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115. Silencing within Orgs feat. Nat Tang, Chloe Durand, Stuart Venables, and Gemma Frances: "Stop being a hack brutha..."

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Moments: Me on Making Emotional Labour Visible - with thanks Sabah & Pris (links in notes)

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Moments: V on Decrim 4 Dummies

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113. The Future of the NDIS feat. Sunyal Maroo: "It's politics 101..."

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112. Reflections on the Decrim Movement (2024) feat. Lua, Mercy, and V: "The translation error..."

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111. Reflections on the Decrim Movement (2023) feat. Lua and Mercy: "The girlboss image thing..."

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110. Trans Rights and The Law feat. V and Joni Boyd: "What laws could be passed to make things better?"

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109. The Angry Episode (re-released) part 1

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108. Everyday Transphobia feat. V and Joni Boyd: "It's a lot of emotional labour..."

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106. Being Trans in this Economy feat. V and Joni Boyd: "She was fired on the spot..."

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105. Sex Work and Disability feat. Lua and Mercy: "I have to hide what I do from my medical team..."

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104. Neurodiversity and Trauma feat. Lua and Mercy: "Let me have my headphones..."

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103. Child Sexual Abuse: "No shade on white vans..."

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102. Sex Work and The Law feat. Ariela Moscowitz and Isidoro Rodriguez: "Why are we policing sex?"

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101. Welcome to Season 3: "Have you heard of Shirley Finn?"

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100. Where to Next? "The mistake of overfocusing on sex work..."

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99. Reflections on It's So Hard: "Your relationship with the podcast is different from mine..."

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98. Boundary Queen: "So I got in a fight with a surgeon..."

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97. The Death of George Pell: "He would trample on victims..."

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96. New Year's Non-Resolutions: "Life is SO changeable!"

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95. Consent Thought Experiments: "What would Jenn do?"

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94. Sex Education in Schools: "What's your perspective on dry-humping?"

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93. Behind the Lehrmann Trial: "This is a systems issue..."

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92. Decrim Abortion in WA: "We would also like it to be more accessible..."

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91. Personas, Talk Jobs and Men's Mental Health feat. Lena Van Hale: "It's not our battle..."

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90. Police Sexual Misconduct feat. Isidoro Rodriguez: "The culture is so insidious..."

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89. Sex Work and Art feat. Lil Hoe: "I had a booking with a really good rapper..."

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88. Squirting on Command feat. Little Red: "So I was going through my slut phase..."

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86. Going Private Part 2 feat. Juno: "I believe that we create experiences..."

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85. The Whorearchy Part 2: "It's like being tourist in a different class..."

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84. Whistleblowing feat. Vivienne Harlow: "Shall we call this brothel owner Cruella?"

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83. Casual Sex Experts feat. Georgie Wolf: "We had a 2-hour fuckathon!"

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82. Productivity and a Psych Ward: "Just buy the dildo!"

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81. Brothel and Parlour Work feat. Lil Hoe: "Life is a brothel!"

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80. HepatitisWA feat. Donna and Ali: "You don't have to get off the gear to receive treatment..."

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79. The Whorearchy Part 1: "What you earn and how you work impacts the amount of whorephobia you face..."

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77. Fuck the System feat. Old Pros, New York: "Our stories matter!"

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76. Mouthy Broads: "What's my prognosis re. deep throating?"

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US Abortion Rights Overturned: "It's not a debate to us, it's real life..."

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75. Going Private Part 1 feat. Juno: "The glittery walk of shame..."

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74. Decrim QLD: "Institutions like this LOVE wanky titles..."

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73. Brothel Diaries Part 6: "Either way, it's a finger in the ear!"

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72. Values-Based Publishing feat. Ruby Summers: "Okay, what else is possible?"

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71. Know Thyself feat. Georgie Wolf: "The work of being a great client..."

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69. 69-ing and Tit Journies: "Close your eyes and picture an upside down dick!"

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68. Sexy Tidbits from Jenn: "Look, a lot went wrong there..."

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67. First Times: "Just out here trying to have a hump!"

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66. Advocacy and Aftercare feat. Liv: "I swipe myself to sleep!"

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65. Our Origin Story: "We have time for some dick stuff if you want..."

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63. Stripping feat. 50 Plus a Tip: "Cheers and woos don't pay our bills!"

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62. The Nordic Model feat. Kit: "In a world where clients are criminalised..."

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61. Male Sex Work feat. Rome the Tradie: "Spreading the Good Word of dick!"

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60. Reflections on Representation: "I do worry about fucking up!"

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59. Diverse Sex Part 1: "CAN jackhammer... cool story, bro!"

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58. BDSM feat. Pro Domme Liv: "Every booking is an escape room!"

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57. Lost in Translation Part 2: "Ummmm, that's debatable!"

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56. Anal Queen feat. Little Red: "Like being in a BDSM relationship with Jesus!"

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55. A Sexual Awakening: "Where does a kink come from?"

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53. Lost in Translation: "Could we do a threesome together?"

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52. Shooting Erotic Content feat. Fuscous Fury: "Can they even kneel in that position for that long?!"

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51. Back with a Bang: "I might be mixing up my threesomes..."

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We Were On A Break! Client Q&A Part 1

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We Were On A Break! The Xmas Quickie: "Bring me wine!"

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We Were On A Break! The IDEVASW 2021 Rant: "We're not fucking calm!"

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We Were On A Break! Flashback to Int. Sex Workers' Day 2021

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50. Cocktail Q&A: "I'm a big fan of the wet pussy!"

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48. Religion and Sex Part 2: "You're hurting Jesus' feelings!"

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47. Break Up Sex Part 2 feat. Kate: "No moving to the country for love!"

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46. Break Up Sex Part 1 feat. Kate: "Jelly shots get me every time!"

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45. Crazy Sexy feat. Juno: "The eternal search for the best dumpling"

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44. Coercion Part 2: "Don't shower, just rant!"

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43. Rate, Review, Subscribe feat. Shawn: "A good service is so subjective"

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42. Brothel Diaries Part 5: "I'm not hydrated enough for that yet!"

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41. The Client Episode Part 2: "Danger erection"

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40. Unmet Needs: "Okay, so I'm gonna adopt a cat..."

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39. The Dick Series: "Penises are so expressive!"

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38. OCD and Sex feat. Pet: "All he wanted was to have a wank!"

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37. Brothel Diaries Part 4: "So you impulse bought a tantra session"

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36. The Client Series Part 1: "Do you like butt stuff?"

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35. Brothel Diaries Part 3: "Let's all go on the erotic journey"

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34. Brothel Diaries Part 2: "It's all I want to fuck you (cha-ching!)"

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33. Boundary Pushers feat. Frankie Fatale: "I saw his scrotum, like, 18 times"

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32. Brothel Diaries: "Tie me up all day!"

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31. Image Maintenance feat. Jameson Scarlett: "A whole bathtub of lube"

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30. PTSD and Sex: "It's a boner bonanza!"

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29. Health Checks feat. Rubi Valentine: "No-one's really wanking for pleasure nowadays!"

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28. ADHD and Sex: "I don't need to fuck them all!"

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27. The Hungover Episode feat. Juno: "I'm pretty fucking gay but I'm open-minded..."

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26. Long Bookings: "So someone had a strap-on at some point"

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25. Porn Collab Politics feat. Frankie Fatale: "Put your love cave to the floor"

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24. Making Contact: "Give me a super good discount"

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23. Private vs. Brothel Work feat. Eva May: "I think we're going to fuck tonight"

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22. Sexting feat. Jo: "Everyone needs a ring light!"

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21. Sexessibility feat. Taylor Tara: "The dick never ages"

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20. Patreon Party: "A very professional discussion"

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18. Showgirls feat. Frankie Fatale: "I've used Swarovskis to cover the fuck ups"

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17. Sex Across a Lifetime feat. Pet and Jo: "Fresh air and frisky men"

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16. To Quickie or Not to Quickie feat. Jameson Scarlett: "Take care!"

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15. Fake Boyfriend: "What would Margaret Thatcher do?"

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14. Darwin Boys feat. Rubi Valentine: "With great pussy comes great responsibility"