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Create Your Own Light — 140 episodes

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LETTING GO

2

HIDE The HURT

3

My Grandpa D.C. Howze and Random Childhood Stories

4

FIT to HIRE but UNFIT for DUTY

5

Spouses Who DONT WANT TO KNOW

6

Everything to Lose and Nothing to Prove

7

Fake A$$ Brotherhood

8

When You WIN You LOSE

9

Product of Your Environment

10

It Must Be Nice

11

The Illusion of Happiness

12

A Hero's Welcome

13

Spouses Suffering in Silence

14

Infidelity Among First Responder Families

15

The Best Defense is NO DEFENSE

16

Spouses Who Poke the PTSD Bear

17

When a Mother Fu#%er Tests You

18

What's Your Family Worth to You

19

How Hypervigilance Destroys a Family

20

Family Over Career or Career Over Family

21

Everything is an Emergency

22

Know Your Worth and Thank Your Spouse

23

Keyboard Warriors and BS Apologies

24

Friends in No Places

25

Those who say F#%K the Police

26

Nothing Left To Prove

27

The Monster I Became is NOT the Man I AM

28

Emotionless Wreck

29

Time Is Not On Our Side

30

Be Where Your Feet Are

31

None of This Matters

32

Confronting Your Abuser

33

Know When To Shut Your Mouth

34

Zero To Zero

35

Soft Front Strong Back

36

Changing Your Pedigree

37

Walking Deadman

38

On a Collision Course with Jesus

39

Brain Damaged Goods

40

Are You a Cow or a Buffalo

41

Supported or Tolerated

42

Your Year Didnt Suck, Your Mindset Does

43

Gratitude and Guilt

44

Setbacks Pave the Way for Comebacks

45

Friends in No Places

46

Who Are You

47

Pouring From an Empty Cup

48

The Defeat of Defeat

49

You Are What You Think

50

Screaming Over Spilled Milk

51

It Can Wait

52

Handling The Truth

53

Grinding Into Nothing

54

Unpack Your Trash

55

I Wish I Was a Better Man

56

It's OK to not be OK

57

Actions Not Words

58

Invisible Fences

59

Winning is Everything

60

Become Your Own Medicine

61

The Trauma Trophy

62

The Value of Priceless Memories

63

The Two Times You Die

64

Stop Signs in Your Mind

65

The Greatest Woman I Never Met

66

No Perfect Time

67

Police vs Fire

68

Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes

69

Next Man / Woman Up!

70

The Power of You

71

Confronting Your Reaction

72

When Worlds Collide

73

Count Your Blessings

74

Beautifully Flawed

75

Dead at 25 Buried at 75

76

Recharge, Regroup & Refocus

77

Walk The Walk

78

Betraying The Moment

79

Tired But Inspired

80

He Ain't Heavy He's My Brother

81

Hurt People Hurt People

82

Cultivating Leaders with Dr. David Griffin

83

Jeff Foxworthy

84

Quality of Life

85

I Hurt Myself Today

86

You vs You

87

Finding Inspiration

88

Your Life Calendar

89

Chaos is Calm and Calm is Chaos

90

Fail to be a Failure

91

New Year Same Excuses

92

Is your Presence a Present

93

Own Your Shit

94

A convo with my Dad

95

Rose Petals or Eggshells

96

Bouncing Rainchecks

97

Through a Child's Eyes

98

Embrace The Suck

99

Understanding the Misunderstood

100

The Phony Tough

101

Compassion Fatigue

102

A Life of Regret

103

Do You Want To Die?

104

Complacency Kills

105

Your Check Engine Light

106

Growth Process

107

Mommy and Daddy are Different

108

Setting Goals and Staying Motivated

109

Tipping Point

110

The Burden of Self Care

111

Self Control

112

The Victim Mentality

113

Your Most Valuable Commodity

114

The Good Ol Days

115

Tools of the Trade

116

Fire Department Chronicles with Jason Patton

117

Diplomatic Caveman

118

Suicide and Failed Leadership

119

Honoring Our Fallen

120

It Dont Mean Nothin

121

The Power of Perspective

122

Making The Effort

123

Conquering Your Fears

124

Fight or Flight

125

Broken Compass

126

Going Hands On

127

Managing Emotional Relationship Strain

128

Dying Along The Line of Duty

129

Thankful on an Empty Tank

130

Staying in the Fight

131

Post Traumatic Stress in Female Responders

132

Navigating Your Mind Field

133

The Things We See

134

Investing in your Mental Wealth, Addiction and Substance Abuse

135

Comfortable Misery

136

Keeping an Open Mind, Girl Power and more

137

Communicating through Trauma

138

Finding Your True Purpose

139

Life Balance doing the things that you love and Navy Seals

140

Parenting with Post Traumatic Stress