PODCAST · health
The Pleasure Seeker
by Lydia Feldman
This podcast is here to remind you of your natural birthright as a pleasure seeker so you can go create your most vibrant, turned on life.
Episodes
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62. Why you should Erotic Dance (w/Allison Finley)
Energy Coach and Erotic Pole Dancer Allison Finely joins me to talk about the power of your own erotic dance! I’m excited to say she will be teaching in my upcoming salon: Better Sex in 60 Days!!! This is my signature program to help you get into your body, enhance your desire, and deepen your...
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61. 3 Ways to STOKE DESIRE
Desire can feel impossibly tricky, especially when that sparky, electric, grab-you-by-the-pants kinda D E S I R E disappears from a relationship. Here are three ways to increase your hot WANTING when sex feels like a chore. If you are interested in 1:1 coaching or joining my next group salon…
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The 8 Hour ReVAMP that will change your life...
Not fully sold on months of life coaching at this current moment? How about ONE DAY to get mind-blowing results in your s€x life? Desire that fuels your whole body. Rich fantasies that truly turn you on. A sexy bedroom revamp. A *pleasurefication* of your wardrobe. A lingerie overhaul & boudoir...
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60. WTF is "Courtesan Energy," Lyd?
What the heck do I mean by "courtesan"?? Ummm err, prostitute? Escort? Street urchin turned harlot turned glorified Woman of the night? Like, it's a good thing? Oh yes my friend, we are reclaiming not only this brilliant word & class of elite women from the gutter, But also embodying what it…
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59. The Power of Taking SELFIES w/ Davina Fear
Get good with the discomfort of seeing your badass hotness reflected back at you from your camera. Don't let this be complicated, take your phone, find a big window, and let the video roll and screenshot away after. In this episode, we talk about what makes for a fantastic, unique, and LIT selfie...
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58. Why Self Massage is Essential for Self LOVE & Sex! W/ Dana Skoglund
Join us today as I talk with Ayurvedic Yogi Life Coach Dana Skoglund as she talks about the embodied practice of SELF - MASSAGE! Self-communion of slow sensual touch can feel surprisingly vulnerable & intimate and has vast effects on health, skin, lymph detoxification, and sexual connection. The...
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57. The Creatrix Cycle - 6 stages & Getting Unstuck
Being a successful creative (that loves their work) isn't all sparkles and sunshine. It requires both delicate & hefty attunement to your energy & intuition. ❤️🔥Enter the Creatrix Cycle.❤️🔥 First, we need to understand what phase of the creative process you tend to get stuck in. And then we...
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56. Lust is as IMPORTANT as Love!
Lust? Sounds risky, sinful... animalistic. I know, I grew up drinking that Koolaid too. 💞But, before you're bound with the "eternal flames of love" you begin with lust. 💥It's the fire starter kit, complete with kindling, lighter fuel and a blow torch. Before there is trust, there is the…
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55. Fantasy is FOR you... and ME (submissions open!)
Fantasies hold SO SO SO much insight and potentiality for us... they contain wisdom, access to our deeper desires, and truest selves. Ya know, the heroine that has ALL the power, presence, and gets exactly what she wants. Here's the INVITATION: Curate your erotic imagination & start exploring all...
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54. Make MORE Noise in SEX! the whys and hows.
First check out my tattoo here on IG: @mrslydiafeldman = so rad! AND what I realized through this intense experience is that your voice is meant to enhance your life, Temper the perpetual pain & expand the immense pleasure! So what about s3x? Ummm whatcher saying is banshee scream and moan more?…
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BONUS: IS The Art of Self-Seduction for YOU?
If You Can't Seduce Yourself... NO ONE Can. The Art of Self Seduction is starting 2.7.22 and I have gotten lots of questions and curiosities regarding this program! Could this one-month pleasure salon be right for you?? YES if you want to: ❤️ understand and TRUST yourself to be in charge of your...
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53. Let Your DESIRE Scare You!
So often we don't even allow ourselves to imagine, fantasize and WANT what we deeply want... because it feels emotionally risky. But maybe that's a sign that you're tapped into something that actually really fucking matters to you (and this WILL require some growing pains or change). In this...
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52. Boozy Sex & Dry January w/ Jennie Juechter
This conversation all about boozy sex and sexy booze and snoozy boozy bluesy sex is perfect for the new year. Y'all doin Dry January?? Well in this podcast, I talk with Jennie Juechter, an Activatrix of Aliveness life coach who helps women check their over-drinking and eating habits. We talk…
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51. Creating a Pleasurescape for 2022
2022 doesn't have to be about willing yourself off bread or cranking out brutally consistent IG posts. Your resolutions don't have to feel dry, repentant, desperate, or *gasp* HARD AS HELL! In fact, it's possible your planning for next year (or next week) can feel delightful, salacious & opulent....
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50. When Fantasy and Nostalgia Hurt
Time to check your imagination!! Does it actually bring more pleasure and connection into your body and life?
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49. Creating an honest YES for Pleasure with Cassandra Anderson
I'm joined by my lovely and turned-on client Cassandra Anderson as we talk about her journey that started with TON of DIS-trust of her body and desire as broken and subpar. Now she uses her embodiment practice as a means to ALWAYS check in with her body for what she wants.... and trusts her…
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48. The Art of the FIGHT: How to Embody your Fury with Tosca Necoechea
When I talk about embodiment, I'm not just talking about feeling sexy and relaxed. I'm talking about befriending and channeling your BIGNESS. Your frustration and fury, sorrow and untapped desire... your uncanny power & truest self. In this episode, Tosca Necoechea and I talk about her work and...
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47. Embodiment to Feel Better (my process)
We usually think we need to DO something in order to feel better. Fix something, change someone, make more money, solve a problem...etc. I want to offer that no emotion is "bad"... in fact, we want to be able to feel it, understand WHY we're feeling it, and then let it go (FULLY). With a little...
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46. Pussy Activated? Here's a sneak peak...
I have a sparkling, amazingly intimate offering just for YOU, woman!! I have just released my self-pleasure Pussy Activation series, and it is sooo 🔥🔥! These 15min guided masturbation audios are designed to connect you deeper to your pleasure and orgasm (of course!) But even better, they start...
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45. Unlocking Your Erotic Dancer, Interview with Sisters In Motion SF
POLE CURIOUS? Join us for a fun conversation about the power of POLE and Erotic Movement. Today I’m interviewing Jen Pearce and Kerry Anne Aldridge, founders of Sisters In Motion, an S Factor dance and erotic embodiment studio for women in San Francisco. If you’re getting stuck in your head and...
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44. XXX Erotic Memoir - Part 1
Your erotic aliveness is 100% a part of you. Remember your fire. Remember the heat of your body and your past. In this episode, I asked listeners and clients to share their erotic memoirs and the invitation continues on for YOU to do the same. Remember Revel Write ... PS> This is a very explicit...
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43. How to Evaluate Sex
Was it good for you? I LOOOOVE helping clients create mind blowing sex lives.... so in this episode, I'll break down how to evaluate and recreate awesome sex you've had... and the meh or terrible sex you DON'T want to have again!
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42. Sexual WANT MATCH
What do you do when your partner wants DIFFERENT things than you sexually? We’ve ALL been there… clearly NOT wanting the same things in the bedroom and then wondering what the hell??? Is it him? Is he a weirdo? Am I?? In this episode, I’ll talk about what it means to have a Sexual Want Match, how...
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An Invitation! Erotic Memoir Submissions
Your sex life is better than a movie. Your full hot-blooded past has been racy, romantic, heart-throbbingly delicious, and utterly breathtaking. AND I invite you to REMEMBER THAT! CLAIM THAT DAZZLE! This project is for YOU to reclaim your erotic brilliance simply by strip-teasing down memory…
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41. XXXquisite Self Care & Creativity
I was recently asked about my self care routines and I thought, my self-care is EXQUISITE. My XXXquisite self-care (that is, incorporating my WHOLE self) requires me to quiet my brain and seek deep pleasure for my body. Here is my simple flow chart if you want to follow along with your own BIG…
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40. The White Hot Flag of SURRENDER
📣Callin' all control freaks! I see you. (And I feel you!) Let's talk about how the need for control and knowing the "plan" is a total dry, buzzkill when it comes to your sex life. Control is not sexy. It's based in fear and worry. It shuts down pleasure. It subtly (and not so sublty) whisks you...
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39. How to Flirt with your Husband
Ummm, flirting and marriage may seem like an oxymoron, but oh no no, it's a SUPER easy way to add way more fun and pleasure to your foreplay (which should begin immediately after orgasm to quote Esther Perel). Here are three easy steps to flirt with that hunky man (or cheeky wife). 1. Set some...
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38. HOT Sex Foods: Interview with acclaimed author Christine DeLozier, LAc
Wondering what foods actually help you get that rock hard sexy turn on? What foods ensure bigger orgasms? What foods zap your libido like nobody's business? Today I have on the podcast Christine DeLozier, LAc, author of Diet For Great Sex: Food for Male and Female Sexual Health. She breaks it all...
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37. Ditching the Binge w Renae Saager
I'm so excited to have Renae on my podcast today, she is a force of nature and a breath of fresh air in the emotional eating / coaching world. In this lively conversation we get real -- HOW do you start taking practical steps towards eating with less drama and loving yourself? If you want more...
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36. Food, booze and BIG ASS pleasure with PENNY GAMBILL
Are you getting most your pleasure and desire for food and alcohol? What in your life ISN'T getting fair "desire time" (aka where are you denying yourself bigger, splashier pleasure in life and settling "good enough"). Penny Gambill is a chef, over-drinking coach, and desire extraordinaire.…
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35. Cravings, emotional eating & self intimacy.
On the way to more intentional, pleasured eating, you may feel like HOT GARBAGE. Here's how I like to deal with removing comfort foods (and drinks) from my diet. xx
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34. Junk food and Solo Gourmet Sex with Jess Leroux!
Today I'm sharing a fun conversation with Jessica Leroux a chef turned life coach all about being present for pleasure and waking all of up your senses while eating. The sounds The visual delights The details The nuances of taste The smells The textures & temperatures The ENERGY... AND wanting...
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33. How to eat with more pleasure
Food gets to be a BIG part of our pleasure! But so often, food is complicated - what you "good" food you should eat and "bad" food you really want. Which all makes you feel like shit and WAY less pleasured. If you want a better relationship with food (that actually feels way more pleasurable,...
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32. Play is ESSENTIAL to great sex!
Play is 100% essential and crucial in your life (and sex life, duh). But why does it seem so hard and ambiguous lately? Too much to do, it's a waste of time, I don't know what feels fun anymore... the brain chatter slogs on. Here's a simple way to guide yourself back into a flow state for way...
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32. The Essential Sex Weekend
THIS IS VITAL. We're going to talk about why taking time away with your partner is SO important... and fun. But, if the idea of a weekend of sex has you feeling hesitant, we're also going to explore why and HOW to plan for pleasure.
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31. Good Girl Gone Sex Coach
This week's episode is a special one! A few weeks ago my colleague and friend Rachel Richards interviewed me for her podcast What Lights You Up. The conversation was so fun, uncensored, and personal I thought I had to share it here too! Enjoy a little snippet of my back story and WHY this work…
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30. Solo Tantra for Newbies
Tantra can sound intimidating. But fear not, you can do this and you will wildly benefit from these very simple tools you can start useing now... 1. Pause 2. Breathe 3. Connect This episode is intended to demystify the foundation of the Tantric Sex practice -- guess what, it's all about these…
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29. I F*cking LOVE You!
SELF LOVE comes in countless forms... but you can start with telling yourself these three words. No matter the context, remind yourself- I LOVE YOU.
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28. People Pleasing feels like drowning.
Being a people-pleaser is like wading in the surf at first. All the pleasing and lying and back bending soon leaves you underwater. If you're sinking, swim. Craft your boundaries, the things your willing fight for and rules to keep you afloat. Say yes to what you WANT. Make your waves. Be honest…
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27. What IS Mindful Sex???
I know, I know, there is a lot of talk of MINDFULNESS and meditation and zen-like spiritual perfection swirling about these days. And yet, sitting in the sun on a beautiful day, TRYING to be mindful can seriously be SO hard! So, no wonder the sliiightly more complicated arena of sex can sometimes...
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26. Micro Feel for Mindful Sex
Pleasurable sex requires presence... essentially it's the basis of mindful sex! Here's how to create a little check-in with yourself to allow your feelings (positive or negative), LONG before you hit the sack. xx
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25. Vulnerability is the Answer
To be vulnerable for any other creature on Earth is to risk injury or death. And guess what? Humans are creatures of this Earth too! The only difference is, we have the capability to differentiate actual danger from emotional risk. So, when we're looking to deepen our relationship, trust, and...
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24. Orgasmic Breathing
We all gotta breathe, but let's be honest, it's possible you could be getting WAAY more benefits from that air! In this episode, I guide you through a grounding breath (which helps create a physical CALMING in your body) and then an orgasmic breath (that will open you up to feeling more...
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23. How to NOT feel Touched OUT as a Mama
Here are three simple ways to reclaim TOUCH in your body and pleasure so you can experience WAY more pleasure than just toddler cuddles!
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22. Your SEX POWER in your brain
There is nothing good or bad, but thinking makes it so... And what about in your sex life? Could your brain have THAT much power?? In this episode, I explain how to use your own curiosity to DIG into what you can actually transform for yourself in the bedroom (without changing your partner one...
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21. Creating a sweet & soft Vday
I KNOW I know, Valentine's day is loved and hated. But guess what, you get to decide, just like any other day what you want to make of it. So, whether it's smutty and slutty or soft and sweet, you're IN CHARGE of your experience. Here are 5 ways to create a subtle, simple, and sweet day (and of...
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20. Becoming Sexy Part 3: 10 Action Steps
I talk a lot about mindset but here are my favorite ways to TAKE ACTION and change your life for the sexier. 1. Movement 2. Posture 3. Style 4. Beauty 5. Bedroom 6. Sleep Routine 7. Morning Routine 8. Fancy Surroundings 9. Dating your partner 10. Coaching As always, I would love to know how YOU...
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19. Becoming Sexy Part 2: Pleasure NOW
Becoming sexy is gentle. It's as simple as a slow breath in.... and a soft mmmmmmmmm as you exhale. Pretty easy yeah? Your unique sexy "vibe" & self-confidence comes from knowing what you want & what feels good. It's active. It's seeking. It's asking yourself what feels mmmmmm YES. Pleasure in…
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18. Becoming Sexy Part 1: Your Sex Brain
3 Pillars for Becoming a Pleasured Woman This January is a perfect time to bring more intention and impact to any goal you may have - particularly BODY goals like weight loss, exercise, meditation, or leisure. There are three pillars of becoming a PLEASURED WOMAN -- sexier, more confident, and…
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17. How to Plan Pleasure
Last week I spoke about creating some sex and love goals! In this episode, I tell you how to implement them on a granular level. xx Lydia
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This podcast is here to remind you of your natural birthright as a pleasure seeker so you can go create your most vibrant, turned on life.
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The Pleasure Seeker is created and hosted by Lydia Feldman.
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