The Legacy Imperative Podcast

In the final episode of the series, Jeff Ling and Bob Peterson discuss the ‘11th Commandment’—Jesus’ command to love one another as He loved us—and explain how Christ fulfilled the law while the Holy Spirit empowers us to live it out. They offer practical, humble ways grandparents and parents can pass on faith through example, dialogue, and Spirit-filled living. Discover free teaching resources in Legacy Imperative’s online library and learn how to access or support these materials at LegacyImperative.org.

In this episode Jeff Ling and Bob Peterson explore the 10th commandment, 'You shall not covet,' calling it the 'want monster.' They explain what coveting means, why desire itself can be good, and offer practical advice for parents and grandparents to teach contentment, gratitude, and joy for others. The hosts also discuss cultural pressures — advertising, social media, and politics — that feed covetousness and describe Legacy Imperative’s mission to equip older generations to pass faith and biblical values to their families.

Hosts Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson explore the ninth commandment — "You shall not bear false witness" — and the challenge of raising truth-tellers in an age of social media, AI-generated misinformation, and viral lies. They explain why truth matters, how to teach children the truth early, and offer practical advice: model honesty, fact-check before sharing, practice patience, and speak truth with grace.

Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson unpack the Eighth Commandment—"You shall not steal"—explaining why theft is never justified, how modern rationalizations mask moral decline, and how stealing ultimately wounds people and dishonors God. They give practical guidance for grandparents and parents on teaching kids integrity, trusting God in hard times, and passing on a legacy of faith using resources from Legacy Imperative.

Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson unpack the Seventh Commandment: ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ They explain God’s design for marriage and sexuality, the three-part order (commitment, covenant, consummation), how to teach kids and grandchildren healthy, age-appropriate biblical principles, the dangers of today’s sex-saturated culture, and practical resources from Legacy Imperative.

Hosts Jeff Ling and Bob discuss how to teach children the Sixth Commandment, distinguishing between unlawful murder and legitimate killing in war, self-defense, or by civil authorities. They emphasize God’s sovereignty over life and explore difficult topics like abortion, suicide, and mercy killing while urging compassion and faith. The episode also highlights Jesus’ deeper teaching that anger and harmful words can be as destructive as physical violence, and encourages practical ways to give life through words and actions as part of passing on a legacy of faith.

Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson explore the fifth commandment—"Honor your father and mother"—as part of a series on teaching the 11 commandments to the next generation. They discuss how true love is committed action, why honoring earthly parents reflects honoring our heavenly Father, and how family, discipline, and modeling authority shape children’s moral development. The episode covers practical guidance for parents and grandparents, caring for aging parents, handling toxic relationships, and the higher loyalty to God when earthly authorities conflict with His commands. It emphasizes the lifelong responsibility to teach respect, obedience, and a legacy of faith.

Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson explore the often-neglected fourth commandment, explaining the meaning of Sabbath (Shabbat), its purpose as a gift of rest, and why Jesus’ resurrection reframed Sabbath rest for Christians. They discuss practical ways to teach children and grandchildren about spiritual rest, the importance of weekly worship and fellowship, and how the Ten Commandments are a love letter meant to make our lives healthier and happier.

In this episode Jeff Ling and Bob Peterson explore the third commandment—do not take the Lord’s name in vain—and how to teach it to children. They explain the original meaning of “vain” (empty or meaningless), illustrate common violations (using God’s name as an expletive, cursing, swearing oaths, and speaking for God), and emphasize that honoring God’s name grows out of love and relationship. Practical examples and stories show why the commandment is more serious than gutter language alone and warn against using God’s name to manipulate or justify actions. The hosts encourage parents and grandparents to teach respect for God’s name by modeling reverence, clear speech, and humility about claiming God’s voice.

Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson discuss the second commandment, warning against remaking God into a ‘‘Lego god’’ and explaining the dangers of idolatry for the next generation. They emphasize that God has revealed Himself in Scripture, is unchanging and infinite, and stress teaching children to love God as He is rather than inventing smaller gods.

Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson introduce a new Legacy Imperative podcast series on teaching the Ten Commandments—plus the "11th" Jesus gave: love one another. They discuss why the commandments remain a moral compass, how they point to Christ, and why we teach them to children and grandchildren. This episode focuses on the first commandment (God alone) and practical ways to pass faith to the next generation, while clarifying that obedience flows from love, not to earn salvation. Next episode: the second commandment, "No Lego Gods."

In this final episode of our four-part series on effective prayer, we delve into the critical aspect of timing. Discover why praying first thing in the morning is essential, how to maintain an attitude of prayer throughout the day, and the importance of praying whenever your loved ones come to mind. Join Dr. Bob and Jeff as they share insightful stories and practical tips to enhance your prayer life, ensuring it is both powerful and effective. Tune in to reshape your approach to prayer and bring lasting change to the lives of your children and grandchildren.

Join Bob Peterson, founder and president of Legacy Imperative, and his good friend Jeff Ling, pastor of Clear River Church, as they delve into the impactful role of grandparents in guiding the spiritual journey of their grandchildren. With a century of combined ministry experience, Bob and Jeff emphasize the power of prayer in shaping the lives of the next generation. In this episode, they explore the essential prayers for the salvation and spiritual growth of their loved ones, the importance of protection from evil influences, and the critical role parents play in the spiritual and moral upbringing of their children. Listen to their heartfelt stories and learn about the profound importance of grandparents being involved in the spiritual development of their families. For more insight and resources, visit legacyimperative.org and discover ways to connect and grow as effective grandparents.

Welcome to this episode of the Legacy Imperative podcast, where we dive into the art of effective prayer. Today, we explore how grandparents can harness the power of prayer to build lasting connections with their next-gen loved ones. Discover insights into transforming your prayer life, inspired by timeless biblical teachings. Join Bob and Jeff as they discuss the widespread struggle with prayer effectiveness, despite the significant time Americans dedicate daily to this spiritual discipline. Uncover key strategies for praying with intention and purpose, as they delve into the significance of fervent and proactive prayers for grandchildren. Learn how to pray with boldness, following the Lord’s pattern of prayer. This episode provides practical advice and biblical promises to empower you as you seek to bless your family. Tune in next week for more actionable insights on prayer and other resources to strengthen your legacy. Visit our website, LegacyImperative.org, for additional tools and encouragement.

In this episode of the Legacy Podcast, Bob and Jeff embark on a series dedicated to guiding grandparents on the spiritual journey of praying for their grandchildren. They discuss the profound impact prayer can have and explore the reasons why it is essential for the well-being of future generations. Bob shares his personal experiences, emphasizing the importance of prayer despite its challenges. He highlights the unique privilege grandparents have in influencing their grandchildren's lives through prayer, offering practical insights on when and how to pray. Join them as they reveal how prayer is not only a tool for protection and guidance but also a means to release pressure and place trust in a higher power. Discover how, like Jesus, grandparents can achieve great impact through the power of prayer and intercession. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation packed with wisdom on building a lasting spiritual legacy.

Join hosts Jeff Ling and Bob Peterson as they explore the essential steps grandparents can take to build lasting gospel bridges with their grandchildren. In this episode, they discuss the importance of engaging in difficult conversations and expressing love and appreciation to maintain open doors with adult children and their families. Discover practical tips for overcoming communication barriers in today's cancel culture and learn how to foster a loving, supportive environment for future generations. Tune in for valuable insights on active listening and the power of unconditional love.

Welcome to another enriching episode of the Legacy Imperative podcast, where hosts Jeff Ling and Bob Peterson discuss the crucial role of active listening in nurturing relationships with adult children and grandchildren. In this episode, they explore the art of listening not just with ears but with eyes and hearts, emphasizing the importance of transforming from a dictating figure to a supportive friend and advisor. Join us in learning how to ask meaningful questions and engage in dialogues that strengthen bonds across generations, ensuring that the doors to our loved ones' hearts remain wide open.

Welcome to another episode of our Legacy Imperative podcast. Today, we tackle the vital topic of maintaining open doors to our adult children’s homes, which is essential for nurturing a relationship with our grandchildren. Join us with Dr. Bob Peterson, the founder, and president of Legacy Imperative, as we discuss the significance of respecting boundaries to prevent getting shut out by our children. In this episode, we delve into the challenges of boundaries and how overstepping them can lead to strained relationships. We explore the importance of letting our adult children set their own boundaries and the consequences of unsolicited advice. We also discuss how holding onto the past can hinder our present relationships and the need to embrace the future. Tune in for practical advice on shedding habits that frustrate our adult children and building lasting bonds with them. For more, visit our website, subscribe to our channels, and stay updated with all our resources to aid grandparents in fostering meaningful connections with their families.

Join Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Peterson in this insightful episode of the Legacy Imperative podcast as they explore the crucial role of grandparents in nurturing a gospel-centered legacy. Learn about the importance of maintaining open relationships with adult children and grandchildren, and discover how overcoming common pitfalls like criticism and worry can strengthen family bonds. Packed with personal anecdotes and expert advice, this episode offers valuable guidance for grandparents striving to make a lasting impact on future generations.

Welcome to a new edition of the Legacy Imperative podcast, now with video! Join Jeff Ling, pastor from Northern Virginia, and Bob Peterson, the founder of Legacy Imperative, as they embark on a conversation highlighting a growing crisis among grandparents — the unanticipated barriers with their adult children and grandchildren. Studies reveal troubling statistics: approximately 27% of people over 18 have severed family ties, and millions of grandparents have been cut off from their grandchildren. Surprisingly, conflicts between in-laws account for a significant portion of these tensions. In this episode, Jeff and Bob delve into navigating these delicate family dynamics, emphasizing the importance of wisdom and prayer in reopening doors and hearts. They discuss the challenges evangelical grandparents face — from restrictions on discussing faith with grandchildren to larger cultural shifts affecting family relationships. Listen as they share personal stories, insights, and practical steps to maintain connections. Whether addressing faith barriers or learning to communicate effectively with the younger generation, this episode offers guidance for those seeking to keep spiritual conversations and relationships alive within their family. Discover more essential tools and perspectives for grandparents at legacyimperative.org. Subscribe, like, and share with others seeking hope-filled dialogues in their own grandparenting journey.

In this engaging episode, Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson delve into the challenges of raising children in today's digital age. They address the critical issue of exposure to inappropriate content in schools and the role of social media in influencing young minds. Highlighting the importance of vigilance and proactive involvement, they explore how grandparents can build meaningful connections and impart values to their grandchildren. Additionally, they discuss practical strategies to safeguard kids from harmful influences and promote a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

Join host Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson, founder of Legacy Imperative, as they delve into the challenges and responsibilities of guiding the youngest members of society through the complexities of the digital world. With 40 million digital-native Alpha kids in the U.S., the influence of social media is unprecedented, often eclipsing traditional sources of learning like schools, churches, and families. This episode explores the phenomenon of "trial by social media," drawing comparisons with historical examples of mob mentality and the spread of misinformation. Jeff and Bob discuss the crucial importance of understanding justice and due process in an era where news and lies travel at the speed of light. They emphasize modeling truth and patience, encouraging open conversations about justice, law, and the potential surprises truth can bring. By fostering a commitment to understanding and truth, they guide listeners on how to positively influence the next generation, ensuring kids grow up in an informed and compassionate world. Listen in for thoughtful insights and strategies for grandparents and parents alike.

Join Pastor Jeff Ling from Clear River Community Church in Manassas, Virginia, and Dr. Bob Petterson, founder of Legacy Imperative, as they discuss the challenges and responsibilities of navigating social media in today's world. This episode explores the importance of truthfulness and healthy relationships, especially when engaging with younger generations. They address the prevalence of misinformation and 'village experts' in social media, emphasizing the need for critical thinking and the dangers of spreading unverified information. The conversation highlights the Biblical call to truthfulness, encouraging listeners to model discernment and wisdom in their interactions online and offline. Discover valuable strategies for fostering open communication and trust with children and grandchildren while resisting the urge to share unverified stories. This heartfelt dialogue invites you to reflect on the impact of your digital footprint and the legacy of truth you wish to pass on.

Join Jeff Ling, pastor of Clear River Community Church, and Dr. Bob Petterson, founder of Legacy Imperative, as they discuss the pervasive influence of social media on younger generations. In this enlightening episode, they delve into the challenges posed by unchecked information and the cultural shifts driven by these platforms. Learn practical strategies for grandparents to connect with and guide their grandchildren amidst the digital chaos. From creating social media-free zones to sharing compelling family stories, discover ways to foster genuine conversations and impart timeless truths. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the importance of modeling positive behavior and prioritizing spiritual connections, ensuring that the core message of faith and the path to salvation remain at the heart of family discussions.

In a world of hot takes and cancel culture, let's make 2025 the year of understanding. 🌟 Key takeaways from today's Legacy Imperative podcast: • Seek to understand before being understood • Ask questions instead of making statements • Treat everyone as precious in God's sight • Practice patience in conversations Remember: 'God gave us two ears and one mouth for a purpose.' - Puritan wisdom How will you listen more deeply this year? #LegacyImperative #ListenFirst #UnderstandingOthers #BridgingDivides #ChristianLiving"

"As we step into the New Year, let's make resolutions that truly matter! 🎉 Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson remind us: ✝️ Remember we're one day closer to eternity 🙏 Make commitments by God's grace, not our own strength 👪 Keep promises to our grandchildren 💪 Take care of our physical and mental health 🌟 Stay engaged with younger generations 🦁 Lift up the Lion and the Lamb, not political symbols 🏠 Live as citizens of heaven, not just earth 'I want this year to be an ambassador from heaven, bringing the message of Jesus.' - Dr. Bob Petterson What's your most important resolution this year? Share in the comments! 👇

🎄 This Christmas, let's remember: Jesus was never the Grinch! Dr. Bob Petterson and Pastor Jeff Ling remind us that while Jesus is the reason for the season, we shouldn't force Him into every moment. Instead: • Relax and trust that God is in control • Show Christ's love through your actions, not just words • Be a source of joy and refreshment, not judgment • Keep the welcome mat out for future conversations Let's celebrate in a way that draws people to Jesus, not pushes them away. After all, He turned water into wine at a party - He knows how to bring the joy! Wishing you all a Merry Christmas filled with love, laughter, and the true spirit of Christ. 🎅🏼✨ Thanks for listening! Bob and Jeff

"Timeless Treasures: How Grandparents' Gifts Illuminate the Meaning of Christmas" 🎄 This Christmas, give the gifts that truly matter! 🎁 Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson share powerful insights on meaningful gift-giving: Give your heart and time - the most precious gifts of all Create lasting memories, not just fleeting presents Gift experiences that build bonds and make lifelong impressions Be mindful not to overshadow parents' gifts to their children Remember, the greatest gift of all is God's gift of His Son. As Martin Luther saw, our gift-giving can be a beautiful metaphor for God's grace! "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son..." - John 3:16 This holiday season, let's focus on the gifts that truly enrich our families and point to the ultimate Gift. O come let us adore Him!

🎄 Grandparents, are you suffering from "Gram-nesia" this Christmas? 🤔 Dr. Bob Peterson and Pastor Jeff Ling share 3 powerful tips to navigate the holiday season and build lasting bonds with your children and grandchildren: 1️⃣ It's not about you - focus on building relationships, not perfect decorations 2️⃣ Pass the torch - let your kids create their own Christmas traditions 3️⃣ Be a missionary to the next generation - find gentle ways to share the true meaning of Christmas Remember, what matters most isn't having everyone at your house for Christmas, but having everyone together in eternity. 🙏 Let's make this Christmas about Jesus and strengthening family ties across generations! Want more wisdom on leaving a legacy of faith? Check out Legacy Imperative at www.legacyimperative.org

In this insightful podcast, Pastor Jeff Ling from Clear River Community Church and Dr. Bob Petterson of Legacy Imperative explore how the evolving secular views of Christmas pose challenges for bridging generational gaps within families. They share personal anecdotes and offer practical advice for maintaining harmony, focusing on the true essence of Christmas and avoiding political or cultural conflicts during the festive season. Join them as they discuss strategies for using the holidays to draw families closer, pass on a legacy of faith, and appreciate the diverse ways people celebrate this special time of year.

Welcome to another engaging episode of the Legacy Imperative podcast. This week, as Thanksgiving approaches, we delve into ways to bring the focus back to gratitude and eternal values during this cherished holiday. Join Ben Platter and Dr. Bob Petterson as they explore the historical roots of Thanksgiving and share practical tips for creating a meaningful family gathering. From making your celebration a digital and political-free zone to emphasizing storytelling and gratitude, discover how to foster connection and appreciation among loved ones. Gain insights on how to honor the origins of Thanksgiving, engage family members in positive interactions, and express thanks to those who make the day special. Tune in for ideas that promise to enrich your holiday experience and create lasting memories.

Join Ben Platter, Executive Director of Legacy Imperative, and Dr. Bob Petterson, the founder and president of Legacy Imperative, as they discuss strategies for making family gatherings more harmonious. With Thanksgiving around the corner, they offer practical advice on setting boundaries, reflecting beforehand, and involving children to maintain a positive atmosphere. Discover ways to handle polarizing conversations, from changing the subject to taking a breather when needed. Learn the importance of listening, admitting mistakes, and embodying a loving spirit, reflecting the teachings of Jesus. Tune in for insights on how to transform potentially tense family gatherings into opportunities for connection and understanding, leaving a lasting legacy of faith for the next generation.

In this episode, we delve into the emotions and reflections following the recent election, recorded three weeks prior to the results. Join us as we explore how faith shapes our response, regardless of the outcome, and the timeless question posed by Francis Schaeffer: "How shall we now live?" Our hosts discuss the role of Christians in a post-election world, drawing parallels with biblical times and the early church's expansion under challenging circumstances. They emphasize the importance of prayer for leaders, acknowledging God's sovereignty in guiding the future. As we navigate a potentially uncertain future, we are reminded of our responsibility to invest in the next generation, passing on faith and resilience. With anecdotes and insights, this episode encourages listeners to remain hopeful, trusting in a divine plan while actively engaging in spiritual and familial growth.

Join us for our third podcast episode as we delve into the crucial role of faith in the upcoming 2024 election. With the voting deadline fast approaching on November 5th, we explore the importance of casting your ballot and why it's vital for Christians to vote their biblical values. In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Bob Petterson, founder and president of Legacy Imperative, to discuss the significant impact that 80 million non-voting eligible U.S. citizens, including 42% of born-again Christians, could have on shaping the future. We address the moral and ethical stakes of this election, emphasizing the need for righteousness in leadership and how it affects the generations to come. Together with media influencer Wayne Pederson , Dr. Petterson highlights the critical qualities of character, policies, and competency that voters should consider when choosing leaders at every level, from the White House to local offices. We also tackle the complexities of voting for the "lesser of two evils" and the importance of informed, prayerful decision-making. As we navigate through generational and personal differences in prioritizing issues like abortion, social justice, and family values, we emphasize the need for unity and understanding among Christians. Tune in to learn how we, as followers of Christ, can be salt and light in our communities and the world by making our voices heard at the polls. Don't miss our upcoming episode, where we'll discuss moving forward after the election and living with hope, regardless of the outcome. Remember, your vote matters, and together, we can strive for a more righteous nation.

Join Wayne Pederson and Dr. Bob Petterson in this engaging episode as they delve into the complexities of navigating political and cultural divides within families, particularly between grandparents and their next-gen loved ones. As the nation approaches the 2024 elections, the stakes are high, not just politically, but in the legacy of faith and values passed on to future generations. Dr. Bob Petterson, president and founder of Legacy Imperative, emphasizes the importance of approaching political differences with a Christ-centered perspective. This episode explores how to maintain open doors to meaningful relationships with adult children and grandchildren, despite generational gaps in political views. The discussion highlights the critical role of listening, authenticity, and love in bridging these divides. Wayne and Bob tackle the challenges of maintaining credibility and integrity in political discourse, underscoring the necessity of aligning actions with biblical principles. They also offer practical advice on avoiding common pitfalls, such as judgmental attitudes and spreading misinformation, which can erode trust and damage relationships. Tune in to learn how to engage in political conversations with grace and wisdom, ensuring that faith is a guiding light in family interactions. Discover strategies to turn generational objections into opportunities for sharing the gospel and building a lasting legacy of faith.

In this episode, Wayne Peterson and Dr. Bob Peterson of Legacy Imperative delve into the complexities of maintaining faith and family ties amidst the polarizing 2024 U.S. elections. Dubbed the "crazy season," they explore how Christian grandparents can bridge generational divides in political viewpoints, especially when faced with the progressive tendencies of millennials and Gen Z voters. Dr. Bob Peterson offers a historical perspective on the political climate during Jesus' time, drawing parallels with today's divisive landscape. The conversation shifts to how Jesus' teachings can guide Christians in engaging with politics without compromising their faith or relationships with younger generations. Wayne and Bob emphasize the importance of focusing on eternal values over political affiliations, encouraging listeners to view their primary citizenship as being in heaven, while still participating responsibly in earthly civic duties. They discuss the potential pitfalls of Christian nationalism and the need to maintain a clear separation between church and state. Join Wayne and Bob as they provide practical insights on living as Christians in modern "Babylon," ensuring that faith remains the cornerstone of family legacies. Tune in next week as they continue this series on navigating politics with next-gen loved ones. To learn more on how to build faith bridges with your children and grandchildren, vist Legacy Imperative.