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The TA Podcast with Tola Alabi — 498 episodes

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The Teacher Within: The False Hierarchy of Knowledge:

2

Clarity of Activity: Why You're Unsure of Yourself

3

The Agenda to Hate The Other Gender

4

The Illusion of Progress: When Productivity Leads You Nowhere

5

Boredom, Loneliness & Restlessness: What They Reveal About Your Life

6

6 Ways Indiscipline Limits Your Life

7

4 Things That Should Always Guide Your Life

8

Communication Skills Men Never Learnt But Women Mastered

9

The "What If" Mindset: When Safety Makes Your Life Smaller

10

Man Down: How Religion Distorted Men's Sexuality

11

The Illusion of Greener Grass: Knowing Where Home Is

12

The Wisdom of Double Standards

13

Pixels Don't Pay: The Power of Positioning as a Designer

14

The Concept of "Making It" in Life

15

The Kind of Men the World Really Needs & Why They Are Scarce

16

Understanding Vice and Virtue: How to Make Better Choices

17

The Key to Living Purposefully & Finding Fulfilment In Life

18

Why Men Need Sex & Women Need Babies

19

Halfway is No Way: The Courage to Commit

20

The Eden Mindset: How 1% of the World Stole Your Happiness

21

Bitter To Better: The Truth About Pain, Growth, and Becoming

22

Provision vs Cutbacks: Trusting God in a Tough Economy

23

The Burden Of The Arts: Why Being A Creative Isn't Lucrative

24

He Who Finds a Wife: God, Man, Woman & Marriage

25

More Than Money: When Prayer Seems Insufficient

26

God vs Scale: The Numbers Game

27

Ease Over Disease: The Secret to Human Wellness

28

The Deception Called Sacrifice

29

Quiting Your Job to Pursue Your Work

30

Blessed but Unfulfilled: Four Things Stealing Your Peace

31

God is in the Details: Stop Summarizing Your Life

32

Deep Rest: The Blessing You Can’t Earn

33

You vs Life: The Battle for Your Time and Attention

34

A Hive of Honey & Dead Bees: The Road That Leads to Regret

35

Who Told You That? How Words Shape Your World

36

Design is Dead: The Creative Crisis

37

What Does it Mean to be Blessed?

38

The Feeling of Being Used Rather Than Loved

39

Completing vs Finishing: A Lesson in Time Management

40

The Trap Called The Normal Life

41

Parents, Pressure and Purpose: Finding Your True Path

42

When God Shuts Doors: Your Opinion is Right But Your Attitude is Wrong

43

Breaking Free from Hurt and Trauma

44

Letting Go: What Your Hurt Is Costing You

45

The Creative, The Client & The Consumer: Making a Good Product

46

God vs Hustle: Pyrrhic Wins

47

Dig or Die: Living Hustle Free

48

100% Process, 0% Destination: When Our Path Doesn't Make Sense

49

The Tension Called Romance

50

The Era of Revelation: The Uncomfortable Shift

51

Only God can Love and Judge You Right

52

Love over Freedom: The Mystery of Happiness in Captivity

53

The Truth about Trauma, Hurt and Recovery

54

You Aren't Strong, You Are Stubborn: The Measure of Masculinity

55

Flow: The Kind of Money That Satisfies

56

The Biggest Lie About Money

57

Strictly Business: A Lesson on Boundaries

58

How to Turn Your House into a Sanctuary

59

The Cost of Taking Things for Granted

60

Seperating Feelings from Leadings: Why Your Emotions Are a Poor Compass

61

Toxic Ambition & Bad Marriages

62

The Cost of Distraction

63

Dealing with Imposter Syndrome: The Concept of Good

64

When Your Family is The Obstacle

65

Being More Present in Your Life

66

Why Reading Books Is Overrated

67

Knowing God for Yourself: The Bicycle Principle

68

Is God Fair? — Resetting Our Expectations for the New Year

69

Marriage Is a Gift, Not a Right

70

Logical Reasoning: Good Answers vs The Truth

71

The Christmas Eve Syndrome: Running Out of Time

72

Effortless Work: The Kind of Success God Designed for You

73

Angel Investor: The 'What is This' Insecurity

74

God Is Not Subtle

75

The Distraction Called Status: Rediscovering Identity in God

76

My Plan vs God's Plan for Me

77

From Low-Level to God-Level Thinking

78

The Father of Lies

79

Promises, Prophecies & Promptings: Listening to God

80

When Small Things Have Big Impact

81

Spirituality vs Religion: Where Africans Got it Wrong

82

When Love Speaks Life: Choosing "Mr/Ms Right"

83

Walking in Purpose: Faith, Function & Freedom

84

The Truth About Turning 40

85

Curate. Create. Conquer: Living Above Fear

86

Fear Factory: The Media and You

87

Concern Less. Discern More

88

Making Up for Your Past Mistakes

89

The Uncomfortable Concept of Drifting Apart

90

What We Get Wrong About Success

91

When the Stomach Leads the Spirit

92

When Clarity Meets Fear

93

How to Love the Life You Have

94

Destined for Success: The Truth About Your Birth

95

Why the Future Belongs to the Weird

96

From Mentor to Enemy: The Slippery Slope Called Mentoring

97

When Life Happens: The Waiting Period

98

What Should I Be Doing With My Life?

99

Living Wisely, Not Fearfully: The Invisible Enemy

100

You Have More Time Than You Think

101

The Audacity to Want More from Life

102

Trusting Her: How Far Should a Man Go?

103

How to make a Marriage Work

104

The Influence of Women on Men: The Great Mystery

105

The Weakness Gap: How Feminism Limits Women

106

In the World but Not of It: The Culture Curse

107

Why Gen X and Millennials Got Stuck but Gen Z Didn’t

108

You Are More Than Your Personality

109

Why We Struggle With Our Spirituality

110

The Principle of Fast Execution

111

Why Business and Creativity Don't Mix

112

The Key to an Effective Life

113

Success vs Average: What Really Sets Them Apart

114

I'm Good at Many Things, How do I Focus?

115

Beyond Romance: Finding the Right Man

116

7 Businesses that Hold Society Together - BIZCON 2025

117

Living Your Truth vs Living Your Trauma

118

Life Branding Masterclass

119

When Purpose Disrupts Security

120

Opinions, Advice & Counselling: The Search For Clarity

121

This Thing Called Poverty

122

The Guilt of Privilege: Duty over Sacrifice

123

I Want To Keep My Virginity But...

124

Breaking the Habit: The Journey to Change

125

The Secret to Enjoying Life: Expecting vs Experiencing

126

The Design Bubble: My Thoughts on Jaiz Bank Rebrand

127

Do Opposites Really Attract: The Compatibility Misconception

128

Black Tax: When Success Becomes a Burden

129

"I Wish I Didn't Exist": When Life Seems Meaningless

130

The Absent Father Effect

131

The Head Check: Choosing Bosses, Husbands & Leaders

132

The Swine Mindset: Why Some People Can't Be Helped

133

Things I Wish I Knew As a Young Designer pt.2

134

Things I Wish I Knew As a Young Designer pt.1

135

Personal Branding: Why You're So Forgettable

136

The Prosperity Misconception

137

I’ve Been Giving—So Why Isn’t It Coming Back?

138

The Key to Finding Clarity in Life

139

Get Up! When Intellect Says "No" but Faith Says "Yes"

140

Passion, Business & Entrepreneurship: Q&A

141

The Secret to Maximising Today

142

Overcoming Economic Hardship: The Egret Mindset

143

Men, Marriage & Masturbation

144

Personal and Professional Growth - Q&A Session

145

I Can't Wait To Move Out: The Lie About The Family

146

I've Had Enough: Quitting God's Calling

147

Why You Aren't Hearing God Speak

148

Irreconcilable Thresholds: Why Relationships Fail

149

Keep Going or Quit : The Hard Choice

150

God isn't a Genie: When Leadings Go 'Wrong'

151

Being An Introvert is Ruining My Life

152

One Thing Hindering Your Personal Growth This Year

153

To The Christian Struggling with Porn & Masturbation

154

Why We Must Never Regret Our Past

155

The Introverted Entrepreneur: Shameless Business

156

How can I Know God's Voice: Natural Intuition vs Holy Spirit

157

Why the Tech Bro is Rich and the Graphic Designer is Poor

158

The Power to Speak Life

159

God's Instruction vs People's Expectations

160

6 Life Lessons I Learnt From Hitting Rock Bottom

161

Why Design is Important but Designers Aren't

162

Why Audacity is Hard: Following The Leading Within

163

Internships, Salaries & Your Future as a Designer

164

Why Every Business Needs Challenging Times

165

Don't Be Nice, Be Good: What Good Really Means

166

The Part of Living A Godly Life People Don't Talk About

167

3 Things That Would Boost Your Career to the Peak

168

Who Is a Responsible Man: My Frustration with Father's Day

169

Money Miss Road: The Sickness of Directionless Wealth

170

Is it a Problem or Is it a Phase?

171

Schools vs Amusement Parks: Doing Business in Nigeria

172

Education vs Intuition: The Knowledge of Good & Evil

173

Why We Experience "Bad Days"

174

4 Ways People Transfer Their 'Energy' To You

175

How Do I Quit My Job, Without Upsetting My Boss

176

Passive Positivity: Why Humans Struggle with Negative Thoughts.

177

From Business to Ministry: Surviving The Culture Shock

178

The 3 Wrong Metrics of Success Robbing You of Joy

179

Stop Living in the Future: The Dubai Trip

180

Knowledge: God's Most Effective Weapon For Mankind

181

Skill vs Character : What Really Decides How Far You Go

182

The "God Give Me My Own" Mindset

183

The 3 Peak Stages of Your Life

184

The Winning Mindset Called Surrender

185

The Late Bloomer: Seeds, Timing & Productivity

186

The Stupid, The Sensible & The Silly

187

To Be Honest, Heaven Sounds Boring

188

Japada: Is Relocating Back to Nigeria Wise?

189

3 Reasons Why We Struggle with Unfulfilment

190

Choosing a Godly Woman: Every Man's Defining Decision

191

Mangoes & Puff Puff: A Lesson on Business and Generosity

192

Becoming Old and Lazy: Advice for Young People

193

From Chaos to Calm

194

5 Things About Pricing I Wish Someone Told Me

195

Conversation with Daddy: Why Rural Life is a Richer Life

196

Salaries, Savings and Supply

197

Parental Pressure vs Personal Purpose

198

Drugs and Design: From Psychedelia to Minimalism

199

Why Many People Get Frustrated in Business

200

The Burden Called 'Trying'

201

How Can I Stop Being Lazy and Unproductive?

202

Unshaken: The Key to Overcoming Discouragement

203

Viewer Discretion Advised-Part 2

204

Viewer Discretion Advised: The Ugly Reality

205

Busy to Purposeful: Aligning Your Work with Your Why

206

Mind Your Business: How Meddling Limits Miracles

207

Schooling vs Education: Are You Truly Learning?

208

Capitalism: The Attractive but Ungodly Route to Prosperity

209

Why We Excitedly Start Things But Lose Motivation Halfway

210

Find Your Kind: Embracing Your True Identity

211

The Devastating Effects of Career on Marriages

212

Friendship Before Love, Courtship Before Marriage

213

Privilege, Challenges & Limitations: The Middle-Class Advantage

214

Locked In: Trusting God’s Plan (Even When You Don’t Like It)

215

The Truth About Value: What Most People don't Understand

216

Beware of the Envious Elders: When Wisdom Turns to Jealousy

217

How To Overcome Persistent Negative Emotions and Reclaim Your Peace

218

The Woman Effect: Why Every Man Needs A Woman

219

The Principle of Elimination: Gaining Clarity & Losing Friends

220

When Prayers Seem Unanswered: The Year Long Cough

221

3 Types of Content : How to Identify "Good" Content

222

How Stereotypes Made Us Stupid

223

Content & Discontent: What are You Feeding Your Mind

224

Is That God or Just Me?

225

How to Prepare for the Future: The Greatest Investments

226

Is Going to Church Really Necessary?

227

Why People Question The Existence of God

228

The Social Being: Stay Indoors, Stay Confused

229

The Woman No Man Can Resist.

230

To Invest or Not to Invest

231

Distraction: The Thief of Glory

232

Self-Doubt to Self-Love: The Battle For Your Esteem

233

Decision-Making: Advice, Opinions & Instincts

234

Work That Hurts vs Work That Heals

235

Dear Dad: The Unspoken Influence of Fathers

236

Know Thy Enemy: The Wisdom of Warfare

237

Advice For The Multi-Talented Person

238

Can I Be Successful Without Money?

239

What Does Believing Truly Mean?

240

Gifted vs Invested: Why I Teach Freely

241

3 Levels of Human Consciousness: From Lies to Light

242

Chasing The Bag But Finding The Monster

243

The Ugly Before The Glory: God's Odd Habit

244

The One Thing That Can Stop God's Work

245

How Do I Attract More Clients: The Hustle Mistake

246

If I Follow God's Will, How Do I Pay My Bills?

247

4 Types of Trauma and How to Find Healing

248

Ambition vs Acceptance: Why Families Struggle With Poverty

249

Is it Possible to Change a Person?

250

Do You Feel Unmotivated and Discouraged?

251

The Ugly Side of Trust in Romantic Relationships

252

The Money Lesson: Understanding The Economy of The Universe

253

Validation Addiction

254

For Those Seeking Passion, Purpose & Prosperity

255

For Those Seeking Growth This Year

256

The Abundance Mindset: The Power of Ignorance

257

The 3 Ps of Personality: Understanding Who You Are

258

Eat, Sleep, Thrive!

259

How Asking For Less Gets You More: A New Year Message

260

3 Types of People Your Business Needs to Thrive

261

The Report Card: How To Start & End Your Year Right?

262

The Most Stupid Thing I've Ever Said: Counting My Blessings

263

Boys Don't Cry: How Fathers Damage Their Sons

264

A Strategy Free Life: A Christmas Story

265

Courtship isn't Marriage: The Mistake Single People Make

266

Surviving Nigeria: Doing Business in a Volatile Economy

267

5 Things Creative People Should Know About Creativity

268

Does Wealth Separate Us From God? The Prosperity Palaver

269

3 Reasons The Year Didn't Go The Way You Desired

270

Balancing Business With a 9 To 5: Do Side Hustles Work?

271

Do Men and Women Have Specific Responsibilities in Marriage?

272

I Can't Afford the Tools to Start My Career

273

Are You Missing Out on Life: The White Sneaker Syndrome

274

Masterclass for People Serious About Personal Growth

275

The Foolishness of Self Comparison

276

Why I Stopped Being a "Nice Guy"

277

Overcoming Shame, Distractions & Pride

278

Advice for Young Entrepreneurs and Small Businesses

279

Is There an Ideal Age To Start A Family?

280

Why Pornography and Masturbation is a Struggle For Many Today

281

From 5k to 500k: Latest Update

282

Banks, Schools and Churches: Taking Back Control of Your Life

283

3 Big Institutions Limiting Your Life

284

Church Addiction: The 'My Pastor' Epidemic

285

Ai, VR and Gaming: Dark Sides of the Technological Era

286

Taking Control of Your Time

287

The 'Cheat Code': Ending The Year Right

288

Who is a Christian: The Follower vs The Forged

289

Functional Frailty: Not Every Miracle is Yours To Claim

290

Think Twice Before 'I Do': Spotting Relationship Red Flags

291

How Branding is Destroying Us as Humans

292

When the Blessing Seems Incomplete

293

God Provides But You Prepare

294

Youthful Strength: The Manipulative Misconception

295

After Clarity Comes Anxiety : The Devil Speaks After God

296

Nothing is Useless

297

The Unknown Truth About Mentoring

298

Shameless Audacity: Stephen The Intern

299

Should We Breakup: When Romantic Effort is Unbalanced.

300

The Ambition Trap: Can Do vs Want To

301

What is Your Roar: Owning Your Uniqueness

302

Unfollow. Mute. Block

303

Push vs Flow: The Work God Blesses

304

Why Creativity Can't Be Learnt In Schools

305

The Clarity Hack: Your Waking Thoughts

306

What is Respect?

307

The 3 Step Self Assessment Therapy

308

Why Graphic Designers Aren't Creative

309

How to Give Freely Without Fear

310

The Experts vs The Master

311

The Matrix: The Need to Die

312

I Didn't Have Proper Parenting; Do I Have Hope?

313

Access and Abuse

314

The Power of Play

315

The Truth About Abundance And Scarcity

316

Why I Don't Believe in Luck

317

The F Word: What Would Jesus Do

318

Why Your Passion isn't Yielding Results

319

Stop Trying To Help God

320

5 Stages in Building A Successful Business

321

Etiquette 101: Why People Miss Opportunities

322

Men, Marriage & Misconceptions

323

Procrastination: Thief or Ally

324

3 Plagues Silently Destroying the World

325

Acid vs Alkaline: Doing Work You Can't Define

326

3 Things Jeopardising Your Life Plans

327

I Don't Want to Get Married or Have Children

328

The Misconceptions About Miracles

329

The Secret of Playing with Sand as a Child

330

Shielding Children From Poverty

331

How To Find Your Passion

332

Why People Struggle With Consistency

333

5 Things That Have The Power to Limit Your Life or Set You Free

334

The Secret of Having Abundant Time

335

African- The Lost Identity

336

The Pregnant Cat - A Story of Hope

337

The Importance of Inactivity In Self Discovery

338

6 People You Need In Your Life

339

My Talk With OAU Architecture Students

340

Is it a Love Language or An Insecurity

341

The Confusing Concept Called Time

342

The Dangers of Suspending Your Happiness

343

Advice For Young Single Women

344

LLL- Becoming a Life Long Learner

345

Motivation: The Dangerous New Age Religion

346

The Uncomfortable Truth About Parenting

347

Should I Quit?

348

This Thing Called Your Soul.

349

Stop, Think Then Work.

350

Discoverying Your True Identity.

351

Masterclass For People Trying To Find Purpose in Life.

352

Living in Survival Mode: Drive or Distraction

353

Working Hard vs Working True: Why Women Don't Need Good Men Anymore

354

Power & Influence: The Gender Wars

355

Where's My Life Going? The Legacy Illusion

356

Design Business Q&A

357

Handling Criticism as a Creative

358

Why Underdeveloped Countries Don't Value Thinkers.

359

Why It's Important to do Free Work

360

What To Do In Challenging Times

361

Excitement and Desperation: The Troublesome Two.

362

Income vs Blessings

363

Minds, Merchants & Magicians - Who Are You?

364

Clarity in Desperate Times.

365

God Is In The Work: Story of Me & 5 Puppies.

366

The Encouragement I Later Regretted

367

Life, Marriage & Business - Q&A Session

368

Should I Leave My Job? 5 Crucial Things to Consider

369

The N15,000 Salary Job Opening

370

5 Popular Misconceptions & 1 Unspoken Truth About Work

371

My Life Hasn't Turned Out the Way I Planned

372

Money: managing, saving & investing

373

Misery Loves Company: Guarding Your Mind At All Cost.

374

Is it God or My Mind: The Confusing Concept of Hearing From God.

375

Finding That Work That Truly Brings You Happiness.

376

Would Niching Reduce Your Income

377

Connection Before Creativity: Understanding Your Clients

378

Who's At Your Gate?

379

The Secret To Success In Any Career.

380

A Story of 2 Walls: The Comparison Deception

381

Why Do We Work?

382

The Debbie Phenomenon: When Suffering is Good.

383

2024: Who's Driving Your Car?

384

No Future Ambition

385

When God Calls But You Aren't Ready

386

Why Business Partnerships Fail

387

Sensible vs Sensitive: The Battle Between Logic and Spirituality

388

How to Structure Your Business for "Good Success".

389

What Does it Mean to Be In Love?

390

The Problem with Rich Dad, Poor Dad

391

Talent: Why Can't I Find Mine?

392

The Standard of Culture: How School Fails Society.

393

Can I Marry A Person Much Older Than Me?

394

Passion or Money?

395

Why I left Canada for Nigeria

396

This Thing Called Business: Scaling, Selling & Serving

397

My Struggles : 2 Years Later

398

My Struggles: December 2021

399

I Can't Stay Committed to Anything

400

I've Lost My Passion For Work.

401

Money Management: Savers, Spenders & Stewards

402

What All Men Must Discover Before Marriage.

403

3 Esteem Killers: Begging, Borrowing & Business

404

Who's a Man: Exploring Sex and Sexuality

405

Career, Business and NYSC

406

Ideology vs Reality

407

Advice for the Struggling Creative

408

Branding 101: Masterclass for Businesses And Creatives.

409

When Things Don't Work Out The Way You Plan.

410

How Social Media Hinders Building A Business.

411

Finding Your True Self

412

Get Married to Your Friend; What Does This Mean?

413

Lessons for Men in Their 20s and 30s

414

How To Find Contentment In Life

415

Can Women Truly Love

416

The Climber, The Builder & The Influencer : Defining Your Matrix of Success.

417

Stop Searching For Love

418

Design Business Q&A: Skill, Career And Retirement.

419

Clarity vs Confusion: The Battle For Your True Identity.

420

When God Gives You A Blank Cheque.

421

Should I Quit or Should I Be Patient?

422

Challenging Your Insecurities

423

5 Types of Thinkers; Which Are You?

424

When You Run Out of Money As An Entrepreneur.

425

5 Essential Steps to Becoming A Respected Creative.

426

Why You Have a Problem With Time Management.

427

Do You Really Need A University Education

428

Passion, Profit & People; What is Your Career Motivation?

429

Borrowing Money to Start A Business

430

The Wise, The Safe and The Foolish

431

Finding True Happiness: The Body, Soul & Spirit

432

How to Attract Blessings to Your Business.

433

Ask Me Anything

434

3 Valuable Things I Learnt in My 18 Year Journey As A Designer.

435

Why I Earned Less Money in 2022. Some Things to Think About Before the New Year.

436

Dropping Out of School: Why It's Such A Tough Decision.

437

A Man Isn't The Provider, A Woman Isn't The Carer: The Identity Crisis Pressure.

438

Scale vs Growth: Why Am I Not Growing As A Business?

439

Eat Your Quail: Working that Job You Don't Really Like To Survive On Your Way to Your Dream Job.

440

Why I Lived With My Parents Till I Was 31.

441

I Got What I Wanted. Why Am I Still Unhappy?

442

The Problem with Career Day.

443

Why Everyone Needs Life Branding

444

5 Cures to Unproductivity

445

The Hustle Culture Problem

446

Improving Your Earnings as a Design Creative.

447

The Beauty of Self Expression: Structured vs Spontaneous

448

Telegram Group Q&A Session.

449

I Feel Guilty Using "Cracked" Software, But I can't Afford the Original

450

Going from "Good Guy" to "Bad Guy"

451

How to Choose a Mentor

452

Don't be a 40year old Solopreneur

453

You are Weird and that's Fine

454

How To Get Better At Design.

455

You aren't Coca-Cola, Nike or Apple; You are a small business.

456

Lessons From Naija Hip Hop "Culture"

457

How I Became a Founder Institute Mentor.

458

Sales: Getting & Keeping Clients

459

All Winners Are Losers

460

God and My Career

461

Would AI Replace Graphic Designers?

462

Why People Work Hard Yet Fail.

463

The Key to Pricing Your Value Right

464

The Antidote to Disappointments

465

Why Good Design isn't Enough

466

Life Branding: Becoming the Leader of Your Life.

467

Why your brain isn't good enough.

468

The Secret of Eating Last

469

Balance is Overrated

470

Business is Spiritual

471

Doing Your Best Work in Difficult Times

472

Letting Your Customers Lead You to Success

473

My Journey to Self Discovery

474

Staffing: Building A Dream Team

475

Documenting Your Challenges

476

4 Common Excuses for staying in a bad job.

477

Faith Over Religion

478

Choosing a Life of Impact Over a Life of Convenience

479

The Fear of Being Broke

480

The Obstacle Called the Future

481

Selling vs Serving

482

Stop chasing money

483

Choosing the voices in your life.

484

The Gift of Boredom

485

The Truth About Niching

486

You aren't a container

487

Assignment vs Job - The Differences

488

Feeling depressed and unfulfilled? This is for you.

489

Business can't fund your dreams

490

Going from charging N5k to N500k for logo design in just 6years.

491

Be Yourself

492

FOCUS

493

Marriage Stole My Dreams

494

Best Way to Learn Entrepreneurship

495

The Problem with the Nigerian Design Industry

496

Why does my mentor ignore me?

497

Hustle or Business

498

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