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Every Coach Needs A Coach — 359 episodes
The most impactful exercise I've done with a team
Laws of Human Nature - meanness as a piece of informatin
355 – it’s such a joy to be with you
Form and technique
Good old days
352- free throw routine
351 – who is your example, and who are you an example to?
351 – I could do that
350- bother main sport
348- accountability groups
347 – be careful with incentives
346 - when was the last time you set standards for yourself?
345- dedicated, protected time
344- Yale marching band
343- impact and a request
342- we can never be sure what someone is capable of
342 – what you actually need to be successful
341 - an easy exercise to see the kind of people you are hanging around
340- always be looking
339 -I’m proud of you, I love you, I believe in you, and I’m so grateful to be a part of your life
338- basketball math
337- sudden pride and applause
335
336- finding your tribe
335- how you want to be perceived versus how you are actually perceived
334- pegs and holes
333- when was the last time you coached?
332- more of what you Want to hear
331 - What you need to hear & what you DON'T WANT to hear
328 - the story of the bricklayers
329- my ulterior motive
328- lessons from bar rescue
327- accountability partner
326- a helpful exercise for defining your culture
325- care about your players
324- steering the ship
323- leadership and culture
322- Being brave
321- my favorite John wooden quote
320- my 3 truths modified
319 – what are your three truths?
318- what is your primary motivator?
317 - the cost of a big gulp and hot dog
316- Dr. Ellen Langer on regret
315 -make “no” your default
314- 0-10 scale
313- yes means no, and no means yes
312 – pretend your kids are dogs who are very good at following commands
311 - the best ideas come from the process
310- you can’t ride 2 horses with 1 …
309- the instructions we give matter
308- lessons from my daughter
307- Goal setting
306- Observations from the Ref 🦓
305 – subjectivity to accompany objectivity
304- permission to be you
303- i’m good for some, but I’m not for everyone
302- objective measurements
301- you can’t skip steps
300 - February challenge
299- a message to my nephew’s baseball coach
298 - Simply moving will fix a lot of your problems
297 - A quick story about an interaction with a fan while after a game I officiated
296 - You are the expert on your team
295 - The importance of consistency, but not in the way that you think
294- forced family fun
293 - the first lesson I’m teaching our daughter
End of year dinner speech
Making sure we call them people first
Feedback
Spot in the rug
Rumors
How many of your players have been to one another's weddings?
286 -Mob Mentality
285 - The Perfect Coach
284 - Mirror Processing
283 - "Knowledge is nothing unless it is shared" - John Wooden
282 - footsteps in punta cana
281 - don't argue with Donkeys
280 - Dimple’s in a golf ball
281 - poor audio
279 dog training
278- Names
276- Hudl Stats
277- the lightbulb
275 advice to yourself
274- Appreciation Wednesday
273 - sandbox vs. war times
272 - Speed Mentoring
271- Let them go play
270 - Embrace the fun moments
269 - The Long Covid research study story
272 - Listen to the crickets
268 - Squeezing A Rock
267 - Celebrations
266 - 3 rules to live by
265- More in an hour of play
264 - Really Learning
263- Faith
262 - I'm so glad you're here. Is everything OK?
261- I dont want to be that parent…but…
260- Lead Em Up
259 - He showered her with roses but never asked her favorite flower. - R. Gatwood
258 - I don't have time for that...
257 - Dedicated, Protected time -
256 - Toothpaste
255 - What makes you come alive?
254 - Success by Emerson
253 - The Multiverse
252 - my best new years resolution
251- When the student is ready, the teacher appears
250 - speak it into existence
249 - Frogs in boiling water
248 - rockets use 90% of their fuel during takeoff
247 - Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself
246 - Desiderata
245 - Striving
244- Gary V & self esteem
242 - A rising tide lifts all boats
243 – Zac Brown’s advice for Anyone trying to build something great
241 - Old friends, New Lessons (hardwood hustle, episode 376)
240 - Train people well enough they can leave, treat them well enough that they don’t want to.
239 - a real expert
237 - Money for points
236 - Do Not Bring Thy Friends’ Burdens Upon Thyself
235 - Mike Tyson & Frank Sinatra
234 - $100 vs. $20
233 - Do it again!
232 - Incomplete information
231 - That's Just What I Always Do
230 - Reasons
229 - Today's Problems are Yesterday's Wishes
228 - Leashes
227 - Starfish story
226 - I appreciate you
225 - Write your obituary
224 - No surprises
223 - Easy to Play For
222 - A naturally good leader
221- Derrick Roses’ words to the 11 year old’s birthday party
220- A weird and exciting turn of events / always stay ready
219 - Cheaple People
218- Foreign Languages
217 - The 5 love languages
216 - The No Complaining Rule
215 - The All Blacks
214 - Language
214 - Good officials, great officials
213 - Constellations
212 - How Our Season is Like A Concert
210 - Italy is too hot
211 - Who is really poor?
208 - Confidence and Strengths
209 - Self Talk
207 - The Crow vs. The Peacock - See one, do one, teach one
206 - If they didn’t have fun at this wedding , it was their own fault
205 - Birthday Wishes
204 - Obstacles exist to see how bad we want it
203 - The Jeep's Value
202- Nagging vs. Inspiring
201 - Live in a world where people can show their gratitude however they please
200- The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.
199- Nothing will work for everyone
197 - Compound Interest
196 - A Leader Is Who You Are
195 - You Don't Have To Do It All At Once
194 - How You Brewin’?
193 - You get out of this what you put into it
192 - Learning a physical skill
191 - Enthusiasm covers up a lot a lot of mistakes
190 - 1 sentence to finish to get to know people better..1 question to ask to build relationships
189 - First Leadership Seminar
188 - Criticism and Advice
187 - Finish This Sentence
186 - Why are sports fun?/The Donkey Story
186 - Simon Sinek - Leadership takes courage
185 - The Dash
184 - Start with One
183 - Father's Day - You can't be anyone other than who you are
182 - We find what we look for
181 - Be bold - See one, do one, teach one
180 - World's worst best man speech
179 - what are you saying when you talk?
174 - See one, do one, teach one - pay now, play later vs. play now, pay later
178 - Math problems - See one, do one, teach one
177 - "Play Me and I'll Show You" See one, do one, teach one
176 - "Not in a million years" - See one, do one, teach one
175 - Lauren Ammon - create your own definitions and improve your mental performance 🧠🏆
173 - Good judgement is the result of experience, and experience the result of bad judgement - See one, do one, teach one
172 - Judgement -the act or process of forming an opinion or making a decision after careful thought - See one, do one, teach one
171 - Give people a fine reputation to live up to - See one, do one, teach one
170 - influence people by giving them what they want - See one, do one, teach one
169 - 5 principles to follow if you want to influence others - See one, do one, teach one
168 - Tips for influencing others - See one, do one, teach one
167 - The key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority -See one, do one, teach one
166 - Power is a tool, influence is a skill - See one, do one, teach one
165- Influence -the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone
164 - Rich vs. Poor man's happiness - See one, do one, teach one
163 - Happiness & Health: The Biological Factors - See one, do one, teach one
162 - Happiness Unpacked - See one, do one, teach one
161 - Happiness is not a destination, it is a way of life - See one, do one, teach one
160 - Find Joy and Happiness, and Success will Follow - See one, do one, teach one
159 - a feeling or showing pleasure or contentment - See one, do one, teach one
158 - A simple act of Gratitude - See one, do one, teach one
157 - This is good because... - See one, do one, teach one
155 - Gratitude can rewire the brain - See one, do one, teach one
153 - "Dear God, Thank You" - See one, do one, teach one
152 - the quality of being thankful - See one, do one, teach one
151 - Halloween - See one, do one, teach one
150 - Roy Kent and Issiac MacAdoo - See one, do one, teach one
149 - What does "fun" look like? See one, do one, teach one
148 - Wooden on Fun -See one, do one, teach one
147 - When fun gets deep enough, it can heal the world - See one, do one, teach one
146 - Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun. -See one, do one, teach one
145 - enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure - See one, do one, teach one
144 - the 99 club - See one, do one, teach one
143 - We choose to go to the moon - See one, do one, teach one
141 - How to set and manage expectations - See one, do one, teach one
140- Direct your own expectations - See one, do one, teach one
139 - how to make your problems disappear - See one, do one, teach one
138 - Expectations - See one, do one, teach one
137 - The Italian Businessman - See one, do one, teach one
136 - The King's North Star - See one, do one, teach one
135 - Move with decisiveness - See one, do one, teach one
134- Decisions are made with the eyes - See one, do one, teach one
133 - It is our choices that show what we truly are... - See one, do one, teach one
132 - Where you are is a direct result of the decisions you have made - See one, do one, teach one
131- Make a final choice or judgment about - See one, do one, teach one
130 - The exclusive Boss - See one, do one, teach one
129- The little boy and the mirror - See one, do one, teach one
128 - What would a coach who cares do? See one, do one, teach one
127 - "Tom's leaving for College" - See one, do one, teach one
126 - From Caring Comes Courage - See one, do one, teach one
125 - They'll never care how much you know until they know how much you care - See one, do one, teach one
124- Care - See one, do one, teach one
123 - Act as if - See one, do one, teach one
122 - I Been Watching you - See one, do one, teach one
121 - Dialysis - See one, do one, teach one
120- Do as I say, not as I do - See one, do one, teach one
119 - Love them too much - See one, do one, teach one
118 - What the teachers are themselves - See one, do one, teach one
117- "The way a person acts in response to a situation or stimulus" - See one, do one, teach one
116- Move the Semi Truck - See one, do one, teach one
115 - The Parable of the Talents - See one, do one, teach one
114- Don't ask first, apologize later - See one, do one, teach one
113 - David Goggins Meets God - See one, do one, teach one
112- Start with One - See one, do one, teach one
111- Harry Truman - Imperfect action beats perfect inaction - See one, do one, teach one
110 - Action (something done or performed) - See one, do one, teach one
109- Lessons from a Baked Potato - See one, do one, teach one
108 - Anthony deMello - The Guru's Cat - See one, do one, teach one
107- Doug Lemov - getting better at getting better- See one, do one, teach one
106- Alfie Kohn -confusing excellence with winning - See one, do one, teach one
105 - Anthony de Mello - The Monkey and The Fish - See one, do one, teach one
104 - Do Things Differently - Todd Wolfson, St. Francis Boy’s Basketball
103 - You can't be anyone other than who you are - See one, do one, teach one
102- Ted Lasso, every disadvantage has it’s advantage - See one, do one, teach one
101 - PGC Mistake recovery - See one, do one, teach one
100- Eat your frog - See one, do one, teach one...Story time Friday
99- Joshua Medcalf & Jamie Gilbert - Start equipping, stop enabling - See one, do one, teach one
98- Doug Lemov- “Actions, not people” See one, do one, teach one
97- Tony Bennett - “find the people you can lose with” See one, do one, teach one
96- Pat Summit’s essential ingredient to success at anything - See one, do one, teach one
95- well done is better than well said- See one, do one, teach one
94- all of you is welcome here - See one, do one, teach one
93 - shake it off and step up - See one, do one, teach one ...Story time Friday
92- Your Words Matter - See one, do one, teach one
91- impactful halftime speeches - See one, do one, teach one
90 - Do it scared - See one, do one, teach one
89 - Success is not final, failure is not fatal - See one, do one, teach one
88 - The power of the Olympics -See one, do one, teach one
87 - If you chase 5 rabbits, you catch none - See one, do one, teach on
87- the story of the eagle and the chickens - See one, do one, teach one ...Story time Friday
86- “Great coaches are learners” See one, do one, teach one
85- let them struggle - See one, do one, teach one
84 - find the good - See one, do one, teach one
83 - What's your WHY? See one, do one, teach one
82 - define your values - See one, do one, teach one
81- how you do anything is how you do everything - seee
80- what would you do if you were me ? See one, do one, teach one
79- redirect towards something you want - See one, do one, teach one
78- Simon Sinek’s definition of love - See one, do one, teach one
77- Geno’s example - See one, do one, teach one
76- have to vs. get to - See one, do one, teach one
75- live out your values - See one, do one, teach one
74- you can’t force anyone to trust you- See one, do one, teach one
73- Find happiness in the day to day - See one, do one, teach one
72- make your mistakes, but make them sooner - See one, do one, teach one
71- adversity will buy you a ticket...See one, do one, teach one
70- why oxytocin matters to your team - See one, do one, teach one
69- It’s a miracle ! See one, do one, teach one
68- don’t let the lyrics get in the way of the groove - See one, do one, teach one
67- happiness is a way of life - See one, do one, teach one
66- $100k reward - See one, do one, teach one
65 - you don’t need the latest technology, you need to put in the work See one, do one, teach one
64 - 5 more minutes - See one, do one, teach one
63- great minds talk about ideas - See one, do one, teach one
62- “ honesty without judgment” See one, do one, teach one
61- The power of Perception and the Boston Massacre - See one, do one, teach one
60 - don't count the days , make the days count - See one, do one, teach one
59- role definition - See one, do one, teach one
58- Enjoying the process with my nieces and nephews
57- the Asch Conformity Experiments - See one, do one, teach one
56- everything you need is already inside of you- See one, do one, teach one
55- I’m here for you - See one, do one, teach one
54- Walk by faith - See one, do one, teach one
53- the 4 Oxen - See one, do one, teach one
52- You were born rich - See one, do one, teach one
51- - it’s about the Susie‘s and the Joe‘s - See one, do one, teach one
50- We’re in the service industry - See one, do one, teach one
49- it’s not the farmers job, to force the seeds to grow - seee
48- support them in their struggle - See one, do one, teach one
47- narcissism versus confidence - See one, do one, teach one
46- everyone you meet is your superior in some way - See one, do one, teach one
45 - what were you grateful for yesterday? See one, do one, teach one
44- you are stronger than you think - see one, do one, teach one
43- success is peace of mind - See one, do one, teach one
42- alter your environment rather than changing your habits –see one, do one, teach one
41- Three questions to ask if you want great feedback - See one, do one, teach one
40- messing up on purpose...See one, do one, teach one
39- See one, do one, teach one - can you help us find the ocean ?
38- See one, do one, teach one - identity, confidence, our potential, and our worth
37 - See one, do one, teach one - putting a man on the moon
36 - See one, do one, teach one - simple but not easy
35 - See one, do one, teach one, we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with
34 - See one, do one, teach one - one, do one, teach one, what “change your mindset” really mean?
33 - See one , do one, teach one- one bite at a time
32 - See one, Do one, teach one, the concept of identity and habits
31 - See one, do one, teach one - one, do one, teach one, goals versus systems
30 - See one, do one, teach one. One percent better every day
29 - See one, do one, teach one, the power of persistence in my four-year-old niece
28 - "Emancipate Excellence" Coach Jason Oates 🏈⚾️🏀 Youth football, baseball, basketball & Podcast Host
27 -"A leader has to assist the coach with the team's attitude, body language & paying attention to the game plan" Coach Joe Fussner 🏀 Stockton University Women's Basketball
26 - "What have you done to inspire your teammates today?" - Coach Rick Brownell ⚽️ Arcadia Women's Soccer
25 - See One, Do one, Teach one - Time management vs. Choice management
24 - See one, do one, teach one (6) - It's not the farmer's job to force the seeds to grow
23 - "The Finish Line Is The Starting Line" 🏃♀️ Sydney Davis - Girls On The Run NJ
22 - See one, do one, teach one (5) - Let them struggle
21 - "Embrace the Why" Dr. Jason Wright - Physical Therapist and Fitness Coach
20- See one, do one, teach one (4) “what’s your definition of hell?”
19 - "Facilitate a place of growth" Coach Ryan Cannon, DPT 🥍 - Youth Boys Lacrosse
18 - See one, Do one, Teach one (3) - "It's what the teachers are themselves"
17 - "Coaching is a behavior" - Coach Nick Winkelman 🏋🏼♂️ 📖 Strength and Conditioning Coach & Author of "The Language of Coaching"
16 - See One, Do One, Teach One (2) "Joy...was the compass that pointed the direction in life"
15 - “Carry the feeling of how we came together” Coach Matt Buchi, University of Illinois Men's Wheelchair 🧑🏼🦽 🏀 Basketball
14 - See one, Do one, Teach one - 1 - The importance of Language in developing a culture
13 - “Coaching, really, is about relationships…you’re a teacher 24/7”Professor John McCarthy, 👨🏼🏫 Pro
12 - "Be A Good Person" - Mary Beth Spirk 🏀 DIII Women's Basketball
11 - "They're not just athletes. We're not just coaches." Coach Nate Williams 🏈⚾️ High School Football & Baseball
10- "Love the process of getting better" Dr. Coach Mat Parker ⚾️ Challenger Little League
9 - "Make the game better" - Dave McAndrew 🏀 - college and professional basketball official
8 - "Not everything's going to go your way." Shannon Cornine 🥍 High School Girls Lacrosse
7 - “How's life? How's school? How's basketball?” Kat Jax Reed ⛹️♀️ - HS Girls Basketball
6 - "Nothing stays exactly as it is" Stephanie Bellissimo 🧘🏻♀️ Yoga Instructor of the Vinyasa Tradition & Movement Coach
5 - "I am strong. I am capable." Coach Dr. Kristen Schulz 🏃 High School Cross Country
4 - "Remember why you love the game & don't forget to enjoy it" Coach Tina Beauvais 🏀 Team Chaplain for the UNC Bears & Former High School Girls Varsity Hoops Coach
3 - "Have Fun & Get On Their Level" Coach Dominique Edwards ⚽️ Divison I Women's Soccer
2 -"Do What You Love, In A Place You Love Doing It" Coach Matt Donohue 🏀 Catholic University Women's Basketball 10/7/18
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