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Fr. Kevin Menard joins us for an honest and refreshing conversation about chastity and modesty and why both are so often misunderstood. Chastity is about far more than simply abstaining from sex, and modesty is not just about women or what they wear. Together, we explore how chastity is really about integrating our sexuality into the whole person in a healthy and life giving way. This episode tackles two major misconceptions. Chastity is not repression, and modesty is not shame. Rather than suppressing our sexuality, chastity helps order it rightly so it can become part of a fuller, freer way of loving. Modesty is not about embarrassment over our bodies, but about dignity, self respect, and recognizing the dignity of ourselves and others. Fr. Kevin offers a hopeful and beautiful vision for living these virtues authentically in today’s culture and seeing sexuality not as something shameful, but as a gift from God meant to be lived with freedom, and love. Father’s Parish here: St. John Cantius Young Adults More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

You weren’t made for mediocrity. In this episode, we wrap up our pervious conversation with Fr. DiTomo and what it means to live with purpose and courage. What is God actually calling you to? And what holds us back from becoming who we were created to be? Fr. Ditomo answers these questions and many more! Listen to Father’s Podcast here: Youtube- The Grace Filled Life Spotify- The Grace Filled Life Book Father Mentions: Priest and Beggar: The Heroic Life of Venerable Aloysius Schwartz More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

You weren’t made for mediocrity. In this episode, we unpack the virtue of magnanimity with Fr. DiTomo and what it means to live with purpose and courage. What is God actually calling you to? And what holds us back from becoming who we were created to be? Through timeless wisdom and powerful quotes, we explore how to step into a life of meaning, mission, and bold faith. Listen to Father’s Podcast here: Youtube- The Grace Filled Life Spotify- The Grace Filled Life More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Bobby Kenny to hear his incredible story of transformation. Once trapped in heroin addiction, Bobby shares how his life spiraled into darkness, until he encountered God while he was in jail.  Bobby opens up about the turning point that led him from addiction to freedom, and how that experience sparked the creation of You Are Loved Mission. Today, he’s using his past to bring hope, purpose, and the love of God to others who feel lost or forgotten. This episode is a reminder that no story is too broken, no past too far gone! God can use anything for His good. Bobby’s journey from heroin to humility is proof that redemption is always possible. Tune in to hear how God rewrote Bobby’s story and how He might be working in yours too. More from Bobby Kenny: Check out his mission here: https://www.youarelovedmission.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/youarelovedmission/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yalmission More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In Part 2, we continue our conversation with Father Sean Grismer on traditional and charismatic Catholicism by diving into more concrete practices and tensions. We discuss Holy Communion and the different ways it is received, the role of groups like the SSPX, and practices such as veiling and outward reverence. Rather than debating sides, we focus on the meaning behind these expressions and what they reveal about our approach to worship. Ultimately, this episode challenges us to move beyond labels and rediscover a faith that is both deeply reverent and open to the Holy Spirit. More from Fr. Sean Grismer: Dose of the Ghost My Lourdes Faith Journey More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode, we sit down with Father Sean Grismer to talk about the divide between Catholics who identify as traditional and those who identify as charismatic. We unpack the common misconceptions each group often has about the other and explore how both expressions are meant to exist together within the life of the Church. Rather than being opposing spiritualities, tradition and charismatic renewal each highlight important aspects of Catholic life—reverence for the Church’s rich heritage and openness to the living movement of the Holy Spirit. Father Sean explains how when we embrace both, we begin to experience the Church more fully. Ultimately, the conversation invites us to move beyond labels and rediscover a faith that is both deeply rooted and spiritually alive. More from Fr. Sean Grismer: Dose of the Ghost My Lourdes Faith Journey More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode, Sr. Gabriela reflects on Mary as the perfect example of obedience to God and purity of heart. Mary’s “yes” shows us what it means to trust God completely and allow His will to guide our lives. We also discuss how purity is about having an undivided heart, free from unhealthy attachments. Sr. Gabriela reminds us that what we watch, listen to, and consume can fill our minds and hearts with “trash,” so we must choose what is good, true, and life-giving. Ultimately, obedience and purity are not burdens — they bring order, peace, and real freedom, helping us live with God at the center. Follow Sister: Instagram: @scmc.baltic  or click this Link Facebook same as Instagram @scmc.baltic Website: www.sistersofcharity.com More from Wannabe Saints 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: [email protected] 📸 Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

Valentine’s Day is more than chocolates, flowers, and romance—it’s about a love that gives. In this short reflection, we dive into the true meaning behind Valentine's Day, exploring the sacrificial love of St. Valentine and how he followed the ultimate example of love: Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. As Catholics, we know Valentine’s Day is so much more than what the world tells us. It’s about loving others beyond words—through actions, selflessness, and sacrifice. Let’s rediscover what this day is really about and embrace the deeper, truer love it calls us to. Happy Saint Valentine's Day! Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

In this episode, Jordyn and Rachael explore the virtue of kindness and what it truly means to practice it in everyday life. They reflect on how the bar for kindness can feel surprisingly low in today’s world, where simple decency often stands out. They discuss kindness as more than just being “nice,” breaking down several virtues that fall under it—like dependability, courtesy, politeness, and discipline—as well as vices that work against it, including selfishness, malice, despair, and discouragement. Referencing The Hidden Power of Kindness, they highlight kindness as a transformative strength and a daily choice that can impact both individuals and communities. Link to the Hidden Power of Kindness More from Wannabe Saints 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: [email protected] 📸 Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, Jordyn and Rachael continue their conversation with Daniel, Rachael’s brother, focusing on humility, courage, and leadership. Daniel shares about a painful relationship and the difficult season that followed, including what it looked like to make amends and allow God to humble and transform his heart. He reflects on how that hardship became a turning point, inviting deeper surrender and healing. They then talk about courage and what it meant for Daniel to live differently after that relationship — choosing virtue, responsibility, and truth. The episode closes with a conversation on leadership and what it means to live as a patriarch: laying down his life for his wife, rejecting selfishness, and choosing the greater good of family life. Resources Mentioned: • The Freedom Group • Fight the New Drug • Covenant Eyes • Reclaim More from Wannabe Saints 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: [email protected] 📸 Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, Jordyn and Rachael sit down with Daniel, Rachael’s brother, to begin a new conversation on masculinity rooted in virtue. Part One focuses on perseverance and chastity. Daniel vulnerably shares about growing up in his faith, the loneliness and struggles he faced, and how perseverance was formed through his childhood. He then opens up about his early exposure, his battle with pornography, and the healing journey that led him toward freedom and redemption in God. This episode points to the reality that authentic masculinity is not about perfection, but about perseverance, purity, and allowing God to redeem what is broken. Resources Mentioned: • The Freedom Group • Fight the New Drug • Covenant Eyes • Reclaim More from Wannabe Saints 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: [email protected] 📸 Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we reflect on charity and why it is the foundation of all virtues. Drawing from Scripture and the Catechism, we explore what charity truly means — loving God above all things for His own sake, loving ourselves rightly, and loving our neighbor for the love of God. We look at how charity orders our lives, grounds our identity as “the one Jesus loves,” and perfects every other virtue through justice, humility, and self-gift. We also reflect on the radical call to love our enemies and how this kind of love transforms us and aligns us with the heart of the Father. The episode concludes with practical ways to live charity daily and a Litany of Charity. Resources Mentioned: I Believe in Love More from Wannabe Saints 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: [email protected] 📸 Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this week’s Advent miniseries, we reflect on joy and why it can exist even in the midst of suffering and trials. Drawing from Scripture and the Catechism, we explore the paradox of joy, our dependence on God, and the truth that the Lord never abandons or forgets His people. We look at how living in right order, staying close to Christ, and trusting in God’s sustaining presence shapes the way we walk through hardship. The episode concludes with practical ways to cultivate joy in daily life and the Litany of Joy. Resources Mentioned Litany of Joy Surrender Novena Two-part episode on Joy with Fr. Sean Grismer More from Wannabe Saints 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: [email protected] 📸 Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this week’s Advent miniseries, we dive into the virtue of peace—what the Church calls “the tranquility of order.” We explore how peace flows from justice, charity, and ultimately living in union with God. Drawing from Scripture, the Catechism, and the wisdom of the saints, we look at how trust, humility, and forgiveness help restore interior peace, especially in our relationships. We end with practical ways to cultivate peace in daily life and a prayer to Christ, the Prince of Peace. Resources Mentioned 🕊 Prayer to the Prince of Peace: Lord Jesus Christ, Prince of Peace, grant us peace. Arise and scatter the darkness of chaos and sin from our hearts and our world. May Your Word guide our steps, Your love fill our hearts, and Your peace rule in our daily lives. Help us to become instruments of Your peace, reaching out with compassion and forgiveness wherever we go. May we reflect Your presence in our actions and bring Your light to those around us. Strengthen us with Your grace, and lead us in paths of righteousness for Your name’s sake. Amen. Forgiveness Prayer with Fr. Sean Grismer More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, Rachael begins the Advent series with a reflection on the virtue of Hope. As Jordyn prepares to welcome her baby, Rachael leads us through what Advent prepares us for, why our desires make us restless, and how true hope redirects our longing toward Christ. Drawing from the Catechism, Scripture, the promises of Jesus, and the Beatitudes, Rachael breaks hope into three parts—desire, trust, and grace—and reminds us that hope is not something we create on our own but something God strengthens within us.  Link to the Surrender Novena More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In Part 2 of our conversation with Fr. Sean Grismer, we explore how true joy is impossible without forgiveness. Fr. Sean explains how holding onto hurt, resentment, or anger blocks the joy God wants to give us, and he offers simple, encouraging wisdom on how forgiveness opens the heart to freedom and peace. The episode closes with Fr. Sean leading us in a prayer of forgiveness, inviting listeners to release wounds, forgive others and themselves, and make room for the joy God desires for them. A short but powerful reminder that joy grows where forgiveness is chosen. Link to Fr. Sean Grismer's Prayer: Forgiveness Prayer More from Fr. Sean Grismer: Dose of the Ghost My Lourdes Faith Journey More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

Joy is a grace and a gift God wants to give. But to truly receive it, we must first forgive. In this inspiring episode, Fr. Sean Grismer shares how forgiveness opens our hearts to the joy the Lord longs for us to experience. Through real-life reflections and spiritual insight, Fr. Sean helps us see that holding onto hurt blocks the grace God desires to pour out. When we choose to forgive, ourselves and others, we make room for a joy that runs deeper than emotion, a joy rooted in God’s mercy and love. More from Fr. Sean Grismer: Dose of the Ghost My Lourdes Faith Journey More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we sit down with Janelle Bauer, Jordyn's sister, whose life is a moving testimony of perseverance through suffering and grace. Janelle opens up about battling health issues from childhood to adulthood, including a near-death experience, and how those trials deepened her faith rather than destroyed it. She shares the pain of miscarriage, the ongoing challenges of living with health struggles, and the moment where Jesus completely transformed her heart. Through every season, Janelle has discovered that perseverance is not just about enduring hardship but about allowing God to bring beauty and healing through it.   More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode, we sit down with Fr. Trowbridge to talk all things prayer: what it truly is, how to pray, and how to stay faithful when it feels difficult or distracting. Together, we unpack what the Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches about prayer and how to cultivate a deeper, more personal relationship with God. Fr. Trowbridge offers practical wisdom on handling distractions and growing in presence, persistence, and consistency, learning how to keep prayer alive even when emotions fade. Prayer isn’t about perfection. It’s about persevering, consistency and being present. Show up, stay consistent, and trust that persistence opens your heart to the quiet work of grace. Links to our favorite prayers: Byzantine prayer before communion  Stay with me, Lord- Padre Pio Jordyn's Favorite Motherhood Prayer Book More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints,we down with Jordyn's husband, Kyle, to talk about a topic that often gets overlooked: true leisure and the Sabbath day. From a man’s perspective, Kyle shares how he approaches work life balance, the struggle to step away from busyness, and the challenge of truly resting in a world that glorifies productivity. Together, the three of us unpack what the Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches about keeping holy the Sabbath, not just as a suggestion but as one of the Ten Commandments. We explore how much of its original meaning has been lost in modern culture and why recovering it matters for our families, our faith, and our souls. Along the way, we give our own hot takes on what leisure really looks like today. This conversation is both practical and theological, covering: • How leisure differs from rest or mere entertainment • The deeper spiritual call to set aside Sunday for God, family, and renewal • The origin of the Sabbath and what it means for Catholics today If you’ve ever wondered what it really looks like to live out the Third Commandment in daily life, or how to reclaim authentic leisure, this conversation will challenge and encourage you. More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

This episode continues our conversation with Becca Plance, Natalie Schol, and Cindy Jorgensen, three moms with six kids each, living in three different stages of motherhood. In Part 1, we explored the surprises, joys, and challenges of raising children from infancy through adulthood. In Part 2, we pick up right where we left off—diving into the fears and hopes that come with growing a family, the lessons learned in the midst of chaos, and the faith that carries mothers through every season. If you loved Part 1, you won’t want to miss this second half of the conversation. It’s real, encouraging, and full of wisdom for moms in every stage of life. More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we sit down with Becca Plance, Natalie Schol, and Cindy Jorgensen—three incredible mothers who each share a unique perspective on raising six children. Together, they represent three distinct stages of motherhood: the early years of infants, toddlers, and elementary-aged kids, the whirlwind of raising teenagers, and the season of launching grown children into the world. We dive into the joys, struggles, and surprises of motherhood, asking honest questions about what it’s really like to grow a family, navigate changing seasons, and trust God’s provision through it all. Their stories bring wisdom, laughter, and encouragement to moms in every stage of life. Whether you’re rocking babies to sleep, chauffeuring teens to activities, or adjusting to an emptying nest, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone and that every season of motherhood is filled with both challenges and beauty.   More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, Chris Plance joins us to discuss the virtue of justice, its meaning, challenges, and implications for our lives. We explore the social kingship of Christ, the role of justice in Scripture, and why obedience to God is central to living justly. Our conversation also dives into the Church today, the tension between charismatic and traditional worship, the historical context of Vatican II, and the ongoing call for unity under the authority of the Pope. On a personal level, we reflect on how justice shapes parenting, marriage, and friendships, from honoring parents to loving enemies, and why relationships grounded in justice strengthen the community of faith. Ultimately, this episode reminds us that all justice flows from our relationship with God, and only in Him can we find its fullest expression. More from Chris Plance: ▶️ YouTube: @ChristopherPlance 💛 Support on Patreon: patreon.com/ChristopherPlance ✖️ Follow on X: @CGPlance 🌎 Website: cristeroparty.com More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

In Part 2 of Katie’s powerful story, from rebellion to redemption, we get to hear how God took her rebellious years and turned them into something beautiful. She opens up about a season that deeply shook her faith and how she got through it. Through the ups and downs, you’ll hear how the three theological virtues—faith, hope, and charity—remain active in her life: how hope is her anchor, how she chose faith even when trusting God felt hard, and how she continues to live out charity through the work she’s done and continues to do. Enjoy Part 2! Links to Katie’s Work: 🌍 For His Glory Tours 🏫 The Archangels Academy 📸 @forhisglorytours on Instagram More from Wannabe Saints: 🔗 Linktree – All Our Links 📩 Email us: @Wannabe_Saints 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints

Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of sensitive topics including binge drinking, sexual assault, and eating disorders. Listener discretion is advised. In Part 1 of this powerful two-part conversation, we sit down with Rachael’s sister, Katie Baynai, as she bravely shares the early chapters of her journey—from teenage rebellion and deep brokenness to the beginning of God's healing work in her life. Katie opens up about the painful realities of binge drinking, the trauma of sexual assault, and her silent battle with bulimia. But this isn’t just a story of suffering—it’s a testimony of God’s relentless pursuit and the first signs of redemption breaking through. Her honesty, courage, and faith lay the foundation for what becomes a powerful witness to the radical love of God. Stay tuned for Part 2, where Katie shares how God’s grace continues to transform her life.   Links to Katies Business and School: https://www.forhisglorytours.com/ https://www.thearchangelsacademy.com/ https://www.instagram.com/forhisglorytours/ More from us: Linktree 📩 Questions or feedback? Email: @Wannabe_Saints on Instagram 💛 Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/WannabeSaints  

In this episode, we explore the virtue of introspection, the habit of examining our interior life in the light of God’s truth. Joined by Emma Scordato, we reflect on how true introspection isn't self-centered, but a God-centered self-awareness that leads to freedom, growth, and holiness. Introspection, rightly ordered, is not self-absorption, it’s the pathway to recognizing both our strengths and struggles in light of grace. It leads to authenticity, deeper trust in God’s mercy, and a life aligned with His will. Rooted in the wisdom of the saints and the Catechism, we uncover how introspection becomes the foundation for discernment, moral maturity, and virtue.   Check out Emma’s Pregnancy journal:  Lumen Vitae Press  @lumenvitae.press on Instagram   More from us: Wannabe Saints Linktree Questions or feedback? Email: [email protected] Follow us: @Wannabe_Saints on Instagram

In Part 2 of our conversation with Fr. Trowbridge, we continue exploring what it truly means to build a life rooted in virtue. Fr. Trowbridge walks us through the three stages of the spiritual life, helping us understand how growth unfolds over time with God’s grace. We reflect on how the Cross, far from being a burden, becomes a source of light, allowing us to see more clearly through the wisdom of sacrifice and the example of Christ. Fr. Trowbridge also breaks down the four key steps to cultivating virtue: it begins with desire, deepens with knowledge and understanding, is strengthened through discipline and perseverance, and ultimately depends on grace. This episode is both practical and profound, offering a roadmap for anyone seeking to walk the path of holiness with clarity and conviction.  Link to Fr. Trowbridge's Parish – St. Catherine of Genoa  Support us on Patreon   Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at @Wannabe_Saints Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

In Part 1 of our conversation with Fr. Trowbridge, we dive deep into the foundational topics of virtue, vice, and the often-overlooked impact of venial sin. We explore what virtue truly is, how vice takes root, and why even "small sins" can have a serious effect on the soul. Drawing from the Catechism, Fr. Trowbridge unpacks how venial sin weakens our pursuit of holiness and why it can’t simply be brushed aside. Throughout the conversation, we’re reminded that the path to virtue begins by being present to who you are right now — not who you were, and not who you hope to become — but fully attentive to the present moment where grace is at work. Link to Fr. Trowbridge's Parish Our Patreon Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, Fr. Keith Romke joins us for a fun, deep and insightful conversation on the virtue of humility. We talk about the inner battle between the Theo and ego drama and how many people misunderstand humility as weakness or self-deprecation. Fr. Romke reframes humility as knowing your true identity in God: that you are created in His image, fully loved, and nothing you do can earn or erase that love. We also dive into the importance of silence in prayer and the challenge to “show up and shut up” so God can speak. Resources & Links: 🔗 Fr. Romke’s Website 📘 I Believe in Love by Fr. Jean d’Elbée 📘 Spiritual Survival in the Modern World by Dr. Andrew Swafford Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

In this episode on the virtue of respect- We unpack four different types of respect—because it’s not a one-size-fits-all virtue. We explore:     •    General Respect for every person     •    Respect of Position for roles of authority     •    Respect for God      •    Earned Respect through trust and admiration We reflect on how earned respect is often the easiest to give—because it’s shown to those we admire, trust, and love. But it’s also the type of respect that can hurt us the most when that trust is broken. We also discuss how respect evolves, especially in our relationships with parents—what it looks like to honor them as adults. Drawing from the Catechism of the Catholic Church, we consider our call to respect all those in authority: parents, grandparents, teachers, bosses, and more. Finally, we talk about reverence and how we can grow in our awe and love for God.   Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints   Link to Article We Read- From Focus On The Family  

In this episode of, Wannabe Saints, we switched things up for the virtue of fortitude. We interviewed Jordyn’s friend, Cecilia Brennan. Her life is a living example of the gift and virtue of fortidue, always persevering in faith and overcoming all obstacles, growing stronger and stronger each time. From growing up without her mom, to her husband being deployed to Japan two moths after they got married and starting her own company at the same time, to having to raise their daughter alone for the first 6 months. Despite all the trials she has been able to see Gods hand and the blessings in it all. “The purpose of life isn’t to find happiness, it is to find peace.”  Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints Links to Cecilia's Instagram and Podcast: Cecilia's Instagram What In The Dang Heck What In The Dang Heck Instagram 

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we dive deep into the powerful connection between compassion and mercy. We explore how true mercy can’t exist without compassion—and how compassion naturally moves us to acts of mercy. From the corporal and spiritual works of mercy to the challenge of bearing wrongs patiently, we reflect on how these virtues call us to love others even when it's hard. We also talk about what it means to forgive from the heart, and how real forgiveness isn’t something we can do on our own—it’s only possible through the grace and help of the Holy Spirit. Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

Integrity is more than just being honest and trustworthy—it’s about living in a way that takes your values and turns them into virtues. In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we talk about what it really means to be a person of integrity, the virtues that it requires, and why it’s not just about doing the right thing when people are watching, but who you are at your core. Listen in as we break down what it takes to be a person of integrity and challenge ourselves to live more authentically. Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

In this episode—Forgiveness & Confession—of Wannabe Saints, we welcome special guest Father Ditomo to dive into forgiveness and confession. We talk about the difference between mercy and forgiveness, why confession is key to spiritual growth, and where it’s found in Scripture. Plus, we discuss how confession can be a powerful source of psychological healing. Don’t forget to check out our show notes for timestamps on all the key topics in this insightful 2.5-hour conversation!   Listen to Father’s Podcast here: The Grace Filled Life   Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints   Episode Time Stamps: 0:04:51 – Mercy vs. Compassion 20:22 – If someone confessed murder, can the priest tell them to turn themselves in? 22:20 – Confession: The Genius Sacrament 24:38 – Difference Between Grace and Mercy 27:52 – Where Is Confession in the Bible? 33:12 – Why Confess Sins to a Priest? 39:33 – Causing an Offense Against Someone and Going to Them Before Confession 40:52 – Mortal vs. Venial 43:33 – Free Will in Mortal Sin? 46:39 – Is Suicide Grave Matter? 49:49 – Sexual Sin 55:53 – Why Does It Feel Like You Fall Harder into Sin After Going to Confession? 1:02:47 – When You Forget Sins in Confession but Remember After, Have They Been Forgiven? 1:04:07 – How Specific Do You Need to Be in Confession? 1:06:00 – Is the Number of Times Just for Mortal Sin? 1:13:44 – Why Is Frequent Confession a Good Practice Even If It Isn’t a Mortal Sin? 1:16:37 – Praying While in Mortal Sin 1:21:20 – Do You Need to Confess Past Sins as You Further Develop Your Conscience? 1:24:41 – Examination of Life/General Confession 1:27:42 – Should You Write Things Down for Confession? 1:32:47 – Should Everyone Have a Spiritual Director, and How Do You Get One? 1:38:57 – Withholding Forgiveness and Holding Grudges 1:46:21 – Scrupulosity 1:54:27 – Psalm and Prayer to Help With Scrupulosity 1:57:26 – Confessing Behaviors That Are More Weakness Than Sin 1:59:49 – Why Do Priests Give Small Penances? 2:11:11 – Communion Covers Venial Sins—Should You Still Go to Confession Regularly? 2:13:37 – Bad Advice From a Priest or Not in Line With Church Teaching 2:17:00 – If the Priest Messes Up the Prayer of Absolution

In this episode, we discuss lent and the virtue of mortification—what it truly means to “put to death” our desires, both the bad and the good ones that may hinder our spiritual growth. Mortification isn’t just about denying ourselves harmful habits, but about surrendering everything, even good things, in order to grow closer to God. By embracing this discipline, we learn to pick up our daily cross and follow Christ more fully. We discuss how mortification can be used as a form of prayer to create grace and by uniting it with Christ, suffering leads us to greater intimacy, with God. Tune in to learn how the practice of mortification relates to lent, can transform your life and deepen your relationship with God. Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints Links to things we discussed:  The Catholic Company Lenten Suggestions. The Great Adventure Bible My Daily Bread Catechism of the Catholic Church, Ascension Edition

In this episode, we discuss the connection between meekness and gentleness, two virtues often used interchangeably. We address the misconception that meekness means weakness and explain how gentleness is much more than just a soft touch—it’s a mindset and your disposition. We also dive into how meekness and gentleness are linked by a kind of sensitivity—not emotional sensitivity, but a sensitivity to the needs of others and how we anticipate those needs. We look at how these virtues show up in our words, actions, and relationships, and discuss their impact on both ourselves and those around us.  Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints

In this episode, we talk about the forgotten virtue of vigilance and why it’s so important in our lives—whether in our words, actions, thoughts, prayers, or the media we consume. Vigilance means being spiritually alert and aware, especially since the devil loves to deceive us, even through things that seem good. He often hides lies behind things that look harmless. The big question is, "If Jesus were to come today, am I ready?" Our answer should be "yes," and that means staying alert and prepared at all times. We use the example of a garden, where weeds naturally grow alongside the good plants. Just like a gardener must remove weeds to protect the garden, we must vigilantly remove the "weeds" in our lives. Vigilance means having custody of our hearts and minds, staying focused on our faith, and being ready for Christ’s return. Links: Metanoia Journal The Catechism of the Catholic Church Spiritual Survival in the Modern World. If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.

In this episode, we talk about the power of forgiveness. We discuss how forgiving ourselves and others isn’t easy, but it’s made possible through Christ’s love and grace. Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting or reconciling with everyone—it’s about letting go of our pain and inviting Jesus into it to bring peace and healing.   We talk about why we’re called to forgive, how Christ transforms our pain, and how forgiveness sets us free. If you’re struggling with letting go of past or current hurts and grudges, this episode will help and encourage you to trust in Christ’s power to heal and help you move forward. Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/WannabeSaints Links to things we talked about: The Liber Cristo Method The Catechism of the Catholic Church The Hidden Power of Kindness Metanoia Journal

In this episode, we reflect on the virtue of joy and how Mary, lived it out in her life. Mary’s example shows us that true joy comes from trusting in God’s plan, even in challenging times. We explore how joy connects to other important virtues like generosity, charity, hope, gratitude, friendship, and our identity in Christ. Song link: https://youtu.be/x9f97OMlnis?si=OwVEvjpjhTFQEJsc Litany of Joy: https://drinkofthespirit.wordpress.com/2017/12/20/litany-of-joy/   Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints.  

In this episode, we dive into the powerful connection between generosity and gratitude, and how living both virtues leads to magnanimity—a spirit of greatness that empowers us to live lives of excellence for God and grow His Kingdom. Generosity flows naturally from a heart of gratitude, where we recognize the abundance we've been given and are moved to give freely in return.  We also discuss how the restlessness within us—our deep longing for more—points us toward eternal fulfillment, one that can't be satisfied in this life but finds its completion in the promises of God. This restlessness isn’t something to be suppressed, but rather, embraced as a divine nudge that drives us to live generously. It reminds us that our ultimate home and purpose lie beyond this world, compelling us to serve others and seek excellence in all we do. By living generously and gratefully, we participate in God's Kingdom, reflecting His eternal goodness and love through our actions and attitudes. Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints.

In this episode, we dive into the true meaning of gratitude and explore how to live it out beyond just saying "thank you." We discuss what the Catechism teaches about gratitude, its deep connection to the Eucharist, and how the practice of gratitude is not just an attitude but an active way of living—especially in our relationships with others, and more specifically, with our parents. Tune in to hear how embracing gratitude can transform our daily lives, inspire acts of love and service, and deepen our faith along the way.    Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints.

In this episode of Wannabe Saints, we dive into the topic of friendship. What does it really mean to be a true friend, and how can we cultivate deep, lasting friendships? We explore the essence of friendship and share seven key steps we believe are essential for building authentic connections. Whether you're seeking to strengthen your current friendships or build new ones, this episode is for you. We hope you enjoy the conversation! Have a question, comment, or topic you'd like us to cover? Reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @Wannabe_Saints. Mentioned in this episode: Metanoia Catholic Journal 3,000 Questions About Me: Activity Journal

Super excited we got some free time during our pilgrimage to Ireland! We had the privilege of having Fr. Chris DiTomo joining us again, and Rachael’s sister Katie Baynai, the founder of For His Glory Tours, to record with us for an episode on 'Pilgrimage'. We cover the “why?” to pilgrimage, how it helps to build virtue, and the history of pilgrimaging. We also talk about how EASY we have it these days and how to help make each day a pilgrimage on our journey to heaven!     Links to all the things we brought up: Katie's Pilgrimage company: https://www.forhisglorytours.com/ The Monks from Silverstream Priory: https://cenacleosb.org/ Justin Fatica with Hard As Nails Ministry: https://www.amazingnation.org/ Fr. Mike Schmitz Eulogy Virtues: https://bulldogcatholic.org/series-eulogy-virtues/ Hotel and town we were in while recording: https://www.gouganebarrahotel.com/     If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.

Welcome back to Wannabe Saints. In this episode we discussed the questions we had sent in for our topic on anger with Fr. Christopher Ditomo! We hope you enjoy!!   Metanoia Journal: https://shop.metanoiacatholic.com/products/copy-of-metanoia-catholic-journal   Theology of Healing talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GF3V45nHNgo&t=3s   The Hidden Power of Kindness: https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-hidden-power-of-kindness/?srsltid=AfmBOopFuQDCR7DPT4BCZt_0iFHH9kaZQq-q46ISsz9g8t1IfwGEI1Lw   If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.

In this episode of Wannabe Saints we have a special guest, our friend, Fr. Christopher DiTomo! We discussed the passion and vice of anger. What anger truly is, when it is just and unjust, and when the emotion can turn into a sin. We also discussed the virtues that anger goes against, and how to try and overcome resentment. If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.

In this episode on Wannabe Saints we discussed the virtue of Charity in depth. We go through the definition of Charity in the Catechism, that true Charity calls us to love, how Jesus was our example of true charity and how do we live that out in our day to day. Here are the links to the three books we mentioned in this episode: I Believe in Love. My Daily Bread. Spiritual Survival in the Modern World. If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.

In this episode on Wannabe Saints we discussed the virtue of Hope in depth with our dear friend Fr. James Linkenheld. Going through the definition of Hope in the Catechism… it starts with a desire, placing trust in christ, and depending on the grace of the Holy Sprit. Fr. James also dives into the necessity of living in a sprit of poverty in order to place more trust and dependence on Christ and his promises.    If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.   

In this episode, we breakdown identity and dignity. We realize these aren’t virtues… But these are important terms to talk about before we really get into virtue. What is dignity? What is identity? Where do these come from? And when we figure it out, how does this change our lives?    If you have a question, comment or topic you would like us to cover reach out to us at: [email protected] or our instagram at Wannabe_Saints.

Get to know the hosts of Wannabe Saints! Who we are, how this podcast came to be and why you should listen to another podcast! In this podcast we break down virtue and try to make it tangible and applicable to your life. We give the facts but also talk about what it looks like to live that virtue in our day to day lives.  Here is a link to the book we talked about: I Believe in Love: A Personal Retreat Based on the Teaching of St. Thérèse of Lisieux We hope you enjoy!