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The Sage Stage Podcast
by Jane and Chandra
We are two women fed up with living small. This is our journey. (btw, we say f**k a lot, and don't edit our shit).
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Episode 37: Boobs, Boundaries, & Bathroom Emergencies
Ever found yourself squatting beside a highway, arguing with a gas pump, or questioning why your favourite bra gets discontinued the moment you find it?Welcome back to The Sage Stage with Jane and Chandra, where one simple question—"What's the quickest way to lose your respect?"—spirals into a hilarious and surprisingly meaningful conversation about integrity, trust, friendship, feminism, aging, body confidence, consent, safety, and yes... emergency bathroom situations.From camping mishaps and forgotten gear to navigating relationships, personal boundaries, and the realities of being women in the world, this episode is equal parts laughter, honesty, and wisdom.Along the way, we discuss:✨ Why keeping your word matters✨ The fastest way to lose respect✨ Camping adventures gone sideways✨ Highway bathroom emergencies✨ Female friendship and looking out for each other✨ Consent, safety, and changing social dynamics✨ Body confidence at every age✨ Why women travel to the bathroom in packs✨ Aging, bras, weight loss, and finding clothes that fit✨ Beer, boobs, and nudist colonies (obviously)Because sometimes the deepest conversations begin with the question, "Do you have a bathroom nearby?"Pull up a chair and join us for another delightfully unfiltered conversation.#TheSageStage #WomenOver50 #FemaleFriendships #MidlifeWomen #PersonalGrowth #LifeAfter50 #WomenSupportingWomen #Boundaries #Respect #AgingWithHumour #RealTalk #PodcastLife #CanadianPodcast #WomenPodcastHosts #FunnyPodcast #LifeLessons #Confidence #Feminism #MidlifeConversations #AuthenticLiving
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Weekly Win - Staying In Your Lollipop Lane
Welcome to another Weekly Win minisode!This week we're celebrating the kind of growth that doesn't show up on a scale, a résumé, or social media—but changes everything.In this episode we talk about:staying calm during stressful momentsnot taking a partner's frustration personallymaking big family decisions without resentmentwhy so many of our biggest wins are internalOne of our favorite ideas from this conversation:"Stay in your lollipop lane."In other words: protect your peace, stay centered, and don't let other people's stress become your identity.💛 Tell us your weekly win—big, small, practical, emotional, or beautifully messy.#weeklywin #personaldevelopment #emotionalintelligence #relationships #communication #marriage #mentalwellness #stressmanagement #boundaries #mindset #womenpodcasters #midlifewomen #selfgrowth #podcastcommunity #healingjourney
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Episode 36: Midlife Changed My Rules
What happens when lifelong people-pleasers finally start drawing lines in the sand?In this episode of The Sage Stage, Jane and Chandra dive into the things that have become completely non-negotiable in midlife. From refusing to be everyone's personal secretary to recognizing emotional manipulation, they explore the boundaries they've learned to protect after decades of saying yes, making it work, and carrying everyone else's load.Along the way, they tackle messy roommates, relationship compromises, theatre hugs, emotional labour, family dynamics, and the surprising things they immediately judge people for.It's honest, funny, slightly chaotic, and full of those moments that make you say, "Wait... is that me too?"✨ In this episode:What "non-negotiable" really meansEmotional manipulation and emotional labourWhy women become everyone's reminder systemFriendship, compromise and relationshipsThe messy roommate vs. clean roommate debateTheatre life and changing social boundariesMidlife confidence and speaking upThings we immediately judge people forSetting healthier boundaries without guiltIf you've ever found yourself saying "I'm not doing that anymore," this conversation is for you.#MidlifeWomen #Boundaries #WomenOver50 #Friendship #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalLabour #TheSageStage
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MINISODE: Productivity Guilt, Personal Growth & Weekly Wins
Welcome to another Weekly Win minisode from The Sage Stage!This week we're celebrating victories both big and small—from producing an inclusive theatre production with a cast of neurodiverse adults, to giving ourselves permission to step away, slow down, and simply be.In this episode we talk about:✨ inclusive theatre and the joy of creative expression✨ recovering from burnout and health challenges✨ taking creative writing retreats✨ learning to let go of productivity guilt✨ the power of rest and reflection✨ trusting the process when life feels uncertain✨ why "showing up" is sometimes the biggest win of allWe also dive into the uncomfortable truth that many of us struggle to give ourselves permission to rest, recharge, and enjoy something purely because it nourishes us.And maybe the biggest lesson?Sometimes growth happens when we stop trying to force it.💛 Tell us about YOUR weekly win. Big, small, messy, beautiful—we want to hear it.#weeklywin #personalgrowth #creativity #writingretreat #inclusivearts #neurodiversity #burnoutrecovery #selfcare #womenpodcasters #midlifewomen #creativejourney #mentalhealth #healingjourney #podcastcommunity #growthmindset
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Episode 35: WHY DOES EVERYTHING ANNOY ME NOW?
The dance party was a huge success... but now we're sore, exhausted, recovering, and talking about all the things that raise our blood pressure.In this episode of The Sage Stage, we unpack how we handled stress, anger, frustration and conflict in our 20s compared to now. From tequila-fueled meltdowns and punching walls to deep breathing, dance floors and hard-earned self-awareness, nothing is off limits.We also tackle those seemingly innocent phrases that instantly trigger us, relationship banter that isn't always funny, why women are often labelled "angry," and what happens when midlife women stop staying quiet.Plus:• The unexpected success of our Chaos on the Dance Floor event• Diverticulitis recovery updates• "Say It In One Sentence"• Why "Did you mean...?" might be the most dangerous phrase in the English language• Learning the difference between anger, fear and hurt• Why kindness feels in short supply these daysIf you've ever wanted to throw a chair, scream into a pillow, or dance your stress away, this episode is for you.Subscribe, follow, and join the conversation.#MidlifeWomen #FemaleRage #WomenOver50 #StressManagement #FriendshipPodcast #WomenSupportingWomen #Menopause #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #TheSageStage
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Weekly Win: Dry Toast & Career Changes
Welcome to another Weekly Win minisode — where we celebrate the tiny victories, chaotic moments, and “how are we still functioning?” accomplishments of the week 😅This episode includes:✨ returning to supply teaching after years away✨ imposter syndrome and career reinvention✨ surviving diverticulitis one scrambled egg at a time✨ listening to your body instead of bulldozing through life✨ fantasy pasta (yes, that’s a thing now)✨ trying to become adults who meal prep and eat fiberWe talk about healing, burnout, nutrition, self-care, teaching, podcasting, and why small wins deserve WAY more credit than we give them.Also: apparently we’re entering our Mediterranean diet era.💛 Tell us your weekly win — big or tiny.#weeklywin #midlifewomen #guthealth #diverticulitis #healingjourney #womenpodcasters #teacherlife #selfcare #mentalhealth #burnoutrecovery #careerchange #podcastcommunity #womenwhopodcast #smallwins #wellnessjourney
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Episode 34: We’re Too Old to Fake It Anymore
This week on The Sage Stage, we somehow went from nostalgic 90s dance clubs to concussions, menopause rage, naked-with-socks sleeping habits, and why we’re officially DONE pretending to like things we hate.Downhill skiing? Nope.Scrabble? Absolutely not.People’s bullshit? Hard pass.We’re talking about:✨ Midlife boundaries✨ Why women get “grumpier” as we age✨ Regret, reinvention & refusing to stop growing✨ Gen X survival stories that honestly sound illegal now✨ The weird freedom of getting older✨ Friendship, fear, and figuring life out in real timeAlso featuring:hospital recovery updatesdance party delusionshorrifying childhood injuriesaccidental therapyand at least one existential crisis about board gamesIf you’ve ever looked at your life and thought:“Why am I pretending to enjoy this?”…this episode is for you.#MidlifePodcast #WomenOver50 #GenXWomen #FunnyPodcast #MidlifeWomen #MenopauseHumor #WomenFriendship #AgingHonestly #WomenPodcast #SelfGrowth #PeoplePleasing #GenX #ComedyPodcast #MidlifeCrisis #WomenSupportingWomen #RealTalk #PodcastLife #TheSageStage
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Minisode: Honest Conversation About Rest, Burnout & Healing
This week’s Weekly Win minisode comes to you straight from a hospital room. 😅Yes, really.While Chandra recovers in hospital, Jane shares her weekly win: finally giving herself permission to invest in herself and attend a women’s writing retreat. Meanwhile, Chandra’s win is something many of us struggle with — saying “I can’t,” cancelling obligations, and finally listening to her body before burnout goes too far.The conversation turns into an honest discussion about capacity, people pleasing, pushing through exhaustion, creative dreams, midlife healing, and what happens when your body finally forces you to slow down.Also featured:✨ hospital recording dedication✨ theatre women oversharing✨ no makeup, no filters, no dignity✨ manifestation talk✨ creative momentum✨ nervous system exhaustion✨ “for all 12 of you” energyRaw, funny, vulnerable, and deeply relatable.🎭 Welcome to The Sage Stage — where the lighting is bad, the timing is chaotic, and the conversations are real.#TheSageStage #WomenOver50 #MidlifePodcast #CreativeWomen #BurnoutRecovery #WomenSupportingWomen #AuthenticPodcast #HealingJourney #PeoplePleasing #WomenPodcast #GenXWomen #CreativeLife #HospitalPodcast #MidlifeHealing #TheatreWomen #WritingRetreat #FemaleFriendship #MentalHealth #WomenCreators #PodcastLife
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Episode33: The Hospital Episode!
Two middle-aged theatre women walk into a hospital room… and record a podcast.This week on The Sage Stage, Chandra and Jane record from a hospital bed while Chandra is recovering from diverticulitis, and somehow the conversation spirals into friendship warning labels, menopause, emotional baggage, body image, HRT, naming babies, loud women, nervous systems, rage rooms, and learning how to finally let things go.Also: yes, we know the lighting is terrible. We were literally filming in a hospital room with hospital juice cups and zero makeup. Authenticity level: medically supervised.If you’ve ever been told you were “too much,” struggled to slow down, worried about disappointing people, or found yourself rethinking life in midlife — this episode is for you.Raw, funny, emotional, chaotic, deeply honest… and somehow still hilarious.✨ Topics in this episode:Diverticulitis recoveryMidlife health scaresMenopause & HRTEmotional suppression and illnessFriendship dynamicsBody image & weight changesLetting go of people pleasingMotherhood & modeling boundariesLoud theatre women being loudHealing your nervous systemHospital podcasting with terrible lighting🎭 Welcome to The Sage Stage — where nothing is edited, everything is honest, and sometimes the studio is a hospital room.#TheSageStage #WomenOver50 #MidlifePodcast #MenopausePodcast #Diverticulitis #WomenSupportingWomen #AuthenticPodcast #FunnyWomen #TheatreWomen #HealingJourney #MidlifeWomen #RawPodcast #GenXWomen #FemaleFriendship #HRT #PeoplePleasing #MentalHealth #WomenPodcast #CanadianPodcast #RealTalk #HospitalPodcast #WomenWhoTalkTooMuch
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MINISODE: Intuition, Burnout & Small Wins That Matter
This week’s Weekly Win minisode is honest, messy, emotional… and weirdly healing.We’re talking about:✨ pushing through burnout✨ listening to your intuition✨ what happens when your body says “enough”✨ anxiety, stress, healing, and slowing down✨ celebrating small wins even during hard weeksFrom tarot cards and gut feelings to chronic stress and diverticulitis, this conversation turned into something much deeper than we expected.And honestly? Maybe the real win is just showing up.💛 Tell us your weekly win in the comments or on social media—we want to celebrate with you.#weeklywin #burnoutrecovery #mentalhealth #intuition #healingjourney #womenpodcasters #midlifewomen #selfgrowth #stressmanagement #podcastcommunity #anxietyawareness #boundaries #womenwhopodcast #thesagestage
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Episode 32: Chaos Is Our Creative Process
🎙️ Midlife pivots, podcast chaos, reinvention, friendship, and figuring it out in real time.In this episode of The Sage Stage, Chandra Pepper and Jane Watson pull back the curtain on what it’s really like trying to grow a podcast in midlife while juggling creativity, exhaustion, ambition, and absolute unhinged energy.From minisodes and YouTube strategy to “we need an episode for Tuesday” panic mode, this episode is basically what happens when two Gen X women try to build something meaningful while also laughing through the chaos.We’re talking:✨ Midlife reinvention✨ Creative pivots after 40✨ Starting over without starting from scratch✨ Building a podcast from the ground up✨ Friendship and female support✨ Behind-the-scenes podcast life✨ Raw and authentic conversations✨ Gen X women embracing change✨ Feral aunt/main character energy✨ Why growth feels messy before it feels successfulIf you’ve ever wondered whether it’s too late to reinvent yourself, start something new, or chase a bigger dream — this episode is your sign to go for it.🎧 New episodes weekly from two women figuring it out loudly.#MidlifePodcast #GenXWomen #WomenOver40 #WomenOver50 #PodcastLife #CreativeWomen #MidlifeReinvention #FemaleFriendship #AuthenticPodcast #WomenSupportingWomen #StartingOver #MidlifeJourney #FunnyWomen #MainCharacterEnergy #CanadianPodcast #WomenCreators #BehindTheScenesPodcast #LifeAfter40 #LifeAfter50 #TheSageStage
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MINISODE: Weekly Win! Saying No, Managing Anxiety & Small Wins That Matter
What if your biggest win this week wasn’t something huge—but something small that actually changed everything?In this minisode, we kick off a brand new weekly segment: “What Was Your Win?”From setting boundaries at home to managing anxiety in the moment, we’re talking about the quiet, powerful wins that deserve way more credit.✨ In this episode:Saying no without guilt (and why it matters)Recognizing anxiety and choosing a different responseWhy small wins are actually BIG winsReal-life, unfiltered conversations about everyday growthWe want to hear from YOU—what was your win this week?Follow, share, and join us as we grow this community together 💛#personalgrowth #boundaries #mentalhealthmatters #smallwins #selfawareness #womenpodcasters #midlifewomen #podcastcommunity #thesagestage
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Episode 31: We Lost Our Kids (Yes, Plural 😬)
Welcome back to your favourite midlife chaos crew—where parenting stories come with panic, laughter, and just a touch of trauma 😂In this episode, we kick off our brand new segment: “Finish This in One Sentence” (which… goes about as well as you’d expect). From breakups to brutal honesty, we try—and fail—to keep it short.Then we dive headfirst into a universal parenting nightmare:👉 “When did you lose your kid?”Yep. We’re going there.From cottage chaos and missing toddlers to near 911 calls and full-body panic, we’re sharing the moments that made us question EVERYTHING as moms. If you’ve ever turned around and your kid was just… gone? You’re not alone.We also get real about:Mom guilt and “worst parent ever” momentsHow Gen X parenting shaped us (hello wooden spoons 😳)Losing your temper vs. forgiving yourselfWhy second-borns are absolute chaos agentsAnd somehow… grandparent names become a full debate (JUJUBE?? GRAND JAM??)This one is funny, honest, a little unhinged—and deeply relatable.🎙️ Pull up a chair, grab your coffee (or wine, no judgment), and join us for real talk, big laughs, and main character energy.#MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingFails #GenXParenting #MidlifePodcast #MomStories #RelatableContent #FunnyPodcast #WomenOver40 #RealTalkPodcast #ParentingHumor #MomGuilt #SecondBornEnergy #HotMessMom #PodcastLife #CanadianPodcast
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Episode 30: Meltdowns, Asking for Help & Letting Go of “I’m Fine”
The morning after our first live… and wow, did we have thoughts.From tech chaos and emotional meltdowns to leftover Prosecco for breakfast, this episode is raw, real, and a little all over the place—in the best way.We dive into why asking for help feels so hard, the sneaky ways “I’m fine” holds us back, and the deeper layers of worthiness, pride, and survival mode that keep us stuck.We also get honest about chronic pain, pushing through when our bodies are begging us not to, and the emotional weight of feeling like we have to do it all alone.Plus: rage rooms, pen pals, negative self-talk, and the reminder we all need—you don’t have to earn love by performing.If you’ve ever struggled to ask for help, felt like you had to prove your worth, or just needed a space where messy is welcome… this one’s for you.🎧 Come for the chaos. Stay for the connection.
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Episode 29: We Started Talking About Sleep… Then This Got Deep
Sleep-deprived. Slightly unhinged. Questioning everything… including ourselves.Welcome to the episode where we start scattered (whoopsies and all), spiral through wild dreams, hormone chaos, and questionable medical advice—and somehow land on a very real conversation about ego, authenticity, and what actually makes someone an “expert.”In this hilariously honest and beautifully messy chat, Chandra Pepper and Jane Watson unpack:insomnia, burnout, and why lack of sleep messes with your entire systemmenopause, HRT, and the frustration of not being heard (or properly treated)imposter syndrome and why so many women hesitate to claim their voicethe difference between authentic voices vs. performative “gurus”and why you don’t need to have it all figured out to show up and make an impactSomewhere between the chaos and the clarity, we hit on something real:👉 You don’t need a title, a label, or a perfectly curated life to matter.We’re not gurus. We’re not pretending to be experts.We’re the cool aunts of the internet—raw, real, a little feral, and figuring it out as we go.✨ Expect:laugh-out-loud, sleep-deprived chaoshonest conversations about midlife, identity, and self-doubtreal talk on hormones, mental health, and advocating for yourselfand permission to be gloriously imperfect at any ageWhether you’re in your 20s, 40s, or 50s+, this is your reminder:You are not behind. You are not broken. You’re just… in it.And honestly? That’s where the magic happens.Welcome to The Sage Stage.
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Episode 28: This Episode Has Ego, Funerals… and a Naked Man??
In this wildly unfiltered episode, Chandra Pepper and Jane Watson dive headfirst into ego, family dynamics, and the oddly fascinating world of funeral practices—because nothing says “midlife clarity” like questioning literally everything (including how you want to exit the group chat permanently).From laugh-out-loud tangents to those oh wow, that’s a little too real moments, this episode is equal parts chaos and catharsis. We’re talking identity, legacy, complicated families, and the stories we tell ourselves to survive them—all served with a side of irreverence and zero shame.If you’ve ever spiraled about your life choices, your family, or your eventual send-off… pull up a chair. You’re in the right place.✨ Expect:brutally honest conversations about ego and self-worthspicy takes on family relationships and generational dynamicsunexpected (and oddly hilarious) thoughts on death and funeral traditionsunhinged moments that somehow turn into deep truthBecause getting older doesn’t mean getting quieter—it means getting real, getting bold, and maybe planning a slightly more fabulous exit.Welcome to the chaos. Welcome to The Sage Stage.
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Episode 27: 20's VS 50's ~ Still Hot, Just Flashing
What do you miss from your 20s… and what are you finally DONE with?In this episode, we go from chaotic basement energy to surprisingly deep real talk about midlife, menopause, identity, and the parts of ourselves we lost (or buried) along the way.We get into:The fearless energy of our 20s (and where it went)Negative self-talk and why women shrink themselvesMotherhood, choices, and the “you can’t undo this” realitySleep struggles, fibromyalgia, and menopause symptomsMakeup, aging, and the pressure to “keep up appearances”Reclaiming strength, joy, and dreaming BIG again in midlifeIt’s messy, it’s honest, it’s hilarious — and it might just make you rethink everything you thought aging meant.Because maybe… this isn’t the end of anything.Maybe this is where we get a little wild again.
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Episode 26: Am I Lazy… or Just Avoiding My Own Life?
Ever stand in the shower mentally beating yourself up for being “lazy”… while also running a full life, managing responsibilities, and generally doing a thousand things?Yeah. Same.In this episode of The Sage Stage, we start with a simple question that quickly spirals into something much bigger:Is procrastination actually laziness… or is it fear?Because if we’re honest, most of us know exactly what we should be doing — exercising, taking care of ourselves, chasing the thing we say we want.So why don’t we do it?This conversation wanders (as all good ones do) through:Why procrastination often hides fear, failure, or self-worth issuesThe weird human habit of organizing cupboards instead of changing our livesWhy it's easier to live in a life that’s just “meh” than actually take responsibility for what we wantThe uncomfortable truth about self-worth and commitmentParenting, identity, and the empty nest reality checkThe strange ways women reshape their lives around relationshipsWhy exercise feels like punishment but dancing for four hours somehow doesn’tWe also talk about the moment many of us hit in midlife:When the kids are grown, the routines change, and suddenly you have to ask yourself…“Who am I now?”Along the way there are a few laughs, a couple of uncomfortable realizations, and an extremely questionable plan to start dance-walking for exercise.Will it work?Stay tuned.😘
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Episode 25: Finding Joy In The Chaos
Work. Kids. Relationships. Responsibilities. Existential thoughts in the grocery store.Modern life is… a lot.In this episode of The Sage Stage, we tackle a listener question:How do you actually find joy while working full-time, raising kids, and living inside the beautiful chaos of real life?Because the truth is, life rarely slows down long enough for us to magically become happy.Instead, we talk about what it really takes to build happiness inside the chaos — not after everything is finally perfect.Along the way we get into:Why happiness is an active practice, not a passive rewardThe myth of “I’ll be happy when…”Motherhood, identity, and letting your kids become who they areBoundaries (for your kids, your partner, your friends… and yourself)Why avoiding the thing you really want to do will slowly drive you nutsThe surprising freedom that comes with midlife self-awarenessWe also talk about:worrying about the futuretrying to control everythingorganizing cupboards instead of doing the thing that actually mattersand the moment you realize you can probably handle whatever life throws at youBecause sometimes happiness isn’t about fixing your whole life.Sometimes it’s about realizing:Nothing is wrong right now.And that might be enough.If you're navigating motherhood, relationships, personal growth, and midlife reinvention — while still trying to enjoy your life — this conversation will feel very familiar.Chaos included.
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Episode 24: Why Am I Tired? Oh Right. People.
Are you an empath… or just wildly overstimulated?In this episode of The Sage Stage, we get into empathy, empath life, emotional boundaries, energy work, and why some of us need a nap after a grocery store run.Yes, we talk about therapeutic touch — but mostly we talk about what it actually feels like to absorb a room, over-identify with other people’s emotions, and then wonder why you’re exhausted.We cover:The difference between empathy and sympathyBeing an empath in midlifeEmotional boundaries (without becoming cold)Why rest matters after energy workHow to stop carrying feelings that aren’t yoursDeath, the afterlife, and the weird comfort of not knowing everythingThis isn’t a lecture on healing modalities.It’s a conversation about being sensitive in a loud world.If you’ve ever walked into a room and immediately known the vibe…If you’ve ever confused compassion with over-functioning…If you’re someone trying to protect your energy without shutting down…Welcome.We’re talking personal growth, emotional intelligence, spiritual curiosity, empath burnout, midlife awakening, and figuring out what’s yours to carry — and what absolutely is not.No incense required.Boundaries strongly encouraged.
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Episode 23: It's Our "No is a complete sentence" Era
Friendship in your 20s was “we met once and now we’re trauma-bonded.”Friendship in your 50s is “I love you. And no.”😂In this episode of The Sage Stage, we’re talking female friendships in midlife — the glow-ups, the fade-outs, and the moment you realize you don’t have to overextend yourself just to prove you’re a good person. Been there, done that!Because women over 50 are done auditioning.We get into:How friendships change after 40 and 50Setting boundaries without a villain editOutgrowing people (with compassion, not fireworks)The difference between loyalty and obligationProtecting your energy without disappearingThis isn’t about dramatic exits.It’s about emotional adulthood.It’s about saying “that doesn’t work for me” without a five-paragraph apology.It’s about loving your friends and still choosing yourself.Midlife friendships aren’t colder.They’re clearer.And honestly? That’s hotter.
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Episode 22: Past Lives & Laundry Day
Energy Healing, Intuitive Gifts & Midlife IdentitySome creative projects leave you tired.Some leave you rearranged at a cellular level.In this episode of The Sage Stage, Chandra and Jane talk about energy work, creative burnout, psychic ability, spiritual awakening, and what actually happens after you pour your soul into something.Because no one tells you about the energetic hangover.We get into the aftermath of creativity, empath life, intuitive gifts, past lives (yes, we went there), spirituality and faith, and the strange middle ground between “this is sacred” and “I still have to unload the dishwasher.”If you’ve ever:Felt wiped out after a creative projectWondered if you’re intuitive… or just tiredQuestioned your spiritual giftsStruggled to define your creative identityTried to balance faith, spirituality, and real lifeNeeded better self-care habits but also rolled your eyes at the phrase “self-care”Welcome. You’re among friends.This episode is about creative energy, personal growth, spiritual development, burnout recovery, intuitive awareness, and learning to protect your own energy without becoming weird about it.We’re talking midlife creativity, psychic sensitivity, energy healing, self-discovery, and the radical act of embracing your unique gifts — without turning it into a personality cult.No incense required.Martini optional.Join our newsletter!https://thesagestage.myflodesk.com/signup
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episode 21: Excuse Me? I’d Like to Return This Version of Myself Please
Midlife Awakening, Authenticity & Reinventing Yourself After 50 (Without Losing Your Mind)Somewhere between “be nice” and “be grateful,” a lot of women lost themselves.This episode is for the women who woke up one day and thought, “Hang on… whose life am I living?”Chandra and Jane talk about midlife awakening, authenticity, self-love, burnout recovery, and the complicated art of becoming yourself again — after decades of being the good daughter, the capable colleague, the reliable friend, the fun one.We get into:Midlife identity crisis (the real one, not the convertible)Personal growth after 40 and 50Letting go of people-pleasingReinventing yourself in midlifeFemale friendships and vulnerabilityHealing after burnoutCareer pivots for womenAging without disappearingNo therapy buzzwords.No five-step glow-ups.No pretending we’ve “arrived.”Just honest conversation about mistakes, social expectations, creative reinvention, and why aging as a Gen X woman can feel equal parts freeing and mildly feral.Because self-discovery in midlife isn’t aesthetic.It’s messy.It’s humbling.It’s funny in hindsight.And sometimes it sounds like:“I think I’m done performing.”If you’re navigating midlife reinvention, self-worth, authenticity, creative life after 50, or just trying to figure out who you are now — this is your people.Follow The Sage Stage for smart, irreverent conversations about women over 50, personal development, honest communication, creative confidence, and building a life that actually fits.Come for the wisdom.Stay for the mild rebellion.Join our newsletter! link below https://thesagestage.myflodesk.com/signup
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Episode 20: The Jobs That Broke Us (And Why We’re Weirdly Grateful Now)
Career rejection, being underestimated, and refusing to go quietly into midlifeThis episode of The Sage Stage was recorded on the opening night of The 39 Steps, powered by exhaustion, theatre adrenaline, and zero tolerance for bullshit. From jobs that stabbed us in the back to careers that never materialized the way we were promised, we get honest about rejection, resilience, and why “security” might’ve ruined us anyway.Spoiler: we swear. We laugh. We spiral a little. And somehow land on joy.If you’ve ever been passed over, blindsided, or told “we went in a different direction” while you were literally doing the job—this one’s for you.🎧 Listen if you’re…Rebuilding your identity after a career disappointmentTired of being underestimated because you’re joyful or creativeRethinking work, success, and security after 40Wondering what the hell you’re doing—and why it still mattersWe’re just getting started here on The Sage Stage.More conversations. More theatre. More truth.And yes—eventually, a writers’ retreat (wild ride included).Follow, subscribe, and come sit with us.We’re tired. We’re honest. And we’re not done yet.
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Episode 19: Say It. Do It.
Accountability sounds great… until someone asks you to actually follow through. 😏In this episode of The Sage Stage, we poke, prod, and side-eye the whole concept of accountability—along with trust, communication, and those promises everyone makes with very good intentions. We talk about what happens when words don’t match actions, why “I thought you knew” is the root of most relationship chaos, and how unclear communication can quietly set everything on fire.With humour, sass, and a few well-chosen words, we unpack accountability in personal relationships, professional settings, and leadership—plus why compassion isn’t weakness, clarity isn’t rude, and authenticity beats corporate-speak every time. Language matters, tone matters, and yes, follow-through matters most of all.If you’ve ever been ghosted, misunderstood, let down, or dealt with someone who couldn’t keep a promise, this funny, sharp, and deeply relatable conversation is for you. Consider it group therapy—with laughs.
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Episode 18: Why We Can’t Finish Things (And What We’re Afraid It Says About Us)
Why is it easier to dream about a better life than actually finish the damn thing you started? 😅In this episode of The Sage Stage, we dig into consistency, creativity, procrastination, and the very real fear of putting yourself out there—especially when comparison culture is shouting in your ear. We talk emotional disconnect, success anxiety, and how hustle culture quietly convinces women that more stuff equals more worth (spoiler: it doesn’t).From side-eyeing the obsession with homeownership to imagining tiny home communities, we question what “success” is actually supposed to look like—and who decided that anyway. We also unpack romantic expectations, modern relationships, and the gap between what we’re told to want and what we truly value.If you’re tired of chasing someone else’s version of a good life and ready to define your own—with more intention, creativity, and honesty—this conversation is for you. Welcome back to The Sage Stage, where we’re done pretending procrastination is a personality flaw and not a clue.
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Episode 17: Still Performing, Still Oversharing
Cue the lights, ignore the nerves, and definitely don’t trip over the set. 🎭😏In this episode of The Sage Stage, we spill the tea on life in the theatre—from our very first performances and deeply embarrassing onstage moments to the unexpected role dance plays and the awkward art of intimacy in live performance. Because nothing builds character quite like forgetting your lines in front of an audience.We swap stories about acting, directing, creative dynamics, and why owning your mistakes is basically Theatre 101 (and honestly, a solid life skill after 50). It’s nostalgic, hilarious, and full of love for the art of performance that shaped us—and still keeps us on our toes.If you’ve ever loved theatre, danced your way through life, or learned the hard way that perfection is overrated, this funny, behind-the-scenes conversation is for you.
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Episode 16: From Awkward to Awesome (Eventually)
Cringe happens. Growth follows. Sometimes there’s dancing. 😏💃In this episode of The Sage Stage, hosts Chandra and Jane dive headfirst into childhood embarrassments, family dynamics, and all the awkward moments that shape who we become—especially once we hit midlife. From body image and aging to relationships, self-acceptance, and learning to laugh at our own mistakes, nothing is off-limits (including ourselves).We swap stories, reflect on how far we’ve come, and talk about why embracing imperfection is kind of the whole point of living your biggest life after 50. There’s also joy, movement, a little dancing, and a peek at what’s coming next—because reinvention doesn’t stop just because you’ve collected some wisdom.If you’re navigating life, working on self-acceptance, unpacking family stuff, or just need a reminder that embarrassment builds character, this funny, honest conversation is for you.
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Episode 15: Too Old to Be This Insecure: Self-Love, Confidence & Reinvention
What if the glow-up isn’t external… and never was? 👀In this episode of The Sage Stage, we lovingly call BS on approval-seeking, unpack why asking everyone else to validate us is a losing game, and talk about what real self-love looks like when you’re done playing nice. We dive into relationship communication, emotional expression, and why women—especially at this stage of life—are finally done pretending vulnerability is weakness.We also tackle those invisible “upper limits” that pop up the moment things start going well (why do we do that?!), and what it means to commit—fully and unapologetically—to our creative lives.If you’re ready to stop shrinking, start trusting yourself, and pivot into your boldest, wisest, most you chapter yet… pull up a chair. The Sage Stage has entered the chat.
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Episode 14: Scrolling, Swiping & Surviving
New year, new adventures… and a few modern headaches. 🎉😏In this episode of The Sage Stage, we dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes confusing world of life after 50. From navigating menopause and evolving conversations around midlife wellness, to surviving the social media circus and the endless subscription shuffle, we cover it all with honesty, humour, and a touch of irreverence.We also share personal stories about modern dating, how relationships are changing, and the lessons that come with living your biggest life in a digital age. And because this is The Sage Stage, we want to hear from you! Join the conversation, share your thoughts, and suggest topics you’d love us to tackle next.If you’re living life after 50, laughing at the chaos, and redefining what it means to thrive, this episode is for you.
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Episode 13: New Year, Same Legends
New year, new resolutions… or maybe just fewer apologies and better naps. 🎉😏In this episode of The Sage Stage, we take on New Year’s resolutions, personal growth, and self-care after 50—when you’re finally brave enough to question the rules, ditch the labels, and stop trying to become a “better version” of yourself for other people.We talk about letting go of societal expectations, job titles, and long-held “shoulds,” why being present is harder (and more powerful) than it sounds, and how mindfulness, self-acceptance, and a little courage can change the way we step into the new year. Along the way, we look back at what we’ve already accomplished—because growth doesn’t start from zero, no matter what January tells you.This funny, honest conversation is for anyone navigating midlife, craving intentional living, and redefining success in their 50s and beyond. Less pressure, more purpose—and zero interest in becoming a morning person.
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Episode 12: Christmas Isn’t Perfect—and Neither Are We
Christmas: the season of magic, memories… and occasionally labour pains. 🎅✨In this heartfelt (and hilariously honest) episode, we unwrap our favourite Christmas memories—from wide-eyed childhood belief in Santa to the very real experience of giving birth during the holidays. We laugh, we reflect, and we get a little misty-eyed as we explore how family, gratitude, love, and sheer festive chaos shape the season we hold so close.It’s nostalgic, meaningful, and sprinkled with just enough irreverence to remind you that Christmas isn’t perfect—but that’s exactly why it’s magical.
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Episode 11: If It’s Not Awkward, Is It Even Christmas?
Holiday traditions, questionable gift choices, and the kind of family chaos you only survive with wine.This week, we’re diving headfirst into Christmas memories — the good, the weird, and the “why did we ever think this was a good idea?” From food that should absolutely be illegal to gift-giving mishaps that still haunt us, we’re unpacking the traditions that shaped us… and the ones we’re still trying to escape.We also get real about fostering, chosen family, and how opening your home can completely rewrite the rules of what “family” looks like. Turns out, magic doesn’t come from perfection — it comes from showing up, burning the roast, and loving whoever’s sitting at the table.If you’re navigating holidays, nostalgia, and the art of creating new traditions (without losing your mind), this episode is for you.🎧 Laugh, reminisce, and maybe steal a tradition or two — because after 50, we’re keeping the magic and rewriting the rules.
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Episode 10: Holiday Expectations~ Lower Them With Us
Join us as we spiral lovingly into the madness of holiday expectations, aging hair drama, and the deeply relatable meltdown that comes from trying to be a functional adult in December. We unpack everything from “Is my hair colour ruining my life?” to “Why are women expected to bake, wrap, host, smile, sparkle, AND stay sane?”In this episode, we burn down outdated traditions (metaphorically… mostly), confess our seasonal guilt, and figure out how to create holidays that actually feel good—without pretending we're Martha Stewart’s long-lost nieces.If you’re into honesty, humour, real talk about self-image, and the sacred art of giving gifts you definitely bought last minute, welcome. We’re here to make the holidays a little less perfect… and a whole lot more joyful.
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Episode 9: Midlife, But We’re Fine. Totally Fine
Get ready for an episode that unpacks the wild ride of aging like two people who definitely missed the orientation session! We dive into everything from hormone drama to sleep deprivation to the emotional “plot twists” that pop up when you least expect them.We talk about finding your zone of genius,surviving relationships when you're running on fumes, and why vulnerability keeps showing up like the unexpected hero of the story. It’s honest, hilarious,and full of those “oh thank god it’s not just me” moments.If you're navigating health, growth, connection, or just life’s ongoing weirdness, this one will make you laugh, reflect, and maybe feel a little more human.
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Episode 8: Emotions, Expletives & Everything In Between
Get ready for an episode where nothing’s scripted, everything’s honest, and at least one strategic F-bomb is guaranteed. We dive headfirst into life’s plot twists, why swearing feels weirdly therapeutic, and how our love languages sometimes sound more like Google Translate glitches. Expect messy emotions, real talk, personal stories we probably shouldn’t say out loud, and a whole lot of growth… the kind you don’t post on Instagram. If you’re into authenticity with a side of chaos, you’re in the right place.
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Episode 7: Raising Humans You Actually Like
Parenting: the one gig where nobody gets a manual, yeteveryone has opinions. In this episode, we tumble headfirst into the emotional circus of raising humans — from the “empty nest” meltdown to the unspoken sibling rivalries that definitely didn’t start yesterday. We talk parenting styles, questionable choices, teaching kids not to be tiny sociopaths, and remembering your marriage exists somewhere under the laundry pile. It’s all about communicating, screwing up, learning, unlearning, and letting your kids be their wonderfully weird selves.Basically: a lovingly chaotic deep-dive into how to parent without losing your mind (or your personality).
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Episode 6: Vibes from the Other Side
Today, we dive headfirst into the weird and wonderful world of energy, spirituality, and all things that go bump in the night. We spill the spooky tea — from ghost encounters and dream messages to the wild ways trauma can awaken hidden spiritual gifts. We’re talking energy healing, rituals, and that sweet spot where science meets the mystical. Tune in for deep feels, good vibes, and the reminder that we’ve all got a little magic buzzing inside us. ✨
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Episode 5: Your Authentic Self Called — She’s Fine, Actually
Ever feel like you’re juggling flaming expectations while trying not to cry in the corner? Same. This episode’s all about dropping the act — being vulnerable, holding yourself accountable, and admitting that personal growth can be a total emotional rollercoaster. We’re flipping the script on progress and learning to celebrate wins instead of obsessing over what’s still missing. Spoiler alert: your authentic self is already kind of awesome. So grab your headphones and your emotional baggage — we’re in for a bumpy ride!
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Episode 4: Let's Talk About Sex, Baby!
Hot flashes, hotter topics. In this episode we get real about sex, hormones, and the wild ride of womanhood in midlife. From steamy intimacy chats to the truth about HRT, marriage, and rediscovering yourself, we turn taboo into talkable. Raw, bold, and unapologetically real — it’s time to own your pleasure, power, and perfectly changing body.
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Episode 3: Religion, Politics, Energy, Oh My!
Get ready to ditch perfection and tap into your true energy! In this episode we crack open real talk on spirituality, and the power of embracing your fears. We take a roundabout path that leads us to the realization that fear just needs a big kiss on the lips!
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Episode 2: The Hot Mess Express ~ All Aboard!
In this episode, we spill the beans on wrangling time, chaos, and creativity—plus the epic circus act of being a woman who’s expected to do it all. We laugh about shattered to-do lists, wild dreams, and the impossible quest for “balance.” Think confessions, quick tips, and a reminder to show that inner critic the exit. Let’s get real, get loud, and get stuff done—our way!
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The First One: WE DID IT!
OMG, we freakin’ did it! Dive in with us as we tackle all the juicy stuff—fear, anxiety, and why keeping it real is the secret sauce for leveling up in life. This episode is all about throwing vulnerability on the table, embracing the messy awesomeness of life, and why imperfection is actually your superpower.
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Jane and Chandra, just two average menopausal women trying to figure out how to live life in the biggest way possible. Expect humour, honesty, and the willingness to bare it all for your amusement. Or dismay. Either is possible on The Sage Stage!
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
We are two women fed up with living small. This is our journey. (btw, we say f**k a lot, and don't edit our shit).
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Jane and Chandra
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