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We Don't Know Her

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As an homage to queen Mariah Carey's famous quip "I don't know her," two best friends sit down each week and learn how to connect their past to their present, in order to shape their future. Sharing personal stories, a little self help, and always asking "Who Is She?"

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  1. Be Right Back...

    Sup ya'll? We interrupt your regularly scheduled episode with a season finale of We Don't Know Her. That's right, we are closing out our (longer than normal) Season 1 and going on a brief hiatus. Don't worry, this isn't goodbye, it's just BE RIGHT BACK. As two scientists, we need to go out into…

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  2. A Retrograde Wellness Check

    Katie and Christie are in need of a wellness check. Seasons are changing, and there are currently SIX planets that are retrograde, so it is safe to say they are feeling the effects. In this episode, emotions are high, minds are reeling, and words are difficult. Christie is dealing with the end of...

  3. Gratitude With An Attitude

    Katie and Christie are learning how to live in gratitude. It can be easy to appreciate the finer things in life, but it is a lifelong practice to be grateful for the little things, too. In this episode, Katie and Christie discuss how they may or may not have taken everything for granted when they...

  4. Fear Factors

    Katie and Christie are getting to know that other four-letter word that begins with F; fear. In this episode, they discuss their physical fears and emotional fears, how different types of fear play a role in their identities, and how fear has either helped or hindered their growth. They also talk...

  5. Feelin' Alive

    Katie and Christie are getting to know what makes them feel ALIVE. Of course there are things that bring us joy and make us happy, but what gives you that extra buzz or natural high of life? Katie and Christie are returning from a short break and feeling as jubilant as ever, which has inspired…

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  6. Conscious Consumption

    Katie and Christie are getting to know what they consume from the media on a regular basis. It is no secret that we are surrounded by media influences everywhere we turn, but have we ever stopped to think about how they may really be affecting us? In this episode, they discuss the importance of...

  7. The Truth About Truth

    Katie and Christie are searching for the truth. This week, they are here to pull the curtain back on "the truth" and expose it for what it really is. In this unhinged episode, they discuss how there is no objective truth, that we all have unique realities, why society is so hung up on getting to...

  8. Road to Vulnerability

    Katie and Christie are back on the road to vulnerability. As a follow-up to their episode last year ("Your Vulnerability is Showing"), they are revisiting this topic in a new way. This week, they are opening up about painful past (and even present) relationships that took advantage of their...

  9. Recent Revelations

    Katie and Christie are getting to know each other's recent revelations. In this episode, they discuss a few realizations about the most difficult challenges in their life. They walk us through the process that led to these revelations, why this time it is different, and what they plan to do with...

  10. Quantum Healing with Mario Radinger

    Katie and Christie are joined by a very special guest, Mario Radinger, who is a practitioner of Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) and Beyond Quantum Healing (BQH). He is also a skilled Akashic record reader and founder of The Soul Journeys, a more progressive and flexible version of…

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  11. Trust Fall

    Katie and Christie are getting to know their trust issues. Many of us have been burned or bamboozled by people in the past, so how do we learn to trust anyone again? What is trust? How do you know? There are so many questions. In this episode, they discuss how they are learning to grow through...

  12. Stories We Tell Ourselves

    Katie and Christie are getting to know who is telling the story about themselves. The stories about our identities, relationships, future goals, appearance, etc. can be so much more than just one's perception; they create an entire narrative that may not be true to you. In this episode, they...

  13. "America: We Can't, Don't Hate Us"

    Remember that episode of Sex and the City when Berger breaks up with Carrie on a Post-it? Well, this week we are Berger. We are openly processing our grief and so many other emotions surrounding the news that broke last week - the overturning of Roe v. Wade. This episode is another stream of...

  14. Whose Need Is It Anyway?

    Katie and Christie are getting to know how to fulfill their own needs. When it comes to romantic relationships, what are our needs and who is responsible for fulfilling them? In this episode, they reflect on how they viewed emotional fulfillment in previous relationships and who they expected to...

  15. Under Pressure

    Katie and Christie are feeling the pressure as they dive into what is currently testing them in life. Whether it's cosmic or coincidental, they are both facing major challenges in their personal lives, and they are processing it all in real-time. In this episode, they will discuss what those...

  16. A Sign From the Universe

    Katie and Christie are getting to know the bigger picture. If you are someone who is feeling a shift in the universe, this episode is for you. Katie was recently introduced to the work of Dolores Cannon, a hypnotherapist and psychic researcher who studied past life regression, reincarnation…

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  17. This Is America

    Katie and Christie are taking a break from their usual antics to discuss what is going on in the country today. This is simply a stream of consciousness as we process the horrific events that have occurred over the last few weeks in America. This episode is not meant to distract you from what is...

  18. It's Not A Phase, It's A Lifestyle

    Katie and Christie are getting to know the different phases in their lives. These days, almost everything in TV and movies is getting a reboot, so why should we be any different? In this episode, Katie and Christie discuss a few major lifestyle reboots that took place over the years that have...

  19. Obsessive Thots

    Katie and Christie are getting to know their inner obsessive thots (and thoughts). This episode is not about current trends or new beauty products they are obsessed with; it is more about those all-consuming thoughts we get that don't seem to go away. Christie will out herself about a few of her...

  20. Energetic Matchmaking

    Katie and Christie are getting to know a new trend in town called "energy matching." You've seen it on TikTok, you've heard about it on social media, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, Katie and Christie share their hot takes on matching energy with a significant other and what it...

  21. Two Big Developments

    Katie and Christie took a week off, and they are back with a vengeance. During their break, there have been two big developments. In this episode, they each share a deeply personal account of their origin story they have never fully discussed before. After a couple of decades, things have finally...

  22. Happy Holidaze

    Katie and Christie are expanding their minds on this joyous occasion known as 4/20. This week, they indulge in the devil's lettuce and ponder life's hardest hitting questions. How do we know our memories are real? What does color taste like? What if we are dreaming while we are awake and awake...

  23. Into the Great Unknown

    Katie and Christie are getting to know...the unknown. It can be difficult to wait in the uncertainty, especially if you are someone who: needs to plan and prepare, needs to have a say in the outcome, or is a self-proclaimed control freak. Katie and Christie have been all three, and in this…

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  24. The Beauty of Self Expression with Jon Walter

    Katie and Christie are getting to know a special guest this week, Jon Walter. Jon is a Philadelphia-based hair colorist and make-up artist, and he is here to discuss all things beauty and self-expression. In this episode, Jon shares his experience growing up in a small town as a LGBTQ youth and…

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  25. We're Not Really Strangers ©

    Katie and Christie are getting to know each other as strangers...sort of. This week, they are playing the game, We're Not Really Strangers, and it is quite a rollercoaster ride. This is not your typical Q & A; there are (literally) levels to it, and they play 'em all. Tune in to find out the most...

  26. Shortie #9: We'll Never Be Royals

    This Shortie is giving nostalgia and elder millennial as we think back to what we considered "royalty" growing up in the 90's and early 00's. It wasn't just about the clothes you wore or the car you drove, it was also about what kind of snacks you had at your house and if you lived in a house…

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  27. We Found Love In Holding Space

    Katie and Christie are getting to know how to hold space for their friends. For some of us, it is natural to immediately try and fix a problem when we see it, especially if it is our friend's problem. However, that is not always the best way to support them. In this episode, Katie and Christie...

  28. There's No Mate Like A Soulmate

    Katie and Christie are getting to know who their soulmates are. Often times, soulmates are considered someone's "one and only" and just reserved for their significant other, but what if they are much more than that? In this episode, Katie and Christie share their respective journeys into learning...

  29. Feeling Like A Fraud

    Katie and Christie are getting to know Imposter Syndrome (the fear of being found out as a "fraud" for all of your success and accomplishments). The funny thing is, Imposter Syndrome is strictly one's own belief and does not actually mean they are phony. In this episode, Katie and Christie…

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  30. Getting Creative with Art Therapist, Brianna Haffner

    Katie and Christie are getting to know how to tap into their creative sides by using art therapy. This week, they are joined by special guest, Brianna Haffner, who is a board-certified, licensed art therapist with a practice based outside of Philadelphia. In this episode, Brianna does an…

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  31. Get Loud, Get Proud

    Katie and Christie are getting to know what it takes to feel genuinely proud of themselves. Last week, February 16th marked the Full Moon in Leo; a time full of emotion, creativity, and of course, feeling proud. In this episode, Katie and Christie are embracing their most Leo qualities, namely...

  32. What's Love Got To Do With It?

    Katie and Christie are getting to know the most influential and often misunderstood superpower known as love. While there is so much to say about love, this episode will be a spoken journey into what Katie and Christie have learned the hard way about love over the years. They discuss what they...

  33. Shortie #8: You're Speaking Our Love Language

    In this Valentine's Day-edition Shortie #8, we are discussing the five love languages. Tune in to find out what they are, how they've helped improve our communication, and how they rank in importance to us. One could value undivided attention from someone, while another prefers to hang onto the...

  34. Slow Your Role

    Katie and Christie are getting to know whose role they are taking when they are looking at themselves. Have you ever left your own house after cleaning it just so you could walk in and see it through another's eyes? Have you ever scrolled through your own social media pretending you are a…

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  35. Shaking Social Stigmas

    Katie and Christie are getting to know social stigmas and how to use them to their advantage. A social stigma can come in many shapes and sizes, but overall, it is a characteristic that the general public disapproves of or discriminates against. In this episode, Katie and Christie will address a...

  36. Processing The Past In The Present

    Katie and Christie are getting to know their past, while living in the present. Now you may ask yourself, "isn't that what they do every week?" The answer is yes; however, this episode is unlike any other episode they've done before. This week, they are revisiting certain traumatic experiences…

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  37. Schemers, Scammers, & Self-Help

    Katie and Christie are getting to know how to spot schemes and scams in the self-help field. With so many of us out here trying to better ourselves and so many resources at our fingertips, it can be difficult to know who is looking out for our best interest and who is just trying to make a dollar...

  38. Shortie #7: The Cringe Of It All

    What better way to stay humble than to think back to all of your cringiest moments when you were younger? What you wore, how you acted, and what you thought you were getting away with. Tune in to find out just how embarrassing Katie and Christie were (still are?) and what they wish could be...

  39. Living With Your Choices

    Katie and Christie are learning to live with their choices. In this episode, they will focus on how they've learned to cope with the aftermath of their decisions; whether it was to end a relationship or order the fries instead of the salad. They will share what steps they took to stop...

  40. 2021 Diamonds of the Year

    Katie and Christie are back with their 2nd annual Diamonds of the Year episode! This week, they are highlighting the brightest spots of 2021 for their personal lives, as well as some notable bright moments from around the world. Sit back, relax, and let's end this year on a positive note! Follow…

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  41. Year Review & A Look Into 2022 with Casey Ray

    Katie and Christie are thrilled to welcome back former guest and gifted friend, Casey Ray! As you may know, Casey is a doctor of physical therapy by day and a psychic medium by night. This week, she has an intuitive reading for us all to wrap up 2021 and look ahead to 2022. She will share…

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  42. Let Go & Manifest The Rest

    Katie and Christie are diving into a topic that is near and dear to Katie's heart and a concept that Christie is finally catching on to. We may have all heard about manifestation, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, they discuss what manifesting means to both of them, where the power...

  43. Change Isn't the Enemy

    Katie and Christie are getting to know their old frenemy, change. We all know that change is constant, but do we ever fully accept it? In this episode, they will discuss how they've learned to embrace change, specifically in their long-term relationship dynamics, as well as in themselves. They…

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  44. Finding Meaning in Dreaming

    Katie and Christie are getting to know the deeper meaning behind their dreams. In this episode, they will not be re-telling all of their dreams, but they will be analyzing a few of their most memorable ones: dreams that involve the afterlife, astral travel, otherworldly planets, and even...

  45. Shortie #6: The Big 5 Personality Test

    We’re diving into Shortie #6 with the Big 5! Tune in to see how we rate on the scale of these 5 personality traits: openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism. The answers may surprise you. If you want to take the test for yourself, head over to www.truity.com to…

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  46. That's What's Going On

    Katie and Christie are doing a bit of reflecting this week, but this time, it is not about their past; it is about their present. With a little cosmic confirmation (shout out Susan Miller), Katie opens up about a recent fall out in a personal relationship, while Christie stands by for support.…

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  47. Are We Our Moms?

    Katie and Christie are revisiting one of their very first episodes, "Are You My Mom?", but in a new way. This week, they are flipping the script and taking a look at how they may be emulating their moms more than they previously thought. In this episode, they discuss what inspired this new...

  48. It’s Our Birthday!

    Katie and Christie are celebrating 1 whole year of We Don't Know Her! Over the last year, this podcast has been filled with uncertainty, growth, dream guests, technical difficulties, tears, fears, and transformation. In this episode, Katie and Christie will discuss how the podcast came to be…

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  49. Not All Risks Are Created Equal

    Katie and Christie are getting to know their risky behaviors and realizing that not all risks are created equal. In this episode, they determine what the difference is between a "risk" and a "chance" and how each one applies to their lives. They discuss the biggest risks they took, the fear...

  50. Shortie #5: Halloween Edition

    Happy Halloween! As a mini follow-up to the Spooktacular episode, this Shortie is filled with movies that either started a Halloween tradition or straight up scared the sh*t out of us. Some of them may even surprise you. Get ready to feel spooky and nostalgic!

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As an homage to queen Mariah Carey's famous quip "I don't know her," two best friends sit down each week and learn how to connect their past to their present, in order to shape their future. Sharing personal stories, a little self help, and always asking "Who Is She?"

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