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The Flexible Neurotic

by Dr. Sarah Milken

The Flexible Neurotic is the edgy midlife podcast normalizing and inspiring self-reinvention in the second half of life, the "midlife remix". It is an inside listen to experts in all areas of midlife including mental health, vaginal & sexual health (menopause), plastic surgery & skincare, nutrition, midlife career pivots, aging parents, and parenting teens. With expertise, information and sass, the podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Milken. She is known as the "Flexible Neurotic," for her ability to help find the sweet spot between neurotic and chill. Relax, sit back, and let the Flexible Neurotic ask all the burning questions for you.

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Episodes

  1. Can You Really Transform Your Body at 50?!

    EP 139: Hey, midlife ladies, are you staring down at your weights like they're judging you? Or maybe you're still convinced that picking up a dumbbell will turn you into a pro bodybuilder overnight? I get it—figuring out how to build strength in midlife can feel like one more chore we don't have...

  2. Navigating Low Testosterone and Finding Midlife Hobbies

    EP 138: Hey peeps, it's me, Dr. Sarah Milken, The Flexible Neurotic. You know I'm all about the hard and good of midlife— the hormones, the identity shifts, the marriage stuff, and the WTF moments that come with it. In this episode, I sit down with the hilarious and insightful Tara Ellison…

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  3. How to Breakup with Friends in Midlife

    EP 137: In this week's episode of The Flexible Neurotic, I sit down with Erin Falconer—author of How to Break Up with Your Friends: Finding Meaning, Connection, and Boundaries in Modern Friendships. Yes, you read that right. We are actually talking about the hard, awkward, and sometimes necessary...

  4. Mastering Weight Loss: Sustainable Strategies That Stick!

    EP 136: This episode is all about sustainable weight loss tips for your health! You know when you are in the market and you don't know what to buy? But you want to be "healthy" and you are trying to remember all the opposing things you have seen on IG and Tik Tok. Me too! Do you wonder if there…

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  5. Lucky Girl Syndrome, Quantum leaping, Main Character Energy & Getting Unstuck Now!

    EP 135: Ready to step into your main-character energy and say f*** to your inner b****? Into some "LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME? Feeling a little stuck and not sure how to chase those big dreams or even the little ones? No worries, I got you! Today's guest is a total pro at helping you transform, get...

  6. Personal Style, Midlife Wardrobe Capsule, and Taking a Chance on Yourself...

    EP 134: As a midlife woman, do you ever feel like maybe you don't really know what your style is with clothes and how you express yourself? Sometimes you are boho chic, while other times you are preppy chic. Do you ever crave the ease of a "capsule" wardrobe? A magical closet fairy who can solve...

  7. A Juicy Midlife… Parenthood, Creative Outlets, And The Importance Of Female Friends

    EP 133: Title: A Juicy Midlife… Parenthood, Creative outlets, And The Importance Of Female Friends This is like the midlife bestie chat where you feel like a "fly on the wall" with two women getting into it all. "I threw out my back picking up something in the shower. Is this really where I am at...

  8. In my DM's…Minisode #1

    EP 132: Are you a midlife woman who kinda just wants to be able to DM another midlife woman and say "I'm sweating, I'm bored, I am sad my kids left the house"…? Me too. That's why I answer all of my IG DM messages. I just started a little minisode series called "in my DM's"… I will do quick...

  9. What's In My "Midlife Bag"? Omg!

    EP 131: Today we are unpacking my midlife bags, literally. You guys know I like to be prepared for anything that I (or my husband) might need. Everyone makes fun of me until they need one of the bandaids I packed at the airport. We are digging deep into my trusted midlife bags! I am back with...

  10. Empty Nest Reframe…Yes, you can!

    EP 130: Permission for the "ugly cry" is granted. "midlife mom" mixed with "empty nest" or "half empty nest", omg! Get ready for a new solo mini-sode where I get into everything empty nest (half empty nest) and "teen son" as I call him is now "college son". He just left for his sophomore year of...

  11. 10 Things To Age Powerfully In Midlife

    Are you a midlife woman who is being flooded with information on social media regarding all things health and longevity? I am! Do the infrared sauna, stand on your head, go to f*king yoga, sweat your balls off, jump in a cold plunge, eat this, don't eat that, the list goes on… In this episode we...

  12. Experimenting with Midlife…Food, Supplements, Pickleball & Mocktails

    EP 128: Mocktails, pickleball, midlife friendships & marriage and top health hacks….did I peak your interest? Do you ever wonder why you feel so stuck in midlife? Part of it is that we aren't experimenting and trying new things. We made our kids try new sports or take that random art class, yet…

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  13. Midlife Expert Secrets: Skincare, Reinvention & Finding "You"

    EP 127: Are you a midlife woman looking to explore your identity beyond motherhood? I am! Today's guest is telling us that you don't have to check all of the midlife boxes, it's okay to just do what works for YOU and why it's important to find your midlife freedom. If you are feeling stuck and…

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  14. Reinvent Me in Midlife: Rediscovering Passion and Purpose After 40

    EP 126: Putting yourself first in midlife. Yes! Hard and good! Thinking about "midlife self reinvention"? It doesn't mean you are "burning the house down"...It just means you are looking for your "next thing" in midlife. Maybe you are seeking passion, purpose, meaning or even some novelty. You…

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  15. "Candid AF" - Midlife Masterclass with Jennifer Fisher

    EP 125: Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a rad, real and open conversation with one of my favorite midlife besties and hottie/smarties. Jennifer Fisher is back! Our first episode was on zoom two years ago. Today, we are on fire and in person in NYC, underboob sweat and all! Jennifer is a jeweler,...

  16. Poolside Midlife TMI!

    EP 124: I know that I am your "midlife bestie", oversharing my midlife "ugh's & fabulosities" and finding us all the expert golden nuggets to create our optimal midlife. But, today I am talking to another midlife bestie, "poolside"! This midlife hottie showed up to our zoom interview in a bikini....

  17. Midlife Blood Sugar, Insulin Resistance & Protein

    EP 123: Blood sugar! Are you a midlife woman just learning about the dreaded blood sugar saga or you already know you are insulin resistant? Maybe you feel clunky and tired? Maybe you have gained a few pounds? Do you want to learn some simple lifestyle changes that can help you balance your blood...

  18. Braver & Newer You: 10 nuggets

    EP 122: 6 month "midlife review" for you. It is 6 months into the new year. Have you taken any of those personal steps that you might have pondered on January 1? This is not general "self help" bla bla. This is the real juice. Midlife woman, I know you are ready for a personal "uplevel" because…

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  19. Midlifers, Choose You, Too!

    EP 121: It's not selfish to put yourself first in midlife. Midlife self obsession is approved. My guest today has 400k social media followers listening to her every word. After being a mother and a wife, a friend, a sister or a career-er when will it be time to be you and choose you, too?!?…

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  20. Midlife Muffin Top: 6 Science-Backed Lifestyle Steps

    EP 120: MIDLIFE MUFFIN TOP... I know you can relate. As a midlife woman, do you struggle to find consistency in your diet? I do! Do you find yourself snacking when you're bored or when your college kid leaves the nest again to go back to school? I do! Do you wish that your weight loss was...

  21. Midlife's 10 Things!

    Calling all midlifers! Today I'm reviewing my first year as a half-empty nest mom. Ugh! In this 15 min quickie, I have so many thoughts and questions that I know you're probably having too… So, in the regular Flexible Neurotic style I'm getting honest and vulnerable in this solo mini-sode. With…

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  22. Midlife Body Aches & Frozen Shoulder

    EP 118: Are you a midlife woman experiencing intense shoulder pain? I was! Does your body just ache? Mine does. Is your doctor suggesting it's just a pickle-ball injury or you just gotta push through the midlife grind? Mine was too! (even though I don't play pickle-ball, lol) Are you knee deep...

  23. Midlife Hacks & Habits

    EP 117: Midlife philosophy, marriage, health and action steps. Ready for a little midlife motivation from the midlife health queen herself? My guest tells us what it means to "live life from the inside out", a practice that she embraces for connecting to her inner voice and taking necessary…

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  24. Midlife Mojo ASAP!

    EP 116: As a midlife woman, do you want to find a "thing", a passion, something that makes you feel connected to yourself and others? Me too! This mini episode has some serious and practical nuggets for you! Get ready for a step-by-step guide to reclaiming your time and creativity in the second...

  25. Big Feelings… Real Tools

    EP 115: Parenting hormonal teens while battling hormones yourself?! Me too! You are not alone there and according to parenting expert Dr. Lisa Damour there are some tools in teaching them to navigate "big feelings", while maintaining you are own sense of equilibrium, as a parent. Honestly, this…

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  26. Reverse Cellular Aging In A Bottle

    EP 114: One pill to help reverse cellular aging? Duh! Sign me up. Ready to sleep better, feel better, reduce inflammation, have thicker hair and a million other things? I know the obvious answer is yes… but there's more. Are you sick of taking a million supplements in the morning and wondering…

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  27. Mixing East & West In Midlife

    EP 113: Plant Medicine, eastern & western approaches to mental health and the power of your intuition… Dr. Ellen Vora discusses the importance of understanding the vast options available to us in midlife for our health and wellness needs. Today we are talking about plant medicine and Dr. Vora's...

  28. Lift Heavy Sh**t in Midlife

    Lift "heavy s**t in midlife" is the name of the game! You know I call them the "dumb and necessary weights". We keep hearing we have to lift weight in midlife for our brains, body and health. You want to hear exactly the how, why and what from an orthopedic surgeon and longevity specialist? You...

  29. Finding Me Again, True Story!

    EP 111: Midlife fantasy or real life? A bad case of the "midlife itchies" at 44 which ended up being a huge turning point for this guest. She was post-divorce, filing for bankruptcy and trying to find her inner fuel and passion again in midlife, despite her father dying, her dog dying, living in…

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  30. Bobbi Brown's "Everyday Midlife", Your Way!

    EP 110: Make-up artist guru and entrepreneur extraordinaire known for Bobby Brown Cosmetics and Jones Road Beauty, Bobbi Brown, shares her secrets for living your "best everyday midlife". This week we are doing another quick golden nugget mini-sode excerpt from my past conversation with beauty...

  31. Get "Gritty" in Midlife! Here's how…

    EP 109: How did she fckn' do that? How did she put the "cart before the horse"? How did he get over that life threatening challenge? Ever envious of the people who seem to be naturally more resilient, GRITTY? Wow, some people always appear to bounce back. What are their secrets? Can we develop...

  32. Quick Minisode: Midlife Metabolic Health & Weight Loss Drugs

    EP 108: Midlife muffin top? Did I get your attention? Are you a midlife woman questioning the sudden appearance of the midlife muffin top? Are you curious as to what is going on inside your body during menopause? Do you find yourself feeling "ugh" about the redistribution of fat? Do you want to...

  33. Live the Life you Want! Why not me?

    EP 107: Ready to live the life you really want, not the life you got? What's the life you really want? Are you bored? Itchy for the next thing in midlife? Me too! Have you taken an action step toward that change more than once? More than twice? Are you scared to take action because your inner…

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  34. Zero F**s In Midlife - 12 Minute Minisode

    EP 106: Zero F**ks is the perfect way to describe my guest, Jennifer Fisher of @jenniferfisherjewelry and @jenniferfisherkitchen. In this 12 minute minisode, we talked about the "art of not giving a f**k", muting the peanut gallery, embracing authenticity and the importance of your mindset in...

  35. How I Rebuilt My Midlife VJ & More

    EP 105: Inside chat with two midlife podcasters who get really open & honest about all of it, including the midlife VJ rebuild…keep reading to find out who the other midlife hottie is… I might have peaked your interest. Are you a midlife woman, possible empty nester, career-er, or re-inventor...

  36. Midlife Inflammation & Weight Loss with Dr. Mary Claire Haver…15 Minute Quickie

    EP 104: Inflammation, inflammation, inflammation! This is the midlife story for so many of us women. It's uncomfortable, I'm probably bloated right now, my cortisol is high enough for four adults, and my other inflammation markers on my blood work are crazy! You too? and I'm here to remind you…

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  37. Hard & Good In Midlife

    EP 103: We are not cold plunging on Jan. 1! Are we? Not me, not yet! Ever noticed that so many "midlife things" feel "hard & good". For example, marriage is hard… but also good…(for some). Same with parenting, like I have to worry about my kids and their health & schooling, complain about their...

  38. Five Golden Nuggets of Midlife

    EP 102: Midlife hotties, here we come 2024! Are you looking for the secrets to finding fulfillment and purpose in midlife? Wanting a mini refresh or reinvent? I know, me too! Ready to clear out the midlife habits that are holding you back and keeping you on the "midlife hamster wheel"...want some...

  39. Lose Midlife Weight and Brain Fog & Feel Good

    EP 101: Did you wake up in midlife and feel like "omg, I have a muffin top, I can't shed these pounds, I have brain fog and feel the ugh's", me too! Have you tried a million diets and programs? Me too! Want to get ahead of your 2024 "weight loss and feel better goals" but not sure how? Wondering…

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  40. What's next for me in Midlife?

    EP 100: Ever think about what your "MORE" is in midlife? Do you feel like you are stuck in the metaphorical midlife waiting room? Ready to find out how to get out of the "midlife waiting room" and into the next fulfilling phase of your life? If you think you are in a midlife crisis, you're in the...

  41. Midlife Sh*t…Spouses, Retainers & Rogaine

    EP 99: Do you know how important female friendship is? Do you have someone to talk about midlife retainers and Rogaine? Ready to laugh and find comfort in the TMI of it all? Want to hear a candid conversation where two female friends and podcasters are more vulnerable than our husbands would...

  42. Your Midlife Personal Rebrand

    EP 98: Midlife hotties, are you ready to find your voice and define (or re-define) your personal brand, goals, and interests? Looking for inspiration on how to break free from midlife social comparison and start that project you've been dreaming of? If you are ready to start your midlife...

  43. Love Outweighs Hate - The Secret Sauce

    EP 97: Since October 7th, when Hamas invaded Israel and murdered, raped and tortured 1,400 Israelis and took 200 hostages who have been in Gaza for over a month, we have been in shock, angry, tearful and dismayed (well, most of us). If you are Jewish or not, most of us are sitting at home…

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  44. The Kids are Leaving / Left The House… Now What?

    EP 96: Are you realizing that your role as a mother is changing? Are you going from "manager mom" to "consultant mom"? Feel like you have extra time on your hands now that your kids are older and/or moving out of the "nest"? You aren't sure what to do with it (bored and wanting ideas for a…

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  45. Hormone Stew…Puberty & "Second Puberty"!

    EP 95: OMG! Do just hearing the words hormones and puberty make you cringe? I know, me too! And my kids are 17 and 19. How about taking a midlife woman with her own raging hormones and mix it with her teens' hormones, that's called full hormone stew. Do you want to hear all the latest research...

  46. How To Say FCK to Fear In Midlife

    EP 94: Are you ready to say f*ck it to fear in midlife, once and for all? Ready to embrace being a beginner? Are you running the show or is your inner mean girl? Want to know real life midlife strategies to say f*ck to fear? Then this episode is for you! Join me, Dr. Sarah Milken in a new episode...

  47. Bye-Bye Midlife Comfort Zone!

    EP 93: Are you curious about how to start something new in midlife? Do you find yourself attempting to google the 17 steps to start that new midlife hobby or figure out what's next for you? Ready to accept that you have agency in your own life? Want to connect with other women who are ready to do...

  48. Food, Weight & Me In Midlife

    EP 92: Are you a midlifer struggling to lose and/or maintain weight? The latest version of the "muffin top" is making you crazy. You are told to eat more protein, intermittent fast, move and you feel like you are doing many of the things and still "ugh". You want a cupcake for dinner after a...

  49. Half Empty Nest, Now What?

    EP 91: Are you an "empty nester" or getting close? I am what I call a "half empty nester" with my oldest kid who just went to college ten days ago. Are you redefining your role as a mom in midlife? I sure am! Have 1 or more kids in college or out of the house? Are you a midlife mom looking for…

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  50. The Midlife Pelvic Playground: The Mind-Body Connection

    EP 90: You know that doctor or place that you have dreamed of that has all the answers to the peri/menopause saga? Tired of using words like "down there" to describe your vagina? Ready to get straight to the point with your doctor about what's really going on? You want real answers. You aren't...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Flexible Neurotic is the edgy midlife podcast normalizing and inspiring self-reinvention in the second half of life, the "midlife remix". It is an inside listen to experts in all areas of midlife including mental health, vaginal & sexual health (menopause), plastic surgery & skincare, nutrition, midlife career pivots, aging parents, and parenting teens. With expertise, information and sass, the podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Milken. She is known as the "Flexible Neurotic," for her ability to help find the sweet spot between neurotic and chill. Relax, sit back, and let the Flexible Neurotic ask all the burning questions for you.

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The Flexible Neurotic is the edgy midlife podcast normalizing and inspiring self-reinvention in the second half of life, the "midlife remix". It is an inside listen to experts in all areas of midlife including mental health, vaginal & sexual health (menopause), plastic surgery & skincare,...

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