The Pastor Wife Life

Send Ashley a text!Have you ever felt lonely while standing in a room full of people?In this solo mini episode (which is ironically about isolation 😂), I share just a little of my own journey of quietly pulling back, hiding behind the title of "pastor's wife," and believing the lie that she didn't need to take the first step toward community.  Be reminded that isolation doesn't always mean being alone it can happen while sitting right in the middle of church. If you've ever struggled to find your place in ministry, this episode is for you.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Welcome to Season 2 of The Pastor Wife Life! In this first episode, I thought the best way to introduce myself would be to bring on someone who knows me better than anyone else, my husband, Jimmy.Together, we share a little about our family, how we met, our journey through ministry, and the heart behind this podcast. We also talk about ministry life from a pastor's perspective, ways wives can encourage their husbands, and what we hope pastor wives will find in this community.Jimmy won't be a regular guest, but I wanted you to get to know us, our story, and our hearts before we dive into future conversations. Whether you've been a pastor's wife for years or you're just beginning the journey, we're so glad you're here.Welcome to The Pastor Wife Life!- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!After much prayer and seeking God's direction, I'm stepping into a new season of ministry. In this special episode, I share an exciting announcement about the future of The Pastor Wife Life and introduce you to Ashley, the woman God has been preparing to continue pouring into this community of pastors' wives.God's timing is so perfect - He knew exactly the path. As Ashley and I connected, it became clear that He had been orchestrating this transition long before either of us realized it.In our conversation, you'll hear Ashley's story, how she became a pastor's wife, her heart for ministry, and her passion for encouraging women who serve alongside their husbands in ministry. You'll also hear why she feels called to invest in pastors' wives and help them know they are not alone.I'll still be part of the Facebook group and you can email me anytime at my regular email.Thank you for the past 11 years! I'm excited to see what's next for The Pastor Wife Life!Jacque- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Survey for Pastors' WivesI would love for you to take a few minutes and fill out the ANONYMOUS survey I created. Your answers will help me make the PWP better!Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Trusting God in Every SeasonSome stories just stay with you—and this one will.In this episode of The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, I sat down with Shannon, whose journey took her from college in Canada to living in a dangerous region of Colombia as a missionary’s wife. In the middle of uncertainty, she experienced God’s protection, provision, and power in ways that forever shaped her faith.But what impacted me most wasn’t just what God did there—it was what came after.When Shannon and her husband returned to the States, ministry looked very different. The urgency and intensity were gone, and in their place were quieter, more ordinary seasons—ones that felt harder in a different way.And yet, God was just as present.Through the ups and downs, Shannon learned that faithfulness isn’t just about the big, life-changing moments. It’s about showing up in the everyday, even when it feels unseen.If you’re in a hard or quiet season of ministry, this is your reminder:God is with you there, too.You don’t have to carry the weight of expectations. You don’t have to prove your worth. Just stay rooted, stay faithful, and let Him pour back into you.CONNECT WITH SHANNONGrace Christian ChurchEmail Shannon: Shannontrigos [at] gmail [dot] comLINKS WE MENTIONEDOverhearing the Gospel by Fred B. Craddock- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Kristen Smith’s journey into ministry is anything but typical. She didn’t grow up in church, and neither she nor her husband were believers when they got married. But during a really difficult season in their marriage, everything changed. In a moment of complete surrender, Kristen cried out to God—and what followed was a powerful transformation in their lives, their marriage, and their faith.Just a few years later, they’ve stepped into ministry together, now serving in a small town in Kansas. What’s so encouraging about Kristen’s story is that she didn’t feel ready or equipped—she simply chose to be obedient. And that’s where so many of us find ourselves too.If you’ve ever felt unqualified or unsure in your role as a pastor’s wife, let this encourage you: God isn’t looking for perfection—He’s looking for surrender. When we say yes to Him, even in our weakness, He equips us for exactly what He’s called us to do.CONNECT WITH KRISTEN:Email Kristen- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Ministry is sacred. It’s beautiful. It’s powerful.But so is your marriage.In this solo episode, I’m sharing practical encouragement about protecting your marriage in the middle of ministry life. Because if we’re not intentional, the very calling God placed on our lives can slowly begin to erode the covenant He gave us first.Your marriage is not secondary to ministry. It’s foundational to it.If you’ve ever felt the pressure of leadership, the weight of expectations (spoken and unspoken), or the constant pull of being “on call,” this episode is for you.In This Episode, We Talk About:Why marriage must come before ministryThe subtle ways ministry can overtake your relationshipHow to guard your time together (even in busy seasons)Becoming your husband’s safe placeSetting healthy, biblical boundaries with the churchProcessing ministry challenges wiselyWarning signs that ministry may be overtaking your marriageWhy protecting your marriage is stewardship—not selfishness4 Practical Ways to Protect Your Marriage1. Guard Your Time TogetherIf you don’t schedule connection, it won’t happen. Protect date nights, family dinners, vacations, and simple moments of laughter and conversation.2. Be His Safe PlaceYour husband carries a heavy leadership load. Let home feel like refuge—not evaluation. Ask how you can pray for him. Listen without always correcting. Protect tenderness and unity.3. Set Clear BoundariesNot every request requires a yes. Not every text requires an immediate response. Boundaries are wisdom, not unspiritual.4. Process Ministry WiselyGuard confidentiality. Protect unity. If you need to process something difficult, choose one mature, trusted, biblically grounded person—not an audience.Warning Signs to Watch ForYou only talk about churchYou feel more like coworkers than companionsYou’re more patient with church members than with your husbandQuiet resentment is growingA Truth to RememberCalling cannot replace covenant.A healthy marriage strengthens ministry far more than constant availability ever will.Protecting your marriage is not selfish. It’s wise. It’s biblical. It’s necessary.LINKS I MENTIONED:Quiet Waters - Pastors Vacation Program - - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Life is hard, and rushing through it only causes us to miss what God is doing right in front of us. In this episode, Amanda Ball-Knight shares why staying present—especially in both joy and sadness—matters more than having life perfectly planned. This conversation is an invitation to slow down, embrace the moment God has you in, and learn to dwell fully in the life you’re living.CONNECT WITH AMANDAAmanda on FacebookCHECK OUT AMANDA'S BOOKSWorship Notes & Activity Journal for KidsGrowing With Christ - a 30 Day Youth Prayer Journal Magdalyn's Heart- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Have you ever felt like you’ve lost yourself somewhere in the middle of ministry?In this episode of The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, Jacque sits down with Carrie Brown — a pastor’s wife and licensed marriage and family therapist — for an honest, hope-filled conversation about identity, mental health, boundaries, and what it looks like to dwell in who God says you are.Together, they talk about:Why so many pastor’s wives struggle with people-pleasing and imposter syndromeThe difference between striving to meet expectations and resting in God’s truthHow faith and therapy work together in healingSetting biblical boundaries without guiltLearning to ask, “Who told you that?” when lies and self-criticism creep inIf you’re feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or unsure of who you are beyond your role, this episode is an invitation to slow down, lean in, and remember that God hasn’t lost you — and your identity is secure in Christ.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset with Encouragement ✨Encouragement isn’t small—it’s powerful.In Day 11 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset, we talk about how your words carry weight, how encouragement shapes the emotional culture of your church, and how a simple kind word can strengthen a weary heart—including your own.Today’s challenge is simple: encourage one woman. It’s inexpensive, but it makes a huge impact.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset Your Boundaries ✨Boundaries aren’t unspiritual.They’re biblical, wise, and protective.In Day 10 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset, we talk about why boundaries matter, how Jesus modeled them, and how setting just one healthy boundary can protect your calling, your home, and your heart.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset with Gratitude ✨Gratitude isn’t pretending things aren’t hard.It’s choosing to remember who God is, even in the middle of them.In Day 9 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset, we talk about how gratitude shifts the atmosphere, realigns your heart, and becomes spiritual warfare when life feels heavy.Pause today. Look for the small things. And let thankfulness anchor your soul.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset Your Vision for 2026 ✨Vision isn’t about doing more—it’s about aligning your heart with God.In Day 8 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset, we pause to seek God’s vision for you—not just for your church or your husband, but for who He’s shaping you to become in this next season.Reflection Questions: • Who is God asking you to become in 2026? • How does God see you in this next season? • What rhythms do you need to cultivate? • Where do you sense God leading you? • What needs to shift, soften, strengthen, begin, or end?Take a quiet moment, pray, listen, and write down what God places on your heart—a word, scripture, or invitation for the year ahead.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset Your Identity 💛Before the roles. Before the expectations. Before ministry ever felt heavy…You were a daughter of God.In Day 7 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset, we’re pressing reset on identity—letting go of labels, performance, and pressure, and anchoring ourselves in who God says we are.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset Through Rest ✨Ministry doesn’t slow down… but God invites us to rest.In today’s episode of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset Series, we’re talking about real, God-designed rest — not as a reward, but as obedience.Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is pause, breathe, and rest.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Resetting Joy ✨This isn’t a superficial joy.This is deep, steady, God-given joy—the kind that strengthens your soul.In Day 5 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset Series, we’re talking about resetting joy when ministry feels heavy, exhausting, or discouraging. Joy isn’t denial. It isn’t pretending everything is fine. It’s a supernatural gift from the Holy Spirit—and it’s still available to you.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Reset by Releasing Expectations ✨If it’s crushing you, it’s not from Jesus.In Day 4 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset Series, we’re talking about releasing the expectations—spoken, unspoken, internal, and external—that weigh so heavily on pastors’ wives.Jesus offers a yoke that is easy and a burden that is light. It’s time to let go of what He never asked you to carry.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Day 3 — Resetting Our Hearts for Scripture ✨Ever open your Bible and feel tired… distracted… or like you’re just going through the motions? You’re not alone—and you’re not failing.In Day 3 of the Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset Series, we’re talking about how to reset our hearts toward God’s Word—letting go of pressure, perfection, and performance, and returning to Scripture as a place of meeting with God.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Your husband carries: • spiritual burdens • leadership weight • unseen pressures • emotional and spiritual warfareAnd you are uniquely positioned to pray for him.⭐️ Day 2 of The Pastor Wife Life 2026 Reset is live — and it’s all about covering your husband in prayer.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!We're starting out 2026 with a 14-day series of mini-episodes! Day 1: The First Step in Hitting the Reset Button.A new year doesn’t mean a blank slate.Most of us carry the weight of last year right into January — ministry, responsibilities, exhaustion, and unanswered questions.Today on The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, we’re starting our 2026 Reset with grace — not pressure.✨ One truth ✨ One simple reset ✨ One moment to surrender your year to JesusIf you’re tired, hopeful, overwhelmed… or all three — this episode is for you.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Let’s be real—making and maintaining friendships as a pastor’s wife can be one of the hardest parts of ministry life. Loneliness is real, and finding your people isn’t always as easy as it sounds, especially when you’re living in a small town, raising little ones, or trying to navigate the unique role of being the pastor’s wife.In this episode of The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, I’m joined by Bre Dickson, who’s back to share her journey of learning how to build authentic friendships in the middle of ministry. We talk about expectations, awkward beginnings, the loneliness that sometimes lingers, and the beauty of finding community in surprising places—like with someone decades older than you, or at the gym with toddlers underfoot.Whether you’re in a season of rich relationships or struggling to connect, Bre’s insight will encourage you to give yourself grace, shift your perspective, and keep looking for the friendships God is preparing just for you.LINKS WE MENTIONED:Bre's previous podcast episode- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Listeners of the podcast can receive EARLY ACCESS and a 20% discount through June 2 to the PERFECTING THE ART OF PARENTING YOUR PRODIGAL course by clicking HERE! Use the code EARLY to receive 20% off!Today, I’m thrilled to welcome back a dear friend and longtime voice on the podcast—Leighann McCoy. Leighann is an experienced pastor’s wife, a gifted author, and someone who brings both deep wisdom and refreshing honesty to every conversation. In this episode, she shares about her journey of faith, family, and over 35 years of ministry alongside her husband, Tom, at their Tennessee church before stepping into retirement.But this conversation goes deeper than ministry milestones. Leighann opens up about her family’s story—including the prodigal paths her three children have taken—and how she’s walked through that pain with grace, hope, and unshakable faith. She also introduces her new course, “Perfecting the Art of Parenting Your Prodigal,” created especially for parents in ministry who need encouragement, tools, and a reminder that they’re not alone.Whether you’re parenting a prodigal, loving someone through a tough season, or simply seeking hope in the hard places, this episode will speak to your heart.- - - - - - - - -CONNECT WITH LEIGHANNLeighann's websiteLeighann on FacebookLeighann on InstagramLINKS WE MENTIONEDPERFECTING THE ART OF PARENTING YOUR PRODIGAL courseLeighann's books- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode of The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, Jacque chats with Kristen Cave, a youth pastor’s wife whose story is a beautiful picture of how God prepares and positions us for ministry. Kristen shares how she had always prayed for a ministry partner—and how God answered that prayer in His perfect timing when she met Kevin. Just six weeks after their wedding, they moved to Northern Kentucky and jumped right into youth ministry together. Kristen talks about the early days of ministry life, serving as a team, and trusting God through seasons of change.Connect with KayceeKaycee's websiteKaycee | FacebookKaycee on InstagramKaycee on PinterestDevotions on Diabetes: A 30-Day Journey to Anchor Your SoulKaycee's other booksLinks We MentionedThe Feelings Wheel- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode of The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, Jacque chats with Kristen Cave, a youth pastor’s wife whose story is a beautiful picture of how God prepares and positions us for ministry. Kristen shares how she had always prayed for a ministry partner—and how God answered that prayer in His perfect timing when she met Kevin. Just six weeks after their wedding, they moved to Northern Kentucky and jumped right into youth ministry together. Kristen talks about the early days of ministry life, serving as a team, and trusting God through seasons of change.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode of The Pastor Wife Life, Jacque chats with Amber Hays, a Mississippi pastor’s wife with a heart for gospel conversations and a bold story of obedience. Amber and her husband, Gabby, are part of Renovate Church in Cleveland, Mississippi—a college town where God is moving in powerful ways.Amber shares what it’s like to plant a church from the ground up, how her own life is being shaped through simple, Spirit-led gospel conversations, and how those moments are transforming their town, one student at a time. From the challenges of small-town life to the incredible joy of seeing God work through ordinary people, Amber’s story will both encourage and inspire you.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode, Jacque welcomes back Malana Bracht, pastor’s wife and co-author of Holy Spirit, Have Your Way. Malana shares her powerful testimony and the incredible journey she and her husband, Travis, have walked in ministry. From unexpected moves to miraculous provision, Malana's story is a testament to God's faithfulness and the beauty of stepping into His calling.Key Highlights:Malana reflects on her first podcast appearance and updates listeners on life since then, including pastoring a church in Oklahoma City.The unique challenges of being a pastor’s wife and embracing God’s call despite personal fears and uncertainties.The power of healing from past wounds and how it prepares you for effective ministry.Malana’s thoughts on revival, stewarding God’s work, and staying strong during transitional seasons.Encouragement for listeners to step boldly into their callings and trust God’s timing.Resources Mentioned:Episode 67: Malana’s First Appearance on The Pastor Wife Life Podcast (linked in the show notes).Holy Spirit, Have Your Way by Travis and Malana Bracht (available on Amazon).Connect with Malana:Facebook: Malana Smith BrachtInstagram: @malanabrachtAuthor Page: Author Malana BrachtChurch Website: Arise Church OKCListener Challenge:Are you ready to embrace your calling and step into what God has for you? Malana encourages you to seek healing, trust God’s process, and be prepared for the harvest in this season of revival.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Ministry life is full of both joys and challenges, and sometimes those challenges come from unexpected places. In this episode, Sarah Hutchinson shares how her faith has carried her through not only the day-to-day demands of being a pastor’s wife but also through one of the most difficult seasons of her life—when her daughter experienced a serious accident.Her story is one of perseverance, trust in God, and learning to find balance in the midst of it all.Walking Through the StormSarah’s life was turned upside down when her daughter was involved in a life-altering accident. As she recounted the story, you could hear both the pain and the gratitude in her voice.“It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever faced,” Sarah shared. “But it was also when I felt God’s presence the most.”The accident forced her family to slow down, reassess their priorities, and lean on their faith like never before. It wasn’t easy, but it became a pivotal moment in Sarah’s ministry and personal life.Finding Balance Amid the UnexpectedThrough the challenges that came with her daughter’s recovery, Sarah learned to balance her roles as a mother, a wife, and a pastor’s wife.“There were days I felt like I was failing at everything,” she admitted. “But God kept reminding me that I didn’t have to do it all on my own. He was with me every step of the way.”Her story highlights the importance of grace—not just grace from God, but grace for ourselves. Sarah spoke candidly about letting go of the pressure to meet everyone’s expectations and instead focusing on what truly mattered.Lessons from the JourneySarah shared several valuable lessons she learned during this season:Trust God’s timing. “Sometimes, things don’t happen the way we planned, but that doesn’t mean God isn’t in control.”Lean on your community. During her daughter’s recovery, Sarah experienced an outpouring of love and support from her church family and friends.Encouragement for Pastor’s WivesSarah’s journey is a reminder that life in ministry is not always predictable, but God is always faithful. She had this encouragement for fellow pastor’s wives:“Don’t be afraid to let people see your struggles. It’s in those moments of vulnerability that God’s strength shines through.”CONNECT WITH SARAHInstagram: Sarahhutch_40Facebook: Sarah Jan HutchinsonEmail Sarah: [email protected] WE MENTIONEDJennie Allen on Candace Cameron Bure's podcast Get Out of Your Head By Jennie Allen- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode, Katie Fordham shares her journey as a pastor's wife navigating ministry challenges and a life-changing Parkinson's diagnosis. Katie opens up about her upbringing, her call to ministry, and the unexpected trials that shaped her faith and reliance on God's provision.She offers wisdom and encouragement for pastors' wives facing church hurt or chronic illness, and emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, gratitude, and community. Katie's story is a powerful testimony of God's unwavering faithfulness in the midst of life's trials.In This Episode1. Overcoming Church Hurt:Katie recounts her experience with church conflict that led to her husband resigning, leaving them without income, insurance, or a home. She describes the deep hurt she felt and the journey toward forgiveness, saying, “Until I could forgive, God wasn’t going to be able to put us in ministry anywhere.”Her advice to pastors' wives facing similar hurt:Seek Help: Turn to your state convention or denominational resources for support.Rely on Community: Find a church home that will love you well and help you heal.Guard Your Heart: Avoid bitterness, as it can hinder your spiritual growth and ministry.Pray Together: Maintain unity with your spouse and seek God’s direction as a team.2. Living with Parkinson’s Disease:Katie shares her journey of being diagnosed with young-onset Parkinson’s at the age of 36, a diagnosis that affects less than 1% of the population in her demographic. She speaks candidly about the physical and emotional toll of the disease and how God has provided every step of the way.“If I can name it, I can fight it.” Katie reflects on how naming the diagnosis gave her clarity but also a new level of trust in God’s plan.Advice for Ministering to Those with Parkinson’s or Chronic Illness:Respect Boundaries: Understand physical and emotional limits, like avoiding physical touch during tremors.Provide Practical Help: Meals, transportation, and simply being present can be powerful.Offer Encouragement: Remind them of hope and gratitude, which can lift their spirits.Be Patient: Chronic illness can bring fatigue and mood changes; compassion is key.Her reminder: “When we find gratitude, we find our purpose. Be thankful in all things.”3. Encouragement for Pastors’ Wives:Trust God’s Plan: Even in uncertainty, God is faithful and provides abundantly.Seek Restoration: Whether through forgiveness or sabbaticals, prioritize spiritual and emotional health.Be an Advocate: Stand up for your family’s needs and fight for rest when it’s necessary.Pray Continuously: Cover your spouse and family in prayer as you navigate ministry challenges.Connect with KatieKatie on FacebookKatie on YouTubeEmail KatieCall Katie: (256) 525-6647‬Links We MentionedFocus on the Family - Counseling / Pastoral CareParkinson's Foundation - www.parkinson.orgBe sure to get the "Hospital Safety Guide"Davis Phinney Foundation - www.davisphinneyfoundation.orgEvery Victory Counts is an exceptional resource from Davis PhinneyMichael J Fox Foundation - www.michaeljfox.org- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!This is a replay of an episode from 2022, but it's so good I wanted to share it again to inspire you to get ready to celebrate the season!This week on the podcast we're getting really practical! Stevie Ciske is a master planner of all things (my description, not hers!) and she is sharing how she makes Christmas memories with her family throughout the month of December. The key is PLANNING!Not only does she share some great ideas, she's given us a few resources (see the links below) to help us do the same in our families. Whether you 're starting simple or ready to jump all in, this episode will help you prepare to make Christmas memories without stressing out!LINKS WE MENTIONEDStevie's Advent Planner- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode, Erica opens up about the incredible journey that led her and her husband to ministry, their transition into church leadership, and how they balance it all while raising four young children. From meeting online to serving the Lord in their community, Erica’s story is full of faith, fun, and an inspiring example of what it means to fully commit to God's plan.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode, I sat down with Robin Schmidt, an ambassador for PIR Ministries, to discuss the vital work they do in supporting pastors who have experienced forced exits from their congregations. Robin shares the history and mission of PIR (Pastor in Residence), a ministry founded to provide a safe haven and restorative process for wounded pastors and their families. Learn how PIR helps restore hope, trust, and a sense of calling to those who have dedicated their lives to ministry.Introduction to PIR Ministries: Robin introduces PIR Ministries and its mission to support pastors who have been forcibly exited from their congregations due to conflict, burnout, or moral failures.Refuge Churches: Discover the concept of Refuge Churches—grace-filled churches that offer a safe and supportive environment for exited pastors and their families to heal and restore their sense of calling.The Ministry of Presence: Robin emphasizes the importance of simply being present with those who are hurting, drawing parallels to the Jewish custom of sitting shiva.The Healing Process: Understand the structured support system provided by PIR, including support teams, affirmations, and the Pro-D assessment, which helps pastors and their spouses understand their strengths and areas for growth.Links We MentionedPIR Ministries Website: pirministries.org[book] Pastors at Risk - Dr. Charles A. Wickman [book] The Weary Leader’s Guide to Burnout - Sean Nemecek[download] Relief from the Pressure to Produce - Roy Yanke[download] When Christians Clash - Dan Borg[podcast] Hope Renewed If you or someone you know is a pastor who has been forcibly exited from their congregation, reach out to PIR Ministries for support and resources to help you heal and restore your sense of calling.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!On this episode of the Pastor Wife Life podcast, I’m chatting with Brandice Lardner of Grace-Filled Plate of Grace-Filled Plate.At Grace Filled Plate, Brandice guides Christian women to overcome the diet mindset and discover food freedom through a relationship with Christ. Despite knowing our needs are met in Jesus, many of us get swept up in worldly thinking and past struggles. We try to fix our food issues with tools that aren't from the Lord. While God may use various tools, it's ultimately about putting Him first.CONNECT WITH BRANDICEGrace-Filled Plate website[book] Grace-Filled Plates: Ditch Diets and Find Food Freedom Through God’s Grace - a 30-day devotion- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Today on the podcast, we’re diving into the topic of trials and finding joy with my friend, Barb Raveling. Joy is one of my favorite topics, especially as someone who has battled depression for years. When God delivered me from that, joy became incredibly precious to me because I had gone so long without it.The enemy often tries to steal our joy. While this is true for any believer, it sometimes feels particularly intense in the pastor's wife life. We face unique challenges as we love on God's people and our families, and the enemy's attacks can be relentless.Joy is not merely an abstract concept but a tangible experience that comes from walking closely with God through every trial. It’s a testimony to His faithfulness and a light to those around us. As we navigate our own journeys, let us embrace each trial as an opportunity to grow in faith and joy, knowing that God is with us every step of the way.CONNECT WITH BARBBarb's websiteBarb's Facebook pageBarb's InstagramFollow Barb on PinterestBarb on YouTubeLINKS WE MENTIONEDPhillipians Bible StudyBarb's other books- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Carrie Blackley is a Tennessee pastor’s wife who has experienced the mercy, grace, and love of God. Her story of coming out of addiction and into a life surrendered to Jesus to being the pastor’s wife is an amazing testimony of the power of God. You will love her genuine heart and be encouraged by her faith!CONNECT WITH CARRIECarrie on FacebookThe Highlands Church on Facebook- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In today's episode, Michele Cole shares her story of becoming the pastor's wife, facing infertility, and the diagnoses of autism and ADHD for her boys.Michele emphasizes the role of faith in the midst of difficult journeys and the importance of finding spiritual and relational support. She also gives great insight into way the church can be more inclusive and understanding, ensuring that all families feel welcomed and supported. If you are a pastors' wife and mom to kids with special needs, you will be so encouraged by this episode! And if you’re a pastor’s wife who wants to deepen her understanding of how to minister to moms of special needs kids, you’re going to get a lot out of this episode. - - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Kristen Smith has been married to her husband Heath, pastor of Alpha Baptist Church in Morristown, TN, for six years. They are parents to two boys, ages 4 and 2. You're going to love Kristen and her enthusiasm and joy for the pastor wife life. On this episode we talked about so many things and I struggled with giving this episode a title because it was all so good!  So get ready to hear about starting a book club in your church, transitioning from one church to another, her dad's part in Kristen becoming the pastor's wife, and so much more! (Maybe I should've called this episode: When Dad is the Matchmaker.)CONNECT WITH KRISTEN:Kristen on FacebookKristen on InstagramAlpha Baptist Church in Morristown TNLINKS WE MENTIONED:Avid Readers of Christian Fiction (Facebook group)Someone Like You - Karen Kingsbury (book)The Unlikely Yarn of the Dragon Lady - Sharon Mondragon (book)- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Transitioning out of one ministry and into the next is one of the most challenging aspects of the pastor wife life and it’s one that 99.99% will probably experience at least once. In today’s episode, Julie Lynn Ashley shares the lessons she learned when she and her husband were faced with an unexpected transition.From the initial shock of realizing change was happening to the eventual acceptance and navigation of the transition, it’s clear that Julie Lynn relied heavily on her faith and sought guidance from God throughout the journey. She also talks about the value of having a “Jill” in your life.Her reflections on the mistakes made and lessons learned offer valuable insights for others facing similar transitions in their lives. It’s beautiful to see how God works to redeem difficult situations and lead us to unexpected blessings.CONNECT WITH JULIE LYNNJulie Lynn’s website – JulieLynnAshley.comSign up for her newsletter – [email protected] WE MENTIONEDPIR MinistriesAlongside: Empowering Ministry Wives- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Lisa Dingle is not just a pastor’s wife and mom, she is also the program supervisor for a social services program with a master’s degree in psychology. In today’s episode, Lisa shares her story of finding herself and her then-fiance (and spoiler alert: now husband) in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic pastor. Although it nearly destroyed Lisa and John’s relationship, twenty years later she is thankful for all that she learned about who God is through that season and how it propelled her into the mental health field where she is serving and helping others today. Lisa talks about recognizing the signs of toxicity and how to find healing as well as recommending resources to learn more.CONNECT WITH LISALisa on FacebookLisa on InstagramLisa’s church - Millville AssemblyLINKS WE MENTIONEDTherapy & Theology on YouTube (Lysa Terkeurst podcast)Therapy & Theology PodcastBoundaries by Henry Cloud (book)Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are (book)It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave you Shattered by Lysa Terkeurst (book)Forgiving What You Can't Forget: Discover How to Move On, Make Peace with Painful Memories, and Create a Life That’s Beautiful Again - by Lysa Terkeurst (book)- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!You may remember today’s guest from episode 96. Heather Creekmore is a pastor’s wife, author, podcaster, online course creator and coach focused on improving body image from a biblical perspective.In today’s episode, we chat about the cultural pressure on women’s body and how we can find a balanced and biblical approach to body image, food, and exercise. We talked the importance of addressing struggles with body image in our churches and how we can engage in open and honest conversations rooted in biblical truth.I know for me, I’m on camera all the time in videos, photos, and I’m on stage every week at church. It’s easy to be self-conscious and focused on how I look. Maybe I’m the only one, but if that sounds like you too, you’re going to love my conversation with Heather.CONNECT WITH HEATHERHeather's website - Improve Body ImageHeather's Facebook groupHeather's InstagramHeather's YouTube channelHeather on PinterestHEATHER'S BOOKSThe 40-Day Body Image WorkbookThe Burden of Better: How a Comparison Free Life Leads to Joy, Peace, and RestCompared to Who: A Proven Path to Improve Your Body Image(releasing April 2, 2024!) Aging Gratefully: a 30-day Devotional for WomenThis post contains affiliate links, so we may earn a small commission when you make a purchase through links on our site at no additional cost to you.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Angelene Garlinghouse is a missionary's daughter, a lead pastor's wife, mom to 6 kids, a teacher, and a published author. In this conversation, she shares the importance of understanding and embracing the truth in God's word and rejecting the lies of the enemy and how that helped her to walk in wholeness and healing in her own life.CONNECT WITH ANGELENEAngelene on FacebookAngelene's book - Becoming Who God Created You To BeLINKS WE MENTIONEDLord, I Want to Know You - Kay ArthurThe Voice of the Martyrs- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!As pastors' wives, we are often called on to offer comfort to those grieving the loss of a loved one. But what do we do when WE are the ones grieving? In this episode, I'm chatting with Kerstin Turner about unexpectedly losing her mom and how she walked through this season as a pastor's wife and as a mom.LINKS WE MENTIONED:Griefshare - Grief & Loss Support GroupsAdam Young's podcast - The Place We Find OurselvesThe PWL | Episode 110 - Ministering Out of Personal Tragedy with Karen AltizerThe PWL | Episode 135 - Lessons from a Grief Coach with Julie Lynn Ashley Homestead Recipes by Amanda Rettke (cookbook)- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Carrie Turansky is a pastor's wife of 45 years and also an award-winning novelist. In this episode we chat about ways to help our marriages thrive in the midst of ministry.LINKS WE MENTIONEDYNABAvid Readers of Christian Fiction Facebook group Carrie's books - The Legacy of Longdale Manor is her latest oneCONNECT WITH CARRIECarrie's Facebook author pageCarrie's Reading Friends (Facebook group)This post may contain affiliate links. You can read my disclosure policy here.- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Are you still finding your footing in 2024? Don't worry, it's not too late to set the tone for an amazing year ahead!In this episode I’m sharing the questions I asked myself on New Year's Eve to prepare for the year ahead and I’m inviting you to reflect on the highlights of 2023, acknowledge areas that didn't go as planned, and uncover surprising moments that shaped the past year.Discover how this simple yet powerful reflection exercise can help you gain clarity in various areas of your life – from relationships and family to personal growth and aspirations to church life.But most importantly, we’re inviting God into all of it. Allowing Him to help us process last year and step into a new year with purpose, joy, and freedom.What were the highlights of 2023?What didn’t go as you would have liked?What surprised you (good and bad!)?What are your hopes for 2024LINKS I MENTIONEDCarrie Turansky’s website- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In this episode, I'm chatting with Ciera Sanders, a young lead pastor's wife in Williston, South Carolina. You will love her heart for God, family, ministry, and her community! CONNECT WITH CIERACiera on FacebookCiera on Instagram @ThatSandersGirlFBC Williston on Instagram- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Bre Dickson is a new-ish pastor's wife and in this episode, she's sharing what her transition from the big city to a smaller town has been like. I loved chatting with her about her pastor wife life and hearing what she's learned. You're going to love her!CONNECT WITH BREBre on InstagramLINKS WE MENTIONEDThrive Ministry Wives Certificate Program- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!We're continuing the series with Shari Wenig. You might remember her from Episode 130. She is full of grace and wisdom and you're going to love hearing from her!- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Listen to the first episode in the series: Episode 137Our new YouTube Channel:The Pastor Wife LifeBrianne Henry's Previous EpisodeEpisode 36Stevie Ciske's Previous EpisodesEpisode 38Episode 83: How To Pray from a Leadership PerspectiveEpisode 113: Cultivating Gratitude in MinistryEpisode 129: Planning an Intentional Christmas- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Brianne Henry's Previous EpisodeEpisode 36Stevie Ciske's Previous EpisodesEpisode 38Episode 83: How To Pray from a Leadership PerspectiveEpisode 113: Cultivating Gratitude in MinistryEpisode 129: Planning an Intentional Christmas- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!On today's episode, I'm chatting with Cheryn Archer. She shares how her pastor wife life is going, how she handled church hurt, and where God is leading her in her journey.Cheryn's YouTube Channelshttps://www.youtube.com/@thehappylittleuke9432https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWEoFEPWGkWCOV9mXYxG6awYou can find all our audio episodes at http:/thepastorwifelife.com/the-pastor-wife-life-podcast- - - - - The Pastor Wife LifeBe my guest on the podcast! https://www.thepastorwifelife.com/guestFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thepastorwifelife/Connect with me: [email protected] - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!In today's episode, I'm chatting with pastor's wife and grief coach, Julie Lynn Ashley. We chat about what prompted her to begin this ministry, how it functions, and gives practical tips and resources to help us serve those who have suffered loss.CONNECT WITH JULIE LYNNJulie Lynn's website - JulieLynnAshley.comSign up for her newsletter - [email protected] WE MENTIONEDMollies BearsHope MommiesCompassionate FriendsGrief ShareNever Alone Widows- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!

Send Ashley a text!Karen Altizer is no stranger to anxiety. If you haven't listened to her first visit to The Pastor Wife Life Podcast, you can check it out HERE. In today's episode, Karen talks about the anxiety caused by the long-term affects of the pandemic on her church along with a personal family crisis that is ongoing. You will be encouraged by her story as she shares how she has walked through anxiety and found peace.Connect with KarenEmail: [email protected]: Karen Rice Altizer- - - - -Join the Private Facebook CommunityThe Pastor Wife Life group on Facebook is a private group just for you! We'd love to connect with you.Be A Guest on The Pastor Wife LifeGo to the FAQ page to find out how you can be on an episode of the PWP. I promise - it's painless!