You Minding Your Own Business

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Amy Kemp about the balance of being a working, successful businesswoman while raising children and being a wife, and how her husband has been her greatest support system. How can women balance it all and not lose themselves? How to balance taking care of a husband and kids, having a career, being a business owner, and taking care of yourself? It was a very good conversation, and I am looking forward to bringing her back to do a post-conversation to go more in detail about women in the workplace and business women balancing being a wife and mother. The importance of having a support system when it comes to working or becoming a businesswoman. I hope that you enjoy this conversation, which will inspire and help so many women who are struggling with the balance of working, being a businesswoman, wife, and mother.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, we’re gonna be discussing society, standards, illusions, and delusions that we’ve been believing for since we were born that have turned out to be complete fabrications and lies. Ever since I was a kid, I was always brought up to believe that if you did everything you were supposed to that everything was going to go well. But not understanding when that’s based upon other people’s perceptions, opinions, and feelings about you, then that’s not always going to end up well for you. A lot of people do not want to see you win, grow, evolve, elevate, immature into the person that is going to be successful, happy, and fulfilled. There are many people that want to see your downfall. And a lot of people make a lot of promises that in the end, they never keep. And in this episode, I talk about how everything from government, to family, spouses, children, and even the people you don’t know, as well as friends will do everything to keep you in a certain place to the point of where we have been conditioned into believing that if we lower ourselves to build other people up that that would be reciprocated. But unfortunately, you’re actually being manipulated and being used. So when it comes to your healing and recovery when it comes to you, you need to understand that you need to put yourself first, and make yourself a priority, make sure that you are aware you need to be, and make sure you good before you decide to help other people. You can help people without destroying yourselves. The problem is we’re helping people and also destroying ourselves at the same huh. And I hope that this episode helps so many people who are going through this to understand to put yourself first.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I wanna talk about you minding your own business when it comes to everything falling apart. From when we were a kid, we always had this idea of what it was gonna be like when we grew up. And then all of a sudden something happens it just alters everything that you thought was going to be. The things that you thought was gonna be one way it ends up being a whole different way that you weren’t expecting. That’s what I’m going through when it comes not only losing my job on January 9 of 2026, but losing my father February 12 of 2026. The fact that I had to uproot my life and move back to North Carolina to help my mother when it comes to the financials things with my dad since he died. Me having to put everything on hold just so I could just grieve the loss of my father. How me losing my job led me to creating and owning my own business. I don’t think anybody’s prepared when somebody passes away when you have to uproot your life in order to be there for the other parent. Everything that comes with the financial part when it comes to after somebody dies. How everything is placed on your shoulders,and then trying to find your way back to yourself through everything else that’s going on? It’s really difficult, when it comes to feel like you’re losing yourself to tear your body depending on you. I just wanted to talk about this particular topic, and I hope this episode gives people inspiration who is also going through the death of a parent, and dealing with the same things.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I talk about everything I’m learning since the death of my father when it comes to financial and assets when somebody dies. I don’t think people can even remotely understand everything that comes with what happens after somebody dies when it comes to their finances, debt, and assets. I decided to share everything that I am learning when it comes to Social Security, retirement, military benefits, insurance, bills, debt, a willing testament, a trust, and their debt. I also learned about power of attorney, executor of the estate, who is responsible for what when it comes to that person‘s bills. When I tell you that when it comes to a parent, or a spouse, there is so much that comes with their finances that I was completely shocked about. Also, how all of this has made me question everything when it comes to my life since he died. This situation has definitely got me looking at society from a whole different perspective. It makes me question everything that we’ve been told since we came on this earth. Is everything that we’ve been told actually the right way of living, or is there another agenda associated with it? So I’m very sure a lot of you would very much and can definitely relate to this episode. I hope this episode really gives people a real understanding of what happens after that person dies and is buried what the family has to deal with.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I talk about what’s been going on with me since I’ve been gone since the death of my father. What I’ve learned from the financial perspective when it comes to my father‘s death, and what we’ve had to endure and deal with. How I am rising above it, and getting through it? What’s been going on since I lost my job in January, and how it went for me losing my job to me building a business? How I just became a travel agent? And what the new topics are gonna be when it comes to this podcast platform? I talk about what happens when it comes to the financial part of someone dying when it comes to properties, money, debt, collections, retirement, and Social Security. I talk about things a lot of people don’t know when it comes to the financial part of death when it comes to Social Security, insurance, and retirement. I just want people to understand that when it comes to financial healing your recovery, it’s completely different than what most people have told you. Many people talk about how to become successful, but they don’t tell you how to maintain being successful, or what happens when everything falls apart, and you hit rock bottom, how to bounce back from that. How to maintain your success once you find your way back to being successful? So I hope you guys enjoy all the upcoming conversations that I’ll be having with my upcoming guest. And what is going on when it comes to the new guest that will be coming either back on the podcast for their post conversation, or the new pre-conversation conversations that I’ll be posting.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

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In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Christina Spaulding about using foreign language in business. We spoke about her business about how she helps businesses with their for foreign language department. We discuss about building a business and making money overseas, and how learning a foreign language will benefit you when comes to a sucessful international company. We also talked about the international marketing, and how it works. A little about Christina, she is the Founder of Manzanita Marketing, and I help businesses expanding internationally make sure their website content is not just translated, but truly localized and optimized for growth. Her process connects the dots between SEO and localization, ensuring your digital footprint supports real business results, whether it's increasing traffic (like when I grew German visits by 200% for a client) or helping a Swiss B2B brand hit #1 for its main keywords. She ove showing smaller businesses how to build content strategies that outshine generic AI translations and genuinely engage local audiences. She shared some practical steps for protecting your content, crafting digital marketing plans that actually convert, and making the most of every platform as you scale online,would benefit from actionable advice they can use, right along with your own experiences and tips. It was a great conversation, and wanted to share the pre-conversation with you guys.  I hope that you enjoy the conversation, and the post conversation is coming soon.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I spoke to Mike Dejong about the up's and down's when it comes to buikding a business. The importance of the relationships between the owners and employees as far taking care of thier em[ployees. What happens when you don't take care of your employees? The importance of employees have a work and life balance. How he went through work withdrawl even as a owner of multiple companies. How to have a work/life balance even as business owner? What business owner go through when building a business that is not talked about?  A little about Mike, his  unusual mix of hands-on leadership in both franchising and entrepreneurship, combined with a deep understanding of day-to-day business problems that so many owners face but rarely talk about openly. His years helping franchisees break free from being trapped in routines and reclaim their energy for growth have led to some really candid, actionable perspectives. He doesn’t just talk about owning a business; he’s lived every setback, adjustment, and win that comes with it. It was a great conversation, and I learned about business in way that is going to help me when it comes to stating and building my business. I had to share it with you. I hope that are going to enjoy the pre-conversation. I post conversation is cming soon.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Gary Simmonds about his company, his life as far as being raised as a single mother, being in the military, going from being accepting in the medical field as doctor to independent success as a business suceess. Him mentoring other people to work together in business, and building their businesses through principles. Him giving up a medical scholarship for independent success, to enduring 17 years of setbacks in network marketing, How he learned firsthand how ambition alone isn't enough. How recognizing the hidden blind spot that kept him stuck, and finally building with intention, that he was able to lead a failing team to $55 million in sales? How do both of us have a child with autism, and raise him to be successful despite their disabilities? We talked about how God may have a different journey, path, and purpose that is completely different from the purpose, path and journey. How does it takes a village to build and raising a child, communities, brands, products, services, and businesses? The importance of you motivating your employees to be the best version of themselves, and giving them room to grow, evolve. and elevate to become the best version of themselves through management. It was a great conversation, I had to post it. The post conversation is coming up, and I hope that you enjoy the conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Thayne Martin about the emotional, spiritual and mental health due to trauma, sexual, and physical assualt, abuse, trauma, damage, chaos and destruction, pain and suffering. The spiritual battle between society standards, and the higher power standards. Us dealing with our demons, what we have been through in our past in order to move fowards. His dealing and overcoming severe trauma, DID, complex PTSD, bipolar, and ADHD, The healing prcess that he has done to overcome it through heaoling and recovery that led him to becoming the CEO of It'sPureLove.com, He pecialize in experiential neuroscience, helping people and organizations shift no-longer-useful patterns at the source. Through his work developing the Equation of Life and Abundant Happiness (ELAH™), the structured ELAH eqOS™ system, and Ex Em Neuroconditioning™, He shows leaders, teams, and individuals exactly how to retrain emotional habits to make decisions that align mind and body. His approach goes beyond insight to hands-on learning, measurable change, and emotional regulation, even for those who have faced profound trauma. He currently teaching teach organizations and people how to rewire not just their performance, but their lives, and this could be a powerful fit for your community. It was such a great conversation, that I decided to let you guys hear it. The post conversation is coming soon. I hope that you enjoy it.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing what is financial healing and recovery. A lot of people don’t understand there is healing and recovery. When it comes to your income, job loss, being laid off, somebody losing their job that was helping you with the bills, your business going bankrupt, or losing a business, and so much more. People don’t think that there’s any such thing as financial healing and recovery, but there is. I lost my job January 9 of 2026, and I haven’t been able to find a job since then. Then I went through my father passing away February 12 of 2026 to where I had to move back to North Carolina from Florida. So I of all people understand financial healing and recovery better than anybody. So I hope this is people are better understanding of the importance of us talking about financial healing and recovery. And how to go about this financial healing and recovery. We will definitely be discussing this on this platform during this season. I hope you guys enjoy the episode, and thank you so much for the support.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Jake Isham about socail medial marketing. How his company helps companies with their social medial marketing. We talked about the difference between content creator and businesses who use social media maketing. The importance of having products and services to sell as a content creator. How companies use TIKTOK, Facebooks, and Instagrams to promote  products and services? The benefits of having someone to help with your socail media marketing. It was a great conversation, and I hope that you enjoy the conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation about his journey when it comes from from money to starting and growing his own business. What it is going to take to become successful? Some great advice to new and up incoming small business owners. The importance of discipline time management, determination when it comes to building a company. The difference between a content creator and social media influencer versus a product and service business. It was a great conversation, we will be doing the actual conversation soon. #businessgrowth #successBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I forgot about the fall before the ride when it comes to people that the rug has been pulled them up under them, hit and rock, bottom, or losing everything and finding their way through all of that to find success. A lot of people are always told how to go about being successful, but they’re never taught or told about how to overcome losing everything, the rug being pulled from up under them, or hitting rock bottom when it comes to Financial situations. There are millions of people right now that the rug is being pulled from up under them when it comes to losing their job. There are a lot of people that hit rock bottom when it comes to losing everything financially. And there are other people that because of their stupidity, end up losing everything. And I think before we talk about people becoming successful, if anything, we need to talk about the people that are getting knocked down every day and how they’re getting there so they can learn from their mistakes in order for them to become successful. I myself lost my job January 9, and I’m trying to maneuver through how to overcome that situation in order to become successful. So I decided it since I was going through it currently, I decided I want to talk about it. I am currently moving now from another state to go back home to start over. So I can relate to this conversation. #successBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Moe Choice about how he hit rock bottom twice and then bounced back. We talked about overcoming adversities, pain, and suffering we face due to society standards, and what others think or say about us, who we are, the mistakes that we made in our past, and our failures. We also talked about how we put everyone before ourselves, lowering ourselves, letting go of our dreams, to focus on everyone else's wants and needs. We talked about how no matter what we go through, we have to make sure that the choices, decisions, actions, and behavior are what is best for our health and wellness internally and externally, finances, and everything we have. We also spoke about what he learned from that and is now teaching others about how to overcome adversity when it comes to failure in business or losing a job. We also talked about the education system, as far as why we are not taught critical thinking, common sense, common judgment, decision-making, and choice-making, dealing with trauma, adversities, pain, rejection, suffering, and abuse. The walking contradictions of what we believe in, and what we were taught when it comes to society standards, health and wellness, marriage, success, and what is required to be happy. It was a great conversation, and I am looking forward to doing the actual conversation soon. I'm really looking forward to doing the actual conversation soon. #health #wellnessBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.This episode includes AI-generated content.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Jimi Gibson about his journey to becoming a marketing executive at Thrive Internet Marketing Agency. A little Jimi He about spent years helping business owners who feel invisible discover how to stand out, not just online, but in their networks and communities. As VP of Brand Communication at Thrive Internet Marketing Agency, he specializes in making business leaders “seen” where it matters, especially in the age of AI-driven search. He spoke about his passion for the idea that invisible owners create invisible companies, and his journey as a professional magician and TEDx speaker has shaped unique strategies for capturing attention and building trust without needing to be a social media influencer. He gave me some great advice about my business ideas, including my podcast, jewelry, coaching, and motivational speaking. We talked about the importance of marketing and promoting your business and brand. We also talked about how just because you have followers and fans, it doesn't mean that they will buy your products and services. We talked about how you may not have as many followers or fans, but the people who support you are the ones who will buy your products and services. It was a very good pre-conversation, and I am looking forward to having the podcast conversation coming soon.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.This episode includes AI-generated content.

My pre-conversation with Raymond Lavine about the importance of getting a power of attorney, living will, executive of an estate, medical long term and life insurance policy. We discussed his journey of helping long term patients being able to have long term insurance for long term care.He talked about his journey during WW1, WW2 in Germany during the Hitler era, and fighting in the Vietnam wars in the military. I had a great pre-conversation with, and am looking forward to doing the actual conversation soon.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, we’re talking about how people go from renovate themselves to newly inventing themselves. There’s a difference between reinventing yourself to newly inventing yourself. Based on me going through this process currently I’m in the stage of my life where I am newly inventing myself the same way you renovate a house. The purpose of reinventing a house is to make it into something new and better than what it was. And you have to look at yourself in the same aspect when it comes to healing your recovery when it comes to renovating yourself to something new.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I discussed healing and recovery from the loss of my dad. Me telling my story about my relationship with my dad, and what I have learned through this journey of losing him when it comes to everything that comes with the aftermath as far as the bill I’m a will, testament, and paperwork. And what happens if you don’t have a legal guardian, power of attorney, executor of the state, and a will and testament. Why is so important that you make sure that your family members have a power of attorney, a willing, testament, and guardian of the estate, and all their affairs in order before they pass away. Because if you don’t, there is so many consequences, repercussions, and karma from not having those things together. I hope this testimony of me telling my story about me losing my dad and what I’m learning from that will help other people who also are going through this now. And I also hope this helped other people as far as making sure these things in order before they pass away.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Ari Rastegar about business and success despite failures, trauma, pain, illnesses, diseases, ups and downs, and many other negative things. Many things that will or have happened, that will or have led us to our greatness, and our true happiness and purpose. Most people think that success is based on products and services. But being successful should be based on being healthy both internally and externally, mentally, in relationships, and spiritually. A little about ARI, he was born in Austin to an Iranian father and German mother, and having grown up in Dallas, I started investing in real estate during law school, eventually founding Rastegar Capital. His background as a founder and executive has taught me that health truly comes before wealth, and it's discipline, not dollars, that is the strongest asset. I had a great conversation, and I'm looking forward to the actual podcast conversation with him. #healing #recoveryBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I talk about some tips and things that you can and should do if and when you lose your job. There are millions of people that are losing their jobs every day since 2019 during Covid that are panicking because they still haven’t found a job. And sometimes that can actually be a blessing in disguise. I lost my job on January 9 of 2026, and I was supposed to go on a cruise on 23 January through the 30th, and I almost didn’t go, but I ended up going anyway. And in all honesty, it was the best decision that I made. So I decided to get some tips for those of you who like myself lost theirjob not because they did anything wrong, but because they were downsizing or gutting your department, what you can do to survive while you’re trying to figure out what your next move is going to be. And instead of trying to panic because you lost your job, look at it as a positive thing because there are so many things you can do while you’re not working that you didn’t get to do when you were. So I hope these tips in this podcast episode help you to understand that there is a benefit of not working right now? #jobloss #tipsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I discussed my seven day cruise on the Margaritaville at Sea. And my overall thoughts about the boat in the excursions and all of the things that I did during the seven days. I also talk about human mind your own business when it comes to your foundation. What is gonna be required when it comes to your healing and recovery foundation. That your foundation are based on standards and non-negotiable that you’re not going to go against in any way shape, form cold or fashion. The one thing about healing and recovery, is that it’s about the standards, and non-negotiables that are the foundation of the new version of you. Why a lot of people have when it comes to their healing, and recovery is only a temporary fix’s because they don’t have standards, or non-negotiable’s that create the new version of them when it comes to their foundation. And without standards and no non-negotiable it will be very easy for people to tear down and destroy your foundation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the importance of you mine and your own business in 2026. A lot of people are losing a jobs since there’s Trump administration started this year. The fact that people put this man in office and he has done nothing but made our lives of living nightmare is beyond ridiculous. But this video is all about the importance of you minding your own business these next three years and focusing on building something that no one can strip from you. Nobody can pull the rug from up onto you when it comes to your business and brand. The fact that we have to understand that at any time the rugs can be pulled from up under us. At any time, somebody can self sabotage and destroy your life whenever they feel like it. And at any time, you can hit rock-bottom without being prepared for it. So 2026 should be about understanding how the world truly works, and being able to see things for what they are, and not what you want them to be. Focusing on moving in silence, and applying the 48 laws of power into your life.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, we gonna talk about you minding your own business when it comes to your family dynamics. There are a lot of people that are invisible children whose parents never really cared about them the way that they cared about their siblings. And the way that they were treated compared to their siblings, was very very different when it comes to the way they retreated, loved, respected, and the trauma from all of that. And how when you get older and you become successful due to being forced to be independent by your parents because of their neglect, and not being there for you because you are the strong one compared to your siblings who are the ones that always are in need as far as being spoiled and entitled. People don’t understand how most people are truly independent based upon their family dynamic, and the way they were raised and grew up. There are millions of children that were forced to have to take care of themselves at a very young age because their parents either abandoned them, always said they were a strong one and could take care of themselves, parents were never there for them when it came to their events, never took care of them financially, and made them have to get a job at a young ages in order to pay the bills so they can pretty much spoiling and entitled their siblings. And how when you get older, your family is going to take advantage of the fact that you want their love so bad that you’re willing to do anything and everything to make sure they’re good, but at the same time they’re never going to love and appreciate you for the things that you do for them, and they’re not gonna do anything but take advantage of it. I’m very sure this topic is going to hit a lot of people very hard when it comes to being the invisible child that was forced to be independent by default that we do not talk about.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I did a live on TIkTOk about people going from being like everyone else to walking to the beat of your own drum in 2026. So many people have trying live based on what everyone else thinks, says, or based on society standards. 2026 should about you no longer putting everyone else's problems on my shoulder like a superhero. You stopping investing and building people who don't want to be saved or lazy. You not letting people suck the life out of you like a leeche and vampire. Not letting anyone use you flaws, imperfections, disabilities, and mistakes as weapon against you. 2026 is your year of growth, success, and the new version of you. Becoming the best version of you as far as your health and wellness.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this live episode, I talk about what my 2026 is going to look like as far as creating my coaching business, writing two books, becoming a motivation speaker, doing webinars, and seminars about healing, recovery and addiction, one on one coaching, and making my podcast syndicated. How am I going to become a travel agency, traveling to different parts of the world? How am I going to be starting my jewelry business and making jewelry and holistic products and far hair, skin, and health and wellness products? How I am going to bring 2026 with new version of you as far as a look, new beginning, new journey, path, and purpose, meeting new people, new adventures, and new way of living? Me focusing on myself as far as building my coachung and jewerly business, motivational speaking, webinars, semiars, one on one coaching, and writing books. Me not worrying about other people as far what they have and are doing. Not trying to based what I do on other people's way of doing things, and society standards. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m going to be discussing the Oprah Winfrey conversation that she did on her podcast about no parent contact, and no child contact. This is something that has been happening quite often when it comes to kids that don’t want anything to do with their parents, parents that don’t wanna have anything to do with their children. And as someone that is a healing, recovery, and addiction coach, this is a conversation that is something that I specialize with when it comes to helping people with their family trauma issues. Helping people through what they went through in their childhood in order to move forward as far as healing and recovery. A lot of people have been debating about this conversation on TikTok and multiple other streaming platforms. But for the most part, a lot of people were not thrilled about the conversation. So I decided to do a panel where we discussed this particular conversation as far as people who don’t have contact with their family, and parents that don’t have contact with their children. It’s about hearing people stories versus being a right or wrong situation. And how do we go about healing from our family trauma and experiences on both ends? #nochildcontactBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

My pre-conversation with Christine Blosdale about how our journeys, pain, suffering, trauma, and overcoming adversity due to negative people and situation leads to becoming coaches and helping others through their journeys. How the things that we went through leads us to our healing and recovery and becoming the best version of ourselves? How our stories can help someone else. I can't wait until we do the two actual conversations on both of our podcasts? And the misconceptions about coaching when it comes to when comes to how easy that it is to become a coach, and making money off the gate?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

My pre-conversation with Christine Blosdale about how our journeys, pain, suffering, trauma, and overcoming adversity due to negative people and situation leads to becoming coaches and helping others through their journeys. How the things that we went through leads us to our healing and recovery and becoming the best version of ourselves.How our stories can help someone else. I can't wait until we do the two actual conversations on both of our podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.This episode includes AI-generated content.

In this episode, we talk about what is the golden child and the invisible child syndrome when it comes to different children and how they are being treated, raised, and put on a pedestal, depending on which child that it is. How you have one child that cannot do no role that would be considered a golden child. That is their parents, favorite, and the other child that is the invisible child that they pay no attention to. This is the new season that I’m gonna be doing when it comes to all of my podcast when it comes to the family dynamic when it comes to trauma, depression, anxiety, and never getting the love, appreciation, value, and validation and acceptance that you want from your parents that you’ll never get because you are the invisible child. Whereas the other child always gets what they want to the point that the parents go above and beyond to give them everything that they won’t. So there’s a huge difference between these two different types of children. so this series is definitely going to be very interesting, because it’s one person that has experienced this personally, I can speak on this with very much experience. #goldenchildBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I was discussing the golden child syndrome when it comes to your siblings and how they were treated better than you were. How that child was the golden child that could not do no wrong. The golden child that basically essentially mom and dad always invested in and always did for. The one that no matter what they always put on a pedestal compared to you. The one that they always are comparing you to, and wants you to be like. The one they always have the upmost excuses for when it comes to their behavior when they do something negative. The one that they’re always there for their events all of the times but yet forget about yours. The one who get the best birthday party, but they forget your birthday party. The one that every event that the sibling has, your parents are always there, but they never show up for yours. This happens more times than not. I think it’s time that we start talking about this particular issue. Because a lot of people are independent because of the way their parents treated them compared to their siblings. And I know that this episode is going to hit a lot of people in a very bad way, and it’s going to leave a very bad taste in your mouth. And some of y’all gonna be sending me emails talking about I thank God you talked about this particular topic, because this is me when it came to my sibling or siblings. So I know personal to a lot of people. But I wanted to do this because I think it was time that we start addressing somebody’s topics that we don’t necessarily talk about nowhere. And the golden child syndrome when it comes to that favorite child, definitely needs to be discussed.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the importance of seeing things for what they are, and seeing people for who they are. I ended up losing some money today, and despite what happened I’m still trying to look at the positive side of it. And even though I’m going through what I’m going through in my situation, I’m gonna see it for what it is, and I’m gonna have faith that it’s all gonna work out. And even though we want to see things and people the way we want to see them, it doesn’t mean that is who and what they truly are. And if we don’t start seeing people in situations and things for what they are, then we’re gonna end up being bamboozled, lied, too, manipulated, deceived, and lead astray. So this conversation is all about us seeing things for what and who they are, and not the way and what we want them to be.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

End this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the importance of moving in silence, and telling no one about what you’re doing, or how you’re moving. Nobody needs to know what you’re doing, and how you’re going about doing it? No one needs to know that you are successful, what’s going on in your situations, and what you’ve got going on. The reason for this is because as soon as you tell the wrong people what you got going on, they’re gonna do everything they can to either sabotage it, destroy it, cause chaos, or they’re gonna try to make you doubt yourself to the point that you’re not gonna want to do it at all. So many people even steal your idea, and make it their own. Some people will take everything that you have that you built and make it seem like it’s theirs. Some people will even go as far as try to take and strip you of everything that you worked hard for. Come in and destroy all the relationships you have, just because they want what you have. And you can’t continue to do that so it’s very important that you learn the importance of you moving in silence and telling no one what you have, who you with, what you got going on, or what you doingBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to go from being of the world to becoming the godly person that you are meant to be. Going from who everybody else wants and things that you should be in our, to the person that you were always meant to be. How when you become healed and recovered from everything you’ve been through, you will make better choices, and decisions to the point of where your actions, behavior and emotions will represent that. How it will be easier for you to make better choices based upon everything you learned from when it comes to your healing recovery that you have no intentions of repeating, nor are you gonna want to do those things anymore? At the end of the day it’s gonna be more so about maintaining your healing and recovery versus doing all of the things you used to do that’s going to send you back. The last thing you want to do is go through all of this to heal and recover, just to go back to everything you just overcame. You don’t go through all of this healing and recovery, just to go through the same things all over again. And we have to understand it’s about maintaining our healing and recovery.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

On this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the Twitter beef between Cardi B and Nicki Minaj when it comes to them bailing out over Nicki Minaj being upset cause Cardi B Album is doing well. And why I think Nicki Minaj is trying to get rid of Cardi B. And it’s not for the reasons that you might think. It’s gonna be a part two to this episode because I had a meeting to go through at 8 o’clock. But we will be going through the tweets. And the history of these two women, as far as how this beef between both of them started. I’m so trying to understand why Nicki Minaj has an issue with Cardi B, when Cardi B has never done anything to her to give her a reason to. The fact that misery loves company is amazing to me.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna talk about going from who and what everybody wants you to be, children, and become, to who and what you want to be, do, and become. A lot of people now are realizing that they’re whole entire lives. They have not been who they are, and doing what they want to do, and becoming the person they wanna become, they are and have been who and what everybody else is one of them to be, doing whatever everybody else wants them to do, and becoming the person that everybody else expects. And a part of healing and recovery is learning that it’s not about lowering yourself in order to build your body up, or doing things because it’s expected of you by others, and you being who everybody else thinks that you should be. It’s about you being, doing, and becoming the person that you think that you should be. And the godly person that God put you on this earth to be, and become. And doing all of the things based upon the godly talents that God gave you to do the word that God wants you to do. And the one thing that is the hardest thing to do is to become the person that you want to become, do the things that you want to do, and be the person that you want to be because of society standards. but once you stop worrying about what everybody else thinks, says, and expect for you to do, and you move in silence, you will see how happy you’ll be when you finally get to become the person that you want to be and become, as well as being able to do the things that you want to do that makes you happy.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, we’re gonna be talking about how to walk to the beat of your own drum, path, and purpose that you are meant to do instead of walking everybody else’s path, journey, and purpose. The one thing about the things that make you, is you discovering what your talents are. What it is that you are meant to do as far as your purpose on this earth that may have nothing to do with your actual talents that everybody is basing you on. How you can take some of the darkest times,of your life, flaws, imperfections, disabilities, and mistakes that you’ve made in your past and turn them into something that could be a purpose of helping others? How you can find who you are, who you want to be, and become in the present in the future, by letting go of the past version of you that is keeping you from being great in your present in future? How walking to the beat of your own drum, and minding your own business is not easy when you are focusing on everybody else, lol yourself to build everybody else up, allowing people to break your self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self respect, self confidence, and you not believing in yourself? So trust and believe walking to the beat of your own drum in order to find your path, purpose, and journey that you’re meant to do, B, and become can only happen when you walk on the journey alone in the beginning? How as you come into your own when it comes to walking into the beat of your own drum, will you discover other people like you who are going on similar paths, journeys, and purpose that you are that will help you through not only their journey, but will also assist in yours versus either one of you lowering yourselves to help the other. So I hope this podcast episode helps all of you when it comes to finding your path, purpose, and journey by walking to the beats of your own drum.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I did a YouTube live the other day, where I discussed how to mind your own business by not letting your heart be troubled by things that you can control as far as healing and recovery. We have many things going on in our lives that may make us overwhelm, exhausted, tired, broken, depressed, pain, trauma, damaged, pressured, vulnerable, dark times, and more, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. The Bible verse John 14: 1 stares that Do not let your heart be troubled. You believe in God: and believe also in me. What that scripture means? How this scripture will help you on the journey of healing and recovery when it comes to turning my troubles and darkness holding me back from moving forwards, success, overcoming adversity, achieving your goals. How the scripture will also help you with becoming the new version of you, by letting go of the past situation, and old version of you. Overcoming the darkness that has affected and impacted your life.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I will be discussing why so we lower ourselves in order to build other people. How we think by doing all these things, and taking care of family, friends, romantic relationships, and people who you work for? How our parents always always support your siblings instead of you? How they make you feel less than, not worthy of their love and support? How they will pay for what your siblings wants, but neglect what your want and need? How no matter what you do is never good enough for them? How they only come to you when they need money, or support? How you feel obligated  to take care of our family due to them raising you to lower yourself to build up your siblings? That family helps family, but that is never done in returned? How you feel by doing all of these things, that your parents will love, and look at you differently? How no matter what you do for them, the child that they favored will always be their favorite, and will never respect, love, or appreciate you, or what you do? This episode is going to hit home for a lot of people. I'm doing this on TikTok as a panel. I hope this episode helps people to know that it is okay for people to accept, and not chosen you. I was having technical difficulties, so the rest of the conversation wasn’t able to be recorded. So there will be a part two to this episode.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I will be talking about how to maintain your healing and recovery after you achieve your goals. Many people think that once you reach your goals that you just stop what you did to get to the goals in the first place. How attaining your goals is the easy part, but maintaining those goals are the hard part? How the things that you do to heal and recover to become a better person physical internally and externally, mentally, psychological, and emotionally? How longevity when it comes to health and wellness comes from maintaining the things that you did to healing and recovery from diseases, illnesses, trauma, stress, pain, accidents, mental health, disabilities, depression, anxiety, and more? We talk how to do things, but not how to maintain it. I think it is time that had this conversation. So, in this episode, we are going to have this conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, we’re gonna be discussing how a lot of people are build a bears, builder, doll, seat fillers, people, pleaser, and captain save a hoe when it comes to your family and what you do for them. People that will never return what you do for them because they think that family takes care of family. Unfortunately, when it comes to, that saying only one person is the person that’s taken care of family, and the family is benefiting from it. The fact that there is one child that is raised to be reliable, independent, and in silence while their families who suck the life out of them and takes everything from them. And the other siblings are the ones that is their favorite child that they will bend over backwards for, and do anything to the point that they end up broke, and in debt. The fact that one sibling is not obligated to help their parents in any way, shape, form, or fashion, and yet you’re supposed to take care of your family every time they need something because you’re dependable, and reliable, and you’re also doing well for yourself. These are the people that will exclude you, that only call you when they want something. They never ask you how you’re doing. So this episode is talking about this family dynamic. And I’m very sure this is going to hit home for a lot of youBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I talk about how me minding my own business led to my healing and recovery. By God, taking me away from the world when the world was tearing me to shreds in all aspects of my life, led me to my healing recovery. And now I’m in the last stage of recovery when it comes to my internal and external health when it comes to what I consume and acknowledge. How are things that I consume and acknowledge now are all about making my health and wellness in my life better and and what I have learned when it comes to healing and recovery based on the higher powers version of it versus man’s version of it. This is my personal testimony about how my healing your recovery came from me being poor from the world and being alone, which is me and the higher power. And now when I get back out in the world, I won’t be the same person that left it. And how I can maneuver through the world without being manipulated, or going through the things that I did before, I was pulled from the world by God. And I hope my testimony resonates with all of you.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

This is part two of my episode last week. This video and podcast. is all about talking about is everything that we’ve been taught about health and wellness actually correct, have we been wrong the whole entire time about what we thought health and wellness actually is. I’ve been having throat issues, as well as chronic pain, and allergies that came out of nowhere that I just cannot explain. And while going through these particular journeys that I’m going through medically, I have found some very fascinating things that contradict what we’ve been told about health and wellness that I decided I want to share on this platform. So I’m gonna be the guinea pig, and show whether or not my theory is right when it comes to weight loss, mental and psychological health, emotional health, and internal and external health if everything that we’ve been taught works or not. And this is not something that’s just for specific people, this is gonna be for everybody. Let’s see how this turns out.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why you should never lower yourself, allow people to disrespect you, or put yourself last just to make everybody else happy. It’s time for you to be able to put yourself first, and still be able to help people without dimming your light, disrespecting yourself, and allowing people to treat and do you any type of way. It’s time to stop allowing people to dim your lights. People keeping you from being successful. Being ashamed for doing the right thing even if a lot of people call you square, or goody two shoes. it’s OK to do the right thing. It’s OK not to be accepted by society when it comes and not being a part of society standards. And it’s OK to just be you. It’s OK to do things that other people may find embarrassing, or strange, because it ain’t meant for them to understand. Your happiness, and love self should be within you, and not based on everybody else. So I hope this podcast episode gives you just as much inspiration as it gave me when I was going through my recovery and healing process that I’m currently still on.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why it’s important for you to mind your own business and focus on yourself versus focusing on everybody else. Why you need to stop worrying about what everybody has to say, and think about you based self-esteem, self-worth, self values, self-respect, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself based upon you and how you feel about yourself? Why you are lowering yourself to build other people that will never do the same for you? And why the same people that you’re lowering yourself and trying to build up, and is gonna end up leaving you for someone else who didn’t build them at all? Why people have to stop being a seat fillers, captain save a hose, build a bears and dolls, seat, filler, and people pleasers? Why just because you get rejected, and people don’t want you, doesn’t mean that it’s actually a bad thing? How maybe it’s a good thing that you rejected, and these people don’t want you, because it ain’t meant for you to be there in the first place? The one thing about recovering and healing it’s about accepting things for what they are, and not what you think and feel that they should be.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I will be talking about should You Base Who You Are Based On You Or What Others Think Of You. there are a lot of people that based themselves on what other people think and say about them. These people are willing to lower themselves, proving themselves, changing who they are just to get accepted andapproval of these people. The sad part about it is these people ain’t gonna do nothing but just take advantage of it. Because they don’t really want these people in the first place. They just like to see these people jump through hoops just to be with them. A lot of people because of what they were willing to do to be loved, appreciated, valued, wanted, needed, accepted, validated, approved of, and being liked, they end up losing themselves. And then one day you don’t even recognize the person that you are. And you realize all of these things you did for these people didn’t mean nothing because they’re no longer in your life now. So the question is, is it really worth trying to base yourself on what other people think  and say about you.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the benefits of being alone in order for you to heal and recover properly. There are many benefits of being alone that people may not think would be benefits. As somebody who has been by myself for almost about seven years, I have learned that sometimes you need to be alone for multiple different reasons that’s going to help you with your healing and recovery. So I really hope this episode makes some of you feel better as far as not, being chosen, not being in relationships, not getting that job, or even the relationship with your family and friendsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing when it comes to you minding your own business, the importance of focusing on your own self. You’re walking to the beat of your own drum instead of walking in the beats of other people’s drums and instruments. Whatever belongs to you belongs to you, and not everybody else. You’re not obligated to take care of other people that will never reciprocate what you give them. And it’s OK to put yourself first when it comes to doing what’s best for you. And as an adult, you can now figure out what works for you instead of doing everything based on everybody else. Finding your own way when it comes to what your standards are. So I hope you guys enjoy the podcast. And I appreciate the supportBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing is being alone,rejected or not chosen a bad thing. A lot of people don’t realize that being alone, not chosen, or reject it can actually be very beneficial for you for multiple different reasons. And in this episode I’m gonna be describing why these three things can be very much a good thing because of the end result of what happens if you continue to pursue, be around people, or try to convince people to like you, get that job, love you, or validate you, how it’s not gonna end well for you?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to go about healing and recovering during this Donald Trump presidency? They’re gonna be a lot of people that’s going to be on some grasshopper and ants type of situations when it comes to being able to make it through these past four years of Donald Trump‘s presidency. How a lot of people are going to be very much impacted and affected when it comes to this Donald Trump presidency as far as tariffs, and all of these executive orders that he’s doing that’s not helping the American people of the lower and middle class at all? How people need to start seeing things for what they are when it comes to all of this versus their interpretation of what they want things to be as far as his presidency?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-minding-your-own-business--5280319/support.