All Episodes
Life Over Coffee — 541 episodes
How to Change: Chapter 5—Two Essentials for Change
When the Gospel Becomes the New Legalism
How to Change: Chapter 4—How Do I Know I Have Changed
How to Change: Chapter 3—How to Change
Investigating Legalism—Where in the World Is Worldliness?
How to Change Chapter 2 Making Life Hard on Yourself
Ten Things to Know Before You Can Help Someone
I Am a Saved Legalist Who Struggles with Depression
When Marriage Breaks: Conclusion—Ten Anchors for Your Soul
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 7—From Adultery to Restoration
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 6—Helping Your Offender
Mind Mapping Insecure Husband and Critical Wife
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 5—Surviving Adultery
Mind Mapping a Marriage from Bad to Good
Mind Mapping Wisdom and Courage for Gossiping Friends
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 4—Listening to Adultery
Mind Mapping a Lady with a Small God
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 3—Revenge of the Conscience
Mind Mapping the Best Marriage Help You’ll Ever Find
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 2— Fornicating While Dating
Mind Mapping Chapter 1 Strategy for the Church
In Search of Significance- Biff's Story
When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 1—An Emotional Affair
You Have a Right to Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin
Captive Desires: Chapter 10—How to Resist Porn Every Day
Breaking the Bondage of People Pleasing
You Cannot Need Someone and Love Someone Equally
Captive Desires: Chapter 9—How to Break Free from Porn
The Natural Regression of a Woman
Fussy Parents Make Insecure Kids
Captive Desires: Chapter 8—How to Think About Porn Biblically
When You Make Your Child Work for Your Affection
The Sobering Reason It's Hard to Overcome Insecurity
The Life Over Coffee Song
How to Train Your Flea: Also Called Controlling Others
The Danger of Trying to Please God
Captive Desires: Chapter 6—The Parenting Challenge
Synonyms for People Pleasing, Insecurity, or the Fear of Man
The Story of the Boy Who Was Controlled by Others
When Obedience Collides With My Emotions
Ep. 576 Ryan Maher: The God Worth Trusting
Memories—Forgetting Past Relationship Thoughts
Ep. 575 Shepherding Your Family in a Digital Age
Three Mind Maps on How to Change Your Thought Life
Mind Mapping Stinking Thinking- How to Change Your Mind
Ep. 574 Redeeming Physical Intimacy
Learning How to Take All Your Bad Thoughts Captive
Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life
Ep. 573 When Suffering Enters Your Marriage
The Problem With Head Knowledge Versus Heart Knowledge
Ep. 572 The Power of Repentance in Marriage
Thoughts on How to Build with Each Other Relationally
How to Love a Difficult Person Without Them Controlling You
Ep. 571 When Marriage Becomes a Battlefield
Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic
The Revolutionary Cure for Shallow Small Group Experience
Ep. 570 From Talk Trouble to Koinonia
Which Do You Need for Your Maturity: a Bible or Mentor?
There Are Times When You Have to Get Into Conflict
Chapter 11: Marriage and Mayhem: Marriage Defined
Budget Sin Into Your Small Group Experience
48 Case Studies 48: Bug Off, an Angry Teen
Ep. 569 The False Choice in Trauma-Informed Care
48 Case Studies 47: How Do I Honor My Older Parents?
48 Case Studies 46: Practice Parenting with Adoptive Kids
Ep. 568 Jonathan Tepper- Shooting Up, A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Addiction
48 Case Studies 45: No More Fun with Biff and Mable
48 Case Studies 44: Confession of an Imposter's Wife
Ep. 567 Cynthia Scott: Celebrating God, America’s Founder
48 Case Studies 43: The Addict and His Wife
48 Case Studies 42: The Troubled Teen
Elizabeth Urbanowicz Helping Your Kid’s Know God’s Good Design
48 Case Studies 41: When Your Spear Stabs You
48 Case Studies 40: What About Biff?
Ep. 565 When Biblical Counseling Replaces Parenting
48 Case Studies 39: No Thanks for Thanksgiving
48 Case Studies 38: The Sinning Victim
Chapter 5: Marriage or Mayhem: Reclassified Desires
48 Case Studies 37: I Cannot Connect with My Church
48 Case Studies 36: She Buried Her Son Ten Years Ago
Chapter 4: Marriage or Mayhem: A Case for Suffering
48 Case Studies 35: Past Sex Thoughts in Current Marriage
48 Case Studies 34: Mable Marries the Divorced Guy
Chapter 3: Marriage or Mayhem: Meaning and Significance
48 Case Studies 33: Man, Ministry, Marriage
48 Case Studies 32: Counselees and the Local Church
Chapter 2: Marriage or Mayhem: Purposes of Marriage
48 Case Studies 31: Bert, The Flesh Cutter
48 Case Studies 30: Present But Not Accounted For
48 Case Studies 29: Confessing Less Than They Know
48 Case Studies 28: High Standards Tempt Me to Lie
Ep. 564 Webinar- Unforgiveness and the Gospel
48 Case Studies 27: The Sexually Abused
48 Case Studies 26: Mable's Search for Self-esteem
Ep. 563 Webinar- The Heart of Anger—What It Costs
48 Case Studies 25: The Christian Prostitute
48 Case Studies 24: Meds and More
Chapter 1: Marriage or Mayhem: Marriage Asunder
Ep. 562 Rachel Coyle: Help! She’s Struggling with Porn
48 Case Studies 23: The Aspiring Counselor Wannabe
48 Case Studies 22: The Darker Side of the Ministry Mom
Enjoying God- My Wife’s Break From a Legalistic Perspective
48 Case Studes 21: The Silent Partner
48 Case Studies 20: If I Tell the Truth, They Will Expel Me
Hiding Behind Grace To Avoid The Hard Things
48 Case Studies 19: The Fearful Parent
48 Case Studies 18: I Will Forgive But Never Forget
The Negative Effect of Fundamentalism On the Soul
48 Case Studies 17: Cheap Plates Overcome Anger
48 Case Studies 16: You Need to Please God
How God Delivered an Entrapped Soul from Christianity’s Baggage
48 Case Studies 15: Don't Tell the Elders
48 Case Studies 14: I Don't Know What to Do with My Life
Ep. 561 Molly Bertles: Counsel for Women Struggling with Masturbation
48 Case Studies 13: He Cannot Lead His Wife
48 Case Studies 12: I Want Out of This Marriage!
Ep. 560 Nine Tips for Launching a Counseling Ministry at Your Church
48 Case Studies 11: Don't Tell Anyone I'm in Counseling
48 Case Studies 10: She Has an Anxious Need to Be Right
Ep. 559: Joby Martin: Stand Firm and Act Like Men
48 Case Studies 09: Are You Certified?
48 Case Studies 08: When Thin Is In
Ep. 558 Giving Hope to Anxious Hearts
48 Case Studies 07: When Prayer Kills a Church
48 Case Studies 06: Counseling the Un-Counsel-Able
48 Case Studies 05: Suicide
48 Case Studies 04: The Nagging Wife
Legalism Is a Fear-based Culture That Leads to a Complex Life
48 Case Studies 03: Exchanging Prisons
48 Case Studies 02: To Date or Not to Date
The Unintended Spiritual Benefits of Legalism
Ep. 556 Boasting in Weakness—a Primer
48 Case Studies 01: Procrastination
Day 31 – Living Boldly: Whatever You Do, Do This
Ep. 555 The Cyber Effect- Nine Ways Technology Shapes Us
Day 30 – Living Boldly: Unveiling Your Secret Weapon
Day 29 – Living Boldly: Re-Evaluating Your Self-Esteem
Ep. 554 Why We Must Forgive and How to Do It
Day 28 – LIving Boldly: The Reason to Love
Day 27 – Living Boldly: Self-Sufficient Life Is a Myth
Ep. 553 A Relational Philosophy for Local Church Engagement
Day 26 – LIving Boldly: Controlled By the Opinions of Others
Day 25 – Living Boldly: Sex Before Marriage
Day 24 – LIving Boldly: How to Make a Decision
Day 23 – Living Boldly: The First Step Before You Start
Day 22 – Living Boldly: Disciple Your Parents
Day 21 – Living Boldly: Describe Your Friendships
Day 20 – Living Boldly: Voice Training
Day 19 – Living Boldly: "Will God Forgive Me?"
Day 18 – Living Boldly: Who Is a Good Teen?
Day 17 – Living Boldly: Five Teen Traps
Day 16 – Living Boldly: Your Local Church
Living Boldly Day 15: While You're Waiting, Do These
Living Boldly Day 14: Where to Go From Here
Living Boldly Day 13: Life Is Hard and Does Not Apologize
Ep. 552 Jordan Peterson's Concerning Influence and Philosophies
Living Boldly Day 12: Coolness Is Not the Path to Success
Living Boldly Day 11: Social Media Is Not Real Life
Living Boldly Day 09: Life Has Losers; Don't Be One
Ep. 551 Daniel Berger, Discipling a Fool's Heart
Ep. 551 Daniel Berger, Discipling a Fool's Heart
Living Boldly Day 08: Your Parents Weren't Always Boring
Living Boldly Day 07: Your Mistakes Are Yours
Living Boldly Day 06: Life Is Mundane; Get Used to It
Living Boldly Day 05: Wait Until You Get a Boss
Living Boldly Day 04: Forget About Your Self-esteem
Living Boldly Day 03: Parents Are Not Perfect
Ep. 550 Phil Sessa Interviews Rick Thomas on Biblical Counseling
Living Boldly Day 2: Living Boldly: Life Is Not Fair
Living Boldly Day 10: You Don't Get Time Off
Living Boldly Day 1: Embracing the God-centered Life
You Must Work to Rest to Enjoy the Gift of Rest
Eight Ways to Practice and Enjoy and Effective Prayer Life
Bridge Ministries Interviews Rick and Lucia Thomas
How the Gift of Fasting Can Change Your Life
Ep. 549 Daniel Berger, The Schizophrenic Unicorn 2.0
15 Tips to Overcome Insomnia
How Does the Ongoing Sin of Others Impact Your Health?
Confession of a Former Cigarette Smoker
Idol Swapping: I Stopped One Sin and Gained 30 Pounds
The Blessing of Doing Things Without Thinking
There Are Three Ways to Overcome Sin and Temptation
Parenting Day 31: You Cannot Change Your Children
Parenting Day 30: Teach Your Children to Laugh at Themselves
Parenting Day 29: One Reason Children Rebel Against Their Parents
Parenting Day 28: Seven-point Checklist to Have Fantastic Children
Parenting Day 26: The Perfect Goal for Your Child
Parenting Day 25: A Secret Weapon to Motivate a Child to Change
Parenting Day 24: Some Parents Should Stop Parenting
Parenting Day 23: I Failed As a Parent, Now What?
Parenting Day 22: Five Tips from the Best Parent in the World
Parenting Day 21: Two Acceptable Conflicts in Your Home
Parenting Day 20: The Danger of Pragmatic Parenting
Parenting Day 19: If You Could Export Only One Thing to Your Child
Parenting Day 18: The Wisdom of Teaching Your Children Curse Words
Parenting Day 17: The Wisdom of Introducing Your Children to the World
Parenting Day 16: The Wisdom of Engaging the Sin in Your Family
Parenting Day 15: Parental Discipline Comes from a Heart of Love
Parenting Day 14: Love Your Chidlren, Just Because
Parenting Day 13: A Biblical Perspective on Critiquing Children
Ep. 543 Webinar: Small Group Leader Development
Parenting Day 12: Rule-based Parenting Create Dysfucntional Children
Parenting Day 11: Easy Way to Disqualify Yourself As a Parent
Ep. 542 When Christians Fail You: Trusting God in the Aftermath of Betrayal
Parenting Day 10: Fussy Parents Make Insecure Children
Parenting Day 9 – Give Your Child Fewer Rules And More Attitude
Parenting Day 8: Dads, the First Picture a Child Sees of a Father
Parenting Day 7: Your Words Shape Your Child’s Life
Ep. 540 Bradley Pierce, Fighting for the Pre-born in a Post-Roe America
Parenting Day 6: Before You Can Help Your Child, You Must Wait
Parenting Day 5: The Orientation of the Home
Parenting Day 3: Non-negotiable First Step to Build a Happy Home
Ep. 538 Jacob Valk: Parenting and P*rnography, the Masterclass
Parenting Day 2: Quality Parenting Comes from Good Marriages
Parenting Day 1 – Parenting From Zero To Adulthood
Parenting Day 4: Two Rules Every Parent Must Teach Their Children
Ten Ways to Kill Your Marriage
Here Is Practical Help to Restore a Broken Marriage
Something Must Come Between Us, or We'll Hurt Each Other
Do You Think It's Right to Correct My Authoritarian Husband?
Ep. 535 Understanding EMDR with Dr. Rhenn Cherry
Sex for a Woman, According to a Man
Ep. 534 Fear of Man: Cultivating a God-centered Community
Do You Know What Your Wife Is Thinking?
The Orientation of the Home: Follow the Leader
Ep. 533 Fear of Man: Steps to Overcome Approval Addiction, Lesson 3
His Needs, Her Needs Aren't Real Needs
The Reason We Blew Up Our Marriage
Ep. 532 Fear of Man: Reorienting Your Focus: Pleasing God Over Man, Lesson 2
Let Me Draw You a Picture of a Marriage in Trouble
Three Life Choices You Don't Want to Miss Before You Die
Ep. 531 Fear of Man: Understanding the Root of Approval Addiction, Lesson 1
I Think I Married the Wrong Person; Please Help Me
Al Haywood's Journey with Life Over Coffee's Mastermind Program
How To Help a Double-Minded Person
Torment Is Trying to Be Perfect
Ep. 529 Webinar: Parenting: Practically Four Tips You Can Implement Today
May I Change My Mind After Deciding Something?
Guidelines for Making Decisions as a Couple
Webinar: Overcoming Anger How It Complicates Our Relationships
How to Live with People with Different Preferences
Ep. 527: Follow the Leader, Creating a Redemptive Community
A Christian Perspective on the Presidential Election
Who Are You Voting for This November?
Why Christians Should Engage in Politics
That Time I Went to a Trump Rally
Ep. 525 Dr. Jenn Chen, Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis
Why People Miss the Point About Donald Trump
Why People Miss the Point About Donald Trump
The One Thing Worse Than Admititng You're a Racist
To Wear a Mask or Not Is Not the Question
Two Degrees of Woke: The Innocent Idealist and Angry Activist
The New Slave Owner Is a Liberal Paternallistic Government
An Analysis of How to Destroy a Family, Church, or Country
The Strategic and Sad Way a Great Nation Falls
Helpful Tips on How to Make Decisions, Big and Small
How to Make a Good Decision about Anything in Faith
There Are No His or Her Problems in Marriage
A Few Essential Qualities of an Effective Husband
Defining and Establishing Your Life and Marriage
Day 31 Marriage Devotion: Ask This Question Every Day
Ep. 516 Seth Gruber, and The 1916 Project
Day 30 Marriage Devotion: Husband's Dilemma: I Lead You; I Sin Against You
Day 29 Marriage Devotion: Ten Ways to Ignore Your Marriage Problems
Parenting Day 27 – When All You’re Doing Is Correcting Your Child
Ep. 515 Rosaria Butterfield, from Lesbianism to the Gopel's Hope
Day 28 Marriage Devotion: God Is There Before You Get There
Day 27 Marriage Devotion: Suffering Produces Strength
Day 18 Marriage Devotion: Seven Things If Your Spouse Is Difficult
Day 26 Marriage Devotion: The Crucible of Suffering When the Marriage Does Not Change
Day 17 Marriage Devotion: Three Steps to Be an Excellent Spouse
Day 25 Marriage Devotion: Double Confession: How to Respond When Sinned Against
Ep. 513 Elias Ghazal: A Christian's Perspective on Palestine and Israel
Day 24 Marriage Devotion: Sex and Marriage
Day 23 Marriage Devotion: Your Bible Study Hurts Your Marriage
Day 22 Marriage Devotion: Five Tips for Arguing Well
Day 21 Marriage Devotion: What You Communicate in a Crisis
Ep. 511 How to Deal with Phobiaas from a Biblical Perspective
Day 20 Marriage Devotion: Best Way to Help Your Spouse Change
Day 19 Marriage Devotion: The Blessing of the Reciprocal Marriage
Ep. 509 A Gospel Message for All the Introverts Out There
Day 16 Marriage Devotion: Setting Aside Your Desires to Disciple
"No More Fear" Online Course, Welcome and Introduction
"No More Fear" Online Course, What to Expect
"No More Fear" Online Course, Structure and Elements
"No More Fear" Online Course, Course Goal
"No More Fear" Online Course, Meet Your Teacher
Day 15 Marriage Devotion: Do You Push Your Spouse to Christ?
Day 14 Marriage Devotion: Radical Conflict Resolution Tip
Day 13 Marriage Devotion: Change One Thing Today
Day 12 Marriage Devotion: The Most Effective Thing You Can Do
Day 11 Marriage Devotion: Strengths and Weaknesses in Marriage
Day 10 Marriage Devotion: Something Must Come Between Us
Day 9 Marriage Devotion: Who Pays for Your Spouse's Sin?
Ep. 505 Why Women Struggle with Porn, and How to Overcome
Day 8 Marriage Devotion: Are You For Your Spouse
Day 7 Marriage Devotion: No More Condemnation
Day 6 Marriage Devotion: Does Your Marriage Look Like This?
Day 5 Marriage Devotion: Dating to Divorce, and How We Got There
Day 4 Marriage Devotion: The Main Reason You Need Someone
Day 3 Marriage Devotion His Problems, Her Problems: One Problem
Day 2 Marriage Devotion: The Most Important Thing
Day 1 Marriage Devotion: We Are One In Communication
The Sex Talk Begins in the Toddler Years
Practical and Effective Instructions for the Sex Talk
Practical Advice Before You Have the Sex Talk with Your Child
Terrific Way for Introducing the Sex Talk to Your Child
My Son Has Three Practice Wives to Make Him a Better Husband
Teaching Your Son Today to Be a Great Husband Later
Wise Parents Teach Their Children How to Curse
Men Are Tempted to Lust and Women Are Tempted to Be Lusted After
Incrementally Introducting Your Children to the World
Captive Desires: Chapter 5—Dating and Desire
Hey Rick, What Does Your Wife Wear to the Beach?
Tips on Parenting a Child from Zero to Adulthood
Modesty Wars: Hyper-grace Versus Legalism
What Does "All Things Work Together for Good" Really Mean?
Ep. 501 Eight Essentials for an Exceptional Small Group Experience
How Can I Get Guys to Lust After Me?
Powerful and Practical Questions to Change Your Marriage
Understanding Your Boyfriend's Sexual Temptation
Why Men Struggle with Sexual Temptation
Ep. 500 Dr. Mark Shaw, and The Heart of Addiction
Backward Porn Addiction: Drawing Attention to Yourself
Too Much Skin, Girl. Too Much Skin
Ep. 499 Practical Soul Care: A Biblical Response to the Great Commission
The Most Effective Way to Feel Better About Yourself
What Does It Mean to Love Others As You Love Yourself?
How Do You Help a Person Who Is Stuck on Herself?
There Is a Reason You Should Love Yourself and Others
I'm Imperfect, You're Imperfect, Let's Get Over Ourselves
Knowing Your Bad Is the Beginning of Being Good
How Do You Leave Your Church?
The Mystery and Misunderstanding about Being Worthless
When the Local Church Won't Help You
Are You Committed to the Dearest Place on Earth
The Fallacy and Futility of Self-esteem
Do You Fight Fires or Change Lives?
You Need More Than Preaching If You Want to Change
Ep. 498 A Deep-dive Analysis of Schizophrenia with Dr. Daniel Berger
Loving Me: The Hidden Agenda of Self-esteem
Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse in the Church
The Cure for Low Self-esteem
Three Characteristics of a Fantastic Local Church
The Second Most Important Question When Looking for a Church
Ep. 497 Help for the Angry and Those in the Line of Fire
The Main Thing to Look for When Looking for a Church
Ep. 496 Is It Okay for Christians to Use Online Dating Apps
What You Can Do about the Migration Cyber Effect, 8.0
What You Can Do about the Accountability Cyber Effect, 7.0
Ep. 495 Here Is Practical Help for Anyone Stuck in a Bad Habit
What You Can Do about the Blue Light Cyber Effect, 6.0
What to Do about Sanctification Cyber Effects, 5.0
Ep. 494 Help Me Help My Difficult Relative
What You Can Do about the Disinhibition Effect, 4.0
What You Can Do about the Stranger Effect, 3.0
Ep. 493 Practical Advice on Growing Older and Finishing Well
What You Can Do about the Identity Cyber Effect 2.0
What You Can Do about the Real World Cyber Effect 1.0
Ep. 494 Ten Vital Keys for Small Group Leaders
What Is the Cyber Effect? What You Can Do about It
How to Change: Chapter 6—Five Things to Know
Ep. 491 Daniel Berger, What Is a Woman, Biblically Speaking
What Kind of Church Do You Attend? Here Are Six Models.
Why Do You Attend Your Church?
Ep. 490 Sophie Ottaway: Engineered at Birth to Be a Girl
The Benefit of Being Intentionally Intrusive in Our Relationships
Ep. 489 Dr. Miriam Grossman, Lost in Trans Nation
How to Care for the Clueles
The Problem with God's Kindness When You Want to Be Angry
Our Competing Psychologies
The One Thing We Must Do: Step Down from Our Thrones
Admitting Failure Gives You a Second Chance from God
Ep. 487 Daniel Berger Discusses Disorders and Medication, Pt. 2
Do You Understand the Point of Your Trouble?
When God Hurls a Storm at You
Ep. 486 Daniel Berger Discusses Disorders and Medication, Pt. 1
A Profound Reason to Love That Difficult Person in Your Life
Ep. 485 Lucas Miles, Author of Woke Jesus
What Is Forgiveness and How to Do It
Chapter Nine Homework for a Cold Marriage
Webinar: Parenting Our Children from Zero to Adulthood
Chapter Eight God Is Already There
Chapter Seven Working on Marriage Alone
Ep. 483 Interview with Kevin Sorbo, Hollywood Actor
Chapter Six Our Common Faith-killers
Chapter Five The Self-sufficient Soul
Ep. 482 Judd T. Saul with Equipping the Persecuted
Chapter Four Start with the Gospel
The Reason What You Believe and What You Do Are Different
Chapter Three The Snare of Perceived Needs
Ep. 481 Rick and Lucia Answering Your Questions
Chapter Two Mable's Lonely Journey Begins
Chapter One: The Desperate Housewife
Ep. 480 Ten Ways to Kill Your Marriage
The Non-negotiable First Step to Build a Happy Home
Ep. 479 Jacob Valk Into the Light Documentary
9/11 Is a Study in Misplaced Faith and Hard Hearts
Am I to Forgive Someone Who Is Not Asking?
Ep. 478 What to Do After Two People Forgive Each Other
What If I Forgive Someone But They Never Change?
Ep. 477 Breaking Down Forgiveness, Practically Speaking
The Dangerous Doctrine of Forgiving Yourself
The Sad Side to The Blind Side
Ep. 476 Ten Responses to the Friend Who Won't Admit Wrong
Pre-forgiveness Is Essential Before You Can Genuinely Forgive
The Man Who Destroyed Our Home Wants Forgiveness
The Friendship Series Choosing Relationships Wisely L7
Don't Apologize. Don't Say, "I'm Sorry."
The Friendship Series Actions That Build Relationships L6
Mind Mapping: A Detailed Study in Self-reliance
It's Easier to Trust God When You're in Control
The Friendship Series Words That Build Relationships L5
God Is Incrementally and Purposely Putting You to Death
The Friendship Series Overcoming Mistrust and Hurt L4
Eight Reasons Perfection Does Not Glorify God
Lowering God's Standard to Be Perfect
The Friendship Series Defining Godly Relationships L3
When Education Becomes Deadly to a Child
What Does It Mean to Boast In Your Weakness?
Friendship Series Trusting God's Word, L2
Why Does God Call Us to Suffer?
The Reason God Wants You to Be a Jar of Clay
Friendship Series Knowing and Loving God, L1
One Essential Quality of an Effective Wife
Ep. 468 Typical Mistakes People Make to Feel Better
Submission Is Never the Main Problem in Marriage
Going Over Your Husband's Head to Help Him
Ep. 467 Nancy Pearcey, The Toxic War on Masculinity
Practical Thoughts on Leading Your Husband
How a Wife Can Lead Her Husband
Ep. 466 How Wives Motivate Husbands into Passivity
Seven Things to Know When Living with a Harsh Husband
The Need to Forgive Even If You Don't Reconcile
Ep. 465 What Does It Mean to Live a Gospel-centered Life?
The Power of Unforgiveness When Used As a Weapon
My Husband Is Immature. How May I Help Him Change?
Seven Tips for Living with an Imperfect Person
Ep. 464 A Better Response to PTSD and Other Triggering Events
Setting Aside Your Desires to Lead Your Husband
How Can I Be More Honest with My Spouse?
Ep. 463 Sermon- How Not To Harbor Hate Toward Someone
Why Our Ministry is Different from Other Counseling Ministries
A Unique Wife Helping a Unique Man Change
Introduction to Biblical Counseling, Lesson One
The Power of the Critical Wife
The Necessity of the Double Dependent Wife
Ep. 461 How to Listen to Others Without Being Swayed By Them
Four Sequential Steps to Change Your Life
If Your Friend Is Not Changing, Consider This
Ep. 460 Should I Bring a Baby Into Our Evil World
Forcing Someone to Change Will Blow Up Your Relationship
Did You Know There Is a Better Way to Do Counseling?
Ep. 459 Twelve Things to Know About Parental Discipline
A Problem with Expecting Someone to Change
Seven Reasons a Person Will Not Change
Ep. 458 Mark Grant Shares His Mastermind Training Experience
Mind Mapping Confidentiality and Secret Sins
Ep. 457 An Effective Equipping Model for the Church
When I Kept Silent About My Sin
Diagnosing the Four Steps to a Hard Heart
Seven Considerations for Challenging Friends
Ep. 456 The Particulars of the Sex Talk I Had With Our Son
You Know Your Faith Is Real When
Ep. 455 Don't Make a Big Deal Out of Biblical Counseling
How Can I Trust God When He Does Not Act the Way I Think?
Three Keys to Help You Look Beyond Your Suffering
Ep. 454 The Risky Business of Looking for Change in Someone
When God Whittles You Down to Size
Do You Really Want to Know What God Is Thinking?
Ep. 453 Speaking to the Injusticies in Our Culture
Have You Ever Tried Manipulative Praying?
The Uncomfortable Benefit of God Being Silent
Ep. 451 Five Reasons to Curb or Get Off Social Media
Seven-Step Template for Change When Trouble Comes
Bringing God Down to My Level So I Can Argue with Him
The Unparalleled Benefit of Living in an Unchangeable Situation
Ep. 449 How to Motivate Christians to Stop Caring So Much
When God Does Not Come Through for You
Just When You Thought Things Were Going Well
How to Respond When Blindsided While Doing Good
Ep. 448 The Insufficient Method of Giving Verses to Counselees
Three Things to Know When Life Does Not Make Sense
Four Things You Must Know about Your Suffering
Ep. 447 How to Have a Dynamic Small Group Experience
How to Steward God's Most Feared Blessing
The Preface to My Book, Suffering Well
Ep. 446 My Church Doesn't Do Community Well, and I'm Struggling
How to Think about a God Who Permits Sin in Your Life
When Suffering Reaches the Limits of Your Endurance
Ep. 445 Interview with Anton Krecic with Seven Weeks Coffee
The First and Unique Step to Solving Your Problems
A Practical Plan to Break Free from Being Controlled by Others
Ep. 444 Five Reasons to "Why Did God Let My Baby Die?"
I Want More Than God; I Want Someone to Love
How to Build and Enjoy Dynamic Community Life
Ep. 443 How Do You Respond to an Unkind Christian?
Leading Your Spouse in Intimate Conversations
Ep. 442 Eight Response to the Spouse Whose Spouse Left
The Most Perfect Relationship You Will Ever Have
Five Helpful Marks to See If Someone Has Changed
Ep. 441 How to Respond to a Fallen Christian Leader
When You Give More Than Money, You're More Like Christ
The Terrible Lengths God Will Go to for Your Good
Ep. 440 When She's Ashamed to Share Her Story with You
Ep. 439 How to Help a Teen with a Porn Problem
We Are Less Than Four Feet from 6.64 Billion Hearts
Ep. 438 Am I a Sinner or a Saint, or Both?
Ep. 437 A Biblical Perspective on Mental Illness and Suicide?
Assessing My Heart the Morning after an American Election
Ep. 436 Should I Separate from Sinners in My Church?
Should a Wife Respect Her Unkind Husband?
Ep. 435 How Do You Counsel a Self-righteous Person?
A Girl Kissing a Boy Is Different from a Boy Kissing a Girl
Twelve Tough Questions that Examine Your Maturity
When a Community Prays and Fasts
Ep. 434 People with Different Character and Capacity Issues
Beyond Your Ability Is Right Where God Wants You
It's "Okay" to Be Gay, and You Need to Know Why
Ep. 433 Can a Procrastinating, Undisciplined Person Do Your Program?
What Happens to a Person Who Exchanges the Truth for a Lie
Ep. 432 The Secret to Having a Great Marriage That Lasts
When You Feel That God Is Not with You
Dating: The Artificial Season That Does Not Count
Ep. 431 Why Gospel-centered Is Better Than Grace-centered or Legalism
What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader?
Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me?
Ep. 430 Should Christians Separate from Sinners?
What Does Nourish and Cherish Your Wife Mean?
A Prayer to Help You Walk in the Spirit
Ep. 429 When Aging Parents No Longer Walk with God
Do You Know How to Train Your Inner Voice?
Is Your Church a Preaching Center or a Discipleship Community?
Ep. 428 How Can a Christian Sin Like That and Say He's a Christian?
Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader
A Proactive Plan for Leadership Development in the Church
Ep. 427 The Ten-Step Process to a Hard Heart
The Wisdom of Introducing Sin to Our Families
The Reason I Dated a Lesbian Was to Share Christ
Ep. 426 The Four Types of Transformative Listening
A Lesbian Walked Into My Office Ready for Help