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Today I'm Thinking
by Alphonso Pettis
Today I'm Thinking with Alphonso Pettis is a solo podcast about life, discipline, responsibility, healing, and the lessons you only learn through experience. Speaking from the perspective of a martial artist, mentor, and community leader, this podcast shares real thoughts about real solutions - manhood, relationships, growth, purpose, and staying strong when life gets hard. No yelling. No pretending. No fake motivation. Just honest reflection, .wisdom, and truth from someone who's lived it. If you believe in discipline, personal growth, and learning from life.... this podcast is for you
Episodes
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"The Power of the Vote: Know Your History, Understand Your Future"
The Power of the Vote: Know Your History, Understand Your Future In this episode of Today I'm Thinking, Sensei Alphonso Pettis explores the history of voting rights in America, the sacrifices made during the Civil Rights Movement, and how decisions made at the ballot box affect our everyday…
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Father vs. Daddy "There's A Big Difference"
The conversation explores the profound differences between being a father and being a daddy, emphasizing that while anyone can be a father biologically, being a daddy requires building a meaningful relationship. It highlights the importance of emotional presence, communication, and evolving...
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Two Sides Of Fatherhood
The conversation explores the complexities of fatherhood, particularly how fathers can transition from being seen as heroes to villains in their children's eyes. It emphasizes the importance of understanding different perspectives and the potential for healing through open communication.…
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changing Priorities
Changing Priorities is about recognizing that growth sometimes means wanting different things from life. In this episode of Today I’m Thinking, Alphonso Pettis reflects on how our priorities can shift with experience—from proving ourselves and chasing success to valuing peace, health, family…
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Community Work Without Character Is Just Business
What does it really mean to serve your community? Community work should be about more than funding, titles, recognition, and organizational success. It should be rooted in integrity, morals, values, dignity, and genuine service to people. In this episode, I share my thoughts on staying true to…
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What We Carry, What We Keep
TODAY I’M THINKING.... Breaking the Circuit: "What We Carry, What We Keep" Not everything will inherit deserves to be passed on period some of us carry pain, learned, behaviors and emotional wounds that were never ours to begin with. In this episode, we explore the courage it takes to break...
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When Ego Gets In The Way
Alphonso Pettis discusses the impact of ego on personal growth, relationships, and decision-making. He emphasizes the importance of humility, discipline, and the willingness to learn. Ego can hinder growth and damage relationships, while humility and discipline lead to personal and professional...
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"Life After 60: I'm Not Done Yet"
Life After 60: I’m Not Done Yet Turning 60 doesn’t mean life is winding down—it might mean you’re finally getting started on your own terms. In this episode of Today I’m Thinking, I reflect on aging, wisdom, regrets, purpose, laughter, and the freedom that comes with realizing you don’t have to...
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"Why Girls & Women Should Learn Marital Arts And Personal Safety"
Why Girls and Women Should Learn Martial Arts & Personal Safety Martial arts is about much more than learning how to fight. For girls and women, training can develop confidence, situational awareness, discipline, healthy boundaries, physical fitness, and the ability to respond under pressure. In...
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"Long Distance Co-Parenting: Fatherhood From a Distance"
Long Distance Co-Parenting: Fatherhood From a Distance What does being a father look like when you can’t be physically present every day? In this episode of TODAY I’m Thinking, I speak to non-custodial, divorced, separated, and incarcerated fathers about staying connected to their children…
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Discipline In Relationships
Alphonso Pettis discusses the crucial role of discipline in relationships, emphasizing the need for patience, control, responsibility, and self-awareness. He highlights the impact of discipline on communication, emotional management, and conflict resolution within relationships, drawing parallels...
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The Difference Between Strength and Anger
Alphonso discusses the difference between strength and anger, emphasizing the importance of control and discipline in demonstrating real strength. He highlights the misconceptions of strength and the power of staying calm in challenging situations. Takeaways Strength is quiet, anger is loud. Real...
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Healing Is Part of Being Strong
Healing Is Part of Being Strong Strength isn’t pretending that nothing hurts. Sometimes real strength means facing the pain, acknowledging what affected you, and choosing not to let it control your future. In this episode of Today I’m Thinking, Alphonso Pettis reflects on healing, emotional...
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Why Some Men Never Grow Up
The conversation explores the concept of manhood, responsibility, discipline, and personal growth. It delves into the reasons why some men never grow up and the factors that contribute to personal development. The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility, embracing discipline…
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Responsibility Changes Everything
Responsibility changes everything. Sensei Alfonso Pettis shares insights on the transformative power of responsibility, discipline, and the lessons of life. He emphasizes the impact of responsibility on one's mindset, behavior, and character, highlighting its role in building strength and trust....
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Sun Tzu: Win Without Fighting - The Art of War
The art of war is about winning without fighting, by resolving conflict before it becomes a fight. It's about positioning, timing, and aligning to dissolve conflict and make the outcome inevitable. True victory lies in stability and strategy, not just winning in the moment. Takeaways Winning...
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Books, Culture, and Purpose
In this episode of Today I'm Thinking. I reflect on the importance of reading, especially when it comes to history, culture, identity, and purpose. Children need to see parents, grandparents, and mentors modeling the habit of reading, while also being taught early who they are, where they come...
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My Martial Arts Journey
Today I'm sharing the story of my 50+ year martial arts journey and the lessons it taught me about discipline, perseverance, leadership, and personal growth. Martial arts changed my life, and the principles I learned on the training floor continue to guide me today.
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Manhood Is More Than Age
Alfonso Pettis discusses the true meaning of manhood and the importance of discipline, responsibility, and self-control. He emphasizes that manhood is not defined by age, but by how one lives and grows. The journey to manhood requires purposeful growth and continuous self-improvement. Takeaways...
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Purpose Gets Clear With Age
The conversation explores the evolution of purpose with age and experience, emphasizing the clarity that comes with time and growth. It delves into the understanding of oneself and the journey of personal growth, highlighting the importance of discipline and experience in shaping one's purpose....
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What Martial Arts Really Teaches
The conversation explores the essence of martial arts, highlighting life lessons and discipline as key takeaways. It delves into the deeper meaning of martial arts beyond fighting, emphasizing the transformative impact on character and personal growth. Takeaways Life lessons Discipline Chapters...
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Lessons Life Taught Me The Hard Way
Alphonso shares insights on the hard lessons life teaches and the growth that comes from resistance and discipline. Takeaways Life's hard lessons Growth through resistance Chapters 00:00 Growth Through Hard Lessons
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Today I'm Thinking: How Music, Social Media & Technology Shape Our Relationships
The conversation explores the influence of music, social media, and technology on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It delves into the positive impact on mental health and relationships, as well as the unhealthy messages and behaviors perpetuated by these influences. Additionally, it…
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Respect Is Not Automatic
Alphonso shares insights on the importance of respect and living with integrity. He emphasizes the role of character and discipline in earning respect and encourages living in a way that earns respect. Takeaways Respect is earned through character and discipline. Living with integrity is…
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When You Feel Like Quitting
Feel like quitting doesn't mean you're weak - it means you're human. In this episode, Alphonso Pettis shares real thoughts on pushing through tough moments, staying disciplined, and not giving up when life gets hard.
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Why Young Men Need Direction
In this episode of Today I'm Thinking, we take an honest look at why so many young men feel lost - and what's really missing. This conversation breaks down the importance of guidance, structure, and purpose in shaping a man's life. From the absence of strong role models to the impact of…
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Getting Older But Still Growing
Getting older doesn't mean you stop growing. In this episode, Alphonso Pettis reflects on how age brings wisdom, patience, and a deeper understanding of life. Growth doesn't end - it just changes.
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Why Discipline Saved My Life
When motivation fades, discipline steps in. Today I'm thinking about how discipline became the turning point in my life-and how it can do the same for you. This isn't perfection.... it's about showing up, even when it's hard. #TodayImThinking #Discipline #PesonalGrowth
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"Stay Focused, Keep Moving"
On this episode of Today I'm Thinking, I'm talking about discipline, direction, and the mindset it takes to keep going-especially when things get tough. Staying focused isn't easy, but it's necessary. Keep moving. Your growth depends on it.
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"Being an Only Child. A blessing or curse?"
No siblings. No backup. No one to share the weight with. Is being an only child a hidden advantage...or an emotional challenge people don't talk about? In this episode of Today I'm Thinking, we break down the truth behind growing up as an only child ---the strength it builds, the struggles it...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Today I'm Thinking with Alphonso Pettis is a solo podcast about life, discipline, responsibility, healing, and the lessons you only learn through experience.
Speaking from the perspective of a martial artist, mentor, and community leader, this podcast shares real thoughts about real solutions - manhood, relationships, growth, purpose, and staying strong when life gets hard.
No yelling. No pretending. No fake motivation. Just honest reflection, .wisdom, and truth from someone who's lived it.
If you believe in discipline, personal growth, and learning from life.... this podcast is for you
HOSTED BY
Alphonso Pettis
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