The Slayyyleste Show

Finding out you're dating someone who is a colorist really blows. Because why are you here??? Tune in as we discuss why you shouldn't date someone who doesn't see your value and recognizing some of those red flags.

The podcast revolves around chapter two of Dorothy Robert's groundbreaking book Killing the Black Body. The history of birth control is one that is complex and often dark. Historically, this something that can't be denied. In this podcast, we discuss the history of birth control, its ties to the eugenics movement, and how ultimately, the bodily autonomy of black women is always in question.

In the first episode of season 5, I discuss the first chapter of Dorothy Robert's book Killing the Black Body and detail the history of slavery and the unique role it plays in the conversation about black women, bodily autonomy, and reproductive justice.

Things are going to get a lot tougher for women, mothers, women of color, mothers of color, poor people, and everybody else when Roe v. Wade is overturned. And they are going to overturn it. What does this collectively mean for all of us? Let's discuss.

In this podcast I discuss the dynamics of abusive relationships and why people often face difficulties in leaving these relationships. I touch on several different reasons including power dynamics, manipulation, hope, and love.

I think the title says it all. Mothers do more and they and their children should receive financial support to care for their children and all of the various responsibilities it takes to raise children. This isn't a controversial statement. Period.

Life is full of contradictory truth. Grief and gladness can often exist in the same places and at the same time. This is true for so many people, and in this podcast I explore these feelings while also discussing the death of my father.

In this podcast I discuss my experiences dating as a single mother and offer advice and things to consider while dating as a single mother or dating a single mother. Enjoy! :)

Kanye West's behavior has been jarring for the past decade. I would say probably even before then. In this podcast I discuss the blame that is often placed on single mothers for leaving relationships and being the ones that "tear the family apart". I discuss Kanye's attacks on both his mother, Donda, and Kim Kardashian.

In this podcast, I detail eight different mental health challenges that single mothers face.

In this podcast I detail why I chose to be a single mother. This isn't necessarily a happy story, but rather one of making tough choices about how I felt and feel about parenthood and the dignity I feel like my child deserves to be raised in. This podcast is a continuation of exploring the intricacies of single mom life and broadening the dialogue about what single mothers endure.

Single motherhood is complex and difficult. Dive into my analysis of Issa Rae's Insecure, Condola, and single motherhood!

In this podcast I discuss my experiences being a single mother. I break the podcast into five areas, and I'll be discussing each of these areas in future podcasts. The truth is that being a single mom is super hard. But as always...there's light at the end of the tunnel.

Life is wild. I'm four years in the game this season and I'm happy to welcome all of you back!!! I have some cool life updates that I discuss before diving in a brief but exuberant celebration of the conviction of musical artist Robert Kelly. Get into it and protect black women!!!

Homophobia is pervasive in society. It's visible in both very obvious and covert ways. In this podcast, Edwin and I, both members of famous and esteemed black Greek letter organizations, discuss the rampant homophobia that is perpetuated throughout black Greek life.

In this podcast we explore colorism as an issue of class stratification through discussing the traditional exclusionary nature of black sororities. While it is true that all black women were created equal, not all black women are treated equally. Black sororities have historically admitted some black women and rejected others. Unfortunately, much of this has to do with skin tone and perceptions of class.

For nearly five years we've seen vicious and unprecedented attacks on the character of Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex. Recently, she and her husband, Harry, sat down with Oprah Winfrey to discuss the toxic and cruel treatment they've received at both the hands of the royal family and the media. One of the most talked about parts of the interview is when both Meghan and Harry revealed that there were concerns over the color and skin tone of their unborn son. Tune in for my take on all of this!

As part of an ongoing project I'm doing for my race, crime, and justice class, in this podcast I discuss land histories and how the very land that we live on has been stolen from indigenous people. I use this history of theft and genocide to discuss the high rates of murder and violence against indigenous women taking place today.

In this podcast, I discuss the way our society has responded both to Lori Harvey and Britney Spears. Misogyny is so dangerous and the way that the media perpetuates it has really dangerous implications for how women are allowed to live and express their freedom. My hope is that this podcast contributes to a larger conversation about women being able to live freely and holding the media accountable for perpetuating sexism.

In my latest podcast episode I discuss how protest, crime, and deviance are racialized and how Alexander's The New Jim Crow really illuminates what took place in Washington D.C. on January 6th.

Colorism is systemic. It cannot and should not be reduced to your "feelings". Coming off of the heels of Donald Trump's presidency and this general culture of thinking it's ok to say bizarre and contentious things just because, colorism shouldn't ever be used as clickbait for your views, likes, and social media engagement. It is real. It is painful. It causes irreparable damage. When you discuss colorism, please show deference.

On the eve of Kamala Harris being sworn in as our new vice president of the United States of America, I've continuously felt the need to speak about protecting black women, and especially black women who live their lives in the public realm. As black women continue to ascend into increasingly public roles and positions, the attacks on them will amplify. Tune in as I discuss why it is necessary to protect black women and why black women should always prioritize their mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

Welcome back guys!!! In episode three, we dive into colorism, texturism, and black hair. I discuss the relationship between colorism and black hair and how the two are rooted in white supremacy and the policing of black women and their appearances. Also, MY MF WEBSITE IS LIIIIIVE. Check it out!!! www.theslayyylesteshow.org

Hey hey! I'm late posting this because I experienced some technical difficulties over the weekend. BUT I'M HERE NOW!!! Today we ae discussing colorism and black elitism. We dive a little bit into its historical origins and discuss some of the ways that it continues to be perpetuated today. Tap in!

Hey everybody!!! I'm baaaaaaack! 2020 has been trash, but we are still here!!! I've decided to dedicate this podcast to discussing colorism and breaking down white supremacy and I can't wait for you all to join me on this journey.

Tune in for the premiere of season three of The Slayyyleste Show as I sit down and discuss the effects of colorism and raising black girls with my good friend Taryn!!!

The Kardashian/Jenners have solidified their place in the realm of reality TV, and more importantly within the mainstream pop culture lexicon. How did they do this and is their business plan a model that can be implemented by women of color? What role did privilege and capitalism play in their ability to be successful? Tune in as we dive into this discussion!!!

Emma, Whitney, and I sit down to discuss the damage that Robert Kelly has inflicted on his victims and the general culture of sexual violence and trauma that we continue to see ignored and tossed aside. Rape culture has allowed Robert Kelly to abuse black women and girls uninterrupted for over twenty years. Time's up. And if you are an R. Kelly apologist, then this podcast aint for you. PERIOD.

We've all watched the saga that has been the whirlwind marriage and relationship of Cardi B and Offset. We've seen the very public highs, we've seen the very public lows. We all watched as Cardi announced via Instagram that their relationship was over and subsequently endured a flurry of backlash for presumably ending their relationship. Let's talk about it. Let's talk about the trends we see in celebrity relationships and how the women in these relationship are often unfairly and unequally criticized compared to their male counterparts. Enjoy!!!

Continuing on with the major theme of capitalism and how it complicates our lived experiences, this episode continues the conversation about cultural appropriation and capitalism by focusing specifically on music and the music industry.

Continuing with the theme of capitalism and how it complicates our lived experiences, I sit down with Charles Smith II to discuss the cultural appropriation of black art, creativity, and fashion. We delve into themes of ownership, theft, and of course, compensation.

For the second episode of season two, I talk capitalism and the complex ways it affects romantic relationships with my sister. We delve into income, spending habits, financial expectations, gendered expectations and more!!! Get into it!!

In the first podcast of season two of The Slayyyleste Show, we dive in to the complex ways that race and capitalism complicate the food service industry and often disadvantage those working in it.

I do not mince words as I talk about my experiences with motherhood as a social institution, both personal and political, with two of my closest friends.

Tune in as we dissect the complexities of rape culture and its prevalence in mainstream society. We address this issue through an intersectional lens and touch on everything from dating and romance, media representations, and the role that toxic masculinity play in keeping rape culture well and alive.

We discuss everything body positivity down to the origins of movement, how it's being perpetuated today on social media and mainstream media platforms.

The month is February and love is in the air. So are gendered expectations of love, relationships, and dating. Slayyyleste and two very special guests sit down to deconstruct some of the more complex parts of dating that often exude gendered expectations onto people. We talk everything from relationships, sex, comprehensive sexual education, the pressures of social media, the intersectionality of identity and so much more!!! TUNE IN NOW.

In the third part of our series about colorism in the black community, we dive into a conversation about the unique ways that colorism affects black men and how it ultimately complicates the lived experience.

In the second part of our series on colorism, we look into the perspectives of light-skinned black women.

In this first episode of a multi-part series, we discuss how colorism affects dark-skinned women in the black community.

Slayyyleste and Pat Stacks dive into a complex conversation about the ways that pop culture and black feminism intersect to influence the lived experiences of women of color.

Celeste and three other guest dive into a complex dialogue about black hair and address several burning questions concerning black hair and the traditional standard of beauty, the politicization of black hair, and the liberating power of self-acceptance.