The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi

Can a person become poor by sharing too much. In this podcast I talk about why a generous person can be perceived as a target for human exploitation.

Marriage is meant to be a life long commitment. In this podcast I discuss if this commitment is strong enough to withstand career changes, changes in our physical appearance and drastic changes in economic status and earning capacity.

In this episode I answer a question on the idea of matchmaking and its place in the modern church

In this podcast I answer a question about the male and female dynamics of love, agreement and submission.

I was just a boy who loved to draw. I never imagined that simple passion would become a career, a business, and a journey filled with mistakes, wins, failures, and lessons. In this podcast, I tell the story of how I found art, became a graphic designer, and built a business around something I simply loved doing.

We like to think we are logical beings. We like to think we are spiritual beings. But perhaps, before all else, we are desirous beings. More often than we care to admit, we don’t follow what is true—we follow what we want.

We've been taught that winning is about success, money, or status. In this podcast, I argue that the biggest win in life is something you've already achieved.

In this podcast, I explore how money—something created to serve humanity—has over time become something humanity now serves.

Is natural scarcity a real thing, or is it man-made? In this podcast, I explore how nature is fundamentally rooted in abundance, and how many of the limitations we experience are created by human systems rather than nature itself.

This is a recording of a message to my mentee, Kevin. Here, I share my thoughts on money, scarcity, and how life really works.

In this episode, I talk about how modern-day work has slowly intruded on our sense of personal value, our ownership of time, and even our ability to rest and relax.

In this podcast, I talk about the root of worry, how it affects our lives, and what we can learn from children about battling and overcoming worry.

What looks like a disadvantage may actually be God’s perfect plan. What feels like a setback may be God shielding you from harm.

In this podcast episode, I explore what it truly means to win in life, what happiness really means, and what winning and victory truly mean beyond our usual definitions of success.

Sometimes, our clarity is clouded by our idea of what is realistic. When things don’t align with our perception of reality, we begin to doubt what we once saw clearly.In this podcast, I explore how our concept of reality can distort our clarity.

God’s desire is for a man and a woman to be united in marriage. Yet, the devil’s agenda is to keep people trapped in the vulnerabilities of singleness.In this podcast, I reveal 5 ways the devil keeps people single—and how these strategies can quietly hinder people from experiencing the marriage God intends for them.

In this podcast, I explore the concept of echad—the Hebrew word for unity—and why its deepest human expression is found in marriage. I examine what it means for two people to become “one” and why this kind of unity cannot be fully replicated in any other human relationship.

Has the world changed too much for biblical marriage to still work? Or is the problem not that God’s standard has changed—but that our culture has?

Do people really possess the ability to truly come together, to be of one mind and purpose? In this podcast I talk about why this might be much harder than we think.

Why do some people lead well while others fail—even when they have the authority to lead?In this podcast, I explore what effective leadership really is, the often-overlooked secret behind it, and why having the position to lead doesn’t necessarily make you a good leader.

Prayer is more than words spoken to God—it's a conversation that begins with a heart that can receive.In this episode, I explore what prayer really is, why we pray, and how we pray. I also discuss the kind of prayer that isn't merely offered but is received, and how God often speaks through the thoughts of our minds.If you've ever wondered whether God still speaks today, this conversation is for you.

Is bigger always better?In this podcast, I explore why the pursuit of more can sometimes cost us what is better. We often trade depth for scale, quality for quantity, and fulfillment for bigger opportunities—only to discover that bigger doesn't always satisfy.

What is the true value of people?In this episode, I explore the often-overlooked essence of people and why a growing population is not a burden but one of God's greatest advantages. I also examine why the enemy relentlessly attacks fruitfulness, families, and multiplication—and what that reveals about the power of people.

Everyone wants a good life. Very few have ever stopped to define it.

What does it really mean to judge someone? And what does it mean to be unfairly judged?The truth is, judging is easy when you've never had to live in someone else's world. We see people's decisions, but rarely their battles. We witness their actions, but almost never their circumstances.In this episode, I explore why we're so quick to become judges, why unfair judgment is almost inevitable, and how understanding another person's world can completely change our verdict.

A man's destiny is often won or lost in the battle for sexual self-control.In this episode, I explore how an uncontrolled sexual drive can quietly derail a man's God-given purpose, and why God's covenant is deeply connected to a man's ability to master his sexual desires. If you've ever wondered why so many gifted men fall short of their calling, this conversation will challenge the way you think about purpose, discipline, and spiritual authority.

Why do so many people struggle to find clarity in life?In this podcast, I explore the two biggest obstacles that keep people from developing clarity, wisdom, and discernment—and how overcoming them can transform the way you think and make decisions.

Here I reveal 3 mindsets that help overcome the delusion of desperation.

Have you ever wondered why some people are incredibly talented and gifted, yet never seem to go far in life? They have all the potential in the world, but never receive the recognition you believe they deserve. In this podcast, I reveal the three mindsets that separate the exceptional from the average—and why talent alone is rarely enough.

Is AI killing the design industry, or is it exposing it? In this podcast, I answer whether AI is replacing designers, taking jobs, or simply sanitizing the industry by separating real creatives from everyone else.

Have you ever wondered how the scattered dots of your life will ever make sense? How seemingly unrelated moments could one day fit into a bigger picture?In this episode, I explore how God orders our steps, weaves every season together, and, in His perfect timing, connects the dots into a story only He could have written.

We all have dreams, but dreams can become dangerous when they replace action. In this episode, I explore the subtle trap of living in aspiration mode—always imagining the future while neglecting what can be done today. Your future isn't built by what you hope for; it's built by what you do now. Don't let dreaming stop you from doing.

How do you know you're actually winning in life—even when it doesn't feel like it?In this episode, I explore the often-overlooked ability to recognize your own victories. Using the story of Kimbo Slice, I show why understanding what a real win looks like can change the way you measure success—and your life.

Influence isn't about control—it's about connection.In this podcast, I share five powerful ways to influence others and genuinely win people's hearts. If you want to build trust, deepen your relationships, and leave a lasting impact, this episode is for you.

In this podcast, I explore why revelation may be the highest form of knowledge acquisition. I distinguish between information, education, and learning through human instruction, and contrast them with knowledge gained through spiritual revelation. Is knowledge merely something you gather, or is it something that can be revealed?

School taught you how to read, write, and follow instructions. But did it teach you how to speak, influence, persuade, and lead?In this episode, I explore the hidden ways our education system may have strengthened our ability to consume information while weakening our ability to command a room, communicate conviction, and lead people.

In this podcast, I talk about how to differentiate God's voice from the devil's voice. I explore the one key thing that separates the clarity of God's voice from the confusion of the enemy's voice.

In this podcast, I explore the concepts of good and evil, consequence and reward, and how our understanding of them is often more skewed than we realize. Sometimes what we call reward and consequence isn't what we think it is, and what we call good and evil may not be as straightforward as we assume.

We live in a world obsessed with finding gifts, callings, and purpose. In this podcast, I ask a different question: what if there is one gift, one calling, and one purpose that stands above all others?

In this podcast, I talk about why most people give up on their passion — their God-given passion. I explore the one thing that causes people to become disillusioned with pursuing the very thing they feel internally led and called to do.

There is a misconception that if something is God's plan, it will unfold without resistance. Scripture paints a different picture. God's plans often face contention.

What is ministry, really?In this podcast, I challenge some common assumptions about ministry and explore its true meaning. Is ministry simply a religious activity, or is it a deeper expression of human spiritual connection? Join me as I examine what ministry is, who it is for, and how it shapes the way we relate to God and to one another.

In an age where men are facing unprecedented mental and emotional challenges, what is the God given antidote? In this podcast, I address this from a purely scriptural stand point.

When did attention become the measure of success?Why are we so addicted to being seen, noticed, and validated?In today's podcast, I explore the origin of attention, the human desire for it, and why our pursuit of it may be distracting us from what truly matters. We live in a world that rewards visibility, but is attention really the thing we should be chasing?Join me as I unpack why the need for attention has become so dominant in our culture and what we stand to gain when we shift our focus to things of greater and lasting value.

In this podcast, I explore the relationship between God and science, revealing how what we often call "science" is simply the discovery of knowledge that God has already embedded within creation.

As most parts of the world today experience economic hardship, I teach on 3 ways God shows up for you to see you through this period.

This is a Bible study where I unravel the treasure and wisdom in the story of the encounter between Naaman and Elisha in 2Kings chapter 5.

What truly determines what happens to you once you step out each day? In this podcast, I explore how your value system shapes your reality — from the people you meet to the opportunities that come your way. I talk about how the quality of your inner world eventually manifests in your outer world. Because before anything changes around you, something must first change within you.

In a world filled with evil, suffering, and all kinds of human atrocities, it becomes very easy to slip into the mindset of questioning whether God is truly good — or even whether He exists at all. In this podcast, I address how to consistently recognize the goodness of God in a world that often appears overwhelmingly dark and broken.

In this podcast I answer a question on staying anchored when faced with hardship and challenges.