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It's So Hard — 114 episodes · page 1 of 2
115. Silencing within Orgs feat. Nat Tang, Chloe Durand, Stuart Venables, and Gemma Frances: "Stop being a hack brutha..."
Moments: Me on Making Emotional Labour Visible - with thanks Sabah & Pris (links in notes)
Moments: V on Decrim 4 Dummies
113. The Future of the NDIS feat. Sunyal Maroo: "It's politics 101..."
112. Reflections on the Decrim Movement (2024) feat. Lua, Mercy, and V: "The translation error..."
111. Reflections on the Decrim Movement (2023) feat. Lua and Mercy: "The girlboss image thing..."
110. Trans Rights and The Law feat. V and Joni Boyd: "What laws could be passed to make things better?"
109. The Angry Episode (re-released) part 1
108. Everyday Transphobia feat. V and Joni Boyd: "It's a lot of emotional labour..."
106. Being Trans in this Economy feat. V and Joni Boyd: "She was fired on the spot..."
105. Sex Work and Disability feat. Lua and Mercy: "I have to hide what I do from my medical team..."
104. Neurodiversity and Trauma feat. Lua and Mercy: "Let me have my headphones..."
103. Child Sexual Abuse: "No shade on white vans..."
102. Sex Work and The Law feat. Ariela Moscowitz and Isidoro Rodriguez: "Why are we policing sex?"
101. Welcome to Season 3: "Have you heard of Shirley Finn?"
100. Where to Next? "The mistake of overfocusing on sex work..."
99. Reflections on It's So Hard: "Your relationship with the podcast is different from mine..."
98. Boundary Queen: "So I got in a fight with a surgeon..."
97. The Death of George Pell: "He would trample on victims..."
96. New Year's Non-Resolutions: "Life is SO changeable!"
95. Consent Thought Experiments: "What would Jenn do?"
94. Sex Education in Schools: "What's your perspective on dry-humping?"
93. Behind the Lehrmann Trial: "This is a systems issue..."
92. Decrim Abortion in WA: "We would also like it to be more accessible..."
91. Personas, Talk Jobs and Men's Mental Health feat. Lena Van Hale: "It's not our battle..."
90. Police Sexual Misconduct feat. Isidoro Rodriguez: "The culture is so insidious..."
89. Sex Work and Art feat. Lil Hoe: "I had a booking with a really good rapper..."
88. Squirting on Command feat. Little Red: "So I was going through my slut phase..."
86. Going Private Part 2 feat. Juno: "I believe that we create experiences..."
85. The Whorearchy Part 2: "It's like being tourist in a different class..."
84. Whistleblowing feat. Vivienne Harlow: "Shall we call this brothel owner Cruella?"
83. Casual Sex Experts feat. Georgie Wolf: "We had a 2-hour fuckathon!"
82. Productivity and a Psych Ward: "Just buy the dildo!"
81. Brothel and Parlour Work feat. Lil Hoe: "Life is a brothel!"
80. HepatitisWA feat. Donna and Ali: "You don't have to get off the gear to receive treatment..."
79. The Whorearchy Part 1: "What you earn and how you work impacts the amount of whorephobia you face..."
77. Fuck the System feat. Old Pros, New York: "Our stories matter!"
76. Mouthy Broads: "What's my prognosis re. deep throating?"
US Abortion Rights Overturned: "It's not a debate to us, it's real life..."
75. Going Private Part 1 feat. Juno: "The glittery walk of shame..."
74. Decrim QLD: "Institutions like this LOVE wanky titles..."
73. Brothel Diaries Part 6: "Either way, it's a finger in the ear!"
72. Values-Based Publishing feat. Ruby Summers: "Okay, what else is possible?"
71. Know Thyself feat. Georgie Wolf: "The work of being a great client..."
69. 69-ing and Tit Journies: "Close your eyes and picture an upside down dick!"
68. Sexy Tidbits from Jenn: "Look, a lot went wrong there..."
67. First Times: "Just out here trying to have a hump!"
66. Advocacy and Aftercare feat. Liv: "I swipe myself to sleep!"
65. Our Origin Story: "We have time for some dick stuff if you want..."
63. Stripping feat. 50 Plus a Tip: "Cheers and woos don't pay our bills!"
62. The Nordic Model feat. Kit: "In a world where clients are criminalised..."
61. Male Sex Work feat. Rome the Tradie: "Spreading the Good Word of dick!"
60. Reflections on Representation: "I do worry about fucking up!"
59. Diverse Sex Part 1: "CAN jackhammer... cool story, bro!"
58. BDSM feat. Pro Domme Liv: "Every booking is an escape room!"
57. Lost in Translation Part 2: "Ummmm, that's debatable!"
56. Anal Queen feat. Little Red: "Like being in a BDSM relationship with Jesus!"
55. A Sexual Awakening: "Where does a kink come from?"
53. Lost in Translation: "Could we do a threesome together?"
52. Shooting Erotic Content feat. Fuscous Fury: "Can they even kneel in that position for that long?!"
51. Back with a Bang: "I might be mixing up my threesomes..."
We Were On A Break! Client Q&A Part 1
We Were On A Break! The Xmas Quickie: "Bring me wine!"
We Were On A Break! The IDEVASW 2021 Rant: "We're not fucking calm!"
We Were On A Break! Flashback to Int. Sex Workers' Day 2021
50. Cocktail Q&A: "I'm a big fan of the wet pussy!"
48. Religion and Sex Part 2: "You're hurting Jesus' feelings!"
47. Break Up Sex Part 2 feat. Kate: "No moving to the country for love!"
46. Break Up Sex Part 1 feat. Kate: "Jelly shots get me every time!"
45. Crazy Sexy feat. Juno: "The eternal search for the best dumpling"
44. Coercion Part 2: "Don't shower, just rant!"
43. Rate, Review, Subscribe feat. Shawn: "A good service is so subjective"
42. Brothel Diaries Part 5: "I'm not hydrated enough for that yet!"
41. The Client Episode Part 2: "Danger erection"
40. Unmet Needs: "Okay, so I'm gonna adopt a cat..."
39. The Dick Series: "Penises are so expressive!"
38. OCD and Sex feat. Pet: "All he wanted was to have a wank!"
37. Brothel Diaries Part 4: "So you impulse bought a tantra session"
36. The Client Series Part 1: "Do you like butt stuff?"
35. Brothel Diaries Part 3: "Let's all go on the erotic journey"
34. Brothel Diaries Part 2: "It's all I want to fuck you (cha-ching!)"
33. Boundary Pushers feat. Frankie Fatale: "I saw his scrotum, like, 18 times"
32. Brothel Diaries: "Tie me up all day!"
31. Image Maintenance feat. Jameson Scarlett: "A whole bathtub of lube"
30. PTSD and Sex: "It's a boner bonanza!"
29. Health Checks feat. Rubi Valentine: "No-one's really wanking for pleasure nowadays!"
28. ADHD and Sex: "I don't need to fuck them all!"
27. The Hungover Episode feat. Juno: "I'm pretty fucking gay but I'm open-minded..."
26. Long Bookings: "So someone had a strap-on at some point"
25. Porn Collab Politics feat. Frankie Fatale: "Put your love cave to the floor"
24. Making Contact: "Give me a super good discount"
23. Private vs. Brothel Work feat. Eva May: "I think we're going to fuck tonight"
22. Sexting feat. Jo: "Everyone needs a ring light!"
21. Sexessibility feat. Taylor Tara: "The dick never ages"
20. Patreon Party: "A very professional discussion"
18. Showgirls feat. Frankie Fatale: "I've used Swarovskis to cover the fuck ups"
17. Sex Across a Lifetime feat. Pet and Jo: "Fresh air and frisky men"
16. To Quickie or Not to Quickie feat. Jameson Scarlett: "Take care!"
15. Fake Boyfriend: "What would Margaret Thatcher do?"
14. Darwin Boys feat. Rubi Valentine: "With great pussy comes great responsibility"