The Marriage Cafe Podcast

When was the last time you truly laughed together? Shared a meaningful conversation? Enjoyed each other's company without distractions or stress?Tonight we're asking an important question: *Are you enjoying your spouse?*Marriage was never meant to be a relationship filled only with responsibilities, bills, routines, and solving problems. God designed marriage to include joy, friendship, laughter, and delight in one another.Has your marriage become too serious? Have negativity, criticism, or life's pressures stolen the joy from your relationship? If so, don't miss this conversation.Join us as we discover practical, biblical ways to restore joy, strengthen your friendship, and begin enjoying the gift of your spouse again.*"A cheerful heart is good medicine..." — Proverbs 17:22 (NLT)*Come ready to reflect, laugh, learn, and be encouraged as we rediscover the joy God intended for marriage.

Marriage Cafe Topic: You Teach People How to Treat YouIn this episode of The Marriage Cafe, we're discussing a powerful truth that can transform your marriage: you teach your spouse—and everyone else—how to treat you by the boundaries you set and the standards you uphold.Healthy marriages aren't built on control; they're built on mutual love, honor, and respect. When boundaries are unclear or consistently ignored, resentment, frustration, and unhealthy patterns can take root. But when you know your God-given worth and lovingly communicate your expectations, you create an environment where respect can flourish.Join us as we explore the importance of biblical boundaries, self-respect, effective communication, and how setting healthy limits strengthens trust, protects your marriage, and reflects the value God has placed on you.Discussion Question: Are you teaching your spouse to honor and respect you through the boundaries you set, or have you unknowingly allowed unhealthy patterns to become the norm?

Not every argument is about what's happening in the moment. Sometimes the real issue is unspoken hurt, disappointment, unmet expectations, or unforgiveness that has been quietly building over time. Hidden resentment can cause small disagreements to become major conflicts because the pain underneath has never been healed.Tonight we'll discuss:How to recognize the signs of hidden resentment.Why unresolved hurts keep resurfacing during arguments.How honest communication, forgiveness, and God's grace can break the cycle of bitterness.Practical, biblical steps to restore trust, peace, and emotional intimacy in your marriage.Key Scripture: Ephesians 4:31-32 (NLT)"Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you."Join us as we learn how healing hidden wounds can transform the way we communicate, resolve conflict, and love one another God's way.

Thou Shall Not Commit Adultery, I think the most interesting angle is not the affair itself, but the tension between public ministry, private sin, accountability, and redemption.The movie follows a Christian author and influencer whose affair is exposed through blackmail, forcing her to choose between protecting her reputation and facing the truth. Join us tonight for this candid conversation and questions to follow.

Growth is one of the clearest signs of a healthy relationship. In this powerful episode of The Marriage Cafe, we are diving into an honest conversation about what it means for a partner to truly add value to your life emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and purposefully.Are you both growing together, or has the relationship become stagnant? Does your partner inspire you to become better, pursue healing, strengthen your faith, and walk in purpose? Or are you carrying the weight of the relationship alone?Join Dr. Loretta Pittman and Dr. William Pittman as they unpack the difference between a relationship that drains you and one that develops you. We will discuss:Signs of healthy growth in marriageHow couples sharpen and strengthen one anotherThe importance of emotional, spiritual, and financial valueWhat happens when one partner refuses to growHow to build a relationship rooted in purpose, accountability, and covenantThis conversation will challenge couples to examine whether their relationship is producing fruit, maturity, peace, and progress — or simply surviving on routine.

What is the true difference between a *covenant marriage* and a **conventional marriage**—and why does understanding that difference matter? In this powerful episode of *The Marriage Cafe*, we explore the foundation, commitment, expectations, and spiritual meaning behind both types of marriage. We will discuss the “rules” that shape each union—from legal commitments and grounds for divorce to biblical principles of love, sacrifice, accountability, and lifelong covenant.Is marriage simply a contract between two people—or is it a sacred covenant before God?Join us for an honest and eye-opening conversation as we unpack how culture defines marriage, how Scripture defines covenant, and what couples need to understand to build a union that lasts. Whether you are dating, engaged, married, or helping others strengthen their marriage, this discussion will challenge perspectives and offer wisdom for creating a relationship built on truth, commitment, and unity.*At The Marriage Cafe, we don’t just talk about marriage—we talk about building marriages that endure.*

Crisis to Covenant is a safe and transformative space where real-life struggles meet God’s restoring power. This Marriage Café experience addresses the hard truths many face but few talk about—divorce, suicidal thoughts, life-altering decisions, DUIs, and domestic violence—through the lens of faith, accountability, and healing.

In the Kingdom of God, marriage is not just a legal or emotional bond—it’s a spiritual covenant established by God. That means both husband and wife have God-given rights, responsibilities, and privileges rooted in Scripture.

Marriage is a journey made up of seasons, and each season reveals something new about love, commitment, and growth. In this teaching, we will walk through the six stages of marriage to help you identify where you are as a couple and understand what God may be doing in your relationship.We will explore the excitement of the honeymoon stage, where love feels effortless and full of joy. Then we will move into the reality stage, where differences begin to surface and expectations are tested. From there, we will address the unsatisfied stage, a critical point where frustration and disappointment can either divide or refine the relationship.As we continue, we will uncover the growth and learning stage, where couples begin to develop deeper understanding, communication, and intentional love. This leads into the stable love stage, where peace, partnership, and consistency take root. Finally, we will explore the deep love stage—a powerful place of unity, spiritual connection, and enduring commitment that reflects God’s design for marriage.Take this journey with us as you reflect, evaluate, and strengthen your marriage, discovering not only where you are, but how to grow into the fullness of love God intended.

Marriage is not only a covenant of love but also a partnership of spiritual leadership. In this podcast episode, we explore the powerful connection between marriage and leadership and why choosing the right person to lead beside you—or lead your family—is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.Through biblical wisdom and practical insight, we discuss how godly leadership brings unity, direction, and spiritual covering to a marriage. You will learn how to recognize the character, humility, and spiritual maturity required for healthy leadership in a relationship, and why following God’s guidance is essential when discerning the person who will walk with you through life.Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married, this conversation will help you understand the importance of alignment, spiritual vision, and God-centered leadership in building a strong and lasting marriage.

In this episode we will discuss what foundation (sex, lies, money, love etc.). You are building your life and marriage on. A strong foundation determines its strength

In this episode we are dealing with married, dating and bringing in someone new to your family and how they should conduct themselves in the family, friends' dynamic

Join us for an adult conversation about dating and dating sites.

This episode is about the union of marriage between a Man and a Woman and how it has changed over the years.

Tonight we will be helping singles know how to spot a Godly man and knowing the difference between a Godly man and a Worldly man. Also we will discuss how to get rid of emotional strongholds and how releasing what you hold onto emotionally will help your marriage and relationship.

In this episode we will explore what God means by Husbands love your wives and what that should really look like as well as what will happen when Gods love is not present at all.

In this episode we continue to explore why marriage is important to God and why it should be important to you. God made marriage and it was meant for a Husband and wife.

In this episode we will explore why marriage is important to God and the reason it should be be important to you.

We want to talk about our latest book and maybe hear some testimonies of how the book has helped their marriage.

This episode continues with the conversation on Family and Marriage. It's about how to get along with your family and various other topics.

This episode is about being healthy in your own mind, body and spirit before you add someone else to your life. Let's make sure we have done the work needed in our own life before we add a husband or wife to it.

In the final episode of 2025, we reflect on the year's achievements at the Café. We'll also dive into an insightful discussion on the difference in behavior between those who are guided by the Holy Spirit and those who aren't.

In this episode we will deal with couples talking about the difficult things we avoid in marriage such as money, sex, and mental health.

This episode is part of a three part series of the Myths people believe and what Gods word has to say about it.

This episode is about what people believe versus what the word of God has to say about.

The holiday season can be a beautiful time yet for many it brings feelings of loneliness, stress, or even depression. In this episode , we're talking about Spiritual Well-being in This Season, how to stay grounded in your faith, protect your peace and hold on to your core values when life feels overwhelming. Join us as we remind ourselves that God is our constant source of hope , joy, and renewal, no matter the season.

This episode is a continuation of the last two parts of the series Marriage Myths what we believe versus what the word of God says about it.

In this episode we are imparting wisdom to couple to help them in their marriage. Why are you so used to toxic relationships that you can't see when you are in a love relationship.

In this episode we are discussing the way in which adultery can destroy your marriage but also the consequences for even being involved with that kind of behavior.

This episode is about being truly rooted and grounded in God in your marriage.

In this episode we are breaking down what the bible really means about a husband loving his wife like Christ love the church. How does Christ love the church? what does that look like? Is that even possible today?

In this episode If you don't like what's growing in your marriage maybe you should take a closer look at you.

This episode is about building a safe space in your marriage for open communications and other topics.

In this episode we will discuss various topics on pre-marital sex, divorce and relationship standards

Let's conversate to night in this episode we will talk about, pre-marital sex, divorce, common sense and standards so join us.

In this episode we will explore what God means by Husbands love your wives and what that should really look like as well as what will happen when Gods love is not present at all.

In this episode we will explore the do's and don'ts of marriage and relationships and how God wants us to proceed in how we deal with different situations.

"Marriage Wisdom Moments on Love" is a heartfelt guide that offers practical insights and timeless wisdom to help couples strengthen their relationships. Through thoughtful reflections, meaningful tips, and real-life examples, this book inspires love, understanding, and deeper connection. Tune in as we explore the essential moments that keep love thriving and discover how small moments can lead to lasting happiness in marriage.

In this episode of The Marriage Cafe, we explore the vital topic of growth within marriage. Join us as we discuss how to recognize and foster personal and mutual development through the fruits of the spirit. This episode is packed with valuable information to help you grow whether you are a newlywed or been married for years.

This episode is about the choices we all make in life and marriage. God doesn't take away our choices he lets us have a choice.

Managing Your Anger in Marriage is essential for maintaining a healthy, loving, and respectful relationship. Anger is a natural emotion, but how it's expressed can significantly impact the quality of a marriage.

On this episode we discuss various topics and the latest vial video about the young lady having to repent for being pregnant.

In this episode we will dig into all that has happened sice the beginning of the year and this holiday season.

This episode is about being better parents so our children can show up better people in the world

he episode is about love being action, meaning showing love and the different kinds and ways of loving others.

This episode we will explore the intertwining of spiritual beliefs and interpersonal connections, delving into Kingdom Principle, Divine Authority, Supernatural Power and Covenant/Sealed Marriage.

Join me on my journey of transformation as we explore how God helped me beat diabetes and reclaimed my health. Through candid conversations we'll delve into the power of God and mindset shifts in making healthier choices and achieving overall wellness. Tune in to discover practical tips, inspiring stories and empowering insights to embark on your own path to a healthier, happier life.

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This episode is all about getting to know who you are and what you like and don't like. also we will talk about what Thanksgiving means.

This episode will deal with the importance of approaching sensitive issues with open and honest communication, Timing and setting, Empathy and understanding , conflict and resolution, boundaries and respect.