves as a celebration of Black cultural knowledge and history. Whether they're reciting Drake lyrics ("Last name ever, first name greatest") or reflecting on Emmett Till's historical significance, Dom and Bates demonstrate how games can be both fun and educational. The friendly competition culminates with Dom claiming victory at 1,000 points to Bates' negative 200, though not without some good-natured protests about question difficulty.Whether you're a trivia enthusiast or simply looking for an entertaining, knowledge-filled listen, this episode delivers laughs while showcasing the richness of Black culture across multiple domains. Follow both Dom and Bates on social media, subscribe to the podcast, and if you enjoyed this playful format, check out their previous collaboration, "New Year's Day Flowers."Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a text"If you weren't so damn nice, you'd be successful." These words, spoken to Dom L’Amour years ago, sparked a profound journey of self-discovery that unfolds throughout this intimate conversation with Cleveland Jones. For artists navigating the music industry, establishing your value doesn't come with a handbook. Cleveland openly shares the moment someone told him he was "like a hoe that people can pimp out" because he didn't recognize his own worth—a brutal assessment that changed how he viewed himself professionally. Dom echoes this experience, recounting his own struggles with industry professionals who sensed his eagerness to please and exploited it.As Cleveland approaches his fifties, he candidly discusses facing retirement without traditional financial safety nets, a reality many creative professionals encounter. The conversation takes a fascinating turn when they explore the concept of "choosing your pain" rather than simply setting goals—deciding what sacrifices you're willing to make and which boundaries remain non-negotiable. For Dom, no career opportunity justifies sacrificing family relationships; for Cleveland, maintaining his peace of mind has become paramount.The beauty of this exchange lies in its remarkable vulnerability. Both men acknowledge the unconventional reality of a performer's life—working when others socialize, facing constant rejection, and learning to protect their creative spirits while building sustainable careers. Their shared wisdom offers a masterclass for artists at any stage: true success comes from honoring your craft, knowing your worth, and staying true to personal values.Whether you're a musician, creative professional, or simply someone navigating your own path to self-value, this conversation provides both practical wisdom and emotional resonance. Subscribe now to join a community exploring the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of Black men speaking their truths.Opening quote by Stevie wonderOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song : "Domie" Preformed by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textWhen everything feels overwhelming—from global conflicts to personal struggles—how do we find clarity and peace? This raw mental check-in episode explores the powerful intersection between worldwide chaos and individual challenges that many of us are silently navigating.Sharing my personal journey toward an 8.5/10 mental state, I reveal how removing social media apps from my phone transformed my ability to think clearly, connect meaningfully, and rediscover creative focus. This simple change created space for genuine growth during a time when global events and personal milestones collided in overwhelming ways.The discipline of maintaining digital boundaries has rippled through every aspect of my life, from relationships to productivity. Instead of hoping things will improve—whether it's fertility challenges, family disagreements, or career uncertainty—I've learned to accept reality while taking concrete action on what I can control. The first step toward change is awareness; the second is acceptance.For anyone feeling pulled in multiple directions or struggling to find mental clarity amid constant information, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on putting yourself first without guilt. Because true self-care isn't selfish—it's necessary for showing up fully in our increasingly complex world. Subscribe, share your own mental health journey, and let's continue this important conversation together.Opening quote: Nathaniel BrandenOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Christopher Shank  about  our creative process, being more organized, working on ourselves and so much more.What if the secret to creativity isn't waiting for inspiration to strike, but simply showing up consistently? In this thoughtful conversation with screenwriter and friend of the show Christopher Shank, we dive deep into the mechanics of the creative process and challenge the notion that artists need to wait for the perfect moment of inspiration.Shank shares how breaking down his scriptwriting into manageable chunks—sometimes just a single scene during lunch—has transformed his productivity while preserving his mental health. Meanwhile, I've discovered that continuously moving between projects—songs, poems, musical scenes—keeps my creative muscles active without feeling burnt out on any single endeavor. We both agree: consistency trumps intensity when it comes to sustainable creative work.The conversation takes a fascinating turn when we explore the relationship between creators and their tools. I detail my practice of designating specific pencils for specific tasks—drawing inspiration from Japanese perspectives on objects having their own energy or spirit. There's something powerful about treating creative tools with intention rather than mere utility. As Shank puts it, "Everything has its own energy."We also unpack how ideas evolve in unexpected ways. Shank describes a story he's worked on for nearly two decades that finally clicked when he found the right metaphor, while I recount how a song inspired by "Cherokee" transformed from an attempted tribute to Native American history into a personal reflection about living off Cherokee Street. Creative ideas rarely arrive fully formed—they need time and space to evolve.Whether you're a seasoned creator struggling with blocks or someone just beginning to explore your creative potential, this episode offers practical wisdom for sustaining your practice through both inspiration and drought. Subscribe now and join our continuing exploration of creativity, emotion, and the human experience.Opening quote by Aldous Huxley Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song : "Nothin" by Dom L'Amour Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with my girl Maria Bartolotta about Her 10 years of being sober, struggles with moving, Relationships with family and friends, and so much more.Grateful drunks never drink." These six words have carried Maria Bartolotta through a decade of sobriety—a journey that began in a world almost unrecognizable from today. Think: Blockbuster stores still open, Netflix mailing DVDs, BlackBerry phones, and Ebola dominating health headlines.Dom Lamour and Maria dive deep into what it means to maintain sobriety not just as a lifestyle choice, but as a necessity. With remarkable candor, Maria reveals how recovery tools have shaped her approach to life's biggest challenges, particularly her recent decision to leave New York and return to her hometown. "My ego says you failed, you just turned 35 and you're living with your parents," she admits, despite knowing logically that the move opens new creative doors.The conversation explores the delicate balance between artistic ambition and mental wellbeing. Both performers share the strange paradox of their chosen path—the constant questioning, the difficulty of defining success, and the crucial importance of remembering your "why." For Maria, that purpose has evolved from simply wanting to perform full-time to creating art that makes others feel seen and less alone.Most powerfully, they discuss how practices like gratitude lists, meditation, and yoga serve as anchors during life transitions. Maria shares how becoming more selective with her energy has led to healthier relationships, while still battling the tendency to isolate when things get tough. The episode concludes with a beautiful meditation on finding joy in small things—like snowfall—and the power of staying present even when feeling raw.Whether you're navigating sobriety, considering a major life change, or simply trying to honor your creative purpose while paying the bills, this conversation offers both practical tools and emotional reassurance. Subscribe, share, and connect with Maria (@maria_bartolotta_1) and Dom (@DOM_LAMOUR) on Instagram to continue the conversation.Opening quote by AAOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song : "Maybe This Time" Preformed by Dom L'Amour and Maria BartolottaCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Larry Rodriguez aka @larryrodgram about Expectations around the holidays, GNX, The State of Cinema and so much more!"Why are these girls twerking? Why do I see movies everywhere? Why is it constantly showing me stuff I show no interest in?" These aren't just random questions—they're part of a deeper reflection on how we consume digital content versus how carefully we once selected what went into our bodies.In this thought-provoking episode, Dom L’Amour and filmmaker Larry Rodriguez dive into the parallels between mindful eating and mindful scrolling, revealing how our digital diet might need the same scrutiny we once gave food labels. "I have to find a way to eliminate that helplessness that social media creates," Dom shares, sparking a conversation that will make you reconsider your own consumption habits.The conversation flows naturally through holiday expectations, exploring how traditions evolve as we age and form our own families. From the stress of meaningful gift-giving to the corporate-driven pressure of Christmas and New Year's, they dissect why these celebrations often leave us feeling drained rather than fulfilled. Larry offers a refreshing perspective: "Thanksgiving, I've found out the older I've gotten, is the better holiday, just because there's no pressure with it."When the discussion turns to Kendrick Lamar's GNX album, both men light up with appreciation for authentic artistry. Their analysis of the Kendrick vs. Drake beef transcends simple rap rivalry, becoming a meditation on cultural authenticity versus commercial success. "When you listen to Kendrick, you learn about the lifestyle of a person living in LA," Dom notes, highlighting how true art connects to lived experience.The episode concludes with a candid assessment of cinema's current state, where studio politics and financial motivations often override creative integrity. Yet despite these challenges, both remain hopeful about storytelling's power when creators focus on substance over spectacle.Ready to reevaluate your digital diet? Subscribe now and join this essential conversation about mindful consumption in all areas of life.Opening quote: Terrell OwensOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Sweet Dreams" Lyrics by Dom L'Amour, Music by Mike HarveyCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show of the show Ryan O'fallon AKA @Ofallonryan about going to college in Cape Girardeau, Life in the Air force and Growth.Dive into an engaging exploration of relationships, personal growth, and life lessons woven seamlessly into the experiences shared through the years at Southeast Missouri State University and the vibrant culture of Cape Girardeau. In this episode, Dom and special guest Ryan O'Fallon reflect on their time in college, discussing how friendships were forged amid the backdrop of youthful exuberance and burgeoning adulthood. At the heart of their recollections are the complex dynamics of loyalty, misunderstanding, and growth, underscoring the lessons learned during vibrant yet challenging years spent in a quaint college town. They candidly traverse emotions tied to camaraderie, rivalry, and the meaningful connections that shaped them as individuals.Ryan shares poignant stories from his military career, detailing how the discipline and values learned have profoundly influenced his perspectives today. Balancing light-hearted moments with profound discussions, the episode resonates with listeners who have navigated similar paths. Emphasizing self-responsibility, resilience, and understanding, it paints a comprehensive picture of growth that surpasses the limits of comfort zones. The conversation burgeons with relatable tales of nostalgia, showcasing how memories from Cape Girardeau linger warmly in their hearts while encouraging introspection about one's journey.Through laughter and reflection, this episode not only celebrates the past but also champions how experiences can mold us into the individuals we aspire to be. Stay tuned for insights and encouragement, and please subscribe to join our community as we craft stories through the lens of life.Opening quote: JFKOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1 (Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "HoneySuckle Rose" By Fats WallerCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show Jon Chester about his New Marriage and his final thoughts before getting married, and the meaning behind Working Smarter not Harder.Discover the intricate balance of wedding planning and emotional connection! This episode emphasizes the need to prioritize moments that truly matter, pushing against the chaos often associated with organizing a wedding.• Navigating overwhelm while planning  • Finding peace in moments of chaos  • Importance of couple-focused decision making  • The balance between aesthetics and substance  • Communicating effectively as a couple  • Embracing the 'work smart, not hard' philosophy  • Reflecting on personal experiences and lessons  • Prioritizing family support and personal joy  • Key takeaways for couples approaching marriage  Opening quote: Victor HugoOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Janet's Song" By Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textAmid the chaos of the music industry, how does one find the perfect equilibrium between self-care and discipline? Join me and my good friend, musician Michael Harvey, as we unravel this balancing act on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast. We explore the crucial role of self-care practices like journaling, therapy, and meditation while emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and taking time for yourself outside of work. Discover how paying attention to the details, whether in music or life, becomes a game-changer in maintaining happiness and harmony.The pandemic reshaped lives globally, and the St. Louis music community was no exception. We share personal anecdotes about navigating through the pandemic's challenges, from the shared panic at grocery stores to the somber losses within our music family. Yet amid the turmoil, opportunities emerged—new collaborations on country music projects and mixing church broadcasts, to name a few. Our reflections highlight the pandemic's dual nature, as a time of both loss and unexpected growth, reminding us of the shifting landscapes we now inhabit.As we venture into professionalism and discipline, parallels emerge between a band and a basketball team: each member has a unique role contributing to the greater success. We reminisce about wedding gigs, where dedication and preparation were key to delivering standout performances. Recording studio memories offer a glimpse into a journey fueled by musical chemistry and creative freedom, celebrating unexpected talents and cherished collaborations. As the episode wraps up, gratitude flows for our listeners and supporters, inviting them to continue this journey of boundless music-making and connection.Opening quote: PlatoOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "You Are Mine to Lose" Lyrics by Dom L'Amour, Music by Mike HarveyCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Jacob Buckenmyer (@jabucke) about Drinking, The California Fires, Education and so much more!What happens when you mix the heart of Los Angeles with an exploration of emotions, food, and culture? I'm joined by my friend Jacob Buckenmyer to unpack the myths surrounding LA’s identity, especially in the face of the California fires, and to challenge the stereotype of it being just a playground for the elites. We dive into our personal journeys with alcohol, from growing up in a dry household to those wake-up calls that made us rethink our habits. Jacob’s stories are both candid and relatable, painting a picture of how environments and experiences shape our perceptions and choices.Food lovers, prepare to challenge your understanding of dining! We share contrasts between Italian leisurely meals and the fast-paced American food culture, inviting you to rethink what it means to truly savor a meal. Our conversation touches on deeper themes of generational influences and how the scarcity mindset can shape our approach to food. These reflections serve as a springboard to discuss the broader cultural narratives that influence our consumption habits and how childhood teachings linger into adulthood.We also venture into the educational landscape, highlighting the gaps in traditional teaching methods and the need for practical life skills in school curriculums. The conversation shifts toward political discourse and the resilience found within LA’s diverse communities. With a spirited nod to the film industry and the Star Wars saga, we celebrate storytelling, collaboration, and the enduring spirit of Los Angeles, revealing a city that is much more than its Hollywood facade. Join us in reflecting on the narratives that shape our world and the communities that bring them to life.Opening quote: MLKOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "I Will Always Be Loving You" Lyrics by Dom L'Amour, Music by Mike HarveyCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show J Boogie AKA Jon Butts AKA @jonbuttsishere!Can Kendrick Lamar's lyrical genius outshine Drake's chart-topping dominance? Join us on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as we navigate this intricate rivalry with our insightful guest, Jon Butts. We'll revisit the explosive moment Kendrick's "control" verse shook the hip-hop world and dissect how the tension between these two titans illuminates the fine line between pure artistry and commercial success. While unpacking their professional dynamics, we also weigh in on public perceptions of other influential figures like Young Thug and Sexy Red, offering fresh insights into the ever-evolving hip-hop landscape.In our heartfelt exploration of Kendrick Lamar's discography, we celebrate the monumental impact of albums like "To Pimp a Butterfly" and "Good Kid, M.A.A.D City," sharing personal reflections on their storytelling prowess. The conversation takes a critical turn as we scrutinize Drake's reliance on ghostwriters, particularly in "Take Care," and question how this practice measures up against the self-written standards set by hip-hop legends like LL Cool J and Rakim. With comparisons to Kanye West's "Graduation," we ponder the balance between mainstream appeal and thematic depth in contemporary hip-hop.Bringing warmth and personal touch, we shift to notable moments within the hip-hop community, examining Drake's relationship with Lil Wayne and the broader cultural impact of events like Kendrick's Super Bowl performance. We also consider the influence of hip-hop on personal identities and cultural narratives, reflecting on the communal spirit of the Los Angeles Lakers and the legacies of Kobe Bryant and Nipsey Hussle. From artistic beefs to independent music endeavors, this episode captures the essence of hip-hop's vibrant culture, its challenges, and its ongoing evolution.Opening quote: Kendrick LamarrOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Valentines Day" By Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show aka best friend of the show Chris Bate AKA @chriselb_88.What if the key to understanding global politics lies in our own living rooms, wrapped in family traditions and heartfelt conversations? Join us on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as we navigate through the intricate world of politics and personal growth. Together with my close friend Chris Bates, we untangle the complexities surrounding President Biden's current challenges, the economic landscape shaped by corporate influence, and the political drama involving his son. As the Israel and Hamas conflict intensifies, we advocate for empathy and informed discussions, acknowledging the importance of creating new traditions and fostering personal growth amidst international tensions.Amidst a backdrop of shifting global alliances, we tackle pressing political and social issues, from the ongoing war in Ukraine to Donald Trump's recent election and its impact on public sentiment. Our conversation with Chris sheds light on Puerto Rico's enduring struggles with natural disasters and inadequate U.S. support, highlighting systemic inequalities. We also examine the intricacies of political maneuvering, especially in the context of Joe Biden's controversial decision regarding his son, adding a lighter yet insightful twist to our discussions.Turning to personal narratives, we explore the evolution of holiday traditions and family dynamics, from cherished childhood memories to the creation of new customs that resonate with us today. Reflecting on past performances and holiday celebrations, I share how the loss of my father reshaped my approach to festivities, emphasizing the importance of meaningful gifts and balancing old and new traditions. Through intimate stories, we underscore the profound value of family connections, fostering an atmosphere of love and gratitude, and creating lasting memories that carry us through the challenges of life.Opening quote: Carl BardOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Fever" Covered by Dom L'Amour and The Andrews at Lemon Bar in Chicago.Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textEver wondered why it's crucial to educate yourself before heading to the polls? In this heartfelt finale of the season, I, Dom L'Amour, share my journey of political self-discovery and the imperative of personal research when choosing leaders like Kamala Harris. Initially poised to break down my reasons for supporting her, I instead realized the futility of convincing those unwilling to research themselves. Instead, I am channeling my energy into real-world activism by volunteering for the Democratic Party in Georgia. Let’s explore why informed voting matters and how small actions can catalyze significant political change.Additionally, this episode serves as a warm thank you to everyone who has supported The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast throughout the year. Your feedback, encouragement, and shared love have driven meaningful conversations on this platform. As I work on my next album, "Domie," slated for release next year or early 2027, I send you my deepest gratitude and best wishes for a joyous holiday season.Special Thank You to:Christopher Shank and Derrick Staten for being subscribers who donate to the pod each month.Stay tuned for more engaging content when we return in Black History Month, and keep up with me on Instagram @dom_lamour for updates and behind-the-scenes moments. Much love to you all!Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Mark Reichard AKA @pluark about living in la working in the film industry, politics and so much more.Join us as we navigate the intricate relationship between staying informed in politics and the industry dynamics in Los Angeles. We start with a heartfelt chat on why it's crucial to hold our leaders, especially those like Kamala Harris, to the highest standards. From the importance of staying vigilant against unchecked political tactics to the resilience needed during the recent industry strike, Mark shares his unique experiences and insights living in LA.Ever wondered how to keep your creative spark alive while working in the high-pressure entertainment industry? We’ve got you covered. Mark and I discuss the balance between maintaining passion and facing the industry’s demands. Sharing personal stories, including an exciting music video project on the Sunset Strip and the incredible contributions of art department veteran Josh Meltzer, we highlight the importance of supportive friendships. The chapter mirrors the joy and enthusiasm that drive us, even amid the challenges.As the conversation deepens, we explore the realities of life in Los Angeles, the democratization of filmmaking through technology, and the broader political landscape. From the emotional toll of starting fresh in a diverse city to the contrasting treatment of political leaders by Republicans and Democrats, our discussion is both insightful and reflective. We wrap up with a sneak peek into my upcoming album "Domie,”, and a call to action for listeners to find their tribe and nurture meaningful connections. Whether you’re an aspiring filmmaker or a politically conscious individual, this episode offers a rich tapestry of experiences and reflections.Opening quote: John LewisOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Adrienne's Interlude" by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast.Ever wondered how to balance the demands of work and personal life while still giving your best self to loved ones? Inspired by a powerful James Baldwin interview, we reflect on the importance of nurturing relationships with acts of service and presence, even after a tough day. This episode of Black Man Talking Emotions wraps up season two with a heartfelt discussion on balancing professional and personal responsibilities, providing insights that are especially relevant in today's challenging work environments.The joys and sacrifices of parenthood are front and center in our next segment. My guest shares the emotional fulfillment of watching their children grow and discuss the natural inclination to prioritize their needs. Special guest Shannon O'Keefe, recounts her transformative journey from finding solace in dance to achieving a fuller sense of happiness outside the entertainment industry. This conversation offers a rich exploration of love, responsibility, and self-discovery within the family unit, highlighting the progress we've made since our college days.Lastly, we explore the serene beauty of the Japanese green tea ceremony and its mindful approach to caffeine consumption. Personal anecdotes weave through our discussion on adapting this ancient ritual into daily life, reflecting on the cultural nuances and community care in Japan. From the intriguing belief in animism to the communal mindset that emphasizes care and respect, we consider how these cultural practices can inspire a more intentional and respectful way of living. Join us as we touch on navigating multiple identities as an artist, and the importance of authenticity and continual self-evaluation in various roles.Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Listen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtepTodays featured clips came from these past episodes:-Unmasking-our-true-selves-embracing-change-and-authentic-connections-with-storm-freeman-The Dance of Adulthood, Embracing the Past and Present with Reverend Jeff-Shannon O'Keefe on Embracing Change and Finding Joy-Another Check in with Chris Bates-Unveiling True Self: Leana Welker's Transition Story-Tea Ceremonies, Travel Stories, and More with Jacob Buckmeyer-Tales from the Stage Life's Melodic Truths with Bovell AKA Kaylan RoystonListen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtepPlease subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast.What happens when the traumas of our parents shape our future relationships? This episode kicks off with a heartfelt conversation about breaking the cycle of generational trauma. Our guest opens up about the impact of her parents' divorce on her own relationships and her journey to be the mother she never had. She shares her fears and hopes upon learning she was having a daughter, and how the supportive role of her father has helped her navigate through these challenges. This segment is a testament to resilience and the conscious choices we make for the well-being of future generations.Next, we delve into the bittersweet reality of leaving home for personal growth. Our guest reflects on moving from St. Louis to Colorado, the guilt of missing family milestones, and the feeling of being an outsider upon returning home. We discuss the importance of advocacy, especially in the light of social movements like Black Lives Matter, and the responsibility of being a white ally in predominantly white spaces. This discussion emphasizes not just the complexities of identity but also the necessity of confronting ignorance and prejudice in our everyday interactions.Wrapping up, we take a nostalgic trip down memory lane to a dorm room conversation. Our guest, now a father of four daughters, shares the joys and challenges of parenting. From balancing strictness with letting kids learn on their own to the academic pride he feels for his daughters, it's a candid look into fatherhood. We also indulge in a heated LeBron vs. Kobe debate, showcasing the passionate side of sports fandom. This episode is a rich tapestry of personal stories, advocacy, and heartfelt reflections on family and identity, promising to leave you thinking long after it ends.Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Listen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtepTodays featured clips came from these past episodes:-Cultural Shifts, Family Dynamics, and Growth with Hannah Moore-Exploring Culture and Cuisine with Sam Niehaus-Chasing Dreams and Raising Kids with Heath Kennedy-Navigating Fatherhood and the Digital Age with Scotty-Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Family Life with Benjamin Stevens-Embracing Motherhood and the Bonds of Friendship with Jessi Lynn-Political Talk with Jon Butts-The Question Game for Mother's DayListen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtepPlease subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour looks back on the second season of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast.How has the internet shaped our perceptions of abstinence, finances, and personal goals? Discover how authenticity in creative pursuits, especially in the music industry, can lead to lasting recognition rather than fleeting social media fame. Join me, Dom L’Amour, as we explore the profound influence of digital platforms on our decisions and underscore the importance of genuine face-to-face conversations.In this highlight reel from season two of The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast, we revisit transformative moments that reveal how personal experiences and societal issues intersect. From the significance of Roe v. Wade for women with high-risk pregnancies to the inspiring impact of marriage on artists, I share personal insights into navigating these life-altering events. Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Listen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtepTodays featured clips came from these past episodes:-Behind the Music: Standing Firm in Artistry and Tackling the Live Stage with Dom L'Amour and Bo Lamar-Unwrapping Humor with Cameron Keys-Building strong Relationships through Transparent Conversations with Jessica Trapp-Resonating Beyond the Music with Linda Marks-New Years Day Flowers Featuring Chris Bates-CP Time with Nic Tayborn-Navigating the Spiritual Landscape: With Dom L'Amour & Taylor Pace-Harmonizing Passions and Adventures with Michael JordanListen to full episodes here: https://domlamour.com/tbmtepPlease subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Leana Welker AKA (@Leanadelalune) about Transitioning to a new gender, the struggles, and the rewards of the move.What does it truly mean to live authentically? This week, we sit down with Leana Welker, who shares her heartfelt journey of transitioning from male to female over the past year. You'll hear about the intricate layers of self-love, the nuanced changes in personal expression, and the mixed bag of reactions from family and friends. Leana's courage and determination illuminate the broader societal struggles faced by transgender individuals and emphasize the immense importance of personal identity.Liana opens up about a pivotal emotional breakdown that led her to unearth hidden aspects of her past. Her poignant reflection offers hope and understanding for those on similar paths. From the role of therapy and self-reflection in her journey to the significance of self-awareness, this chapter is a powerful testament to personal growth and inner strength.Lastly, we tackle the thorny issue of inner criticism and self-doubt, both within the trans community and beyond. Leana’s experiences highlight the often-overlooked impact of negative self-talk and external influences on our internal dialogue. We explore how outdated self-protection mechanisms can impede our growth and the importance of fostering a supportive internal environment. Join us as we explore the beauty of experiencing life authentically, finding joy in life's milestones, and rediscovering activities that bring true happiness.Please support Leana's New Band "Coyote Verde and The Wild Pack"Follow them @cvatwp on Instagram for music and updates!Opening quote: Shanna Katz Kattari Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "I Get a Kick Out of You" performed by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Nic Tayborn ( @nictbone ) about Apple vs. Andriod, Mistakes, judgement and so much more.Can a single debate spark a deeper understanding of our daily tech choices? Tune in as we dissect the age-old rivalry between Apple and Android. My guest, Nic Tayborn, brings a perspective, challenging my views and igniting a lively discussion that extends beyond tech into the personal realm. Nic shares the unique experience of enrolling a Covid-era child in preschool, opening up about the joys and concerns of parenting during these unprecedented times.How do our mistakes shape us into who we are today? Nic and I reveal some of our most cringe-worthy moments, using humor to navigate the intricacies of judgment and personal growth. From past relationships to parenting missteps, we explore the concept of self-sabotage and the relentless journey of learning and improvement. Our candid stories highlight the lasting impact of humor in friendship and the importance of acknowledging and growing from our past errors.Political divides often test our ability to maintain human connections and basic decency. We tackle sensitive topics like the repercussions of Roe v Wade's overturn and the controversial actions of former President Trump. Through anecdotes about online exchanges and face-to-face encounters, we discuss the challenge of balancing personal beliefs with kindness and understanding. Listen in as we navigate the treacherous waters of political division, striving to find common ground and uphold genuine human connections.Opening quote: Ian MackayeOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textI share a deeply personal poem, "Picture, this Picture that," inspired by my recent trip to the National Center for Civil and Human Rights in Atlanta. My wife and I were profoundly moved by the stories of resilience and courage, especially that of six-year-old Ruby Bridges, who faced unimaginable adversity just to go to school. Her bravery and the broader struggles of African-Americans during the civil rights era prompted me to create something meaningful that I couldn't wait to share with you.We'll also touch base on what's coming next for the podcast, including a few more insightful interviews and some best-of episodes to wrap up the year. As always, your support means the world to me. Don't hesitate to connect on Instagram at D-O-M underscore, L-A-M-O-U-R for collaborations or just to share your thoughts. Thank you for being part of this journey—your engagement and love keep this conversation going. Stay safe and much love to you all!Poem by. Dom L'AmourProduced by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamYou can support the show by clicking the link at the bottom of the episode description. Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.com.Support the show

Send a textWhat does it feel like to face a world that questions your humanity before you even understand what that means? Imagine being six years old, dressed in new clothes, and carrying fresh books with a heart full of hope, only to encounter barriers built by centuries of prejudice. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey through a single day in the life of a young child growing up in a racially charged society. You'll hear about the simple joys and harsh realities that shape their innocent experiences, from wishing on a penny to facing hostility on the way to school.We’ll explore the inner resilience these young souls muster to confront systemic racism, illustrating how ignorance can both shield and expose their fragile innocence. Expect a candid conversation filled with poignant moments and a call to action against the deep-seated biases that continue to haunt our society. Listen as we contrast the purity of childhood dreams with the heavy burden of racial discrimination, and be inspired to challenge the injustices that undermine the humanity of children everywhere.Poem by. Dom L'AmourProduced by Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamYou can support the show by clicking the link at the bottom of the episode description. Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.com.Support the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Shannon O'Keefe AKA @Shannondances about life after her dance career, communication, knowing your limits, looking out for your own well being and so much more.Have you ever taken a leap of faith and left behind something you loved? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Shannon O'Keefe, who transitioned from a life dedicated to dance to discovering fulfillment beyond the stage. Shannon talks about how dance served as her lifeline through a difficult childhood and the emotional challenges she faced as a performer on cruise ships. She shares her pivotal moments of realization, recognizing personal limits, and the surprising joy she found after walking away from a long-held dream.We touch on the transient nature of friendships in the entertainment world, exploring Shannon's deep connections with colleagues, and the heartbreak of inevitable goodbyes. Hear about the physical demands and emotional toll of performance life, and how these experiences shaped her decision to prioritize well-being over a grueling career. Shannon's journey offers an authentic look at balancing professional aspirations with personal happiness, resilience, and growth.Finally, Shannon's passion for children and the performing arts shines through, as she recounts her journey of healing from body image struggles and an eating disorder. Tune in to hear how influential mentors guided her path, and the freedom and happiness she now enjoys outside the industry. We'll also preview Dom L'Amour’s exciting new music project and reflect on the significance of supportive relationships and personal growth. Don't miss this heartfelt episode filled with gratitude, inspiration, and plans for a brighter future.Opening quote: Doe ZantamataOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Valentines Day" By Dom L'AmourCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a text!!! LISTEN TO "HERE TO ENTERTAIN VOL.2" ON ALL STREAMING PLATFORMS !!!Have you ever wondered how personal experiences shape an artist’s music? In this heartfelt episode celebrating my 35th birthday, join me, Dom L'Amour, as I give you an exclusive glimpse into my latest project, "Here to Entertain, Vol 2." This live EP features rejuvenated versions of songs from my earlier albums and fresh tracks from my upcoming work, "Domie" Through personal stories and raw emotion, you'll learn about the profound inspiration behind songs like "Free" and "You Are Mine to Lose," and how these melodies serve as an emotional escape and a deep connection with my audience.Tune in as I unfold the touching backstory of "Janet's Song," a tribute to my grandmother, and how this piece fits into my new album, "Domie" Alongside, you'll hear about a unique effort to fill the musical void around Thanksgiving with a genuine, heartfelt tune. This episode captures not just the creation but the essence of family, love, and the simple, everyday moments that turn into timeless music. Listen as I discuss my journey, from working at bars to celebrating holidays with loved ones, all while crafting music that resonates with real, lived experiences.Finally, step into my world of intimate songwriting and discover the emotional conclusion of a Valentine's Day performance that left listeners in awe. I'll share the stories of personal growth, the challenges faced in producing music, and the joy of creating authentic art without compromising its integrity. As we toast to another year filled with exploration and love, follow my musical journey and find out what’s next. Be sure to check out my music on streaming platforms and stay connected on Instagram at @dom_lamour. Cheers to another incredible year!Support the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with My guy Ben Stevens AKA @theworstsingerever about Being a father, Music, being married and so much more.Imagine being known as "the worst singer alive" and using that label to fuel your rise in the music industry. Today, we bring you the inspiring journey of Benjamin Stevens, a singer and performer who has embraced criticism and transformed it into self-acceptance. Benjamin takes us back to his early influences, from the soulful sounds of Marvin Gaye's "Distant Lover" to his family's eclectic record collection. Discover how these experiences shaped his passion for music despite societal and familial pressures.Navigating the complexities of a musical career isn't easy, especially when faced with personal and external challenges. Listen as Benjamin and I share stories of overcoming negative influences, such as contradictory family attitudes and societal perceptions. Hear how balancing band practices with wrestling in school led to crucial decisions that ultimately defined our paths. We discuss the critical role supportive friends and mentors played in helping us overcome fears and stay true to our musical dreams, even when it meant stepping away from familiar environments to grow.Balancing a career in music with family life is a continuous challenge filled with sacrifices and rewards. Benjamin opens up about performing while raising four children, the stress of being a touring musician, and the importance of family support. From the mental hurdles of gigging to maintaining meaningful connections with his kids, this conversation highlights the resilience and dedication required to pursue one's passion while striving for personal and professional fulfillment. Join us for an episode that underscores the power of perseverance and the joy of staying true to your craft amidst life's many hurdles.Opening quote: Alison KraussOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Teamfeatured song: “Grundy County Auction" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Benjamin Stevens. Members of “Big Bling and the funk machine”Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with friend of the show Jessica Trapp AKA (@trappedinhealth) about Communicating about sex, communicating about money and so much more.How often do you talk about sex and money with your partner? On this powerful episode of the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast, we break the silence on these crucial, yet often avoided, topics in relationships. Dom L'Amour kicks off the conversation by underscoring how financial instability can severely impact mental health and stressing the importance of sharing financial worries with your significant other. We are honored to have Jessica Trapp join us, bringing her unique perspective from a household where sex and money were openly discussed. Jessica passionately advocates for women to feel empowered in discussions about their finances and bodies, and together we emphasize the need for transparency and cooperation to build a healthy partnership.Are societal pressures making honest conversations about sex and finances more difficult? Reflecting on our conservative upbringings, we unpack the stigma and misinformation that often prevent open dialogue on these subjects. From debunking pervasive myths about financial success to navigating the complex terrain of sexual boundaries and desires, we share personal stories that highlight the vital role of honest communication. We discuss the damaging effects of early exposure to sex through media, the inadequacies of sex education, and the misconceptions that arise from these gaps, stressing the necessity of mutual respect and open conversations in intimate relationships.How do different backgrounds shape our financial perceptions and communication styles? Wrapping up, we delve into the intricacies of managing finances within relationships. We explore the impact of upbringing on our views of money, share personal experiences of navigating financial hardships, and reflect on the frustrations of being undervalued in professional settings. This episode is packed with heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice, underscoring the importance of continuous dialogue and understanding in strengthening relationships. We conclude with a heartfelt thank you to our listeners, a shout-out to Jessica’s podcast "Sex and Money with Jess" and an invitation to join us in continuing these essential conversations.Follow Jess at her website: www.lovealwaysjess.comOpening quote: Michelle SingletaryOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @dom_lamour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Friend of the show and my best friend Chris Bate  AKA @chriselb_88. They have a mental check in and also speak about having babies.Imagine wanting to start a family but being faced with the complex world of male infertility and fertility treatments. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have a deeper understanding of the emotional, financial, and logistical hurdles that come with this journey. Join me, Dom L'Amour, and my friend Chris Bates as we share our personal stories about navigating the healthcare system, dealing with insurance challenges, and the differences between IVF and IUI treatments. Chris also opens up about his experiences with urologists and the potential role of medications like Clomid. This candid conversation sheds light on the importance of understanding your partner's perspective and desires as you embark on the path to parenthood.Shifting gears, I take a moment to reflect on my current mental state and what I’ve been up to lately. With Adrian out of town, I've embraced the opportunity to attend jam sessions and open mics, which has been invigorating. Balancing this newfound freedom with the responsibility of caring for our dog, I’ve also been networking with new musicians and even had a blast at our recent Juneteenth barbecue. Wedding season is in full swing, and I share some insights on the unpredictable nature of outdoor weddings and how we managed our own wedding logistics. Feeling positive and connected, I emphasize the significance of strong communication in maintaining a healthy relationship, even amidst minor family issues.Finally, Chris and I delve into the rollercoaster of fatherhood and family life. We explore the emotional and practical challenges of new parenthood, the rapid development of a five-month-old baby, and the importance of flexibility and perseverance in the fertility process. From key milestones like sitting up and teething to the joy of social interactions, we celebrate the simple pleasures and express our gratitude for every moment. Wrapping things up, I reflect on the joy of reconnecting with friends and the excitement for what the future holds. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to the trials, triumphs, and simple joys of family life.Opening quote: Nelson MandelaOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Hannah Moore AKA @hannahmatthewsmoore about becoming a mother, How her past has affected her present, Moving to and From NYC and so much more.What happens when life throws you a curveball and old methods no longer cut it? Join me and my guest, Hannah Moore, as we uncover the art of adjusting to life's unexpected changes. From her rapid-paced life in New York City to the serene yet demanding journey of motherhood, Hannah shares her candid reflections on integrating past experiences into a new routine. As we discuss prioritizing what truly matters, you'll hear firsthand about the challenges and triumphs of balancing a packed schedule with the role of being a parent.Ever feel like you're stuck in a routine while trying to plan for the future? This episode contrasts daily routines with long-term goals, influenced by lessons from my father's meticulous planning and the instability during my childhood. Hannah's unwavering support during my post-college struggles is also celebrated, emphasizing the importance of friendship and resilience. Whether it's the relentless pursuit of goals or the significant milestone of buying a house, we explore how to balance short-term actions with long-term aspirations.Cultural differences and personal growth are at the forefront of this episode. From overcoming culture shock in diverse environments to reshaping reputations in the beauty industry, our conversation highlights the necessity of toughening up and seeking new opportunities. We wrap up with an emotional exploration of generational trauma, the resilience needed to forge new paths, and the importance of vocalizing emotions and gratitude. Tune in for an episode filled with heart, growth, and inspiring stories as we navigate life's twists and turns together.Opening quote: Gilda RadnerOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Our Love Is Here To Stay" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Hannah MooreCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textHave you ever wondered if achieving your dreams could still leave you feeling a longing for something more? This episode takes you on a personal journey from the turbulence of early adulthood to a life enriched with love, stability, and a fulfilling music career. Yet, amidst all this success, an insistent yearning to create remains. We explore the delicate balance between personal aspirations and everyday responsibilities, and question the nature of true satisfaction and the pursuit of deeper peace.In the second part of the episode, I reflect on the current state of my artistic endeavors and creative processes. Life has been especially joyous, thanks to my wonderful wife and the rejuvenating effects of our recent vacation. Despite a shift in creative focus due to daily routines, new work is still being produced, albeit at a different pace. This chapter invites you to consider that creativity doesn’t need to stem from hardship and encourages collaboration on positive art projects. Tune in to hear more about the excitement of recording new podcast episodes, featuring more guests, and the gratitude I feel for your continued support.Support the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Sam Niehaus AKA @samuel_henry_niehaus about Moving across the country, working on yourself, my struggles with being a Vegan and so much more.What sparks a monumental life change? In today's episode, we explore just that with Sam Niehaus, who left the familiar streets of St. Louis for the rugged beauty of Denver. Sam's story is a testament to the transformative power of embracing new adventures—from snowboarding down Colorado's powdery slopes to soul-rejuvenating hikes through Mesa Verde. His move wasn't just about changing geography but about nurturing a newfound love for the outdoors and rekindling his musical passions by joining a local band.Engaging on social media isn't just a modern necessity; it's a lifeline for musicians and cultural enthusiasts alike. In our conversation, we unpack the significance of digital support in amplifying artistic voices and fostering a sense of community. Sam and I touch on the enriching experiences that come from stepping beyond one's comfort zone, highlighting how diverse adventures can expand our understanding and appreciation of different cultures and our own country. Leadership, in many ways, is born from these very explorations, and seeing friends grow through such journeys is truly inspiring.Our chat takes a delicious turn as we reminisce about the culinary gems of St. Louis, from savory pork steaks to the mouth-watering delights at local spots like Venice Cafe and the Gramophone. We also tackle the personal challenges and rewarding aspects of transitioning to a vegan lifestyle, sharing stories of family dynamics, societal judgments, and the joys of discovering new foods. Wrapping up, Sam and I reflect on our individual paths to happiness and success, emphasizing the importance of supportive relationships and the relentless pursuit of our passions. This episode is a heartfelt celebration of growth, community, and the beauty of embracing change.Opening quote: Robert BreaultOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "It's True" Preformed June 24th 2014 by The Strange Owls in St. Louis at the Gramophone. Featuring Dom L'Amour on Vocals and Sam Niehaus on Drums.Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with Jacob Buckenmyer (@jabucke) about  the actor/writers stike, how traveling shapes your world view, AI and so much more.Can mindful caffeine consumption enhance your well-being? Join us as we kick off this episode with our guest, Jacob Buckenmyer, to explore this intriguing question. We start by sharing the vibrant atmosphere of live concerts, where the absence of phones fosters deeper social connections. Our conversation then transitions to the mindful consumption of caffeine, drawing inspiration from the traditional Japanese tea ceremony. Jacob opens up about his journey of reducing caffeine intake, emphasizing the benefits of moderation and balanced habits.Our cultural observations take center stage as we compare Japan and the United States through the lens of personal travel experiences. We delve into the respect and care embedded in Japanese culture, from the meticulous upkeep of public cleanliness to the communal spirit seen in daily practices. A particularly poignant moment is Jacob's personal anecdote about the challenge of finding a hair pick as a black man in Japan, highlighting the unique and diverse experiences encountered during international travel. We reflect on these cultural contrasts, suggesting ways to incorporate greater mindfulness and community spirit into our often hurried American lifestyles.We also tackle the sensitive nature of cultural engagement and historical awareness. From the sanitized portrayals of local cultures during cruise travels to the nuanced balance between tradition and modernity in art, we explore the importance of genuine cultural experiences. The conversation extends to the latest actor's writer strike, the transformative power of travel, and the significance of art and originality in the age of AI. We wrap up with heartfelt gratitude for the listeners' positive feedback, celebrating the joy of our shared connection and the enriching discussions that keep us all engaged. Tune in for a thoughtful episode that bridges tradition, modernity, and the essence of mindful living.Opening quote by Michael TippettOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 & Vol. 2 by Mad KeysFeatured song : "Beyond The Sea" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Jacob BuckenmyerCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Jon Butts AKA J Boogie @jonbuttsishereabout our feelings on the state of the upcoming election.What if the political landscape is more fragile than we think? Join me, Dom L'Amour, on the Black Man Talking Emotions podcast as I sit down with my good friend J Boogie, aka Jon Butts, to dissect the current state of U.S. politics and its looming impact on the upcoming election. We unravel the complexities behind eroding voter bases, President Biden's plummeting approval ratings, and the overall sense of disillusionment gripping the nation. Alongside our political analysis, Jay shares some light-hearted updates on his personal life, including a new home and preparing for the joy of fatherhood, while also lamenting a sold-out show that didn’t go as planned.Our candid conversation takes a hard look at the global influence of U.S. politics, the relentless left-right battle, and the chaos that defined the first debate between Biden and Trump. We ponder the efficacy of past Democratic candidates like Elizabeth Warren and Bernie Sanders, and confront the double standards in political scandals. The chapter titled "Navigating News and Trump's Legal Battles" is a deep dive into our media consumption habits, balancing between comedic relief from John Oliver and Seth Meyers, and more neutral reporting from NPR. We also reflect on the repetitive nature of Trump's media coverage and the unwavering support from his followers.Wrapping up, we explore the contrasting perceptions of Trump and Biden, touching on their respective promises, actions, and the moral dilemmas they present. From minimum wage issues to labor laws and systemic injustices, our discussion sheds light on the role of government in improving lives. We even venture into the personal, discussing the challenges of city life and the importance of staying connected and informed. This episode is a mix of political discourse and personal reflection that promises to be both thought-provoking and heartfelt. Tune in and join our conversation.Opening quote: Alexander HamiltonOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol1 and Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Heath Kennedy AKA @heathbuh about Family, acting, goals and so much more.Ever wondered how a chance encounter can blossom into a lifetime of laughter and love? Heath Kennedy, a close friend whose life story could fuel a dozen rom-coms, joins me, Dom L'Amour, for an episode that dances between the joyous mayhem of fatherhood and the electric thrill of chasing comedy dreams. With the welcome chaos of his fourth child, Heath and I delve into the art of balancing growing family dynamics, the unbreakable bonds of friendship, and the power of a good chuckle. As we stroll through memory lane, we hit the rewind button to the college days where music reigned supreme and love was waiting in the wings at The Tiki Hut. Heath shares the cinematic tale of meeting his wife April, peppered with moments straight out of a screenplay, as we dissect the fortitude required in both personal and professional arenas. Parenting takes center stage too, with heartfelt contemplation on the delicate dance of nurturing and knowing when to step back, all underscored by the symphony of childhood uniqueness.The curtain rises on a raw reflection of our shared college theater escapades and the unscripted lessons learned under the spotlight. From grappling with complex roles to setting the stage ablaze with record-breaking cabaret performances, we unpack the odyssey of creative passion and the eternal quest to leave audiences in stitches. Join us for this candid conversation filled with warmth, wit, and wisdom—a tribute to the unpredictable script of life and the enduring pursuit of artistic excellence.Opening quote: Earl NightingaleOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "And I Love her" Cover preformed by Dom L'Amour and Heath KennedyCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a textWhen I sat down across from Linda Marks, I couldn't help but feel the weight of her story — a tale of a harrowing battle with anorexia during her teenage years, a poignant reminder of the danger of societal pressures and external expectations. Our conversation takes shape around the transformative journey of healing and growth, embracing the cultural traditions and personal rituals that foster our well-being. As Linda opens up about the delicate art of tuning into our own physical and emotional needs, I'm prompted to reflect on my own path and the importance of authenticity in our lives.Music weaves its way through our discussion, not just as a form of entertainment, but as a catalyst for connection and healing. As she shares the inspiration behind her 14th studio album, "A Recipe for Hope," we celebrate the role of music in bridging divides and fostering a sense of community. Psychotherapy, too, becomes a focal point, illuminating the shared moments of humanity that reveal our true selves. We delve into how authentic interactions and inner work enable us to emerge as beacons of hope, encouraging each of you to find and share your own light.The final notes of our dialogue bring us to confront head-on the pressing social issues of gun violence and abortion rights, and how music serves as a powerful medium to provoke thought and foster change. We examine how art can open the floor for meaningful discussion and understanding, with an emphasis on compassion and the need for fundamental societal change. From the intimate to the global, our conversation charts a course through the critical conversations of our time, all aimed at inspiring collective improvement and a more harmonious world. Join us for this heart-to-heart, and let's journey through these essential themes together.Support the show

Send a textDom L'Amour speaks with good friend Jeff Holtmeier AKA @jeff_holtmeier about Career choices, being a father and husband, things we miss from college, and so much more.When Reverend Jeff Holtmeier and I, sit down to chat, the air fills with a blend of laughter and introspection that only old friends can stir up. Jeff’s journey from the revelry of our college days to the rich fulfillment of family life in Washington, Missouri, paints a vivid picture of the transformative power of returning to one's roots. Together, we trace the contours of our past escapades—those theater department triumphs and bartending nights that shaped us—and how those experiences have sculpted the men we've become, dedicated to our families and communities with a newfound sense of purpose.There's a certain magic in reminiscing about the tight-knit bonds formed over impromptu travels and shared milestones, like that unforgettable senior cabaret performance Jeff and I once nailed. Our dialogue navigates the delicate dance between holding onto the camaraderie of those treasured college connections and embracing the beautiful complexities of adulthood. We weave through the chapters of our lives, from the echoes of raucous basketball games to the tender tales of parenting, reflecting on the natural sacrifices that feel like second nature when you're shaping the lives of your little ones.As I extend my heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, for joining us in this mosaic of emotions and storytelling, Jeff and I hope you'll find warmth in our shared narratives. The Black Man Talking Emotions podcast is more than just a series of conversations—it's a space for acknowledging the journey, the lessons learned, and the profound appreciation for the company we keep along the way. Tune in to gather insight, share a few chuckles, and maybe even see your own story reflected in ours.Opening quote: Henry fordOpening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamFeatured song: "Sam’s Song" Cover Performed by Dom L'Amour and Jeff Holtmeier Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show

Send a text I had the privilege of celebrating Mother's Day by inviting the queen of my heart, my mother, onto the Black man Talking Emotions podcast for a tribute unlike any other. Our conversation is a tapestry woven with the threads of intimate revelations, laughter over shared musical soul-ties like Prince's "Adore," and the profound longing to connect with loved ones lost to time. It's a journey through the corridors of our past, revisiting the safety of childhood memories and the echoes of old traumas, all while playfully speculating about a future where time travel might just be on the itinerary.The heart of our dialogue beats in sync with the pulsing desires and dreams that have shaped our lives. My mother's candid reflections on her aspirations, from envisioning a serene life as a stay-at-home grandma to the yearning for an odyssey across Europe's historical tapestries, draw you into the essence of her spirit. We muse on the seasonal charm of fall, the enchantment of the Green Tree Festival, and the cinematic escapes that bind us, from the nostalgic grip of a Thriller jacket to the escapades of "Independence Day." By pulling back the curtain on our emotions and aspirations, we hope to offer you a mirror reflecting the universal pursuit of joy, the enduring strength of dreams, and the unbreakable bonds of family love. Join us for this Mother's Day special, where emotions run deep and aspirations soar high.Support the show

Send a textDom L'Amour has a mid season check in.Navigating the tumultuous waters of a creative life, I've often found myself at the mercy of my own inner critic and the unintended barbs of loved ones. This episode is a raw exploration of my mid-season journey, where I lay bare the struggles and triumphs that have shaped the narrative of my life and work. You're invited to experience the vulnerability of an artist who wrestles with the distractions of a digital world and the pressure-cooker environment of art as a business. From the valleys of self-doubt to the peaks of proud accomplishments, join me as I dissect the complex dance of maintaining personal relationships while pursuing the relentless demands of creation.As we peel back the layers of my artistic process, I reflect on the sheer determination it takes to bring a new album into existence. It's a balancing act of innovation and authenticity, promotion and genuine connection—a challenge I willingly embrace in the pursuit of musical storytelling. And in this space, we also shine a light on the importance of mental health, extending an arm of solidarity and gratitude to those like Derek Statten, who've walked with me from the very beginning. So tune in, as we foster a community that not only listens but truly hears, and together, we champion the conversations that draw us closer to understanding the emotional depth of the human experience.Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'AmourTransition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keysand from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers TeamCover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99Please subscribe to the podcast, and give us a good rating. 5 stars please and thank you. Follow me on @doml_amour on Instagram. Or at domlamour.comSupport the show