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You Don’t Fit In Podcast | Identity in Christ, Biblical Confidence, Freedom from Guilt, Healing from Shame, Closer with God
by Helen Siemens
There is a yearning inside of you for a deep and meaningful relationship with God.You love Him but not like you know you could. Or should.You struggle with feelings of guilt because you know that often you’re just going through the motions rather than eagerly drinking from the well that never runs dry. You go through spurts of motivation and excitement and then crash down on feelings of discouragement or hopelessness.I know what it’s like to feel just a little lost. A little bit stuck.Or even, just flat out complacent.I understand that the reality of mom life and the day to day tasks can get in the way of all our best intentions.I also know that sometimes it’s just sheer exhaustion that keeps us from moving forward and growing in the Word of God and in our faith.God knows that motherhood is demanding and He made a way for you to be a mom and have a vibrant relationship with Him at the same time.He means for you to thrive in life and not merely get by.Let me be that voice in
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61 | When Faith Feels Messy | Anxiety, Doubt, Fear, and Identity in Christ with Eva Thiessen
Life is messy. And for many Christians, faith doesn’t remove all the struggles, pain, anxiety, disappointment, or hard seasons we face in everyday life. In this episode, I sit down with Eva Thiessen for an honest conversation about her Christian testimony, her journey to faith, and the challenges she has faced as a believer. We talk about mental and emotional struggles, growing in your relationship with God, and what it looks like to trust Him when life feels heavy and uncertain. If you’ve ever wrestled with doubt, loneliness, shame, suffering, or feeling isolated in your Christian walk, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone. This episode is for Christian women who want a deeper faith, authentic conversations about real life struggles, and encouragement rooted in God’s truth. Stay Rooted! Connect with Eva on Instagram Join the Rooted and Redeemed newsletter for weekly biblical encouragement, journaling prompts, and simple reminders of what’s true when life feels overwhelming. Subscribe here: Rooted & Redeemed THE BREAKTHROUGH HOUR — One private coaching session. We find your root lie. You leave with clarity and a word from scripture specifically for you. → DM me CLARITY on Instagram to book your spot.
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60 | Your Failure Is Your Hope
You trusted in Jesus for your salvation, but now you think you have to figure out how to live a life good enough to be deserving of that salvation, or for the goodness of God. You want to be good. You want to please God. But somewhere along the way, you start believing it’s up to you now. So you strive. You fail. You feel guilty. And you pull away from God. And the whole time, you’re missing the truth. Again. You are not saved by your performance. You are not kept by your performance. It has always been Jesus. We don’t move on from needing Him. If you feel stuck in that cycle, this episode will help you see why, and what it actually looks like to walk in freedom. Your problem is not that you keep failing. It’s that you think you’re supposed to succeed in your own strength. Your failure does not disqualify you. But rather, it reveals your need. And your need is what points you to Jesus. For Reflection Where am I still trusting what I do instead of trusting Jesus? What am I expecting from myself that God never asked of me? When I fail, do I run to God or pull away from Him? Scripture Ephesians 2:8–9 Isaiah 64:6 Romans 5:8 Luke 5:31–32 1 John 1:9 Stay Rooted! THE BREAKTHROUGH HOUR — One private coaching session. We find your root lie. You leave with clarity and a word from scripture specifically for you. → DM me CLARITY on Instagram to book your spot.
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59 | The Battle in Your Mind Is Blocking Your God Given Purpose
Do you feel like you were made for more than the life you’re living, but feel stuck, stagnant, or unsure where to start? The problem is not a lack of time. It is not a lack of ability. It is the battle in your mind. You hear thoughts like: “I’m not ready.” “I don’t know enough.” “What if I fail?” “I’m not creative.” Those thoughts feel true, but they are not aligned with what God says about you. Learn how to recognize the lies, replace them with truth, and take action even when fear is still present. Change what you believe. Change your life. Stay Rooted!
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58 | Feeling Distant From God? Why Your Quiet Time Isn’t Working
You’re reading your Bible. You’re praying. You’re showing up. But it still feels off. In this episode, we talk about why that happens. Not from a lack of effort, but from a misplaced identity. If your quiet time feels heavy, forced, or empty, this will help you see why. And more importantly, how to shift out of striving and into a real relationship with God. Learn how to stop performing for God and start relating to Him from who you already are in Christ. Stay Rooted!
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57 | Stop Waiting to Grow, Why Your Spiritual Maturity Is Your Responsibility
Do you ever feel stuck in your faith? Do you wonder if you are supposed to feel more mature, more grounded by now? Or maybe you feel the tension of knowing you are called to more, but you’re not sure what moving forward actually looks like. In this episode, we talk about what it means to actively grow in your faith instead of staying stagnant. Scripture calls you to run your race with endurance, to fight the good fight, and to keep building a life rooted in Christ. Growth does not happen by accident. It takes intention, discipline, and a willingness to be stretched. Choosing obedience and staying consistent over time are what actually produce maturity. This conversation will help you shift out of autopilot and into a faith that is alive, active, and moving forward. You are not called to stay where you are. You are called to grow and to become someone who not only hears the Word but lives it. Stay Rooted! Bible Verses to journal through: 2 Timothy 4:7 “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” 1 Corinthians 9:25–27 “Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.” 2 Peter 3:18 “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.” Ephesians 4:13–15 “Until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ,” Colossians 1:10 “So as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him: bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.” Hebrews 5:12–14 “For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the basic principles of the oracles of God. You need milk, not solid food, 13 for everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child. 14 But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.
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56 | What to Do When You Feel Stuck and Unmotivated (This Is So Practical!)
It happens to all of us. We get stuck. We feel unmotivated. And there we sit. You want to move, but you also don’t want to move. So you stay in the same place. But there is one simple way out of that rut. And you can start today. In this episode, I walk you through one practical step that helps you break out of that heavy, stagnant feeling. If you feel tired, unmotivated, or mentally stuck, this will help you take that first step out. Stay Rooted!
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55 | Why You Keep Feeling Resentful — And How Your Lack of Boundaries Is Keeping You From God's Call on Your Life
I'll be honest with you... My lack of boundaries is something that has kept me up at night, and I'm still very much in the middle of this journey. But I couldn't not talk about this. When we don't have healthy boundaries in place, it doesn't just exhaust us. It doesn't just build resentment in relationships we actually care about. It can keep us from the very thing God is calling us to do, the very life He's calling us to live. In this episode, we're going to get real about why saying no can feel so impossible, what's actually driving it, and what it's costing us when we keep saying yes out of fear instead of out of genuine love and obedience. If you've been feeling stuck, drained, or bitter and you can't quite put your finger on why, this might be it. If you've ever wondered whether your constant yes to everyone around you is somehow connected to your walk with God, pull up a chair. Let's talk about it.
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54 | How Your Daily Habits Reveal What You Actually Believe
You say you trust God. You say you believe prayer matters. You say your identity is in Christ. But what do your daily habits reveal? In this episode, we break down the connection between your habits and your beliefs. Your routines expose what you actually believe. If prayer is inconsistent, that may reveal a lack of faith. If you overwork and overcommit, that may reveal a belief that your value depends on performance. When your habits and your beliefs are disconnected, you feel tension. You feel exhausted. You feel behind. But when your beliefs shift at the heart level, your habits begin to follow naturally. If you want true Christian confidence, you must examine what your life is currently proving you believe. Your habits tell the truth. Gob Bless!
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53 | One Clear Sign You Are Not Aligned With Your Identity in Christ
Are you truly aligned with your God given identity, or have you grown comfortable in patterns that are slowly pulling you out of alignment? This episode will help you examine where you may be coasting instead of growing, staying silent instead of speaking truth, or choosing ease over faithfulness. Alignment is not about becoming someone new. It is about returning to who you were created to be. This conversation will challenge you to realign your life with God’s design and measure your growth not by how safe you feel, but by how faithful you are becoming. God Bless!
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52 | Why Do I Still Struggle With Social Anxiety If I Know My Identity in Christ?
You love God. You know the truth. You believe what Scripture says about who you are. And yet your heart still races in social settings. You still overthink conversations. You still feel small, exposed, or insecure around other people. It can feel confusing and even discouraging when your lived experience does not seem to match your theology. In this episode, we talk about how social anxiety often reveals deeper fears and false beliefs that conflict with your identity in Christ. We look at why social anxiety is usually rooted in fear, not weakness, and how past trauma, instability, or painful experiences can shape your nervous system in ways that continue to affect your body and mind today. Anxiety is not simply a lack of faith. Often, it is a learned response that needs renewal at the root. You will learn what it truly means to renew your mind from a biblical perspective. Renewing your mind is not just knowing Scripture or quoting verses. It is allowing God to transform your belief system, challenge the lies you have accepted about yourself, and rebuild your thinking around truth. We walk through how to identify the false narratives you are believing about your worth, and how to replace those lies with truth grounded in your identity in Christ. Real confidence is not built in one single breakthrough moment. It grows through daily obedience, renewal, and choosing truth over fear again and again. If you are tired of asking why you still struggle with social anxiety, this conversation will help you understand what is happening beneath the surface and show you a biblical path toward freedom. God Bless!
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51 | Calming Social Anxiety Naturally: The Simple Daily Habit That's Changing Me
Your heart starts racing before you even walk into the room. Your chest feels tight. Your stomach knots up. You feel the dread of being in social settings before anything has even happened. When you struggle with social anxiety, your body often reacts first. It becomes hard to stay present in conversations when your nervous system feels like it is in danger. Social anxiety does not just affect one moment. It affects your relationships, your confidence, your ability to connect, and even how you see yourself. If you have ever searched for how to deal with social anxiety, natural anxiety relief, or how to calm anxiety in social situations, you know how exhausting it can feel to live in this cycle. The physical symptoms of anxiety are real. The tension in your body is real. But it does not have to stay this way. I did not set out looking for a remedy for anxiety per se. I simply started one small daily practice that is now changing how I experience social situations. This is slowly retraining my nervous system, reducing my anxiety symptoms, and helping me feel calmer and more present in social settings in ways I did not expect. If you want practical tools for anxiety and a natural way to calm your mind, this episode will walk you through what I am doing and how you can start today. God Bless! Connect with me at Here! I'd love to hear from you!
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50 | What NOT to Do as an Overwhelmed Mom
You love your kids. But you feel constantly behind. No matter how much you do, it never feels like enough. You second-guess yourself. You watch other families and wonder why your life doesn't look like theirs. You are tired of measuring yourself. Tired of carrying expectations that leave you drained. Tired of feeling like peace is always just out of reach. This episode speaks to the mom who feels overwhelmed and discouraged. The mom who feels like it's all too much, but isn't sure what the "too much" is. The mom who wants clarity, peace, and confidence in how she is mothering and leading her home. This episode is a reminder that God sees you and loves you. There is rest for you, even in the busyness of life and motherhood. And you are not alone in this season. God Bless!
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49 | How People Pleasing Replaces True Worship
We have all done it. You feel the nudge to say yes. Or to say no. You feel the pull to speak up. Or to stay quiet. And deep down, you already know what the right thing is. So why is it so hard to do it? Often, it's not confusion. It's fear. In this episode, I talk about how people pleasing quietly takes the place of true worship. How it disguises itself as humility, service, or being nice, while slowly shifting our focus off of God and onto ourselves. We look at how fear of people shows up in everyday decisions. The yes we did not mean to give. The gift we keep hidden. The obedience we avoid because we do not want to be seen, judged, or misunderstood. If you find yourself managing approval more than trusting God, this episode will help you see what's really happening and how to begin redirecting your worship back where it belongs. God Bless!
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48 | How to Become Someone New: Practical Steps for Real, Lasting Transformation (Pt. 2)
Real change rarely happens in big, dramatic moments. More often, it begins with small, faithful choices that don’t feel impressive at the time. In this episode, I talk about how quiet faithfulness and small, consistent action leads to meaningful, lasting transformation. Not overnight. Not through pressure or perfection. But through obedience, patience, and trusting God with the process. If you’ve ever felt discouraged because your growth feels slow… If you’ve wondered whether your small efforts even matter… This episode is a reminder that where change truly happens. God Bless!
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47 | When You Don't Like Yourself: How to Be Fully Loved and Still Become Someone New (Pt.1)
What do you do when you don’t like who you are? When you look at your life, your choices, or your habits and feel disappointed or ashamed? Most of us try to “fix ourselves” by striving harder, proving ourselves, or chasing approval from people who will never be able to give us what our hearts truly desire. In today’s episode, we’re talking about what the Bible really says about identity, self-worth, and God’s love, and why true transformation should never start from a place of self-rejection. Whether you’re feeling stuck, ashamed, or simply longing for change, this episode will help you look honestly at where you are, and rest in the truth that God meets you with compassion, not condemnation. God Bless!
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46 | Your Self-Talk Is Lying to You. And It's Pulling You Away From God’s Plan.
What does the Bible really teach about self-talk, mindset, and your identity in Christ? And how do you begin taking biblical steps to replace destructive thoughts with life-giving truth and speak hope over yourself and your circumstances? In today’s episode, we’re talking about the biblical power of words, why Scripture says life and death are in the tongue, and how the way you speak (even about yourself!) can either build your life or tear it down. Whether you struggle with discouragement, negative thinking, emotional overwhelm, or old patterns of self-defeating language, this conversation will help you step into godly thinking, renewed confidence, and a Christ-centered identity. God Bless!
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45 | Feeling Stuck in Survival Mode? How to Find Clarity and Direction Again
Are you feeling a little lost, aimless, or unsure about where you’re headed? Maybe you’re wondering why you can’t seem to get clear on your next step or even make sense of where you are right now. In today’s episode, we’re discussing why so many Christian moms find themselves feeling confused, directionless, or disconnected from their God-given purpose. And more importantly, we’re talking about how to find clarity and direction again by coming back to God’s voice, God’s truth, and God’s leading in your life. If you’ve been struggling with identity, confusion, or feeling stuck in this season, this episode will help you slow down, quiet the noise, and find the peace and confidence you’ve been longing for. God Bless!
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44 | 5 Signs You're Not Believing God's Love for You - And What It Means for Your Faith
Do you feel like you’re constantly striving, battling guilt, comparing yourself to other Christian women, or feeling unworthy of God’s promises? These struggles reveal how you truly see God and how you believe He sees you. What you believe about His love will always show up in the way you live your everyday life—your thoughts, your parenting, your actions, and your reactions. In this episode, we’re talking about what these patterns mean, why they matter, and how understanding God’s love can reshape your entire life. If you’re longing to move from striving to resting, from insecurity to confidence, from head knowledge to heart-level belief, this one is for you. God Bless!
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43 | The Slow Work of Healing: Where God Meets You in the Mess
Have you ever wished you could just snap your fingers and be healed from the pain, the memories, the things that still weigh heavily on your heart? Me too. Healing can feel so slow, especially when you’ve been carrying years of hurt and struggle. In today’s episode, we’re talking about the slow work of healing — the kind that happens one piece at a time, in the middle of what still feels messy. Let’s talk about what it looks like to sit in the discomfort and still trust His pace, find peace in the process, and notice the quiet ways He’s already rebuilding what was broken. God bless you!
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42 | Still Not Who You Thought You'd Be? Here's Why That's Okay
Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “I should be further along by now”? Maybe you thought you’d be more patient, more mature — more this, more that. But instead, you see all the ways you still fall short. In today’s episode, we’re talking about that voice of self-condemnation that tells you, “You should be better by now.” If you’ve been feeling behind, let this conversation remind you that we can’t do it in our own strength — and that there’s grace for us, even amidst our shortcomings. Thanks for being here!
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41 | How to Worship God in the Chaos of Motherhood
Have you ever missed the days after you were first saved when your faith felt fresh and your quiet time came easily? Between the noise, the laundry, and the endless needs, it can feel almost impossible to connect with God the way you used to. But is that what He's calling you to? In this episode, I want to help you see that worship isn’t about long, quiet mornings. It’s about a heart that turns toward God right where you are. I want to encourage you with practical ways you can nurture your relationship with Him in this season, so you can find peace, joy, and His presence in the middle of the chaos. Thanks for being here!
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40 | Stuck or Overwhelmed? How Small Habits Create Big Change with God
Do you ever feel like your faith, your habits, or even your daily life are just…mundane? Like you’re showing up, but it doesn’t seem to matter? In today’s episode, I want to encourage you with the truth of how God does big things through small, faithful steps. If you’ve been overwhelmed, discouraged by your progress, or tempted to quit, I'm here to remind you that your everyday obedience is never wasted. The mundane moments and small habits of faith are the very places where God builds true transformation. If this episode speaks to you, share it with a friend who could use the reminder too:)
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39 | The Area You're Avoiding: A Path to Healing, Restoration, and Hope
Have you ever had an area of your life that you just don’t want to face? Maybe it’s a dream that didn’t turn out the way you hoped, a prayer that went unanswered, or a wound that still hurts too much to touch. Instead of tending to it, you’ve left it alone, like a garden you’re afraid to step into because you know the weeds have taken over. In this episode, we talk about how disappointment and unmet expectations can cause us to neglect parts of our lives and how to invite God back in to bring healing, restoration, and hope. If this episode speaks to you, share it with a friend who could use the reminder too:)
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38 | Stop Trying to Be Enough: Find Freedom in God’s Grace
Do you feel the constant pressure to measure up — as a Christian woman, a mom, a wife, or just in life? The truth is, you’ll never be “enough” on your own… and that’s actually the best news. In this episode, we talk about finding grace when you stop relying on yourself and start resting in God's sufficiency. Your worth isn’t based on performance, and God’s grace is more than enough for your every weakness. If you’ve been carrying the weight of guilt, shame, or feeling like you’re falling short, this conversation will point you back to the truth of who God is and who you are in Him. If this episode speaks to you, share it with a friend who could use the reminder too:)
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37 | Your View of God Shapes Your Life: Finding Connection & Truth
Your view of God shapes everything! How you live, how you love, and definitely how you see yourself. If you believe He’s distant, harsh, or disappointed, you’ll live disconnected and defeated. In this episode, we discuss how false beliefs about God silently shape your life and how seeing Him rightly brings peace and true connection. If this episode speaks to you, share it with a friend who could use the reminder too:)
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36 | Feeling Disconnected From God? 2 Subtle Roadblocks to Examine
Do you ever feel like your time with God is missing something? You sit down to pray... or maybe you don’t. You know you need Him, but somehow you don’t make space to seek Him. If you’re struggling to feel close to God, let’s take a deeper look at what might really be going on beneath the surface. In this episode, we’ll talk about two subtle roadblocks that could be standing in the way of deeper connection. No shame. No pressure. Just an honest invitation to pause, reflect, and seek Him again with your whole heart. If this episode speaks to you, share it with a friend who could use the reminder too:)
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35 | What Does It Mean to Be ‘In Alignment’ or ‘Empowered?’ A Biblical Perspective
I don't doubt that, like me, you have heard these two words frequently over the past few years: Alignment and Empowerment. They sound like good words, don't they? It even feels good to say them! But in this episode I'd like to talk about what the world means when using these words and what is actually biblical. It's important for us to be discerning and differentiate meanings from a biblical perspective rather than to be led astray through crafty ideas that sound a lot like truth but are peppered with lies that lead us into ungodly living.
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34 | Are You Stuck in Condemnation? God Invites You Into Grace.
Are you living in a constant state of self-condemnation? Do you find yourself beating yourself up over what you said or didn't say, what you did or didn't do? Do you feel like you can never get it right, and no matter how hard you try, you just can't feel good about yourself? Living in a place of condemnation is exhausting, and it’s not the way we’re meant to live. There’s freedom in Christ, and He gives us grace! He is tender towards us. He intends for us to live with peace and rest in our hearts. I want to encourage you today with the truth of who you are and what the Word of God says about you, and I hope you believe it!
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33 | Real Security Begins with Truly Knowing God
Wherever you are, right in this very moment, God can meet you there! We know that God is all we need, in the general sense, but do we understand that He is exactly what we need in each moment? He is the I AM. But I think we don't always realize what that means. Today, I want to encourage you by going through many of the different names for God, so that you can truly see that He is what you need, no matter what you are going through. Are you running to Him? Do you lean on Him and trust Him? He is waiting. He is able. In Him, you have no lack.
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32 | How to Step Out of Mediocrity and into Excellence with God
It's not only about what you do, but also the attitude with which you do it. Are you doing everything with excellence and as unto the Lord, or are you doing the bare minimum? Do you have a bad attitude about the work you do, or towards the people closest to you? Let us keep in mind why we're here and Who we are doing all of this for. Let's move past the "bare minimum," or "Fine! I'll do it, but only because I have to" mindset and do all things heartily for our heavenly Father. He will reward us accordingly.
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31 | When It’s Hard to Forgive: Truths That Lead to Healing
Today's episode is really a heart to heart about the real difficulties of forgiving someone who has hurt you. It can be extremely hard when you've been hurt so very deeply. I've been there more times than I like to admit. Hurt, and especially when there's betrayal, can leave us vulnerable and doubting ourselves in ways that feel completely crushing. Sometimes, forgiveness seems impossible. But God. He makes a way. We don't have to do it in our own strength, and He can make beauty from ashes, though it usually doesn't happen overnight. Let me share with you the things that have helped me to step out of the bondage of unforgiveness and find freedom.
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30 | Ready for a Reset? Join Me in a 100-Day Challenge!
HAPPY NEW YEAR! There is, in actuality, nothing magical about January 1, and yet, we do feel a sense of newness and renewed hope that we can do better. That we can change and grow and improve our lives somehow. And that is what makes this a great time to start a 100 Day Challenge! If you've never done one before, let me tell you, this can be a truly life-changing thing, and I don't say that to sound dramatic. I say it because it's made such a huge impact on my life and my faith, and I've heard many others say it's done great things for them as well. I'd be so happy for you to join me! The start date is next Wednesday, January 10! Please come into my Facebook group and tell me what one thing you'd like to work on for 100 days. I can't wait to do this with you!
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29 | Why I Gave Up on New Year’s Resolutions—What I Do Instead
It's that time! Time to sit down, think about the coming year, and make some plans. But if you're anything like me, New Year's resolutions just don't work for you. They may be fun to write down and sound great, but only in theory, and that's where they often tend to stay. As someone who used to be completely unorganized and rather lazy, I can assure you that change is possible for all of us, no matter where we've come from or where we start. In this episode, I'm sharing with you the things that have actually worked for me to see change and growth, and I'm confident they can help you too.
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28 | Wait! Before You Start Planning for the New Year, This Will Help
I get so. super. excited. when I start thinking about the New Year! It's always a time of a clean slate, fresh start kind of feeling and I absolutely love it! But! Before we rush into that, there are a few things we can do first to help better set ourselves up for a great next year! I've learned this the hard way and it's taken me many years to finally be able to look back on a year gone by and actually see some of the growth I was hoping for. I want that for you too. For you to feel like you've made progress and are becoming more like the person you truly long to be. Let's start together. Right here. Right now. Today. Orrrr right after the Christmas festivities are all cleaned up. I get it;)
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27 | Practical Tips if You're Struggling With Consistency in Your 'Quiet Times’
If we want to truly grow in our walk with God, then, just as in any relationship, we need to put in the effort and invest the time. Sometimes, it's not for a lack of desire that we are not more consistent in our 'quiet times,' but it's more about a lack of strategic or proper planning. Today, I'm sharing with you some very practical things you can do to eliminate the excuses, the distractions, and the interruptions and really get serious and committed to spending time in the Word of God and in prayer.
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26 | The Truth About “That One Thing” Everyone Says Will Change Your Life
Are you happy with where you are in life right now? With who you are right now? Are you looking for change but need that 'One Thing' to make it happen? Is it possible that there is that one magical thing to make it all come to fruition? My short answer is "Yes, and." But what is the key? Is there a secret? Well, my answer to that is "No, but." The truth is, it’s relatively simple but not as easy as we'd like. Let's talk about it!
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25 | Are You Living in the Truth of Who You Are—Or Stuck in Lies?
What do you say when someone asks you to tell them about yourself? Do you share the same things you repeat to yourself every day? What do you think about yourself? I mean, what do you truly believe about who you are? Are your thoughts about yourself good or bad? Truth or lies? I'd love for you to grab a journal and honestly reflect on your answers to these questions. Then, search the scriptures to see who God is and what He says about who you are. The answers to these questions will, and do, largely affect how you live and what you do in this world.
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24 | The Quickest Way to Ruin a Friendship & How to Save It
There is no doubt that we were made for community and connection. Having friends and, especially, that one close friend to pour your heart out to is truly a gift. But sometimes, we can sabotage the friendship most dear to us without realizing we're doing it. In today's episode, I'm sharing not as someone who has it all figured out, but rather as someone who has made the mistakes and learned the hard lessons (and continues to learn). I've managed to put a lot of unnecessary stress on relationships that began as something beautiful. I've also seen God transform those relationships and make them whole again. I believe that friendships are one of God's greatest gifts to us. I hope you are experiencing the fullness of that gift.
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23 | This One Thing Is Blocking Your Growth With God—And How to Break Free
You want it, right? That closeness with the Lord. To walk in wisdom. To be spiritually minded and walk in step with the Spirit rather than walking in the flesh. But life gets in the way, and so you continue as you were. But it's like they say, nothing changes if nothing changes. It took me an embarrassingly long time to learn this one lesson, but I am not exaggerating when I tell you that it changed a lot for me, and I genuinely believe that it can do the same for you! So glad you're here.
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22 | What Unbelievers Sometimes Get Better And What Christians Can Learn From It
As believers, we have all that we need for life and godliness. We should, of all people, be living the most abundant lives. But all too often, it seems, Christians are merely coasting along, content to stay where they are. What if you could do more? Be more? Achieve greater things? Not to gain favor with God or to prove yourself to others, but rather to do the very best in this life that you can, so that you won't leave this world wondering "what if." You have the Word of God and so many other resources at your fingertips. I believe you can thrive. Don't you want to?
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21 | 3 Surprising Lessons COVID Taught Me About Life and Faith
I don't think we were truly prepared for the difficulties and challenges that lay before us at the start of 2020. Who could have anticipated how the world, life as we knew it, was about to change? I still can't fully wrap my mind around it. But through all the hardship, all the turmoil, and all the disunity, I learned some valuable lessons, and I am a better person for it. As you listen to this episode, I'd love for you to reflect on your own experience and your takeaways from this unprecedented time and see how God wants to use it in your life to help you grow in your walk with Him.
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20 | Afraid to Do the Hard Things? How to Find God-Given Confidence and Courage
The world tells us to believe in ourselves, but there’s a much better way to find confidence and the courage you need to do the hard thing! In this episode, I’m sharing with you a story from the Bible about a woman who had tremendous courage in an extremely difficult situation and the key factors that contributed to her act of bravery, and how you can tap into that same resource.
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19 | When God Seems Silent or Feels Far Away
Do you ever look for some kind of sign from God for confirmation that He's there? It's not that you don't know He is, but you don't really feel it. Today, I want to draw your attention to how you can see God in a big way, even when you aren't seeing big miracles or hearing an audible voice from the heavens! He is close and He wants to be closer still. He's showing Himself to you everyday. Do you see Him?
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18 | How Comparison is Stealing Your Joy and Ruining Your Relationships
What is more damaging to us than comparison? Not much, if you ask me. Comparison robs us of the gifts that God has given us and keeps us in a place of discontentment. How can we express our own personality or enjoy Gods blessings in our lives when we’re busy wishing we had what someone else has? We can’t! YOU are here for a reason with your specific gifts and abilities and I want you to believe that!
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17 | Are You Ruining Your Kids? | Why I “Burned” the Books on Parenting
Have you ever worried that you would ruin your kids? Yeah, me too. Raising good, godly children should be the goal for Christian parents. However, when we have unrealistic expectations of ourselves, it can become a burden too heavy to bear. In today's episode, I am sharing with you the overwhelming guilt I carried with me at every moment of every day as a mom until, one blessed day, I realized that I didn't have to live this way. Let me share with you five things God has taught me in my mothering journey that have given me freedom and hope, and that I believe will bring you encouragement as well. *The book I mention in this episode is called "Desperate," written by Sally Clarkson and Sarah Mae
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16 | Pt. 2 When Prayers Go Unanswered: Finding God’s Purpose in Infertility & Loneliness with Marianne Miller
Without a doubt, it can be really frustrating when your prayers go unanswered. But do they really? Maybe we're missing the forest for the trees. What if we take a step back and consider what's really happening. What if all the "silence" is God leading you to something bigger and grander than anything you could've dreamed up for yourself? I think God delights in giving us good things! And don't you think He gets great pleasure in surprising us in the most unexpected ways from time to time? I sure do! As you listen to the rest of this story, I hope it causes you to reflect on where and how God has shown up in your life and all the things you might've missed out on if He'd given you what you wanted, when you wanted and the way you wanted. You definitely want to hear the next part of Marianne's story!
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15 | Pt. 1 When Prayers Go Unanswered: Finding God’s Purpose in Infertility & Loneliness with Marianne Miller
What if what you think is unanswered prayer is actually God doing exactly what He says He'll do, and that is, working all things together for your good? Marianne's story went from disappointment, heartache and empty arms to a home filled with laughter and love. I'm excited for you to hear how God answered her prayers in the most unexpected ways!
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14 | Are You Stuck In Sin? Or In Discouragement? How To Find Hope & Freedom
We all get stuck. Sometimes we're stuck in sin, or in a sin, and sometimes we just feel stuck altogether. You can find freedom! But maybe you're thinking, "I know what you're going to say and I already know Jesus is the answer", and yet, you can't find your way out. There is something you can do to really shift your mindset. And isn't that where the problem lies, in your mind? In this episode, I want to offer you hope and encouragement and remind you of the truth of who you are in Christ. Connect with me in my Facebook Group!
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13 | 2 Reasons It’s Hard For You To Make The Right Decision
We've all been there. There's a really tough decision before you and you don't know which way to take. Or do you? Sometimes it's not so much that we don't know the way God is leading us, but it's more about our unwillingness to go that way. Why is that? In today's episode I talk about the two main ditches we tend to fall into when it comes to doing what's right, especially when it isn't popular.
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12 | Losing Reverence: Has Our View of God Become Too Casual?
Why are Christians using the same kind of language that unbelievers use and fail to honor God as the true and Holy God that He is? God is not like us. He deserves our reverence. The world is in need of a Savior! And they need one that is better than your coffee. Let's have a little chat about it.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
There is a yearning inside of you for a deep and meaningful relationship with God.You love Him but not like you know you could. Or should.You struggle with feelings of guilt because you know that often you’re just going through the motions rather than eagerly drinking from the well that never runs dry. You go through spurts of motivation and excitement and then crash down on feelings of discouragement or hopelessness.I know what it’s like to feel just a little lost. A little bit stuck.Or even, just flat out complacent.I understand that the reality of mom life and the day to day tasks can get in the way of all our best intentions.I also know that sometimes it’s just sheer exhaustion that keeps us from moving forward and growing in the Word of God and in our faith.God knows that motherhood is demanding and He made a way for you to be a mom and have a vibrant relationship with Him at the same time.He means for you to thrive in life and not merely get by.Let me be that voice in
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