All Episodes

Connecting Couples on Vacation: Episode 5- Returning Home

Connecting Couples on Vacation: Episode 4- The Unexpected

Connecting Couples on Vacation: Episode 3- The Destination

Connecting Couples on Vacation: Episode 2- The Departure

Connecting Couples On Vacation: Episode 1- Where and When?

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 9- What Growth Looks Like

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 8- Counting The Cost

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 7- Can You Notice A Pattern?

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 6- Can You Talk About It?

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 5- Does It Need To Change?

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 4- A Link To The Past

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 3- Unexpected Responses

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 2- Where Have I Felt This Before?

Healing From Past Wounds: Episode 1- How Wounds Show Up

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 14- Responding to Pain

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 13- Relapse

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 12- Recap and Resources

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 11- The Partner of Addiction

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 10- Attachment Injuries

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 9- Your Story

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 8- Relationships

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 7- Self-Care

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 6- Self-Awareness

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 5- Safe Guards

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 4- The Process of Change

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 3- Habits

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 2- Basic Terms

Connecting Couples in Addiction: Episode 1- Comfort and Coping

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 10- Why This Is So Hard

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 9- What Withdrawers Can Do

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 8- What Pursuers Can Do

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 7- De-Escalated Withdrawers

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 6- De-Escalated Pursuers

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 5- The Withdrawer’s Dilemma

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 4- The Pursuer’s Dilemma

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 3- Honoring Withdrawers

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 2- Honoring Pursuers

Pursuers and Withdrawers: Episode 1- What Growth Looks Like

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 11- Doing The Work

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 10- This Is Hard

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 9- What Do I Need

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 8- A Chance To Respond

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 7- Partner Awareness

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 6- Self Awareness

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 5- Emotional Response

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 4- Content Topics

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 3- In-Laws Part 2

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 2- In-Laws Part 1

What We Wish We Knew: Episode 1- Family Influence

Year In Review: Episode 3- Take Care Of Each Other

Year In Review: Episode 2- Your View Of Yourself

Year In Review: Episode 1- Stopping The Cycle

Answering Listener Questions: Q&A: 1

Keep Dating Your Spouse: Episode 4- Bring Your Best Self

Keep Dating Your Spouse: Episode 3- Date Your Withdrawer

Keep Dating Your Spouse: Episode 2- Date Your Pursuer

Keep Dating Your Spouse: Episode 1- The Fade

The Same Language: Episode3- Show Your Work

The Same Language: Episode 2- Practical Tools

The Same Laguage: Episode 1- Finding Clarity

Marriage Maintenance: Episode 6- A Secure Foundation

Marriage Maintenance: Episode 5- On The Daily

Marriage Maintenance: Episode 4- Weekly Maintenance

Marriage Maintenance: Episode 3- Quarterly and Monthly Events

Marriage Maintenance: Episode 2- Assessing Yearly Events

Marriage Maintenance: Episode 1- The Assessment

Sick At Home: Episode 4- Being Cared For

Sick At Home: Episode 3- Tendencies While Sick

Sick At Home: Episode 2- What You Learned

Sick At Home: Episode 1- COVID Positive

The Beginning: Episode 4- What Comes Next

The Beginning: Episode 3- Angela's Journey

The Beginning: Episode 2- Chad's Journey

The Beginning: Episode 1- Our Emotional Process

Connecting Couples Through The Holidays: Episode 6- Practical Planning

Connecting Couples Through The Holidays: Episode 5- Your Partner's Holiday Needs

Connecting Couples Through The Holidays: Episode 4- Your Holiday Needs

Connecting Couples Through The Holidays: Episode 3- Holiday Complications

Connecting Couples Through The Holidays: Episode 2- Family Rules

Connecting Couples Through The Holidays: Episode 1- A Holiday Strategy

The Anatomy of a Fight: Episode 5: The Chair

The Anatomy of a Fight: Episode 4: Bike in Colorado

The Anatomy Of A Fight: Episode 3- Sunflower Table

The Anatomy Of A Fight: Episode 2- The Breakdown

The Anatomy of a Fight: Episode 1- Why We Fight

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 7- How Repairs Go Wrong

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 6- A Withdrawer Repair

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 5- A Pursuer Repair

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 4- Whose Responsibility is the Repair?

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 3- Why 'I'm Sorry' Isn't Enough

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 2- The Elements of a Repair

The Anatomy of a Repair: Episode 1- What is an Injury

Staying Tuned In: Episode 7- The Catch

Staying Tuned In: Episode 6- Tuned In Withdrawers

Staying Tuned In: Episode 5- Tuned In Pursuers

Staying Tuned In: Episode 4- Withdrawer Perspective

Staying Tuned In: Episode 3- Pursuer Perspective

Staying Tuned In: Episode 2- Interference

Staying Tuned In: Episode 1- A Clear Message

The Basics: 7. Building Security