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Vanilla Creep in D/s Relationships

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Kinky Q&A

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Submissives Using Signals to Communicate Desire

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BDSM Reddit Response

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From the Archives: Unfair Expectations in Your Power Exchange

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From the Archives: People Pleasing

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Another Mental Health Episode and an Announcement

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Responding to Your Comments

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Submission vs. Surrender: What’s the Difference?

11

BDSM in the News

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Kink Terms Evolve

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No Topic, Just Chaos

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Kinky Q&A

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Learning Lessons and Avoiding Future Conflict | Dealing With Conflict Series

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What to Do When Conflict Happens | Dealing with Conflict Series

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What Causes Conflict in D/s | Dealing with Conflict Series

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When a Dom Says No

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Kinky Pet Peeves

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Can You Be Spontaneous in a Kink Relationship?

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Feeling Disconnected in D/s

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BDSM Q&A

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Reconnecting with Silly Relationship Questions

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Emotional Intelligence and Power Exchange

27

Bonus Section Episode

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Q&A: How Can We Have a Power Exchange as Parents?

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Q&A: Is Our 24/7 TPE Hopeless?

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Let’s Talk About *Gestures Broadly at the World*

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Friendship in Long Term Power Exchange

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Q&A: How Much Money Do I Have to Spend to Meet a Dom?

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Self Control and Power in Dominance

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Q&A: Were They Right to Be Angry?

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Q&A: Should I Reconnect with My Kinky Friend?

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Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions

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Q&A: How Do We Maintain Playful D/s While LDR?

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Our D/s Life in 2025

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Q&A: How is D/s Worth It if It’s So Difficult?

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How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026

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Q&A: How Do We Find the Right Amount of Intimacy?

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Last Minute Schedule Change

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Bonus Section Episode

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Q&A: What Can I Wear Instead of My Collar?

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WTF is Soft BDSM?

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Love Maps and Power Exchange

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Power Exchange vs Domestic Discipline vs Trad Wives

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Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Though I’m Happy With What We Have?

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Dealing with Shame in Kink

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10 Relationship Questions that Show You Really Know Your Partner

54

Kinky Q&A

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BDSM Reddit Response

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What’s Changed in our D/s | Updates from Old Episodes

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Is Kink Being Normalized or Is It Just Going Viral?

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Chaotically Answering Kink Questions from Our Inbox

59

BDSM Reddit Response

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It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!

61

Our Experience Using the Obedience App

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Our Uneven, Non-Linear Return to Our D/s Life

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Princess Treatment vs Power Exchange

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Answering 10 Unhinged Relationship Questions

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Ethics and Responsibilities in High-Risk Kink Play

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Adding Kink to Special Occasions

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What We’re Still Learning About Each Other

68

BDSM Reddit Response

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Q&A: Am I Asking for Too Much From My Dominant?

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Kinky Q&A

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Q&A: What Do I Do as a Newly Single But Inexperienced Sub?

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How to Be Consistent in D/s | Making D/s Work in the Real World

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Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping?

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D/s When You Take Care of Others | Making D/s Work in the Real World

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Q&A: How Do I Convince My Dom That I’m Ready for More?

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D/s No One Else Will Notice | Making D/s Work in the Real World

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Q&A: Are These Unwanted Behaviors a Red Flag?

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Kink is Customizable | Making D/s Work in the Real World

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Q&A: How Will We Know We’re Ready to Try Nonmonogamy Again?

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No Topic, Just Vibes | A Bonus Section Episode

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Q&A: How Do I Provide Emotional Support to My Dom?

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Afraid to Ask for “Too Much” in Your Dynamic

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Q&A: How Do I Navigate Being New to Sex and Kink

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Kinky AITA

85

Q&A: Is There a Way to Be Okay With Being Called Mommy or Daddy?

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24/7 D/s and Total Power Exchange

87

Q&A: How Can a People Pleaser Explore Their Bratty Side?

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Experimenting with Rules in Public

89

Q&A: How Do We Negotiate Consensual Non-consent?

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Kinky Q&A

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Q&A: What Should We Negotiate and Decide Before We Move In Together?

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Perimenopause and Power Exchange

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Q&A: Is Punishment a Necessary Part of Power Exchange?

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Feelings of Comfort and Familiarity

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Q&A: How Do I Feel More Confident in Our Dynamic After Trauma?

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Silly Conflicts in Our Power Exchange

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Q&A: How Do I Get Out of My Head During Sex?

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BDSM Reddit Response

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Q&A: How Do I Support a Partner Who Doesn’t Take Criticism Well?

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Obedience in Power Exchange