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The Brown, But Better Podcast
by Aman Khondo
Welcome to the Brown, But Better Podcast, the space where we get real about Brit-Asian life, culture, and growth. We’re here to challenge old-school thinking, unpack the pressures we grew up with, and figure out how to be better brothers, better husbands, better sons, and better men. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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On a break - back in a few weeks!
In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @BrownButBetter as well as on TikTok: MrAmanSingh*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 35 - Chat and Chat Series - "How a Spreadsheet Changed My Mind About Money"
In this episode Pav and I dig into how he used a spreadsheet to essentially change his life. He's an accountant and has been working in that industry since he graduated from uni but he's also learnt a lot about himself in that spreadsheet. Sometimes, it's not about the amounts but about the consistency and setting an intention and goal towards what you want to achieve and that applies here too. We also talk about South Asian views towards money, how conversations can change the taboo, and a few bits from our personal lives. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @BrownButBetter as well as on TikTok: MrAmanSingh*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #Money #Self Improvement Men's Mental Health PodcastSelf-improvement PodcastPodcast for menPositive Mental Health Podcasts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 34 - How to Define Your Worth as a Brown Man
In this episode I dig into what it is that actually makes us feel worthy as men and the answer may surprise you! We cover topics such as cultural expectations, societal expectations, and how you can define your true sense of worth. I also go into a few stories from my world that shaped my views of myself. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @BrownButBetter as well as on TikTok: MrAmanSingh*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #SlefImprovementForMen #MensWorth #CEO #Car Self Improvement Men's Mental Health PodcastSelf-improvement PodcastPodcast for menPositive Mental Health Podcasts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 33 - What can we learn from the World Happiness Report 2026?
The World Happiness Report 2026 was recently published and I thought I'd do a bit of a dive into it to understand some of the key takeaways for us so you don't have to! This year they've focussed on social media use and there's some really interesting things they've pulled out in their research which covered over 47 different countries. As a parent, this is an episode I'd be keen to listen to. The World Happiness Report can be found here: https://www.worldhappiness.report/ed/2026/ In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @BrownButBetter as well as on TikTok: MrAmanSingh*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #WorldHappinessReport #SocialMedia #Happiness #TheWorld Self Improvement Men's Mental Health PodcastSelf-improvement PodcastPodcast for menPositive Mental Health PodcastsSome of the topics covered were found here:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cql75dn07n2o https://fortune.com/2026/03/26/meta-youtube-lawsuit-verdict-what-happens-next/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 32 - 'Inside The Manosphere' documentary break down
Inside the Manosphere is a new documentary with Louis Theroux where he speaks to several 'Manosphere Influencers' and tries to understand more about them and their lifestyle. In this episode, I use a bit of my Positive Psychology studies (still a student) to breakdown some of the points mentioned within the documentary. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #InsideTheManosphere #Manosphere #RedPill #Incel #TateSelf Improvement Men's Mental Health Podcast Self-improvement Podcast Podcast for men Positive Mental Health Podcasts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 31 - Cha and Chat - International Women's Day
As we try to be Brown But Better Men, it's always worth looking at the journey, growth, and challenges of Women and there's no better time to do that than on International Women's Day. We all have mothers, sisters, cousins, daughters etc who face challenges that we as Men simply don't. But by understanding some of those, we can not only help them but also help society as a whole too. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #InternationalWomensDay #Women #Mother #Daughter #SouthAsian Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 30 - How To Handle Change
In this episode, I look at the thing that is the only constant in this world - change. Now, many people don't like change. It's hard, it's uncomfortable, and all round, they think it's not great. But what if that change is forced upon you? Death? Job Loss? Someone breaks into your house or crashes into your car? Then what? We often don't prepare for the hard changes in life but with this episode, you'll have at least some of the tools and understanding you need to go through it in a healthy way. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #Change #Grief #Loss #Men #Support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat series 12- Can Monopoly Really Help Find Red Flag Families?
Getting married soon and don't know what to look out for to keep yourself safe?Not sure on what the law (UK) says about different behaviours you feel are a bit off?Worried about expectations of you and culture clashes when you get married?Well this is the episode for you!In it, Lawyer Maz and Bal, who advocates and raises awareness of abuse, talk to me about a wide conversation such as:Is it the partner, or the family who are abusive?How is culture weaponised?What the law says about the subtleties of abuse.And moreIn this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #BrownLiving #Culture #Abuse #Monopoly #BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 28 - Guys, Fix Your Nuts - Save Your Health
In this episode, I look at 2 things specifically related to guys and no, I'm not talking about the 2 nuts - I'm talking about testosterone and sperm. I cover some of the issues around declining testosterone and sperm issues, what's causing these issues as well as why it's important, and then look at what we can do to support ourselves around these 2 vital aspects of being a guy. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #BrownLiving #MentalHealth #BrownGuys #GoodGuyNiceGuy #BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 11 - Being a good guy, suicide, and South Asian living
A wide ranging convo for this one! I was always a nice guy growing up, and still think of myself as a nice guy in a lot of ways. But if I had been a good guy instead, things could have been different.Now mental health is something I've talked about a bit, and our guest today has his own views on depression, and a new perspective of things after his friend voluntarily made the final journey to the other side.We also talk about South Asian living as Brown guys and some of the challenges of it. And there's one tip or bits of life advice we'd share to any young South Asian male.TW suicide, mental health, depression Support agencies (UK)Samaritans. Samaritans provide 24-hour online and phone support to people in distress. Call: 116 123. Mind. Mind is a charity that provides advice and support for people experiencing a mental health problem in England and Wales. Call: 0300 123 3393 (Mon to Fri, 9am to 6pm)Rethink Mental Illness. Support and advice for people living with mental health problems. Call: 0300 5000 927 (Mon to Fri, 9.30am to 4pm)SANE. National out-of hours mental health charity offering emotional support, guidance and information. Call: 0300 304 7000 (4.30pm to 10.30pm)Mental Health Foundation. Information and support for anyone with mental health problems or learning disabilities.Suicide preventionCALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably). Charity dedicated to preventing male suicide. Call: 0800 58 58 58 (nationwide), 0808 802 58 58 (London)Papyrus Hopeline UK. Confidential support for young people struggling with suicidal thoughts. Call: 0800 068 41 41In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #BrownLiving #MentalHealth #BrownGuys #GoodGuyNiceGuy #BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 26 - Brown Fathers, Masculinity, and Vulnerability
Ah the stoic Brown father. The old school masculine type who faces any hardship without saying a word. The right way to go about things? Probably not. I'm looking at how stoic fathers can shape family dynamics and how we can use vulnerability to create better relationships for some of our father figures or male role models in our lives. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #BrownFathers #Stoic #Vulnerability #Masculinity Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 25 - Some Positive News From Around The World
Fed up with all the terrible stuff happening in the world? Want to change to something else and hear some of the positive things going on? Well here's the episode for you!In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #Positive #GoodNews #Happy #Wellbeing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 24 - How To Just Start
Why is it we always have those projects we want to start, but never do? Why do we get stuck at that point just before launching? And what can we do to fix that? In this episode, I talk about the fear of failure and why we, or our minds, stop us from starting and growing. With us trying to cultivate a growth mindset, a big part of that is trying new things being comfortable with failure so that we can learn, but sometimes that failure feels deeper than just surface level because of how it reflects on us. This episode looks to address that so we can all just start! In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #JustStart #Growth #Failure #Learning #Improvement Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 23 - Learned Helplessness And How It Affects Our Older Generations
What happens when you help out your parents when you're younger with setting up their new phones, then with an online document, then with booking something...Well eventually they become a victim of learned helplessness. But what can we do to actually affect that, and why is it important to go back to teaching mode to support those around you who need that help? In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: #LearnedHelplessness #Help #Parents #Basics Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 10 - Navigating Life as a Bi Sikh Dad and Sikh LGBT Inclusion
As ever, we're always looking to broaden minds and perspectives by hearing from people who's lived experience is different to ourselves and this episode does just that! It's great to hear from Pritpal about his journey understanding his true self as a Bi, Sikh father. We hear about the challenges but also the positives too as a result of this. We also hear about his work with @Sikh_LGBT_Inclusion off the back of their award winning success, about their project to create more inclusive Sikh spaces. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: Sikh#BrownButBetter #LGBT #Sikh #Bi #Livedexperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 9 - Mental Health and Mindfulness
Mental health is getting better within the South Asian community but is the conversation moving fast enough? One person who's doing a lot to raise awareness of it is Bhupinder Sandhu (@MindfulSandhu) who is a speaker, best-selling author, and mindfulness coach who has been working as a coach for over 10 years. He's being doing epic endurance walks to raise awareness of Mental Health and other things within the South Asian community. In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianMindfulness HealthMental Health Walking Physical Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 20 - Creating Effective New Year's Resolutions
We all want the 6 figure salary, the flashy car, and the amazing house..... or do we?What happens if we had all of that, but no one to enjoy it with?This episode helps us to become better people by helping us understand our direction of travel, and what we need to be happy and successful.In this award-winning show* Aman explores personal growth, self-improvement, and navigating life as a South Asian man in today’s world. Whether diving into South Asian culture, identity, mental health, or broader topics like goal-setting, motivation, and emotional intelligence, each episode offers practical advice and honest conversations to help you become a better brother, husband, son, and man.If you’re looking for guidance on balancing cultural expectations with your own path, improving your mindset, and unlocking your full potential, this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Links:(https://www.alzheimersresearchuk.org/news/study-reveals-how-lifelong-exercise-could-protect-against-dementia/) (https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/exercise/exercise-health-benefits/) (https://yougov.co.uk/society/articles/53756-what-new-years-resolutions-are-britons-making-for-2026) (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-right-side-of-40/202512/why-traditional-new-years-resolutions-fail) Tags: South AsianGoalsNew Years ResolutionsFitness Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 19 - Defining Our Own Vision of Happiness And Success
We all want the 6 figure salary, the flashy car, and the amazing house..... or do we? What happens if we had all of that, but no one to enjoy it with? This episode helps us to become better people by helping us understand our direction of travel, and what we need to be happy and successful. In this award-winning show* - Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience - unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be then this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianRelationshipsMarriageDatingBrown But Better Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 18 - Becoming Better Partners
Feel like your partner is speaking a different language? Not sure why they say you're not listening when you're literally offering solutions? Or maybe you find yourself having to defend yourself on a regular basis? In this award-winning show* - Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience - unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be then this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianRelationshipsMarriageDatingBrown But Better Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 8 - Health and South Asians
Why is shame affecting our health? Who is Thesues and what can we learn about his ship that affects us today? How does childhood trauma affect us having a drink? In this award-winning show* - Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience - unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be then this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianHealthWellbeingIdentityBrown But Better Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 7 - Abuse and South Asians (Part 2)
Ep TW: Abuse, Rape, SuicideOn average, one woman is killed by an abusive partner or ex every five days in England and Wales - but how many more are abused just before that point, and how many South Asians actually come forward to talk about it?In this episode, we talk to lawyer, @LegallyMaz, and Bal, a survivor of abuse who share their views on abuse within South Asian communities.We talk about the steps to seeking help, the importance of good representation, the results of abuse on children and the lasting impact, and end with some words of hope and encouragement going forward. In this award-winning show* - Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience - unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be then this podcast is for you.You can find @LegallyMaz on social media platforms such as Instagram, Tiktok, and more. Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianAbuseSouth AsianDomestic ViolenceCoerciveHow to get helpAbusive RelationshipsBrown But Better Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 6 - Abuse and South Asians (Part 1)
On average, one woman is killed by an abusive partner or ex every five days in England and Wales - but how many more are abused just before that point, and how many South Asians actually come forward to talk about it? In this episode, we talk to lawyer, LegallyMaz, and Bal, a survivor of abuse who share their views on abuse within South Asian communities. We talk about the different types of abuse, how to recognise it, some case studies and situations, and a bit about what people can do to get out of those situations. In this award-winning show* — Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience — unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons — and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be — this podcast is for you.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianAbuse South AsianDomestic ViolenceCoercive How to get help Abusive Relationships Brown But Better Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 5 - Growing up as a Brown, Muslim, Queer Man
In this award-winning show* — Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience — unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons — and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be — this podcast is for you.This episode looks into the lived experience of being a Brown, Queer, Muslim man - the journey from realisation to thriving, the challenges faced, and what we can be doing to be better allies. The organisations mentioned as part of the podcast include: hidayahlgbtqi - they have an event on the 18th of Nov - find them on Instagram to book! Sarbat Sikhs Sikh LGTB Inclusion galva-108 Desi Rainbow LGBT Hero Queer Hindu Alliance Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianMuslim QueerLGBTQIA + Brown Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 4 - Struggles Through Work
In this award-winning show* — Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience — unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons — and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be — this podcast is for you.This episode delves into the challenges of work! Here we talk about overt and subliminal racism, micro-aggressions, and unpack the thread of 'immigrants need to work twice as hard, for half the reward'.Follow on Instagram @BrownButBetter*The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to.Tags: South AsianRacismBlack Lives MatterMicro-aggressionsOffice Politics Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 12 - "The Manosphere" part 1
In this award-winning show* — Aman explores what it means to grow up South Asian and navigate life, identity, and growth in today’s world.Each episode dives deep into the South Asian male experience — unpacking topics like culture, masculinity, family expectations, mental health, and purpose. The podcast challenges traditional mindsets while offering space for reflection, honesty, and real conversations.The goal? To understand how we can become better brothers, better husbands, better sons — and ultimately, better men.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance who you are with who you want to be — this podcast is for you.This episode delves into the themes of Andrew Tate and his philosophy, why the Manosphere is harmful, and a little about what we should or could do to tackle this. *The award was given by his mum for being the best (and only) podcast she’s ever listened to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 3 - Becoming Brothers
In this episode, I chat to Pav and Aman about how their friendship turned into a Brotherhood!We chat about how they got to know each other, their struggles making Punjabi friends, what brought them close together, and hear about some of their views on how other people can strengthen their friendships.People may not realise it, but having close friendships and a good social life is something that massively affects one's wellbeing, health, and even how long they live for. Unfortunately though, 1 in 3 people in the UK, do not have close friends and this is something we want to fix or help with!This follows on from one of my previous episodes talking about the Male Loneliness Epidemic and the negative effects of it on us.You can find us on Instagram via : @BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 10 - Ups and Downs of Being a Brown Creative
In this episode, we hear from different South Asians from across the creative industries including their challenges, successes, and some tips that they would share to other people looking to become a creative. Creative industries have generally been a no-go area for a lot of South Asian/Brown people due to the volatility of the markets, the potential instability of earnings, and the stigmas or views associated with those industries but, as we hear from the people on today's show, it's not all bad and there is success on the other side. Thank you to the following people who contributed:TheRavi.Ink - Tattoo artist - Tiktok//InstagramSimiKhan.Author - Lesbian Muslim Writer - Instagram SootandTy - Clothing Brand Founder - Website (https://www.sootandty.com/) SunnyOsahn - Actor/Voice Artist and more - Tiktok/InstagramRajiOsan - Wellbeing, Healthcare, and more - Tiktok/Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 9 - "What Would People Think?"
We've all been there. You want to do something novel, cool, out of the box, you ask your parents or someone and they say "No, what would people say?" It's something that's pretty common in South Asian families and cultures but where does it come from? And how can we move past it on a personal level so that we still feel comfortable with our decisions? These are some of the things I cover in this episode about the "What would people say" attitude. Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 8 - Male Loneliness, How It Affects Us, and What We Can Do to Tackle it
In this episode I talk about Male Loneliness - is it an epidemic? What are the risks of being Lonely, and what can we do about it? You can follow @BrownButBetter on InstagramStats: Up to 85% of adults across the country have experienced loneliness within the past 12 months https://www.menshealth.com/uk/mental-strength/a63247115/britains-loneliness-epidemic/ In the United States, 1 out of 4 men have zero close friendships in their lives, while in the United Kingdom, this rate is 1 out of 3. https://gender.stanford.edu/news/mens-loneliness-feminist-issue-men-without-men Research conducted in 2021 by the American Survey Center reported that 15% of men claim they have no close friends, a 12% increase since 1990. Equimundo published a study in 2023 that found a majority of men from Millennials to Gen Z agree with the statement, “No one really knows me well.” https://aspenvalleyhealth.org/healthy-journey/loneliness-in-men/ Why do we need to pay attention to loneliness? Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in America https://fortune.com/well/2025/05/21/gen-z-millennial-men-loneliness/ Loneliness and social isolation can, for example, increase the risk of developing cardiovascular disease by nearly one third. This is partly due to the influence of physiological mechanisms, such as activation of the stress response and inflammation that loneliness triggers. Loneliness also increases the risk of high blood pressure, a leading cause of death from cardiovascular disease. https://www.healthpolicypartnership.com/the-impact-of-loneliness-on-mens-mental-and-physical-health/ Andy's man Clubhttps://andysmanclub.co.uk/groups/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 7 - The Manipulative Power of Social Media
In this episode, I'll be talking about social media, why it's messing with our minds, and why we need to make sure our thinking brains are engaged when we use it. I'll also share what3 things I do to cultivate a better social media experience that actually benefits me, instead of just occupying my mind. BBC confronts neo-Nazi who gave UK rioters arson tips - https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp8l9gpp8yroLebedev - https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-61427468 ISC Report https://www.cityam.com/uk-government-response-to-alleged-russian-elections-interference-upheld-by-echr/ Asylum seekers https://www.reuters.com/fact-check/housing-asylum-seekers-hotels-did-not-cost-uk-1-billion-pounds-month-202425-2025-06-20/ Rape statistics https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a820725e5274a2e87dc0c4f/number-convicted-sexual-offenders-by-ethnicity-tables.xlsx Crime UK - https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/broken-britain-lawless-nigel-farage-crime-b2804809.html Bots make up over 50% of global internet traffic https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/bots-internet-traffic-ai-chatgpt-b2733450.html Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 2
In this new series I'll be doing on an infrequent basis called Cha and Chat, I'm joined by some of my friends for a wide ranging conversation that starts with the progression of men and women in society, then flows into South Asian relationship dynamics, mental health, and we touch a bit on grief too. Trigger warnings for abuse, mental health/suicide, and death.Fact Checks - https://www.thecalmzone.net/life-saving-stats - One person dies by suicide every 90 minutes with 75% of those being men. Suicide is the biggest killer in men under 50.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 5 - A Key Trait We Should Be Passing On To The Future Generations
In this episode, I talk about one key trait that I think should be passed on to the younger generation in Brown families. I also share some other traits that people believe should be passed down from responses to a question I posed on Instagram. It all starts off with how you praise young people, how you look at your own abilities to change, and what this trait looks like in person. You can find us on Instagram @BrownButBetterDetails of mentions within the podcast are below: Mindset by Dr Carol S Dweck Instagram contributors Simikhan.AuthorPranav_Dwivedi_AJsandhu78BalmeetKaurMUASunnyOsahnKaurHikingQueenGautamDhawanOfficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cha and Chat Series Ep 1
In this new series I'll be doing on an infrequent basis called Cha and Chat, I'm joined by some of my family members for a wild conversation that covered topics like how to support partners during their periods, what we didn't see from our parents in terms of conflict resolution, and many more things in between. Trigger warnings for abuse, violence, and child trauma. Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 3 - How Can We Be Better Sons?
In this episode, I talk about being a son, the positives and challenges of being a son in a South Asian family, and also, a short exercise we can do to work out if we're as good as a son as we think we are! @BrownButBetter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 2 - How Indian Independence Still Affects Us Today
In this show, I talk about how the changes that occurred during British rule in India, as well as the Partition of India still affects us today.I share a personal story about my grandparent's issues during that period, and how similar things in other elders would still be affecting South Asians today.Follow us on Instagram @BrownButBetterPodcastLinks referred to are here:https://newlife.rehab/luxury-rehab-center-library/trauma-and-epigeneticshttps://www.neversuchinnocence.com/partition-partition-of-british-india?rq=partitionhttps://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/5cHfQ2ZR1ZYfmPCqsCXKZQC/six-things-we-learnt-from-woman-s-hour-s-partition-of-india-special-programmeInstagram: DesiDoc.Md Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ep 1 - Intro and What Does It Mean To Be A Brown Man?
In this new show, Aman Singh reflects on the foundations of Brown Men, where we find our role models, and what it means to modern men who have modelled themselves on an outdated idea of masculinity. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to the Brown, But Better Podcast, the space where we get real about Brit-Asian life, culture, and growth. We’re here to challenge old-school thinking, unpack the pressures we grew up with, and figure out how to be better brothers, better husbands, better sons, and better men. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
HOSTED BY
Aman Khondo
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