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The Jackie and Stacey Show

by Jackie Scott and Stacey Cheatham Wilson

Jackie & Stacey have been speaking enthusiastically together for years, and are ready for you to listen in. We may or may not solve all of life's problems, but we will sure learn and laugh along the way! Join us?!?Each month we will discuss a new topic through four lenses - with an episode for each: Self, God, Close Relationships, and Community. We end the month with a personal interview focusing on the monthly topic and all four lenses. We would love to have you join us as we wade through life - trying to be adaptable and to love well!

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  1. S7/E20: How does PERMISSION impact how we show up in community

    Monthly Topic: PERMISSION Today we discuss 4 ways to give you permission to engage in your community in a healthy way. Our impacts are persistent and strong. We sometimes aren’t even aware of the ripple effect our words and behaviors have on our communities. Bandura’s Social Learning Theory shows...

  2. S7/E19: How does PERMISSION impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: PERMISSION This episode is for the ladies. Or, anyone who knows a lady! You see, women tend to withhold permission for themselves in five general areas: 1) to ask for what we need/want; 2) to hold boundaries in our close relationships; 3) change; 4) asking for help/space; and 5) to...

  3. S7/E18: How does PERMISSION impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: PERMISSION We have Free Will. This means we have permission to choose: a life with God, or a life without God. Even if you choose a life with God, you will wrestle with all the rest of your choices … to allow God to be the leader of your life, or not. The Psalms especially are a...

  4. S7/E17: How does PERMISSION impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: PERMISSION In today’s episode, Jackie and Stacey identify and explore the originations of several social “schemas” we have adopted throughout our lives. These are societal or internal unwritten “rules” that we have been taught or learned along the way. We look at these so we can...

  5. S7/E16: How does LEGACY impact how we show up in community?

    Monthly Topic: LEGACY Our communities are our neighborhoods, social groups, sports engagements, schools, workplaces, and common interest groups. We ask ourselves, “how does THIS (action /thought / behavior/ etc) contribute to my legacy?” We use this question to help mold how we make decisions…

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  6. S7/E15: How does LEGACY impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: LEGACY Join us as we continue to discuss how we are currently building our individual legacies: what we will eventually leave behind. Today, we focus on this relationships that have impacted each of us deeply. Mentors are close relationships that have helped us identify and develop...

  7. S7/E14: How does LEGACY impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: LEGACY While you may leave a LEGACY behind when you go, you are building your LEGACY now. What are we doing on the daily to build our legacy of faith? Be sure, our recollection of experiences is often times different from those who experience memories right along side us. But if we...

  8. S7/E13: How does LEGACY impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: LEGACY Welcome to a new month and a new topic! Legacy = what we leave behind. Compare traditional notions of legacy with more modern notions. For example, it’s not like the money we leave behind, but the daily intentional values we build upon. What do you want people to remember...

  9. S7/E12: How does MARGIN impact how we show up in community?

    Monthly Topic: MARGIN Thanks for joining us today as we wrap up our month long discussion on Margin. Follow along with us as we determine if we are overwhelming our bandwidth in our communities, or if we have the margin to participate in areas in which we are compelled. Alongside us, ask yourself...

  10. S7/E11: How does MARGIN impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: MARGIN Sooo many great questions to mull over in today’s episode! Join us and consider YOUR answers!

  11. S7/E10: How does MARGIN impact how we show up in faith?

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  12. S7/E9: How does MARGIN impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: MARGIN Margin is the space between doing all the things that you have to and want to do in life. In design, it’s called the “white space” where the eye can rest so it will be drawn to the filled space. Join us as we learn how to make space in our lives, and how it is not a luxury,...

  13. S7/E8: How does IDENTITY impact how we show up in our communities?

    Monthly Topic: IDENTITY During today’s episode - find out how we are our own worst enemies with the stories we tell. The fact is that we are all just faking it until we make it - and GOOD FOR US! In community is how we learn, and have the opportunities to practice playing out the identities we...

  14. S7/E7: How does IDENTITY impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: IDENTITY Today we scratch the surface of a discussion on maintaining our identities in close relationships. Of course, t’s natural to compromise, adapt, and grow as we learn how to interact in our close relationships. Ultimately, only you get to decide which values are foundational...

  15. S7/E6: How does IDENTITY impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: IDENTITY In today’s episode, Jackie asks us, “how do we use IDENTITY to describe ourselves?” And then, what happens when things change? Both of us are rooted in Christian faith, so we believe that strong foundation does not change. Our identity is first with Christ, as we: Are...

  16. How does IDENTITY impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly topic: IDENTITY Today we ask, “Who are you?” How do you see yourself? How do you define yourself? Giving voice to our identities, deciding who we want to be and intentionally stepping into the world fully YOU has great benefits. Join us today as we embrace our identity with confidence,...

  17. S7/E4: How does REFLECTION impact how we show up in our communities?

    Monthly Topic: REFLECTION Communities are made up of individuals who are either practicing reflection … or not. We’ve discussed the many benefits we experience - and growth we are able to achieve -when we reflect. But how do we influence our communities to participate? How do we model reflection...

  18. S7/E3: How does REFLECTION impact how we show up in our close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: REFLECTION Jackie leads us through 5 major benefits of incorporating reflection into our close relationships. She also leads us through 3 pitfalls of reflection. Join us as we practice countering the pitfalls and practicing healthy reflection that leads to growth and better...

  19. S7/E2: How does REFLECTION impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: REFLECTION In today’s episode, we go big with following God’s command to sit back, take stock, rest, and remember. Over and again God does amazing miracles, and over and again God reminds us to stop and remember. It is in this remembrance, this reflection on alllll the ways God has...

  20. S7/E1: How does REFLECTION impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: REFLECTION WELCOME to the seventh (7!!) season of the Jackie & Stacey Show. In today’s very first episode, we begin where we always do: with SELF. We discuss how important it is for us to stop. When we stop, we intentionally reflect on what we have done, what we have achieved, and...

  21. S6/E29: How does TENSION impact how we show up in our community?

    Monthly Topic: TENSION In today’s episode we: 1. Brainstorm types of tensions we encounter in communities (cultural, political, socio-economic, access to justice, etc); 2. Discuss the impacts of those different tensions (negative and positive); and 3. Highlight the ways in which we can manage our...

  22. S6/E28: How does TENSION impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: TENSION Listen in with us as we wade through e multitudes of ways to experience tension in close relationships. Jackie and Stacey describe several ways we experience tensions - and remind us all that tensions are not problems to be solved, but instead topics to be monitored and...

  23. S6/E27: How does TENSION impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: TENSION There are so many instances of tension within faith, and today we explore a few of them. Join us as we manage the tensions of what is versus what is to come; what we want to do versus what we actually do; and more dichotomies of living in faith.

  24. S6/E26: How does TENSION impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: TENSION After Jackie brought up Andy Stanley’s latest leadership wisdom we had to pursue this topic further. In today’s episode, we start with ourselves, and how we define the different types of tension: problems to be solved (temporary tension) and tension to be managed (ongoing...

  25. S6/E25: INTERVIEW w/ Jane and Lexi about LOYALTY

    Monthly Topic: LOYALTY Jane and Lexi drop some major wisdom! Tune in to the podcast to listen in on our interview of these two teenage philosophers! From faith to love, we’ve covered it all. What does loyalty mean to you?

  26. S6/E24: How does LOYALTY impact how we show up in community?

    Monthly Topic: LOYALTY There are many benefits a community experiences because of the loyalty of its members: longevity, support, camaraderie, and more. We discuss some great communities we are in that we get these benefits from. And also, we discuss the challenges experienced in communities when...

  27. S6/E23

    Monthly Topic: LOYALTY This topic continues to fascinate us! In this episode, we wonder especially if you can be loyal to a person, but not loyal to that person’s opinions/ideas/values? It so interesting *especially* in this political climate, but really any time we disagree with someone we love.

  28. S6/E22: How does LOYALTY impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: LOYALTY In today’s episode we struggle with the concept of blind loyalty in faith, compared to the benefits of faith practices. We work through which aspects of faith and values to hold on to tightly, and which we can hold loosely. In zero instances must we live in fear that our...

  29. S6/E21: How does LOYALTY impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: LOYALTY Loyalty is such and interesting concept: sticking by someone/something no matter what. We discuss in today’s episode: is that healthy? Is it controlling to demand or expect loyalty? When do you give loyalty freely? A fascinating topic, and we hope this episode sparks...

  30. S6/E2: INTERVIEW on Failure with Eddie Guajardo

    Monthly Topic: Failure Eddie is a long time friend of Stacey’s, a local real estate estate agent, and life long leaner. In this interview, Eddie shares why he wasn’t offended in the slightest when we asked to interview him on the topic of failure. His perspective, deep thoughtfulness, and genuine...

  31. S6/E19: How does FAILURE impact how we show up in community?

    How many times have we failed at bringing community together? Oh, let us count the ways… However, as we have continued to ask throughout this month: is it really a failure to not succeed at something? Instead, we choose to frame the stories we tell about things that doesn’t work out: we choose to...

  32. S6/E18: How does FAILURE impact how we show up in close relationships?

    You could say that Stacey “failed” to follow the plan for today’s episode! Instead, you are be invited to a real life, real time, resolution of Stacey’s failure to show up for Jackie at an important time. Learn along with us as we literally practice openness and forgiveness after failure in THIS...

  33. S6/E17: How does FAILURE impact how we show up in our faith?

    Monthly Topic: FAILURE. Jackie leads today’s episode by walking us through 5 scriptures (read: Bible verses) that are often repeated - and perhaps even often misconstrued. Hear from the mouth of God what He thinks about failure - and what that means for us.

  34. S6/E16: How does FAILURE impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: FAILURE You lost the game, you didn’t get the job, someone else got the girl. You failed. How do you respond? What now? In today’s episode we unpack the negative emotions that may come from failure. Then we come up with a plan to reframe failure into an opportunity to get smarter…

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  35. S6/E15: INTERVIEW with Steve McShane on Uncertainty

    Monthly Topic: UNCERTAINTY. You guys are going to LOVE this interview. Salinas public servant for over 25 years, Steve McShane joins us this week for a candid, sweet, and very deep and connecting conversation about uncertainty. Steve speaks with us about his long service to the Salinas community,...

  36. S6/E14: How does UNCERTAINTY impact how we show up in our communities?

    Monthly Topic: UNCERTAINTY. We start today’s episode discussing the adage, “life is 10% what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it.” It cannot be more evident than with the level of uncertainty we experience in the great big world of our communities - a place where anything can (and does...

  37. S6/E13: How does UNCERTAINTY impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: UNCERTAINTY What is your personal tolerance level for uncertainty? Can you guess Jackie’s or Stacey’s - like on a scale from 1-10? What are some of the influences on your level? No matter your level, Jackie will teach us 5 ways to practice accepting uncertainty in close relationships.

  38. S6/E12: How does UNCERTAINTY impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: UNCERTAINTY. The Message translation of the Bible states, “The fundamental fact of existence is this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It’s our handle on what we can’t see.” Listen in to today’s episode to consider our...

  39. S6/E11: How does UNCERTAINTY impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: UNCERTAINTY. Do we ever really know if something will or won’t happen? Join us as we identify strategies for embracing uncertainty as an opportunity. When we manage expectations, access our growth mindset, and practice resilience, we build self-trust. Then we can reframe fear of...

  40. S6/E10: INTERVIEW with Valerie Padilla & Kim Perez on Responsibility

    Monthly Topic: RESPONSIBILITY We are filled with hope and joy to witness the Gen Z party unfold. These gals are funny, witty, brilliant, and … you guessed it … RESPONSIBLE! Join us as we hear from Kim & Valerie on this topic that inspires and motivates them!

  41. S6/E9: How does RESPONSIBILITY impact how we show up in our communities?

    Monthly Topic: RESPONSIBILITY

  42. S6/E8: How does RESPONSIBILITY impact how we show up in Close Relationships?

    Monthly Topic: RESPONSIBILITY

  43. S6/E7: How does RESPONSIBILITY impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: RESPONSIBILITY Jackie poses an interesting stance about responsibility in faith: we don’t have any. The Bible does go on and on about how we need God, and we can’t ever earn forgiveness or entrance into heaven, or anything really - it’s all about Jesus. So, is Jackie’s statement...

  44. S6/E6: How does RESPONSIBILITY impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: RESPONSIBILITY This new month/new topic stems from last month’s discussion on Agency. One thing we have control of is taking responsibility for our words and actions. In this first look at responsibility (the stuff we have to do) through the lens of ourselves, we find four ways to...

  45. S6/E5: AGENCY INTERVIEW with Michael Lipe

    Monthly Topic: AGENCY Welcome to our last episode on the topic of agency - our interview! Join us in welcoming our enigmatic friend Mike Lipe. We appreciate his boisterous attitude, zest for this community, and absolute adoration of his wife and family. You will be highly entertained and…

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  46. S6/E4: How does AGENCY impact how we show up in our communities?

    Monthly Topic: AGENCY. Movement > motivation. Done is better than perfect. Today we encourage you to take action in an area or on an idea that may be a baby step - the first bite of the elephant. Because nobody ever accomplished much by just complaining about it!

  47. S6/E3: How does AGENCY impact how we show up in close relationships?

    Monthly Topic: AGENCY Today we zone in and discuss agency through the specific relationship of parenting. Allll day every day we are modeling agency to our children. Jackie and Stacey are firm believers in parenting with the end in mind. If we step in and solve all our kids problems for them…

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  48. S6/E2: How does AGENCY impact how we show up in faith?

    Monthly Topic: AGENCY. Do you consider it pure joy when you face trials of any kind? Nope? Neither does Stacey. BUT, we do know that our response, our AGENCY, that we exercise in all the situations and trials of life is what builds resilience, and ultimately, that pure joy. Join us as we decide…

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  49. S6/E1: How does AGENCY impact how we show up in the world?

    Monthly Topic: AGENCY. Agency is your sense of what you can or cannot do; the power you believe you have to affect your future. In today’s episode, we discuss how, especially in our youth, it seemed like things happened TO us. Yet, as we age and mature, we become more aware that we are not just...

  50. S5/E44: WHOLENESS roundtable interview

    Monthly Topic: WHOLENESS. Get excited for this episode! We host our first ever roundtable. This means we hold an awesome conversation about WHOLENESS with Letty, Kristy, Alanna and Ginger. We know WHOLENESS looks different for each of us. You will love to listen in to hear from 4 different...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Jackie & Stacey have been speaking enthusiastically together for years, and are ready for you to listen in. We may or may not solve all of life's problems, but we will sure learn and laugh along the way! Join us?!?Each month we will discuss a new topic through four lenses - with an episode for each: Self, God, Close Relationships, and Community. We end the month with a personal interview focusing on the monthly topic and all four lenses. We would love to have you join us as we wade through life - trying to be adaptable and to love well!

HOSTED BY

Jackie Scott and Stacey Cheatham Wilson

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