The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast

In this episode, Brett Ethridge hosts a meaningful conversation with JP Hughes, Perry's oldest son, as they explore themes of manhood, fatherhood, faith, and future aspirations. JP shares insights on growing up, making decisions, and the importance of grace and intentionality in parenting and life. This is the final episode in the series we've been doing on Stand Firm & Act Like Men. If you haven't read it yet, we encourage you to grab a copy. It's a great read. You can purchase the book at a discount on Amazon, here:  Stand Firm & Act Like Men - https://amzn.to/4rmVICE We also referenced John Eldredge's book Wild at Heart in this episode. You can get it here: Wild at Heart - https://amzn.to/4hBaTH7 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week, Brett reflects on 22 years of marriage and shares a profound truth that he's learned in the context of his marriage relationship that has implications for our relationships with our kids, too. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry shares a funny story that teaches an important lesson about how to handle conflict with grace and dignity. The book perry references in this episode is: The Next Conversation, by Jefferson Fisher Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood podcast, Brett and Perry continue to unpack important themes from Joby Martin's book Stand Firm & Act Like Men, with an emphasis on Chapter 2: "Be Watchful." They delve into elements of masculinity, spiritual readiness, and the vulnerabilities men face, including pride, worry, laziness, isolation, and lust. They emphasize the importance of being vigilant and proactive in guarding against these vulnerabilities, discussing practical steps such as accountability, prayer, and maintaining a strong community of support. The conversation is rooted in scriptural insights, encouraging men to reflect on their identities and responsibilities as fathers and followers of Christ. We welcome you to grab a copy of the book so that you can follow along in future episodes. You can purchase the book at a discount on Amazon, here:  Stand Firm & Act Like Men - https://amzn.to/4rmVICE Perry also referenced the book Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker. You can get it here: Every Man's Battle - https://amzn.to/4xvB5bq A Dose of Motivation “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” — Proverbs 16:18 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry shares a powerful question that one of his friends asked him about a challenge he's walking through, and it totally shifted his perspective on the situation. He encourages you with the same question. Be blessed! Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood Podcast, Brett and Perry kick off a new series around themes from the book Stand Firm & Act Like Men, by Joby Martin. In this first look at the book, they delve into important ideas around biblical manhood, parenting, and spiritual warfare. They discuss the importance of obedience, the three foundational pillars of manhood, and how to teach these principles to our kids. The conversation also touches on the significance of recognizing spiritual warfare in daily life and how it impacts relationships, particularly in marriage. The episode concludes with a commitment to actionable steps for personal growth and development as fathers and men. We welcome you to grab a copy of the book so that you can follow along in future episodes. You can purchase the book at a discount on Amazon, here:  Stand Firm & Act Like Men - https://amzn.to/4rmVICE A Dose of Motivation “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry tells a fun story about adventures he had with his teenage boys during a recent snowstorm, and what it reveals about the value of teaching our kids how to take controlled risks. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood podcast, Brett and Perry are joined by Mike Barsamian ("Mike the Parent Coach") to discuss the complexities of parenting teenagers. Mike shares his personal journey and the development of his parenting philosophy, emphasizing the importance of trust, communication, and understanding in building strong relationships with teens. The conversation delves into the Trust Triangle, which consists of honesty, good judgment, and empathy, and how parents can foster these qualities to improve their relationships with their children. Mike provides practical strategies for parents to navigate challenges, build trust, and create a supportive family environment. About Our Guest Since 2003, Mike Barsamian has been studying teens and families and has developed tools and trainings for families to understand each other and connect, including the PACE Setting Method for parenting teens. Mike has personally used all the strategies that he shares with his clients. Mike has pastored, counseled, and coached 1000's of teens and parents and has had a front-row seat in seeing amazing transformation in their lives, changing the trajectory of their families. As a parent himself, Mike understands what you’re facing and is ready to help you get through the challenges that have you feeling hopeless, helpless, and stuck. You can connect with Mike on social media, here: @miketheparentcoach Resources Read The Inner Game of Tennis, by Tim Gallway Get Mike's free masterclass on How To Rebuild Connection With Your Teen A Dose of Motivation “I know I’m supposed to be preparing my teenagers for life and all, but it’s hard when they already know everything.” — Whitney Fleming Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett dissects 1 Timothy 2:1, looking at four different facets of prayer and how we might think about incorporating each of them into our daily prayers for our kids. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood podcast, Brett Ethridge and Perry are joined by Christopher Schloeman, a faith-driven entrepreneur and father, to discuss the role of fathers in teaching children about money, the biblical perspective on finances, and the importance of modeling generosity. Christopher shares personal stories about growing up without a father, the influence of mentors, and how he has been intentional in his own fatherhood journey. The conversation also touches on the challenges of financial discussions in marriage, what a healthy relationship with money looks like, and the significance of identity in Christ. About Our Guest For over 35 years, Christopher Schloeman has been mentoring high-performing professionals who want more from their careers and lives than just another paycheck. His journey began with a simple belief: that work should be meaningful, values-driven, and provide the freedom to prioritize what matters most. Christopher Schloeman is a faith-driven entrepreneur, husband of 27 years, and father of three. He leads a national financial services agency with over 550 licensed agents across the country — serving middle-class families and small business owners through values-based financial strategies. His mission is to help people build legacy in the areas that matter most: faith, family, and finances. You can connect with Christopher on social media, here: @christopherschloeman You can learn more about Christopher and schedule coaching with him, here: https://legacyleadershipcoach.org/about/ Resources Here is the book that Christopher references toward the end of this episode. God and Money: How We Discovered True Riches at Harvard Business School, by John Cortines and Gregory Baumer A Dose of Motivation “A father is a fellow who has replaced the money in his wallet with pictures of his children.” – Anonymous Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett shares a story about a recent trip up into the mountains to help shift our perspective heading into the holiday season so that we can maximize our enjoyment of it. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode, Brett and Perry are joined by Perry's son Seth Hughes to discuss their recent biking adventure to celebrate Seth's 14th birthday. The conversation delves into the tradition of father-son trips, the challenges and triumphs of pushing the limits on a mountain bike, and the importance of community and incremental learning in overcoming fear. Seth shares his experiences of progressing through different biking tracks, while Perry reflects on the joy of watching his son grow in skill and confidence. The episode also touches on broader themes of parenting, technology use, and the value of spending quality time outdoors. The two books referenced in this episode are: Living with a SEAL, by Jesse Itzler The 49th Mystic, by Ted Dekker A Dose of Motivation “The biggest lesson I learned from my dad is to support children even if they're doing something that is unorthodox.” — Tony Hawk Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry shares a story about teaching his son to drive stick shift and encourages us to be intentional about injecting fun into our experiences with our kids. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode, Brett Ethridge and Perry reflect on the incredible legacy of Charlie Kirk, drawing lessons about fatherhood from the things Charlie taught and the way he lived his life. They explore the importance of family, the role of marriage in unlocking the best in us, and practical things we can do to leave a meaningful legacy with our kids after we're gone. The conversation emphasizes compassion, truth, and the responsibility of fathers to lead by example, ultimately encouraging listeners to reflect on their own roles as fathers and husbands. Charlie Kirk's life on Earth may have been cut short by an assassin's bullet, but his impact on God's Kingdom has only increased. It's on us to carry on, and one of the best ways we can do that is by leading our families well and being the best fathers possible. A Dose of Motivation “Fatherhood is a source of motivation and purpose.” — Charlie Kirk Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

This conversation with Christian Stanley, a missionary in the fight against sex trafficking, delves into the critical issue of pornography exposure among children and teenagers, emphasizing the importance of open communication between parents and their kids. The discussion highlights alarming statistics regarding exposure rates, the role of technology in facilitating access, and the need for proactive measures to prevent addiction. The speakers share personal experiences and strategies for fostering healthy conversations about sexuality and internet safety, while also addressing the challenges of addiction and the importance of accountability. Resources and tools for parents are provided to help navigate these complex issues effectively. This episode is the second in a two-part series with Christian Stanley about Internet safety. Be sure to listen to Episode 83 of The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast for the first episode, which focuses more on online predators and how we can protect our kids. Topics discussed include: 00:00  Introduction and Context Setting 02:53  Understanding the Statistics of Pornography Exposure 05:49  The Importance of Open Conversations with Kids 08:51  The Role of Technology in Exposure 11:51  The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 14:56  Strategies for Prevention and Protection 17:47  Addressing Addiction and Seeking Help 20:32  The Role of Parents in Guiding Conversations 23:41  Final Thoughts and Resources About Our Guest Christian Stanley is a missionary in the fight against human trafficking. He felt the call of missions at the age of 14 while on a missions trip in Sucua, Ecuador. Coming back from that trip, he prayed for years asking God to reveal what he was to specifically do. When Christian was 18, God broke his heart over the issue of human trafficking. He made a commitment then that he continues to uphold in fighting for the missing, hurting, and exploited. Christian lives in Alabama with his wife, Rachel, and their young son. You can connect with Christian on social media: @thestanleysmissions You can learn more about The Stanleys and support their ministry, here: https://beacons.ai/thestanleysmissions Resources Here are the resources discussed in this episode to learn more about this important issue and take the necessary actions to protect your kids. Get various links including a 20% discount on the Ever Accountable app and a Free Month of Bark, here: https://beacons.ai/thestanleysmissions Pure Life Ministries provides counseling programs and teaching materials for helping people deal with sexual addiction Read: Atomic Habits, by James Clear A Dose of Motivation “If your eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away.” — Jesus (in Matthew 18:9) Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry shares some of Jesus' words from his Sermon on the Mount and dwells on the deep caution inherent in the word "contempt," encouraging us to reflect on its meaning in our lives. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

The Internet, if not handled properly within our families, poses a significant risk to our kids. It is the primary place where predators lurk in the shadows, grooming vulnerable kids for sex trafficking and exposing them to pornography. And it happens from an early age, earlier than most of us parents realize. To help us navigate the potential pitfalls of Internet misuse by our kids and predatory practices by those who would seek to harm our children, we are joined in this episode by Christian Stanley, a missionary in the fight against human trafficking. While a big part of what Christian does is to help get kids out of dangerous situations once they're already being trafficked, the first line of defense is to help prevent kids from being trafficked in the first place -- and that starts at home. Open your mind and prepare your heart for this sobering conversation about the reality of the digital world that our kids are growing up in, and learn the warning signs and practical safeguards that we can put in place as fathers to protect our kids. About Our Guest Christian Stanley is a missionary in the fight against human trafficking. He felt the call of missions at the age of 14 while on a missions trip in Sucua, Ecuador. Coming back from that trip, he prayed for years asking God to reveal what he was to specifically do. When Christian was 18, God broke his heart over the issue of human trafficking. He made a commitment then that he continues to uphold in fighting for the missing, hurting, and exploited. Christian lives in Alabama with his wife, Rachel, and their young son. You can connect with Christian on social media: @thestanleysmissions You can learn more about The Stanleys and support their ministry, here: https://www.thestanleys.co/ Resources Here are the resources discussed in this episode to learn more about this important issue and take the necessary actions to protect your kids. Learn more about The Stanleys and support their mission to end human trafficking, here: thestanleys.co Thorn for Parents is a collection of useful resources, thoughtful tips, and expert information designed to help talk to their kids about online dangers Visit the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, the nation's largest and most influential child protection organization  Download the "Ever Accountable" app to see what your kids are being exposed to online and prevent their exposure to pornography. Use this discount link to save 20%. A Dose of Motivation “Power is no blessing in itself, except when it is used to protect the innocent.” — Jonathan Swift Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett reflects on the number of hours we put into all sorts of things in our lives and wonders if we're putting the same intentionality into "studying" fatherhood. He shares four resources that we can use for "deliberate practice" to get better as fathers. Note: The book Brett references in this episode is Good Inside, by Dr. Becky Kennedy. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood podcast, Brett and Perry reflect on their summer experiences and share personal stories about family adventures, business ventures, and spiritual growth. Brett is thrilled to share some huge breakthroughs with two of his sons in terms of their walk with the Lord. Brett and Perry also discuss the importance of rest and the need for intentionality in finding rest and rejuvenation amidst busy summer schedules. In that context, they touch on the concept of the Sabbath and how to incorporate daily rest into our lives. A Dose of Motivation “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Jesus (Matthew 11:28) Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett shares two practical ways to take some of the burden of fatherhood off your shoulders and put it where it belongs -- with the Lord! Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood podcast, hosts Brett Ethridge and Perry Hughes continue the series on the role of fathers by exploring a father's role as protector. They discuss physical protection, emotional safety, and the dangers of overprotection. The conversation delves into modern threats, including the impact of technology on children's safety, and emphasizes the need for fathers to be vigilant and nurturing. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own roles as protectors in their families. They explore how to nurture relationships, protect children from themselves, and the significance of faith in guiding parenting decisions. A Dose of Motivation “Parents: Please be the protectors you’re called to be.” — Tim Tebow Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry provides shades of understanding for Ephesians 6:4, especially when it comes to parenting our teenagers. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood Podcast, Brett is joined by Pastor Dan DeMey of Shine Church to continue the series exploring the multifaceted role of the father, this time focusing on a father's role as the spiritual head of the household. They start by asking whether or not that is even a role that a father should play and unpack scriptures that seem to suggest it is. Interpreting exactly what that should look like is nuanced, however, and Dan brings a fresh and interesting perspective to the suggestion that the father should be the "head" of his family. I think a lot of men will feel a weight of pressure lifted after listening to this wide-ranging conversation and come away with a much clearer vision of the spiritual role he should play in his family -- and how. Here's a closer look at some of the key points of discussion: 02:46  The Role of a Father as Spiritual Head 05:55  Personal Experiences and Role Models 09:02  Understanding Spiritual Leadership 11:53  The Dynamics of Marriage and Spiritual Roles 14:57  The Conduit of Spiritual Authority 18:01  The Humble Position of Leadership 21:01  Practical Steps for Spiritual Leadership 25:57  The Importance of Prayer in Parenting 30:20  Modeling Faith Through Bold Action 35:40  Navigating Spiritual Leadership in Marriage 40:51  Communication and Spiritual Leadership 44:55  Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth About Our Guest Pastor Dan DeMey is the head of the Formation Team at Shine Church in Castle Rock, CO. He and his wife, Kim, were youth pastors in Aiken, SC until 1999 when they moved to Colorado to help pastor Jubilee Fellowship Church, where they were for 19 years before starting Shine Church. Shine Church is a fulfillment to a word God spoke to Dan and Kim in 1999 about becoming Senior Lead Pastors. Dan hates religion but loves his relationship with Jesus and his favorite drink is Mt. Dew. Dan and Kim have two amazing children who love God with all their hearts, Andrew and Alyssa. You can connect with Dan on social media: @dan_demey and @shinechurchco You can learn more about Shine Church, here: https://shinechurch.life/ A Dose of Motivation “As goes the father, so goes the family.” — Voddie Baucham Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett reflects on the importance of seeing the good inside our kids and shares an anecdote about how to apply that perspective when engaging with our kids -- and how it changes everything when we do. The book referenced in this episode is Good Inside by Dr. Beck Kennedy. You can get a copy of it here: https://amzn.to/4lnhg0f Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

In this episode of the Faithful Fatherhood Podcast, Brett and Perry are joined by special guest Jamie Davis to kick off a new series exploring the multifaceted role of the father. This episode focuses on the father as a provider, delving into both the financial and non-financial aspects of provision. In this wide-ranging discussion about father-as-provider, we cover biblical truths about provision, share impactful personal experiences, and offer practical advice for fathers striving to fulfill this critical role. Here's a closer look at some of the key points of discussion: 00:00 Introduction 03:10 Biblical foundations of father as provider 05:55 Handling the anxiety that sometimes accompanies our identity as provider 12:06 Balancing preparedness and faith 18:05 Real-life experiences and lessons learned 21:08 Trusting God as Provider 23:57 Modern Challenges and Side Hustles 27:35 What we're responsible for providing beyond finances 34:41 Creating a safe environment for growth 36:32 Teaching life skills and financial literacy 42:54 Kingdom principles around money 44:55 What if your wife makes more money than you? 49:47 Leaving a lasting legacy About Our Guest Jamie Davis is the Managing Director of Franchises for Fathers, a business consultancy focused on equipping fathers to take control of their time and finances through business ownership so that they can be fully present during their kids' formative years. A graduate of the University of North Florida in Jacksonville, FL, Jamie is the husband of Sarah and father of five. He spent 25 years in the fast-paced Software-as-a-Service industry, climbing the corporate ladder and excelling in problem-solving, opening new markets, and forming game-changing strategic partnerships. Jamie researched, acquired, integrated, and sold multiple HR tech companies. Through his business ventures, Jamie has gained expertise that he now uses to help fathers identify the right franchise fit. You can connect with Jamie on LinkedIn, here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesdavis-advisor/ You can learn more about franchise ownership, here: https://www.franchisesforfathers.com/ A Dose of Motivation “A father’s legacy is not measured by the wealth he accumulates, but by the love he leaves behind.” — Anonymous Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry shares a timeless truth about love, an appropriate and timely message for this Valentine's Day Friday. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

We know it's waaaaay past the start of the new year. Nevertheless, the intentionality, goal-setting, and spiritual concepts we discuss in this episode are relevant any time of the year — especially when it comes to incorporating your kids into your family's strategic planning. Toward the end of the episode, Brett also shares a really powerful practice that can help you achieve breakthrough in whatever challenges you may be dealing with in your family. There's a lot of time left in 2025. There's no time like the present to get serious about making it everything you hoped it could be! A Dose of Motivation “The ultimate reason for setting goals is to entice you to become the person it takes to achieve them.” — Jim Rohn Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Social media — and smartphone usage more broadly — can be a challenging issue in families. Once introduced, it vies for our kids' attention and adds a layer of complexity as our teenagers are building relationships, forming their self-identity, and growing spiritually, intellectually, and physically. It's our job as fathers to help guide our kids through what Drew Kizer, guest in this episode, calls the "dangerous playground" of social media. But how? Join us for this wide-ranging and hugely important conversation as we discuss: The current state of social media and its influence on society and families At what age we should allow our kids access to smartphones and social media How to have healthy conversations with our teenagers about the potential dangers of social media, and how to help them use it in a life-giving way Our role as fathers in monitoring our kids' phone usage and restricting access if necessary What the Bible says about social media And more Drew also breaks down the elements of the P-A-C-T agreement that he recommends kids and parents implement with respect to their social media use. If smartphones and social media are a source of contention in your family, you're not alone. Fortunately, there are tools and mindsets to help you navigate this issue successfully. We cover them in this episode. About Our Guest Drew Kizer has been the pulpit minister at Ashville Road Baptist Church in Leeds, Alabama since 2000. He received a B.A. in Bible and a M.A. in New Testament from Freed-Hardeman University. In addition to his local work, Drew stays busy writing, podcasting, and speaking at lectureships, gospel meetings, and mission campaigns. His eleven-year battle with early-onset Parkinson’s Disease has given him perspective on how God gives strength through weakness. Drew likes to use his experience with chronic illness to help others who are in similar situations, especially those who suffer from PD. Drew and his wife, Julie, have two children, Ava and Jackson. Drew is the author of several books including Dangerous Playground: The Christian and Social Media, Burdens, and Sufficient Grace: A Christian Perspective on Chronic Illness. You can connect with Drew on Facebook, here: https://www.facebook.com/drewkizer A Dose of Motivation “Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways.” — Psalm 119:37 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett relays Jesus's powerful instructions for when we find ourselves in the storms of life -- an especially relevant reminder this Christmas season. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Rethink everything you thought you knew about being a fearless man. Moreover, reimagine why being fearless is so important not just for how we show up in the world, but for how we can be the best fathers, too. In this episode, Dave Novak, author of Fearless Men, explains what it means to be fearless and how fearlessness leads to us becoming true men, not just real men. In this wide-ranging conversation, Dave shares powerful stories of men who have done the hard work to face their struggles and show up more authentically in their lives and families. In so doing, Dave reveals the mindsets and actions that will enable us to conquer the struggles, insecurities, and pressures that are threatening our souls.  About Our Guest Dave Novak is a church planter and pastor in Sacramento, CA. Dave’s ministry has been shaped in racially diverse cultures and non-churched contexts, giving him a relevant voice of hope. He is the author of No More Dad Issues and Fearless Men. In July of 2023, Dave founded The F2 Project focused on healing dad issues and helping dads become heroes. He speaks to audiences nationally and globally, and is ordained with the Assemblies of God. Dave and his wife, Lori, married in 1999 and have two young adult children, Leah and Titus. Get your copy of  Fearless Men, here: https://amzn.to/4g6VslJ Learn more about Dave's ministry and book him to speak, here: https://www.davenovakministries.com/ A Dose of Motivation “Fear not.” — Jesus Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Brett and Perry talk about how to handle the disappointment that comes from unmet expectations as they debrief their summer adventures and catch up on key happenings with their families. Things don't always go according to plan, especially when travel and the idiosyncracies of teenage kids are involved. Yet, how we help our kids navigate disappointment is an important role of fathers. We trust that you'll be able to relate to the stories Brett and Perry share in this episode and take heart from the realization that you're not the only one to experience setbacks with your kids despite having the best of intentions.  A Dose of Motivation “The tans will fade but the memories will last forever." — Unknown Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Brett and Perry, both of whom live in areas deeply impacted by the destruction of Hurricane Helene, share their experiences of the storm itself, the tragedy they've witnessed first-hand, and their families' efforts to help those in need. They then shift the conversation to an internal conflict Perry is wrestling with regarding a work opportunity for his son JP. As fathers, how do we balance prudence and wisdom with expanding our comfort zones to allow our sons to grow into men? In this episode, we tackle some heavy issues with an eye toward setting a good example for our kids, being the hands and feet of Jesus, and recognizing that ultimately He is in control and it's on us to walk by faith. A Dose of Motivation “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalms 34:18 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

In this final episode of our 3-part series on legacy, we're joined by Dan Davis, founder of Animate Mentoring, to discuss aspects of our lineage and character that we don't want to carry forward in our families and that we don't want to be part of our legacy moving forward. Dan explains that for all the good a person may exhibit, there's always a shadow side that must be dealt with as well. How can we break free from that shadow and turn it to light? If there are negative through-lines going back generations in our family, how can we say "this stops with me" and chart a different path for moving forward? Legacies are complicated, as we've discussed in previous episodes, and part of crafting a legacy that we can be proud of involves coming to terms with the less-glamorous shadow side of our nature. Dan's wisdom and insight from years of counseling men from all walks of life add important color to our conversation about legacy and will help you walk out the sometimes challenging task of leaving behind the harmful in pursuit of a meaningful, lasting legacy. About Our Guest Dan Davis is the founder and lead mentor at Animate Mentoring, which guides individuals and families so they can navigate life's transitions intentionally with wisdom and courage. After three decades of leading in the professional camping industry, Dan developed a keen sense of how important the relationship with a trusted mentor is. He saw firsthand how our modern society neglects mentoring through life’s most significant transitions, leaving many people lost and isolated. In 2020, Dan took a leap and launched Animate Mentoring so he and other team members can serve as guides through the stages of adolescence, parenthood, and mid-life passage, and provide direction and support so relationships can flourish as life changes over time. You can learn more about Animate Mentoring and find a mentor, here: https://animatementoring.com/ Connect with Dan directly by phone or email, here: https://animatementoring.com/connect A Dose of Motivation “Try to put yourself in my unique position / If I get stoned and sing all night long / It's a family tradition.” — Hank Williams Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Brett and Perry continue their discussion about Legacy by exploring the idea that we should begin something meaningful now that won't be completed in our lifetime. It opens up a conversation about King David and his son, King Solomon, and leads to a broader conversation about how to equip our kids to be better than we are in key areas. As we strive to leave a positive legacy for future generations, we trust that Part 2 of this Legacy series will challenge, motivate, and encourage you on your fatherhood journey. A Dose of Motivation “Your gift to humanity is what will be left behind in the behaviors of your great great grandchildren.” — Kerwin Rae Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week as our kids head back to school and Summer gives way to Fall, Brett discusses the importance of marking seasons and transitioning well. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Legacies are complicated. We all leave one, whether good or bad. For those of us trying to leave an impactful, positive legacy in our families, how should we set about doing that? How much control do we really have over the ripple effect of our actions today on future generations? What does the Word teach us about legacy, and how does our time on Earth fit into God's eternal plans? It's easy to get lost in the day-to-day of fatherhood and lose sight of the big picture. While our lives are but a vapor, according to the apostle James, they continue on through our kids, who are a big part of our legacy (Psalm 127). This episode is Part 1 of a series on "Legacy" where Brett and Perry begin to unpack important themes around legacy that may shift the way we think about our responsibilities as fathers in terms of our impact after we're gone. Our legacy matters, but perhaps not in the way you'd expect. A Dose of Motivation “My father didn’t tell me how to live: He lived and let me watch him do it.” — Clarence Budington Kelland Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett discusses research about when and how kids release oxytocin when interacting with their fathers, and why "play" is biologically hardwired into how we connect with them. Play with your kids this weekend, men! Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Music is the soundtrack to our lives, as Manny Montilla (aka Manny Digital) says in this episode of The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. Good music can add color and flavor to our lives, provide commonality within a family, and enrich the human experience in meaningful ways. But what if the language and messaging in that music is questionable, explicit, or downright offensive? Should our kids be exposed to it? What is our role as father in filtering what our kids listen to? More broadly, how can we raise our kids to make life-giving choices on their own when it comes to the media they consume? These are questions without easy answers, but Manny sheds light on them as he shares a unique perspective having grown up around hip-hop culture in the Bronx and now raising kids who have an affinity for that same music while trying to balance faith and positive values. About Our Guest Manny "Digital" made his bones in The Bronx, NY. A son of Dominican immigrants, he grew up observing the pitfalls of his BX environment and carefully applied the lessons he picked up to set himself up for a better outcome. One of those lessons came from his personal experience as part of a broken home. He knew early on the importance of a father's presence and how setting clear expectations with his eventual children would be the most impactful element of building his family. Manny is an AdTech advisor at B7 media, co-hosts The Father Hoods Podcast, and is co-founder of FlyDads, an Ecommerce brand creating fashionable accessories for dad’s journey through fatherhood. Recommended Resources Learn more about FlyDads and purchase a Fly Dad Bag: https://flydadgear.com/ Check out Christian rap artists Lacrae and Andy Mineo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLS-WE4K8q0 and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bF4cU99W0g Episode 21: How a Healthy Marriage Makes You a Better Father, with Dan DeMey Connect with Manny on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mannydigital/  A Dose of Motivation “The most beautifulest thing in this world is daddy’s little girl.” — JAY-Z Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett shares a fun question to ask your kids to ignite interesting conversation... and perhaps surprise you as to their answers! Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry flips traditional wisdom on its head as he explains what has really led to a shift in his midset on the important things over the years -- and how you can effect positive change in your life, too. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Divorce happens. When it happens, it's hard. And when kids are involved, there's an added layer of complexity that presents even more challenges -- especially if you desire to be a faithful and positive presence in the life of your kids. We're joined in this episode by Bill McCarthy, founder of 180 Degrees Counseling, who shares tools for successfully navigating parenthood as a divorced father. What are your kids experiencing in the aftermath of divorce? What do they need from you? How do you handle it if they're angry or lashing out? How do you heal from your own hurt and loss? What if there are co-parenting issues and you and your ex- don't see eye to eye? If you get remarried, what's the best way to integrate your new family unit? We discuss all of these topics -- and more -- as Bill shares from his extensive experience as a counselor working with countless families and divorce situations. We trust you'll find Bill's perspective helpful and empowering on your own fatherhood journey. About Our Guest Bill McCarthy received his Master of Arts in Counseling and Theological Studies from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and is licensed as a clinical mental health counselor in North Carolina. Special interests include working with youth ages 5 and up, Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, parent/child emotional intimacy, blended family coordination on parenting, sex education, and grief and loss issues. During his graduate education, Bill interned with Moses Cone Behavioral Health participating in outpatient group and art therapy as well as child/adolescent inpatient group therapy and family assessment. Nearly two decades ago, Bill began his own private counseling practice, 180º Counseling Services. He is the proud parent of young adult boy/girl twins. Recommended Resources You can learn more about 180 Degrees Counseling and work with Bill, here: https://www.180degreescounseling.com/ Love is a Choice, by Dr. Paul Meier Connect with Bill on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/william-holiday-mccarthy-0a480045/ A Dose of Motivation “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.” — Romans 8:1-2 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett prepares us for the coming Father's Day weekend by sharing a couple of thoughts about honor, and how we can honor our fathers — and be worthy of honor ourselves — this Father's Day. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

As fathers, we desire to love our kids fully and unconditionally. If you're a father to adopted kids, is the desire of your heart any different? Of course not. But adoption does present unique challenges. As adoptive fathers, we need to understand those challenges and how to connect with our kids amid the unique nature of the adoptive parent-child relationship. In this episode we talk with Allison Douglas, Resource Center Program Director at Harmony Family Center, about her experience both professionally and as a parent of four adopted kids herself. We explore the inherent trauma present in all adopted kids and what it means for adoptive fathers, the 7 Core Frameworks for Adoption, why rejection hurts so much, how to tailor your relationship with each of your adopted kids, what "good outcomes" means when it comes to raising adopted kids, and how to grow personally so that we can best handle the challenges of adoption -- all with an eye toward loving our adopted kids well. Allison shares so many profound insights during this conversation that will encourage you, give you hope, and equip you with the tools you need to love your kids even better. About Our Guest Allison Cooke Douglas, M.S., IECMH-E®, is the Resource Center Program Director at Harmony Family in Knoxville, TN and serves as a post-permanency expert at the National Center for Enhanced Post-Adoption Support. Over the past decade, Allison’s work has focused on post-permanency family support. She has developed and presented curricula regarding therapeutic parenting, the impact of early trauma on the developing brain, and best practices in the child welfare system. In her work with Tennessee’s Adoption Support and Preservation (ASAP) program, Allison provides direct services to adoptive families as a part of Harmony’s multidisciplinary ASAP team. Allison holds an Infant and Early Childhood Mental Health Endorsement, is certified in Phases I and II of The Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics and is a Neurosequential Model in Education trainer. She is a Napa Infant-Parent & Early Childhood Mental Health fellow and was selected for the 2022-23 All Educators cohort at The Fred Rogers Institute. Allison brings her lived experience as an adoptive parent of four children to her work. Recommended Resources You can learn more about Harmony Family Center for adoption support in East Tennessee, here: https://harmonyfamilycenter.org/ Learn more about the Neurosequential Model, developed by Dr. Bruce Perry, here: https://www.neurosequential.com/ Connect with Allison on LinkedIn and other social media platforms (@harmonyfamilycenter) A Dose of Motivation “After all, children are children no matter their background.” – Julie Andrews Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Imagine missing out on a $1 million grand prize by fractions of a second... not once, but twice! Then imagine finally standing on top of the podium after years of hard work, only to miss out on that same $1 million grand prize because it happened to be the COVID year. How would that impact your mindset? How would that test your faith? Are we living for the riches of this world, or do we have a more eternal vision for the impact of our lives? Daniel Gil, 2020 winner of American Ninja Warrior and 7-time Finalist, joins us in this episode to share his incredible story of triumph and heartbreak. His perspective on life and competition is a breath of fresh air, and the lessons learned that he shares from over a decade as a professional athlete will empower us all to be better men and fathers. A self-proclaimed Kingdom Ninja, Daniel reminds us that we're all called to live a life that is set apart. The stories and mindsets that he shares empower us to do just that. About Our Guest Daniel Gil is the Season 12 Champion of American Ninja Warrior. Born and raised in Houston, TX, Daniel was always a fun-loving adventurer. Growing up, he spent a lot of time outdoors, climbing trees and playing sports. Even though he wasn't naturally good at sports, he loved being active and was competitive enough not to quit when things got tough. After graduating high school, he attended a two-year ministry school and received an associates degree and simultaneously began coaching & training at Iron Sports Ninja Gym. In 2015 he began his rookie year competing on season 7 of American Ninja Warrior and thus his journey to becoming one of the top athletes on the show. Daniel's success as an athlete has given him an opportunity to use his platform as a motivational speaker to help inspire people to get back up when they inevitably fall or fail, overcome the obstacles they will face in life, and never stop pursuing their God-given dreams. You can learn more about Daniel and book him for speaking engagements, here: https://thekingdomninja.com/ Grab a copy of Daniel's book: Kingdom Ninja, by Daniel Gil Connect with Daniel on most social media platforms, here: @kingdom_ninja A Dose of Motivation “Gird your sword upon your side, O might one.” — Psalm 45:3 Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Happiness. It sounds so enticing, so desirable. We want more happiness in our own lives, and we want our kids to be happy, too. Yet, joy isn't always the first emotion that comes to mind when we think about fatherhood. Being a father is challenging, and sometimes happiness gets lost in the day-to-day stress and challenge of fatherhood. According to Dr. Mark Leonard, founder of The Happiness Breakthrough, we are all capable of achieving more happiness -- and indeed, the formula for a happiness breakthrough is relatively simple. Simple doesn't necessarily mean easy, however. So join us in this wide-reaching conversation as Dr. Leonard walks us through the keys to happiness, why it matters in our fathering, and how to help our kids grow in joy as well. About Our Guest Dr. Mark Leonard has been an entrepreneur and business owner for over 25 years, so you can be sure he has his share of worries, sleepless nights, and setbacks. For the past 20 years, Dr. Leonard has studied why some people are so successful, while others seem to struggle. As part of his quest, he earned a Doctorate of Education in Organizational Leadership from Pepperdine University where he gained expertise in helping companies and their leaders achieve their sales and operational goals. Dr. Leonard understands that success flows from the individuals who lead companies, and that is his passion – helping individuals’ breakthrough to achieve higher levels of success. That is his focus at The Happiness Breakthrough, where he has been blessed to coach thousands of business owners, leaders, entrepreneurs, and students to higher levels of success. Dr. Leonard is married to Becky, his wife of 32 years. Together they have six children and 12 grandchildren. You can learn more about The Happiness Breakthrough, here: https://www.thehappinessbreakthrough.com/ You can connect with Dr. Leonard on most social media platforms, here: @thehappinessbreakthrough A Dose of Motivation “Happiness is not the belief that we don’t need to change; it is the realization that we can.” — Shawn Achor Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Brett talks about the importance of not pigeonholing our kids into their current way of being and shares a powerful prayer you can pray over them to encourage their growth and development. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

It seems like a pretty simple idea: A father should desire to give good gifts to his kids. Jesus said as much in Matthew 7:9-11. Yet, it's not always that easy. There are some deeper issues here. Should we give our kids every "good gift" they ask for? Does our Heavenly Father actually give us everything we ask for, as scripture suggests? What should our heart position be toward our kids when they haven't earned the gifts they're asking for? What is the interplay between discipline and freedom, and how does it line up with what Jesus discloses about the heart of a father in these profound verses from his Sermon on the Mount? In this episode, Brett and Perry take a deep dive into several key verses from Matthew Chapters 6 & 7 that speak to God's heart for us, and how they translate to what our heart should be toward our own kids. We are instructed to "ask, seek, and knock" to received the blessings of our Heavenly Father. Do we believe that? And do our kids expect the same from us? There's a lot here, so buckle up and get ready to be challenged. As we're trying to be the best fathers we can be, the biblical truths discussed in this episode have the ability to move us further in that direction, if we'll internalize them. A Dose of Motivation “My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.” – Jim Valvano Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. This week Perry reflects on a friend's cancer battle and what it means for us as men and fathers trying to make the most of each and every day, because we're not promised tomorrow. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]

Perry's 12-year-old son, Seth, recently qualified for and competed in a national ninja warrior competition, finishing in the top half of his age group for Tier 2. It's a big deal and he did great! Seth joins the show this week to reflect on his experience and debrief with his dad about the highs and lows of the competition weekend. Perry talks about striking the balance between being coach and dad, cultivating his son's interests, and they share fun and meaningful stories from a memorable trip together. A Dose of Motivation “If you want your children to turn out well, spend twice as much time with them and half as much money.” — Unknown Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected] Music in this episode is from "Good Ol' Man" (©2022) by Drew Green and reproduced with permission from Drew Green.

Welcome to Friday Focus on The Faithful Fatherhood Podcast. Spring is here! This week Perry talks about the principle of sowing and reaping and reflects on the types of "good sowing" we need to be doing in the lives of our kids. Check back every Friday morning for a new Friday Focus episode where we share one piece of encouragement, insight, motivation, or how-to that you can focus on heading into the weekend so that you can show up more fully in the lives of your kids. Connect with us: Watch more great content on our YouTube Channel Follow us on Instagram Questions? Comments? Ideas for future episodes? Reach out to us at [email protected]