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Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast — 133 episodes
The Biggest Dating Shifts Of 2026 So Far | S5 EP135
Your Nervous System Was Built For Lions | S5 EP134
How To Go To Social Events Alone Without Feeling Weird | S5 EP133
Love Is Not One Thing And Here Is Why | S5 E132
What If Sex Ed Taught Risk And Care | S5 EP131
The Four Types Of Singles | S5 EP130
What If The Safest Way Into BDSM Is Community First | S5 EP129
A Clear Intro To Non-Monogamy Without The Myths | S5 EP128
Consensual Nonconsent Explained With Boundaries And Safewords | S5 EP127
S3xless Existence Video Review | S5 EP126
Stress Sweat, Grocery Stores, And Other Villains | S5 EP125
A Loving Relationship Works When You Practice These Six Ingredients | S5 EP124
Karmic To Catalyst: A Clear Guide To Partner Types | S4 EP123
What If Your “Type” Is A Trauma Loop | Relationship Types walk-through | S4 EP122
"This Is Water" by David Foster Wallace | S4 EP121
Unteachable Lessons From Chris Williams | S4 EP120
Chalant Dating, Explained | S4 EP119
Understanding OCEAN: The Only Personality Model Backed By Science | S4 EP118
You Said “Kind,” Your Brain Said “Hot” | Stated vs Revealed Preferences | S4 EP117
From Small Talk To Consent: Building Better Conversations In Kink And Beyond | S4 EP116
White Claw, Small Town Drama, And Big Poly Feelings | Reddit Q&A | S4 EP115
Why “Date Till You Hate” Wastes Your Life | S4 EP114
Stop Calling It Talent When It’s Really Practice You’re Avoiding | S4 EP113
How A Kinky Podcaster Turned Networking Nerves Into Momentum | S4 EP112
Congrats, You Didn’t Have Sex: Let’s Talk Gooning | Kink Trends 2025 | S4 EP111
Ranking The World’s Most-Watched Porn Categories In 2025 | S4 EP110
Why Dating As A Queer Switch Breaks When We Don’t Ask Clear Questions | S4 EP109
From Newbie Nerves To Kinky Belonging: How Games, Ambassadors, And Consent Culture Lower The Barrier To Entry | S4 EP108
Belonging Is A Practice, Not A Door Policy | S4 EP107
From Burnout To Momentum: Libido As Life Energy | S4 EP106
From Anxiety To Aftercare: Navigating Scene Headspace In Kink And BDSM | S4 EP105
Boundaries, Red Flags, And Growth with Author, Shannon Elliot | S4 EP104
From Pegging To Power Dynamics: What Happens When Couples Go Public With Their Kinks | S4 EP103
I’m Here To Cuddle, Not Diagnose | S4 EP102
From Small Talk to Real Connection: Communication Skills for Kink, Non-Monogamy, and Everyday Life | S4 EP101
We hit 100 episodes, and the biggest lesson is simpler than you think... | S4 EP100
“Are we really STILL saying ethical non‑monogamy?”—Julius has thoughts | S4 EP 99
From Crown to Kilt: Adventures of a Volunteer Supervisor at SmutLovers Con 2025 | S4 EP98
The Adult Child: When Growing Up Gets Stuck | S4 EP97
Anime, Kink, and Finding Your Community: My Weekend at Ecchi Expo Orlando 2025 | S4 EP96
Monogamy is a Social Construct, Not Our Biological Destiny | S4 EP95
Primal Play isn't just what I do—it's who I am | S4 EP94
Relationship Anarchy: Breaking Free from Expectations and Assumptions | Season 4 EP 93
The Return (Again) of the Kinky Kampfire!! | Season 4 EP 92
The Social Probation Period | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 42
Put Down Your Phone and Wash Your Ass: Dating Advice Nobody Asked For | Advice Line 2 | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 41
Bite-Sized Wisdom for a Full-Sized Life: Advice for Taboo Lifestylers | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 40
You Can't Change Your Past, But Your Future Isn't Written Yet | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 39
What Nobody Tells You About Dating When Sex Isn't Your Primary Attraction | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 38
EP 49 | Taboo talks with a new friend! | Melanie Carolyn from Mom's Unboxed podcast
Rejection: The Universal Struggle | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 37
Navigating Tough Talks: Reimagining Communication, Gender Roles, and Vulnerability | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 36
Understanding Consent in Unique Community Gatherings | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 35
Introverted Networking and the Art of Self-Promotion: A Podfest 2025 Recap | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 34
An "Intro" to Julius: A Journey Through Non-Monogamy, Geek Culture, and Self-Discovery | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 33
Shifting Perspectives on Adult Traffic Analysis | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 32
State-by-State: A Playful Look at America's (and the World's) Unique Preferences | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 31
Finding Clarity in Conversations and Relationships | Pillow Fort EP 30
Impromptu Rant as the Year Comes to an End | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 29
Rewiring Your Mind: The Science of Habit Formation | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 28
EP 48 | Embracing Authenticity: Navigating Alternative Lifestyles and Identity with Shannon Elliott
Enhancing Your Relationships: Mastering Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 27
EP 47 | From Repression to Awakening: A Journey of Self-Discovery with Shannon Elliot
Exploring the Cass Model: Navigating Identity and Embracing Authenticity | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 26
Unlocking Personal Connections Through Love Languages | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 25
Untangling Attraction: A Journey Through Asexuality, Empathy, and Meaningful Connections | Pillow Fort Sessions EP24
My Journey Through the Smut Lovers Convention 2024: Insights and Revelations | Pillow Fort EP 23
This Year Thus Far: Taking a Little Break From the Deep Dives | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 22
Replacing Hierarchies with Harmony: A Relationship Anarchy Guide | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 21
Navigating Kink Dynamics: The Role of Labels | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 20
How do you know if you're into Kink? The Motivation Behind Our Curiosities: From Hobbies to Kink Exploration | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 19
EP 18 Pillow Fort Sessions | Disarming Assumptions: Strengthening Relationships Through Clear Communication
Ep 17 Pillow Fort Sessions | Ambiverts Unveiled: Bridging the Gap Between Introverts and Extroverts
Ep 16 Pillow Fort Sessions | The Quiet Strength of Solitude Versus the Challenge of Loneliness
EP 46 | Kinky Campfire Revelations: Unraveling the Secrets of BDSM Dating, Social Acceptance, and the Power of Introspection
EP 45 | Exploring Kink vs. Vanilla: A Kampfire Guide to BDSM Roles, Play Space Etiquette, and Sexual Discovery
EP 44 | A Brief Touch On Relationship Phases (And Mostly A Rant)
Ep 15 Pillow Fort Sessions | Decoding the Mystique: The Origin & Impact of the Myers-Briggs Personality Indicator
EP 43 | Tales from the Leather Leadership Conference 2024
Ep 14 Pillow Fort Sessions | Building Bonds Through the Subtle Art of Small Talk
Ep 13 Pillow Fort Sessions | Navigating the World with Quiet Confidence A Guide for Introverts
EP 42 | Geeky Pins and Pronouns A Look at Lifestyle Diversity in the Convention Circuit
Ep 12 Pillow Fort Sessions | Unleashing Inner Beasts: The Untamed World of Primal Play in BDSM
EP 41 | Unveiling the Truth: The Intricacies of D/S Dynamics and Dispelling BDSM Myths
EP 40 | Kinks, Quirks, and Digital Dilemmas by the Fire
EP 39 | Are BDSMers A-holes??
EP 38 | BDSM Myths....here we go...
Ep 11 Pillow Fort Sessions | Feel a little butthurt? (Rejection Sensitivity)
Ep 10 Pillow Fort Sessions | A Deeper Dive into Relationship Expectations
EP 37 | Myths About Non-Monogamy
Ep 9 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p3
EP 36 | Relationship Myths
EP 35 | Reality versus Fantasy
EP 34 | Smut Lovers Convention 2023
EP 33 | Controversy & the Jonah Hill situation (kind of)
EP 32 | Weeee'rrreee baaaackkk!
Ep 8 Pillow Fort Sessions | BSDM & Sex
Ep 7 Pillow Fort Sessions | The Many Facets of Non-Monogamy
Ep 6 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p2
Ep 5 Pillow Fort Sessions | Dating in the Lifestyle(s)
Ep 4 Pillow Fort Sessions | Boundaries
Ep 3 Pillow Fort Sessions | Geeking Out p1
Ep 2 Pillow Fort Sessions | Podcast Update
Ep 1 Pillow Fort Sessions | Introduction
EP 31 | So how does a 24/7 dynamic go exactly??
EP 30 | Con basics & Life updates
EP 29 | Non-sexual BDSM...is that a thing?
EP 28 | Our Reactions to Old Sex Ed Videos from the Past
EP 27 | Kink Ed into the future!
EP 26 | The Basics of Negotiations
EP 25 | New Year, New Negotiations!
EP 24 | A Little Personal History...101
EP 23 | Going Behind the Scenes (Kind of like Oz, the Great and Powerful)
EP 22 | In the Land of Plenty...(Dating!)
EP 21 | Assumptions!
EP 20 | Leaders in Leather '22
EP 19 | Let's collaborate over expect...tate(?) (AOSAAS pt 2)
EP 18 | AOSAAS
EP 17 | There is a difference between Pansexual versus Bisexual? Who knew?
EP 16 | Spectrums...what are they?
EP 15 | Strippin' and Dating Online
EP 14 | That one book that talks about being Secure in Polyamory
EP 13 | Em..poster? A poster? In posture? Ah Imposter Syndrome!
EP 12 | Beyond Leather '22
EP 11 | Geeking out....FINALLY
EP 10 | How are you triggered today?
EP 9 | Cuck...holding?
EP 8 | Dating? PUAs? What?
EP 6 | Personality Traits
EP 5 | Why can't we be friends? (Part 2)
EP 4 | Why can't we be friends?
EP 3 | What are we doing here?
EP 2 | ETHICAL - Non-Monogamy