The Law Of Cassidy

It’s officially Masturbation May… and yes, we’re talking about it.In this solo quickie episode of The Law of Cassidy, I’m breaking down the science, shame, benefits, and reality of masturbation — for BOTH women and men.Because solo pleasure isn’t dirty.It isn’t shameful.And it definitely isn’t something we should still be whispering about in 2026.💋 Why masturbation lowers stress and anxiety💋 The real science behind orgasms and dopamine💋 Why so many women feel shame around pleasure💋 The Utah / purity culture conversation nobody wants to have💋 Tips for women exploring solo pleasure💋 Tips for men who want better stamina and control💋 How masturbation improves intimacy and confidence💋 The connection between masturbation and sleep💋 Why your nervous system NEEDS pleasure💋 The “7-Day Masturbation Challenge”I also answer listener DMs about:💋 Never masturbating before💋 Feeling guilty during solo play💋 When masturbation starts replacing intimacy in relationshipsThis episode is funny, educational, spicy, and probably something you should send to your best friend immediately.🛍️ COVETED PICKS THIS WEEK:For her — Sensual Newbie Turbo (link in show notes)For him — Jetpack auto-stroker (link in show notes)For him (manual) — Trifecta📩 Take the 7-day challenge and DM me your wins.—————The Law of Cassidy is where I talk intimacy, business, power, healing, and fun — the things people are too uncomfortable to talk about. New episodes every week.🎧 Follow on Spotify + Apple Podcasts 📱 Follow @its_cassidybybee on Instagram + TikTok 🛍️ Shop everything at cassidybybee.com#MasturbationMay #LawOfCassidy #SexualHealth #IntimacyPodcast #WomensHealth #MensHealth #SexEducation

You asked. I answered. No filter, no script, no off-topic limits.This week's quickie is an AMA where I'm sitting down solo and going through every question you sent me — the juicy ones, the deep ones, and the unhinged DMs. We're getting into intimacy, marriage, motherhood, business, and the conversations most people are too uncomfortable to have.Some of what I cover:💋 The one thing most women don't know about their own bodies💋 Have I ever faked an orgasm (and the truth about my marriage)💋 My honest take on sex toys in a relationship💋 The hardest part of motherhood nobody talks about💋 When I've felt most alone — and what got me through it💋 The biggest lie about women's sexuality💋 Marriage, almost not making it, and the work behind getting throughIf someone sent you this episode, you're in the right place. This one's for the vain ones.— 🔗 Shop everything I talk about: www.cassidybybee.com💌 Got a question? DM me on Instagram: @its_cassidybybee🎧 New episodes every Wednesday If this episode hit you, share it, tag me, and send me your next round of questions. My DMs are always open. We are a no judgment zone.I'm Cassidy. This is The Law of Cassidy. See you next week.

What happens to your marriage when your family is falling apart?In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Heather to talk about something most couples go through — but almost no one talks about openly.From mental health crises… to survival mode… to nearly losing their connection — this is a raw, honest look at what happens behind the scenes of marriage during the hardest seasons of life.💋 Why putting your kids before your partner can backfire💋 How “survival mode” quietly destroys intimacy💋 The biggest mistake couples make during crisis💋 What emotional distance actually looks like💋 How to reconnect when everything feels surface level💋 Why communication and unity matter more than ever💋 The role of therapy (and why it changes everything)💋 Real stories of parenting through mental health struggles💋 How to bring back intimacy — even when you don’t feel like it💋 Why fun, connection, and sex still matter (yes, even then)This episode is for anyone who feels like their relationship is slipping under the weight of life.Because sometimes the hardest seasons don’t break your marriage…they rebuild it into something deeper — if you let them.If this resonates, send it to your partner.

This is your no-shame, no-BS guide to anal sex.In this quick solo episode of The Law of Cassidy, we’re breaking down one of the most Googled — and least properly talked about — topics in intimacy.No awkwardness. No misinformation. Just real, practical advice.💋 Why communication BEFORE matters more than anything💋 The #1 mistake people make (and why it ruins everything)💋 How to actually make it comfortable (and enjoyable)💋 Lube, warmup, and why rushing = disaster💋 What “going slow” really means💋 How to avoid pain (and when to stop immediately)💋 Hygiene tips that remove the anxiety💋 Why control should be in the receiving partner’s hands💋 What to do after (yes, aftercare matters)💋 Real DM questions answered (fear, awkward moments, and more)Anal is one of the most misunderstood experiences in intimacy — and because no one talks about it properly, people either have bad experiences… or never try something they might actually enjoy.This episode fixes that.No shame. No pressure. Just education.If this helped you — send it to your partner (or a friend 👀).

Mental health shouldn’t be taboo — but in places like Utah, it still is.In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Jessi Campbell — mom, speaker, fitness coach, and founder of the Momentum Project — to talk about the real, unfiltered side of motherhood, mental health, faith, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart.After losing her ex-husband to suicide, Jessi was forced to confront her own struggles, her identity, and what it truly means to keep going for her kids.In this Episode we get into: 💋 The reality of mental health struggles no one talks about💋 Losing someone to suicide and how it changes you💋 Divorce, single motherhood, and starting over💋 The pressure of Utah culture and “fitting the mold”💋 Faith, religion, and redefining your relationship with God💋 Why so many women feel alone (even when they’re not)💋 Building a life, a voice, and a community from nothing💋 The importance of creating safe spaces for real conversationsThis episode is raw, emotional, and honest.If you’ve ever felt alone, misunderstood, or like you’re carrying more than anyone sees — this one is for you.

Most people are focused on how often they’re having sex…but almost no one is talking about how good it actually is.In this episode of The Law Of Cassidy, I break down the real truth about intimacy, connection, and why so many couples feel disconnected — even when they’re “doing it.”From oral sex to communication, initiation, and even beginner bondage… this is the conversation people are too uncomfortable to have (but need to hear). What we get into:💋 Why frequency doesn’t equal a healthy sex life💋 Why silence during sex is killing connection💋 The truth about oral sex and satisfaction💋 Why both partners NEED to initiate💋 How shame is secretly ruining your intimacy💋 Beginner-friendly bondage explained (no weird stuff)💋 How to communicate what you actually wantThis episode is raw, honest, and designed to make you think, question, and maybe even change how you show up in your relationship.If this hit for you… send it to your partner 👀

In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sit down with Brooke Shaw and Olivia Jorgensen — two recovered addicts, co-hosts of You’re Not Drunk Friend, and co-founders of Ignite Recovery.What makes this conversation so powerful is that the center they now run came from the same recovery world that helped change their lives.We talk about:💋what addiction actually looked like behind the scenes💋growing up in Utah and the stigma around drinking and recovery💋trauma, shame, motherhood, marriage, and coping💋what sober sex is really like💋the difference between surviving and actually healing💋why addiction doesn’t discriminate💋how they went from rock bottom to helping others recoverThis episode is raw, honest, emotional, and deeply important. If you or someone you love is struggling, send them this.

This episode is a no-filter, say-it-out-loud conversation.We’re talking about something that affects way more people than anyone admits — but nobody wants to say out loud:premature ejaculation.If you’ve ever felt embarrassed, frustrated, or like you’re the only one dealing with this… you’re not.In this episode of The Law of Cassidy, we break down:💋 Why premature ejaculation happens (it’s not what you think)💋 The connection between anxiety, hormones, and performance💋 How purity culture and early habits actually shape your body💋 Why shame makes the problem worse💋 What it does to relationships when no one talks about it💋 How to bring it up without destroying your partner’s confidence💋 Real, practical techniques that actually helpWe also get into:💋 Why most couples are performing instead of connecting💋 How to communicate what you actually want in bed💋 The 7-day mindset challenge (and why your thoughts are repeating)💋 Faith, shame, sexuality — and unlearning what you were taughtThis episode is part sex education, part therapy, part real life.If someone sent you this… they care about you.👇 Share this with your partner, save it, and start the conversation.Law of Cassidy: Stop performing your life — start living it.

If you’ve lost your libido, your motivation, your mental clarity, your drive, your energy — and everyone keeps telling you it’s just stress, depression, aging, or “normal” — this episode is for you.Today on The Law of Cassidy, Haileigh is back and we’re diving into the hormone almost nobody is paying attention to correctly: testosterone.And yes — women need it too.We talk about:What testosterone actually does in women and menWhy low testosterone can look like anxiety, depression, brain fog, low libido, burnout, and loss of identityWhy “normal labs” don’t always mean you feel goodThe huge myths around testosterone replacementWhy so many women are told they’re “just stressed”How low testosterone impacts marriage, intimacy, mood, confidence, performance, and motivationThe connection between hormones and mental healthWhy the wrong provider can keep you stuckWhy optimal is very different from “normal”We also get into:PCOS and how testosterone is misunderstood in womenFertility, libido, and what happens after babiesMen’s mental health, ED, motivation, and why low T is missed all the timeThe dangerous myth that testosterone is “just steroids”Why this could be affecting way more than your sex driveThis episode is bold, educational, real, and honestly one of the most important ones yet.If someone sent you this episode, they probably want you to stop suffering in silence.📍Featuring Haileigh Mason of Mason Aesthetic & Wellness📞 801-821-4600📍UtahLaw of Cassidy: Don’t let anyone tell you “normal” is good enough when you know you don’t feel like yourself.

If you leak when you laugh… if intimacy feels different after babies… if you’ve ever wondered “is this just my new normal?” — this episode is for you.Today on The Law of Cassidy, I’m sitting down with Danielle (LadyBusinessRN) at Mason Aesthetic & Wellness to talk about the conversation women never get to have out loud: pelvic floor health, hormones, libido, dryness, sensation, and why “normal labs” don’t always mean you feel normal.We break down what’s actually happening in your body (and why so many women are embarrassed to even bring it up), plus we get into the real-life solutions — including the Empower by InMode device (yes… the “vagina machine” 😂) and how it helps women rebuild strength + tissue from the inside out.In this episode, we talk about:💋Why anxiety/depression symptoms can be hormonal (and why “normal” isn’t always optimal)💋Leaky bladder after babies (common vs normal — and how to fix it)💋Painful sex, dryness, micro-tears, and why women stop wanting intimacy💋“Feeling looser” after childbirth and what’s actually happening structurally💋How V-Tone (EMS) works for pelvic floor strength + incontinence💋How FormaV (heat/RF) remodels tissue, improves lubrication, and boosts sensation💋Postpartum, perimenopause, and why women in Utah especially stay silent💋Touch-ups, downtime, what it feels like, and who this is for (spoiler: not just “older women”)If someone sent you this episode… they love you. And they want you to stop suffering in silence.📍Mason Aesthetic & Wellness📞 801-821-4600📲 Danielle: @LadyBusinessRNLaw of Cassidy: Taking care of your body isn’t insecurity — it’s ownership.

Welcome back to The Law of Cassidy — and this episode is powerful.Brooke was born without legs. She’s a wife. A mom of three. A hunter. A business owner. And one of the most confident women I know.In this conversation, we talk about: 💋 Growing up without legs 💋 The assumptions people make about disability 💋 Dating, marriage, intimacy, and confidence 💋 Motherhood and pregnancy without legs 💋 Public staring (and why she waves back) 💋 The strength it takes to live unapologeticallyAnd then we dive deeper.Brooke opens up about a devastating family tragedy that led to her sister serving a life sentence — and what it’s like navigating public judgment, grief, and faith when the whole world thinks they know your story.This episode is about: Resilience. Grace. Family. Confidence. And choosing strength over bitterness.If you’ve ever felt judged, underestimated, or misunderstood — this one is for you.👇 Comment below: What’s something people assume about you that isn’t true?Subscribe for real conversations about identity, intimacy, confidence, and becoming fully yourself.

Before we jump back in, I have to share something that happened at the Hunt Expo in Salt Lake City… a woman walked up to me (completely out of my usual world) and said something that made me cry right at the booth. It reminded me why I keep showing up — even when the internet is loud.In this episode, we get into the REAL behind-the-scenes of what happened:💋 The brutal inventory situation that tanked my income💋 Why I wasn’t allowed to run pre-orders (even when reels went viral)💋 The “Popsicle Theory” and what it revealed about leadership💋 How I became the villain for doing what I was told💋 The paycheck issues, the gaslighting, and the chaos behind closed doors💋 The day I woke up to 78 canceled orders and a negative Shopify balance💋 The moment I knew I had to build my own brand — no matter what it costAnd then… we talk about something nobody wants to say out loud:If you can’t support your friend’s business or content because you’re worried what people will think — that’s insecurity. It costs $0 to support your people.This episode is raw, detailed, and the clearest look yet at what it actually cost me to stay loyal to an unhealthy system.🎧 Next week’s episode is with Brooke (Brooke With No Legs) and her story is unreal — don’t miss it.Subscribe for more honest conversations about power, loyalty, boundaries, money, and being unapologetically yourself.

Welcome back to The Law of Cassidy — and this episode is different.What started as a normal solo episode turned into something much deeper after I received a message that completely stopped me in my tracks. It made me cry. And it reminded me why staying quiet isn’t always the high road.In this episode, I talk openly about:💋 Why the people who talk the loudest often did you wrong💋 What loyalty actually costs — and who pays it💋 Sex, foreplay, pleasure, and why entitlement kills intimacy💋 Shame, repression, and sexuality (especially in Utah culture)💋 Why masturbation isn’t taboo — it’s self-awareness💋 My unfiltered hot takes (college, entrepreneurship, religion, culture)💋 Why not everyone should be an entrepreneur — and that’s OK💋 What happens when a system benefits from you… then disrespects you💋 Why I stayed silent — and why I’m not anymoreI also open up about:💋 Walking away after nearly 20 years💋 Losing money, time, and peace behind the scenes💋 Being loyal to people who weren’t loyal back💋 Choosing healing over retaliation — until the truth demanded spaceThis episode is part real talk, part rant, part tea — and it’s just the beginning.☕ The full story is coming.If you’ve ever felt silenced, minimized, or punished for outgrowing a system — this one’s for you.👇 Subscribe for unfiltered conversations about sex, power, boundaries, and becoming unapologetically yourself.

In this solo Quickie episode of The Law of Cassidy, Cassidy gets real about ICKS — the unspoken behaviors that trigger instant disgust, judgment, or emotional exhaustion in modern dating, motherhood, relationships, and social media culture.This episode covers:💋 Real sex icks (and why “porn pace” is not real-life technique)💋 Listener DMs about orgasms, pleasure, and confidence💋 Navigating motherhood judgment in Utah💋 Being questioned for having one child💋 Formula vs breastfeeding pressure and mom-shaming culture💋 Postpartum anxiety and the parts of motherhood nobody prepares you for💋 The truth about tipping culture and respect in service work💋 The “part two for no reason” social media ickCassidy also shares personal stories from pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum — and ends the episode with a reminder that you don’t owe anyone a watered-down version of yourself.New episodes every Wednesday.

Welcome back to The Law of Cassidy — today’s episode is a Quickie, which means you only get me… lucky you 😈We’re talking about ICKS — the kind that make your skin crawl, your eyes roll, and your soul scream internally.This episode is unfiltered, honest, and real as hell. We’re diving into:💋 Sex icks (yes… the porn pound is on the list)💋 Motherhood icks (formula vs. breastfeeding judgment is OUT of control)💋 Being judged for having ONE child💋 Postpartum anxiety that hit me out of nowhere💋 DM advice: orgasms, pleasure, confidence, and communication💋 Social media behavior that gives MAJOR ick💋 Not tipping culture (if you don’t tip—don’t go out)And if you’ve ever felt judged for having a nanny, using daycare, feeding your baby formula, or just living outside the “highlight reel” version of motherhood…This episode is for you.Covet This 🖤I drop a spicy product recommendation that’s next level 👀If you’re new here — subscribe and join the realest conversations in Utah (and beyond).👇 Comment your biggest “ICK” and let’s see who gets exposed today.

In today’s episode of The Law of Cassidy, I sits down with Andy Tru — luxury makeup artist, founder of A Tru Collection, and one of the most real (and hilarious) voices in the Utah beauty scene.This episode is packed with honesty, humor, and HARD truths about what it really takes to build a business in the glam industry — especially in a world where people constantly expect services “in exchange for a post.”Andy shares:• His journey from YouTube tutorials to working with high-profile clients• What it’s like navigating identity + creative expression in Utah• The truth about influencer culture and “collab” expectations• The wildest bride story (including a THREE-page email aftermath)• Why boundaries matter if you want longevity in business and life• Confidence, dating, respect, and refusing to tone yourself downIf you’ve ever been asked to work for free, felt underestimated, or needed a reminder that your time and talent have value — this episode is for you.Follow Andy:@andy.truu@atrumakeupartistNew episodes every Wednesday.

In this solo Quickie episode, I’m getting real about boundaries, friendships, business, and what happens when you start leveling up.This past year was the hardest year of my life. I lost relationships I thought would last forever. I set boundaries that made people uncomfortable. I stopped over-giving. And for the first time, I truly stopped caring what people think.If you’ve ever felt like:☑️ You’re outgrowing people☑️ You’re being labeled a “mean girl” for having standards☑️ You give more than you get☑️ People switch up when you succeed☑️ You’re walking away from rooms that once felt like home…this episode is for you.In this episode, I talk about:💋 Why people get mad when you set boundaries💋 Over-giving vs. self-respect💋 Friends vs. coworkers (and why they’re not the same)💋 Walking away from relationships that no longer serve you💋 Why elevation costs you people💋 Accountability, therapy, and emotional maturity💋 “You don’t have to be great to start — but you have to start”This isn’t a victim story. It’s a growth story.If you’re building something, changing your life, or finally choosing peace — you’re not alone.🎧 New episodes every Wednesday📲 Follow @thelawofcassidy💬 Share this with someone who needs permission to walk away

In this powerful episode, Cassidy sits down with Haileigh Mason, Nurse Practitioner and founder of Mason Wellness, to talk about the conversations most doctors aren’t having — especially with women.From anxiety, depression, and weight gain to libido loss, hormone imbalance, and trauma, this episode dives deep into how stress, grief, and modern life impact the female body — and why so many women are misdiagnosed instead of properly treated.Haileigh also shares her deeply personal story of losing her husband just days after giving birth, how grief shaped her approach to medicine, and why she left traditional “sick care” to focus on preventative hormone therapy.In this episode, we cover:💋 Why women are often labeled “depressed” when hormones are the real issue💋 Progesterone, cortisol, estrogen, and testosterone explained simply💋 How trauma and chronic stress destroy hormone balance💋 GLP-1s, weight loss, food noise, and insulin resistance💋 Libido, intimacy, and why low desire is usually hormonal💋 Why hormone therapy is misunderstood — and unfairly feared💋 How to advocate for yourself when doctors don’t listen⚠️ Important: This episode is not medical advice and does NOT encourage stopping prescribed medications. It’s about asking better questions and digging deeper.If you’ve ever felt dismissed, unheard, exhausted, or “not yourself” — this episode is for you.👇 Subscribe for honest conversations about health, identity, relationships, and building life on your own terms.

My husband Josh joins me for the most vulnerable conversation we’ve ever had publicly.We’re talking about the year that almost broke us — the therapy sessions, the financial dynamics that challenged his ego, the pressure of building his own brand, and what it really takes to keep choosing each other when things get hard.From being married to a sexfluencer to navigating a non-traditional financial dynamic, this episode goes deep into the part of marriage no one talks about.We cover: 💋 What it’s like being married to someone who talks openly about intimacy online 💋 The therapy breakthrough that saved our relationship 💋 Why scheduled intimacy isn’t as crazy as it sounds 💋 How we’ve navigated power shifts, resentment, and rebuilding trust 💋 The silent pressure men feel — and why Josh had to find his voice 💋 How he went from hating social media to respecting the hustleMeet Josh Bybee: Nutrition scientist, entrepreneur, mountain man, and the founder of Deadshot Nutrition — but more importantly, my husband. He’s building a supplement brand from the ground up while learning what it means to be married to me.And shoutout to our therapist Trish — because honestly, every couple needs a third-party voice of reason.If you’ve ever struggled in your relationship, questioned your roles, or wondered if success was driving a wedge between you — this episode is for you.🎙️ NEXT WEEK:  NP Haileigh Mason joins us to talk hormones, libido, vaginal rejuvenation, and why you're not crazy—your body might just need some help.Follow Josh: @jbybzz @deadshot_nutritionShop Deadshot Nutrition : www.deadshotnutrition.comShop intimacy products: www.Itscassidybybee.shop💬 Cassidy's Law: Love isn't proven in the easy seasons. It's built in the choosing over and over again, even when it's hard.

In this first episode of The Law of Cassidy, I share the unfiltered story of how I built a multimillion-dollar business talking about sex — and everything that came with it.From selling sex toys in Utah living rooms to going viral online, navigating MLMs, losing money, burning out, and ultimately deciding to build something that was finally mine!, This episode is raw, honest, and deeply personal.This isn’t just a story about sex. It’s about risk, ownership, motherhood, marriage, faith, therapy, and what happens when you realize you’ve poured everything into something you don’t actually own.Cassidy opens up about:💋How she turned a taboo topic into a successful online business💋The realities of viral content and losing money behind the scenes💋Burnout, identity shifts, and starting over💋What entrepreneurship actually costs — emotionally and financially💋Why she decided to step into a new chapter on her own termsThis episode sets the foundation for The Law of Cassidy — a podcast about intimacy, business, personal growth, and having the conversations most people are afraid to say out loud.If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, underestimated, or ready to take a risk — this episode is for you.Subscribe for new episodes, real conversations, and stories that don’t fit neatly in a box.Grab that fun swing I mentioned here and as my listeners Im giving you a deal : https://deals.itscassidybybee.shop/lander/whipsmart-adjustable-body-swing Or Shop all the goods here : www.Itscassidybybee.shop