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Ask the Unfaithful — 81 episodes
4 MISTAKES THAT PREVENT COUPLES FROM HEALING FROM INFIDELITY
THE VICTIM MINDSET: WHY THE UNFAITHFUL WHINES, BLAMES, AND ISN'T EMPATHETIC
4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MINIMIZE AND DEFLECT
4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL LEARNED IT WAS OKAY TO CHEAT
5 PATTERNS THAT CAN CAUSE THE UNFAITHFUL TO CHEAT (AND TO FAIL IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY)
THE ONE ACTION THAT UNLOCKS THE UNFAITHFUL'S RECOVERY WORK
IS THE UNFAITHFUL SLEEPWALKING THROUGH BETRAYAL RECOVERY?
BREADCRUMBING: HOW THE UNFAITHFUL CREATE A TRAUMA BOND THAT KEEPS THE BETRAYED POWERLESS TO HEAL
10 Hallmarks of Authentic Betrayal Recovery In The Unfaithful
15 LANGUAGE SHIFTS THE UNFAITHFUL CAN USE TO REBUILD TRUST AFTER BETRAYAL
IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY, WORDS MATTER - HEALING vs. HARMFUL LANGUAGE
3 CORE MISUNDERSTANDINGS THE UNFAITHFUL HAVE THAT BLOCK RELATIONAL RECOVERY
THIS "RECOVERY BEHAVIOR" IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF BETRAYAL
UNDERSTANDING BETRAYAL: DO MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS?
SUBTLE WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL PHONE IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY - PERFORMATIVE VS REAL RECOVERY
Peter Pan Syndrome: Can The Unfaithful Ever Really Grow Up?
Rebuilding Trust: The Missing Key The Unfaithful MUST Know
Is The Unfaithful's Self Care Really Self Indulgence?
S6: NEW BEGINNINGS - The Hidden Turning Point For the Unfaithful In Betrayal Recovery
7 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MISHANDLE THE BETRAYED'S DISENFRANCHISED GRIEF
LIMERENCE: CAN THE DAMAGE EVER BE REPAIRED?
What are No Lose Decisions In Infidelity Recovery?
HEALING FROM SECRET INTRIGUE
INTRIGUE: The Silent Saboteur of Healing and Connection After Infidelity
What Are The Consequences of People Pleasing For the Unfaithful?
ATU Shorts SE5: Helping the Unfaithful Move From "Not It!" to "Got it!"
10 Ways the Unfaithful's Distorted Thinking Destroys Hope
Entitlement in the Unfaithful: From Demanding to Devotion
4 Ways Shame and Avoidance Sabotage Healing from Infidelity
The Arousal Template: Identifying Triggers and Blindspots
Was the Unfaithful Really in Love with the Affair Partner?
5 Signs the Unfaithful Isn't Sorry...Yet
How Criticism Sabotages Affair Recovery
How Judgment Affects Affair Recovery
Why Are the Unfaithful So Afraid to Do Recovery Work?
What People Pleasing Does to Betrayed Partner
How Excessive Self-Protection by the Unfaithful is Toxic After Infidelity is Discovered
Why Do the Unfaithful Take Things Personally?
What is Toxic Negativity & What Can Be Done About It?
How Not Keeping Promises Undermines Recovery
6 Essentials to Maintaining Momentum in Relational Recovery
Why Is the Unfaithful So Hot and Cold? Understanding the Push-Pull Dynamic
How to Know If the Unfaithful Is Still Using the Betrayed
ATU Shorts SE4: James' Journey: A Message of Hope
4 Reasons the Unfaithful Avoid Hard Conversations
Finding Healing During Holidays & Anniversaries
5 Signs of Emotional Immaturity in the Unfaithful
When Is It Time for a Therapeutic Separation?
ATU Shorts SE3: Terminal Uniqueness - The Value of Surrender
Breaking the Reaction Cycle of the Unfaithful
ATU Shorts SE2: How to Feel & Deal with Your Feelings
3 Warning Signs the Unfaithful Isn't Committed to the Betrayed
Communication Style the Betrayed Need from the Unfaithful
4 Harmful Communication Styles of the Unfaithful
What Are the Two Most Overlooked Keys to Recovery?
5 Signs of Emotional Intelligence
6 Signs of an Emotional Affair
What are 4 Damaging Ways the Unfaithful Seek Attention?
What are 5 Smokescreens the Unfaithful Use to Deflect?
What are the 5 Stages of Change for The Unfaithful?
5 Communication Mistakes the Unfaithful Make
10 Reasons Why the Unfaithful Self Sabotage
What are the Signs of Denial in the Life of the Unfaithful?
What are the Consequences of Betrayal for the Unfaithful?
What is Parental Enmeshment and How Does it Affect Affair Recovery?
How Do the Unfaithful Invalidate the Betrayed's Feelings?
5 Ways the Unfaithful are Defensive and Reactive
Why are the Unfaithful Dishonest with Themselves?
6 Ways the Unfaithful Retraumatize the Betrayed Partner
How Can the Unfaithful Stop Draining the Betrayed's Energy?
Why is Perfectionism so Dangerous for the Unfaithful?
How does the Unfaithful Make Amends Early on in Recovery
What Are the Biggest Red Flags in the Unfaithful's Early Relational Recovery?
How Can the Unfaithful Begin to Rebuild Trust in Early Recovery
Are All Unfaithfuls Intimacy Avoidant?
How is the Unfaithful's Progress in Recovery Measured?
Why is Resentment so Destructive in the Life of the Unfaithful?
Is Relapse a Part of Recovery?
What Does Being "All-In" in Recovery Work After Infidelity Look Like?
Why Do the Unfaithful Disparage the Betrayed to their Affair Partner?
Why are the Unfaithful so Angry?