PODCAST · health
The Purple Passion Project-Intimacy & Sex Podcast for Midlife & Beyond
by Dr. Stacy Friedman
When was the last time sex was hot as hell? If you had to think about it — you need this podcast. The Purple Passion Project is where midlife gets sexy again. Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman brings the real talk on low libido, erectile dysfunction, menopause, hormonal changes, mismatched desire, and the pleasure everyone in midlife deserves but nobody is talking about. Consider this your permission slip to want more — a lot more. Raw, unapologetic, laugh-out-loud-then-shift-in-your-seat conversations that will change your sex life. Hit subscribe. Your body will thank you. 🔥
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46. Going Mono After Poly How to Build Lasting Passion in a Committed Relationship
In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Dr. Diane Mueller—naturopathic doctor, acupuncturist, and founder of My Libido Doc—to have the conversation that millions of people are Googling in private: why has my sex drive disappeared, and can I actually get it back? Dr. Diane shares her own deeply personal origin story (yes, itinvolves pelvic pain and self-pleasure as medicine), breaks down the real physical, emotional, and relationship causes of low libido, and gets into one of the most fascinating topics in modern relationships: how to keep passion alive in long-term monogamy—and what it’s actually like to transition from anon-monogamous lifestyle into a committed relationship. You’ll learn:• The most common (and surprising) causes of low sex drive inwomen and men• How to create novelty and desire with a long-term partner• What it’s really like to go from poly to monogamy—and how tomake it work• Why ‘everything looks normal’ on your labs but your libidois still MIA• Practical tools to start reclaiming your desire today Plus, Dr. Diane shares details on her book Want to Want It andfree listener resources.Guest Bio & Links💃 Meet Dr. Diane Mueller, ND, DAOM — sexual wellnessauthority, dual-doctorate doctor, and the woman who turned her own pelvic pain journey into a global mission to help people actually want sex again. With degrees in both Naturopathic Medicine and Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine, Dr. Diane blends cutting-edge functional medicine with a deeply human understanding of what it means to live in a body that’s lost its spark. She’s the founder of My Libido Doc, host of The Libido Lounge podcast, author of Want to Want It, and a trainer of medical professionals worldwide.Her own experience with pelvic pain in her twenties—and thevery personal, very powerful way she healed it—is at the heart of everything she does. She gets it. Which is exactly why thousands of people trust her with their most intimate struggles.📚 Book: Want to Want It🌐 Website: MyLibidoDoc.com📺 YouTube: youtube.com/@mylibidodoc📸 Instagram: @mylibidodoc | @myromancedoc💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drdianemueller🎙 TikTok: @mylibidodoc📧 Email: [email protected]📞 Phone: (503) 890-5856 Host Bio — Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to make midlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in themedical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy — without apology.She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertisewith humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue.✨Everything you need is one click away:🔥Vibe Tribe — Dr.Stacy's private midlife community. Live sessions, courses, and conversations that go way beyond the surface. Try it free for a week.📖 Pleasure Playbooks — Step-by-step guides for real bedroom results. Because great sex doesn't just happen — it's built.💋 Shop catalog for adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Free 15-minute intimacy consult — let's talk about what's possible for your sex life.🎁 Free PDF: 10 Things TheyReally Want in Bed (But Won't Say Out Loud) — grab yours at drstacyfriedman.com👉linktr.ee/drstacyfriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy @drstacyfriedman on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and all social media platforms.
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45. How Finding Her Sexy Led Her Straight Into the Industry - Where She Found Herself
In this bold and unfiltered episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sexologist sits down with Miss Nicole Brooke for a raw sexologist talk conversation about sex, confidence, desire, and what happens when a woman stops performing for approval and starts choosing herself.Nicole shares how dance became the gateway to reclaiming her sensuality, how her experiences in the sex industry reshaped her understanding of power and boundaries, and why access to your body is never the same as intimacy. Together, they explore dating standards, sexual confidence, and the freedomthat comes when women stop over-giving to feel wanted.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why sensual confidence starts in the body, not the mind• How women confuse desire with validation — and how to stop• What sex work reveals about boundaries, power, and choice• Why “being available” often kills attraction and self-respect• How to raise your dating and sexual standards without guilt or apology• What it really means to choose yourself in sex, dating, and intimacyMiss Nicole Brooke is a women’s empowerment leader, professional dancer, and coach with a background in education, psychology, and coaching.After more than a decade of dancing and dating in Spain, Nicole reclaimed her sensuality through movement, which ultimately led her into the sex industry.She has worked as an exotic dancer and as a legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch.Nicole is the creator of Find Your Sexy®, now housed inside Sexy Sunday School, her modern house of wisdom focused on confidence, pleasure, dating, and self-leadership.Website: https://beacons.ai/missnicolebrookeInstagram: @missnicolebrookeDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex Coach & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to make midlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy — without apology.She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue.✨Everything you need is one click away:🔥Vibe Tribe — Dr. Stacy's private midlife community. Live sessions, courses, and conversations that go way beyond the surface. Try it free for a week.📖Pleasure Playbooks — Step-by-step guides for real bedroom results. Because great sex doesn't just happen — it's built.💋Shop catalog for adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅Free 15-minute intimacy consult — let's talk about what's possible for your sex life.🎁 Free PDF's: 10 Things TheyReally Want in Bed (But Won't Say Out Loud) and many more! Grab yours at drstacyfriedman.com under FREE SEX TIPS👉linktr.ee/drstacyfriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy @drstacyfriedman on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and all social media platforms.
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44. Swinging Lifestyle Uncensored: Libido, Menopause & Keeping It Spicy
Episode Description:What does it actually look like to build a sex life that stayshot — not just for a few months, but for nearly two decades? Carol and David, hosts of The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, have been together and active in the swinging and ethical non-monogamy lifestyle for 18 years. They didn’t stumble into a great sex life. They chose it, talked about it, planned for it, and keptchoosing it even when menopause threw a wrench into everything. In this candid, spicy, and surprisingly relatable episode, Dr.Stacy sits down with Carol and David to talk about what it really takes to keep desire alive in a long-term relationship — inside the lifestyle and out. From navigating jealousy and communication in open relationships, to the very realchallenge of low libido after menopause, to busting the myth that sex has to be spontaneous to be good — this conversation is packed with insight, laughs, and more than a few mic drop moments.In this episode you will learn:• Why they chose the swinging lifestyle and never lookedback• What healthy communication in an open relationshipactually looks like• The real truth about libido and desire after menopause• Why planned sex might be hotter than spontaneous sex• How to reignite the spark when it’s gone quiet Guest BioThe Sexy Lifestyle Podcast With Carol & David 🎤🔥Because Great Sex Matters — Listen. Learn. Live Sexy! Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy,healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast — the premier destination for those ready to trade the “status quo” for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David — a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging, and ethical non-monogamy — this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make theconversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.Find Carol & David: Instagram:@exploringthelifestyletogether | Podcast: The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast | https://thesexylifestyle.com Host Bio — Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex Coach & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to makemidlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy —without apology with sexologist talk.She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertisewith humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue.✨Everything you need is one click away:🔥Vibe Tribe — Dr.Stacy's private midlife community. Live sessions, courses, and conversationsthat go way beyond the surface. Try it free for a week.📖Pleasure Playbooks — Step-by-step guides for real bedroom results. Ethical non-monogamy? Check this one out! https://e.drstacyfriedman.com/product-details/product/69419b9478c766392929527a💋Shop catalog for adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅Free 15-minute intimacy consult — let's talk about what's possiblefor your sex life.🎁 Free PDF: 10 Things TheyReally Want in Bed (But Won't Say Out Loud) — grab yours at drstacyfriedman.com👉linktr.ee/drstacyfriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy @drstacyfriedman on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and all social media platforms.
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#43. When Libido Doesn't Match-Breaking Free From Duty Sex & Rebuilding Desire
Mismatched libido is incredibly common — but most coupleshandle it with pressure, silence, or frustration. 😬In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with intimacy coach Dan Purcell to unpack the truth behind “duty sex,” desire discrepancies, and what actually helps couples reconnect. They explore why different sex drives don’t mean something is broken, how obligation quietly kills desire, and practical ways to rebuild spark without forcing it.This conversation is real, relatable, and packed with tools couples can actually use. 💜What You’ll Learn• Why mismatched libido is normal in long-term relationships• How “duty sex” slowly drains emotional & sexual connection• The difference between low desire and blocked desire• Practical ways to close the desire gap without shame• Why playfulness is one of the most powerful intimacy tools• What a realistic “desire comeback” actually looks likeGuest Bio ✨Dan Purcell is a sex and intimacy coach dedicated to helping married couples build and maintain sexually vibrant, emotionally connected relationships. He is the Founder of Get Your Marriage On and the creator of the apps Intimately Us and Just Between Us, tools designed to help couples strengthen communication, increase connection, and bring more playfulness into their intimate lives.For over six years, Dan has coached couples through mismatched desire, intimacy challenges, and communication breakdowns — helping partners move from obligation and pressure to authentic, chosen intimacy.🔗 Website & social links: getyourmarriageon.com📱 Apps: Intimately Us & Just Between UsHost Bio 💜Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to make midlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy — without apology.She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blendingexpertise, humor, and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue.✨ Everything you need is one click away:🔥Vibe Tribe — Dr. Stacy's private midlife community. Live sessions, courses, and conversations that go way beyond the surface. Try it free for a week.📖 Pleasure Playbooks — Step-by-step guides for real bedroom results. Because great sex doesn't just happen — it's built.💋Shop catalog for adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅Free 15-minute intimacy consult — let's talk about what's possible for your sex life.🎁Free PDF: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won't Say Out Loud) — grab yours at drstacyfriedman.com👉linktr.ee/drstacyfriedmanFollow Dr. Stacy @drstacyfriedman on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and all social media platforms.
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#42. Why Men Struggle-Erections, Pressure & Performance Anxiety Explained
The Purple Passion Project is the podcast where sex, intimacy, and real connection are discussed honestly—without shame, fluff, or small talk.In this episode, Dr. Stacy is joined by Dr. Arthur Burnett, a Johns Hopkins urologist and pioneering researcher whose work helped shape modern erectile medicine.In this conversation, you’ll learn:• How erections actually work and why blood flow matters more than willpower• Why stress and performance anxiety sabotage desire and confidence• How masculinity myths quietly damage intimacy and relationships• What men can do when their body doesn’t respond the way they expect• How couples can stay connected instead of shutting downThis episode is educational, reassuring, and practical for men and partners navigating erectile challenges, pressure, and intimacy concerns.
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#41. Boundaries Are Foreplay-The Secret to Mind-Blowing Intimacy at Any Age
In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Laurie Handlers to explore boundaries as the foundation for extraordinary intimacy, why your best sex might still be ahead of you, and how to create desire that doesn't fade—even after decades together.Laurie shares her journey of finding her soulmate at 67, breaks down the 3-step boundary formula that transforms relationships, and explains why couples are "endangered" and what it takes to save them.What You'll Learn:• Why finding love at 67 taught Laurie what she didn't know at 27• The 3-step boundary formula that makes intimacy hotter• How people-pleasing kills desire and what to do instead• Why couples are going extinct and how to become extraordinary• What Tantra actually is (beyond the marathon sex myth)• How sexuality becomes a portal to healing• One 5-minute practice to reconnect tonight• Why your best sexual years might still be ahead of youGuest BioLaurie Handlers is a bestselling author, international retreat leader, and relationship visionary with over 40 years of experience in sacred sexuality, empowerment, and transformational education. Featured in the New York Times and on Bloomberg Canada, she's spoken before thousands and been a guest on countless podcasts, summits, and media platforms.As host of two long-running podcasts—Tantra Cafe and Sex and Happiness (15 years!)—Laurie has spent decades challenging taboos and inspiring embodied self-love through humor, honesty, and deep wisdom.Her current passion? Saving couples from extinction. After finding the love of her life at 67, she now teaches singles and couples how to attract, ignite, and sustain extraordinary love.📖 Author of:• Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy (International Bestseller)• Sex & Happiness Over 60: It Only Gets Better!🎓 Lead Facilitator for the International School of Temple Arts (ISTA) since 2008🌐 Website: lauriehandlers.com📧 Email: [email protected]🎁 FREE Download: lauriehandlers.comInstagram: @laurie.handlersHost BioDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected!💜 Grab your FREE guide: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won't Say Out Loud) at drstacyfriedman.com💋 Shop fun adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy consult at drstacyfriedman.com🧠 Try FLOW, a natural nitric oxide booster—get your FREE bottle here:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#40. The Sure Thing-How One Simple Ritual Can Transform Your Sex Life
Ever feel like you’re too tired, too busy, or just not “in the mood”? In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Elana Auerbach, author of The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Go From Frustrated to Fulfilled, to uncover how one simple weekly ritual can reignite intimacy, deepen connection, and transform your sex life.Elana shares how The Sure Thing began as a personal experiment to save her own marriage—and became a life-changing pleasure practice for people everywhere. Together, they explore how to get out of your head and back into your body, why “waiting for the mood” is a myth, and how presence and surrender create the conditions for real pleasure.Whether you’re partnered or solo, this episode will show you that desire isn’t gone… It’s just waiting for your attention.🧠 What You’ll Learn• How a simple weekly pleasure ritual can rekindle long-term desire• Why presence—not perfection—is the gateway to pleasure• How to get out of your head and back into your body• The real truth about “not being in the mood.”• How sensuality can be practiced daily, not just in the bedroom________________________________________✨ Guest BioLover. Mother. Writer. Mentor. Activist. Priestess.Elana Auerbach spent her early life on “the conveyor belt of life”—doing what was expected until it all fell apart. After leaving a life that looked perfect on paper, she began exploring sensuality and embodiment, eventually founding Sensuelle: A Woman’s Journey into Sensuality.Her upcoming book, The Sure Thing, offers the same weekly ritual that reignited passion in her own 20-year marriage—a simple, powerful pleasure practice designed to help anyone go from frustrated to fulfilled.🌐 Website: surethingexperiment.com📸 Instagram: @elana.auerbach💬 Facebook: Elana Auerbach________________________________________💜 Host Bio Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected!💜 Grab your FREE guide: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud) @ drstacyfriedman.com💋 Shop fun adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Book your 15-minute intimacy consult: drstacyfriedman.com🧠 Try FLOW, a natural nitric oxide booster—get a free bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free📲 Follow @drstacyfriedman everywhere for more resources, tips, and behind-the-scenes magic
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#39. Rebuilding Trust, Safety, and Orgasmic Power-From Trauma to Turn-On
In this deeply honest episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Veronica Lynn Clark to explore what intimacy looks like after trauma—and how healing the body can reopen the door to pleasure. This conversation moves from safety and self-trust to embodiment, sensuality, and ultimately reclaiming orgasm without pressure or performance.If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, your desire, or your pleasure, this episode will remind you that healing and arousal are not opposites—they’re partners.In This Episode, you’ll Learn: • Why emotional safety is the foundation of sexual confidence• How trauma lives in the body—and how to gently reconnect• The role of embodiment in rebuilding intimacy• Why orgasm is not about performance but presence• How partners can support healing without trying to “fix” it• Practical first steps toward reclaiming sensuality and self-trust👩💼 Guest Bio & LinksVeronica Lynn Clark is a trailblazer in personal transformation, intimacy empowerment, and somatic healing. With nearly two decades of experience, she has helped countless individuals reclaim their power, heal from trauma, and embrace lives of authenticity and purpose.A certified Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner, Intimacy Coach, and Transformational Speaker, Veronica is known for her ability to demystify complex emotional and relational dynamics, offering practical tools for healing and self-discovery. Her programs blend deep compassion with embodied expertise, creating transformative spaces where individuals feel safe to explore vulnerability and step into their fullest selves.Veronica is the creator of Body Temple Sensuality Training for Women and The One Human Experience, both global programs bridging embodiment, intimacy, and emotional intelligence. She also hosts the Liberate Your Orgasm Podcast and is the author of To Be Aligned and S.E.X. Boss. Her retreats and workshops—featured at CIVANA Wellness Resort & Spa—integrate somatic practices, mindfulness, and energy work to support holistic transformation.Website: www.veronicalynnclark.com/intimacy/coachingInstagram: @veronicalclarkPodcast: Liberate Your Orgasmhttps://www.veronicalynnclark.com/better-sex-less-drama-book-series💜 Host BioDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected!💜 Grab your FREE guide: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud) @ drstacyfriedman.com💋 Shop fun adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Book your 15-minute intimacy consult: drstacyfriedman.com🧠 Try FLOW, a natural nitric oxide booster—get a free bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free📲 Follow @drstacyfriedman everywhere for more resources, tips, and behind-the-scenes magic
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#38. Dating in Your 40s and Mismatched Desire: Sex, Intimacy, and Performance Pressure Explained
In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with sex therapist and single mom Keri Green for a grounded, honest conversation about dating in your 40s, mismatched desire, and why comfort matters more than performance in intimacy. Together, they explore how pressure, expectations, and silence quietly shut down desire for both women and men.Listeners will walk away with insight around:• Why comfort creates better sex than confidence or performance• How mismatched libido often reflects safety and communication issues• The impact of cultural expectations on men’s and women’s desire• How to reconnect with intimacy without blame or pressure💜 Guest Bio Keri Green, LMFT, CST is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist with over 20 years of experience working with adults and couples through intimacy and relationship challenges. As a single mom dating in her 40s, Keri blends professional expertise with lived experience to help people feel comfortable in their bodies, communicate openly, and reclaim authentic desire.Website: kerigreenlmft.com💜 Host Bio — Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected!💜 Grab your FREE guide: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud) @ drstacyfriedman.com💋 Shop fun adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Book your 15-minute intimacy consult: drstacyfriedman.com🧠 Try FLOW, a natural nitric oxide booster—get a free bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free📲 Follow @drstacyfriedman everywhere for more resources, tips, and behind-the-scenes magic
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#37. The Fetish Mind & Neurodivergence-Why We Crave What We Crave
In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacysits down with psychotherapist and Board-Certified Behavior Analyst Laurie Singer to talk all things fetishes, desire, and neurodivergence. From the psychology behind why fetishes develop to how neurodivergent individuals often experience desire differently, this candid and compassionate conversationexplores the beauty of misunderstood pleasure. Laurie opens up about her decades of clinical experience, her book "You’re Not Crazy," and why education and empathy are essential for a healthy, shame-free approach to sexuality.Whether you’re curious, kinky, or simply craving more understanding—this episode brings insight, humor, and heart to a topic that deserves both.Laurie Singer is a licensed Psychotherapist and Board-Certified Behavior Analyst who heads Laurie Singer Behavioral Services inCamarillo, CA. For over 20 years, she has integrated Behavioral and Cognitive therapy strategies to support both children and adults facing mental health challenges. Her first book, "You’re Not Crazy: Living with Anxiety, Obsessions and Fetishes," invites readers inside the therapy room to better understandtheir own behaviors and emotions. She’s currently completing her second book, focusing on resilience and endurance as a decorated athlete. Laurie is passionate about educating people on sexuality, neurodiversity, and emotional well-being.🌐 Website: https://lauriesingerbehavioral.com📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LaurieSingerBehavioral📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurie__singerDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real,and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected!💜Grab your FREE guide: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed(But Won’t Say Out Loud) @ drstacyfriedman.com💋Shop fun adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Book your 15-minute intimacy consult: drstacyfriedman.com🧠 Try FLOW, a natural nitric oxide booster—get a free bottlehere: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free📲 Follow @drstacyfriedman everywhere for more resources, tips, and behind-the-scenes magic. [00:00:00] Introduction to Purple Passion Project[00:01:10] Guest introduction: Laurie Singer[00:02:29] Laurie’s background and path to psychotherapy[00:05:33] Fetishes and neurodivergence[00:08:46] Case studies on behavioral challenges[00:18:55] Understanding desires in neurodivergent individuals[00:25:32] Navigating fetishes in relationships[00:35:16] Managing compulsive behaviors and masturbation[00:45:34] Support, education, and "You're Not Crazy"[00:51:57] Final thoughts and host outreach
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#36. How to Last Longer, Get Harder & Blow Her Mind Without Pressure
In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Certified Sexologist and Relationship Coach Kevin Anthony for a raw conversation about men’s performance, stamina, erection challenges, and the pressure to “get it right” in the bedroom.They unpack why performance anxiety is so common, how lasting longer is about presence, not pressure, and why ignoring intimacy leads many couples into sexless marriages. The episode also explores cultural and religious shame around sex and reframes intimacy as sacred, essential, and worth fixing before disconnection becomes permanent.What listeners will gain:• Why men struggle with performance and confidence more than they admit• What actually causes premature ejaculation and erection issues• How lasting longer improves connection and pleasure for both partners• What defines a sexless marriage, and why they slowly erode relationships• How shame and conditioning block desire and intimacy• Why sexual connection matters for emotional safety and long-term love________________________________________👤 Guest BioKevin Anthony is a Certified Sexologist, Tantra Counselor, NLP Practitioner, and Sex, Love & Relationship Coach with over a decade of experience helping men, women, and couples build deeper intimacy and better sex.With more than 20 years devoted to studying relationships and sexuality, Kevin has coached hundreds of clients, hosted 370+ podcast episodes, interviewed 150+ experts, and created over 1,000 educational YouTube videos. He is the host of The Love Lab Podcast and the creator of Kevin Anthony Coaching.Links:Website: https://www.kevinanthonycoaching.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kevinanthonycoaching/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kevinanthonycoachingYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Kevinanthonycoaching________________________________________🎙️ Host BioDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, she helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and create hotter, healthier intimacy without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨Stay connected✨Download 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (code PURPLE for 20% off), or book a complimentary 15-minute intimacy consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for resources and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can support blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement.💜Get your FREE bottle here:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#35. The Naked Truth About Midlife-Menopause, Erectile Issues & Hormonal Shifts
Menopause and midlife changes don’t just affect the body; they affect desire, intimacy, confidence, and connection. In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy is joined by Dr. Shannon Chavez, licensed psychologist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, and clinical sexologist, for an honest conversation about sex and hormones in midlife.In this episode, you’ll hear:• How menopause impacts desire, arousal, and painful sex• Why body changes can affect confidence and intimacy• How men experience aging through erectile and hormone changes• Why these shifts are normal and more common than people think• How couples can talk about these changes without shame or blame• Ways partners can support each other and stay connectedThis episode is about normalizing midlife changes and learning how intimacy can evolve instead of disappearing.________________________________________👩⚕️Guest BioDr. Shannon Chavez, Psy.D., is a licensed psychologist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, certified sex coach, and clinical sexologist with over two decades of experience. She specializes in sexual wellness, intimacy and relationship coaching, and attachment-based psychotherapy. Her holistic approach blends sex education, psychotherapy, and somatic practices to help individuals and couples reconnect to pleasure and emotional closeness.She has been featured in The New York Times, GQ, and Cosmopolitan and is a sought-after speaker and educator.Instagram: @drshannonchavezFree pleasure guides are available through her website.________________________________________🎙️Host BioStacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and empowering. Her motto: My passion is to help you create yours.✨Stay connected beyond the show✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman for tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.💜Looking for a supplement that supports blood flow and sexual health? Check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement.Get your FREE bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#34. C*ck Rings, Cardio & Confidence-The Future of ED Health
In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Dr. Elliot Justin, MD, founder and CEO of FirmTech, to explore the future of men’s s3xual performance and why erections are about far more than just s3x. This conversation breaks down the concept of erectile fitness and how changes in erection quality can be one of the earliest indicators of cardiovascular and vascular health issues.Dr. Justin explains why erectile dysfunction doesn’t happen overnight, how shame and silence keep men from getting help sooner, and how modern s3xtech is giving men real data about their bodies for the first time. Together, they unpack how pleasure, prevention, and performance can work together to support long-term health, confidence, and intimacy.In this episode, you’ll learn:• What erectile fitness is and why it matters before ED shows up• How erection quality is linked to heart and vascular health• Why nighttime erections are an important health signal• Common myths men believe about erections and performance• How shame and pressure affect male desire and confidence• How FirmTech’s Tech Ring tracks erection firmness and duration• What partners should understand about supporting men without pressure________________________________________👨⚕️ GUEST BIODr. Elliot Justin, MD, FACEPCEO & Founder of FirmTechDr. Elliot Justin is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the world’s first s3x tech company focused on improving men’s erectile fitness and long-term sexual health. His work centers on the connection between sexual performance and cardiovascular health, helping men recognize early warning signs before more serious health issues arise.A former Emergency Medicine physician and healthcare technology consultant, Dr. Justin is a serial healthcare entrepreneur who has founded and exited Pegasus Emergency Group and Swift MD. He studied at Harvard University and Boston University School of Medicine and lives in Montana with his wife of 35 years and their family.🌐 Website: https://myfirmtech.com📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC46J3ibyYyQNPBr5T58DpFg🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@myfirmtech________________________________________💜 HOST BIODr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in the sexuality field, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with Dr. Stacy ✨• FREE download: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud)• Sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off)• Complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwideFind it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow @drstacyfriedman💜 Podcast Sponsor Mention:Get a FREE bottle of FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement that supports healthy blood flow:👉 https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#33. Finding my Happy Place in Kink
What if midlife isn’t a crisis—but an opening?In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Sheryl, a 55-year-old single mom and business owner who redefined her life and relationships after years of monogamy. Just before turning 50, Sheryl stepped into the BDSM lifestyle and later incorporated swinging—discovering not just freedom, but a deeply committed partnership rooted in trust, communication, and consent.Sheryl shares her journey through marriage, divorce, widowhood, and dating, how she shifted her mindset around monogamy, and what it really looks like to balance parenting, work, privacy, and pleasure. Together, they challenge the myth that BDSM and swinging are about cheating or deviance, and instead show how intentional agreements and consent can strengthen connection.Topics Covered:• Moving from monogamy into BDSM and swinging• Midlife sexual awakening and mindset shifts• Talking to a partner about opening the relationship• Consent, safety, and privacy in the lifestyle• Body confidence and representation in BDSM spaces• Balancing parenting, work, and adult connection• Breaking myths about cheating and deviance________________________________________🎧 Guest Bio – Sheryl is a 55-year-old single mom, business owner, and woman who fully embraced her midlife awakening. After experiencing marriage, divorce, widowhood, and dating, she entered the BDSM lifestyle just before turning 50, where she unexpectedly found not only her passion, but her life partner. She met her partner at her third-ever BDSM party, and together they’ve built a committed, playful, and deeply connected relationship that also includes the swing lifestyle.As a full-figured woman and single parent to a teenage son, Sheryl openly shares the realities of balancing work, parenting, privacy, and an alternative lifestyle. She’s passionate about challenging misconceptions that BDSM and swinging are about cheating or deviance, and instead highlights the role of consent, trust, and communication. Her belief is simple: midlife isn’t the end—it’s where freedom begins.Her username on Fetlife: Leo_Sher, and on SDC it is WickedandLeoHost Bio – Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.💜 Bonus for your health + pleasure:If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement that supports circulation, energy, and sexual wellness.👉 Get your FREE bottle of FLOW here:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#32. Are You Addicted to Love? Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships
In this raw and revealing episode, Dr. Stacy welcomes psychotherapist and author Sherry Gaba, LCSW, to dive deep into the world of toxic relationships, codependency, and love addiction. Sherry shares her personal story of early trauma and how it shaped her romantic patterns—and what it really takes to break free. Together, they explore why we get addicted to toxic love, how trauma bonding keeps us hooked, and the first powerful steps to healing.If you’ve ever found yourself drawn to someone who feels like “home” but hurts like hell, this conversation will open your eyes and your heart.🎧 Listen for insights on:• How trauma shapes who you’re attracted to• The difference between love and love addiction• The sneaky red flags of codependent and toxic relationships• How to finally stop the cycle and choose healthy love________________________________________💜 Guest BioSherry Gaba, LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, and leading expert on addiction and recovery. She helps clients heal from codependency, toxic relationships, love addiction, and transgenerational trauma.She’s the author of Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love and a contributor to Chicken Soup for the Soul: Tough Times, Tough People.You may have seen her on VH1’s Celebrity Rehab, CNN, Inside Edition, or Access Live—and she currently hosts The Love Fix podcast.🌐 Website: www.SherryGaba.com📘 Book: Love Smacked🎁 Free Quiz: The Link Between Trauma & Codependency📲 Instagram: @codependencycurious________________________________________💜 Host Bio Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected!💜 Grab your FREE guide: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud)💋 Shop fun adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off)📅 Book your 15-minute intimacy consult: drstacyfriedman.com🧠 Try FLOW, a natural nitric oxide booster—get a free bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free📲 Follow @drstacyfriedman everywhere for more resources, tips, and behind-the-scenes magic
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#31. Poly Play & Passion: Exploring Jealousy, Desire & Connection
Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Coach, and Pleasure Educator Jennifer Marie Summers joins Dr. Stacy to turn up the heat on low desire, spicing things up, and life after monogamy. From tackling jealousy in poly relationships to building agreements that actually deepen intimacy, Jennifer keeps it real with humor, fire, and no-filter fun.💜 Topics include:- Why low libido isn’t the end of intimacy—and what actually works to reignite desire.- Jealousy in poly relationships: how to navigate it without killing the vibe.- The power of communication, agreements, and contracts in keeping passion alive.- Busting the myth that sex stops when you hit a certain age.- Hot tips, toy talk, and a special discount on coaching + products from Jennifer.Guest Bio:Jennifer Marie Summers has been educating, empowering, and entertaining audiences in the world of sexual health and pleasure for nearly two decades. As host of SIP with Summers, she blends expert knowledge with humor and real talk to make sex conversations fun and accessible. She helps women and couples reignite intimacy, overcome challenges like low libido, and embrace their sexuality at every stage of life—including perimenopause and menopause.👉 Connect with Jennifer:Instagram: @theselfmadedivaPodcast: SIP with SummersHost Bio:Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜Get your FREE bottle here: https://the20.store/flow-subscription-solo/?hop=drstacy69&hopId=a780eef3-6026-42ee-8a17-6e19e3fa16ef
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#30. Talk Dirty...Emotionally-Why Communication is the Ultimate Foreplay
In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with relationship coach and man–woman dynamic expert Greg Stephans, author of Build New Bridges: The Art of Restoring Impossible Relationships.Greg shares how communication, trust, and everyday connection shape the intimacy you feel in the bedroom and beyond. From turning conflict into connection to understanding emotional safety and rebuilding trust after it’s been broken—this episode explores how powerful communication is the foundation for both passion and peace.He also opens up about his own personal journey—healing relationships with his father and his exes—and how vulnerability became the key to true intimacy. As Greg says, “Sex doesn’t start in the bedroom; it starts the moment you wake up.”Whether your relationship feels disconnected or just needs a reset, this episode will remind you that desire begins with dialogue—and that emotional foreplay is just as important as the physical kind.________________________________________Guest Bio & LinksGreg Stephans is a relationship coach, mediator, and man–woman dynamic trainer who helps individuals and couples restore trust, resolve conflict, and create emotional safety.He’s a Certified Professional Behavior Analyst, Master Certified Trainer, and the author of Build New Bridges: The Art of Restoring Impossible Relationships.Learn more about Greg and his work at www.alignment-resources.com.________________________________________Host BioDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜Get your FREE bottle here: FLOW Supplement https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#29. Half the Man, Whole New Struggles-Healing, Trauma & Intimacy After Obesity
When you lose over 230 pounds, everything changes—your body, your relationships, your libido, and your identity.In this unfiltered conversation, men’s dating coach turned health advocate Frank Kermit joins Dr. Stacy to share the raw truth about sex, intimacy, and love after massive weight loss. From his battle with diabetes to his upcoming reconstructive surgery, Frank opens up about how healing his body forced him to face old trauma, changing attraction dynamics, and a new kind of vulnerability in his marriage.This episode explores the emotional and sexual side of transformation—how to communicate through change, reconnect in a new body, and rediscover what intimacy really means when the physical layers fall away.💜 Support Frank’s journey:GoFundMe for Frank’s Skin Removal SurgeryRead his full story: FrankTalks.com/obese-recovery________________________________________👤 Guest Bio & LinksFrank Kermit is a former men’s dating coach who shifted focus from helping others find love to saving his own life. In April 2020, he weighed 460 pounds, was diagnosed with diabetes, and could barely walk. Five years later, he’s down 230 pounds, his diabetes is in remission, and he’s preparing for reconstructive surgery to remove 30 pounds of excess skin.Frank’s journey reveals the complex truth of recovery—the emotional battles, the shifting dynamics of attraction, and the rediscovery of intimacy with his wife. He shares his story to inspire others to heal not just their bodies, but the pain beneath the surface.🔗 GoFundMe: Donate to Frank’s Skin Removal Surgery https://youtu.be/9EfQgYBKRyM 🔗 Journal & Story: FrankTalks.com/obese-recovery💌 Direct support: [email protected] (PayPal / e-transfer)________________________________________🎙️ Host Bio: Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜Get your FREE bottle here: https://the20.store/flow-subscription-solo/?hop=drstacy69&hopId=a780eef3-6026-42ee-8a17-6e19e3fa16ef
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#28. What Your Doctor Won't Tell You About Size & Stamina
Men are silently struggling with E.D., premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety—yet no one’s talking about it without shame, gimmicks, or quick fixes. That changes today.In this bold and unfiltered conversation, Dr. Stacy sits down with Sam Itshaki (aka Mr. Get Bigger Now)—CEO of the legendary Dr. Joel Kaplan Company. Sam has helped over 100,000 men improve their sexual health, confidence, and performance without pills or surgery.We cover:🔥 The #1 lie men believe about male enhancement🔥 How penis pumps actually work (and why they’re like exercise for the penis)🔥 Why E.D., PE, and performance anxiety are still so taboo—and how that silence hurts men and relationships🔥 The role of supplements—what’s hype vs. what helps🔥 How partners can support men without adding pressure or shameThis is raw talk about blood flow, confidence, and manhood—without the snake oil. Whether you’re a man wanting answers or a partner wanting to understand, this episode delivers the truth doctors don’t always tell you.👉 Subscribe, share, and tune in for the truth about men’s performance—no shame, no gimmicks, just results.________________________________________👤 Guest Bio — Sam ItshakiSam Itshaki (aka Mr. Get Bigger Now) is the CEO and co-owner of the Dr. Joel Kaplan Company, a global leader in men’s sexual health and performance solutions. Over the past decade, Sam has helped more than 100,000 men around the world naturally improve their sexual performance, confidence, and overall well-being—without pills, surgery, or gimmicks.After years of personal frustration and misinformation in the male enhancement industry, Sam turned his experience into a mission: to bring honesty, science, and real results back into conversations about men’s sexual health. Through his bold, no-BS approach, Sam makes it safe for men to talk about performance, confidence, and size without shame.💻 Learn more or connect: getbiggernow.com📸 Follow on Instagram: @MrGetBiggerNow________________________________________💜 Host Bio — Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ “My passion is to help you create yours.” ✨💜 Stay connected with her beyond the show!Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜Get your FREE bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#27. Depth Healing & Sexual Trauma-Breaking the Chains of the Past
What if the key to healing sexual trauma and reclaiming intimacy wasn’t just therapy or time—but rewiring the subconscious mind itself?In this deeply moving and scientifically fascinating episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Dr. Grant “Dr. G” Kruhly, founder of Depth Healing, to explore how quantum energy, morphic fields, and divine consciousness can transform trauma at its root.They unpack how childhood sexual abuse shapes adult intimacy, what it means to clear subconscious “downloads,” and how techniques like HeartMath’s heart coherence and Deeksha blessing can help survivors rebuild trust, self-love, and connection in their relationships.This conversation blends science, spirit, and healing in a way that gives hope to anyone ready to move from pain to possibility.________________________________________Guest Bio & Links:Dr. Grant “Dr. G” Kruhly is the founder of Depth Healing and a pioneer in Quantum Energy Healing. With over five decades of experience in martial arts, meditation, and spiritual study, Dr. G helps clients across the globe clear deep subconscious blockages that prevent emotional and sexual freedom.His groundbreaking approach combines applied quantum physics, morphic field physics, and divine energy transmission, producing transformative results in health, relationships, and self-identity. A trained chiropractic physician with honors in Human Kinetics and Psychology, Dr. G has been featured as co-host of The Radical Man Series and is the author of WANT MORE.📚 Learn more: https://depthhealing.org💫 Follow / Support: The Heart Math Institute — https://heartmath.org________________________________________Host Bio:Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show!Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on all social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜Get your FREE bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#26. Marriage on the Brink? Why All Hope Isn't Lost
It Only Takes One: How to Save a Marriage When You Feel Like You’re the Only One FightingWhat if your marriage could still be saved — even if your partner says it’s over?Relationship expert Larry Bilotta spent 27 years in a loveless marriage before discovering a mindset breakthrough that transformed everything. He’s living proof that it only takes one to change the entire relationship dynamic.In this unfiltered, empowering episode, Larry and Dr. Stacy dive into:💥 The truth about midlife crisis and why it wrecks even “good” marriages💥 What the Chaos Kid Phenomenon really is — and how it silently sabotages love💥 How betrayal patterns can actually be passed down through family💥 How to rebuild connection and desire when your partner has checked outIf you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work to keep love alive, this episode gives you permission to take your power back — and maybe save your marriage in the process.🎧 Listen now on The Purple Passion Project — where we talk real love, raw truth, and the passion that refuses to quit.👤 GUEST BIO – Larry Bilotta is a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker specializing in midlife-crisis recovery and marital transformation.As the creator of programs like Marriage 101 and the Environment Changer Courses for men and women, Larry has helped tens of thousands of couples rescue their marriages, rebuild trust, and reclaim emotional control.After enduring 27 years in a loveless marriage, Larrydiscovered a life-changing breakthrough that saved his relationship and his sanity. He and his wife remained married for 40 years until her passing in 2019.Today, Larry continues to teach his simple, science-backed, and profoundly hopeful approach to healing relationships from the inside out.🌐 Learn more: www.larrybilotta.com and https://youcansavethismarriage.com/📺 Watch on YouTube: Larry Bilotta – Environment Changer💋 HOST BIO – Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project.With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected: Grab your FREE download 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.💜 Want to boost blood flow and performance naturally?Check out FLOW, a nitric-oxide supplement that supports sexual wellness.👉 Get your FREE bottle here: FLOW Supplement
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#25. Love in the Age of Apps-Self-love, Real Love & Everything in Between
Online dating doesn’t have to feel like a soul-sucking swipe marathon — ifyou know how to play it smart and stay connected to yourself. In this episode, Dr. Stacy chats with Jonathan Aslay, one of America’s top midlife dating and self-love coaches, about how to navigate modern love without losing your mind (or your mojo).From dating after divorce to decoding masculine/feminine energy and buildingreal self-worth, Jonathan gets raw and real about what truly keeps attractionalive — both online and off. Expect humor, heart, and a few truths that’ll make you rethink how you show up for love.💜Topics include:· How to find real connection in the age of swipes and DMs· Online dating mistakes that kill chemistry fast· Why self-love is the ultimate aphrodisiac· Masculine vs. feminine energy: myths, labels, and what really creates heat· Dating after divorce: rebuilding confidence and identity· How laughter, honesty, and a little self-awareness can transform your love lifeJonathan Aslay is one of America’s leading midlife self-love and datingcoaches. After facing an identity crisis following divorce — and thedevastating loss of his 19-year-old son, Connor — Jonathan turned his journeyinto a mission to teach others how to love themselves deeply and date withconfidence.He’s the author of What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?,a guide packed with spiritual and personal growth tools for singles ready toattract better love by starting within. Jonathan’s blend of wit, wisdom, andreal-world advice has made him a favorite among men and women navigating love in today’s digital world.👉Learn more: www.jonathonaslay.com📘Book: What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?📲Instagram: @jonathonaslayDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacycoach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project.With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years in sexuality, she helpspeople break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthierintimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women whoexperience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.✨Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (ButWon’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, andbehind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow,check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜Get your FREE bottle here: FLOW — Free Offer
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#24. What if Men Were Allowed to Feel? - Helping Men Reclaim Real Intimacy
In this powerful episode, Dr. Stacy sits down withpsychologist and New York Times bestselling author, Gloria, who brings over 50 years of experience to the mic. Gloria unpacks how our culture systematically robs boys and men of emotional freedom, resulting in intimacy struggles, disconnection, and an over-reliance on porn.They dive into how early parenting, societal messaging, andcultural expectations leave men emotionally paralyzed—and what we can do to change that. From fatherhood to masculinity to presence in the bedroom, thisepisode is rich with wisdom and deep truth.www.drvanderhorst.comGloria is a licensed psychologist with over five decades ofexperience working with clients ranging from preschoolers to adults. Her career began by supporting young boys often mislabeled as hyperactive, leading her to uncover how early cultural messaging blocks boys from accessing their emotions.She now focuses on helping men reclaim their emotionaldepth, improve communication, and foster deeper connections in relationships.Gloria is the author of the New York Times bestselling journal book Read, Reflect, Respond: The 3 R's of Growth and Change. Her work uses Internal Family Systems and Emotion Focused Therapy to guide men and couples toward emotional healing.She’s currently writing a new book exploring the dangers ofemotional suppression in boys and how fathers can help raise emotionally resilient sons—especially in today’s AI-driven world.Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex& intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternativelifestyles, painful sex, and LGBTQ+ intimacy. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social for more resources, tips,and behind-the-scenes magic.💜 If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW (nitric oxide booster).Get your FREE bottle here:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#23. Orgasmic Energy Exploring -Tantra, Pleasure & the Power of Breath
What if the secret to personal magnetism, creative power, and deeper connection wasn’t out there—but already inside your breath, your body, your pleasure?In this sultry, soul-awakening episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy is joined by the electric Hani Cheng—Tantra + Taoist guide and creator of the Sensual Liberation Program. Together they dive into the juicy fusion of sacred sexuality, breathwork, and energy transmutation.You’ll learn how to:· Reclaim your erotic energy as a tool for confidence and clarity· Use breath to regulate your nervous system and expand your capacity for pleasure· Harness sensuality to lead, love, and live with ease and powerWhether you’re craving more turn-on, more success, or just more you…this episode is your permission to explore. 🔥Hani Cheng is a transformational coach, Tantra and Taoistpractitioner, and founder of the Sensual Liberation Program. With over 1500 hours of coaching and more than 800 global events under her belt, Hani blends ancient Eastern practices with modern leadership, emotional healing, and creative embodiment.Her work empowers high-achieving individuals, spiritual seekers, and creatives to transmute erotic energy into purpose, magnetism, and abundance—through sacred breathwork, sensual rituals, and intuitive strategy.Website: Tantra Singapore MassageLinkedIn: yinghanc; FB: yinghan; IG: haniabundance Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering.Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.💜 Want to boost your bedroom blood flow naturally? Try FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement.🎁Get your FREE bottle here: FLOW Supplement – Click Here
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#22. Sex & the Science of Attachment-Unlocking Connection in Midlife
Episode Summary:Why do we keep repeating the same relationship patterns?What if the key to better sex and deeper love lies in how we were attached as children?In this raw and revealing episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Certified Relationship and Attachment Trauma Practitioner Bev Mitelman to dive into the power of attachment theory. From the bedroom to the boardroom, our attachment style influences how we love, communicate, and connect—with others and withourselves.Bev specializes in working with peri- and post-menopausal women navigating sexuality, self-esteem, and relationships. She shares the truth about secure vs. insecure attachment, how radical honesty can revolutionize connection, and why healing your childhood wounds might just lead to your best sex life yet.This is your permission slip to stop performing and start connecting—for real.Bev Mitelman is a Certified Relationship and AttachmentTrauma Practitioner and the founder of Securely Loved. Her work centers on helping women—particularly those in their peri- and post-menopausal years—rediscover confidence in dating, rebuild connection in long-term relationships, and develop healthy, respectful parenting dynamics.With deep expertise in attachment theory, Bev brings a unique perspective to sexuality, intimacy, and self-worth. She supports individuals and couples in navigating how childhood trauma and insecure bonding patterns can impact adult relationships. Her mission? Helping people connect authentically through the power of radical honesty—because we’re living in a world starving for realness.She works with clients individually and as couples, and also explores attachment in parenting and even in the workplace. Bev believes healing starts with securing the relationship you have with yourself.🔗 https://securelyloved.com/Host Bio: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex& intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real,and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.🧬 Looking to increase blood flow and bedroom confidence?💜 Get your FREE bottle of FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#21. Masculinity Unmasked - Sex, Shame & the Men's Group Revolution
Men aren’t broken—they’re just stuck playing by old rules that no longer work. In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with men’s embodiment coach Jason Lange to talk about modern masculinity, sexual shame, “nice guy” patterns, porn, erectile issues, and the real reason men’s groups can transform intimacy.Jason opens up about how men can release shame, feel emotionally safe, and reconnect with their authentic power—while women learn what the masculine truly craves.If you’ve ever wondered what men are really thinking about sex, desire, and connection, this conversation is raw, honest, and surprisingly healing.🎧 Tune in for:- The truth about ED, libido, and performance pressure- Why emotional safety matters for men, too- How polarity can reignite long-term passion- What every man (and woman) needs to know about healthy masculinityGuest BioJason Lange is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. A certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, Jason helps men drop into their bodies, release shame, and wake up to deeper clarity in their purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men’s group for the growth and support they provide, and through his work at Evolutionary Men he helps men build healthier expressions of masculinity, erotic connection, and intimacy.🌐 https://evolutionary.men📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolutionarymen/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@evolutionarymen🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@evolutionarymenHost BioDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download of *10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud)*, explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy coaching consult at https://drstacyfriedman.com.Follow @drstacyfriedman on social media for more tips, resources, and behind-the-scenes magic.If you’re looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow, check out FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement. 💜 Get your FREE bottle here: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#20. Costumes, Confidence, and Connection-How Cosplay/Role Play Transform Intimacy
The Purple Passion Project is where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Hosted by Clinical Sexologist and Intimacy Coach Dr. Stacy Friedman, each episode dives deep into sex, intimacy, and connection—because small talk is boring, and you’re ready for the good stuff.In this episode, Dr. Stacy welcomes Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones, a nationally recognized Sex and Relationship Expert featured in Playboy, People Magazine, Time, and Vice.com. With a PhD in Human Sexuality, a Master’s in Clinical Psychology, and certifications as a Sex Coach and Anger Management Specialist, Dr. Stephanie blends clinical insight with fearless honesty.Together, they explore how cosplay, role play, and power dynamics can become tools for emotional healing, self-expression, and deeper intimacy. From her experiences working in dungeons to her book Beyond the Costume: Finding Love and Emotional Healing Through Cosplay, Dr. Stephanie helps people let go of shame, embrace fantasy, and step into pleasure without apology.💜 Tune in to hear:How fantasy and play can heal emotional woundsWhy power dynamics can build deeper trustWays to explore role play safely and confidentlyHow to use imagination to rediscover desireGuest Bio — Dr. StephanieDr. Stephanie is a Clinical Sexologist, Intimacy Advisor, and Relationship Coach whose work has been featured in PLAYBOY, People Magazine, Time Magazine, Psychology Tomorrow, Self.com, Vice.com, Voyage LA, DatingNews.com, Eligible Magazine, Consumer Health Digest, Entity Magazine, and The Irish Examiner.She’s a recurring “sexpert” on The Teddi Mellencamp Show, The Christy Canyon Show, The Anthony Padilla Show, Me Time With Frangela, and Don’t Suck at Sex.With a PhD in Human Sexuality and a passion for helping people heal from guilt and shame, Dr. Stephanie uses a mind-body-energy approach to help clients build confidence, resilience, and authentic connection.📘 Learn more at stephaniehunterjones.comHost Bio — Dr. Stacy FriedmanDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years in sexuality, she helps people break taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame.Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE download 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and book your complimentary 15-minute intimacy consult at drstacyfriedman.comFollow @drstacyfriedmanIf you’re looking for the nitric oxide supplement mentioned in the podcast, get your FREE bottle of FLOW here:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#19. Male Loneliness Epidemic -What Porn, Men & Fantasy Reveal About Us
Welcome to The Purple Passion Project, where we strip downthe layers and get real about sex, intimacy, and connection. In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with Pepper Kat—award-nominated adult content creator, fantasy fulfillment expert, and host of the podcast *Spicy Spectrum*. Together, they dive into the raw truths behind digital intimacy, how the adult industry shapes desire and power, and why being seen and wanted is the ultimate aphrodisiac. If you’ve ever felt curious about what drives fantasy—or how to own yours without shame—this one’s for you.Guest Bio: Pepper Kat is an award-nominated adult content creator, hostof the bold and boundary-pushing podcast *Spicy Spectrum*, and the founder of *Design Your Dreamgirl™*, a custom fantasy fulfillment experience centered around personal connection, intimacy, and emotional exploration. A former news producer, Pepper brings a rare combination of insight, authenticity, and lived experience to conversations about sex, desire, and identity. She is known for her raw, thoughtful commentary on digital intimacy, taboo desires, and the emotional truth behind erotic connection.Website: https://www.pepperkat.com/designyourdreamgirlHost Bio: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of *The Purple Passion Project*. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in thesexuality field, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame. She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painfulsex, and the LGBTQ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨ Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (ButWon’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and if you’re ready to take your intimacy to the next level, Dr. Stacy offers a complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwide. Find it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow on socials @drstacyfriedman.If you are looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow that you saw in the podcast commercial, here is the link for a FREE bottle of FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#18. Body, Mind, and Between the Sheets -Why Asking Questions Is the New Foreplay
Episode Summary:In this episode, Dr. Stacy sits down with author and educator Laura Alyn for a deep, soulful, and sensual conversation about curiosity, communication, and what your dreams—and even your Mars sign—say about your sexuality.Together, they unpack how self-inquiry can lead to better sex, why communication is the ultimate foreplay, and how tapping into intuition can help you reclaim trust and pleasure in your body. It’s a beautiful blend of wisdom, warmth, and just the right amount of wild.Guest Name: Laura AlynTitle: Author, Educator, Founder of the ILA InstituteWebsite: https://theornelian.com/itslauraalynSocials: @itslauraalyn on TikTok & InstagramBio:Laura Alyn is a visionary author, educator, and founder of the ILA Institute, a transformative learning initiative bridging the inner and outer worlds. Her work explores spirituality, sexuality, and self-actualization through inquiry and story. A former classroom teacher now completing her PhD, Laura blends structure with soul, guiding others to rediscover purpose, passion, and pleasure.She’s the author of All About Sex: 1000+ Questions and Activities to Embrace Your Sexuality—a playful, thought-provoking journal designed to help people explore their desires and deepen communication. Laura also hosts ILA Radio andGrounded Spirits, podcasts devoted to education, wellness, and awakening the sensual self.Host Bio: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in the sexuality field, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame. She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.” Dr. Stacy Friedman is the creator and host of The Purple Passion Project podcast—where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Each episode dives into sex, intimacy, relationships, and everything in between, with raw, playful, andinsightful talks designed to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their intimate lives. ✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨ Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’t Say Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLEfor 20% off), and if you’re ready to take your intimacy to the next level, Dr. Stacy offers a complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwide. Find it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow on socials @drstacyfriedman.If you are looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow that you saw in the podcast commercial, here is the link for a FREE bottle of FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#17. The Orgasm Episode-Pleasure, Desire & Connection at Any Age
Episode SummaryThis week on The Purple Passion Project, we’re turning upthe heat with Dr. Rachel Needle — Licensed Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Co-Director of the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. From women struggling to reach orgasm to men dealing with finishing too fast (or not at all), we’re getting into the tips, tools, and techniques that make sex hotter,connection deeper, and pleasure more satisfying for every body. We bust the myth that desire fades with age, talk about navigating mismatched libidos, and explore how social media and tech are reshaping our sexual confidence. This one is raw, real, and ready to inspire your next bedroom adventure.Why orgasms are about more than just the climax— and how they boost confidence.Masturbation as a secret weapon for learningyour own pleasure. Sexy, non-awkward ways to communicate what youwant in bed. Positions and toys that can help women reachorgasm more easily. Tips for managing early or delayed ejaculationin men. The role of healthy communication in keepingpassion alive. How social media and technology are shapingdesire and connection. Debunking the myth that sex and libido fade withage.Dr. Rachel Needle is a Licensed Psychologist and CertifiedSex Therapist in private practice, and the founder and executive director of the Whole Health Psychological Center. She is the Co-Director of the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, one of the largest continuing education and certificationproviders for sex and sexuality professionals worldwide. Rachel has been featured in Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, and The Washington Post, and has presented her work internationally. Her expertise spans sexual function anddysfunction, relationship concerns, sexual compulsivity, trauma, and the impact of social and cultural factors on intimacy.Modern Sex Therapy Institutes:https://www.modernsextherapyinstitutes.com/Follow Dr. Rachel Needle on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drrachelneedleHost Bio: Dr. StacyFriedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in the sexuality field, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthierintimacy—without shame. She specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversationsabout sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.” Dr. Stacy Friedman is the creator and host of The Purple Passion Project podcast—where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Each episode dives into sex, intimacy, relationships, and everything in between, with raw, playful, andinsightful talks designed to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their intimate lives. ✨ Stay connected with her beyond the show! ✨ Grab your FREE download of 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won’tSay Out Loud), explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and if you’re ready to take your intimacy to the next level, Dr. Stacy offers a complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwide. Find it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow on socials @drstacyfriedman. If you are looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow that you saw in the podcast commercial, here is the link for a FREE bottle of FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement:https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#16. Come back to Love Journey-How to Heal & Reignite Passion
Episode Description:What if the heartbreak you’ve been through isn’t the end of your love story, but the beginning of something deeper? In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, I’m joined by the incredible Robyn Vogel—trauma-informed psychotherapist, Tantra & Intimacy Coach, and creator of Ready for Love® and the Come Back to Love® Four Gates Approach. Robyn’s story is proof that no matter how much loss, betrayal, or pain you’ve experienced, it’s never too late to heal your heart, reclaim your worth, and magnetize real love. Together we dive into:✨ How to heal betrayal and past breakups without shutting down your heart✨ Identifying your #1 block to love (and finally clearing it)✨ Why self-love and worthiness are the sexiest foundation for intimacy✨ Beginner-friendly ways to explore tantra for healing and connection✨ Rebuilding trust and emotional intimacy in a relationship after it’s been broken. Robyn’s journey from heartbreak to heart-open is inspiring, vulnerable, and packed with tools you can use to start your own comeback-to-love story today. Why Listen: This isn’t just about dating or sex—it’s about healing trauma, building emotional resilience, and creating aligned partnerships that feel safe, passionate, and deeply connected. If you’ve ever wondered how to truly move forward after betrayal or how to use intimacy practices like tantra to unlock connection, this episode is for you.Keywords included for SEO: love after betrayal, healing heartbreak, intimacy coach, tantra healing, trauma-informed relationships, self-love practices, dating after heartbreak, emotional intimacy, trust after betrayal.Connect with Robyn:🌐 Website: comebacktolove.com📲 Social Media: comebacktolove_robynvogelHost Bio: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in the sexuality field, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame. She specializes inmismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.”Dr. Stacy Friedman is the creator and host of The Purple Passion Project podcast—where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Each episode dives into sex, intimacy, relationships, and everything in between, with raw, playful, and insightful talks designed to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their intimate lives.✨Stay connected with her beyond the show! Grab your FREE book download, explore her sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and if you’re ready to take your intimacy to the next level, Dr. Stacy offers a complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwide.Find it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow me on socials @drstacyfriedman.If you are looking for a healthy supplement that can increase blood flow that you saw in the podcast commercial, here is the link for FLOW, a nitric oxide supplement: https://hop.clickbank.net/?affiliate=drstacy69&vendor=the20&cbpage=free
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#15. From Dysphoria to Desire-Reclaiming Pleasure in a New Body
Guest Episode: Ami (Amethysta Herrick) – Post-Transition Intimacy & OrgasmsEver wondered what it’s like to truly rediscover yourbody—and your pleasure—after a major life change? My guest this week, Ami (Amethysta Herrick), has an incredible story. A transgender woman, scientist, and Certified Hypnotist, Ami recently celebrated her “Hoochiversary”—the one-year mark since her vaginoplasty in Thailand. And yes, we talk openly about how intimacy, connection, and yes, orgasms, have evolved for her since.Ami is a transgender woman, Ph.D. in Analytical Chemistry,Certified Hypnotist, and founder of The Purplepaw Blog. She blends science with lived experience to guide others in exploring identity, intimacy, and connection. Married both before and after her transition, Ami offers a rare andintimate perspective on navigating an existing relationship while embracing a new gender identity. She also brings her Hypnotherapy Driven Identity Guidanceto help people understand and express their authentic selves.- How intimacy shifts after gender-affirming surgery- Learning a new body—and discovering new pathways to pleasure- Navigating a long-term relationship through gender transitionThis is a candid, heartfelt, and yes—playfully sexy—conversation about identity, pleasure, and deep connection. Ami’s journey shows that intimacy isn’t static—it’s something we can keep exploring, evolving, and celebrating.💜 Follow Ami: https://bsky.app/profile/amethysta.io /https://www.youtube.com/@amethystaherrick /https://www.tiktok.com/@amethystaherrick /https://www.linkedin.com/in/amethystaherrick / https://purplepawclan.comFull BioDr. Stacy Friedman, Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex &Intimacy Coach, and Podcast HostDr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist and certifiedsex and intimacy coach who helps individuals and couples of all genders and orientations discover deeper connection, pleasure, and confidence—inside and outside the bedroom. With over 26 years of experience in the medical field andmore than two decades working in the sexuality field, she brings a rare mix of clinical expertise and specialized training in sexual health, intimacy coaching, communication, and relationship dynamics.Dr. Stacy works with all aspects of sexuality but specializes in helping clients with mismatched sex drives, supporting women who experience painful sex, guiding those exploring alternative lifestyles, and working with the LGBTQcommunity. She guides people through intimacy blocks, desire differences, and sexual wellness challenges with practical strategies, humor, and a no-shame approach to sex education.She is also the creator and host of The Purple Passion Project podcast—where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Each episode dives into sex, intimacy, relationships, and everything in between, with raw, playful, andinsightful talks designed to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their intimate lives.✨ Stay connected with me beyond the show! ✨Grab your FREE book download, explore my sexy toy shop (use code PURPLE for 20% off), and if you’re ready to take your intimacy to the next level, I offer a complimentary 15-minute coaching consult worldwide. Find it all at drstacyfriedman.com and follow me on socials @drstacyfriedman.Dr. Stacy’s passion is to help you create yours.
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#14. How to Want sex Again-Turning Distant Into Delicious
Welcome to The Purple Passion Project—the show where we ditch the small talk and dive deep into sex, intimacy, and connection. Hosted by Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman, each episode is your permission slip to get curious, get real, and get turned on—in every sense of the word. This week, Dr. Stacy is joined by Certified Relationship, Intimacy & Sex Therapist SkyeBlu—aka the Pleasure Advocate—who’s made it her mission to help women reclaim their erotic power and stop feeling broken in the bedroom. If you’ve ever thought: “I’m just not in the mood lately”, “Intimacy feels like another thing on my to-do list” or “Where did my sex drive go?”, this episode is for you. We’re talking: Why emotional intimacy is often the missing link to physical desire. What “pleasure without pressure” really means—and how it changes everything. How to reconnect with your body (even if it feels like a stranger). The hidden impact of stress, shame, and purity culture on your desire. And—SkyeBlu’s free sexy gift for our listeners: Your Sexy Menu: 100 Ways to Explore Your Intimate Desires. https://www.intimacywithblu.com/the-100-menuWhether you’re solo or partnered, this conversation will help you tune in, turn on, and take back your sensual self.Because like Blu says…Life’s too short for bad sex. Period.Guest Bio: SkyeBlu is a Certified Relationship, Intimacy, & SexTherapist who’s spent over seven years helping women and couples transform their intimate lives. She specializes in helping women reclaim their power, communicate their desires, and experience more pleasure in long-termrelationships. Blu also explores ENM (ethical non-monogamy) and LGBTQ+ topics, and runs the free private Facebook group 'Thriving Women In Relationships.'
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#13. She WANTS to Want You -Small Offers Technique to Turn No's Into Yes
Why do so many women stop craving sex—even in happyrelationships? And how can couples bring back that newlywed-level passion?In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Purple Passion Project, Susan Brattonshares her breakthrough Small Offers Technique—a step-by-step system that helpsmen bypass rejection, reignite desire, and create effortless intimacy again.We dive into:- The truth about female desire and why it fades- How “Small Offers” turn everyday moments into seduction- Word-for-word scripts and subtle touch moves that make her say YES- The Four Keys to Seduction and how they deepen intimacy over time- Clitoral anatomy secrets that change everything about arousal- Regenerative therapies for ageless sexuality (and penis sculpting, too)If your sex life feels stuck, this episode is your roadmap back to connectionand passion.Susan's Free Gift- moresexmoreoften.comFollow Dr. Stacy- @drstacyfriedman (IG, TikTok, YouTube, FB)Guest:Susan Bratton — “Intimacy Expert to Millions💋,”best-selling author of 44 books and programs, CEO of Personal Life Media andThe 20, Chief Advocacy Officer at ProDx Health, and spokesperson for GAINSWaveand the Dr. Joel Kaplan Company. She’s been featured on ABC, CBS, NBC, and onover 1,000 podcasts and summits.https://susanbratton.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/ https://betterlover.comhttps://longevitywins.substack.com/ https://betterlover.substack.com/https://personallifemedia.com https://the20store.comhttps://youtube.com/c/betterlover https://instagram.com/susanbrattonhttps://www.threads.net/@susanbrattonhttps://bsky.app/profile/susanbratton.bsky.socialhttps://www.facebook.com/trustedhotsexadvisortomillionsDr. Stacy Friedman BioDr. Stacy Friedman, Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex &Intimacy Coach, and Podcast HostDr. Stacy is a Clinical Sexologist and certifiedsex and intimacy coach who helps individuals and couples of all genders and orientations discover deeper connection, pleasure, and confidence—inside and outside the bedroom. With over 26 years of experience in the medical field andmore than two decades working in the sexuality field, she brings a rare mix of clinical expertise and specialized training in sexual health, intimacy coaching, communication, and relationship dynamics.Dr. Stacy works with all aspects of sexuality but specializes in helping clients with mismatched sex drives, supporting women who experience painful sex, guiding those exploring alternative lifestyles, and working with the LGBTQcommunity. She guides people through intimacy blocks, desire differences, and sexual wellness challenges with practical strategies, humor, and a no-shame approach to sex education.She is also the creator and host of The Purple Passion Project podcast—where real conversations meet just the right amount of spice. Each episode dives into sex, intimacy, relationships, and everything in between, with raw, playful, andinsightful talks designed to help people feel less alone and more empowered in their intimate lives.Dr. Stacy’s passion is to help you create yours.
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#12. Enlarging More Than Confidence-The Truth About Male Enhancement
Size matters but confidence matters more. But what if you could have both? In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, we’re stripping away the stigma and going below the belt with Dan Salas—CEO of Surgery Life Enhancement—to talk about what male enhancement really looks like, why men are lining up for it, and how it can completely change what happens in (and out of) the bedroom.We get raw, real, and just a little risqué as we cover:The real truth about male enhancement—spoiler: it’s not just about inches.Surgical vs. non-surgical options: what’s safe, what works, and what to skip.How “girth work” isn’t just physical—it’s a total confidence boost.Why more men are dropping their pants for this procedure than ever before.The myths and taboos that keep men silent—and why it’s time to talk.This one’s bold, it’s cheeky, and it just might make you see your partner’s confidence (and package) in a whole new way.Guest Dan Salas is the CEO of Surgery Life Enhancement (SLE), a clinic dedicated to helping men upgrade their confidence through surgical and non-surgical male enhancement. With over 30 years in the game, Dan has been featured in a BBC documentary, strutted his stuff at the Playboy Mansion, and is on a mission to take male enhancement out of the shadows and into the spotlight.Learn more at: surgerylifeenhancement.com & WhatsApp +52 664 510 7289Subscribe to The Purple Passion Project wherever you listen to podcastsWatch on YouTube: drstacyfriedmanFollow me on IG, TikTok & FB: @drstacyfriedmanExplore more resources: drstacyfriedman.com✨ That’s it for this episode of The Purple Passion Project—where we keep it real with just the right amount of spice. Stay curious, stay turned on, and never apologize for wanting more.
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#11. Evict the Narc Within-From Love Avoidance to Embodied Intimacy
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t.Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch thesurface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. 📌 Episode Description: What if the voice in yourhead that keeps criticizing you… isn’t actually you? In this powerful episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with transformational healer and trauma decoding expert Emma Lyons to explore the deep link between shame,trauma, love avoidance, and intimacy. Emma shares how shame isn’t a flaw—it’s a survival response. We talk about how trauma lives in the nervous system, why some women can’t fully receive love, intimacy, or pleasure (even after years of self-work), and the 5 signs it might be time to break up with your “inner narcissist.” This episode is raw, validating, and deeply transformative. 🧠 In This Episode, We Cover: • What the “innernarcissist” or shame voice really is • Why shame is a survival response, not aflaw • How trauma blocks intimacy and emotional safety • Love avoidance and whyreceiving can feel unsafe • The difference between somatic healing and mindsetwork • The 5 signs it’s time to break up with your inner critic FREE GUIDE: 5 Signs It’s Time to Break Up with Your Inner Narcissist 👉 [https://subscribepage.io/GtaJ5s 🔥 Connect with Emma Lyons: • IG: trauma.matrix/LinkedIn: emma-lyons-traumamatrix/ FB: trauma.matrix YouTube: @trauma.matrix /TikTok: @trauma.matrix / https://traumamatrix.substack.com/ • Program: Evict the Narc Within Emma's Bio: Emma Lyons is a trauma-informed healer and founder of The Trauma Matrix, where she helps women break up with the shame voice that’s been sabotaging their success, relationships, and visibility for years. After studying law and international human rights, Emma turned away from a lifepath that looked good on paper but felt like slow death — and spent the next decade deep in the healing world. Despite all the therapy, yoga, mindset work, and energy practices, she still found herself stuck in loops of self-erasure, burnout, and invisibility… until she uncovered the deeper truth: she’dinternalized a narcissistic system of control, and it was running her from the inside out. Today, Emma helps high-functioning, heart-led women dismantle that inner narcissist, the shame voice that humiliates, controls, and impersonates them, so they can reclaim clarity, power, and nervous system freedom. 💜 Connect with Dr. Stacy: • Website:www.drstacyfriedman.com • Social: @drstacyfriedman (IG, TikTok, YouTube, FB), LinkedIn: @drstacy • Podcast: The Purple Passion Project ✨ Leave a Review: If this episode stirred something in you, let it. Subscribe, rate, and share with someone who’s ready to heal from the inside out. 💋
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#10. Your Nervous System is Choosing Your Love Life-Here's How to Reclaim It
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Episode & Guest Bio: Bern Mendez – Neuroscience-Based Dating & Relationship CoachingIf you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right in dating but still not finding the relationship you want—this one’s for you. BernMendez combines neuroscience, somatic approaches, and attachment research to help midlife women break through emotional barriers and find lasting partnership.Bern is a dating and relationship coach with 14 years ofexperience, featured on CNN, HuffPost, and Univision. Based in Austin, TX, he helps women understand the subconscious patterns that block love and teaches them how to connect from a place of safety, confidence, and emotional alignment.- How the nervous system affects dating patterns- The role of attachment in finding lasting love- Using polyvagal theory to feel safe in love- Why midlife dating requires a different approach- Overcoming subconscious barriers to commitmentBern offers practical tools and deep insight for anyone ready to stop repeating the same dating cycles and start attracting emotionally available partners.💜 Follow Bern: https://www.youtube.com/@bernmendez https://www.bernmendez.com💜 Follow me: @drstacyfriedman (IG, Tiktok, YouTube, FB)About Bern Mendez:What We Talk About:Why You Should Listen:
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#9. The Real Reason You're Numb Down There-And What to Do About It
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play.Guest: Ava Pikul, Intimacy Coach & Tantric TherapistFeeling numb “down there”? Emotionally checked out from your body? Disconnected from pleasure, even when you want to feel it? You are not alone—and you are not broken.In this raw and powerful episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Ava Pikul—a sensual guide, transformational therapist, and tantric practitioner who helps women finally feel at home in their bodies again.Together, we explore why so many high-achieving, over-giving women find themselves burnt out, sexually shut down, and disconnected from their own desires. More importantly—we talk about how to come back online.Why you may feel numb during intimacy (and how to change it)The hidden ways trauma lives in the bodyWhat it really means to be sexually embodiedThe myth of “I’m not ready yet” and how it keeps women stuckHow spirituality and sensuality were never meant to be separateThe vagina-brain connection and why your pleasure is your powerHow to reconnect with yourself without needing to “fix” anythingAbout Ava:Ava Pikul is a Tibetan Five Elements Practitioner, ABS Sexologist, and Rapid Transformational Therapist who guides women from burnout to embodied bliss. Through her Diamond Ascension Intimacy Coaching and Ava’s Aphrodisia line of products, she helps women reclaim their sensuality and rewire their pleasure pathways from the inside out.Follow her on Instagram: @ava.pikul & www.diamondascension.org🎧 Listen now and share with a woman who needs to know:✨ You were never broken. You were just never fully claimed.💜 Subscribe to The Purple Passion Project for more unfiltered conversations on sex, intimacy, and desire — and if you loved the episode, leave a review or follow me @drstacyfriedman for more.www.drstacyfriedman.com
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#8. Recalibrating Love After a Metabolic Crash-Sex, Intimacy & Fear of Not Knowing
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t.Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Guest Bio: Dr. Eva Brown Burnett has been teaching, guiding, and mentoring individuals, couples, and families in private practice for over a decade (25,000+ hours of 1 on 1 coaching). She offers much more than the basic relationship tweak, intimacy hack or communication tip, although “all of that” is part of her work,too. Her work carries extraordinary depth so the people most attracted to her work want the whole Sha-Bang when it comes to co-creating a conscious and sacred partnership. Her magic is making all things “healthy relating” simple, easy, and tangible to contemplate & integrate overtime. She is known for her signature methodology “ConsciousRelationship Mapping™” which is woven throughout all of her offerings, including the Sacred Partners Membership. Her traditional training was completed at Nova Southeastern University where she received her master’s & Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Therapy. She is Gottman 1 & 2 certified, and her work is both traumaand research informed. Her mission is to help couples create a “Love Legacy” that stands the test of time, is deeply fulfilling & devoted to love, itself!Become a member of the Sacred Partners “Love Legacy” Membership here: https://sacredlifepartners.com/sacred-partners-membership/Take the 3 Types of Couples Dynamics Quiz: https://sacredlifepartners.com/couple-quiz/Get complimentary access to the “5 Stages to ConsciousRelationship MappingTM” mini-course, which provides a “road map” for couples to understand how, why, and where to begin their growth journey together.: https://sacredlifepartners.com/mini-course/Listen to the Sacred Partners podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Qn3967PSApQSS83Li7Ds5?si=VzJOhmBQSN6NUHBR3-RfeQJoin the Sacred Partners relationship blog, which is 100% focused on serving & supporting you and your relationship. Sign up free here: https://sacredlifepartners.com/newsletter-signup/
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#6. Living Outside the Lines-Redefining Sexuality & Gender w/Guest Mark Cusack
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations aboutsex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Guest Bio: Mark Cusack- Mark Cusack (they/he) is an author, lecturer and specialist coach supporting people with complex, fluid or undefined sexuality and gender.Mark runs the online platform @notdefining where he makes content about bisexuality, asexuality, non-binary identities and neuro divergence. Mark grew up between Kilmarnock in Scotland and Hertfordshire in England and now lives in Liverpool UK.Social media: @notdefining
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#5- Beyond the Binary w/Guest Dr. Kryss Shane
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep intosex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—withno shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Guest Bio: Dr. Kryss Shane (she/her)-With over 25 years of experience guiding the world’s top leaders in business, education and community via individual, small group and full-staff trainings, Dr. Kryss Shane, MBA, MS, MSW, LSW, LMSW (she/her) has been featured as America’s go-to Leading LGBT+ Expert in The New York Times, ABC News, Yahoo!, and CNN. Her writing has also appeared in the Journal of Nonprofit Education and Leadership, Huffington Post, International Council of Professors of Educational Leadership, The New Social Worker Magazine, and many more.Dr. Kryss is known for helping businesses address their unique Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion needs in an approachable, manageable and actionable way. This includes alterations to physical spaces, updating hiring practices, re-drafting policies and procedures and more. In addition to her doctorate, she holds two master’s degrees, two licenses to practice mental healthcare, and she is currently serving as the Director of the Social Work Program and Assistant Professor at Thomas University, as well as being a Lecturer at Columbia University and an Adjunct Professor at Fordham University, Endicott College, National Louis University, and National University. Dr. Kryss is the author of The Medical Professional's Guide to LGBT+ Inclusion: Creating a Workplace Culture that Nurtures a Welcoming, Inclusive, and Affirming Environment which provides guidance to medical professionals at hospitals, clinics, and more to become best prepared to treat and care for LGBT+ people within their facilities. She has also written Creating an LGBT+ Inclusive University: A Practical Resource Guide for Faculty and Administrators, which provides guidance for faculty and administrators of universities and colleges to become knowledgeable, capable, and able to make their campuses (including online campuses) more LGBT+ inclusive. Dr. Kryss is also the author of Creating an LGBT+ Inclusive Workplace: The Practical Resource Guide for Business Leaders, which provides best practices and professional guidance for creating LGBT+ inclusive workplaces, including creating safer working environments, updating company policies, enhancing continuing education and training, and better supporting LGBT+ people in the workplace training and other tangible ways to support LGBT+ people in the workplace. Dr. Kryss’ first book, The Educator's Guide to LGBT+ Inclusion, is the first book of its kind to guide educators, administrators, and school staff to become able and empowered to make their schools more LGBT+ inclusive. www.thisiskryss.com
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#4-Using the Moon to Cultivate Magic w/ Guest Tammi Lipp
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play.Podcast Guest Bio – Tammi LippIntuitive Healer | Spiritual Coach | Psychic Medium | SpeakerTammi Lipp is an Intuitive Healer, Spiritual Coach, and Psychic Medium who helps strong, creative souls reconnect with their intuition, clear energetic blocks, and evolve into their most authentic, soul-aligned selves.After a successful career in commercial real estate, Tammi’s life took a powerful turn when she became a mother and experienced postpartum anxiety. That awakening led her on a deep inner journey—through energy work, healing, and spiritual discovery—that ultimately revealed her natural gifts as an open channel and intuitive guide.Tammi went on to become certified in MCKS Pranic Energy Healing®, Neuro Identity Evolution® Coaching, Holy Fire® Reiki, and trained as a Clairvoyant Practitioner. She blends practical tools with metaphysical wisdom to help high-achieving individuals access clarity, healing, and purpose. Her signature message, “You’re not crazy, you’re intuitive,” has inspired audiences in workshops, moon circles, and live events to embrace their sensitivity, expand their consciousness, and live more intuitively—out loud.Tammi lives in South Florida with her talented artist husband and adorable son and offers private sessions, group experiences, and transformational talks both online and in person.@tammilipp / sacredphilosophies.com
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#3 - Pleasure Starts at the Core w/Susan Winograd
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Susan Winograd, MSPT, is the owner and founder of Pelvicore Rehab & Wellness, a premier pelvic health and wellness practice based in Boca Raton, Florida. Pelvicore Rehab & Wellness specializes in Women's Health, Men's Health, Pre- and Postnatal Care, Menopause Health, and a wide range of digestive, bowel, bladder, and sexual health issues. Susan has expanded her practice to include Hormone Health, supporting individuals in addressing fatigue, brain fog, hormonal imbalance, anxiety, stubborn belly fat, and gut issues. Her holistic, root-cause approach blends education, expert care, and community to help clients achieve lasting health independence. Pelvicore's revolutionary system empowers people to take charge of their health with confidence, clarity, and support. She is passionate about education and clinical outreach, which inspired the launch of Ask the Experts, a monthly educational initiative designed to bring foundational, expert-led health information to the broader community. Through these live events, Pelvicore creates access to trusted resources that support whole-body wellness and lifelong learning. Susan teaches internationally and has developed programs for the Eden Center in Israel and for GOLD Online Education. Her treatment philosophy is grounded in a hands-on, whole-person approach, focused on uncovering and addressing the root cause of dysfunction for long-term healing. She has been featured in Shootout Miami, BOLD Magazine, Peloton, and Fit&Well Magazine, and she hosts the podcast Your Pelvic Health, where she shares practical insights and expert interviews. Her commitment remains rooted in providing the highest level of personalized care, helping clients relieve pain, restore function, and live vibrant, empowered lives. SUSAN'S LINKS: www.pelvicorerehab.com https://www.facebook.com/pelvicorerehabandwellness/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-winograd-8400bb156/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCiEl1ZFlA5SzN44MhUwzgA?view_as=subscriber
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#2 - Coming Back From Divorce w/ Guest Julie Savitz
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Julie Savitz is a certified healthy coach, life coach and divorce coach. She helps women navigate the chaos of divorce and come out healthier and stronger on the other side. With empathy, real-life experience, and no-nonsense support, she guides clients through the emotional, logistical, and personal challenges of separation—so they can rebuild with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Julie's mission is simple: help women stop just surviving and start thriving. Some of Julie's links for the show are FB= https://www.facebook.com/julie.savitz YT= https://www.youtube.com/@julie.savitz
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#1 - When Sex Feels Like a Chore w/ Guest Susan Block, LMFT
The Purple Passion Project is your go-to podcast for raw, real and irresistibly juicy conversations about sex, intimacy and everything we should be talking about—but usually don’t. Hosted by Dr. Stacy, a clinical sexologist with a cheeky sense of humor and a whole lot of real talk, this show dives deep into sex, intimacy, connection and everything in between. Whether you’re feeling a little stuck in your love life, curious about what turns you on, or just craving conversations that actually matter, you’re in the right place. We’re breaking down walls, busting myths and giving you permission to want more—with no shame, no filters and definitely no small talk. Expect expert guests, steamy insights and moments that’ll make you think, laugh and maybe shift in your seat. If you’re ready to ditch the surface-level chatter and explore what really turns you on—emotionally, physically, and relationally—this is your permission to press play. Susan Block, LMFT, is the founder of Coral Springs Counseling Center—South Florida's top-rated online therapy practice for couples and individuals who are ready to roll up their sleeves and do the real work. She and her team specialize in helping couples work through everything from intimacy struggles and mismatched sex drives to communication breakdowns, infidelity, and those "are we even going to make it?" moments. Many of the couples Susan works with have tried therapy before- maybe it didn't click, or maybe it just wasn't the right time. Now, it's their last-ditch effort, and Susan and her team are known for helping turn things around when the stakes feel high. With a warm, candid, and no-fluff approach, they tailor each session to meet clients where they are, using practical tools and strategies that actually work especially for couples stuck in the stress and disconnect of everyday life. These are her handles for social media and contact info [email protected] facebook.com/coralspringscounseling instagram.com/coralspringscounseling
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
When was the last time sex was hot as hell? If you had to think about it — you need this podcast. The Purple Passion Project is where midlife gets sexy again. Clinical Sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman brings the real talk on low libido, erectile dysfunction, menopause, hormonal changes, mismatched desire, and the pleasure everyone in midlife deserves but nobody is talking about. Consider this your permission slip to want more — a lot more. Raw, unapologetic, laugh-out-loud-then-shift-in-your-seat conversations that will change your sex life. Hit subscribe. Your body will thank you. 🔥
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