The Esme Graff Podcast

Let's Connect! Welcome!!This episode is for the single mom who’s tired of putting her life on hold while waiting for everything to feel “complete.” In this honest and faith-filled conversation, Esme shares the mindset shift that changed everything: choosing peace over happiness. From navigating divorce, heartbreak, and single motherhood to building a purposeful life, business, and memories with her children, this episode is a reminder that healing, joy, and growth are still possible right where you are.If you’ve been struggling with identity after divorce, waiting for the “right time,” or wondering how to move forward with confidence, this conversation will encourage you to stop postponing your life and start living with intention today!In this episode:Finding peace after divorceLetting go of shame, fear, and waitingCreating joy and meaningful memories nowThis episode will remind you that your future is not on pause and neither is your purpose.Go be the person you were created to be!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome!What if the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for isn’t about doing more… but finally doing what you already said you would?In this episode of The Esme Graff Podcast, I'm getting practical about what it actually takes to become the person you keep saying you want to be.Because growth isn’t complicated, but it is costly. And the price is consistency.Here are the 3 disciplines we break down today:1. Keep the promises you make to yourselfSelf-trust isn’t built in public—it’s built in private.Every kept promise compounds confidence. Every broken one reinforces doubt.If you don’t trust yourself, nothing else scales.2. Protect your environmentYour environment is not neutral—it’s either multiplying you or minimizing you.What you consume. Who you listen to. What you tolerate.It’s either feeding your future or starving it.3. Tell yourself the truthExcuses function just like lies.“I don’t have time.”“I’m waiting for the right moment.”“This is just who I am.”Those aren’t facts. They’re patterns. And patterns can change.Here’s the bottom line:You don’t need a new life. You need stronger and higher standards.Practical Exercise:Write this down: “The truth is, I am where I am because...”Finish the sentence. Say it out loud. Then decide what action "that truth" requires.Because clarity creates courage. And courage creates change.If this episode challenged you, follow the show and leave a review. It helps more people step into the growth they’ve been avoiding.Connect with me at www.esmegraff.comLater,EsmePodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome!Some habits don’t look destructive at first. They sound normal. They feel justified. They’ve become so familiar that you don’t even question them anymore. But they are draining your confidence, stealing your peace, and keeping you stuck.In this honest and empowering episode, Esme shares three things you need to stop doing right now if you want to grow and move forward with purpose: Negative self-talkComparison Making excuses. You’ll hear real-life stories, practical truth, and the kind of loving challenge that helps you confront what’s holding you back. Because transformation doesn’t begin when life gets easier, it begins when you decide to think differently, speak differently, and take ownership of what comes next.If you’ve been feeling frustrated, stuck, or tired of repeating the same cycles, this conversation will meet you right where you are.In this episode, you’ll learn:• How hidden negative self-talk silently shapes your reality• Why comparison has nothing to do with social media and everything to do with identity• The difference between a real obstacle and an excuse• How satisfaction, responsibility, and self-awareness create freedomThis episode is your reminder: you are not powerless, you are not behind, and you are not stuck unless you choose to stay there.If this episode encouraged you, be sure to follow, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs this message today.Later,Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Hello and welcome!This episode is an honest one. No filter, no performance — just a real conversation about faith, motherhood, being single, and what it actually looks like to build a life rooted in Truth.This week, Esme goes behind the curtain and answers the questions she gets asked the most. What is it really like to be a single mom? How do you raise kids with values when you can no longer control what they watch, wear, or do? Is she dating? And why will she never, under any circumstances, use a dating app?In this episode, you will hear:What single mom life actually looks like after a divorce: The loneliness, the rebuilding, and why she calls motherhood the greatest role she has ever been given.What you see is what you get, and she means that. Esme talks about why she stopped pretending a long time ago, why she will always choose the coffee shop she actually loves, and why the time you give to other people is too valuable to waste on something that doesn't feel right.The truth about being single: the joy, the hard parts, the awkward moments of going to church alone, and why she is not crying about it every day.Is she trying to date? Yes. Is she on the apps? Absolutely not! She is clear about why. She knows her worth, she trusts God's timing, and she is not willing to settle out of fear or desperation. This part of the conversation is honest, maybe a little funny, and completely unapologetic.If you have ever searched for a podcast for Christian single moms, a faith-based conversation about life after divorce, or just someone who will tell you the truth, this is that episode.Know your worth, protect your peace, and trust that the life God has for you is better than anything you could swipe your way into.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome! I'm going to get straight to the point. You're not lost because you don't have a dream. You're lost because you've never decided on a destination, and every day you keep moving without one is a day you can't get back.In this episode, Esme is done letting you stay comfortable in the planning phase. She's pulling out the mirror, asking the question most of us have been quietly dodging, and walking you through a powerful exercise that will get you crystal clear on what you're actually building toward — and whether your daily actions are taking you there.Grab a pen. You're going to want to do this one!!!In this episode, you'll learn:Why not knowing your destination is costing you more than time, and what it's silently stealing from your lifeThe 15-minute "65th birthday" exercise that reveals exactly what you want your life to look like and whether you're on track to get thereThe real reason most people never get what they want (and it has nothing to do with talent or timing)What it looks like to evaluate your life like a purposeful leader before you drift too far off courseIf you've been spinning your wheels, checking boxes, and secretly wondering if the life you want is still possible for you, this episode is going to hit.And if you're a single mom who hears all of this and thinks "that's not my reality" — Esme wants to hear from you. Reach out at [email protected] and let's figure out your first step together.Loved this episode? Share it with a woman who needs the push, leave a review, and tell me about your dream life!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome Back!Most people spend their lives chasing success, relationships, and achievements… hoping that one day it will finally feel like enough. Yet even when you reach the goals you once dreamed about, the question still lingers: Why do I still feel unfulfilled?In this episode, I'm diving into two of the most important questions you will ever have to answer: Who are you, and why are you here?Before you can build meaningful friendships, find the right community, or step confidently into your purpose, there is deeper work that has to happen internally. Because the truth is simple but often uncomfortable: we attract who we are. If we want strong, purposeful relationships in our lives, we have to become the kind of person who cultivates them.I share parts of my own journey—from defining myself through work, success, and circumstances to learning what it truly means to let God shape my identity. I also talk about why so many high achievers still feel empty, even after accomplishing everything they thought would make them happy.In this episode, we talk about:• Why knowing who you are is the foundation for building meaningful friendships• The danger of letting your job, achievements, or circumstances define your identity• Why even the most successful people still struggle with fulfillment• The difference between chasing success and living your true purpose• How faith can anchor your identity in something that doesn’t changeIf you’ve ever felt like you should be happier than you are… or wondered why your accomplishments haven’t filled the deeper void, this episode will challenge you to pause and ask the questions that truly shape your life.Because when you know who you are and why you’re here, everything changes—from the people you surround yourself with to the way you live every single day.If you would like to know more about purpose, reach out to me, and let's start the conversation!Go live out your purpose and be who God created you to be! Later,Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Hello and welcome back!Is it really easier to be friends with men than with women? In this episode, Esme challenges the common belief that having guy friends is somehow better or less complicated than investing in friendships with other women. Drawing from her experience growing up with brothers, working in male-dominated environments, and navigating motherhood, she shares why female friendships play a unique and irreplaceable role in a woman’s life.This conversation isn’t about dismissing male friendships. It’s about recognizing the emotional support, understanding, and freedom that often exists when women build strong communities with one another.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why the “guys are easier to be friends with” belief can be misleading• The unique emotional support women offer each other• Why healthy female friendships create space to be fully yourselfIf you’ve ever struggled to find your tribe or wondered if strong female friendships are worth the effort, this episode will encourage you to keep investing in the women around you.Today's challenge: Text a girlfriend(s) and schedule that coffee date. Listen to Part 1 of this short series: Why You Need a Women-Only Community Right Now (Part 1)Go be in community with other women and be who God created you to be, and I'll see you here next time.Later!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome home!Spring is coming. The kids are growing up. The house is quieter. And somewhere in the middle of it all… You realize something: You need your women tribe.In this honest and deeply personal episode, I share what God has been stirring in my heart during this new season of life as a single mom in my 40s with two adult children. Life is changing, and instead of resisting it, I’m leaning in.We were never meant to do life alone. We need women in our lives—and in bunches!In this episode, I break down Part 1 of what I believe every woman must cultivate: A community of women with shared values who are living on purpose.We'll talk about:Why women-only community still matters (yes, even now)What healthy female friendships actually look likeHow to stop fearing gossip and start raising the standardThe hard truth: You must become what you’re looking forHow to ask another woman to coffee (without overthinking it)I also share personal stories from workplace betrayal to women who drove across states to support my book launch, and what those experiences taught me about loyalty, generosity, and kingdom-minded friendship.And if you’re waiting for community to “just happen,” let this be your loving nudge: Ask her to coffee. You never know — she might be your next best friend.Now go out there and be who God created you to be!Later!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to the latest episode, my friend!I'm going to get straight to the point: If you don’t love what you have right now, more won’t fix it.In this conversation, Esme challenges the cultural version of “self-love” and replaces it with something deeper: radical honesty. Fresh from speaking at MOMco, she reflects on evolving purpose, semi-empty nesting, friendships that require mutual effort, and the discipline of taking inventory of your life. In this episode:How to spot one-sided relationships before they drain youWhy mutual effort is non-negotiable in friendshipsThe power of refusing to shrink for someone else’s comfortWhat changes when you see yourself as the assetEsme shares what changed when she became relentlessly honest about who and what occupies her life. No more buying things to fill space. No more keeping connections out of obligation. No more staying small to be palatable.You are the asset!When you truly love what you have, you guard it. You grow it. You refuse to mishandle it.This episode is a call to stop chasing “more” and start stewarding “now.”Click below to listen to the previous episode: Love Yourself FirstFollow, leave a review, and share with someone who’s ready to raise their standards in love, leadership, and life.Go be who God created you to be and I'll see you next week.Later!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome! We’re already 48 days into the year. Be honest… how are your goals really holding up?In this heartfelt Love Month episode, I’m inviting you into a deeper conversation—one that goes beyond productivity hacks and vision boards. Because this isn’t about checking boxes. It’s about building a life that actually feels meaningful.Today, we’re talking about:How self-love shapes the way your children see you and themselvesWhy loving your current season is the key to sustainable growthWhat Valentine’s Day taught me about redefining love as a single momThe mindset shift that separates “I made a mistake” from “I am a mistake”This episode is raw and personal.I share what it’s been like navigating body image struggles, unmet expectations, hormonal changes in my 40s, grieving the loss of our beloved family dog, and embracing the semi-empty nester season, all while continuing to grow as a woman, mother, and executive coach.Because here’s the truth: If you don’t love yourself in this season, you won’t magically love yourself in the next.If today were your last day, would you know you loved well? Would you know you allowed yourself to be loved?This conversation will challenge you, encourage you, and maybe even stretch you in the best way.If you’ve been feeling behind or questioning your worth in this season, this episode is for you!🎧 Listen now.💛 Follow the show so you don’t miss what’s coming next.⭐ Leave a review if this message speaks to you — it helps more women find this space.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome! In this episode, Esme continues the New Year conversation by going deeper and straight into the emotional reality behind why we abandon the goals we set.If you’ve already felt discouraged this year, this episode is for you.Because here’s the truth: nearly every meaningful goal, your health, your money, your relationships, your career, your personal growth, comes with emotional weight. And when those emotions aren’t supported, even the strongest vision starts to crack.Today, we talk about why accomplishing goals require community and why the myth of being “self-made” may be quietly sabotaging your progress.You’ll hear:Why health, money, relationships, career, and personal growth goals are always emotionalThe real reason most people give up on goals (and it’s not willpower)A powerful story about encouragement, performance, and what happens when someone believes in youWhy mentors, accountability partners, and community aren’t optionalWhy “self-made” is a lie and community is the real flexIf you’re tired of ending the year with unfinished goals instead of real progress, this episode is your invitation to get clear on what you want, find your people and finish what you started.🎧 Listen now, and ask yourself: Who’s in my village?You’re not behind.It’s not too late.And you don’t have to do this alone.Catch up with this year's goals series:Goals Require Emotional Honesty and Inner WorkGoals Rooted in PuposePodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Hello there! What if the reason you keep missing your goals isn’t a lack of discipline, but unresolved emotional work beneath the surface?In this episode, we’re going deeper than goal-setting tactics and productivity hacks. We’re talking about the inner work most people never address: The emotional honesty required to pursue goals that actually align with your purpose.You’ll hear why a meaningful life isn’t linear, why regret often has less to do with failure and more to do with avoidance, and how the choices you keep making may be connected to past pain, fear, or survival habits.I share a deeply personal story from my own journey after divorce and how fear shaped my relationship with money, how anxiety followed me for years, and what it took to move from scarcity to stability, from panic to confidence. This episode is proof that not every failed goal is a discipline issue—sometimes it’s a heart issue.You have more power than you think. Every choice carries emotion—but when you know yourself well, you can rebuild, realign, and move forward with clarity.And if you’re ready to move from anxiety to confidence and from pressure to purpose, I’d love to help you take that next step. This is why I’m so passionate about the Purpose Factor® Assessment: it helps you make decisions that align with who you were created to be.👉 If this episode encouraged you, follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs this reminder today.👉 Connect with me on social media or visit www.esmegraff.com to continue the conversation.Listent to the previous Episode: Goals Rooterd in PurposeBe the person God created you to be. I’ll see you next time.Later!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! In this New Year episode, Esme challenges the way we’ve been taught to think about goals and invites you to go deeper. If you’ve ever hit milestones and still felt empty or stopped setting goals altogether because disappointment felt inevitable, Esme reframes goal-setting through the lens of purpose, clarity, and personal accountability. Drawing from personal experience as a Christian single mom and leadership coach, Esme unpacks why goals must be rooted in purpose to create fulfillment, joy, and peace. You’ll learn how misaligned goals quietly drain you, why both high and low performers struggle with clarity, and how purpose changes the way you pursue growth.This episode will help you stop chasing what looks good and start choosing goals that actually matter, so you can build a life that feels aligned, meaningful, and worth sustaining.🎯 Plus: an invitation to take your next step with intentionality.🚀 Listen to the 2025 Goals setting episode HerePodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome back! The holidays can be heavy when you’re a single mom, and if you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, exhausted, or quietly carrying the weight of the world, this episode will meet you right where you are. In today’s episode, Esme Graff, Army veteran, author, speaker, and host of The Esme Graff Podcast, opens up about the real challenges single moms face during the holiday season: the pressure to provide, emotional burnout, and sleep deprivation.This episode is part encouragement, part truth-telling, and 100% relatable for single moms, divorced moms, and anyone navigating the holidays while feeling stretched thin. With humor, honesty, and faith, Esme shares personal stories, practical wisdom, and a reminder that a “single-parent home” is not a broken home.If you’ve been searching for a Christian single mom podcast, support for single motherhood, or real conversations about healing, confidence, and navigating the holidays as a single parent, this episode is for you. You’ll walk away feeling seen, grounded, and reminded that you are enough — exactly as God created you to be.What You’ll Hear in This Episode:• The pressure single moms feel to “provide” emotionally, financially, and socially• Emotional triggers that resurface during the holidays and how to filter them• Why sleep deprivation hits harder for single moms• How to fight the lies the world tells single parents• A faith-filled reminder that your story is not defined by statisticsIf this episode encourages you, hit follow, leave a review, and share it with another mom who needs it. To connect with Esme, visit esmegraff.com or reach out on social media.You’re not alone and you’re not behind.You’re becoming exactly who God created you to be.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome and Warning: I say "this sucks" a lot in this episode! If you’re a single mom navigating the holidays, this episode is going to make you feel like someone finally gets you.Today, Esme is pulling back the curtain on what the holiday season really feels like when you’re doing it solo and how to find strength, joy, and sanity when everything around you feels heavy.In this honest, faith-filled episode, she shares three raw and unfiltered truths about being a single mom during the holidays: Feeling like an outsiderSharing the kids (alternating holidays)Being the only parent who enforces the rulesWith real stories, practical guidance, and warm encouragement, you'll walk away feeling seen, supported, and equipped to create a season filled with peace and meaningful memories.Whether you're newly divorced, co-parenting, raising kids on your own, or simply searching for a Christian single-mom community that gets it, this episode gives you hope you can hold onto.In this episode, you’ll learn:The real reason the holidays feel so isolating for single moms, and how to find your peopleHow to process the emotional punch of sharing or alternating holidays with your kidsWhat to do when you’re the only parent enforcing rules, routines, and boundariesWhy “making memories over making everything perfect” will change the way you momHow to stay grounded in faith and confidence in the mom you are called to beYou are not behind. You are not too much. And you’re not doing this wrong.You’re a strong, resilient, faith-driven mom who is building a home filled with love, and this episode gives you the tools to do it with confidence.If this conversation encouraged you, it would mean the world if you followed, rated, and left a review, and shared the link with someone who needs to hear it!To connect with Esme, follow along on social or visit www.esmegraff.com.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to the show!Let me tell you a little secret: You don’t need more hustle. You don’t need more noise. What you need is clarity, and that only comes from pausing long enough to reflect, reset, and realign.In this episode, I continue to talk about the process I use every summer to reset my life and leadership, so I can step into September with focus, confidence, and intentionality. Listen to part I of this episode:Click the link: Listen on Apple PodcastClick the link: Listen on SpotifyThis isn’t just about feeling inspired. It’s about using the correct data from your own life to make better decisions, eliminate what’s not serving you, and double down on what moves you closer to who you want to be.We’ll talk about how to invest in yourself, evaluate your relationships, your time, your finances, and your energy. And how to know whether your decisions line up with your calling. I’ll share why investing in your growth is never a waste, how faith guides my choices, and what Proverbs 4:7 teaches us about wisdom and good judgment.If you’re ready to stop drifting, start deciding, and finish the last four months of 2025 strong, this episode is for you.Montly Newsletter: Sign up herePodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome!Summer is officially over, and it’s time to refocus and step boldly into the final four months of 2025. In this episode, I’m sharing the three Summer Reset Questions I ask myself every year. These questions help me measure progress, check my habits, and make sure I’m not just staying busy but actually becoming the person I want to be.Here’s the truth: Intentionality is everything. Whether it’s how you spend your time, who you invest in, or the way you show up for your calling, your effort reflects your values. And if you want to finish the year strong, you need clarity on what’s working, what’s draining, and what’s moving you closer to the life you’re meant to live.We’ll talk about:Why “Am I performing at my best?” is more than a productivity question—it’s a character question.How to stop living on autopilot and start asking, What do I actually get from this?Is this getting me closer to who I want to be? Every action you take has the power to shape the future you want to have.This is your chance to step into September with confidence, joy, and intentionality because the best version of you is waiting.✨ And if you’re ready to go even deeper, I’m hosting a Half-Day Leadership Workshop on October 9th. Space is limited, so grab your spot now at www.esmegraff.com/workshop✨ To stay connected and be the first one to know about upcoming events and learn about leadership development, sign up for my monthly newsletter by clicking this link: Monthly NewsletterLet’s finish 2025 strong.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Hello and welcome!In today’s episode, I'm diving into what it means to create a memorable, fun and meaningful summer without breaking the bank. Whether you're a single parent trying to make the most of your downtime or just looking for ways to reset and realign your life, this conversation will give you the nudge you need.I’m sharing personal stories (like day trips with my kids and why we always get a t-shirt), powerful reflections from my book Friendships, and why the people you surround yourself with are shaping you more than you realize.You’ll learn:The reason you become your friendsHow to create unforgettable summer memories (on a budget)12 biblical qualities to build into your life and relationshipsWhy now is the perfect time to reset your energy and your focusPlus, I’m inviting you to make Friendships your summer reading pick (or book club book!). Because when your friendships grow, you grow!Let’s use this summer to lead well, live with purpose, and influence transformation.🎧 Hit play now.📝 Grab your copy of Friendships here📩 Sign up for the newsletter www.esmegraff.comPodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! What makes someone a faithful friend—and why does it matter so much?Welcome to the Pod! In this heartfelt episode, Esme unpacks Chapter 12 of her book Friendships and dives deep into one of the most underrated but essential qualities in any relationship: loyalty. From how loyal friends handle gossip, to why they won’t sell you out (even when it's tempting), this episode is packed with relatable stories, personal conviction, and truth that challenges us to rise higher in our friendships.Whether you're healing from betrayal, evaluating your circle, or simply wanting to grow into a more loyal and grounded person, this conversation will inspire you to choose friends who lift you up—and to become one yourself.Esme also shares a vulnerable moment from her post-divorce season and how choosing loyalty to her children over temporary escape changed everything.👭 Ready to level up your friendships and lead with loyalty?🎧 Hit play and join the conversation!➡️ Leave a comment in the Spotify Q&A section or DM Esme on social—she wants to hear your loyalty story!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome back!In this powerful episode, I'm diving into Chapter 11 of my book Friendships—and it's all about kindness!You'll learn how the people closest to you shape your future (for better or worse), and why being kind doesn't make you weak—it makes you unstoppable. From Joseph’s quiet strength in the Bible to the friends who’ve shown me grace when I didn’t deserve it, I’m sharing the lessons that have changed me. And might change you, too!Whether you're navigating forgiveness, craving deeper friendships, or just trying to be the kind of person God created you to be… this one’s for you.📖 What You’ll Learn:• 95% of your life (success or failure) is shaped by the people around you• Being kind can be really challenging at times• Kindness is attractive💬 Plus, my kid is influencing my life in surprising ways (hello, Stanley cup 😅).This is the one you listen to if you’ve ever struggled to forgive, be kind to someone who hurt you, or wondered how to show up as the faithful friend others need.🧡 Let’s go deeper today. Hit play.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! What if the breakthrough you're waiting for isn't about praying harder—but about acting in faith?In this powerful episode, I'm diving deep into Chapter 10 of my book Friendships, and unpacking three truths about what it really means to be faithful. If you're someone who's trying to live with intention, especially through the ups and downs of life, this one's for you.We’ll talk about:How to Recognize True Faith (Even When You Can’t Feel It)Real Faith Always Takes ActionWhat It Really Means to Sacrifice in FaithI’m sharing personal stories, biblical insights, and a challenge that might just shift the way you see your circumstances. Whether you’re walking through a season of waiting, facing a big decision, or just trying to stay obedient in the little things—this episode will encourage you to live bolder and trust deeper.Plus, I’ll share how faith played a role when I lost my job of nine years, and why obedience often costs more than we expect—but always leads to more than we can imagine.If you’ve ever wondered how to become more like Jesus and less like the version of yourself that doubts, hesitates, or plays it safe—this episode will speak directly to your heart.Episode 10 Part I: FRIENDSHIPS CH 10: The Faithful One - Apple PodcastEpisode 10 Part 1: FRIENDSHIPS CH 10: The Faithful One - Spotify💌 Be sure to sign up for my monthly newsletter at esmegraff.com where I share leadership tips, personal growth strategies, and tools for navigating faith and professional life with purpose.You matter. You were made on purpose. Let’s walk in faith—together!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to the show, my friend!In today’s episode, I’m opening up about what it really means to be a woman of faith—not by the world’s standards, but by God’s.We’re diving into Chapter 10 of my book Friendships and asking some powerful questions:• What makes someone a woman of faith?• Can you still be a woman of faith if you watch KUWTK or the Bachelor?I’m also breaking down the three core characteristics of a woman of faith and why faithfulness isn’t just about religion but about relationships. This is for anyone craving a deeper connection with God, longing for more meaningful friendships, or trying to figure out how to keep going when things get hard.This episode is filled with truth, encouragement, and practical wisdom to help you live your best life!Last Episode: CH 9: The One Who Serves💌 Want more encouragement and leadership tips?Sign up for my monthly newsletter, which is packed with tools for communication, personal growth, and leadership. April’s issue is all about asking better questions and connecting deeply. 📝 Resources + Links• Sign up for the newsletter: https://www.esmegraff.com• Order the Friendships book: Amazon• Visit my site: www.esmegraff.com• Connect on social: @esme_graff_👉 If this episode encouraged you, hit follow, leave a 5-star review, and share it with a friend. Don’t forget to use the Q&A on Spotify—I’d love to hear from you!#faithfulness #christianpodcast #womeninleadership #friendshipgoals #jesusfollowers #faithoverfear #christianwomen #podcastforwomen #divorcedandfaithful #leadershipcoach #esmegraffpodcastPodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! This one’s for the servant-hearted leader in you. 💥In this episode, Esme dives into Chapter 9 of her book Friendships and focuses on one of the most powerful (yet misunderstood) qualities of growth and Christlikeness: serving others.Whether leading a team, raising a family, or simply trying to live with intention—you can't miss this episode!What you'll learn:The powerful truth from Hebrews 6:10 that changed how I view servingThe mindset shift between serving from love vs. obligationA raw story about a time I served resentfully—and what it revealed about my heartThe surprising way my friend showed up when I needed her mostPlus, hear what I learned at the International Maxwell Conference (spoiler: it involves Avengers-level women and major perspective shifts!).This episode is real, vulnerable, and packed with encouragement for anyone who wants to become a person others can count on. Because the people we surround ourselves with? They shape who we become.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! What kind of history are you leaving behind? This week on The Esme Graff Podcast, I'm diving into the power of our personal history—not just the stories we tell but the impact we have on the people around us.I share a personal story of a life-changing moment, the kindness of a nurse, and the biblical example of Tabitha—a woman whose legacy of love and service left an unforgettable mark on her community.In my book Friendships, I explore how the way we serve others—whether through small acts of kindness or deep, sacrificial love—shapes the legacy we leave behind. Tabitha’s story in Acts Chapter 9 reminds us that our impact isn’t measured by status or success but by the lives we touch.In this episode, we’ll explore:How small actions shape lasting legaciesThe importance of making people feel seen and valuedHow past hurts don’t have to define future relationshipsSo, how will you be remembered? You were created for a purpose, and if you live it out, you will leave a memorable history behind.🎧 Tune in now and be inspired to live your life with intentionality!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome back to The Esme Graff Podcast! Today, we have a special conversation that’s all about faith, resilience, and the wild, beautiful journey of stepping into the unknown.I’m sitting down with my dear friend, Hillary Shelton a first-generation farmer, who took a leap of faith—literally—by buying a farm. We’ll talk about what it means to trust God in the process, the challenges and heartbreak that come with building something from the ground up, and the unexpected ways He shows up in it all.We’ll also dive into why farming is making a comeback, the meaningful lessons we can learn from working the land, and how animals—yes, animals—reflect the very heart of God. Because creation itself tells a story!So, whether you’re a city dweller, a dreamer, or someone who just loves a good story of faith and grit, this one’s for you. Let’s get started!To connect with Hillary Shelton and see pictures of "Chico" AKA Abe visit their social media page HERE or website HEREPodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome back, friends! Can you believe it’s already March? Before we know it, summer will be here!This month, we’re celebrating Women’s History Month, and today, I want to talk about women who have shaped my own history: my friends.I didn’t always have strong female friendships. For years, I believed I was independent and self-sufficient. But during my hardest season—my divorce—God showed me the life-changing power of deep, meaningful friendships with other women.In this episode, I’ll share three reasons why female friendships are essential for our growth and well-being:1️⃣ No one understands women like women do—From hormonal struggles to life’s everyday challenges, female friends just get it.2️⃣ Friendships help us heal—Research shows that time spent with good friends can reduce stress and improve mental health.3️⃣ No one will fight for you like your girlfriends will—Women support each other in ways that no one else can.But let’s be real—sometimes, making and maintaining friendships isn’t easy. I’ll talk about why we struggle with female friendships and how we can build authentic, life-giving connections instead of falling into the trap of rivalry or comparison.If you’ve ever doubted the importance of female friendships, or if you’re looking to build deeper connections, this episode is for you! Let’s embrace the joy, strength, and sisterhood that comes with surrounding ourselves with good women.💛 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts with me on Instagram, and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!You can get a copy of my book Friendships HereListen to episode 29 The Work I love, which was dedicated to my professional single moms . Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome friend!Over the past two weeks, I’ve opened up about love—love lost, love found, and today, the love I have for what I do. In this episode, I’m speaking directly to my professional single moms and every working woman balancing career and family. If that’s you, this one’s for you.One of my biggest passions is helping others discovey their full potential and communicate effectively because words have the power to transform relationships, influence teams, and create lasting impact. Leadership isn’t just about strategy—it’s about knowing yourself, knowing your team, and communicating in a way that builds trust and clarity. If you want to lead well, you have to invest in your personal and professional growth.Other episodes: The Love I Lost and The Love I HaveIf you’re a professional looking for leadership insights, communication skills, and faith-driven encouragement, subscribe to The Lead Well, Live with Purpose and Influence Transformation newsletter, which is sent out on the 12th of every month. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Leave a review, follow the podcast, and connect with me through the Q&A section on Spotify or at www.esmegraff.com. Let’s build a life and career we truly love—together!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to this week's episode of The Esme Graff Podcast as I continue to talk about L O V E!Love isn’t just about romance. In this heartfelt episode, Esme dives deep into the love surrounding us in unexpected places—friendships, family, community, and, most importantly, God’s unconditional love.As a single mom, I know the pain of loneliness, but I’ve also discovered the power of investing in relationships that truly matter.If you’ve ever felt love was missing from your life, this episode will encourage you to shift your perspective and find love in places you may not have noticed before.You can listen to last week's episode, The Love I Lost  Here, and this is last year's episode on relationships, episode 5 Please share your thoughts in the Q&A section on Spotify or connect with me at www.esmegraff.com.Don’t forget to follow, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend. Be the person you were created to be and live life differently. Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to The Esme Graff Podcast!This week, Esme gets personal with a moving conversation about The Love I Lost. From the heartbreak of divorce to the deep void of growing up without her mother, Esme shares how loss shaped her journey—and how God’s grace and community helped her find healing and live with hope.Whether you’re a single mom navigating life after divorce, grieving a lost relationship, or just trying to make sense of heartbreak, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone.In today’s episode, Esme talks about:The raw realities of losing love through divorce and its impact on identity.Growing up without a mother and finding unexpected “God-moments” of love and grace.Practical advice on grieving well and reframing your story beyond shame or labels.How God provides comfort and second chances when life doesn’t go as planned.If you’ve ever felt the pain of love lost—or if you’re looking for encouragement to move forward—this episode is packed with heartfelt wisdom, faith-filled encouragement, and tools to help you embrace healing and rediscover your purpose.Resources and Links:2024 Episode on RelationshipsVisit www.esmegraff.com to sign up for the monthly newsletter.Loved this episode? Don’t forget to follow, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs encouragement today!Tune in weekly for conversations that inspire, encourage, and help you live out your purpose and life differently!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to The Esme Graff Podcast! Are you feeling stuck, unmotivated, or overwhelmed by big goals? In this episode, I tackle the power of easy, meaningful goals that reignite inspiration and motivation. Discover how small wins can build momentum, bring joy, and help you stay on track, whether you're navigating career challenges, personal growth, or parenting.You'll learn:Why the right mindset transforms goal-setting into a joyful process.Practical steps to set and achieve short-term goals with significant impact.How goals connect to your vision, purpose, and long-term success.A special message for single moms on creating intentional moments with your kids.Join me for relatable stories, practical wisdom, and encouragement to live a life of purpose and passion. Don't let the pressure of "big goals" weigh you down—start with a tiny step today."Goals are not just tasks—they’re about character, purpose, and the life you want to build." ✨Hit play now, and don’t forget to like, follow, and leave a review to help others find this message!Visit www.esmegraff.com to download the Goal-Setting Guide and start your journey today!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to The Esme Graff Podcast! Are you setting the right goals for 2025, or are you following trends that don’t align with your vision? In this episode, I dive into practical and faith-based strategies to ensure your goals reflect who you want to become, the life and business you’re building, and the actions that will move you closer to your purpose.I’ll share:3 essential questions to evaluate your goals.Why values, desire, and commitment are key to achieving success.How I started my journey with the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team (MLCT) and built a thriving career after personal challenges.Whether you're navigating personal growth, professional development, or a fresh start, this episode will equip you with the clarity and tools to set intentional goals that truly matter.✨ Download my free Goal-Setting Guide (click here) and take the first step toward becoming the influential person you were created to be.Follow, like, and share this episode to help others discover their path to purpose!Visit www.esmegraff.com for more resources and coaching support.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to the first episode of 2025 on The Esme Graff Podcast! We’re diving headfirst into a new year with an honest conversation about setting goals that actually stick. Whether focusing on self-growth, leading a team, running a business, or working on personal growth, this episode is full of practical tips, biblical wisdom, and plenty of encouragement to help you start the year strong.I'm talking about:How to set goals that align with your values and purpose.Why commitment (and a little honesty with yourself) makes all the difference.Lessons I’ve learned about resilience after navigating unexpected challenges last year.Oh, and I’ve got some exciting updates to share with you! I’m launching a Leadership & Team-Building Coaching Business and a brand-new Lead, Live, and Influence monthly newsletter.Need help with your goals? Download my Goal-Setting Guide—it’s free! Click here to download it!Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and let me know what you think about today’s episode. I’d love to hear your holiday stories and the goals you’re working on for 2025!Have a fantastic week, friends. Let’s lead, live, and influence with purpose this year!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to this week’s episode of The Esme Graff Podcast! In this inspiring episode, I dive into Chapter 8 of my book, Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus, and explore the transformative power of humility. Whether you're a single mom navigating parenting challenges or a divorced woman seeking encouragement and community, this episode is for you.What You’ll Learn:The importance of humility in friendships and why it shapes our relationships.Biblical insights on humility, featuring the story of Luke, the humble and wise Gospel author.How humble people set boundaries, avoid entitlement, and practice self-worth.Encouragement for single moms and divorced women, especially during the holiday season."Divorce is part of my story, but it’s not my identity." Join me as I share my personal experiences as a Christian single mom and discuss how humility leads to deeper connections and personal growth.Ready to grow? Grab a copy of my book, the journal, and let’s dive deeper into becoming the women God created us to be.Let’s end this year with gratitude and purpose!Listen to the chapter one episode, Compassion and Mentorship, subscribe, and share this episode to encourage others in your community! Visit www.esmegraff.com for more resources, signed copies of my book, and updates. Find me on InstagramYou are more precious than rubies. Don’t settle for less.Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to this empowering episode of The Esme Graff Podcast, where I unpack chapter seven of my book, Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. This week, we explore the transformative power of encouragement and why it’s crucial for building supportive, life-giving friendships. As a divorced single mom, I share personal stories and lessons from my journey, insights from the Bible, and practical ways to surround yourself with positive, encouraging friends who inspire growth and resilience. Learn from the example of Barnabas, the “son of encouragement,” and discover how to cultivate a circle of support that uplifts you through challenges. Whether you're navigating life post-divorce or striving to become a better friend and mother, this episode will provide the guidance and encouragement you need.If you haven't listened to Chapter One of this series, I highly encourage you go back and listen: Friendships Chapter 1: Compassion & MentorshipThis episode is full of insights and practical takeaways that will help you grow as a person and build supportive relationships. Tune in to chapter one and join the journey to becoming the best version of yourself!"Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to another inspiring episode of The Esme Graff Podcast! Today, I’m thrilled to sit down with Kayla Gahagan, a wife, mom of four, journalist, and author of Radical Joy: Christ’s Call to Purposeful, Joy-Filled Motherhood. Kayla shares the pivotal moment in her life when her daughter’s near-drowning caused her to reevaluate her roles as a mother and wife, and how it led her to rediscover her passion for motherhood, marriage, and her faith in God. In this episode, we discuss the unique challenges of parenting, the pressures mothers face, and the incredible importance of finding joy even in the most difficult seasons.Join me for a fun conversation packed with insightful advice, encouragement, and Radical Joy. We dive into Kayla's experiences with motherhood, marriage, navigating the challenges of parenting, and the wisdom she’s gathered along the way, empowering you with practical advice and inspiring you to find joy in your journey. Whether you’re looking for practical advice or a dose of inspiration, you won’t want to miss this conversation! Let’s embrace our calling and live life differently!!!Connect with Kayla: Website , FacebookGrab a copy of Radical Joy on AmazonPodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Hey friend, welcome to a powerful episode in my new series, where I break down every chapter of my book, Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. Today, we’re diving into Chapter 6, which is all about joy—specifically, how to find and choose joy in everyday small things.I know firsthand how hard it can be to find joy after divorce when you’re juggling single parenting, loneliness, and life’s challenges, but I promise, it’s possible! In this episode, I share my personal journey of rediscovering joy through a hard, dark season and how small moments, friendships, and the Holy Spirit can help you embrace joy even when life feels tough.Key Takeaways:How joy is a choice, not tied to circumstancesPractical tips for divorced moms to cultivate joy, even in seasons of loneliness and single parentingWhy your support system and friendships are essential to finding joyWhether you’re navigating a painful divorce or the daily demands of being a single mom, this episode is packed with encouragement and faith-based insights to help you reclaim joy in your life.Grab a copy of my book to follow along as we discuss cultivating a joyful spirit no matter what season you’re in.Friendships are also available on my website. Order now, and you will receive a signed copy along with a small token of my appreciation for supporting my ministry. If you are just now catching up with this series, I invite you to go back to the first episode or chapter one as you read along and take some notes!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to The Esme Graff Podcast! In this episode, we dive into Chapter 5 of my book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus, focusing on leadership. Whether you're a single mom, divorced single mom, a married mom, or anywhere in between, this episode is for you! Join me as I explore the idea that leadership isn't about your job title—it’s about how you lead in your everyday life, starting with your home and family.As a divorced single mom, I understand the challenges of balancing leadership at home and work. I'll talk about biblical figures like Deborah, whose confidence, courage, and leadership made a difference not just in her life but in those she led. I’ll share practical insights on how to be the best leader in your family, especially for single moms navigating life post-divorce.Today,  I share personal experiences, advice for thriving as a leader, and tips for cultivating godly character that will transform your home and community. Whether you're leading a family or stepping into new roles, learn how to lead with faith, confidence, and wisdom.Be sure to like, follow, and review! For more content and resources, including my book Friendships, visit my website at www.esmegraff.com. Moms, let's embrace our calling as leaders in our families and communities!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to a new episode of The Esme Graff Podcast. This week, I'm diving into Chapter 4 of my book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. We’re focusing on trustworthiness and the importance of trust in building strong, lasting friendships. Trust is the foundation of every meaningful friendship. I discuss betrayal and divorce and how trust has transformed my life and friendships. You'll hear stories of real, honest relationships, like Mary and Elizabeth, and how faithfulness can lead to deeper connections without fear of judgment.Whether you’ve been hurt, feel guarded, or want to build genuine, lasting friendships, this episode will show you how to move forward, trust again, and create Christ-centered relationships that uplift and heal.Hit play now to learn how to cultivate trust and find the friendships you deserve!You can get a signed copy of my new book Friendships by going to my website, but you can also order from Amazon, Barnes & Noble. Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome Friends!"Join me on this episode of The Esme Graff Podcast as I sit down with special guest Becky Culpepper, retired Pastor and Life and Mental Health Coach, to explore the power of forgiveness and the beauty of reconciliation.Becky shares her heartfelt story of healing a broken friendship with her high school bestie and offers practical tips for resolving conflict with friends and even navigating the challenges after divorce.If you're seeking guidance on conflict resolution, restoring relationships, or finding emotional peace after a breakup, this episode is filled with actionable advice and uplifting inspiration. Tune in for strategies to bring healing into your relationships, whether you're a single mom, leader, or anyone looking to grow emotionally and spiritually."Our friends at Courageous Life Coaching are only a phone call away, ready to serve you! Follow on social media Facebook InstagramPodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome friends! In this episode of The Esme Graff Podcast, I dive into Chapter 3 of my book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. This chapter focuses on the courage it takes to face conflict in friendships, family, and beyond. I reflect on how avoiding confrontation or fearing conflict can hold us back from true growth, while addressing conflict head-on fosters deeper, more authentic relationships.We explore forgiveness and reconciliation, using the story of Jesus and Peter to highlight the power of restoration in friendship. By understanding the role courage plays in navigating hurt and disappointment, we can move toward healthier, more resilient relationships that reflect Christ’s love.Join me as I share how fear can limit our potential and how choosing courage can lead to healing and redemption. Grab a copy of my book and the accompanying journal, and take this journey with me to become a better version of yourself!Tune in, share your thoughts, and let’s grow together!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to the Podcast—your go-to destination for transformative conversations on relationships, personal growth, and living life intentionally. If you're new here or missed our first two episodes, I highly recommend going back to listen. Trust me, this is the kind of wisdom that can transform how you approach friendships in your life. Today, we’re summarizing chapters 1 and 2 of my new book with a special guest: My dear friend Meredith Freeman. Meredith is not just a guest; she’s a living example of the very principles we’re discussing. We'll explore the qualities that make strong, authentic friendships and mentorships. We'll dig into the dynamics of transparency and the power of sacrificial love—two cornerstones that I believe are essential in any meaningful relationship.Whether you’re navigating the complexities of new relationships, struggling to maintain old ones, or just curious about how to be a better friend, this episode is for you!!If you’re in your 20s, 40s, or anywhere in between and looking to deepen your connections, you'll find actionable insights here. We’ll tackle everything from overcoming isolation in today’s tech-driven world to the art of balancing life, love, and work—especially when life feels like a juggling act.Don’t forget to connect with me on social media (here) or visit my website at esmegraff.com. And if you love what you hear, be sure to subscribe, share, and leave a review to help others discover The Esme Graff Podcast.Let’s dive in!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! In this second episode of a new series, we delve deep into Chapter Two of my book, Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus. Today, we're exploring the profound concept of sacrificial love and its role in building meaningful, Christ-centered friendships.Sacrificial love goes beyond the superficial—it’s about putting the needs of others above our own, just as Jesus did. But can we find such friendships in places where we spend most of our time, like our workplace? Should we even have friends at work? Drawing inspiration from the biblical story of Esther, we’ll examine how her sacrificial love and courage influenced an entire nation. Esther’s willingness to risk everything for her people is a powerful reminder of what it means to love sacrificially. How can we apply these lessons to our own lives? Can we inspire our friends to pray, seek God, and live out our purpose? This episode challenges you to consider your impact on those around you.Despite many challenges, research shows that having friends at work can significantly increase happiness and productivity. However, navigating these relationships requires wisdom and discernment to avoid toxic dynamics. This episode is perfect for anyone seeking to deepen their friendships, grow spiritually, and understand the transformative power of sacrificial love. Whether navigating friendships at work, at home, or within your community, this conversation will equip you with the tools to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships that reflect the love of Christ.So, grab your copy of Friendships here and join me each week as we explore the qualities that can transform your life!Scripture: Esther 4:15-16Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to the first episode of the Friendships Series, where we will dive into the relationships that truly shape and transform us. From our relationship with God to our connections with friends, each plays a critical role in building our character.Today, we're focusing on chapter one of my new book Friendships: Cultivating Twelve Qualities to Become More Like Jesus.Friendships are more than casual interactions; they profoundly impact our decisions, behaviors, and even our identity. Have you ever made a choice based on a friend's advice or behavior? Our friends’ influence can be a powerful force, leading us to life or death.True friendships don’t just happen; they require intentional effort. This means being present, showing up as your authentic self, and being open to vulnerability.There are two common reasons why forming friendships can be difficult:1.   Avoiding Effort2.   Fear of VulnerabilityCompassion goes beyond just feeling sorry for someone; it involves a desire to help them overcome their challenges. It’s about taking action to support others, just as Jesus showed compassion throughout His ministry.Mentorship is another critical aspect of personal growth. A good mentor guides, supports, and challenges us to be better without expecting anything in return. They create a safe space for growth and encourage us to reach our fullest potential. A mentor should never feel like a burden but rather a source of inspiration and support.Take some time to reflect on your current friendships and mentorships. Are they contributing positively to your life? Are you being the kind of friend or mentor that fosters growth and compassion? For more insights, grab a copy of my book, "Friendships," available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and my website www.esmegraff.com. If you order through my website, you'll receive a signed copy with a special message!Stay connected with me on social media or use the Q&A section on Spotify to share your thoughts on this episode. I’d love to hear from you!Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome! Join Esme as she shares practical advice on staying connected with God and your church community during summer downtime. This episode is especially helpful for single moms looking to prioritize what matters most when traditional vacations aren’t an option.Discover essential tips for nurturing your faith and staying engaged with your community even when taking a break from work this summer. Don’t miss out on this uplifting discussion that offers valuable insights for enhancing your summer with spiritual growth and community support!Scripture: Psalms 19:1-4Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Welcome to today's episode, where I explore the profound lessons from the season of motherhood through a spiritual lens. Join me as we delve into three key insights that have helped me grow in faith and have more appreciation for my journey with God.Firstly, understanding that God created me uniquely and purposefully. Secondly, discovering that God's love for me is boundless and personal. And finally, embracing the truth that God loves each of His children unconditionally and equally. Stay tuned as we unpack these invaluable lessons together.Scripture: John 3:16, Ecclesiastes 3:1Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! In this episode, Esme discusses the heart of this podcast: empowering divorced single moms to walk in this season, knowing that this is not the end and there is a future brighter than the sun ahead. But I also want to encourage women, in general, to live out their faith & calling regardless of the season they are in.Kenya Gantenbein drops in to discuss ways to confidently do what God has called you to without worrying about what people say. Dive in with us as we talk about life, kids, and Kenya’s new Christian single, “Running Home,” which will be released on May 19, 2024.  Scripture: 1 Corinthians12:6Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! In today's episode, Esme dives deep into the group calling she wants to encourage Christian women to practice and adopt as daily habits. As believers, we're called not only to personal growth but also to serve within the collective body of Christ. There are three universal group callings that strongly resonate across generations. Join in as Esme unpacks these callings and discover how they shape our lives as Christian women in today's world.With insightful reflections, this episode aims to illuminate the path of spiritual fulfillment and personal responsibility. So, whether you're a seasoned believer or just beginning to explore your faith, tune in as we navigate the beauty and challenges of living out these callings together.  Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:11, 1 Peter 4:10, Proverbs 14:1Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! In today's episode, we'll uncover the three primary callings I was created for. Before we dive in, please subscribe and leave a review if you relate to our conversation. Your support helps this podcast grow and reach more women who want to find a community.The first step was to discover what I was created to do, my place and purpose in this world, and how I could share the Word of God with others with similar stories.Do you know why you were created? I've always been drawn to the quest for understanding as I sail through the waves of life. Now, I better understand who I am, my purpose, and the reasons God made in His image.Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1, Romans 12:3-8https://www.amazon.com/author/esmegraffDevotional: Here and Now - A Heart That Lives for JesusPodcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! Have you ever asked yourself: Why am I here? What is my purpose? If you have, you are not alone. Everyone has asked themselves those same questions at some point in their lifetime.  As a Christian, I believe there are three essential ways to find answers to those questions. Grab a fresh cup of coffee, and let's talk about your calling and your purpose!Scripture: Psalm 95:6 and Romans 12:3-8Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.

Let's Connect! In this episode, Esme has a fun conversation with one of her besties: Fitness trainer and bodybuilding competitor Rhoda Weck. Come along with us as we discuss body image issues and the false rumors about bodybuilding and provide tips and ideas to help you have a different mindset and live a healthier lifestyle, confidently knowing  that, as Rhoda states:  "Everybody is different and every body is different."Scripture: Proverbs 4:23Podcat Website: The Esme Graff PodcastConnect with me on social media (Instagram) or visit my website at www.esmegraff.com to stay updated on new episodes, book releases, and more!© 2024 Esme Graff LLC. All rights reserved.