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When Marriage Breaks: Chapter 1—An Emotional Affair

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You Have a Right to Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin

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Captive Desires: Chapter 10—How to Resist Porn Every Day

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Breaking the Bondage of People Pleasing

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You Cannot Need Someone and Love Someone Equally

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Captive Desires: Chapter 9—How to Break Free from Porn

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The Natural Regression of a Woman

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Fussy Parents Make Insecure Kids

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Captive Desires: Chapter 8—How to Think About Porn Biblically

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When You Make Your Child Work for Your Affection

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The Sobering Reason It's Hard to Overcome Insecurity

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The Life Over Coffee Song

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How to Train Your Flea: Also Called Controlling Others

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The Danger of Trying to Please God

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Captive Desires: Chapter 6—The Parenting Challenge

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Synonyms for People Pleasing, Insecurity, or the Fear of Man

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The Story of the Boy Who Was Controlled by Others

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When Obedience Collides With My Emotions

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Ep. 576 Ryan Maher: The God Worth Trusting

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Memories—Forgetting Past Relationship Thoughts

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Ep. 575 Shepherding Your Family in a Digital Age

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Three Mind Maps on How to Change Your Thought Life

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Mind Mapping Stinking Thinking- How to Change Your Mind

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Ep. 574 Redeeming Physical Intimacy

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Learning How to Take All Your Bad Thoughts Captive

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Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life

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Ep. 573 When Suffering Enters Your Marriage

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The Problem With Head Knowledge Versus Heart Knowledge

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Ep. 572 The Power of Repentance in Marriage

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Thoughts on How to Build with Each Other Relationally

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How to Love a Difficult Person Without Them Controlling You

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Ep. 571 When Marriage Becomes a Battlefield

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Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic

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The Revolutionary Cure for Shallow Small Group Experience

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Ep. 570 From Talk Trouble to Koinonia

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Which Do You Need for Your Maturity: a Bible or Mentor?

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There Are Times When You Have to Get Into Conflict

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Chapter 11: Marriage and Mayhem: Marriage Defined

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Budget Sin Into Your Small Group Experience

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48 Case Studies 48: Bug Off, an Angry Teen

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Ep. 569 The False Choice in Trauma-Informed Care

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48 Case Studies 47: How Do I Honor My Older Parents?

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48 Case Studies 46: Practice Parenting with Adoptive Kids

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Ep. 568 Jonathan Tepper- Shooting Up, A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Addiction

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48 Case Studies 45: No More Fun with Biff and Mable

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48 Case Studies 44: Confession of an Imposter's Wife

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Ep. 567 Cynthia Scott: Celebrating God, America’s Founder

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48 Case Studies 43: The Addict and His Wife

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48 Case Studies 42: The Troubled Teen

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Elizabeth Urbanowicz Helping Your Kid’s Know God’s Good Design

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48 Case Studies 41: When Your Spear Stabs You

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48 Case Studies 40: What About Biff?

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Ep. 565 When Biblical Counseling Replaces Parenting

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48 Case Studies 39: No Thanks for Thanksgiving

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48 Case Studies 38: The Sinning Victim

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Chapter 5: Marriage or Mayhem: Reclassified Desires

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48 Case Studies 37: I Cannot Connect with My Church

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48 Case Studies 36: She Buried Her Son Ten Years Ago

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Chapter 4: Marriage or Mayhem: A Case for Suffering

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48 Case Studies 35: Past Sex Thoughts in Current Marriage

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48 Case Studies 34: Mable Marries the Divorced Guy

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Chapter 3: Marriage or Mayhem: Meaning and Significance

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48 Case Studies 33: Man, Ministry, Marriage

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48 Case Studies 32: Counselees and the Local Church

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Chapter 2: Marriage or Mayhem: Purposes of Marriage

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48 Case Studies 31: Bert, The Flesh Cutter

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48 Case Studies 30: Present But Not Accounted For

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48 Case Studies 29: Confessing Less Than They Know

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48 Case Studies 28: High Standards Tempt Me to Lie

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Ep. 564 Webinar- Unforgiveness and the Gospel

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48 Case Studies 27: The Sexually Abused

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48 Case Studies 26: Mable's Search for Self-esteem

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Ep. 563 Webinar- The Heart of Anger—What It Costs

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48 Case Studies 25: The Christian Prostitute

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48 Case Studies 24: Meds and More

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Chapter 1: Marriage or Mayhem: Marriage Asunder

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Ep. 562 Rachel Coyle: Help! She’s Struggling with Porn

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48 Case Studies 23: The Aspiring Counselor Wannabe

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48 Case Studies 22: The Darker Side of the Ministry Mom

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Enjoying God- My Wife’s Break From a Legalistic Perspective

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48 Case Studes 21: The Silent Partner

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48 Case Studies 20: If I Tell the Truth, They Will Expel Me

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Hiding Behind Grace To Avoid The Hard Things

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48 Case Studies 19: The Fearful Parent

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48 Case Studies 18: I Will Forgive But Never Forget

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The Negative Effect of Fundamentalism On the Soul

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48 Case Studies 17: Cheap Plates Overcome Anger

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48 Case Studies 16: You Need to Please God

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How God Delivered an Entrapped Soul from Christianity’s Baggage

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48 Case Studies 15: Don't Tell the Elders

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48 Case Studies 14: I Don't Know What to Do with My Life

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Ep. 561 Molly Bertles: Counsel for Women Struggling with Masturbation

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48 Case Studies 13: He Cannot Lead His Wife

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48 Case Studies 12: I Want Out of This Marriage!

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Ep. 560 Nine Tips for Launching a Counseling Ministry at Your Church

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48 Case Studies 11: Don't Tell Anyone I'm in Counseling

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48 Case Studies 10: She Has an Anxious Need to Be Right

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Ep. 559: Joby Martin: Stand Firm and Act Like Men

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48 Case Studies 09: Are You Certified?

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48 Case Studies 08: When Thin Is In

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Ep. 558 Giving Hope to Anxious Hearts

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48 Case Studies 07: When Prayer Kills a Church

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48 Case Studies 06: Counseling the Un-Counsel-Able

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48 Case Studies 05: Suicide

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48 Case Studies 04: The Nagging Wife

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Legalism Is a Fear-based Culture That Leads to a Complex Life

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48 Case Studies 03: Exchanging Prisons

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48 Case Studies 02: To Date or Not to Date

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The Unintended Spiritual Benefits of Legalism

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Ep. 556 Boasting in Weakness—a Primer

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48 Case Studies 01: Procrastination

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Day 31 – Living Boldly: Whatever You Do, Do This

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Ep. 555 The Cyber Effect- Nine Ways Technology Shapes Us

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Day 30 – Living Boldly: Unveiling Your Secret Weapon

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Day 29 – Living Boldly: Re-Evaluating Your Self-Esteem

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Ep. 554 Why We Must Forgive and How to Do It

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Day 28 – LIving Boldly: The Reason to Love

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Day 27 – Living Boldly: Self-Sufficient Life Is a Myth

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Ep. 553 A Relational Philosophy for Local Church Engagement

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Day 26 – LIving Boldly: Controlled By the Opinions of Others

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Day 25 – Living Boldly: Sex Before Marriage

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Day 24 – LIving Boldly: How to Make a Decision

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Day 23 – Living Boldly: The First Step Before You Start

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Day 22 – Living Boldly: Disciple Your Parents

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Day 21 – Living Boldly: Describe Your Friendships

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Day 20 – Living Boldly: Voice Training

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Day 19 – Living Boldly: "Will God Forgive Me?"

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Day 18 – Living Boldly: Who Is a Good Teen?

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Day 17 – Living Boldly: Five Teen Traps

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Day 16 – Living Boldly: Your Local Church

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Living Boldly Day 15: While You're Waiting, Do These

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Living Boldly Day 14: Where to Go From Here

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Living Boldly Day 13: Life Is Hard and Does Not Apologize

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Ep. 552 Jordan Peterson's Concerning Influence and Philosophies

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Living Boldly Day 12: Coolness Is Not the Path to Success

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Living Boldly Day 11: Social Media Is Not Real Life

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Living Boldly Day 09: Life Has Losers; Don't Be One

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Ep. 551 Daniel Berger, Discipling a Fool's Heart

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Ep. 551 Daniel Berger, Discipling a Fool's Heart

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Living Boldly Day 08: Your Parents Weren't Always Boring

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Living Boldly Day 07: Your Mistakes Are Yours

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Living Boldly Day 06: Life Is Mundane; Get Used to It

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Living Boldly Day 05: Wait Until You Get a Boss

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Living Boldly Day 04: Forget About Your Self-esteem

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Living Boldly Day 03: Parents Are Not Perfect

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Ep. 550 Phil Sessa Interviews Rick Thomas on Biblical Counseling

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Living Boldly Day 2: Living Boldly: Life Is Not Fair

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Living Boldly Day 10: You Don't Get Time Off

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Living Boldly Day 1: Embracing the God-centered Life

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You Must Work to Rest to Enjoy the Gift of Rest

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Eight Ways to Practice and Enjoy and Effective Prayer Life

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Bridge Ministries Interviews Rick and Lucia Thomas

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How the Gift of Fasting Can Change Your Life

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Ep. 549 Daniel Berger, The Schizophrenic Unicorn 2.0

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15 Tips to Overcome Insomnia

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How Does the Ongoing Sin of Others Impact Your Health?

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Confession of a Former Cigarette Smoker

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Idol Swapping: I Stopped One Sin and Gained 30 Pounds

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The Blessing of Doing Things Without Thinking

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There Are Three Ways to Overcome Sin and Temptation

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Parenting Day 31: You Cannot Change Your Children

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Parenting Day 30: Teach Your Children to Laugh at Themselves

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Parenting Day 29: One Reason Children Rebel Against Their Parents

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Parenting Day 28: Seven-point Checklist to Have Fantastic Children

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Parenting Day 26: The Perfect Goal for Your Child

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Parenting Day 25: A Secret Weapon to Motivate a Child to Change

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Parenting Day 24: Some Parents Should Stop Parenting

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Parenting Day 23: I Failed As a Parent, Now What?

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Parenting Day 22: Five Tips from the Best Parent in the World

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Parenting Day 21: Two Acceptable Conflicts in Your Home

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Parenting Day 20: The Danger of Pragmatic Parenting

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Parenting Day 19: If You Could Export Only One Thing to Your Child

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Parenting Day 18: The Wisdom of Teaching Your Children Curse Words

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Parenting Day 17: The Wisdom of Introducing Your Children to the World

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Parenting Day 16: The Wisdom of Engaging the Sin in Your Family

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Parenting Day 15: Parental Discipline Comes from a Heart of Love

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Parenting Day 14: Love Your Chidlren, Just Because

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Parenting Day 13: A Biblical Perspective on Critiquing Children

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Ep. 543 Webinar: Small Group Leader Development

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Parenting Day 12: Rule-based Parenting Create Dysfucntional Children

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Parenting Day 11: Easy Way to Disqualify Yourself As a Parent

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Ep. 542 When Christians Fail You: Trusting God in the Aftermath of Betrayal

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Parenting Day 10: Fussy Parents Make Insecure Children

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Parenting Day 9 – Give Your Child Fewer Rules And More Attitude

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Parenting Day 8: Dads, the First Picture a Child Sees of a Father

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Parenting Day 7: Your Words Shape Your Child’s Life

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Ep. 540 Bradley Pierce, Fighting for the Pre-born in a Post-Roe America

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Parenting Day 6: Before You Can Help Your Child, You Must Wait

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Parenting Day 5: The Orientation of the Home

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Parenting Day 3: Non-negotiable First Step to Build a Happy Home

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Ep. 538 Jacob Valk: Parenting and P*rnography, the Masterclass

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Parenting Day 2: Quality Parenting Comes from Good Marriages

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Parenting Day 1 – Parenting From Zero To Adulthood

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Parenting Day 4: Two Rules Every Parent Must Teach Their Children

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Ten Ways to Kill Your Marriage

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Here Is Practical Help to Restore a Broken Marriage

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Something Must Come Between Us, or We'll Hurt Each Other

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Do You Think It's Right to Correct My Authoritarian Husband?

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Ep. 535 Understanding EMDR with Dr. Rhenn Cherry

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Sex for a Woman, According to a Man

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Ep. 534 Fear of Man: Cultivating a God-centered Community

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Do You Know What Your Wife Is Thinking?

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The Orientation of the Home: Follow the Leader

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Ep. 533 Fear of Man: Steps to Overcome Approval Addiction, Lesson 3

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His Needs, Her Needs Aren't Real Needs

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The Reason We Blew Up Our Marriage

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Ep. 532 Fear of Man: Reorienting Your Focus: Pleasing God Over Man, Lesson 2

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Let Me Draw You a Picture of a Marriage in Trouble

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Three Life Choices You Don't Want to Miss Before You Die

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Ep. 531 Fear of Man: Understanding the Root of Approval Addiction, Lesson 1

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I Think I Married the Wrong Person; Please Help Me

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Al Haywood's Journey with Life Over Coffee's Mastermind Program

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How To Help a Double-Minded Person

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Torment Is Trying to Be Perfect

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Ep. 529 Webinar: Parenting: Practically Four Tips You Can Implement Today

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May I Change My Mind After Deciding Something?

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Guidelines for Making Decisions as a Couple

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Webinar: Overcoming Anger How It Complicates Our Relationships

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How to Live with People with Different Preferences

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Ep. 527: Follow the Leader, Creating a Redemptive Community

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A Christian Perspective on the Presidential Election

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Who Are You Voting for This November?

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Why Christians Should Engage in Politics

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That Time I Went to a Trump Rally

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Ep. 525 Dr. Jenn Chen, Biblical Counseling and Mental Disorder Diagnosis

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Why People Miss the Point About Donald Trump

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Why People Miss the Point About Donald Trump

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The One Thing Worse Than Admititng You're a Racist

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To Wear a Mask or Not Is Not the Question

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Two Degrees of Woke: The Innocent Idealist and Angry Activist

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The New Slave Owner Is a Liberal Paternallistic Government

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An Analysis of How to Destroy a Family, Church, or Country

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The Strategic and Sad Way a Great Nation Falls

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Helpful Tips on How to Make Decisions, Big and Small

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How to Make a Good Decision about Anything in Faith

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There Are No His or Her Problems in Marriage

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A Few Essential Qualities of an Effective Husband

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Defining and Establishing Your Life and Marriage

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Day 31 Marriage Devotion: Ask This Question Every Day

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Ep. 516 Seth Gruber, and The 1916 Project

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Day 30 Marriage Devotion: Husband's Dilemma: I Lead You; I Sin Against You

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Day 29 Marriage Devotion: Ten Ways to Ignore Your Marriage Problems

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Parenting Day 27 – When All You’re Doing Is Correcting Your Child

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Ep. 515 Rosaria Butterfield, from Lesbianism to the Gopel's Hope

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Day 28 Marriage Devotion: God Is There Before You Get There

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Day 27 Marriage Devotion: Suffering Produces Strength

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Day 18 Marriage Devotion: Seven Things If Your Spouse Is Difficult

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Day 26 Marriage Devotion: The Crucible of Suffering When the Marriage Does Not Change

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Day 17 Marriage Devotion: Three Steps to Be an Excellent Spouse

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Day 25 Marriage Devotion: Double Confession: How to Respond When Sinned Against

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Ep. 513 Elias Ghazal: A Christian's Perspective on Palestine and Israel

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Day 24 Marriage Devotion: Sex and Marriage

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Day 23 Marriage Devotion: Your Bible Study Hurts Your Marriage

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Day 22 Marriage Devotion: Five Tips for Arguing Well

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Day 21 Marriage Devotion: What You Communicate in a Crisis

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Ep. 511 How to Deal with Phobiaas from a Biblical Perspective

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Day 20 Marriage Devotion: Best Way to Help Your Spouse Change

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Day 19 Marriage Devotion: The Blessing of the Reciprocal Marriage

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Ep. 509 A Gospel Message for All the Introverts Out There

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Day 16 Marriage Devotion: Setting Aside Your Desires to Disciple

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"No More Fear" Online Course, Welcome and Introduction

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"No More Fear" Online Course, What to Expect

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"No More Fear" Online Course, Structure and Elements

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"No More Fear" Online Course, Course Goal

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"No More Fear" Online Course, Meet Your Teacher

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Day 15 Marriage Devotion: Do You Push Your Spouse to Christ?

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Day 14 Marriage Devotion: Radical Conflict Resolution Tip

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Day 13 Marriage Devotion: Change One Thing Today

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Day 12 Marriage Devotion: The Most Effective Thing You Can Do

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Day 11 Marriage Devotion: Strengths and Weaknesses in Marriage

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Day 10 Marriage Devotion: Something Must Come Between Us

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Day 9 Marriage Devotion: Who Pays for Your Spouse's Sin?

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Ep. 505 Why Women Struggle with Porn, and How to Overcome

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Day 8 Marriage Devotion: Are You For Your Spouse

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Day 7 Marriage Devotion: No More Condemnation

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Day 6 Marriage Devotion: Does Your Marriage Look Like This?

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Day 5 Marriage Devotion: Dating to Divorce, and How We Got There

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Day 4 Marriage Devotion: The Main Reason You Need Someone

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Day 3 Marriage Devotion His Problems, Her Problems: One Problem

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Day 2 Marriage Devotion: The Most Important Thing

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Day 1 Marriage Devotion: We Are One In Communication

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The Sex Talk Begins in the Toddler Years

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Practical and Effective Instructions for the Sex Talk

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Practical Advice Before You Have the Sex Talk with Your Child

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Terrific Way for Introducing the Sex Talk to Your Child

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My Son Has Three Practice Wives to Make Him a Better Husband

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Teaching Your Son Today to Be a Great Husband Later

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Wise Parents Teach Their Children How to Curse

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Men Are Tempted to Lust and Women Are Tempted to Be Lusted After

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Incrementally Introducting Your Children to the World

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Captive Desires: Chapter 5—Dating and Desire

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Hey Rick, What Does Your Wife Wear to the Beach?

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Tips on Parenting a Child from Zero to Adulthood

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Modesty Wars: Hyper-grace Versus Legalism

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What Does "All Things Work Together for Good" Really Mean?

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Ep. 501 Eight Essentials for an Exceptional Small Group Experience

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How Can I Get Guys to Lust After Me?

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Powerful and Practical Questions to Change Your Marriage

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Understanding Your Boyfriend's Sexual Temptation

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Why Men Struggle with Sexual Temptation

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Ep. 500 Dr. Mark Shaw, and The Heart of Addiction

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Backward Porn Addiction: Drawing Attention to Yourself

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Too Much Skin, Girl. Too Much Skin

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Ep. 499 Practical Soul Care: A Biblical Response to the Great Commission

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The Most Effective Way to Feel Better About Yourself

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What Does It Mean to Love Others As You Love Yourself?

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How Do You Help a Person Who Is Stuck on Herself?

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There Is a Reason You Should Love Yourself and Others

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I'm Imperfect, You're Imperfect, Let's Get Over Ourselves

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Knowing Your Bad Is the Beginning of Being Good

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How Do You Leave Your Church?

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The Mystery and Misunderstanding about Being Worthless

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When the Local Church Won't Help You

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Are You Committed to the Dearest Place on Earth

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The Fallacy and Futility of Self-esteem

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Do You Fight Fires or Change Lives?

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You Need More Than Preaching If You Want to Change

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Ep. 498 A Deep-dive Analysis of Schizophrenia with Dr. Daniel Berger

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Loving Me: The Hidden Agenda of Self-esteem

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Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse in the Church

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The Cure for Low Self-esteem

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Three Characteristics of a Fantastic Local Church

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The Second Most Important Question When Looking for a Church

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Ep. 497 Help for the Angry and Those in the Line of Fire

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The Main Thing to Look for When Looking for a Church

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Ep. 496 Is It Okay for Christians to Use Online Dating Apps

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What You Can Do about the Migration Cyber Effect, 8.0

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What You Can Do about the Accountability Cyber Effect, 7.0

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Ep. 495 Here Is Practical Help for Anyone Stuck in a Bad Habit

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What You Can Do about the Blue Light Cyber Effect, 6.0

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What to Do about Sanctification Cyber Effects, 5.0

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Ep. 494 Help Me Help My Difficult Relative

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What You Can Do about the Disinhibition Effect, 4.0

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What You Can Do about the Stranger Effect, 3.0

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Ep. 493 Practical Advice on Growing Older and Finishing Well

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What You Can Do about the Identity Cyber Effect 2.0

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What You Can Do about the Real World Cyber Effect 1.0

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Ep. 494 Ten Vital Keys for Small Group Leaders

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What Is the Cyber Effect? What You Can Do about It

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How to Change: Chapter 6—Five Things to Know

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Ep. 491 Daniel Berger, What Is a Woman, Biblically Speaking

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What Kind of Church Do You Attend? Here Are Six Models.

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Why Do You Attend Your Church?

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Ep. 490 Sophie Ottaway: Engineered at Birth to Be a Girl

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The Benefit of Being Intentionally Intrusive in Our Relationships

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Ep. 489 Dr. Miriam Grossman, Lost in Trans Nation

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How to Care for the Clueles

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The Problem with God's Kindness When You Want to Be Angry

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Our Competing Psychologies

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The One Thing We Must Do: Step Down from Our Thrones

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Admitting Failure Gives You a Second Chance from God

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Ep. 487 Daniel Berger Discusses Disorders and Medication, Pt. 2

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Do You Understand the Point of Your Trouble?

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When God Hurls a Storm at You

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Ep. 486 Daniel Berger Discusses Disorders and Medication, Pt. 1

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A Profound Reason to Love That Difficult Person in Your Life

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Ep. 485 Lucas Miles, Author of Woke Jesus

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What Is Forgiveness and How to Do It

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Chapter Nine Homework for a Cold Marriage

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Webinar: Parenting Our Children from Zero to Adulthood

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Chapter Eight God Is Already There

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Chapter Seven Working on Marriage Alone

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Ep. 483 Interview with Kevin Sorbo, Hollywood Actor

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Chapter Six Our Common Faith-killers

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Chapter Five The Self-sufficient Soul

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Ep. 482 Judd T. Saul with Equipping the Persecuted

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Chapter Four Start with the Gospel

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The Reason What You Believe and What You Do Are Different

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Chapter Three The Snare of Perceived Needs

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Ep. 481 Rick and Lucia Answering Your Questions

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Chapter Two Mable's Lonely Journey Begins

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Chapter One: The Desperate Housewife

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Ep. 480 Ten Ways to Kill Your Marriage

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The Non-negotiable First Step to Build a Happy Home

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Ep. 479 Jacob Valk Into the Light Documentary

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9/11 Is a Study in Misplaced Faith and Hard Hearts

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Am I to Forgive Someone Who Is Not Asking?

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Ep. 478 What to Do After Two People Forgive Each Other

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What If I Forgive Someone But They Never Change?

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Ep. 477 Breaking Down Forgiveness, Practically Speaking

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The Dangerous Doctrine of Forgiving Yourself

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The Sad Side to The Blind Side

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Ep. 476 Ten Responses to the Friend Who Won't Admit Wrong

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Pre-forgiveness Is Essential Before You Can Genuinely Forgive

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The Man Who Destroyed Our Home Wants Forgiveness

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The Friendship Series Choosing Relationships Wisely L7

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Don't Apologize. Don't Say, "I'm Sorry."

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The Friendship Series Actions That Build Relationships L6

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Mind Mapping: A Detailed Study in Self-reliance

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It's Easier to Trust God When You're in Control

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The Friendship Series Words That Build Relationships L5

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God Is Incrementally and Purposely Putting You to Death

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The Friendship Series Overcoming Mistrust and Hurt L4

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Eight Reasons Perfection Does Not Glorify God

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Lowering God's Standard to Be Perfect

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The Friendship Series Defining Godly Relationships L3

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When Education Becomes Deadly to a Child

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What Does It Mean to Boast In Your Weakness?

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Friendship Series Trusting God's Word, L2

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Why Does God Call Us to Suffer?

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The Reason God Wants You to Be a Jar of Clay

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Friendship Series Knowing and Loving God, L1

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One Essential Quality of an Effective Wife

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Ep. 468 Typical Mistakes People Make to Feel Better

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Submission Is Never the Main Problem in Marriage

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Going Over Your Husband's Head to Help Him

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Ep. 467 Nancy Pearcey, The Toxic War on Masculinity

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Practical Thoughts on Leading Your Husband

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How a Wife Can Lead Her Husband

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Ep. 466 How Wives Motivate Husbands into Passivity

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Seven Things to Know When Living with a Harsh Husband

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The Need to Forgive Even If You Don't Reconcile

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Ep. 465 What Does It Mean to Live a Gospel-centered Life?

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The Power of Unforgiveness When Used As a Weapon

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My Husband Is Immature. How May I Help Him Change?

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Seven Tips for Living with an Imperfect Person

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Ep. 464 A Better Response to PTSD and Other Triggering Events

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Setting Aside Your Desires to Lead Your Husband

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How Can I Be More Honest with My Spouse?

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Ep. 463 Sermon- How Not To Harbor Hate Toward Someone

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Why Our Ministry is Different from Other Counseling Ministries

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A Unique Wife Helping a Unique Man Change

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Introduction to Biblical Counseling, Lesson One

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The Power of the Critical Wife

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The Necessity of the Double Dependent Wife

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Ep. 461 How to Listen to Others Without Being Swayed By Them

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Four Sequential Steps to Change Your Life

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If Your Friend Is Not Changing, Consider This

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Ep. 460 Should I Bring a Baby Into Our Evil World

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Forcing Someone to Change Will Blow Up Your Relationship

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Did You Know There Is a Better Way to Do Counseling?

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Ep. 459 Twelve Things to Know About Parental Discipline

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A Problem with Expecting Someone to Change

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Seven Reasons a Person Will Not Change

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Ep. 458 Mark Grant Shares His Mastermind Training Experience

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Mind Mapping Confidentiality and Secret Sins

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Ep. 457 An Effective Equipping Model for the Church

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When I Kept Silent About My Sin

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Diagnosing the Four Steps to a Hard Heart

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Seven Considerations for Challenging Friends

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Ep. 456 The Particulars of the Sex Talk I Had With Our Son

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You Know Your Faith Is Real When

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Ep. 455 Don't Make a Big Deal Out of Biblical Counseling

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How Can I Trust God When He Does Not Act the Way I Think?

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Three Keys to Help You Look Beyond Your Suffering

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Ep. 454 The Risky Business of Looking for Change in Someone

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When God Whittles You Down to Size

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Do You Really Want to Know What God Is Thinking?

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Ep. 453 Speaking to the Injusticies in Our Culture

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Have You Ever Tried Manipulative Praying?

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The Uncomfortable Benefit of God Being Silent

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Ep. 451 Five Reasons to Curb or Get Off Social Media

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Seven-Step Template for Change When Trouble Comes

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Bringing God Down to My Level So I Can Argue with Him

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The Unparalleled Benefit of Living in an Unchangeable Situation

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Ep. 449 How to Motivate Christians to Stop Caring So Much

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When God Does Not Come Through for You

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Just When You Thought Things Were Going Well

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How to Respond When Blindsided While Doing Good

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Ep. 448 The Insufficient Method of Giving Verses to Counselees

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Three Things to Know When Life Does Not Make Sense

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Four Things You Must Know about Your Suffering

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Ep. 447 How to Have a Dynamic Small Group Experience

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How to Steward God's Most Feared Blessing

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The Preface to My Book, Suffering Well

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Ep. 446 My Church Doesn't Do Community Well, and I'm Struggling

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How to Think about a God Who Permits Sin in Your Life

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When Suffering Reaches the Limits of Your Endurance

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Ep. 445 Interview with Anton Krecic with Seven Weeks Coffee

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The First and Unique Step to Solving Your Problems

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A Practical Plan to Break Free from Being Controlled by Others

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Ep. 444 Five Reasons to "Why Did God Let My Baby Die?"

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I Want More Than God; I Want Someone to Love

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How to Build and Enjoy Dynamic Community Life

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Ep. 443 How Do You Respond to an Unkind Christian?

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Leading Your Spouse in Intimate Conversations

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Ep. 442 Eight Response to the Spouse Whose Spouse Left

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The Most Perfect Relationship You Will Ever Have

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Five Helpful Marks to See If Someone Has Changed

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Ep. 441 How to Respond to a Fallen Christian Leader

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When You Give More Than Money, You're More Like Christ

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The Terrible Lengths God Will Go to for Your Good

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Ep. 440 When She's Ashamed to Share Her Story with You

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Ep. 439 How to Help a Teen with a Porn Problem

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We Are Less Than Four Feet from 6.64 Billion Hearts

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Ep. 438 Am I a Sinner or a Saint, or Both?

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Ep. 437 A Biblical Perspective on Mental Illness and Suicide?

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Assessing My Heart the Morning after an American Election

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Ep. 436 Should I Separate from Sinners in My Church?

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Should a Wife Respect Her Unkind Husband?

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Ep. 435 How Do You Counsel a Self-righteous Person?

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A Girl Kissing a Boy Is Different from a Boy Kissing a Girl

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Twelve Tough Questions that Examine Your Maturity

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When a Community Prays and Fasts

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Ep. 434 People with Different Character and Capacity Issues

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Beyond Your Ability Is Right Where God Wants You

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It's "Okay" to Be Gay, and You Need to Know Why

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Ep. 433 Can a Procrastinating, Undisciplined Person Do Your Program?

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What Happens to a Person Who Exchanges the Truth for a Lie

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Ep. 432 The Secret to Having a Great Marriage That Lasts

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When You Feel That God Is Not with You

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Dating: The Artificial Season That Does Not Count

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Ep. 431 Why Gospel-centered Is Better Than Grace-centered or Legalism

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What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader?

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Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me?

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Ep. 430 Should Christians Separate from Sinners?

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What Does Nourish and Cherish Your Wife Mean?

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A Prayer to Help You Walk in the Spirit

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Ep. 429 When Aging Parents No Longer Walk with God

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Do You Know How to Train Your Inner Voice?

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Is Your Church a Preaching Center or a Discipleship Community?

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Ep. 428 How Can a Christian Sin Like That and Say He's a Christian?

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Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader

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A Proactive Plan for Leadership Development in the Church

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Ep. 427 The Ten-Step Process to a Hard Heart

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The Wisdom of Introducing Sin to Our Families

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The Reason I Dated a Lesbian Was to Share Christ

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Ep. 426 The Four Types of Transformative Listening

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A Lesbian Walked Into My Office Ready for Help