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Finding Traction: Recovery from Porn — 202 episodes

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Ep. 203 - When Killing Time is Killing Me

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Ep. 202 - Porn Problems go Mainstream

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Ep. 201 - What do I Deserve (this Good Friday)

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Ep. 200 - Looking Back at Helping Men

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Ep. 199 - Do You have a Spank Bank?

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Ep. 198 - Are You a Pervert?

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Ep. 197 - Are you a Broken Boy? - with Dr. Patrick Morley

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Ep. 196 - Re-engineering Arousal

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Ep. 195 - My Favorite Porn Free Triplets

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Ep. 194 - 15 Years of Freedom - with Matt Dobscheutz

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Ep. 193 - Ozempic Recovery

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Ep. 192 - Your Worst Day

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Ep. 191 - A Daily Recovery Exercise for 2026

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Ep. 190 - Men Midlife and Porn

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Ep. 189 - What does it mean to be P*rn Free?

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Ep. 188 - From Passion to Purpose

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Ep. 187 - Inside Out Porn Recovery (from Down Under)

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Ep. 186 - Should I do a Dopamine Fast

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Ep. 185 - Your Guided Tour Out of Porn

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Ep. 184 - How Long Does it Take to Quit Porn

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Ep. 183 - Procastination and Quitting Porn

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Ep. 182 - Learning Warfare - Lessons on Fighting Porn

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Ep. 181 - The Porn Recovery Journey with Nate Larkin

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Ep. 180 - Porn Relapses Ripples and Resets

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Ep. 179 - Marriage Hacks Pt. 3

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Ep. 178 - Are You a Deep Fake

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Ep. 177 - The 5 W's - Examining a porn relapse

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Ep. 176 - Sexless Marriages - A Marriage Plea

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Ep. 175 - More Marriage Hacks Pt. 2

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Ep. 174 - 5 Marriage Hacks Pt. 1

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Ep. 173 - Dating Honesty - Why When and How

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Ep. 172 - Welcome Back

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Ep. 171 - Porn and Men's Health - A Conversation

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Ep. 170 - Breaking the Acting Out Cycle

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Ep. 169 - Anxious vs Confident Recovery

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Ep. 168 - I'm Good (Until I'm Not)

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Ep. 167 - Disappointed in Sex

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Ep. 166 - Relationships on the Line

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Ep. 165 - Is Your Door Closing?

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Ep. 164 - What Set Me Up for Porn (with Tim Fletcher)

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Ep. 163 - When Porn Crashes Your Marriage (with Barbara Steffens)

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Ep. 162 - Lessons from a Relapse (with Hercule Flambeau)

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Ep. 161 - Wave Go To's Part 2

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Ep. 160 - Waves of Craving

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Ep. 159 - The Hidden Costs of Porn Use

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Ep. 158 - Dial it In

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Ep. 157 - Ten Rules for Life

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Ep. 156 - The Porn Adjacent Challenge

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Ep. 155 - Those Pesky Emotions

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Ep. 154 - A Punch in the Face

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Ep. 153 - Theme for 2025

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Ep. 152 - Unleash the Man Within with Sathiya Sam

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Ep. 151 - Motorcyles Mouthwash and Magical Thinking

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Ep. 150 - Faulty Approaches Redux (with Matt Dobscheutz)

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Ep. 149 - 6 Recovery Approaches Bound to Fail

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Ep. 148 - How Did I Get Here?

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Ep. 147 - Direct from Brazil

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Ep. 146 - Before the Day After

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Ep. 145 - Welcome to Plan B

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Ep. 144 - Porn Free Millennial

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Ep. 143 - What is Your Primal Question?

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Ep. 142 - The C's of Recovery

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Ep. 141 - What If

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Ep. 140 - 6 Dumbest Things I've Heard

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Ep. 139 - Signs of a BaaaaD Recovery Group

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Ep. 138 - Eat Your Frogs

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Ep. 137 - Relapse After a Long Sobriety

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Ep. 136 - Snickers Bars and Marriage Tips

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Ep. 135 - Letter to Me

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Ep. 134 - Its Finally Done!

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Ep. 133 - Help I Act Out Every ??? Days

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Ep. 132 - I'll Die Without Sex!

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Ep. 131 - A Strategy for Sunny Days

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Ep. 130 - Platform Arcade Recovery

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Ep. 129 - The Art of War (Losing and Regaining your Territory)

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Ep. 128 - My Favorite Recovery Practice

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Ep. 127 - How we do Life

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Ep. 126 - Porn Drive versus Sex Drive

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Ep. 125 - Recovery Drift

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Ep. 124 - 3D Relapses

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Ep. 123 - Recovery Doldrums

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Ep. 122 - The Critical Stages of Recovery

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Ep. 121 - If Relapse is Forgetting then...

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Ep. 120 - Intensive Recovery with Jonathan Daugherty

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Ep. 119 - Mission Impossible - Mission Accomplished

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Ep. 118 - Random Winter Recovery Thoughts

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Ep. 117 - Erectile Dysfunction and the Dallas Cowboys

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Ep. 116 - 12 Rules for Recovery

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Ep. 115 - Do You Have a Yearly Focus?

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Ep. 114 - Mulligan Thinking

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Ep. 113 - Stuff is Getting Better

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Ep. 112 - When Can I Check This Off?

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Ep. 111 - How "Ish" is your Recovery?

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Ep. 110 - Lessons from Rutting Season

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Ep. 109 - Recovery Gratitude

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Ep. 108 - Recovery Rules with Mark Denison

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Ep. 107 - Whiteknuckling vs. Sobriety

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Ep. 106 - When Resentment Comes Knocking

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Ep. 105 - Today could be the day (I look at porn)

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Ep. 104 - Control Freak

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Ep. 103 - The First 100 - Looking Back

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Ep. 102 - The Steps of Recovery

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Ep. 101 - Stages of Recovery (and fixing my car)

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Ep. 100 - Slot Machine Porn

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Ep. 99 - Verns Summer Musings Pt. 3

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Ep. 98 - Verns Summer Musings Pt. 2

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Ep. 97 - Verns Summer Musings pt. 1

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Ep. 96 - Is There Hope for Me?

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Ep. 95 - Young Men pt. 2

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Ep. 94 - What's going on with young men?

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Ep. 93 - What is Your Tell?

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Ep. 92 - the #1 Recovery Skill Is...

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Ep. 91 - Sugar Porn

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Ep. 90 - Recovery False Starts

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Ep. 89 - Recovery Invoices

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Ep. 88 - Banana Peels and Stars Pt. 2

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Ep. 87 - Banana Peels and Stars

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Ep. 86 - Chat GPT on Porn

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Ep. 85 -Two Types of Relapses

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Ep. 84 - The 20 Second Rule

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Ep. 83 - How to Engineer Your Environment Pt. 2

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Ep. 82 - How to Engineer your Environment Pt. 1

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Ep. 81 - Positive and Negative Reminders

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Ep. 80 - Help - My Smart Phone is making me Dumb

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Ep. 79 - Happy New Year - Looking Ahead to 2023

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Ep. 78 - Off Ramps (with John Fort)

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Ep. 77 - How to Have a Porn Free Holiday

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Ep. 76 - Random Recovery Rolos

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Ep. 75 - Win Lose vs Win Learn

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Ep. 74 - Fight Club

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Ep. 73 - Stopwatch Recovery

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Ep. 72 - A Truce with Porn?

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Ep. 71 - Blind Optimism is NOT a Strategy

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Ep. 70 - Breaking up with Porn

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Ep. 69 - The Pathway of Recovery

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Ep. 68 - The One Rule (to rule them all)

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Ep. 67 - Why Do I Still Feel Sad?

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Ep. 66 - Unleashing my Six Year Old Self

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Ep. 65 - Shopping Without a List

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Ep. 64 - The Thrill Returns - 7 Ways to Welcome Joy

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Ep. 63 - Thrilled to Death

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Ep. 62 - Rolling Toward Health

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Ep. 61 - Allies not Adversaries

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Ep. 60 - If you ever look at porn again

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Ep. 59 - Bring it On

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Ep. 58 - Open Concept Recovery

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Ep. 57 - Measuring My Progress

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Ep. 56 - My Own Best Thinking

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Ep. 55 - The Slap heard around the World

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Ep. 54 - Conversation with a Sex Therapist

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Ep. 53 - Saying Goodbye to Porn (Lifehack#8)

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Ep. 52 - Life Hack #7 - Dirty White Board

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Ep. 51 - Resistance and Ukranian Seeds

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Ep. 49 - Wife Sized Sex

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Ep. 48 - Last Time Next Time

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Ep. 47 - Recovery Year One with Matt P

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Ep. 46 - Best Year Ever

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Ep. 45 - When the Levee Breaks

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Ep. 44 - Porn for the Sports Fan

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Ep. 43 - Pathways into Porn (Why we Hire Porn)

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Ep. 42 - Ticking Toward Trouble

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Ep. 41 - Beyond Cop Accountability

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Ep. 40 - Tool time for Relationships Pt. 2

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Ep. 39 - Tool time for Relationships Pt. 1

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Ep. 38 - Letting Go

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Ep. 37 - Precommitments vs. Willpower

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Ep. 36 - The 2021 NFL Season

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Ep. 35 - A Magnetic Recovery

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Ep. 34 - How Ya Been?

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Ep. 33 - Long Term Recovery with Matt D.

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Ep. 32 - 9 Types of Kids

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Ep. 31 - What about my Inner Child?

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Ep. 30 - Are We There Yet?

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Ep. 29 - Am I a Neanderthal?

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Ep. 28 - Andrew Bauman Interview

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Ep. 27 - Do You have a PSR?

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Ep. 26 - The Sexually Healthy Man

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Ep. 25 - It seemed like a good idea (at the time)

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Ep. 24 - The Kind of Man

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Ep. 23 - Does porn make me a dick?

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Ep. 22 - Hope is on the Way

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Ep. 21 - Life Hack #6 - Hide and Seek

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Ep. 20 - Stop the Steal!

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Ep. 19 - Childish Things

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Ep. 18 - Lifehack #5 - The Power of Technology

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Ep. 17 - The When-Then trap

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Ep. 16 - The Donald and other Recovery Distractions

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Ep. 15 - I've hurt my wife - Now What? (with Charity and Clinton Munoz)

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Ep. 14 - Help I just got Triggered

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Ep. 13 - Lifehack #4 Getting Started

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Ep. 12 - Number One Lie

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Ep. 11 - Grow a Pair

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Ep. 10 - 2 Sides of Commitment

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Ep. 9 - Life hack #3 Here I Go Again!

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Ep. 8 - Five Myths of My Recovery

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Ep. 7 - When Recovery Feels Wobbly

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Ep. 6 - Recovery Inspiration from a Hitman

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Ep. 5 - Lifehack #2 Peeing on the Electric Fence (Why do I do what I know will hurt me?)

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Ep. 4 - Changing Tires

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Ep. 3 - Lifehack #1 Red or Blue Pill?

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Ep. 1 - Porn through the Ages pt. 1

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Ep. 2 - Porn thorugh the Ages pt. 2