The Mamapologist

In this episode of the Mamapologist, Jennifer talks with author Teasi Cannon about her new book, Counterfeit Forgiveness, and challenges some commonly held Christian assumptions about what forgiveness requires. They explore the difference between biblical forgiveness and “therapeutic forgiveness,” why forgiveness does not mean excusing abuse or eliminating accountability, and how misunderstandings about forgiveness can actually harm victims and protect offenders. A thoughtful conversation about truth, repentance, justice, reconciliation, and what it really means to forgive as God has forgiven us.

If Jesus IS right about Himself? Life? God? Salvation? If Jesus is right, it changes everything. Join me for this enlightening conversation about Jesus with special guest Lindsey Medenwaldt about her upcoming book What If Jesus Is Right? with Dr. Douglas Groothuis releasing August 18th. This is a don't miss conversation and book! Preorder - https://amzn.to/4xIAJ0n

What do you do when a prenatal diagnosis changes everything you thought your future would look like? In this powerful episode of The Mamapologist, I sit down with author of Mission Ready Marriage, military wife, homeschool mom, and Down syndrome advocate Ashley Ashcraft to discuss the life-changing phone call that informed her there was a high likelihood her unborn daughter had Down syndrome. Ashley shares the fear, uncertainty, and grief she initially experienced, the lack of professional support she received in those early moments, and how God used that journey to transform her family's life. Ashley and her husband later welcomed their daughter, Finley, who was born prematurely with significant medical challenges, including an 88-day NICU stay—but what began as a diagnosis they never expected became one of their family's greatest blessings. Together, we discuss the realities of prenatal diagnoses, the misconceptions surrounding Down syndrome, the pressures many families face after receiving difficult medical news, and why every human life has inherent value and dignity. Ashley also shares how faith, community, and a deeper understanding of God's purposes helped her move from fear to hope. Today, she is passionate about encouraging families facing similar diagnoses and advocating for children with Down syndrome. Whether you are a parent, grandparent, medical professional, pro-life advocate, or someone wrestling with questions about suffering, disability, and human worth, this conversation will challenge you to see beyond a diagnosis and recognize the beauty, purpose, and joy that can be found in unexpected places.

What if evangelism doesn’t have to be intimidating? This week on The Mamapologist, I’m joined by Eric Hernandez (ehmapologetics.org), author of The Lazy Approach to Evangelism (https://amzn.to/43do2NV), for a practical and encouraging conversation about sharing your faith without fear, pressure, or feeling like you need to have every answer memorized.We talk about:Why so many Christians feel nervous about evangelismHow asking good questions can open meaningful conversationsThe role apologetics plays in everyday witnessingHow to speak truth with both confidence and compassionSimple ways ordinary believers can engage friends, coworkers, and family members about faithEric shares practical tools to help Christians move from fear to confidence and reminds us that evangelism is often less about winning arguments and more about faithfully planting seeds.If you’ve ever felt unqualified, overwhelmed, or afraid to share your faith, this episode will encourage and equip you to start having gospel conversations right where you are.Because sometimes the most effective evangelism begins not with having all the answers—but with being willing to ask the right questions.

Motherhood is beautiful—but it can also become discouraging, exhausting, and overwhelming when we lose sight of what God designed it to be. In this episode of The Mamapologist, we talk about three powerful ways we can allow modern culture and wrong expectations to quietly destroy motherhood. From expecting perfection from ourselves and our children, to constantly focusing on how hard motherhood is, to ultimately missing the true purpose behind it all—we explore how Scripture reframes the calling of motherhood through humility, sanctification, and service to Christ.Using passages like Philippians 2:3–4, James 1:2–4, and Colossians 3:23–24, we discuss how motherhood exposes our selfishness, stretches our faith, and becomes one of God’s greatest tools to make us more like Jesus. This episode is an encouragement to tired moms who need the reminder that the hard moments are not meaningless—and that God sees every sacrifice, every sleepless night, and every act of love done for His glory.

A new federal appeals court ruling on the abortion pill has sparked headlines—but what actually changed, and why does it matter?In this episode of The Mamapologist, we break down the truth about the latest mifepristone ruling—what the court decided, what it didn’t, and how it affects real women right now. This isn’t just about law or politics. It’s about safety, accountability, and the kind of care women truly deserve.We’ll walk through:What the ruling actually says (not just the headlines)How abortion pills are currently being prescribed and distributedThe concerns raised about medical oversight and patient safetyWhy this issue matters if we genuinely care about protecting women—not just accessThis episode invites you to think deeper:Are we prioritizing convenience over care? And what does real compassion look like in this conversation?As always, this is a space to ask tough questions, seek truth, and think biblically about the world around us.

In this episode, we explore the growing mental health crisis and how it reflects a deeper cultural issue—the loss of purpose which leads to the devaluing of human life as hope fades, anxiety and despair rise. As Christians, we are called not just to recognize the problem, but to respond by sharing the truth, hope, and identity found in the gospel.

Is the Shroud of Turin real—or is it a medieval forgery? And more importantly… how should Christians think about it?In this episode of the Mamapologist, we take a thoughtful, evidence-based look at one of the most debated artifacts in Christian history. We explore the scientific claims, historical questions, and theological implications surrounding the Shroud—and separate what’s compelling from what’s uncertain.But this episode isn’t just about the Shroud. It’s about how Christians should approach evidence, tradition, and truth without losing sight of the Gospel.Does the Shroud strengthen the case for the resurrection?Should Christians rely on artifacts like this?What does Scripture say about where our faith should rest?Join me as we think biblically, evaluate the evidence, and respond with both confidence and discernment.

In this episode, we examine the most unbelievable claim in Christianity and the evidence behind it. Looking at widely accepted historical facts, we explore what even skeptical scholars agree happened—and then test the most common explanations to come to a conclusion.

What makes Holy Week the most important week in human history?In this episode of the Mamapologist, we walk step-by-step through the final week of Jesus’ life—from Palm Sunday to the crucifixion—and explore how each moment fulfills specific Old Testament prophecies with stunning precision. Was it all coincidence… or was it divinely orchestrated?

How should Christians think about marijuana? Is it ever okay to smoke weed? And is it really the same as alcohol?In this episode of The Mamapologist, we take a biblical look at one of today’s most common and controversial questions: marijuana use. As legalization spreads across the U.S., many believers are asking how to think about THC, sobriety, and personal freedom through a biblical lens.This episode isn’t about legalism—it’s about thinking biblically, living wisely, and honoring Christ with our bodies and minds.Whether this is a personal struggle or just a question you’ve wondered about, this conversation will help you navigate it with clarity and conviction.

What do Latter-day Saints actually believe—and how does that compare to historic Christianity?This week on the Mamapologist, Jennifer is joined by Kyle Beshears to explore the key differences between traditional Christian theology and the teachings of the LDS Church. Together they unpack important questions about scripture, revelation, and salvation, and why these differences matter.In this episode we discuss:• The LDS view of scripture—including the Book of Mormon and other writings alongside the Bible• The concept of continuing revelation and the role of a modern prophet in the LDS Church• How the LDS understanding of salvation and exaltation compares with the biblical gospel of grace• Why historic Christianity holds to the closed canon of Scripture• Practical ways Christians can have thoughtful, respectful conversations with Latter-day SaintsWhether you’ve had missionaries knock on your door, have LDS friends or family, or simply want to understand the theological differences, this episode will help you think clearly and engage the conversation with both truth and compassion.Listen in as we ask: Are these two traditions simply different denominations—or fundamentally different gospels?

Texas State Representative James Talarico has gained attention for presenting himself as a Christian while making bold claims about what the Bible supposedly teaches about abortion, sexuality, and even the nature of God. But do those claims actually hold up when we look carefully at Scripture?In this episode of The Mamapologist, we examine several of Talarico’s most widely shared arguments—including the idea that life begins with the “breath of life,” that Mary’s consent supports abortion rights, that God is non-binary, and that the Bible doesn’t address homosexuality. We look at the passages he references, explore the context of those scriptures, and compare them with the broader teaching of the Bible.More importantly, this conversation highlights why biblical literacy matters. When Christians don’t know Scripture well, it becomes much easier for verses to be taken out of context or reshaped to fit modern ideas. But when we understand the full story of the Bible, we can recognize the difference between what Scripture actually says and what people claim it says.If you care about truth, thoughtful faith, and learning to read the Bible more carefully, this episode is for you.

You can win arguments and still not be a disciple.So what is discipleship? It’s about becoming like Christ.In this episode of The Mamapologist, we explore what biblical discipleship looks like, why it costs something, and why every believer is called not just to follow — but to multiply. Are you being discipled? And who are you discipling?Listen now.

The Enneagram is wildly popular — but does it actually work? In this episode of The Mamapologist, we examine the history of the Enneagram, some of the psychology behind it, explore the Rainbow Ruse and Barnum Effect, and ask whether Christians should use it. Do we ground our identity in personality types. Is it a helpful tool for growth, or a persuasive illusion that feels more personal than it really is? Let’s look at the evidence.

In remembering James Van Der Beek, we celebrate the good man he was — thoughtful, honest, and unafraid to wrestle with life’s biggest questions. His search for God reveals a longing that lives in all of us. This episode honors that longing while pointing to the clarity and hope of the gospel. With humility and compassion, we reflect on what it means not only to seek God, but to know the true God revealed in Jesus Christ.

This episode of The Mamapologist tackles the claim “Consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy.” We explore what consent actually means in law and ethics, why consent applies to actions rather than biological outcomes, and whether consent can justify ending a pregnancy once a new human life exists. The episode carefully distinguishes moral responsibility from moral permission, addressing bodily autonomy, power imbalance, and the limits of consent when serious bodily harm or death is involved.

What are angels really—and what have we gotten wrong about them?From guardian angels to wings to cherubs and halos, much of what we believe about angels comes from art, tradition, and pop culture rather than Scripture. In this episode, we go back to the Bible to uncover what God actually reveals about angels: who they are, why they exist, and what role they play in God’s plan.

I used to be pro-choice, until one thing started to change my mind. In this episode, I share my journey from being pro-choice to becoming thoughtfully pro-life—not because of politics or pressure, but because of truths I could no longer ignore. What began as certainty slowly gave way to hard questions, deeper research, and an honest examination of what compassion really requires. This isn’t an episode about shaming or winning arguments. It’s about being willing to follow the evidence, challenge assumptions, and change when truth and conscience demand it. If you’ve ever wondered whether people can truly change their minds on this issue—or if you’re wrestling with it yourself—this conversation is for you.

Do atheists ever really become Christians? Does apologetics impact the faith of real people? Is our faith built on real evidence? Join me for an exciting conversation answering these questions with Michael Ray Lewis – former Hostile Atheist Turned Christian Apologist Filmmaker and his amazing new film Universe Designed. Make sure to visit UniverseDesigned.com to check out this film and contribute to more movies like this one.

In a world driven by breaking news, viral outrage, and constant commentary, Christians are often pressured to react before they reflect. In this episode, we talk about how believers can engage cultural and news events online without compromising their faith, peace, or witness. How do we stay informed without being discipled by the news cycle? And how do we speak truth with wisdom, humility, and love in a reactionary world?

Don't make the same boring New Year's Resolutions you quit every year. It's time for something new. It's time to BE someone new. Let's rethink how we approach our goals! In this episode, we dive into the importance of seeking God's strength and will in our resolutions, rather than relying solely on our own power. ✨

Is your New Years' Resolution to read the whole Bible but you've struggled every time before? Join the discussion on how to set yourself up to be consistent in God's strength, not your own, and why being in the Bible daily matters.

Was Jesus really the long-awaited Messiah — or is that a claim built on wishful thinking?In this episode, we step back from assumptions and examine the ancient promises, historical details, and unexpected connections that surround the life of Jesus. Rather than rushing to conclusions, we ask the question many have wrestled with for centuries and follow the evidence where it leads.

December 25 - was it chosen randomly? Did the church choose that date to take over a pagan festival? Join me for this discussion about how December 25 became Christmas.

This week I tackle a viewer question - Why do I celebrate Christmas. We take a two step approach - why do Christians celebrate Christmas in general, then why do I personally celebrate Christmas. Join me for a heartfelt conversation about why this holiday is so much more to me than presents and carols and all the wonderful traditions, but a personal time of reflection and joy as well.

Is the Christmas tree a pagan symbol—or a misunderstood Christian tradition? In this episode, we take an apologetics approach: What do the earliest documents show? What does Jeremiah 10 actually address? And how did a medieval ‘Paradise Tree’ become part of our homes? We’ll dismantle common claims, examine the evidence, and build a biblically grounded understanding of if Christians can faithfully celebrate with Christmas trees.

Apologetics is not just debating science stuff that we love because of how well it supports what we believe, but it’s also how we defend our faith in normal conversations with people we love and how to share what we believe while building real relationships. Let’s talk about how to do this well this week as we navigate the holidays.

Did the universe really come from nothing? Or does modern science point to something — or Someone — beyond time and space? In this episode of The Mamapologist, Jennifer explores what cosmology, quantum physics, and logic reveal about the origin of the universe. From Einstein’s equations to Stephen Hawking’s theories, to the biblical truth of creation ex nihilo, we’ll examine whether “nothing” can actually produce everything or if our faith has a better answer/

In this episode of "The Mamapologist," Jennifer DeFrates explores the foundational steps in learning apologetics. She emphasizes the importance of starting with a solid understanding of the Bible, likening it to knowing the real deal to spot counterfeits. Jennifer shares personal insights on how engaging with scripture has transformed her life and encourages listeners to make Bible reading a daily practice. The episode also touches on the significance of understanding core Christian doctrines and how they shape our worldview and apologetic approach.

Is socialism compatible with Christianity? In this episode of The Mamapologist, we explore what the Bible really says about property, work, generosity, and stewardship. From God’s design for economic life in ancient Israel to the early church in Acts, we’ll unpack why Scripture affirms personal responsibility, voluntary charity, and faithful stewardship — not forced equality. Join me as we think biblically about wealth, justice, and what it really means to love our neighbor in a world pushing socialism as the moral ideal.

What if prayer isn’t about getting what we want, but becoming who God wants us to be? In this episode of The Mamapologist, we explore the power, purpose, and peace found in real, everyday prayer — and how to keep talking to God when life gets loud. Because prayer isn’t a formula… it’s a relationship.

The Cosmological Argument was one that helped save my faith the night my husband died. What is this argument for God and how can you use it to share your faith? Join me as I break it all down for you. Suggested resources are I Don't Have Enough Faith to be an Atheist, God's Crime Scene, and The Case for a Creator.

Do Christians have a responsibility to be involved in politics? This might be controversial, but I think so. Join me for a thoughtful conversation about what that means for us as believers and followers of Jesus.

Navigating grief is one of the most important things we do as the hands and feet of Christ. How can we do this better? Especially when it comes to tragic loss and tackling tough topics like suicide. Join me today to discuss what grief has taught me and how to support your friends and family better in times of loss.

How can we learn how to have conversations that matter with the people who matter to us? We don't have to have all the answers to be able to start the conversations and share the gospel. But we do have to be ready!

Our country has reached a point where evil seems to have become the norm. How did we get to this heartbreaking place? Is there anything we can do? Will this be a turning point for our nation or the tipping point of no return?

Who is the Mamapologist? Meet your host Jennifer DeFrates. Learn how she discovered apologetics and how that knowledge saved her faith on the most traumatic night of her life.