The Original Her Experience

“You don’t have to make headlines to leave an impact.” 🤍In this episode, we explore the story of Zipporah and the powerful reminder that significance isn’t determined by visibility. Through her often-overlooked role in Scripture, we’ll uncover what it means to be faithful behind the scenes, embrace God’s unique assignment for your life, and find your identity in purpose—not popularity. Because sometimes the people who make the greatest impact are the ones who never make the headlines. 🤍💎 Her Gems• You don’t have to be the face of the movement to be essential to the mission.• Just because your work isn’t visible doesn’t mean it isn’t valuable.• Some of the greatest impact happens in places where there is no audience.• Your obedience in private may be affecting people you’ll never meet.• God doesn’t measure significance the way the world measures visibility.• Your assignment doesn’t need a spotlight to have purpose.• Faithfulness in secret still carries weight in the Kingdom.• Stop comparing your role to someone else’s platform.• Your “yes” to God may be changing generations, even if no one applauds it.• Some people are called to be prominent. Others are called to be pivotal. Both matter.• The world celebrates recognition. God honors obedience.• You don’t have to make headlines to leave an impact.• Sometimes the foundation is more important than the spotlight.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonda.shantelle?igsh=aW42bzk0MmlpNXZo&utm_source=qrSubstack: https://substack.com/@theoriginalherlettersYoutube: https://youtube.com/@originalherexperience?si=QgzjplTHBWINZ_X9Tiktokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@sharonda.shantelle?_r=1&_t=ZP-95FtYMdJ6Wk

Sis, it’s time to stop lowering the bar and remember this truth: you were already worthy enough for Jesus to lay down His life for you. In this episode of The Original HER Experience, we’re unpacking the story of Rachel & Leah and the powerful lessons they teach us about worth, validation, love, and identity in Christ.From performing for affection to attaching our value to what we lack, this conversation dives into how easily we can settle, strive, and search for fulfillment in people instead of God.We talk about:✨ Raising the bar in relationships✨ Performing for love & validation✨ Leah’s struggle to feel chosen✨ Rachel’s focus on what she lacked✨ Healing from survival mode✨ Why your worth was already settled at the crossBecause healing begins when we stop performing to be chosen and realize we were already chosen by God. 🤍Her promise circle info: https://community.herpromisecircle.com/invitation?code=33JDDEGod never intended for us to heal alone. Community is part of the process. 

Not all gossip sounds messy—some of it sounds spiritual, reasonable, and even true.But as we see in Numbers 12, truth spoken from the wrong heart can still lead to consequences.In this episode, we’re confronting the hidden ways gossip shows up in our lives, how it contaminates our perspective, and how to shift from judgment back to intercession—so we can walk fully in our healed, restored identity in Christ.

In this episode, we walk through the story of Rebekah Genesis 24-27—not just as a woman in the Bible, but as a mirror.We see her first as an aligned woman:kind, grounded, serving from a genuine place… simply showing up where she was supposed to be.And then—we watch the shift.From alignment to control.From trust to manipulation.From identity… to wounds leading the way.This episode dives into:how unhealed identity shows up in motherhoodhow generational patterns quietly repeat themselvesand why what isn’t healed will always find a way to be passed downWe also talk about the reality that many women weren’t given what they needed either—and how that doesn’t excuse the behavior, but it does explain why the cycle continues.And more importantly… how it stops.Because this isn’t about shame—it’s about awareness, healing, and returning.Returning to who you were before the wounds shaped you.Returning to the identity God originally designed for you.If you’ve ever felt like you lost yourself…If you’ve seen patterns in your family you don’t want to repeat…If you’re committed to doing the inner work so it doesn’t pass through you—this conversation is for you.

Life doesn’t always go the way we planned… and Hagar’s story proves it.Used, overlooked, and placed in a situation she didn’t choose—yet still seen by God.In this episode, we talk about identity, being a giver in a world full of takers, setting boundaries, and how God will meet you in your running—but won’t leave you there.You are not forgotten. You are seen. And you’re being called back into alignment.

Ever felt like what God promised doesn’t match what you see? Sarah’s journey shows how waiting seasons can shake your identity, tempt you to take control, and still—God remains faithful.​Waiting tested her identity.​Doubt made her create.​God still fulfilled the promise.

The blue print AKA the bible shows us with Eve what happens when you don’t know who you are…You’ll listen to anything.You’ll accept anything.You’ll settle for things that were never meant for you.You’ll settle for a tree when you have a whole garden!

Take a drive down memory lane with me as a flash back to when I realized I hadn’t been operating as my true self.I let trauma… disappointment…the opinions of others…and even the behavior of others… shape who I was.

Somewhere along the way, life happened…and you became who you needed to be just to survive.But that’s not who you were created to be.The Original Her Experience is a safe space for the woman ready to heal from trauma, break free from survival mode, and rediscover her true identity in Christ.You don’t have to stay the version of you that pain created.There’s more—and it starts here.