The Self Love Witch Podcast

Glamour Magick is the root of EVERYTHING. You see it all throughout life & in the way people react to the overall confidence of a person. In this episode, I discuss why the concept of glamour magick is important and how it shapes the foundation of your life. And it always is, intentionally or unintentionally. When a person exudes a high self-concept and exalts themselves as a daily practice, they open themselves up to a world of new energy. That energy is one that opens doors, removes blockages, and demands respect. Aside from supporting the act of being more magnetic and beautiful, Glamour magick in itself is protection & helps rewire your brain to accept and expect the highest for oneself. How you view and treat yourself will always influence the world around you. Through daily methods of self-love and self-admiration, we learn to continuously put ourselves on the journey of living better lives with better outcomes.

Self- Devotion is defined as the unwavering commitment to honoring, nurturing, and prioritizing your own well-being, personal growth, and inner peace.Within womanhood, this daily devotional commitment is often a rare occurrence for many women . In this episode, I wanted to discuss how much self devotion can lead a woman to her greatest calling and highest point of joy. Self devotion is not only the act of committing to one’s joy, but prioritizing it infinitely. Women who access this energy tend to live better lives, preserve their energy, preserve their beauty, and endure less stress overall. Being self absorbed is not always a bad thing, especially when it comes to one’s life priorities. Accessing this energy allows someone to dive deeper into their dark feminine because there is less self restriction and less guilt around their journey . Tune in to hear more. 🪭✨

In honor of Venus Day, I wanted to drop a Venusian topic focused on our right to centering pleasure within our lives. The pleasure principle is the act of saying YES to all things that bring a healthy, sensuous & joyous way of living to our daily lives. I speak on my experience adopting the pleasure principle by learning boundaries, staying intentional, decentering others (while centering myself) & tuning into the presence of my existence. More to come on this topic! Enjoy!!

Hey Y'all! It's been some time! I have finally set up a microphone and turned on the camera. In this episode, I'm discussing how womanhood feels in my 30's, the process of recreating, being a self authored woman, and staying in that power. If you're new here! WELCOME! This is The Self Love Witch Podcast where we talk all things magik, divine femininity, beauty, womanhood, life lessons and the mystical side of life. Stay Tuned. More to come! WE ARE NOW ON YOUTUBE AS WELL! https://www.youtube.com/@TheSelfLoveWitchPodcast

She’s backkkkkkk!!! 🙋🏾‍♀️✨🫣 It’s a pleasure to say that another episode is hereeee! I’ve been on a long hiatus for personal reasons and today’s episode is a great start to begin to explain why. During our mission to evolve and expand on the person we are growing to be, it requires us to look inward and pick and choose what must come and what must go (internally and externally). The thing that must remain important is to make sure as we are inspired and figuring out what those things are, we must keep in mind that we are the masterpiece. The moment we lose sight of ourselves and lacking that patience needed for our journey, we dishonor ourselves and our life. Please vote in the poll to let me know what you all would like to hear next. ✨

My new series focuses on Glamour Magick which encompasses all things beauty, sensuality, attraction, abundance & love which is also why these episodes are dropped only on Venus days ✨🪞 In this episode I discuss how to accept the power of your beauty & all of the not so pleasant things that come with it. With this gift, one must learn to protect it & to also learn to identify envy, leeches & other things that can pull our energy. I dive deeper into how to spot jealousy, staying vigilant, how to identify if you’re in a leeching/egotistical connection & a diy protection oil you can make to protect oneself in social settings. 🧿💐

In honor of Venus day (Friday), I wanted to begin honoring the presence of beauty, abundance, sensuality & love in our lives. Today, I’m discussing beauty and one way we can all create more rituals honoring & cultivating our beauty: mirror work. I discuss the steps to enchant your mirror, the many ways your mirror is a great helper in your feminine alchemy, & how to use mirrors to transform and heal one’s confidence. Enjoy & Stay beautifully & magically YOU!

In this episode, I get detailed on how tuning into our senses & prioritizing our pleasure allows for easier manifestation. When one is in a consistent state of pleasure/arousal with their existence, that flow allows doors to open to our deepest desires. I speak on my journey of adopting the “Pleasure Principle” ✨🌹❤️‍🔥 and my daily rituals to keep me in a state of pleasure sensually which has allowed for quicker and more effective manifesting & ritual work. Join me on this journey of bliss & allow the flow to come into your life by walking hand in hand with your sensual self. Enjoy!

In this episode, I discuss my journey of being fiercely protective of my “Yes” by comfortably saying “No”. In a society where people pleasing, being afraid to set boundaries and having a fear of going towards an unfamiliar route/journey is the norm, it’s still important to strive to continue to practice breaking that mindset for your own growth & confidence. Saying “No” may not always feel like you’re saying “Yes” and that’s okay; however, using that power to keep the pathways open for your true desires and declining anything below that is our god given right. I hope that we all become comfortable with standing in our power, honoring our boundaries & staying true to our needs. Enjoy 🌹💋💫

In this episode, I rawly discuss my journey of intentional solitude, surrendering to the shifts of transition in life & breaking down the things I’ve learned so far. In the midst of NECESSARY change it is not always comfortable nor does it always feel great yet it’s such a soul cleansing process & I want to candidly express the beauty I have found in it all. There is beauty in surrender & there is peace in releasing. Happy self care Sunday!

In this special full moon episode, I discuss how I intentionally used my birthday for solitude and self reflection. During this time I realized how important it is to treat yourself to the standards that you desire from others so that you have your own set code of conduct/standards that are unwavering. If we don’t teach ourselves & others how to treat us, then they will attempt to give you whatever they see fit which usually isn’t fitting for you. I dive deep into why single-hood should be used to adopt a routine to prioritize yourself & your desires while learning to balance having other relationships/responsibilities. I also touch on how this can be done even while dating (we should never feel the need to be second). Tune in to this special gem! Happy full moon everybody! 💋

In this episode I discuss the divinity of this day known to be “unlucky” within society & the energetic power of the number 13. Today is a day to honor the divine feminine, awaken ones magic, reflect on our spiritual fulfillment, womanhood, releasing old energetic chords, & evaluating our peace. I hope this encourages us to fixate on our individual divinity & finding ways to protect/nurture it. Stay in your goddess flow!

In this episode, I get straight into the power of our sensuality and the importance of defining it on your own terms. We are in a time where sensuality is not only hardly spoken about, it’s seen as a hidden art in such a sexualized world. I was determined to expose the unseen magic within our sensuality when it comes to our magnetism, seduction, manifestation, our self learning journey and alchemy. Sensuality can be a game changer both in and OUT of the bedroom while leaving a sprinkle of magic everywhere she goes. Enjoy! 😉

Today’s episode is a self care Sunday special! On this special self care Sunday, I wanted to expand on the idea of using our Rest as an Act of Resistance in a culture that benefits from our stress, confusion and misalignment with ourselves. I touch on ways to incorporate ways to Destress and energetically release daily so that we can stay calm in spirit and at peace within ourselves. Rest not only helps with our stress, it also helps with our judgement, intuition, responses, relationships, health, etc. Nothing can flow from a stressed source without causing more chaos. I encourage you to take the time to unwind and settle into yourself and know that it’s a necessity to your success and healing. Thank you for tuning in!

In this episode I discuss my experiences with identifying snakes in the grass while evaluating the people within my energy circle. It’s important to have genuine and loving energy around you at all times and to make sure you are on one accord with the people you entrust with your personal business, your presence and your life. I discuss how to identify envy, obsession, darkness, insincerity, and those who may be wearing masks around you for their own benefit. Take a deep dive with me and let’s keep the people around us genuine & real which allows for us to have better flow and peace within our daily lives.

In this episode, I breakdown my experience with working on my mindset & perception to allow myself to accept that I’m deserving of soft living, ease & flow. Queen Consciousness is a term that embodies the nature of carrying one’s self in a manner that is nurturing to one’s goals, boundaries & self love. I touch base on lifestyle, the company we keep, and the mentality we must adopt to stay firm in our commitment to live life on our terms unapologetically. Take a listen and enjoy! 💕

A pivotal point of focus for one’s soft woman era is to welcome softness and to define what femininity is in one’s life. In this episode, I break down what femininity is aside from attracting masculine energy or using it for dating. I also discuss my journey & how beneficial welcoming and creating space for femininity is within our lives. This allows for more flow and bliss to naturally exist within our lives. Enjoy this hour long session diving deep into our mystical feminine waters and uncovering the mystery of our magical divine energy. 🥂

✨🥂 This is a special episode dedicated to all of us on our journey towards soft living. The Soft girl era is all about being selective with our energy, our time & our experiences. In this episode, I dive deep & discuss my journey thus far & what I’ve learned about myself along with tips that I feel assist with this lifestyle shift ✨

In this episode I discuss the rage that arises once we feel betrayed, belittled, disrespected or triggered by a person or thing in the midst of forgiveness. Not only is this rage valid, it is also a call from the divine spirit within us as women to make a change to protect & honor ourselves as we should. That anger that arises that we are taught to silence to appear graceful” or “lady like” is not to be ignored. It is a sacred call to guide us into establishing a healthy relationship with ourselves, our boundaries & our self respect. It is a rage that demands you to be treated as you deserve & requires us to listen.

Navigating life requires us to learn hard lessons and one of those lessons is learning to trust our intuition. If you’re like me then you can tend to be a little stubborn when it comes to honoring what you see when true colors are shown. We can tend to try to paint different aesthetically pleasing portraits when we are showing the ugliest of colors by those we may care about. In this episode, I discuss my own personal experience with learning to read energy, protecting it and how i am learning to trust what my intuition tells me the first go round.

In this episode I get vulnerable with my experience regarding my healing process with working on boundaries, discipline & not internalizing the actions of others/traumatic things that have occurred within my life. Too often, I find we tend to feel wrong for making decisions regarding releasing connections that don’t serve our healing, our health, our joy and our peace of mind. I breakdown how I’ve began to navigate breaking down my traumas & disappointments & learning what love and genuine intention is for me & how I receive it In this world.

In this episode I breakdown my views on self compassion & discuss the ways I implement it into my life while also merging self care practices into it. The way that we care for & extend grace to ourselves not only affects our relationship w self but also with others. Self compassion can start as little as a morning cup of tea or a full live meditation dedicated to forgiving yourself. Let’s talk normalizing self compassion as adults! Tune in & Take a listen!

In this episode I speak on how nourishing the spiritual and mental body plays a major role in keeping one focused, aligned and receptive during their manifestation journey. I dive deep into my experience with learning the power of my thoughts and how I figured out what soul food was for me. It’s important to keep ourselves properly fed spiritually because we do not make the best decisions when anxious, uncentered or malnourished. The choices we make on a day to day basis influence EVERYTHING. I believe that with being strategic & intentional with how we move impacts our manifestation process and our entire life more than we may realize and I discuss how I began to realize that. Please allow yourself to check in daily and see what is nourishing your spirit and what is depleting it so that you remain in YOUR power over of your life.

In January of 2022, I vividly remember envisioning the kind of life I wanted to live over the next 12 months. I wanted to live free from the past, free from the attachment of my old self & of my old life. I wanted to finally choose ME after years of choosing everything else. In this episode I discuss what a selfish year is to me, why I chose it, & the important life lessons I’ve learned so far.

In the midst of engaging with others & embarking on our magical path, protection & routine cleansings are pivotal to our journey. In this episode I discuss ways to maintain healthy spiritual hygiene by working on your aura, protective rituals, routine cleansings & being intentional about where we allow our presence. Tune in now & I hope you enjoy ✨

In a world that praises toxicity & detached ways of being, where does the softness get a place to exist freely? In this episode I discuss why this popular mindset of being defensive is a survivalist mindset is not only detrimental but also self sabotaging. I also discuss ways to protect your softness in ways that don’t require you to have to “fight” but instead, encourage healthy spaces for freely existence & healing.

In this episode I speak on my experience with navigating building connections and noticing the energies that are common amongst my experiences and amongst my peers. It poses the question of if genuine energy amongst others is becoming rare. If so, how do we distinguish and discern who is genuine vs who is not? How do we read the energy and how do we keep ourselves alert to keep balanced & pure energy around & within us? Tune in as I navigate & share my perspective ✨💪🏾

I like to look at life as a garden. In the moments of the unknown is when a seed is being planted and we are waiting on the sprout. In this episode I talk about how Life is all about change and how we can use the concept of the patience to curate a garden to make sense of it all. During seasons of change or lack of, it’s important to remember something is always at work. We just have to keep tending to our flowers in the midst of it all without losing sight of our purpose, the intention & the beauty present. 🪷💓

The tongue is a powerful tool used to shift change. In this episode I break down the power of intentionally speaking while manifesting and building a mindset focused on assisting you in speaking life, love, blessings, and growth over yourself and your desires.

In this single period of my life I’m learning a lot about myself, dating, energetic exchange and boundaries. The transition into this new way of life has been both beautiful and scary however it’s been enlightening. In this episode I discuss what I’ve learned about myself and a few tips that help a fellow magical intuitive woman/man navigate the dating scene (or not if chosen not to), embracing solitude, and how to honor what we need above all else to make sure we attract the BEST in ourselves, places, opportunities and relationships.

We are human and we are new to living life no matter how old or experienced we are, we have never been in the exact position we are now. Each time is different and we have to be more kind with ourselves & understanding that life is unpredictable and we must learn to flow and take the part of least resistance✨ in this podcast I speak about my experience with this feeling and how I’m learning to navigate it all. Hope it helps someone. Take it easy on yourself ✨💛

Hey lovelies ✨🧚🏾🌹 this is a much needed topic: BOUNDARIES! we all have them and need them needless to say so in this episode we speak on why enforcing them is KEY 🔑 & why trusting ourselves plays a major role as well.

Embodying Abundance is not an easy task especially if you’ve never seen it done or never had a discussion about it. In this episode I speak on my journey with adopting an abundance mindset and the ways I’ve learned to Change the narrative through the power of my tongue, prayer, mind power, etc. along with ways to identify a scarcity mindset & ways to combat it. We also will dive deep into realizing how abundance looks, feels and how it’s reflected in our daily lives. I hope you all enjoy!

In the midst of chaos or disharmony, we have two choices, to choose our own inner peace & do whatever it is that accompanies that OR choose to dabble in the mess. This episode is me reflecting on how choosing peace feels & how to understand those that are committed to misunderstanding you choosing your peace. At the end of the day, the motto is “CHOOSE YOUR PEACE” 🥰✨🦋💪🏾

Honoring your truth and your essence allows for alignment towards your greatest purpose. Opinions are not your business. Take pride in your walk, your talk, and continue to grow 🤍

The journey of self love & healing never ends & nature is here to assist us and teach us how to go about facing ourselves. In this episode, I discuss the energy associated with the full moon & how we can better deal with the energy that accompanies it & make it work to assist us. Releasing & healing isn’t Easy, but it’s for YOU and that’s enough reason to continue on 🌹 Host: @nefertiraadeleke @theselflovewitchpodcast

This new moon I focused on Living & speaking intentionally because it is KEY to embracing and fully enjoying this magical lifestyle. There is power in our tongue and transformation in our alchemy. The mastery of learning to alchemize and transmute every situation is what keeps us aligned and present with our lives. I hope you choose to be intentional & alchemize your situation every single day! Be blessed! Follow my instagram page @theselflovewitchpodcast ✨ Shop Goddess Holistic Herbal Healing at @thegoddessapothecary or www.thegoddessapothecary.com

In this episode, we focus on physical health & preventative self care & medicine. I speak on my experience with learning to prioritize my health & understanding self care should not be a luxury but an everyday ritual.

We deserve compensation. Free work is not only belittling, it’s unnecessary. In this episode I speak on ways to expand our customer base in the right way & how to put a price on IT (products, services, your energy, etc.) no more short balling ourselves. Make sure that invoice is paid or the energy is compensated. Just bc our water comes from source & tapping into spirit, doesn’t mean Our cups don’t deserve to be filled financially as well.

There are situations we will come across that will test our boundaries & irk our emotions. We will be in unfair circumstances & things will begin to anger us but we must learn to cultivate, protect & honor our energy. In this podcast, I speak on different ways to view situations such as this & how to learn to break energetic cycles with those who do not mean well.