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Let Me Just Say This.. — 100 episodes

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Acceptance Is Peace | Letting Go of Loss & Accepting Change

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You Are Your #1 Priority! | Recentering Yourself & Getting Your Spark Back

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The Christian Influencer Pipeline | Patriarchy, Purity Culture & Seeking God for the Wrong Reasons

4

People Pleasing, Childhood Trauma & Why It Never Gets You What You Want!

5

Big Dreams, Little Pockets | How to Keep Going When the Bag Hasn't Caught Up

6

Women Are Outpacing Men.. | Feminism, Agency & Letting the Girls Girl!

7

The World Is On Fire!! | Protect Your Peace Without Ignoring Reality

8

Girl, Go Touch Some Grass! | Obsessive Para-social Relationships & The SAVE Act

9

Love is in the Air & Relationships are Hard AF! | Valentine's Day Reflection On Choosing Love Over and Over Again

10

Season 7 Premiere: Woke Up Black AGAIN!! | Black Joy, Activism & 6 Months of January

11

We Did It Joe!!! | Lessons From 2025 & The Self-Aware Era Season Finale

12

Listen to Your Heart… But Keep Your Eyes Open | The Head vs Heart Battle

13

Sis, You're Not Lazy... You're Depressed. | Black Women & Mental Health

14

ATL PLEASE—Not My Car! | The Candied Yam Wars & B. Simone’s Rebrand (again)

15

The Answer Is Always You | Outgrowing Who I Was, LA Epiphanies, & Lessons From October

16

Everything’s Fine (Kind Of) | The Reality of Betting On Myself

17

You’re Not Pretty, You’re Just Light Skin | Colorism, Pretty Privilege & the Black Experience

18

“I’m a Nice Guy” = Manipulation? | Love Is Blind Season 9

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Bonus! Unrelatable Dating Advice | The Dangers of Dating While Attractive

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Starting Over at 27! | Trusting God & Embracing Life Shifts

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The Cost of “My Man Energy” | Lessons from Mariah & Thug

22

The Dating Pool Is In The SEWER!! | Coffee Dates & Complaints

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Leave When You're Ready! | Teyana Taylor, Sagittarius Energy & Self-Aware Love

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Stop Playing Yourself Small! | Fighting Self-Doubt With Faith

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Tall, Dark & Trump-Supporting?! | MAGA Cop Storytime

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Decentering Your Parents | Sometimes the Price of Peace Is Grief

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Hot, Healed & Happily Single! | The Waiting Season

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Dating Blind Spots | Charlotte Date Storytime | A Letter To My Future Lover

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Bible Thumpin For Bae? | Ashanti’s Married Single Mother Era? | The Big Brutal Bill

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Peace Over Potential | Dating Down & Bad Friendships

31

Minding Our Black Business Isn’t Enough | Pushing Trans People Out of the Military

32

America Has A Problem! | DEI, Black History Month, & Black Resilience

33

My Second Quarter-life Crisis! | Letting Go, Trusting God, and Healing Anxiety at 26

34

Hurricane Helene Beat My A**! | Storytime & Thoughts On Diddy

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Auntie Not Mad, Auntie Just Tired! | Protecting Your Energy in the Social Media Era

36

Don't Be A Broke Baddie! | Money Management Lessons I've Learned In My 20s

37

"Women Need Better Discernment!" | 5 Dating Tips to Protect Your Peace & Avoid Heartbreak

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Love Bombing & Baby Momming! | Thoughts on Arnell Armon & Single Motherhood

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The Wildest Dating Show Yet! | Pop The Balloon or Find Love?

40

When Will It Be My Turn Jesus?! | Delayed Gratification, Embracing Patience, and Celebrating Others' Success

41

Looks Do Matter! | The Importance Of Self-Care

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Bad Friends & Botched BBLs! | My Built-In Bestie Is Here!

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The Gurls Are Scamming! Should You?? | Managing Finances In My 20s & In Relationships

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Bumble's Fumble! | Your Soulmate Is Not On A Dating App!

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I Ain't Choose Celibacy.. Celibacy Chose Me! | Being Intentionally Single

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Baddie Burn Out! | It's Ok To Change Your Mind

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The Woes Of A Big Sister! | Chit Chat w/ My Mini-Me

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Love Is Blind? Or Love Is Delusional? | In Love With Potential

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Chile.. "Who TF Did I Marry?!" | Are Black Men Harder To Date? | Decentering Men

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Society Is Keeping You Single! | Happy Valentine's Day 😊

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Bestie, You Have To Trust Yourself! | Emotions After A Breakup

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It's Ok To Not Be Perfect! | Giving Yourself Grace

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It's Ok To Get Closure! | The Make-up To Break-up Cycle

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It's Time To Invest In Yourself! | The Szn of Solitude

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2023 Rocked The Girls! Affirmations and Motivation For 2024 — Season 2 Finale

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Better, Stronger, Wiser — Ashanti, KeKe, Cassie, & The Girls Getting It Back In Blood!

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An Audio Hug For When You Need Some Love | Bonus Episode

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The First Date Hit List, Planning Dates For Dummies. — Dating Preferences & Shenans!

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Cuffin’ Szn Is Upon Us, Don’t Settle Just For Matching Pajamas! — Managing Sznal Depression & Loneliness

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The Random Man In Atlanta, Slow Kids & Even Slower Parents, Girl, Boy, & Black Math! — Social Media Commentary

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Breaking Up Is Hard To Do.. — Dos and Don’ts for a Healthy Healing Process

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You Shouldn’t Have To Beg For Love! — Analyzing Couples From The Ultimatum!

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Lover Boy All Call, 17 Years A Girlfriend, & The Woes Of A Sneaky Link— Responding To Instagram Comments!

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Nobody Wants To Date A Bum! — Grace Over Grudges & Getting Back To Your Self-Worth

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Sneaky Link, Turned FWB, Turned Another Failed Situationship? — Finding Your Anchor

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Your Attachment Style Is Holding You Back! — What Are Your Red Flags?

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The Fine Ass Rich Auntie! —Not Having Kids Until My 30s

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Love and Marriage w/ Jay and Ashley — LMJST Szn 2 Ep 17

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Sex Life After Marriage with Jay and Ashely— LMJST Szn 2 Ep 16

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The Woes of a Lover Girl — Situationships, Dating Struggles, and Letting Go

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Sugar Daddies, Close Friends’ Etiquette, and Picasso! — Getting Spicy & Spilling Tea w/ Austin

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Black Women Deserve a Soft Life Too! — Soft Love

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Platonic Friendships? Lonely Homegirls? Cheating?? - Relationship Ramble w/ Shon

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I Keyed His Car!.. — Recognizing Triggers

75

It’s Okay To Take A Break! — Where Have I been..? Life Update!

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Mixing Friend Groups?.. — Unpacking Friendship Dynamics w/ The Gang

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I’m 10% Gay?! —Cutting Up With My Two Favorite Queers!

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I Got Played?! — Back To The Streets...?

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Imagine What You Want As If It Already Exists — Maintaining Hope While Behind Bars w/ Bo

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The Perfect Family Does Not Exist! – One Step At A Time Pep Talk

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Ready To Love Again? – Opening Up After Heartbreak

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Your Bestie Is Not Your Therapist! – Friendship Challenges w/ the Gang

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Plant The Roses Now – Grow w/ Love

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Everything On My Terms! – Lessons from 2022

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Back On The Dating Apps — Season Finale w/ The Gang!

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What would you tell your younger self? — Lessons Learned Through Growth w/ Jay

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Is Your Friend’s Crush Off Limits? — Guy Code v. Girl Code & The Friend Zone

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Be Your Own Biggest Fan! — Emotional Availability & Vulnerability

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Dating While Broke? — Deal Breakers Pickiness vs. Selectivity

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Live Your Best Life! — Soft Life, Self-Love, & Luxury

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Put You Up On This Game! — The Roster, Getting Your Things, & Cuffing SZN

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Protect Your Energy! — Choosing Peace Above All else

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Do You Really Want This? — Navigating Long Distance Relationships

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Somebody Always Gets Hurt! — Lessons From My Situationship

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Treat Me Like I Treat Me! — Self-Care Pep Talk

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The Break-Up — 5 Stages of Grief

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The Hoe-Phase — Healing While Dating

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Building a Tribe — Nurturing Friendships As Adults

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Adulting Is Ghetto Af! — Ending Relationships for Growth

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I Promise I Won’t Disappoint! — The Introduction